Jax - Victoria’s Secret [Official Audio]

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  • Опубликовано: 28 июн 2022
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    Lyrics:
    God I wish somebody would told me when I was younger
    That all bodies aren’t the same
    Photoshop, itty bitty models on magazine covers
    Told me I was overweight
    I stopped eating what a bummer
    Can’t have carbs and a hot girl summer
    If I could go back and tell myself when I was younger
    I’d say, psst
    I know Victoria’s Secret
    Girl you wouldn’t believe
    She’s an old man who lives in Ohio
    Making money off of girls like me
    Cashing in on body issues
    Selling skin and bones with big boobs
    I know Victoria’s Secret
    She was made up by a dude
    I wish somebody would have told me that thighs of thunder
    Meant normal human thighs
    The fucking pressure I was under
    To lose my appetite
    And fight the cellulite
    With Hunger Games like every night
    If I could go back and tell myself when I was younger
    I’d say psst-
    I know Victoria’s Secret
    Girl you wouldn’t believe
    She’s an old man who lives in Ohio
    Making money off of girls like me
    Cashing in on body issues
    Selling skin and bones with big boobs
    I know Victoria’s Secret
    She was made up by a dude
    I know Victoria’s Secret…
    She was never made for me and you
    Raised in New Jersey by way of New York, Jax got her start by performing a wide variety of genres and in bands growing up. At the age of 18, she developed cancer above her vocal cords, which returned following a couple months of remission right as she relocated to Los Angeles in pursuit of her music. Left unable to sing herself, Jax turned to songwriting for others and found industry success behind-the-scenes. As her ability to perform returned, Jax needed to pivot yet again when the COVID-19 pandemic struck. This time she turned to TikTok, posting a hilarious response to the pop gem “Stacy’s Mom” from “Stacy’s Mom’s Perspective” which exploded with nearly 9 million views in just a few months and follow-ups including “Update from Avril Lavigne & Sk8er Boi 18 years later.” She continued to go viral a dozen or more times over, having now amassed over 9.7 million followers on the platform and over 155 million “likes” to date. With a massive online audience under her belt, Jax began sharing her own original music in late 2020 to an overwhelmingly positive response - ultimately leading to her signing with Atlantic Records for her forthcoming debut full-length.
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Комментарии • 5 тыс.

  • @laurensmith7711
    @laurensmith7711 2 года назад +907

    My older sister was severely anorexic . She had to be hospitalized and it was so hard for me. To see my sister, my best friend, a ghost of herself. This truly does need to be talked about more!! Thank you

    • @emilyb7888
      @emilyb7888 2 года назад +12

      Did she recover

    • @_Lyla_893
      @_Lyla_893 2 года назад +8

      Is she good now???

    • @sabshoneybee
      @sabshoneybee 2 года назад +12

      I truly hope she gets better soon!

    • @laurensmith7711
      @laurensmith7711 2 года назад +38

      My sister did recover. Although she hasn’t never been the same. Her smile is only half there. I miss the old her. But I bet she wishes the old her even more.

    • @Alice-gk4ke
      @Alice-gk4ke 2 года назад +6

      @@laurensmith7711 i feel so bad for you but look on the other side she was struggling a lot and ofc she wont be the same but i am sure she will be the sister you always had really soon!

  • @JoshuaJinxed
    @JoshuaJinxed Год назад +1399

    As a man that struggled with anorexia in his late teens and then turned to drugs to maintain a skinny physique this song absolutely slaps. Obviously Victoria wasn’t my model, but it’s nice to hear the similarities. 🥰

    • @moonieistired7263
      @moonieistired7263 Год назад +78

      I’m sorry you had to go through that dude, I really hope you’re doing better now
      You’re really strong you know, that stuff really isn’t easy to deal with, especially when it’s considered a “woman’s” issue

    • @tabithalong6487
      @tabithalong6487 Год назад +3

      @@moonieistired7263 p

    • @wannabedrewafualo
      @wannabedrewafualo Год назад +55

      It’s so great to hear more men and boys coming forward with their stories! You guys should never be invalidated for being a dude, ever. Keep going strong!

    • @starjones1
      @starjones1 Год назад +37

      People don't talk enough about men having anorexia too.

    • @Erickakitt
      @Erickakitt Год назад +16

      I’m so so sorry you had to go through that. God bless you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😭

  • @jasonsuwyn
    @jasonsuwyn Год назад +248

    I'm a father of three young girls, this song will be a theme song for many years to come.

    • @AnimationsWithaTwist
      @AnimationsWithaTwist 10 месяцев назад +5

      Me @ 28 singing loud to this. And almost crying too

    • @Sookiee-dl7ci
      @Sookiee-dl7ci 6 месяцев назад +6

      You are great💗💗💗💗

    • @richardponton4539
      @richardponton4539 5 месяцев назад +3

      Don’t forget guys catch it too

    • @HellsFurby
      @HellsFurby 4 месяца назад +2

      It makes me so happy to see a comment like this cause I wish back when I was younger we had something like this and not just bad 2000s fashion 😅

    • @bsfswher.
      @bsfswher. 25 дней назад

      you sound like a great father 🩷

  • @Alina-fox
    @Alina-fox 9 дней назад +5

    Couple elementary kids on my bus sing this song everyday. It's so adorable

  • @velvetburn
    @velvetburn 2 года назад +691

    I’m obsessed with this song. I listened to the TikTok clip and the live version on repeat for days, counting down until this was full version was released. I haven’t done that in over 15 years. Jax is so talented and I’m looking forward to seeing where her talent takes her! ❤️✨

    • @megann.mcd13
      @megann.mcd13 2 года назад +6

      omg same i have been listing to an hour video of this song on repeat for weeksssssss

    • @brandeevardinakis2740
      @brandeevardinakis2740 2 года назад +1

      Ur

    • @brandeevardinakis2740
      @brandeevardinakis2740 2 года назад +1

      Right

    • @durian.electra
      @durian.electra 2 года назад +1

      There is a live version?

    • @localsimp7579
      @localsimp7579 2 года назад

      @@durian.electra Yes she went live once :) I think this is the live one they meant ruclips.net/video/YWX45no7_tA/видео.html

  • @jamie8999
    @jamie8999 2 года назад +2871

    I’ve worked at VS for 5 years now. The amount of customers that I’ve comforted while they’ve cried in the fitting rooms because they “hate their bodies” is absolutely heart breaking. I’ve seen every body type in those fitting rooms, not a single one is “perfect” and that’s how it should be! Perfect isn’t real. Even the ones who have had surgeries still aren’t even 100% perfect. No one has two breast that are the exact same size, I always tell my customers i have one that’s a DD & one that’s a DDD to make them realize someone else has this too. Almost everyone deals with the extra skin that sometimes hangs over the band, if it’s a drastic amount hanging over then you’re probably just in the wrong band size, but it’s not possible to not really have that happen at all. People think they’re the only ones that deal with this but it’s actually rare for them not to have these things.
    People underestimate my job a lot but 90% of women are in the wrong bra size because if you think about it, no one really teaches us exactly how a bra should look. One bra isn’t gonna fit every body shape. That’s why there’s so many different cuts and styles. Unfortunately there are some VS stores that have shitty rude associates that put others down or don’t know what body/breast shape will work best with what bra, but I refuse to ever let myself be one of those, & I will forever call out an associate if I catch them being rude. There really isn’t anything more satisfying than seeing someone grow so much more confident once we figure out their true size, or getting a little girl in her first bra, or getting someone who just transitioned from male to female in their first bra!
    Hopefully the company will continue to get larger band sizes & underwear. They’re slowly working their way up with having XXL clothing & panties in PINK & giving us actual models and mannequins that look like normal bodies, but they need to move faster & continue to be better not just stop where they’re at right now
    HOW YOUR BRA SHOULD FIT:
    • your breast tissue should never be overflowing out of your bra cups! Lots of people think spilling out is “push up” but it’s not. You’re just the wrong cup size. You will get more lift being in a push up and being in the correct size!
    • you should never have a bunch of space and be gapping in your cups either! Like I said above, everyone has two different breast sizes, some might be more drastic than others, when this is the case, you’re gonna want to cater to your bigger breast!
    Example: My left boob is a DDD & my right is a DD so I cater to my left boob & wear a 32DDD because you’d rather gap in the smaller one than wear a DD & spill over in your bigger one. Spilling will show through shirts! So in this case, gapping is okay! But if you have space in BOTH cups, that means the cup size you’re wearing is just too big. (Or sometimes if your bra is super old and stretched, it will gap because it’s loose everywhere)
    • Always hook your bra on the LOOSEST hook. Most people go straight to the tightest but you actually want to be on the loosest because as your bra stretches over time, THATS when you start tightening it to make it feel new again. Once you’re on the tightest hook & it’s stretched and you have no where else to go, it’s time for a new bra.
    • measuring is just an estimate, it mainly gives us a place to start. Sometimes certain body shapes can throw off a measurement, or if you’re wearing something with excessive padding or something that’s compressing like a sports bra, so when you get measured, TRY YOUR BRA ON & look for these things! (& for the fitting room girls sake, please just try one bra first to double check your size & thennn go get a bunch of bras once you’ve confirmed it)
    • adjust your straps to be comfortable! If they’re too tight, it could make the cups tight which will make you overflow & lead you to think you’re in the wrong cup size, when really, all you have to do is loosing the straps on your shoulders.
    Same goes for them being too loose, it can cause gapping, so adjust them to fit perfectly!
    • if you can barely fit 3 fingers between your back & the band of the bra going outward (I hope that makes sense) then the band is too small!
    If you can fit 3 fingers perfectly then it’s a good band size!
    If you can fit a whole 5 fingers back there, OR if you’re hooking it on the tightest hook then your band is too loose!
    This is getting super long so if you guys have specific bra fit issues that you have questions about, leave a comment below and I’ll be more than happy to recommend what types of bra you should go for or try to explain why you’re having an issue! (Ex: spilling from the sides, top, or bottom cleavage area of the bra. Gapping from the top of the bra but your breast fit perfect at the bottom & still fill out the bottom of the bra, the center gore (in between part of each cup) doesn’t lay flat on your chest like it should, etc)
    ~ Edit: All of these comments have made me so happy! 😭 sometimes when I type things I just end up deleting it cause I figure no one cares or will resonate with it, but I'm so glad I posted my thoughts and feelings on this 🥺
    Thank you everyone who has expressed their own personal journeys below & who will possibly continue to comment below this! Our words, actions & personal experiences can make more of an impact than we realize! Keep fighting for what’s right ❤️

    • @WillSolace27
      @WillSolace27 Год назад +99

      you, are an amazing person

    • @lubnamanaf1877
      @lubnamanaf1877 Год назад +76

      Thank you for doing what you are doing❤️

    • @steveheimlerfanpage
      @steveheimlerfanpage Год назад +58

      You’re such a great person

    • @gigi3427
      @gigi3427 Год назад +50

      That’s so sweet of you to comfort them so your an amazing person for that

    • @lulapark3000
      @lulapark3000 Год назад +23

      You are awesome

  • @marlamumgaard677
    @marlamumgaard677 Год назад +37

    Every time I get a Victoria's Secret ad in my feed, I quote a few JAX lyrics. My favorite is "Can't have carbs and a Hot Girl Summer!" (Attributed to JAX of course.)

  • @TALBO17GLAYaddict
    @TALBO17GLAYaddict 2 месяца назад +13

    日本でも歌詞も含めて色んな人が聴くべき名曲。

  • @jemmmmyeah
    @jemmmmyeah 2 года назад +535

    So ready for this to blow up. It's so needed. My sister suffered so badly from anorexia, thankfully she is okay now but fuck, it nearly killed her. Jax, you're a hero for putting this out there. I hope it saves kids from thinking badly about themselves. X

    • @iHadSomethingForThis
      @iHadSomethingForThis 2 года назад +9

      This and indian summer made me have hope on social media again lol

    • @ilikecheesecake5682
      @ilikecheesecake5682 2 года назад +3

      @@iHadSomethingForThis fuck yeah indian summer is so good-

    • @chickyboodiva
      @chickyboodiva Год назад +4

      It was on the Top 40 countdown this morning. I was so excited.

    • @Rosemary-gc7be
      @Rosemary-gc7be Год назад +2

      I did help me its like my fears go away when i listen to this song😩😌

    • @immaseahorse24
      @immaseahorse24 Год назад +1

      Not to mention the fact that Les Wexner funded predator Jeffrey Epstein.

  • @thealeons3179
    @thealeons3179 2 года назад +3945

    She's a phenomenal songwriter. She puts so much heart into her vocal melodies. We are witnessing the self making of a superstar.

    • @ekaterinaquinn8768
      @ekaterinaquinn8768 2 года назад +22

      I 💯 agree! She will take a spot of Lady Gaga or Ava Max! She is huge!

    • @bobhightower9381
      @bobhightower9381 2 года назад +10

      I believe it!

    • @fortwaynefamily
      @fortwaynefamily 2 года назад +12

      I really hope so. Great stuff from a REAL person.

    • @snarkybunni
      @snarkybunni Год назад +8

      ABSOLUTELY i cannot wait for that but i'll cherish the wholesome small content for now!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @chuyistheshiz6811
      @chuyistheshiz6811 Год назад

      Nah she sucks lol.

  • @racheldilts7690
    @racheldilts7690 Год назад +103

    THANK YOU for making this song. I was in love from the first time I heard it rocking out, then realized my hands were shaking and I was crying. The hurt with this stuff goes so so deep. Thank you.

    • @aroccoification
      @aroccoification Год назад

      What?... you choosing to fixate on skeleton people modeling at a sex shop is your own fault. Why is that something you'd concern yourself with in the first place?

  • @ChiefDiplomat1
    @ChiefDiplomat1 Год назад +105

    At 0:30 Im starting to feel the Avril Lavigne punk rock vibe. This is very very brilliant song. I wish early 2000's come back.

    • @brandonblount87
      @brandonblount87 Год назад

      Yes!

    • @GG-124k
      @GG-124k Год назад

      Real

    • @crystaladams9409
      @crystaladams9409 Год назад

      yes sir lol

    • @taylorhillard4868
      @taylorhillard4868 Год назад

      I know you meant the style of music, but for a moment I thought you were talking about the early 2000s beauty standards that the song took issue with, lol

  • @elle1328
    @elle1328 2 года назад +620

    I worked for Victoria's Secret for years. The body issues that are perpetrated by the media don't just stop at skin and bones. The women that would come in and end up in tears because despite the massive amount of plastic surgery they have had, they still couldn't make themselves look like the models were just as devastating.
    This is a song for all women. Absolutely brilliant. 💗💗💗

  • @AaryaGhuge
    @AaryaGhuge 2 года назад +524

    I am sooooo happy that this song exists, every 10-14 year old needs to listen to this so we have a generation of women who love their bodies and know that girls on magazines are not real and who won’t give a fuck about beauty standards

    • @robloxpiggy3938
      @robloxpiggy3938 2 года назад +11

      I'm 11

    • @vidhipatel4921
      @vidhipatel4921 2 года назад +6

      Lol I’m 10

    • @savannahford-myers170
      @savannahford-myers170 2 года назад +6

      I just turned 15 and this song is such an inspiration for me

    • @trevorleder
      @trevorleder 2 года назад +12

      I'm introducing this to my 9 year old sister when I see her next! She was insecure about her body a little while back because kids at her school had called her fat. I was heartbroken the day she came home from school crying and telling me everything the kids called her and told her. She is better now, this was a year or two back, but she is still struggling with her body image. I will always help people love their own bodies for who they are and make sure they stay happy and healthy, no matter the body type or size, and others should as well. 😊

    • @ezzyr9959
      @ezzyr9959 2 года назад +4

      @Malyssa Kelly same but I will be 12 in October

  • @leonastout9490
    @leonastout9490 Год назад +384

    We needed this 20 years ago. This is everything to me. My mom would be proud of this if she was still with us

    • @spaaggetii
      @spaaggetii Год назад +10

      Bless you and I hope you are ok!

    • @GreenGenerationTV
      @GreenGenerationTV Год назад

      Women are so dumb and agreeable, that they let some old jew tell them how they should feel about their looks. Imagine if guys were dumb enough to get psy pp’d into believing we needed to look Jersey Shore dudes. Also, as if regular guys want a piece of wood with fake tits. Get a grip man.

    • @RealYoGemStar
      @RealYoGemStar Год назад +7

      She is with you, she is watching over you.

    • @karimawestlion12
      @karimawestlion12 Год назад +3

      I'm so sorry😔but she's proud of you.🥹

    • @no.name81
      @no.name81 Год назад

      I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️

  • @hospitalqueen4047
    @hospitalqueen4047 10 месяцев назад +8

    I have an eating disorder and i struggle with restrictive eating and wont eat until late in the afternoon even though im hungry. I also have the same body image problems you have. This song means so much to someone like me!!

  • @theyluvsyah
    @theyluvsyah 2 года назад +1375

    I'm crying this is so important for everyone who is struggling with body issues. Thank you so much Jax this song is just what me and so many other people needed

  • @yours_jay
    @yours_jay 2 года назад +420

    Jax is such a queen, she's got this generation, everyone needs to listen to her songs!!!

    • @samsungdog4169
      @samsungdog4169 Год назад

      Because she’s shit and I’m showing my friend how bad this shit is nigger

    • @domi07k
      @domi07k Год назад +1

      Yeah bro

    • @lindagray936
      @lindagray936 Год назад

      Cbccgbvhxjjthzftcgds. . Chhf😂

    • @aroccoification
      @aroccoification Год назад

      She looks and dresses like a Victoria secret model... she's a hypocrite praying on people with body issues to make money. She's a bad person

  • @hunterthevampire1313
    @hunterthevampire1313 10 месяцев назад +75

    I just walked past a Victoria’s Secret and I played this song as loud as I could. To everyone out there who doesn’t think they’re perfect; YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL/HANDSOME AND YOU ARE PERFECT XXXXX

    • @AnimationsWithaTwist
      @AnimationsWithaTwist 10 месяцев назад +4

      Thanks I needed that. 😊

    • @hunterthevampire1313
      @hunterthevampire1313 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@AnimationsWithaTwist you are perfect. You’re not like everyone else and I think that is the most beautiful thing a person can be 🩵

    • @chops1681
      @chops1681 9 месяцев назад +2

      GREAT JOB

    • @soggyeggos5093
      @soggyeggos5093 4 месяца назад +1

      I needed this

  • @defnotgigi
    @defnotgigi Год назад +14

    I’m 12 and this song means a lot. When I tend to eat even an appetizer for example, I get bloated in the stomach. I see beautiful girls my age online, magazines, Instagram. You made me feel so much better about myself. Now I love myself. Thank you.

  • @Rickytan77
    @Rickytan77 2 года назад +385

    Songs like this give me hope that if I have a future daughter she will have great role models and songs to jam out to!! You rock Jax!!!

  • @kindereggsaresupreme5783
    @kindereggsaresupreme5783 2 года назад +783

    This is absolutely brilliant. I’ve been singing this song EVERYWHERE

  • @stephenp4285
    @stephenp4285 Год назад +20

    Older male here: Just think about how many lives JAX has saved with this song. Keep it up and don't change (unless it's for the better).

  • @donnaokoniewski3761
    @donnaokoniewski3761 Год назад +46

    Jax, if you only could comprehend what your song has and will do for girls/women and men all over the world. You did something so positive for the world in which we all live! Thank you from the depths of my soul. Wishing you much success and many, many blessings. xo

  • @CupaJoe
    @CupaJoe 2 года назад +773

    Crazy we went to high school together. Time sure flies but I’m glad to see you’re living out your dream as you always deserved ! Keep at it Jax ❤️🙌

    • @peachy.lilsss
      @peachy.lilsss 2 года назад +33

      bro ur lucky you went to highschool w her

    • @thespicychicken7774
      @thespicychicken7774 2 года назад +16

      Dang that’s sick

    • @youngsd22SF
      @youngsd22SF 2 года назад +15

      Now you wishing you would have paid the band nerd some attention

    • @aa-sf1oc
      @aa-sf1oc Год назад +60

      @@youngsd22SF ???? Did the comment imply anywhere that they were deliberately ignoring Jax in high school?
      They're just congratulating Jax, no need to be negative :)

    • @youngsd22SF
      @youngsd22SF Год назад +7

      @@aa-sf1oc Nope. Im just a 30 year old who ignored girls because I was trying to fit in and I see where those "nerds" are now days I kick myself lol.

  • @Jill_Fried
    @Jill_Fried 2 года назад +220

    Dude this helped me so much you don’t even know, thank you for this Jax. Not only does it sound great, but the meaning and words behind it is immaculate. And just knowing that you wrote this song in the first place to help Chelsea realize she is beautiful no matter what just melted my heart. You’re amazing Jax, and frankly, you make me wish I still had a babysitter.
    😂❤️

    • @katherine52525
      @katherine52525 2 года назад +4

      chelsea is so lucky to have her!!

    • @youngsd22SF
      @youngsd22SF 2 года назад +2

      You're a beautiful human... never forget that

  • @AmandaMarieClark
    @AmandaMarieClark Год назад +52

    This is so important. I was skinny but had scoliosis and I struggled with anorexia to be an XS at Victoria’s Secret and I ended up getting a bleeding ulcer and had to have 2 blood transfusions when I was 25. Thank you for this song ❤

  • @lanternwales6429
    @lanternwales6429 2 года назад +85

    I'm so glad she released the full song. I knew the first time I heard the limited version that this song was going to be both inspiring and empowering. AND IT IS. Girls shouldn't be pressured to fit a certain body type and that's exactly what our society is promoting with models that look like barbie dolls. I hope to see a change one day. THANKS A TON JAX!!!

    • @thatuniiscrazy5761
      @thatuniiscrazy5761 2 года назад +1

      *Chelsea

    • @rosadooblivioni3165
      @rosadooblivioni3165 2 года назад +1

      Hey, I know you're trying to be positive, and it's an amazing point, but as someone who naturally "Looks like a barbie doll" and grew out of a 28o bra at twelve? It can be really harmful to see comments like this. I didn't ask to be this way, and walking down the street I shouldn't have ever been told I was setting unrealistic body expectations for girls by existing. And if girls did get plastic surgery, and they wanted it? Good for them. I'm so sorry for the way you guys feel about my body type, but we honestly never asked for it. We didn't wake up one day and decide we wanted to make people feel bad, and you didn't want to do that to us either. It's really not our fault society decided to sexualize us. If you have any questions I could answer I'd be happy to do that.
      Thank you, have a wonderful day/night!

    • @davidfleet208
      @davidfleet208 Год назад +1

      @@rosadooblivioni3165 The problem is that the media, marketing and society promote a certain body type as ideal. No is blaming you. or rather no one should blame you. we should all feel good about ourselves.

    • @rosadooblivioni3165
      @rosadooblivioni3165 Год назад

      @@davidfleet208 That's what I'm saying. Unfortunately, they do

    • @islixxn
      @islixxn Год назад

      eh you should def not be overweight tho

  • @MollytheHufflepuff
    @MollytheHufflepuff 2 года назад +283

    As a girl growing up in a world where appearance is everything, I think this song is perfect in every way. It caught actual, real life issues while keeping an upbeat, happy tune. Everyone should hear this song. I absolutely love it!! Well done!!! 😊❤️

  • @erintrimcreations
    @erintrimcreations 8 месяцев назад +19

    ALL BODIES R BEAUTIFULLLLL

    • @Huobaojiqi
      @Huobaojiqi 5 месяцев назад +1

      Nikocado Avocado and Lizzo: am I a joke to you??!!!💀

    • @Flutterpup
      @Flutterpup 3 месяца назад

      @@Huobaojiqiha..

  • @Quarantina237
    @Quarantina237 Год назад +13

    I feel like all of womanhood is giving a sigh of relief. We needed this. We needed Jax and everything she is bringing to the music space

  • @PirateOfTheNorth
    @PirateOfTheNorth Год назад +397

    I love the photoshop exaggeration and the song of course. I’m not really the target demographic since I’m a dude but I wish more girls would see this. So many are beautiful and think they’re ugly. Girls, true beauty is on the inside. Love yourself ❤️

    • @hillarymj2426
      @hillarymj2426 Год назад +16

      You are so amazing ❤️ need more people like you

    • @juliejanesmith57
      @juliejanesmith57 Год назад +22

      I used to think guys who thought like this were so rare they may as well be mythical. Then I married one. I became disabled suddenly shortly after our wedding, and I don’t think a marriage to any other type of man would have survived. He loved me- despite me becoming a burden- physically and financially. We had no kids, never wanted them, he is a CATCH- tall, broad shouldered, successful, he could have anyone. He also has this innate confidence, just in his bones. Not a drop of arrogance, just easy confidence. I’m almost 40 now, we have a very comfortable life, and I’ve learned that only confident men who actually have qualities in THEMSELVES to be proud of can think like this. They don’t need others to want what they have for them to value it, they are confident in their opinions. They don’t need to judge- especially negatively- other choices or looks or spouses to feel good about their own. THEY decide what and who is valuable to them on their own terms. That’s my husband, and I’m so grateful. If you aren’t married one day a lucky doesn’t know what’s coming her way. Please always tell her she’s beautiful, but even if something happens and she clearly isn’t the picture of beauty most of the world expects, just use my husband’s line “I love you because you’re my girl, I picked you and I don’t regret it.”being reminded that we were chosen, that you don’t feel “stuck” with us, that you didn’t “settle” but were as excited to marry us as we were to marry you, is so important.

    • @ayishaks6510
      @ayishaks6510 Год назад +10

      Some men have eating disorders.

    • @annabees
      @annabees Год назад +7

      You can be a dude and have eating disorders. You keep in mind to take care of yourself too: all humans are beautiful 🥰 And I agree, this songs hasn't blown up enough yet even if it's everywhere. We need to make sure it stays everywhere for the next years until we get another song as good as this one to curse the thiness industry!

    • @shastastorm9319
      @shastastorm9319 Год назад

      🥹🥺🥺🥺

  • @rinroseway1167
    @rinroseway1167 2 года назад +91

    Jax is really inspirational and this genre really suits her voice

  • @SMD24
    @SMD24 Год назад +5

    I don't really listen to a lot of pop singers but Jax is interesting and I heard her music on the radio. Definitely a good mix of strong pop and rock.

  • @ChaoticNightmares1
    @ChaoticNightmares1 6 месяцев назад +2

    Great inspirational song this should be more up there than it is right now

  • @etaylor8028
    @etaylor8028 Год назад +495

    “I wish that someone told me that thighs of thunder, meant normal human thighs” as someone who was told by her own mother that I had “thunder thighs”, which gave me a complex for a decade, this is awesome!!!

    • @jeannedz29
      @jeannedz29 Год назад +41

      English is not my mother tongue and I was flabbergasted when I learned that having thunder thighs was a pejorative term because the literal meaning of the idiom sounds so powerful ! BEHOLD MY THIGHS OF THUNDER !

    • @aryamanbhadauria1584
      @aryamanbhadauria1584 Год назад +4

      What does it mean to have thunder thighs?

    • @melissaarmenta4456
      @melissaarmenta4456 Год назад +1

      Same!

    • @thatjeff7550
      @thatjeff7550 Год назад +5

      @@jeannedz29 I was going to post to OP but I'll post to you instead.
      There is a webcartoon called RWBY which features a character named Nora. In one of the skits, someone brings up Nora having "Thunder Thighs" to which she replies, "Damn straight! And you know how I got my thighs of thunder? BY DOING THREE HUNDRED SQUATS EVERY DAY!!!" and proceeds to force her team to join her so that they ALSO will have thighs of thunder. :D
      BTW, Nora is loosely based on Thor. She has a hammer and she can charge up and throw lightning. Nora is best girl!

    • @laylaluann9541
      @laylaluann9541 Год назад +5

      It depends how big the thigh is. It's definitely not normal to have one thigh that's wide enough to have its own seat on the bus.

  • @tv.bomiom
    @tv.bomiom 2 года назад +140

    멜로디가 좋은곡은 많고, 리듬이 신나는 곡도 많고, 아름다운 가사도 많지만 신선한 주제와 공감, 통쾌함까지 갖춘곡은 흔하지 않은데 이 모든걸 해낸 최고의 곡입니다👍👍👍👍👍

  • @TaterFarmer
    @TaterFarmer Год назад +47

    I love the rock vibe. The metal version is great too.

  • @Icy_Shadow
    @Icy_Shadow 8 дней назад +3

    At my school everyone calls me fat I am glad I heard this song because this song makes me feel better.

  • @chasingarrows86
    @chasingarrows86 2 года назад +81

    I’m completely obsessed with this song!! I’ve been singing it to my girls and we all love it!! Thank you for making such an amazing song!!

  • @Celo
    @Celo Год назад +290

    This lyrics are life! And this early '00 pop rock is just like a magical throwback of a song I needed in that time, I'm vibing so much with my teenage self, thank you. ♡

    • @jerannamoe5079
      @jerannamoe5079 Год назад +4

      I was hoping someone noticed the early 2000 throwback style.

    • @LemonyDS
      @LemonyDS Год назад

      O

    • @LemonyDS
      @LemonyDS Год назад

      Victoria's secret

  • @mcdermottmcdermott1193
    @mcdermottmcdermott1193 Год назад +23

    This song gets stuck in my head love it

  • @LockeRobsta
    @LockeRobsta Год назад +2

    Damn girl, It's great to hear this genre of music again! I feel like I've gotta go to school tomorrow.

  • @btsfan4995
    @btsfan4995 2 года назад +272

    I love this song 🎵

  • @dirfrops
    @dirfrops 2 года назад +126

    This song is so catchy. I can’t get it out of my head lol.

    • @geekisameek7233
      @geekisameek7233 2 года назад +1

      Same lol

    • @kaurvibes2003
      @kaurvibes2003 2 года назад +3

      @@geekisameek7233 I definitely love this song, stuck in my head 24/7, also, I’m also Sikh! Sorry, it’s just really shocking if I find someone same culture as me on the internet!

    • @geekisameek7233
      @geekisameek7233 2 года назад

      @@kaurvibes2003 hi!!!!!! how are you !!!!

    • @kaurvibes2003
      @kaurvibes2003 2 года назад

      @@geekisameek7233 hiii! I’m good, you? :D

    • @ryleetaylor8018
      @ryleetaylor8018 2 года назад

      same!!

  • @Celebrityvids-wg5eb
    @Celebrityvids-wg5eb 3 месяца назад +2

    She is so inspirational to all the younger generation

  • @sophieross5874
    @sophieross5874 Год назад +80

    Just heard this and it blew me away. What an anthem. Thank you Jax ❤️❤️❤️

  • @madelinegoodreau2969
    @madelinegoodreau2969 2 года назад +174

    I love this. Everyone needs messages like this. Keep making more. Your amazing

    • @jonlamontagne
      @jonlamontagne 2 года назад

      The thing is men love all women! Boys are the problem as being one at a time I can see how females can feel the pressure now. Boys are just too scared to say their own thoughts and need to go with the crowd. Just as this song is speaking to how females feel...

  • @kalliemoreland1370
    @kalliemoreland1370 2 года назад +70

    This song makes me feel so much better about myself, people call me to flat for my age! So thank you so much Jax, you make me feel so much confident!! ❤️❤️

  • @WithGlo
    @WithGlo Год назад +13

    For the first time in years I am able to relate to a song!! When i was a teen , I felt the same way. Took me years to love myself.

  • @sandrajohnson9998
    @sandrajohnson9998 Год назад +2

    I developed Ed at 12 and I’ve always applied this song to my most active ED.
    This is the first time I’ve applied it to my unhealed self and I am sobbing

  • @benjaminfahning6093
    @benjaminfahning6093 2 года назад +65

    I love how RUclips is able to allow artists like Jax release songs like this that focuses on societal issues that big record labels would be unlikely to produce. Keep sharing your message Jax you have the power to change the world 🫶👍

  • @ghostface8223
    @ghostface8223 2 года назад +144

    I wanna walk into victorias secret. And BLAST this. Because just yes! Love this I cried. I needed this during the time I cheered. Thank you.

    • @maggiequinncloud
      @maggiequinncloud Год назад +11

      Welp I️ have now have plans for Monday.

    • @liasubs11
      @liasubs11 Год назад +3

      @@maggiequinncloud i know its a bit late but count me in ;D

    • @supernaturaloic
      @supernaturaloic Год назад +2

      @@liasubs11 we're three

    • @alandriawerner5270
      @alandriawerner5270 Год назад

      Same but you might get kicked out 😂

    • @Natalie_Pin5
      @Natalie_Pin5 Год назад

      @@alandriawerner5270 yea I think she’ll get kicked out but I also want to do it 😂 lol

  • @Malvin-ch8pp
    @Malvin-ch8pp 2 месяца назад +1

    I remember back then this was one of my favorite songs so whenever it was playing on the radio I would sing it till the end of the song

  • @shawnsmith1151
    @shawnsmith1151 Год назад +21

    I just heard this song over my car radio. Turned the volume way up. I love this song. 🎵🎶🎵

  • @riria1312
    @riria1312 2 года назад +26

    I wish women and girls put less pressure on themselves to be perfect. Jax is so inspiring, and has an incredible message for all of us. Thanks for sending this message. I LOVE THIS SONG. 🥰♥️💗

  • @Alexandra-ou7hv
    @Alexandra-ou7hv 2 года назад +65

    This song is like my life. It's so trueeeee everything she says. Nobody should judge u for your appearance, but the important thing is the personality. Hope everyone understood the message and the bulies will stop. Thx very much Jax! Ur a true idol!!!

    • @lisaguy3813
      @lisaguy3813 2 года назад +3

      At first I thought u said idiot I was like the heckkkk

    • @Alexandra-ou7hv
      @Alexandra-ou7hv 2 года назад

      Nah I would NEVER say thaaaat lol 😆

  • @angel_vii
    @angel_vii 4 дня назад

    Where it began 😂❤ I LOVE that you put Chels on the album. Brilliant!

  • @LauraJakubowski-df1ti
    @LauraJakubowski-df1ti Месяц назад +1

    I love how Jax reminds girls that that they can be themselves without having people judge them

  • @lumiinousity
    @lumiinousity 2 года назад +54

    I love how chaotic this song is and the fun but serious tone! It’s really inspiring :)

  • @morganmullins171
    @morganmullins171 2 года назад +34

    I’m so glad we get a longer version this song is a masterpiece

  • @lyde9272
    @lyde9272 8 месяцев назад +4

    This is an anthem

  • @Thatskatermetalgirl
    @Thatskatermetalgirl Год назад +9

    This song is precious. Even at my 44 years of age. Thank you for the needed message in this. 🫶🏻

  • @katarinapesic8647
    @katarinapesic8647 9 месяцев назад +2

    I heard the song a few times here and there, but I’m not following anything, not much into this type of music, nor tiktok stuff… but damn I wish we all had this song when we were younger! This was my first time playing it myself, listening closely to the lyrics and I can’t even believe all these emotions - I’m crying so much, oh who knows how much trauma I suppressed ! Wow!
    Thank you for sending such an important message!!!

  • @moodledoodle4861
    @moodledoodle4861 Год назад +11

    My mother made sure to pass down her ED like a family heirloom and I have to say nothing has hit me this way. I'm crying as much as I'm laughing and wishing for a time machine to gift this to 12 year old me. Thank you so much from someone who has needed this for decades.

  • @sadiehockenberry7186
    @sadiehockenberry7186 2 года назад +147

    Ive suffered with body image issues and eating problems for a while now and recently I've been really bad about eating. I listen to this song daily as a reminder that its not fair to myself to hurt my body just to try to change it for others. To anybody who reads this your perfect how you are❤

    • @keesmuch
      @keesmuch Год назад +5

      please know that despite your body image struggles you are in fact a brave person and deserves all the love

    • @islixxn
      @islixxn Год назад

      @@keesmuch do yall not know what bravery is

    • @sadiehockenberry7186
      @sadiehockenberry7186 Год назад +2

      @@islixxn it is bravery for not only myself but others. It is a battle fighting anything that has to do with mental health and to continue to fight it day after day that is brave because they could have easily given up but they didn't

    • @islixxn
      @islixxn Год назад

      @@sadiehockenberry7186 thats not what bravery.. you would need THE most loose definition of brave to fit that. suffering with body issues or speaking out about them is literally the NORM right now

    • @rafaelr1940
      @rafaelr1940 Год назад +1

      @@sadiehockenberry7186 you tell them gurl

  • @MsSerenaNox
    @MsSerenaNox Год назад +1

    YOU ARE AMAZING! And this song is EVERYTHING!!!❤❤❤

  • @suelake8601
    @suelake8601 Год назад +4

    Love this song! ♥️

  • @eduardomontellano8961
    @eduardomontellano8961 2 года назад +83

    I love the song!!! All your effort and love in this song is noticed! Good Job

  • @SketchingWithSarah
    @SketchingWithSarah 2 года назад +49

    Thank you for always having such raw and real messages in every one of your songs. True talent in story telling through music and a huge role model to many. Thank you for being you! 🖤

  • @ScoobyFans
    @ScoobyFans 2 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much for this song it’s really made me feel more proud of myself

  • @patriotsbasketball
    @patriotsbasketball Год назад +1

    My daughter has been getting bullied about her looks this song helped her so much.

  • @pieteresterhuizen6892
    @pieteresterhuizen6892 Год назад +94

    Been casually playing this all day for my girls to hear - they latched on! (Well after a broke out the dad moves) 😂 we having a junk evening tonight and celebrating our beauty. Xxx

    • @WillSolace27
      @WillSolace27 Год назад +1

      that sounds amazing! Wish I did this in my family. My mom and one of my older sisters ae plus-size, and my mom is always telling me what to not eat, and when to eat, it cuz she doesn't want me to be too. Meanwhile my other older sister keeps telling me to eat more because she thinks I'm too skinny.

    • @ktburger659
      @ktburger659 Год назад

      You’re a good dad 🥲

  • @sophiecatano8104
    @sophiecatano8104 2 года назад +43

    This is a song for many girls to listen to and feel better about themselves! Love you Jax.💝💝

  • @jasonjean8873
    @jasonjean8873 11 месяцев назад +2

    I caught it by accident, love the voice and listened to the writing. Hilarious!

  • @frogfab67
    @frogfab67 Год назад +3

    I love this song it actually helped my friend that was shamed for her body

  • @missdire
    @missdire 2 года назад +20

    I absolutely ADORE this song! Where was this 20+ years ago?? We needed this. Thank you! Now I'm going to go eat some cake.

  • @def.not_me789
    @def.not_me789 2 года назад +83

    Hi jax! You probably won’t see this but you are inspiring!

  • @Chloe-Dream25
    @Chloe-Dream25 11 дней назад +3

    I love this song so much

  • @kellywilson9801
    @kellywilson9801 4 месяца назад +1

    I could never sing like this woman girl she is. The best he is a bomb man if you wanna friend this is your girl❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @SimplyCheryl
    @SimplyCheryl 2 года назад +92

    Yay a full version. When my daughter is older I’m showing her this

  • @joygillum5948
    @joygillum5948 Год назад +48

    The world needed a song like this! As a mother of 5 very differently built daughters, and growing up in the 90s myself.... This is what I need myself and my daughter's to know! Thank you for being awesome!

  • @Number-xf2cv
    @Number-xf2cv Год назад +2

    Thank you Jax!! That’s all I have to say your song is inspiring so many young women (including my 13 year old self) this song is literally my moto!! Every time you pop up on the radio it sends the screen an alert (and I rock out every time) was inspired to write my 8th grade argumentative essay on why magazines shouldn’t be allowed to photoshop models… I guess you could say this impacted my life… and that’s just one person of a whole lot whose heart you touched with this song!!

  • @mahinaah
    @mahinaah 9 месяцев назад +2

    Well for someone that works for victorias secret, the company has made a lot of changes and embraces all shapes and sizes, NOW!! Yes it took a lot of years coming, but all sizes are beautiful!!!

  • @summer_raincloud
    @summer_raincloud 2 года назад +38

    YASSSSS LESGOOOO IV EBEEN SINGING THIS NONSTOP FOR THE LAST THREE WEEKS LOL

  • @fairy_gvts
    @fairy_gvts Год назад +82

    This song gives me chills. As someone socialized as a woman this song is so so important for everyone out there to hear.

  • @joellucasdadjoel3295
    @joellucasdadjoel3295 Год назад +1

    This song is fun as hell... Nice vocal n good music... Keep it up 👍👍👍✌️✌️☮️

  • @hermionegranger6127
    @hermionegranger6127 Год назад +3

    I wish this existed 3 years ago when i was 9 and needed this to most

  • @LylahMarie
    @LylahMarie 2 года назад +16

    I have had horrible depression and body issues the past years. But this is exactly what I have had to hear since I was 10. Thank you.

  • @MarvelPotterNerd
    @MarvelPotterNerd 2 года назад +35

    I'm so glad she released the full version, I love this song so much!

  • @monicastack4006
    @monicastack4006 Год назад

    I love this song. I am actually overweight, and this makes feel so inspired. You are so thoughtful and aware of all the overweight girls out there. Love you Jax.😊

  • @kelseylivingston6651
    @kelseylivingston6651 Год назад +2

    Thanks for making this song now I listen all the time

  • @thesquadfan9253
    @thesquadfan9253 2 года назад +25

    OMG!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!! I LOVEEEEE THIS SONG! LOVE YOU JAX!!! - Ima add this to all my playlist on Spotify

  • @edentejada6997
    @edentejada6997 2 года назад +53

    I love this song

  • @collinshardyproust
    @collinshardyproust Год назад +1

    This song writer is a genius! Love it!

  • @amberfisher1939
    @amberfisher1939 Год назад +7

    Omg! This song is like literally my ANTHEM! It plays over and over in my head like alllll the time! It’s sooo freaking true! I wish more people understood! Especially guys cuz their ideal is totally different. It’s frustrating sometimes but I’m so thankful someone put it perfectly finally

  • @louismyhome28_29
    @louismyhome28_29 2 года назад +13

    I LOVE THIS SONG. I really needed to hear this being a teenager and suffering with anorexia. I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for making this song.

  • @user-yi7kb4zr5g
    @user-yi7kb4zr5g 2 года назад +11

    I love the message of the song. To all my girls, body fat, hair, big thighs, and all that stuff is normal. Don't be insecure about that, be yourself :))

  • @zylenteyez2820
    @zylenteyez2820 7 месяцев назад +1

    Why do I love this song so much ?

  • @buttercupsmith8451
    @buttercupsmith8451 Год назад +1

    I can’t stop listening to it!!!