How to Resist a Temptation (In the Moment) | LITTLE BY LITTLE | Fr Columba Jordan CFR

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  • Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2024

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  • @dallasmcquarrie1937
    @dallasmcquarrie1937 Год назад +23

    When you ask God for the grace to overcome a sin, it's important to also say 'thank you' to God when he grants your request.

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  Год назад +9

      Absolutely. It’s too easy to take prayers that God has answered for granted, but that makes it all the more important to remember to be grateful!

  • @paul_hiles
    @paul_hiles Год назад +39

    Thanks Father. This personally happened to me prior to watching the video this evening. I am in recovery from alcohol and still after nearly 3yrs I get nervous around large noisy crowds. We went to a rock concert tonight and I was feeling overwhelmed at a busy bar, so stuck my headphones in and whispered a prayer to give me strength to enjoy this night and be there for my amazing wife. Immediate wave of calmness. 🙏

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  10 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you so much for your generosity! Sorry we didn’t catch this at the time. Bless you and your lovely wife, so glad to hear your found a way to cope.

    • @JimmyRichardsonIII
      @JimmyRichardsonIII 5 месяцев назад +1

      May the Peace of Christ remain with you

  • @spaceforgrace3312
    @spaceforgrace3312 Год назад +13

    Prayer is astonishing. Sometimes I think- how come this can work? Yet it really does. It is an incredible mystery. God is good.

  • @heathsavage4852
    @heathsavage4852 Год назад +12

    I prayed to God to take away the desire for the two sins I was most prone to commit, and all desire for these sinful activities left me. It was not immediate, but the strength that I received was phenomenal - like you said, Father, a "micro-injection" of strength.

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  Год назад +4

      Praise God!!

    • @heathsavage4852
      @heathsavage4852 Год назад +2

      @@ctmcatholic I do indeed. I was on a road to Hell, but He sought me time and time again and brought me back to His flock.

  • @MrMikepresley
    @MrMikepresley Год назад +2

    I am not suprised that God would be so quick to answer a prayer from someone who does not believe; its like a runaway child phoning home, and the parent in tears of joy hearing their childs voice.

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  Год назад

      It’s beautiful when that happens, just like story of the prodigal son! (Luke 15:11-32)

  • @chloegenet1027
    @chloegenet1027 Год назад +3

    Thank you Father Columbo, your words feel as if they have been touched by the grace of God. Your humility and joy is infectious, it shows me what life can be like when we are in state of grace and in true communion with Christ

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  Год назад +2

      Praise God Chloe, that is glorious.

  • @bencarter6702
    @bencarter6702 Год назад +10

    Jesus, just help me not to sin. Such a simple yet useful statement. Thanks Col! Temptation? Yes, I've often known the feeling.

  • @TheFunfolks
    @TheFunfolks Год назад +8

    Fr. Columba, simple explanation... difficult situations. Growing up in the 60's, we were taught Short Prayers... Jesus help me ! God be with me !. You say the Simplest things which can be done until they become Habits !!!!
    Thank you!
    May the Holy Spirit continue to give you the words and us to accept them ❤️

  • @meandmysis2779
    @meandmysis2779 Год назад +9

    Thank you. This is how I am giving up smoking. When I started, I was smoking 1 1/2 packs a day. Now I am down to just a few in a week. (That's a few cigarettes, not packs) I take care of my son who is a stroke survivor and the more he recovers the meaner he gets. He's mad that life took away his left side. However God is working miracles. Soon he will be walking with a cane. I truly love your channel. Keep up the good work. God bless you! ♥️♥️

  • @MrCheesywaffles
    @MrCheesywaffles Год назад +7

    Thank you for this advice. We must cry out to our Lord, we truly cannot do this without his love and grace.

  • @christopherbright1048
    @christopherbright1048 5 месяцев назад

    He must have had faith the size of a mustard seed at least,thats all it takes. Thanks Fr. Columba,God Bless

  • @robbieleeson6341
    @robbieleeson6341 Год назад +1

    I think I know exactly what your friend was wrestling with, and I'm in the exact same spot. Even writing this I can feel a voice in my mind telling me not to, and to just carry on sinning in my own "secret" way. I'm grateful God called me to some of the best confessions of my life since and I've got some steps in place. But man oh man, it's been difficult, and I'm grateful to you Father for making this video, I'm giving it a shot right now. God bless you x

  • @anthonyw2931
    @anthonyw2931 Год назад +3

    4:00😂🤣😂 ANother gem of a video. And I absolutely need this! Thank you!

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  Год назад +2

      Thank you for watching, Anthony! Delighted you enjoyed it. God bless!

  • @annettekouba3631
    @annettekouba3631 Год назад +1

    Love your advice!

  • @sinfall5280
    @sinfall5280 Год назад +2

    Ive seen a couple of your videos now.
    I saw the thumbnail for this video and a thought came to mind.
    It was “I love this guy”
    You look so happy and p, as always, thank you for sharing!

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  Год назад +1

      Aw bless you!! So glad to have you here :)

  • @gerardhonest
    @gerardhonest Год назад +2

    Thanks father you have put your teaching in a simple practical and in beautiful way

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  Год назад +1

      You’re welcome, Gerard. Thank you for watching!

  • @elienvos9633
    @elienvos9633 Год назад +3

    Love you’re videos!!! 👍🏼

  • @GiottoHero93
    @GiottoHero93 Год назад +2

    I'm glad this popped up for me on RUclips. I'm trying to quit vaping for Lent and having pretty mixed results. I think you've given me the courage to ask God for more help. Thank you.

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  Год назад +2

      That’s wonderful, glad it could help!

  • @kathleenfitzgerald50
    @kathleenfitzgerald50 Год назад +1

    I’m addicted to smoking cigarettes and know I need to stop ✨✨✨

  • @vic6695
    @vic6695 Год назад +3

    Thank you so much, Father. I wish I would have seen this 2 days ago when I committed the same sin I have for years, although I resisted the past few months. I think many times I overthink things. I never thought of keeping things simple, just a simple prayer to avoid temptation in that particular moment, that would be so effective. I will do that from now on, as I know my particular temptation will arise again.

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing that, Vic. I’m sorry you’ve been having those temptations. Remember that we are completely dependent on Gods Grace and Mercy, and we can use our temptations as an opportunity to turn to Him. Jesus, we trust in You.
      You’re in our prayers, Vic!

    • @vic6695
      @vic6695 Год назад +1

      @@ctmcatholic Thank you very much, Father. I do have a problem sometimes, thinking I am letting Our Lord down, but I also know I can't do this without His help.

  • @annaj1927
    @annaj1927 5 дней назад

    Thank you!

  • @johntancik9697
    @johntancik9697 Год назад +2

    Awesome Fr. Columba! Thank you for this and all your wonderful videos!

  • @sharonholmes6083
    @sharonholmes6083 Год назад +7

    Thank you, Father! This is what I needed!

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  Год назад +4

      I’m delighted it could help you! God bless.

  • @exerciserelax8719
    @exerciserelax8719 Год назад +1

    I'm being tempted right now!!! 😣🙏

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  Год назад +1

      I’m so sorry temptations are a struggle! However, temptations can make us stronger if we learn how to control them. Every moment you are praying to God to help you not fall is a moment you are not falling. God bless you! You are in my prayers!

    • @exerciserelax8719
      @exerciserelax8719 Год назад

      @@ctmcatholic Thank you 🙇‍♂🙏

  • @GravInducedSleepTrac
    @GravInducedSleepTrac Год назад +3

    Wow this video so resonated with me today! Thank you Fr Columba! Thanks be to GOD FOR BEING SO LOVING & FULL OF GENEROSITY & MERCY. I LOVE OUR HEAVENLY FATHER :)

  • @mazikode
    @mazikode Год назад

    Thanks Fr Columba.that was very helpful for me. Will.say that prayer before I go home and argue with my children.

  • @debbie2027
    @debbie2027 Год назад +2

    WONDERFUL ... thanks Padre

  • @RH33.66
    @RH33.66 10 месяцев назад

    Seems your talks arrive in the particular moments I need that assistance, I really believe that God helping me, and you are a part of his plan bless you

  • @annemcgoff8495
    @annemcgoff8495 Год назад +4

    Made a ton of sense! I will give it a go. Thank you🙏

  • @InterestingOnlyAllowed
    @InterestingOnlyAllowed Год назад +4

    Good advice as always 🤙

  • @jenlovesjesus
    @jenlovesjesus Год назад +2

  • @Korporaal1
    @Korporaal1 Год назад

    I love how you take part of the Catechismus, relate to it in a narrative way and then show us how to do it for our selves; in humility, in our need, for our growth and in a relation with God.
    It's really warm.

  • @Indorm
    @Indorm Год назад +1

    Amazing practical advice, thank you!

  • @cloverfield911
    @cloverfield911 Год назад +2

    Please pray for me Father. I'm struck down with a bad flu virus which has left me feeling frustrated and angry. I've fallen back into some o old sins again!!

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  Год назад +3

      You are in our prayers, @cloverfield911. I’m sorry to hear you’re sick and struggling with temptations. Remember that God came to save sinners, like us, not the righteous, and the sacrament of confession is powerful! He is a merciful God.
      Also, like Father was saying in the video, a great tactic is to reverse whatever bad thoughts you are having!
      If these temptations continue, I highly suggest finding a spiritual director, usually a priest, who can help you navigate through your struggles. It really helps!
      Again, we are praying for you and hope you get over the flu very quickly!
      God bless,
      Hope

    • @cloverfield911
      @cloverfield911 Год назад +1

      Thank you

  • @albertwilsonpaul8441
    @albertwilsonpaul8441 Год назад

    Thanks

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  Год назад

      Thank you so much for your support!

  • @Gail33-77
    @Gail33-77 Год назад

    Praise The Lord 🙏 Amen

  • @theresalogan5294
    @theresalogan5294 Год назад

    Wow

  • @user-mv2tg8hc8c
    @user-mv2tg8hc8c Год назад

    Beautiful video!

  • @leoncaruthers
    @leoncaruthers Год назад +1

    I'm pretty sure I tried this for a while, but it was after the consolation of prayer had long ceased. At best, I was able to delay for a time, then fall later, and feel even worse than if I hadn't, because it meant God tried to help and I rejected that help in my wretchedness, or it meant God didn't help. Either way I was now damned and had to drag myself to Confession again to beg God's pardon while living in mortal terror, then get back onto the tightrope after and hope that I could stay on it this time.
    I'll try again, but I expect nothing to change anymore.

    • @susananderson5061
      @susananderson5061 Год назад +1

      Heard a Nun say that "God loves you because of your faults." St Francis de Sales wrote that after asking for Gods pardon and confessing you should remain in peace . Don't be discouraged. I'll pray for you.

    • @MrCheesywaffles
      @MrCheesywaffles Год назад +1

      May God grant you the grace of final perseverance, and shield you from sin. Holy Mary, mother of God, pray for us sinners.

    • @leoncaruthers
      @leoncaruthers Год назад

      @@susananderson5061 St Francis can tell me what to do all he likes, but unless he can tell me _how_ to be at peace, the command isn't much good to me.

    • @NTNG13
      @NTNG13 Год назад +1

      @@leoncaruthers Prayer and devotions. It's scriptural: "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find" Pray for peace and strenght of will and do it like Jesus teached, repeatedly and consistently like the widow with the Judge or like Moses asking the Father over and over to spare Sodom. Don't do it "for a while", can't expect the right results if you're not following the right method.
      Also just like prayer, devotions like the rosary or lectio divina help you enter a meditative, calmer mindset that helps in understanding and loving your relationship with God in a deeper way.

    • @leoncaruthers
      @leoncaruthers Год назад +1

      @@NTNG13 years of daily Rosary, sometimes two a day. I didn't 'dip my toe' in prayer and then give up, I pushed with all I had, asking for help. Instead my struggle intensified and my shame expanded because surely God was helping me and here I was stubbornly refusing that help unwittingly. Prayer eventually just made every fall just hurt that much more, either because help wasn't what God wanted for me, or because I was so irredeemably wretched that no help could be received. Regardless, it was only causing me pain, not bringing peace.

  • @adrianaansaldi9248
    @adrianaansaldi9248 Год назад

    I don’t see you each week, do u just do a video a month?

  • @adrianaansaldi9248
    @adrianaansaldi9248 Год назад +1

    I don’t see you each week, do u just do a video a month?

    • @ctmcatholic
      @ctmcatholic  Год назад +1

      New episodes every Thursday. If you hit the notification button (the bell) under our videos you’ll be sent a notification every time we release a new video.