The bottom line here is: Those paintings don’t belong to her! She’s gleefully destroying someone else’s property. Isn’t that a crime? Also, the ex might have passed away or something. You just never know.
Her eyes say it all. This guy won’t even be able to talk to any female coworkers without her freaking out every 5 minutes. He needs to run now or have a life of misery.
I just wanna know who came up with these rules. Are they both whackjobs or is it her, but he went along with it? Either way freaks me out, but if they did it together, I see why they're together. And that's to save the rest of us from the insanity.
The fact she had to record herself doing this is sad. If she felt insecure or upset about these paintings, she should’ve talked to him about it. Destroying it and throwing it away is extremely immature and weird.
Right now she thinks that she can control everything in her relationship and she's happy with that, but those insecurities won't go away if she's always jealous when another woman is in sight. She'll start spiraling when the jealousy takes over and she sees every woman as a threat to their relationship, including his mum.
@@jacobvaeza782 there’s a mature way to handle those things. Who knows why he still had those paintings? Maybe he threw them in his car and forgot about them, or maybe he still wanted them. Maybe he was oblivious and didn’t think it was a big deal. Either way, to get to the bottom of it, you need to be mature and have an adult conversation with your partner about it. Filming yourself acting like that is embarrassing as hell. Any time I have felt jealous or insecure, I’ve talked to my boyfriend about it. To give an example, back when him and I first got together, there’s a girl who my boyfriend had some history with in the past (they were never in a relationship or hooked up, they went to high school together and he had feelings for her at the time and went on one date and she strung him along for years after for attention and validation) and she would repeatedly text him after we started dating, and at first I tried to be cool about it. Especially because my boyfriend never crossed any boundaries or said anything flirtatious and just viewed her at this point as his friend and nothing more. Plus I’m not the type of person who would ever tell him who he can and can’t hang out with. But it got to a point where the texts she was sending him were making me uncomfortable, especially considering how often she’d text him and she’d tune out of the conversation whenever he mentioned me. My boyfriend tends to see the very best in everyone and I finally sat him down and told him I wasn’t comfortable with her texting him anymore. He listened and understood my feelings and validated me, and was genuinely oblivious to what she was trying to do until I pointed it out. They haven’t spoken since. Same thing if I ever am oblivious to something that upsets him or makes him jealous. We sit down and talk through it and try to understand each other. People aren’t perfect and it could’ve been an honest mistake. This girl isn’t ready for a serious relationship if she’s gonna act like 10 year old breaking shit.
She gives, "how dare you have a life before me!" Vibes. Meanwhile, keeps all her stuffed teddies from her previous relationships and her boyfriend has to accept that.
What an insecure maniac! No, men/women/whoever are allowed to keep sentimental items regardless of who they are from. Imagine a fella doing this? He would be absolutely ripped to shreds. Absolutely insane behavior!
This screams personality disorder, dude should run. So what if he has paintings? It’s not like he kept her panties or has a shrine to his ex in his house. Little lady needs to grow up. 🙄
The amount of distrust and insecurity is astounding and alarming ,not only did she set those rules up for her husband but for herself, not only does she not trust her husband,she also doesn't trust herself.
At that point, if you feel yourself so prone to cheating, that says more about your relationship itself than you think. Just end it and move on. Or Hell, I dunno. If you have a cheating kink and your husband's alright with it, indulge. Who the fuck am I to judge? 🫤
Agree!! The constant playing with her hair shows how insecure and self-conscious she is. I’m wondering if the husband really agrees to these psychotic “rules”?
The fact that you have to set limits on who sits across from you at a table suggests that your relationship is weak from the ground up, but I could be wrong 🤷
If they're "in class", they're too young to be making a life-long binding contract with each other. Let alone if they have to make crazy rules like this for it to work
@ditzygypsyjay6776 I think she has used her feet under the table across from a person who's pants were unzipped and thinks that that is something everyone does.. so she doesn't want anyone sitting across from her boyfriend
Yikes! That 2nd lady... So she has to include her husband in a group chat just to talk to her brother? Like what, she's afraid he'll accuse her of cheating on him... WITH HER BROTHER??? That relationship will fail. I guarantee that guy is not obeying all the rules. Nor should he, they're over the top! Don't be alone in a room with the opposite sex if possible, that makes sense for accountability and preventing temptation, and avoiding the appearance of evil, but that's where it should end. My goodness!
This chick is crazy!! I keep sentimental things from most of my relationships, because most of my relationships have ended on good terms. These are items that remind me of the good times I had with a woman that had a positive impact on my life molding me to be the perfect boyfriend for my current girlfriend. Why would I ever want to forget those memories? They made me who I am today. If a girl I was dating acted like this girl I would take it as a huge red flag, and only assume she would act like this again over silly things in the foreseeable future. I'd quickly end things with her. I want to date an adult I can grow with not always be worrying about what's going to set her off.
@@drektheon1541 i agree with you completely. I have some concert tickets framed from seeing, the official Queen cover band, Cheech & chong, official Led Zeppelin cover band, Blink 182, and Tom Green all hanging on my wall, with back stage passes plus pictures with me and my ex with all the different bands or comedians. I went to all those with my ex girlfriend. We had a blast at all of them. My current girlfriend doesn't even care. She just says it was cool we were able to experience those things together and her only condition is that her and i do even more cooland fun things together than me and my ex did. Which is awesome!
I have lots of stuff from relationships that ended badly. Because I value the item more than the associated negative memories. If you think I’m tossing all of my Lalique crystal fish just because you gave me one of them, you need to give your head a spin.
Exactly, those memories are part of your history, and with like anything else, good or bad, over time you'll want reminders of it. It might not be now or in 10 years, but one day. I had an ex who tried to destroy notes and photos of my priors, and was 80% successful in destroying them, all while she kept her stuff at her parents. As the relationship went on, she slowly got more controlling, letting me know when I could see family and friends. If I saw my mom or brother and sisters, she would be angry with me for a week and find ways to punish me--trying to make me cut off my family and friends. I had to leave, then she really lost it. Not going into details but it was bad.
I made artwork for my boyfriend when he was stationed overseas and sent it to him. He still has it. We've been married 42 years now. 🙂 I hope the Young man kicks her to the curb.
Painting lady gets my vote for most insecure person of 2023. It's paintings in the trunk...it's not like he has her used undies in the glove box. Rule lady is top in her class at Coercive Control 101...bet she does really well in Stalking 201 next year
Her boyfriend should tell her that he was taking them to be auctioned off. After his anger settles, the tears dry and his plans to break up with her are secure that she will never find him.
Its one thing to be pissed about this, its another to destroy someone's property. Ffs what a child. Dude: they were in the trunk for the reason we're seeing now. Their destruction.
That's what I was saying to myself! He obviously put them in the trunk, because he cherished the paintings and didn't want anything bad to happen to them. I hope he breaks up with her, based on principle, but probably won't.
It’s getting worse as time goes on when it comes to behavior to put out online and most often for no other reasoning than corresponding views and the more that view the increase in this type of content . Vicious cycle
Professors and group assignments, internet discussions.. they announce to their classmates they are married.. he sits on her class that has a male professor.. they are both beyond insecure and jealous.. that marriage won't last..
I have a full air-locked bag of all my letters from my time in both basic training and while I was off at war, it's special to me. If my girlfriend had special memories with someone from her past I would respect that. Now if I got married and my fiance/wife wanted me to ditch old love letters I could understand that. But a girlfriend....someone I have no investment in, freaking out about the fact that I shared something special and hold on to memories from someone special, yeah, completely unreasonable.
I wish I had those from my first girlfriend when I was at basic training. Those would have been pretty special to hold onto. That was a long, long time ago for me, and that girlfriend sadly passed away in 1999 from brain cancer. But I sure looked forward to getting her letters at boot camp every week. She would spray them with Obsession perfume. I was only 17 when I was at boot camp.
@ScottSmithWorld Brother, you have my most sincere of condolences. I was aboard Parris Island in 2007. I was in regular correspondence with a half French half Panamanian young lady I knew in high school. I still have all my letters from Russian (technically Kyrgyzstani) girl I met and fooled around with before I joined (and for a few nights both before and after my deployment [wink, wink]). Sadly, all of my chats with my half Irish half English girlfriend from Brooklyn (with who I settled down after I left the service) will be lost forever due to MySpace. Sorry again for your loss, my brother from another mother. I think we can both agree Xenoshot is right on this one, this woman is trash.
@ScottSmithWorld Do or die. Kill Kill Kill bodies, eat babies (generic grunting noises, ahahaha). Sorry for your loss again. It always helps me to remember, "It's not goodbye, it's I'll see you later." I hope you've met someone nice in the meantime, but the next you and that young lady meet..., be it in this life or the next, it's gonna be epic. (Tipping helmet in respect). My best wishes to both of you. May the angels weep at the beauty of y'alls next meet.
Art is art to be appreciated and keeping something like that is vastly different then sleeping in your ex's old sweatshirt or keeping old love notes. Screaming red flags if someone can't differentiate that!!!!!! Run far away as fast as you can.
I'm an artist/ painter. If my ex had a new gf that decided to do this insecure bs i would be so upset. Even though it was a gift, I would much rather he/ they just give them back to me. It takes a lot of thought and time to paint stuff for people. I pour my soul into most of my gift paintings. Also, holy shit the girl talking about her and her husbands rules. What the fuck, you have to be so insecure, sad and distrustful to not even be able to sit next to the opposite gender in a class, or have a professor of the opposite gender. She literally sounds like a "ball and chain". You have to tell everyone youre married so that they don't cross any boundaries?? Why dont you just set them yourself when/if you have to like a decent adult. These people need to grow up.
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You have no right to destroy someone else's property, for any reason. Even if he'd cheated you still don't have that right. I'd break up with her immediately.
Those "rules" sound like exhausting fuel for a garbage fire. Thirty seconds later: She can't have a private conversation with her own BROTHER...over the PHONE? WTF?
Gonna be blunt, if you lose your sh*t bad enough to be categorized as “goes nuts” there’s already a 99.9% chance you’re in the wrong. I mean, that’s just common sense, most VALID arguments and grievances aren’t expressed without rationale… so yea, I’d say because she lost it like this she’s already lost her argument; ergo, definitely in the wrong!
I will say this, I bet she has past gifts from previous boyfriends. That stuff has nothing to do with her and could be reminders of fond memories. It doesn't mean he wants to get back with his ex. As far as the trunk thing, people can put stuff in trunk and forget about it till they clean it out.
he should immediately leave her and also, go ahead and press charges because you know that girl hasnt had to face any consequences for her actions. maybe if someone quit treating her like a child and more like an adult, she might become one, one day. doubtful at this point, but you never know. yeah, that means she is gonna have to catch a charge, it looks like.
My husband (61m) has a teddy bear on our dresser that his ex gave him when he was 30 and married to her. She died of ovarian cancer when she was 42. Never, ever would I destroy or even think of destroying that teddy bear.
Her actions come across as primitive and controlling. I also believe she's way more into "their" rules than he truly wants. I don't believe she's retaining any informational lectures from her psychology course 4:57, let alone applying any of it to her life. I wish them the best.
Ew she's the type of person where if her spouse was a widow, she would want them to toss all pics of the prior spouse including ones their kids held on to. What a veil human being.
Why would she post this? Well, at least her next boyfriend can find these 🚩🚩 online and RUN!! Also, my husband died and if my next boyfriend (if there will be one) did this to his stuff.. I'd make sure he gets to meet my husband..
@@tracyhaverstick5672 She is acting like a child, an insecure woman baby.. I bet those paintings were in the trunk bc she didn't allow him to have them in the house.. jealous beach..
First one - she is utterly insane - I'd like to know if there was a follow up to that - mainly to see what the reaction from the boyfriend is. I would think that he would drop her like a hot potato straight away. Second one - I'd be out of that relationship in a second....that's a prison sentence, not a marriage. Yeuch, both of them.
bro what if this was past ex that died of cancer? my ex had things from his past ex that died of cancer and they had good relationship and i understand that and would never break her stuff and dishonor someone that died.
Wow these girls are insecure and insane. Those paintings were beautiful I would of had no issue if my partner wanted to hang them up even if it was an ex and they left on good terms. That second one is so controlling and possessive from both sides. There is absolutely no trust if that is all the rules. Also she can’t talk to her brother privately?! What do they think is going to happen? They are siblings!
I still have a painting from my first boyfriend, he did it and gave it to me 50 yrs ago, and now hes deceased its extra special to me. She had a nerve.
She’s insane as much as the “newlyweds “ in college...It’s ridiculous how people can act over literally nothing that had to do with them. Total insecurity & it’s gross 🤢
Nothing is more UNattractive than a jealous girlfriend. He needs to send this one packing bc he will not have peace, she’s one of those easily triggered snowflakes.
I’ll play Devils Advocate for a minute by saying he could’ve at least disclosed he still had the paintings. I guess I can see why she was upset but she obviously went completely overboard
Even family aren’t safe from this bs relationship 😂 the poor brother. I’d be mad if all my sister’s bf’s (at different times) they both were in a chat when it’s me & my sibling
I would Leave the 1st girl. I would have never married the 2nd. She can't talk to her brother without her husband wtf. They can't never talk to the opposite sex? That ish is crazy🙄🤦
Honestly I feel like initially the first girl was justified in being upset about it, but it could have been resolved by communicating it with her partner … but the way she went about this is definitely not a healthy or appropriate way of handling the situation. It’s normal to feel insecure and jealous at points, but you have to acknowledge it and communicate it with your partner, otherwise you will never learn to truly trust the other person and at that point, why be in a relationship with them?
You don't learn to trust your partner, you do trust them. You cannot force or train someone to be faithful. They are or they are not. The sooner you find out the better. As for someone's possessions, it's their property. It's petty and insecure to take someone's belongings or complain. They had a life before you and collected things that have meaning.
@@tracyhaverstick5672 Nono I totally agree. I more so meant in moments where people do feel insecure or jealous because we're human, it happens sometimes - whether it be justified or not - it's important to communicate those feelings with your partner rather than lashing out towards them like in the video. I also completely agree that people will have possessions and memories from past relationships, but if she felt insecure about why he still had them, it could've been easily resolved by having a discussion with him about it and asking why he kept them. I don't think it's harmful to have that conversation as long as she did it in a calm way and went into it with an open mind while also expressing her own boundaries. But the way she handled this was entirely wrong and I don't agree with what she did at all. I think she was justified initially if she felt discomfort, but she lost any justification and sympathy when she acted like this and destroyed his property.
For the first dingbat If I was the boyfriend I’d run the other way! She’s probably going to be violent with him while smiling that crazy Cheshire Cat look 👀! Looks like a chance for her on Crazy Exes🤦🏻♀️I’m curious if the husband of 2nd one made the rules together or he’s just walking around not looking at anyone,speaking,or doing anything so rules aren’t broken! My husband of 38 years passed 5 years ago He had a little jealous side but nothing like this! No relationship is going to make it if you have to put all the rules in And don’t trust each other even a little bit!!
Kids are so immature nowadays I swear!! You see this kind of thing way too much and it’s like it doesn’t matter!! The dude seems like he doesn’t care and stays-if me I’d be RUNNING AWAY
The difference between a little girl and a grown ass woman, is shit like this! We all have a past ladies and gentlemen, but the point is we are with them now, so stop this childish behavior! It's so unbecoming. Thanks Xeno! Much love and appreciation my friend. 🙏♥️
Current gf is insane! What would she do if they break up or he's caught cheating? Definitely seems to be the type that would destroy a vehicle or two. Been married 16 years; my husband has a hand crocheted blanket that was made for him in the colors he wanted by an ex gf. They are not together what does it matter to me if he has the blanket? This girl is very immature!
It could of been the artist friend of his had passed on & he was keeping those paintings as a keepsake. He probably hid them in his car because she banned them from the house. Either way _Major_ insecurity issues there. Shame really, they looked like really good paintings too. Pity she didn't yeet herself in the trash where she rightfully belongs.
When helping my grandpa clean out his house my mum and I found artwork he ex had given her about 40years ago. It was really good so she contacted an old friend who knew him to give it back. Destroying something someone spent hours on, just because you’re insecure is pathetic. Massive red flag to me.
I am only okay with destroying stuff from a past relationship ONLY IF the person who it belongs to CONSENTS to the destruction. But at timestamp 4:30 it proves that what she did was 100% about her insecurities. I mean listing all those rules as a married couple??? That is just insane.
I had an extremely jealous bf.. he tore up a family photo that had my ex in it.. and put it on my pillow. Jealousy kills love.. He was jealous over every interaction I had with anyone.. it had to come to an end.
We don't know how long ago he got those and why was he hiding them in his trunk? She certainly went batsh@t...but you have to wonder how much backstory is there. The guy should be seen she was cuckoo in the last 4 years
The bottom line here is: Those paintings don’t belong to her!
She’s gleefully destroying someone else’s property.
Isn’t that a crime? Also, the ex might have passed away or something. You just never know.
Na I think he woulda told her that much
They were really nice paintings, maybe he didn't want to toss them out.
If I was a guy I'd break up with her then have her arrested for destruction of personal property.
im pretty sure she didnt even have a boyfriend and just came up with a story for tiktok using yardsale or thrift store paintings
Her eyes say it all. This guy won’t even be able to talk to any female coworkers without her freaking out every 5 minutes. He needs to run now or have a life of misery.
Yebba. Run Sir, don't walk away!! She's a psycho 🤣
I just wanna know who came up with these rules. Are they both whackjobs or is it her, but he went along with it? Either way freaks me out, but if they did it together, I see why they're together. And that's to save the rest of us from the insanity.
The fact she had to record herself doing this is sad. If she felt insecure or upset about these paintings, she should’ve talked to him about it. Destroying it and throwing it away is extremely immature and weird.
Right now she thinks that she can control everything in her relationship and she's happy with that, but those insecurities won't go away if she's always jealous when another woman is in sight.
She'll start spiraling when the jealousy takes over and she sees every woman as a threat to their relationship, including his mum.
Why does he have those paintings in the first place tho? An ex is an ex and if he still has souvenirs of his past relationships, that’s a red flag too
@@jacobvaeza782 there’s a mature way to handle those things. Who knows why he still had those paintings? Maybe he threw them in his car and forgot about them, or maybe he still wanted them. Maybe he was oblivious and didn’t think it was a big deal. Either way, to get to the bottom of it, you need to be mature and have an adult conversation with your partner about it. Filming yourself acting like that is embarrassing as hell. Any time I have felt jealous or insecure, I’ve talked to my boyfriend about it. To give an example, back when him and I first got together, there’s a girl who my boyfriend had some history with in the past (they were never in a relationship or hooked up, they went to high school together and he had feelings for her at the time and went on one date and she strung him along for years after for attention and validation) and she would repeatedly text him after we started dating, and at first I tried to be cool about it. Especially because my boyfriend never crossed any boundaries or said anything flirtatious and just viewed her at this point as his friend and nothing more. Plus I’m not the type of person who would ever tell him who he can and can’t hang out with. But it got to a point where the texts she was sending him were making me uncomfortable, especially considering how often she’d text him and she’d tune out of the conversation whenever he mentioned me. My boyfriend tends to see the very best in everyone and I finally sat him down and told him I wasn’t comfortable with her texting him anymore. He listened and understood my feelings and validated me, and was genuinely oblivious to what she was trying to do until I pointed it out. They haven’t spoken since. Same thing if I ever am oblivious to something that upsets him or makes him jealous. We sit down and talk through it and try to understand each other. People aren’t perfect and it could’ve been an honest mistake. This girl isn’t ready for a serious relationship if she’s gonna act like 10 year old breaking shit.
The fact that she has to record herself doing this says it all.
Bunny boiler!!!
She gives, "how dare you have a life before me!" Vibes. Meanwhile, keeps all her stuffed teddies from her previous relationships and her boyfriend has to accept that.
Right!!
@@Dondizle
✔️ and Mate
Anything for clout though, right??!!! At least in their tiny, warped, egocentric little minds!! 😂
Materialistic things shouldn’t be a part of people’s arguments. 🤦🏼♀️ She’s just childish. But clicks and views ya know! Very vindictive and selfish.
@@iamme25yagoHopefully.
What an insecure maniac! No, men/women/whoever are allowed to keep sentimental items regardless of who they are from. Imagine a fella doing this? He would be absolutely ripped to shreds. Absolutely insane behavior!
If this was the standard reaction we wouldn’t have any masterpieces from the past like a Vincent Van Gough.
Yeah, the amount of violence we tolerate from women is remarkable.
If this relationship didn't end immediately....the guy deserves whatever happens next.
@billtate6962 I have to say, I disagree but each to their own
@@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin very troubling indeed
This screams personality disorder, dude should run. So what if he has paintings? It’s not like he kept her panties or has a shrine to his ex in his house. Little lady needs to grow up. 🙄
The amount of distrust and insecurity is astounding and alarming ,not only did she set those rules up for her husband but for herself, not only does she not trust her husband,she also doesn't trust herself.
They have no complete trust in each other. Why be in a relationship?
This has "church" written all over it. You've got grown adults having _chaperones_ on trips with their bf/gf. 🤦🏻♀️
Not even with her brother apparently 😂
At that point, if you feel yourself so prone to cheating, that says more about your relationship itself than you think. Just end it and move on.
Or Hell, I dunno. If you have a cheating kink and your husband's alright with it, indulge. Who the fuck am I to judge? 🫤
Their relationship must not have been that strong if she got triggered
Bingo
Or she's just super clingy, controlling and jealous. She's not ready for an adult relationship.
Red flags everywhere. This relationship is toxic of that's who she is .. will never wbd well and I'd fear for him.
The second clip. These two must not trust each other if they are having so many rules.
I honestly think the boundaries chick was scarier than the painting psycho.
They're both awful, but I see what you mean. To think that braindead twat is in college tells me all I need to know about humanity's future...
They belong together. Psycho chicks united. 😆 🤣 😂
Agree!! The constant playing with her hair shows how insecure and self-conscious she is. I’m wondering if the husband really agrees to these psychotic “rules”?
No doubt. The first one might have tried to do something cathartic to relieve pain she was experiencing. But the second one, yikes! 😬 A total lunatic.
@@TopoGigio555 Her voice had no emotion and was creepy. What cult to they belong to?
Her husband has to be on a text chat with her brother? Perhaps she’s slept with her brother in the past and they don’t want to risk repeating that.
Same thought occurred to me 😆
Yeah, that was creepy.
I thought the same thing!
Red flags . Family
That's really the only explanation, unless it was hubby who slept with the brother
The fact that you have to set limits on who sits across from you at a table suggests that your relationship is weak from the ground up, but I could be wrong 🤷
If they're "in class", they're too young to be making a life-long binding contract with each other. Let alone if they have to make crazy rules like this for it to work
I'm guessing that she has a "foot job" story and thinks that everyone else does too
@@Faesharlyn I do not know what that is, but it sounds weird.
No, you are absolutely correct!!
@ditzygypsyjay6776 I think she has used her feet under the table across from a person who's pants were unzipped and thinks that that is something everyone does.. so she doesn't want anyone sitting across from her boyfriend
Yikes! That 2nd lady... So she has to include her husband in a group chat just to talk to her brother? Like what, she's afraid he'll accuse her of cheating on him... WITH HER BROTHER??? That relationship will fail. I guarantee that guy is not obeying all the rules. Nor should he, they're over the top! Don't be alone in a room with the opposite sex if possible, that makes sense for accountability and preventing temptation, and avoiding the appearance of evil, but that's where it should end. My goodness!
The 2nd relationship isn't going to last long. You have to trust your partner.😱
People who worry about that stuff are the ones obsessed with doing it themselves
Creepy about the brother
Its has to be a joke.
Or they live in a county where it's normal brothers do their own sisters, that she had to include Tucker...hahaha
@@hacitokalak Different country, Alabama, it's all the same really. Lol! 😂🤣
Sounds like insecurities issues
Sounds like she needs a stroller .. she's acting like a toddler
This chick is crazy!! I keep sentimental things from most of my relationships, because most of my relationships have ended on good terms. These are items that remind me of the good times I had with a woman that had a positive impact on my life molding me to be the perfect boyfriend for my current girlfriend. Why would I ever want to forget those memories? They made me who I am today. If a girl I was dating acted like this girl I would take it as a huge red flag, and only assume she would act like this again over silly things in the foreseeable future. I'd quickly end things with her. I want to date an adult I can grow with not always be worrying about what's going to set her off.
Exactly
@@drektheon1541 i agree with you completely. I have some concert tickets framed from seeing, the official Queen cover band, Cheech & chong, official Led Zeppelin cover band, Blink 182, and Tom Green all hanging on my wall, with back stage passes plus pictures with me and my ex with all the different bands or comedians. I went to all those with my ex girlfriend. We had a blast at all of them. My current girlfriend doesn't even care. She just says it was cool we were able to experience those things together and her only condition is that her and i do even more cooland fun things together than me and my ex did. Which is awesome!
I have lots of stuff from relationships that ended badly. Because I value the item more than the associated negative memories. If you think I’m tossing all of my Lalique crystal fish just because you gave me one of them, you need to give your head a spin.
Exactly, those memories are part of your history, and with like anything else, good or bad, over time you'll want reminders of it. It might not be now or in 10 years, but one day. I had an ex who tried to destroy notes and photos of my priors, and was 80% successful in destroying them, all while she kept her stuff at her parents. As the relationship went on, she slowly got more controlling, letting me know when I could see family and friends. If I saw my mom or brother and sisters, she would be angry with me for a week and find ways to punish me--trying to make me cut off my family and friends. I had to leave, then she really lost it. Not going into details but it was bad.
@@brentthegreat5814
She's a keeper Brent.
Truly ✌️🫶💯
As someone who just finished a painting 2 days ago and making another one this hurts very much to watch.
I understand. I felt the sane way. Thats part pf your life. Every piece you do and who you do them for. No one has a right to take that away
I made artwork for my boyfriend when he was stationed overseas and sent it to him. He still has it. We've been married 42 years now. 🙂 I hope the Young man kicks her to the curb.
Typical social media narcissist. 🤦🏾♂️ 😂
So they’re two college students, probably fresh out of high school. Ppl that young shouldn’t get married 😂
My man still has plants that his ex bought for him, I don't have any plans of killing them or throw them away
She's insane.
Lock it up!!!!!!!
She's insecure.. and posting her stupidity online proves how lucky the boyfriend is; "IF" he decided to dump her sorry ass.
Painting lady gets my vote for most insecure person of 2023. It's paintings in the trunk...it's not like he has her used undies in the glove box. Rule lady is top in her class at Coercive Control 101...bet she does really well in Stalking 201 next year
Yes same thing I said. This was a message to the other girl
I see nothing wrong with her actions. You guys are hippies which is why you see nothing weird about keeping love notes from past relationships.
@@Countcho Good thing we have free speech..you are allowed your wrong opinion. Please have a lovely day
lmao
Yeah when your gf keys your car, and pops your tires because you used drive your ex gf around in it, wouldn’t be wrong either.
She'll be pissed right off when she finds out the paintings are worth $50k each
Her boyfriend should tell her that he was taking them to be auctioned off. After his anger settles, the tears dry and his plans to break up with her are secure that she will never find him.
They're worth about 8 million as a set, she probably should get another job
Did she mention that she is studying to be a psychologist?
If so, I definitely wouldn't want her as my shrink!
What a nasty piece of work.
The painting was beautiful
Its one thing to be pissed about this, its another to destroy someone's property. Ffs what a child.
Dude: they were in the trunk for the reason we're seeing now. Their destruction.
That's what I was saying to myself! He obviously put them in the trunk, because he cherished the paintings and didn't want anything bad to happen to them. I hope he breaks up with her, based on principle, but probably won't.
He knew.. who he was dealing with. Toxic chick
That tells me she's a child who has destroyed other possessions of his
It’s getting worse as time goes on when it comes to behavior to put out online and most often for no other reasoning than corresponding views and the more that view the increase in this type of content . Vicious cycle
Holy hell, I didn't impose this many boundaries on my then-fiance when he was going to school across the ocean from me.
Professors and group assignments, internet discussions.. they announce to their classmates they are married.. he sits on her class that has a male professor.. they are both beyond insecure and jealous.. that marriage won't last..
Psycho much?
Giving him a reason to go back to ex.? Maybe she died a horrific way? And they are keepsakes
I have a full air-locked bag of all my letters from my time in both basic training and while I was off at war, it's special to me. If my girlfriend had special memories with someone from her past I would respect that. Now if I got married and my fiance/wife wanted me to ditch old love letters I could understand that. But a girlfriend....someone I have no investment in, freaking out about the fact that I shared something special and hold on to memories from someone special, yeah, completely unreasonable.
I wish I had those from my first girlfriend when I was at basic training. Those would have been pretty special to hold onto. That was a long, long time ago for me, and that girlfriend sadly passed away in 1999 from brain cancer. But I sure looked forward to getting her letters at boot camp every week. She would spray them with Obsession perfume. I was only 17 when I was at boot camp.
@ScottSmithWorld Brother, you have my most sincere of condolences. I was aboard Parris Island in 2007. I was in regular correspondence with a half French half Panamanian young lady I knew in high school. I still have all my letters from Russian (technically Kyrgyzstani) girl I met and fooled around with before I joined (and for a few nights both before and after my deployment [wink, wink]). Sadly, all of my chats with my half Irish half English girlfriend from Brooklyn (with who I settled down after I left the service) will be lost forever due to MySpace. Sorry again for your loss, my brother from another mother. I think we can both agree Xenoshot is right on this one, this woman is trash.
@@jasonhernandez1182 thanks, Semper Fi!
@ScottSmithWorld Do or die. Kill Kill Kill bodies, eat babies (generic grunting noises, ahahaha). Sorry for your loss again. It always helps me to remember, "It's not goodbye, it's I'll see you later." I hope you've met someone nice in the meantime, but the next you and that young lady meet..., be it in this life or the next, it's gonna be epic. (Tipping helmet in respect). My best wishes to both of you. May the angels weep at the beauty of y'alls next meet.
@@jasonhernandez1182 thanks again.
Art is art to be appreciated and keeping something like that is vastly different then sleeping in your ex's old sweatshirt or keeping old love notes. Screaming red flags if someone can't differentiate that!!!!!!
Run far away as fast as you can.
What a sad empty life she must have.
I'm an artist/ painter. If my ex had a new gf that decided to do this insecure bs i would be so upset. Even though it was a gift, I would much rather he/ they just give them back to me. It takes a lot of thought and time to paint stuff for people. I pour my soul into most of my gift paintings.
Also, holy shit the girl talking about her and her husbands rules. What the fuck, you have to be so insecure, sad and distrustful to not even be able to sit next to the opposite gender in a class, or have a professor of the opposite gender. She literally sounds like a "ball and chain". You have to tell everyone youre married so that they don't cross any boundaries?? Why dont you just set them yourself when/if you have to like a decent adult. These people need to grow up.
keep in mind dear brother/sister, i know many of us do not like to talk politics in company amongst friends, i don't either, and i try not to, but autocracy, fascism, or authoritarianism, etc -- require a seed-bed to grow, we fight, i support all people's rights to be who they want to be
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Tucker...run for the fucking hills dude lmaoooo
You have no right to destroy someone else's property, for any reason. Even if he'd cheated you still don't have that right. I'd break up with her immediately.
^^ 100% if he didn't it's a death sentence
Those "rules" sound like exhausting fuel for a garbage fire.
Thirty seconds later: She can't have a private conversation with her own BROTHER...over the PHONE? WTF?
It is absolutely frightening how many unhinged people are roaming around in public
it's even worse than that, and that is mega-scary; please be safe; what you are pointing to is real, and i'm terrified, but not afraid of them
Gonna be blunt, if you lose your sh*t bad enough to be categorized as “goes nuts” there’s already a 99.9% chance you’re in the wrong. I mean, that’s just common sense, most VALID arguments and grievances aren’t expressed without rationale… so yea, I’d say because she lost it like this she’s already lost her argument; ergo, definitely in the wrong!
I’ll bet you $50 that dude is kicking himself his relationship with his ex ended LMFAOOOO
I will say this, I bet she has past gifts from previous boyfriends. That stuff has nothing to do with her and could be reminders of fond memories. It doesn't mean he wants to get back with his ex. As far as the trunk thing, people can put stuff in trunk and forget about it till they clean it out.
he should immediately leave her and also, go ahead and press charges because you know that girl hasnt had to face any consequences for her actions. maybe if someone quit treating her like a child and more like an adult, she might become one, one day. doubtful at this point, but you never know. yeah, that means she is gonna have to catch a charge, it looks like.
Well said.
My husband (61m) has a teddy bear on our dresser that his ex gave him when he was 30 and married to her. She died of ovarian cancer when she was 42. Never, ever would I destroy or even think of destroying that teddy bear.
5:20 sounds like she made these rules up and he just agreed to avoid a fight.
Break her stuff in return because she's now an ex and change the locks on your doors
From what I saw (in a glimpse) those where beautiful paintings.
So if I understand her logic....
If your boyfriend pay for breast implants.... you have to give it back if you broke up
They are we both crazy!! They sound insecure in their relationships. So what is the married couple going to do when they have kids??
Run away before it's too late. She'll be stalking him one day. 🤪🤪
Her actions come across as primitive and controlling. I also believe she's way more into "their" rules than he truly wants. I don't believe she's retaining any informational lectures from her psychology course 4:57, let alone applying any of it to her life. I wish them the best.
She can barely break them paintings 😂😂😂😂
Ew she's the type of person where if her spouse was a widow, she would want them to toss all pics of the prior spouse including ones their kids held on to. What a veil human being.
Why would she post this? Well, at least her next boyfriend can find these 🚩🚩 online and RUN!!
Also, my husband died and if my next boyfriend (if there will be one) did this to his stuff.. I'd make sure he gets to meet my husband..
Exactly 💯!
@@tracyhaverstick5672 She is acting like a child, an insecure woman baby.. I bet those paintings were in the trunk bc she didn't allow him to have them in the house.. jealous beach..
That first woman is great ex material
First one - she is utterly insane - I'd like to know if there was a follow up to that - mainly to see what the reaction from the boyfriend is. I would think that he would drop her like a hot potato straight away. Second one - I'd be out of that relationship in a second....that's a prison sentence, not a marriage. Yeuch, both of them.
This was completely stupid of her.
bro what if this was past ex that died of cancer? my ex had things from his past ex that died of cancer and they had good relationship and i understand that and would never break her stuff and dishonor someone that died.
Wow these girls are insecure and insane. Those paintings were beautiful I would of had no issue if my partner wanted to hang them up even if it was an ex and they left on good terms. That second one is so controlling and possessive from both sides. There is absolutely no trust if that is all the rules. Also she can’t talk to her brother privately?! What do they think is going to happen? They are siblings!
I still have a painting from my first boyfriend, he did it and gave it to me 50 yrs ago, and now hes deceased its extra special to me. She had a nerve.
The second lady, that's insane.
Oh dear, if they have a daughter he can’t be in the room with it…
The cute ones turn psycho
Of course who needs personality when you have looks to fool them.
Is she cute tho? For me gives drunk loud mean girl energy 🤷🏻♀️
She’s insane as much as the “newlyweds “ in college...It’s ridiculous how people can act over literally nothing that had to do with them. Total insecurity & it’s gross 🤢
And I’m here like
Brooo she could of at least sold it.
Also it hurts to see this, I’m only good at scenery art. 💀
Super insecure and psycho. Guy is allowed to keep gifts from others, from his past. She’s acting controlling and jealous.
There's a difference between boundaries and being controlling. This is crazy.
This is some really high school petty shit. And now that she's done this to his property, is he going to want her around any more?
Social media!! Quickest way to end a relationship on the planet.😂
Nothing is more UNattractive than a jealous girlfriend. He needs to send this one packing bc he will not have peace, she’s one of those easily triggered snowflakes.
I’ll play Devils Advocate for a minute by saying he could’ve at least disclosed he still had the paintings. I guess I can see why she was upset but she obviously went completely overboard
Have you asked yourself why he hid them? She most likely destroyed other things.
@tracyhaverstick5672 Exactly lol... unhinged 💯
@@KonekoPurrrfection No
Even family aren’t safe from this bs relationship 😂 the poor brother. I’d be mad if all my sister’s bf’s (at different times) they both were in a chat when it’s me & my sibling
I would Leave the 1st girl. I would have never married the 2nd. She can't talk to her brother without her husband wtf. They can't never talk to the opposite sex? That ish is crazy🙄🤦
Honestly I feel like initially the first girl was justified in being upset about it, but it could have been resolved by communicating it with her partner … but the way she went about this is definitely not a healthy or appropriate way of handling the situation. It’s normal to feel insecure and jealous at points, but you have to acknowledge it and communicate it with your partner, otherwise you will never learn to truly trust the other person and at that point, why be in a relationship with them?
You don't learn to trust your partner, you do trust them. You cannot force or train someone to be faithful. They are or they are not. The sooner you find out the better. As for someone's possessions, it's their property. It's petty and insecure to take someone's belongings or complain. They had a life before you and collected things that have meaning.
@@tracyhaverstick5672 Nono I totally agree. I more so meant in moments where people do feel insecure or jealous because we're human, it happens sometimes - whether it be justified or not - it's important to communicate those feelings with your partner rather than lashing out towards them like in the video.
I also completely agree that people will have possessions and memories from past relationships, but if she felt insecure about why he still had them, it could've been easily resolved by having a discussion with him about it and asking why he kept them. I don't think it's harmful to have that conversation as long as she did it in a calm way and went into it with an open mind while also expressing her own boundaries.
But the way she handled this was entirely wrong and I don't agree with what she did at all. I think she was justified initially if she felt discomfort, but she lost any justification and sympathy when she acted like this and destroyed his property.
Nah.. it's ridiculous and childish.
This is what happens when your current girlfriend is jealous of your ex girlfriend’s talent because she has none…. She’s giving Harley Quinn
“If I need to text my brother, I’ll always make sure my husband in that chat” - why, does your husband think you might cheat on him with your brother?
Because she wants her husband to know she's not trying to hook up with her first love/ex. Lmao.
For the first dingbat If I was the boyfriend I’d run the other way! She’s probably going to be violent with him while smiling that crazy Cheshire Cat look 👀! Looks like a chance for her on Crazy Exes🤦🏻♀️I’m curious if the husband of 2nd one made the rules together or he’s just walking around not looking at anyone,speaking,or doing anything so rules aren’t broken! My husband of 38 years passed 5 years ago He had a little jealous side but nothing like this! No relationship is going to make it if you have to put all the rules in And don’t trust each other even a little bit!!
Kids are so immature nowadays I swear!! You see this kind of thing way too much and it’s like it doesn’t matter!! The dude seems like he doesn’t care and stays-if me I’d be RUNNING AWAY
Dude! WTAF?!
Holy crap the rule girl is 🦇 sh*t crazy!
He doesn't seem to care.
The difference between a little girl and a grown ass woman, is shit like this! We all have a past ladies and gentlemen, but the point is we are with them now, so stop this childish behavior! It's so unbecoming. Thanks Xeno! Much love and appreciation my friend. 🙏♥️
Current gf is insane! What would she do if they break up or he's caught cheating? Definitely seems to be the type that would destroy a vehicle or two. Been married 16 years; my husband has a hand crocheted blanket that was made for him in the colors he wanted by an ex gf. They are not together what does it matter to me if he has the blanket? This girl is very immature!
Hahah - at 2:38 I thought she ‘thank u for being such a wonderful cousin..!’ I thought the video was filmed in Shelbyville for a sec lol 😂 😅
It could of been the artist friend of his had passed on & he was keeping those paintings as a keepsake. He probably hid them in his car because she banned them from the house. Either way _Major_ insecurity issues there. Shame really, they looked like really good paintings too.
Pity she didn't yeet herself in the trash where she rightfully belongs.
That ex probably spent hours on those paintings. I would've kept them on an artist's perspective
I’m an amateur painter, this hurt to watch. I often gift my work to friends and family but I’ll take my work back if they don’t want it!
I hope those are replicas.
The ex girlfriend painted them. Why would they be replicas? She wasn’t Picasso or da Vinci.
When helping my grandpa clean out his house my mum and I found artwork he ex had given her about 40years ago. It was really good so she contacted an old friend who knew him to give it back. Destroying something someone spent hours on, just because you’re insecure is pathetic. Massive red flag to me.
My brother has 7 rules his “woman” has to abide by. 😒🤦♀️
I am only okay with destroying stuff from a past relationship ONLY IF the person who it belongs to CONSENTS to the destruction.
But at timestamp 4:30 it proves that what she did was 100% about her insecurities. I mean listing all those rules as a married couple??? That is just insane.
Hope he broke up with her then, went on line destroying everything SHE ever gave him and throw all of it on the Dumpster.
Rude. Absolutely rude to destroy others property. Period
Thank you. I cannot believe a few of the comments on here. It is never ok to destroy or take other people's property.
These two quacks, especially the last one. I'm going to approach my husband with these rules😂
I had an extremely jealous bf.. he tore up a family photo that had my ex in it.. and put it on my pillow. Jealousy kills love.. He was jealous over every interaction I had with anyone.. it had to come to an end.
Priceless moment? Or if the paintings actually become worth money? At least she cares enough though right?
Maybe he was going to store them somewhere else or sell them. She's looking real insecure and jealous over paint
We don't know how long ago he got those and why was he hiding them in his trunk?
She certainly went batsh@t...but you have to wonder how much backstory is there.
The guy should be seen she was cuckoo in the last 4 years
My artistic side is crying at the destroyed paintings. she is such an insecure person