Deep down Amber hates herself and sees Leah as her younger self. Shes projecting onto her. Gary and Kristina need to quit trying to encourage a relationship with her. Kristina has the patience of a saint, because I would’ve lost my mind if someone called my daughter a dick.
Exactly and thank goodness for Christina. She has her mannerisms and she talks just like her. Imagine if Leah was forced to be around Amber who is a narcissist. I’m just so happy that Gary took control of the situation. Amber only cares for herself a her boyfriends
That comment was so out of line. Amber really doesn’t get how she makes everything about herself. Leah’s going to need her now because she’s about to get really crazy? Who would expect that? Someone who’s very self centered.
I feel bad for Leah . Honestly Gary should have walked out of that crazy dinner especially after amber was verbally abusing Leah . Quit making excuses for amber
It’s ambers “mental health” yeah okay she’s just a self centered narcissist. You let your daughter down her whole life your at her birthday dinner don’t bring up anything about yourself unless she asks ! Like shut up no one cares about your new man.
Amber was a hour late to her own daughters birthday dinner , then she turned the whole thing about herself!! . It was Leah’s birthday and the whole night should’ve only be about leah. No gives a damn about Amber or the latest gold digger she’s dating.
@@tinad.2219 I usually give Amber the benefit of the doubt because she has a mental illness and she clearly loves Leah. However, this is absolutely dispicable!! .
@@karleighrock593 I was rooting for her until she put her hands on Andrew while he was holding their son. Any bit of hope I had for her went out the window. Those poor kids.
Yeah, she definitely should be off the show. It should be about real mothers not people living off of the show. Her ass is so lazy. She couldn’t even pack her own clothes when she was moving.
I would stop trying to incorporate her in family events. She doesn’t even care to curse around the younger child. Leah is 15 so if she wants to communicate with her - let it be her decision. Gary should give it up already. Amber is a bird and lost cause
I agree ☝️ Leah was 12/13 and done with Her mom making everything about her back then, unfortunately Her Dad pushed them to have a relationship and I understand that he wanted Leah to give her mom a chance and not regret cutting her off later. At this point though Leah is 15 and it needs to be Leahs decision if she wants a relationship with her mother or not. If she chooses to cut her mom off Gary and Kristina need to respect that. Amber is very immature and narcissistic and she needs to change if she wants to continue being a part of Leahs life In My Opinion.
Exactly at this point they are enabling her behaviour. She reanerds to loose everything hit the real bottom and might change tgat include mtv payment, her daughter, all or nothing help. She’s adult .
They need Amber to film & vice versa. The show is so obviously not in the best interest of Leah, though. Kids always get screwed on reality TV, sadly. Amber is full & non stop drama. She still acts like she's a teenager & uses her mental health issues as a way to not have to be accountable & only do the absolute bare minimum as a mother. I do have empathy for her & I had hoped that she would have changed & grown up by now, but frustratingly & annoyingly not.
Gary and Christina should shield Leah better from Amber. They should stop involve Amber unless she makes an active effort to have a healthy relationship with Lea
@@userNumber8372 She may not be in imminent danger but the damage will come out when Leah is an adult. Court order or not, she is traumatizing her daughter.She does not know how lucky and blessed she is to have a daughter in the first place.
She would NOT be allowed to ruin another birthday of Leah's if I were Gary. Leah is mature, smart,beautiful young lady and she handled that situation with a trait her mother DOES NOT HAVE....Grace.
@@jessicajamesspeaksyou really think Jenelle is worse? She has her issues but never physically or emotionally harmed anyone. Amber has physically harmed 2 of the men, one while holding their child in his arms. Even same with Farrah. At least they aren't harming people.
@@Sdx344That's not their problem. Amber has to work on herself. No one can do it for her and no one needs to be babysitting her to make sure she doesn't kill herself.
Leah has a mom, and her name is Kristina. Amber has never been that girl’s mother. Leah isn’t a little girl anymore and she is old enough to discern character. When you’re little, all you want is to have your parents around, even if they are terrible. But Leah honestly started to see through Amber almost a decade ago. She will not have a relationship with Amber once she’s an adult and is no longer forced to. Every time Amber seems to be learning and growing she suddenly devolves back to the petulant brat she always was. Gary is an amazing father and he found an angel in Kristina. I’m so, so glad Leah has them. Amber has continually ruined important moments for Leah and she ALWAYS says out of pocket BS. Even the “You’re about to need me more than ever because you’re about to get real crazy” because she’s a teenager? WHO SAYS THAT TO THEIR CHILD? And even IF Leah does go through some teenage growing pains, she sure as hell won’t need Amber! Sorry for the novel but this really infuriates me.
The last person she will need is Amber. Honestly if Leah was gonna go through a rebellious teen phase, she probably would have started it by now. Leah with probably start to get a teen attitude but, I really don’t see her going all out crazy. Then again she may do it when she’s between 16 and 18.
I wish the teen moms would stop saying how great a mom Amber is, when CLEARLY she isn’t. She can’t even be on time for a freaking dinner?!! WTF is she even doing that would make her that late?!! She doesn't work, she doesn't have custody of any of her kids, she didn't even bring Leah a damn birthday gift, or even at best a dollar store balloon!! Then proceeds to make it all about her? ON LEAH'S BIRTHDAY?!! If I was Leah I would be screaming and harassing Gary to stop pushing the mother/daughter relationship that Amber puts no effort in. I hope Leah goes NC in the next 3 years. Amber is a POS mother. Even worse than Jenelle, and she's a nightmare.
just laziness, they move like slugs on their own time. I had a friend just like her. it is all about them, even over their own kids. wastes of flesh they are.
I don’t blame Gray for trying to get them to have some kinda of relationship. This way Amber can not blame Gary and his wife for keeping Leah away and letting her build a relationship with her. Now I wouldn’t let her take Leah anywhere by themselves, unless Leah wants it and by the looks of it she not gonna to. Also now that Leah is 15 I believe she has more say and there’s nothing legally Amber could do and this way Gary can say Leah has tried but, she always ends up hurt and it’s not healthy for her to keep making her.
@kristacalderon9044 ah yes. The woman who went through hoops trying to defend her Bigfoot ass husband, but not her freaking kids. The woman who once she got custody back, hee child ran away from home not once but 3 times. I ask you is the “good person” in the room with us?
@@LilithLavey13 because she knows what ambers response would be. To get crazy and violent and act all tough in front of the kids. Her and amber are the complete opposite. I think it’s more Gary’s responsibility to shut amber up and defend his daughter. In my opinion they should’ve all got up and left the minute amber started to get nasty towards her, but at the end of the day, they need the content (ambers train wreck) to pay their bills.
Can we just take a moment to acknowledge Emilee? I was so disgusted with what Amber did at Leah's dinner, I barely noticed a little hand reaching out to comfort Leah while Amber and Gary were arguing. When it shows Leah crying, there's Emilee rubbing her shoulder and letting her know she's there. A mini Kristina. I love that family. ❤️❤️❤️
Amber was acting like she was on “something” the way she was talking and she was being nasty for no reason. I didn’t like how she was talking to Leah and Amber wonders why she’s having a hard time making a connection 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ I personally think Amber is jealous of Leah’s relationship with her stepmom and that’s not Leah’s fault or her stepmom. Leah is getting exactly what she’s looking for out of a mom from her stepmom. I love the relationship Leah has with her stepmom. It’s genuine and real. She’s showing Leah the love of a mother that she doesn’t get from her “mom”. Gary and his wife have done a wonderful job raising Leah and I can see how much Leah appreciates having Christina in her life ❤
Thats NPD.(narcissistic personality disorder.) True BPD is the the complete opposite side of a coin- thinking everything is actually their fault, and when they do lash out it is usually a form of reactive abuse- or past or current trauma. They are on the same spectrum but diff sides of coin & often misdiagnosed
From this point moving forward, Gary needs to no longer include Amber in Leah's events unless Leah says otherwise. She clearly doesn't care about her daughter. She makes everything about herself and Leah doesn't need a parent like that in her life.
I know where Gary is coming from but he should let Amber work her way in on her own and put some effort to see Leah. They are practically always begging her to see Leah, Amber has never been there for her
Amber was completely wrong and for the sake of her daughter’s birthday she should have never said anything you can tell Leah has so much pain and tries so hard. Gary really steps up for her 🙌
Amber is a failed mother. Cursing, making it about herself when it’s her daughters 15th bday just screams crazy and immature. Gary and his wife clearly put up with what they can, once Leah turns 18 I won’t be surprised if she cuts her mom out of her life.
Leah does not feel comfortable or like being around Amber at all. It’s so obvious. If I were Amber I’d be so ashamed of myself for acting like that and making my daughter cry on her birthday. Of course once they leave Amber plays the victim again. SMH
Until she makes a true effort, Amber shouldn’t even be allowed back into Leah’s life. All she does is disappoint this poor child, who’ll surely have longtime damage from the emotional abuse & abandonment issues inflicted upon her, by her own mother.
Why do they allow Amber to keep coming around Leah???! Amber clearly has mental issues she needs to work through. Until then, she gonna take it out on the ones who love her the most.
OBVIOUSLY you don't have self control! Amber has no manners or awareness of anyone but herself. Can't call her a mom when she has no custody of either kid due to her own choices
HATE how Amber always cries after she had part of a fight or dispute and then cries and acts like a victim. Just like when Gary 2.0. ran away and disappeared for a few days.
Enough of trying to force amber into having an ounce of motherly anything towards her own daughter. When a mother hates herself so much inside, of course she’s going to be in a toxic competition with her own daughter. Thank goodness for Gary and Kristina.
Amber loves to play villain then victim. She’s mean, hateful, and unfortunately jealous of Leah. She’s spiteful and wants to tell everyone how she feels but as soon as Leah speaks for herself and voice her opinion which is more logical than her mothers and Gary backs Leah up. Amber plays victim and starts crying. Amber needs to grow tf up. She has to realize yes you are her mother but you are not there for her due to her chemical imbalance and immaturity.
If she ain’t the worse mama idk who is , she should be ashamed of herself for how she acts , Leah gonna end up never speaking to her again and I can’t wait.
Amber walked in ready to start mess, she’s literally pushing her daughter away. If this is when you feel like she’ll need you the most, she definitely won’t come to you 🤷🏽♀️. Amber is the type to pick her man over her daughter…
That restaurant Gary and family were at looks like Eddie's by Giest. We lived out there as my husband is from IN. Amber can't even control herself for the sake of Leah. It's allll about her, like always. Leah is a very mature, sensitive, sweet girl . Gary should have had Amber leave but that would have caused WW3 and Leah was upset enough as it was. Leah is getting to the age where she can make her own decisions as to how much time and often she wants to spend with Amber. Amber should not act shocked and boo hoo all over the internet when Leah reaches the age and the point where she wants nothing to do with her. Leah should not have shed one tear on her birthday. Keep your mouth shut and put your daughter first, Amber. Talk to Gary later , it an wait! Kristina knew this was garbage but as usual, she can never say anything. Amber rules it all and no idea why. After ruining Leah's bday like this, Gary and Kristina both need to make a strong united front and create a no amber zone for awhile. Too bad, no way should Leah have been crying like that on her special day. she won't forget it ever, it should be happy not upsetting. I would not invite her to anything anymore. put your foot down, Gary, that's enough.
Naw Amber shouldn’t be a biatch Amber the one who started the whole thing and Gary did stood up for Leah when he saw that the whole thing was upsetting Leah he apologized not Amber
There it is!! I feel the same. At some point there has to be a line drawn, or else you become a punching bag. It is not just him anymore being that punching bag it’s Leah, and boundaries are required with people like Amber. They know Amber is late MOST of the time, they’ve said it before, why set your daughter up for that? If the party was at 6 you tell Amber 5, and you give a 15/30 minute window, she doesn’t get there move the party along. Eat and when she got there y’all pay yalls you tab say some pleasantries if you want to, and be out! No it’s ands or buts! You have to put your foot down with people like Amber. I’m sure they had to kind of wait and let it play out for the cameras, but not at the cost of my child’s mental health NOPE! And the fact that Gary knows her patterns, knows how she is and continues to allow it, I blame him honestly.
This was so disappointing. And you can tell the daughter has had enough of her own Toxic Mother who deliberately triggers her because Amber in fact dislikes herself.
Poor Lesh😢 that poor child is being pulled in too many directions for being so young Amber is so damn selfish she doesn’t deserve to be a mom, being a mom is a privilege, not a right!😢thank goodness she has her dad and her step mom ❤❤
Amber always makes it about her and causes issues to a father who looks after Leah so good whilst Amber goes and does as she likes with as many men and what ever she does . It’s all about Amber ! And never a mother to Leah
I thought it was so sad that she made Leah cry for that very cruel remark! I wish mtv would fire amber she does nothing but sit on her couch and whine about her problems!
"This is why I never have a chance with her" How about grow up and take some responsibility and accountability for YOUR OWN ACTIONS!!! Maybe stop acting like a kid for starters. Your own man faked a missing persons just to get away from this attitude!!! Wake up Amber!!!!!!!
What a horrible mother. Who calls their daughter a dick? Gary should have gathered his wife and daughters and walked out long before he actually did. Not blaming him..he's been a great Dad. But that interaction was so damaging to Leah and heartbreaking to watch. Amber should never be allowed to see her again. Not even kidding. Leah is and has been better off without her for years. And Kristina is a saint for how she's handled Amber's shit all these years. It can't be easy for her.
This was so upsetting to watch, and I hope her TM friends watch it and realise what a p0s Amber really is. They give Kristina so much grief, but she's the one that's been there for Leah, and Gary has given Amber chance after chance. Now, look at the evidence. I really feel for Leah. This is so humiliating for her with it all in tv showing how erratic and cruel her mother is. The MH and trauma is not an excuse for that behaviour either
“When I’m around her (Leah) the worst of me comes out…” Good Lord. Amber should just sign away custody and go live her toxic life..this is tragic. Gary & Kristina may want to fight for full custody
Leah is a teenager. I feel like Leah is more mature than her mom. Amber ruined 😠 her daughters 15th Birthday 🥳
And Leah will never forget it. Amber will go home and sleep for 15 hours but poor Leah ...
@@kimwarner1681 that is true unfortunately
Dad didn’t help he ruined it also
Amber is 100% toxic poor leah ❤❤amber is awful I'm so glad that Leah has Christina in her life
Because she is being raised by two good parents. Gary is very good to Leah
Leah is not about to go real crazy. She is not like her. Gary and Kristina raised her well.
Exactly. Gary and Kristina Raised her, not Amber.
Right! Like why in tf would she say that? I don't think she said one nice thing to her Leah.
Deep down Amber hates herself and sees Leah as her younger self. Shes projecting onto her. Gary and Kristina need to quit trying to encourage a relationship with her. Kristina has the patience of a saint, because I would’ve lost my mind if someone called my daughter a dick.
Exactly and thank goodness for Christina. She has her mannerisms and she talks just like her. Imagine if Leah was forced to be around Amber who is a narcissist. I’m just so happy that Gary took control of the situation. Amber only cares for herself a her boyfriends
That comment was so out of line. Amber really doesn’t get how she makes everything about herself. Leah’s going to need her now because she’s about to get really crazy? Who would expect that? Someone who’s very self centered.
I feel bad for Leah . Honestly Gary should have walked out of that crazy dinner especially after amber was verbally abusing Leah . Quit making excuses for amber
Gary is still in control of Amber and her abusive ways. Sad 🙄 he still lets her run the show.
He did
If he walked out, they wouldn't have anything for the show now, would they....everything is for the show...doesn't matter how the kids feel.
It’s ambers “mental health” yeah okay she’s just a self centered narcissist. You let your daughter down her whole life your at her birthday dinner don’t bring up anything about yourself unless she asks ! Like shut up no one cares about your new man.
@@suzanne1430 Gary is the hero
Her sister comforting her was so sweet 😭 poor babyyyy
Right? She was on that quick!
really was
Amber was a hour late to her own daughters birthday dinner , then she turned the whole thing about herself!! . It was Leah’s birthday and the whole night should’ve only be about leah. No gives a damn about Amber or the latest gold digger she’s dating.
That's Right!!!
@@tinad.2219 I usually give Amber the benefit of the doubt because she has a mental illness and she clearly loves Leah. However, this is absolutely dispicable!! .
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@@karleighrock593 I was rooting for her until she put her hands on Andrew while he was holding their son. Any bit of hope I had for her went out the window. Those poor kids.
I had hope for Amber until I saw this video!!
Amber is such a let down of a mom .
Amber is a deadbeat mother is what she is
She’s not a mom 😢 that’s the saddest part
Christina is Leah's mom! Amber is more like her sister.
Yeah, she definitely should be off the show. It should be about real mothers not people living off of the show. Her ass is so lazy. She couldn’t even pack her own clothes when she was moving.
And now Ambers fiance is missing.
I would stop trying to incorporate her in family events. She doesn’t even care to curse around the younger child. Leah is 15 so if she wants to communicate with her - let it be her decision. Gary should give it up already. Amber is a bird and lost cause
I agree. At this point in Leahs life, she should decide if she wants a relationship with her mother or not
I don’t understand why she was there.
I agree ☝️ Leah was 12/13 and done with Her mom making everything about her back then, unfortunately Her Dad pushed them to have a relationship and I understand that he wanted Leah to give her mom a chance and not regret cutting her off later. At this point though Leah is 15 and it needs to be Leahs decision if she wants a relationship with her mother or not. If she chooses to cut her mom off Gary and Kristina need to respect that. Amber is very immature and narcissistic and she needs to change if she wants to continue being a part of Leahs life In My Opinion.
Exactly at this point they are enabling her behaviour. She reanerds to loose everything hit the real bottom and might change tgat include mtv payment, her daughter, all or nothing help. She’s adult .
They need Amber to film & vice versa. The show is so obviously not in the best interest of Leah, though. Kids always get screwed on reality TV, sadly.
Amber is full & non stop drama. She still acts like she's a teenager & uses her mental health issues as a way to not have to be accountable & only do the absolute bare minimum as a mother. I do have empathy for her & I had hoped that she would have changed & grown up by now, but frustratingly & annoyingly not.
Amber is just jealous that Leah is so much more mature and put together than Amber could ever be when she was 15
Thats not true
It's so true.
Gary and Christina should shield Leah better from Amber.
They should stop involve Amber unless she makes an active effort to have a healthy relationship with Lea
I mean she has done therapy I'm sure, could probably use more but, I don't think they should keep her away completely.
I’m sure there’s a court order in place. It doesn’t work like that. They can’t just do what they please. It’s not like she’s in imminent danger.
I don't know the legal context here but I don't think keeping Amber in Lea's life is good thing
@@userNumber8372 She may not be in imminent danger but the damage will come out when Leah is an adult. Court order or not, she is traumatizing her daughter.She does not know how lucky and blessed she is to have a daughter in the first place.
Gary shouldn't have added to it. They both ruined her party.
Gary's genes are strong his daughters look identical too beautiful
Yes they are beautiful
She would NOT be allowed to ruin another birthday of Leah's if I were Gary. Leah is mature, smart,beautiful young lady and she handled that situation with a trait her mother DOES NOT HAVE....Grace.
Exactly but looks like her Everyday mom has it, so she got it from her! Amber doesn't deserve to be called mom ever!!
@@CCourtJane Agreed!
Amber will forever be selfish. She is delusional and that's unfortunate for both her children and anyone in her circle.
She's getting right up there with Farrah and Jenelle 😢
@@jessicajamesspeaksyou really think Jenelle is worse? She has her issues but never physically or emotionally harmed anyone. Amber has physically harmed 2 of the men, one while holding their child in his arms. Even same with Farrah. At least they aren't harming people.
Exactly! You took the words right out of my mouth!
Why publicly embarrass your daughter on her bday.
Amber gaslighting all of them. She had the attitude, she was late, and she was mean to her daughter.
Spoken like a true abuser…Amber blames Leah for her behaviour. Horrible mom
“You need me now more than ever?” Really? Where were you for the last 15 years of Leah’s life Amber
Yeah because she thinks Leah would be crazy as she was when she’s turned up lovely smart young girl
Amber is not a mother to either of her children! I can’t stand her they only keep her around for chaos
They have known amber since she was Leah’s age. I’m sure they care about her and know she would spiral if she ever got off the show
@@Sdx344That's not their problem. Amber has to work on herself. No one can do it for her and no one needs to be babysitting her to make sure she doesn't kill herself.
I agree… she’s a terrible person
The show keeps her around for the chaos. Remember this is a TV SHOW. Without the chaos and drama, no one would watch it.
@@littleangel4780 toxic chaos and jail time should never be allowed on a tv show. Plus she’s not a mom at all
“Well have self-control” yesssssss girl 🤣👏
Leah has a mom, and her name is Kristina. Amber has never been that girl’s mother. Leah isn’t a little girl anymore and she is old enough to discern character. When you’re little, all you want is to have your parents around, even if they are terrible. But Leah honestly started to see through Amber almost a decade ago. She will not have a relationship with Amber once she’s an adult and is no longer forced to. Every time Amber seems to be learning and growing she suddenly devolves back to the petulant brat she always was. Gary is an amazing father and he found an angel in Kristina. I’m so, so glad Leah has them. Amber has continually ruined important moments for Leah and she ALWAYS says out of pocket BS. Even the “You’re about to need me more than ever because you’re about to get real crazy” because she’s a teenager? WHO SAYS THAT TO THEIR CHILD? And even IF Leah does go through some teenage growing pains, she sure as hell won’t need Amber! Sorry for the novel but this really infuriates me.
Lol 😆 Leah is 15. Like any teenager they’re trying to be independent of their parents. This is why Amber is not in a place to raise kids.
Amber is an egg donor and that's all she'll ever be to Leah and little James 💔
Don't be sorry. Your right. Thank God Leah has Kristina
Im starting to believe amber shows narcissistic traits in her behaviors
The last person she will need is Amber. Honestly if Leah was gonna go through a rebellious teen phase, she probably would have started it by now. Leah with probably start to get a teen attitude but, I really don’t see her going all out crazy. Then again she may do it when she’s between 16 and 18.
I wish the teen moms would stop saying how great a mom Amber is, when CLEARLY she isn’t. She can’t even be on time for a freaking dinner?!! WTF is she even doing that would make her that late?!! She doesn't work, she doesn't have custody of any of her kids, she didn't even bring Leah a damn birthday gift, or even at best a dollar store balloon!! Then proceeds to make it all about her? ON LEAH'S BIRTHDAY?!! If I was Leah I would be screaming and harassing Gary to stop pushing the mother/daughter relationship that Amber puts no effort in. I hope Leah goes NC in the next 3 years. Amber is a POS mother. Even worse than Jenelle, and she's a nightmare.
just laziness, they move like slugs on their own time. I had a friend just like her. it is all about them, even over their own kids. wastes of flesh they are.
Both Jenelle and Amber are deadbeat mothers
I don’t blame Gray for trying to get them to have some kinda of relationship. This way Amber can not blame Gary and his wife for keeping Leah away and letting her build a relationship with her. Now I wouldn’t let her take Leah anywhere by themselves, unless Leah wants it and by the looks of it she not gonna to. Also now that Leah is 15 I believe she has more say and there’s nothing legally Amber could do and this way Gary can say Leah has tried but, she always ends up hurt and it’s not healthy for her to keep making her.
Leave jenelle out of this. Jenelle is a good person!
@kristacalderon9044 ah yes. The woman who went through hoops trying to defend her Bigfoot ass husband, but not her freaking kids. The woman who once she got custody back, hee child ran away from home not once but 3 times. I ask you is the “good person” in the room with us?
Poor Emilie too. She probably was also traumatized
If I were Kristina I would have left with my child who has no relation to Amber, I would not expose my child to that verbal abuse
@@kaeli1983 Absolutely!
Lol Emily was like “she said a bad word”
Im sure she is never been exposed to that kind of toxic behavior… even swearing around someone elses kid is wild
@@kaeli1983 I'm not even sure how Kristina sat through the whole thing with Leah, let alone Emilie
I give Kristina all the props because I can't imagine having that strength to hold back 😂
Amber is a basket case like Jenelle. They NEVER ever think about their kids first and SO selfish it's honestly disgusting
Jenelle finally left David. But still doesn’t excuse her past actions
Jenelle is a good person! Not the same caliber as amber!
@@kristacalderon9044 Amber makes Farrah look like a saint. And that’s saying a lot
@@Anthonyvideogame😂😂😂
If Leah never wanted to see Amber again I would not blame her at all!!
Amber, Jenelle and Farrah are all completely off their rockers. They’re all a danger to themselves and others.
Farrah has finally never hurt anyone
Gary has come a long way as a father and man. I’m so proud of him. Leah and Emily will do extremely well ❤
She was arrested for assaulting a security guard. She’s just as dangerous
You could see the anger in Christina’s (Leah’s real mom) eyes when amber spoke to Leah that way.
@@LilithLavey13 because she knows what ambers response would be. To get crazy and violent and act all tough in front of the kids. Her and amber are the complete opposite. I think it’s more Gary’s responsibility to shut amber up and defend his daughter. In my opinion they should’ve all got up and left the minute amber started to get nasty towards her, but at the end of the day, they need the content (ambers train wreck) to pay their bills.
We’re not going to call her her real mom when her and Gary are at the table making money off of Leah’s name.
This behavior is the exact reason why Leah wants Kristina to adopt her! Amber makes everything about her even at her daughter's birthday dinner!
Typical trait of narcissism! They can’t stand not being the center of attention.
She shouldn’t be able to be around Leah.
I'm so glad Leah has her Dad. Gary has done a great job under the circumstances.
Amber is still down the rabbit hole. Is there no therapy that is helping her? I would never call my daughter at any age a dick
Gary shouldn’t allow Amber to see her daughter anymore. She still hasn’t came to her senses.
Letter Leah around Amber is abusive at this point. Stop the visits.
Can we just take a moment to acknowledge Emilee? I was so disgusted with what Amber did at Leah's dinner, I barely noticed a little hand reaching out to comfort Leah while Amber and Gary were arguing. When it shows Leah crying, there's Emilee rubbing her shoulder and letting her know she's there. A mini Kristina. I love that family. ❤️❤️❤️
Amber was acting like she was on “something” the way she was talking and she was being nasty for no reason. I didn’t like how she was talking to Leah and Amber wonders why she’s having a hard time making a connection 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ I personally think Amber is jealous of Leah’s relationship with her stepmom and that’s not Leah’s fault or her stepmom. Leah is getting exactly what she’s looking for out of a mom from her stepmom. I love the relationship Leah has with her stepmom. It’s genuine and real. She’s showing Leah the love of a mother that she doesn’t get from her “mom”. Gary and his wife have done a wonderful job raising Leah and I can see how much Leah appreciates having Christina in her life ❤
Amber has BPD. Antagonizes everyone around her and then they are the bad guy for reacting to the abuse. Classic.
Thats NPD.(narcissistic personality disorder.) True BPD is the the complete opposite side of a coin- thinking everything is actually their fault, and when they do lash out it is usually a form of reactive abuse- or past or current trauma. They are on the same spectrum but diff sides of coin & often misdiagnosed
She’s def a narcissist
@@ashleyschemm1078during BPD split people often verbally abuse others, look it up.
Amber going blame Gary and her daughter. She missing up and not ok
If I were Gary, I would've left Amber at the table and make her talk to herself!
From this point moving forward, Gary needs to no longer include Amber in Leah's events unless Leah says otherwise. She clearly doesn't care about her daughter. She makes everything about herself and Leah doesn't need a parent like that in her life.
Gary and Christina need to stop letting Leah be subjected to this. Amber needs help. Point blank.
Amen Sister, she's mean.
I know where Gary is coming from but he should let Amber work her way in on her own and put some effort to see Leah. They are practically always begging her to see Leah, Amber has never been there for her
Leah is so embarrassed of her bio mom
Amber was completely wrong and for the sake of her daughter’s birthday she should have never said anything you can tell Leah has so much pain and tries so hard. Gary really steps up for her 🙌
Amber is a failed mother. Cursing, making it about herself when it’s her daughters 15th bday just screams crazy and immature.
Gary and his wife clearly put up with what they can, once Leah turns 18 I won’t be surprised if she cuts her mom out of her life.
God love Kristina for taking on the role as her mother and always providing Leah with emotional support. She’s a true role model
Leah does not feel comfortable or like being around Amber at all. It’s so obvious. If I were Amber I’d be so ashamed of myself for acting like that and making my daughter cry on her birthday. Of course once they leave Amber plays the victim again. SMH
Wtf?? Why is Amber even allowed to be around this child💔😭
AMBER NEVER SEEMS TO FAIL ME.
THEY NEED TO LISTEN TO LEAH.
SHES SO SMART.
Until she makes a true effort, Amber shouldn’t even be allowed back into Leah’s life. All she does is disappoint this poor child, who’ll surely have longtime damage from the emotional abuse & abandonment issues inflicted upon her, by her own mother.
Amber you were confrontational 😢 at leah's birthday.
Why do they allow Amber to keep coming around Leah???! Amber clearly has mental issues she needs to work through. Until then, she gonna take it out on the ones who love her the most.
You could see Christina was stopping herself from stepping in. Amber needs to grow up already.
What do Gary and Christine allow Leah to be verbally and emotionally abused by Amber? She will never change not even for her own children.
I feel like Amber refuses to grow up she doesn't want to be a mother she wants her daughter to be her best friend it's so disgusting
I have so much respect for Gary and Leah step mom!
Kristina is her mother! Amber is more like the sister nobody ask for 😂
@@Minksy81absolutely
Except They use Amber for money!!! Therefore abusing Leah. 🤢
@@Indite_Bidenyeah ok
Amber is so toxic. And then she blames her daughter . This woman needs to stay away from those poor children
That would’ve been Ambers last time participating in any family outings.
She needs to realize shes NOT a part of their family. Them including her is them being nice
OBVIOUSLY you don't have self control! Amber has no manners or awareness of anyone but herself. Can't call her a mom when she has no custody of either kid due to her own choices
When is Gary going yo stop including her?
HATE how Amber always cries after she had part of a fight or dispute and then cries and acts like a victim. Just like when Gary 2.0. ran away and disappeared for a few days.
Cheyanne doesn’t need another baby
Enough of trying to force amber into having an ounce of motherly anything towards her own daughter.
When a mother hates herself so much inside, of course she’s going to be in a toxic competition with her own daughter. Thank goodness for Gary and Kristina.
Amber loves to play villain then victim. She’s mean, hateful, and unfortunately jealous of Leah. She’s spiteful and wants to tell everyone how she feels but as soon as Leah speaks for herself and voice her opinion which is more logical than her mothers and Gary backs Leah up. Amber plays victim and starts crying. Amber needs to grow tf up. She has to realize yes you are her mother but you are not there for her due to her chemical imbalance and immaturity.
Agreed, and she doesn't deserve a platform to do it on.
Leah is so mature enough happy 15th birthday
Did she just say the d word at her daughter? Disgusting . I’m sorry for Leah.
If she ain’t the worse mama idk who is , she should be ashamed of herself for how she acts , Leah gonna end up never speaking to her again and I can’t wait.
Of all the teen moms Janelle wins that one look at what she has done to Jace amber is very close though
Amber takes no responsibility for any issues around her. She’s a lost cause I think
Yup
Amber needs to apologize to everybody
Amber is the worse mother alive and not sure why she’s on the show
Amber walked in ready to start mess, she’s literally pushing her daughter away. If this is when you feel like she’ll need you the most, she definitely won’t come to you 🤷🏽♀️.
Amber is the type to pick her man over her daughter…
Amber said Leah brought out the worst in her. Doesn't even notice or care when her daughter starts crying. Terrible
I have a mother with severe bpd and substance abuse and this is exactly how she acts
Prove it
@@rosk.wilburn5847 make me :) 😀
It’s all about amber
I tried to give Amber the benefit of the doubt but absolutely not please shield Leah from her.
Amber is so into herself, that she doesn't care about anyone. It's shameful.
Amber is awful. Gary tries so hard to keep his cool for Leah and christina is a saint for not lashing out at Amber.
Leah is going to be the one to hand it to her mom..
That restaurant Gary and family were at looks like Eddie's by Giest. We lived out there as my husband is from IN. Amber can't even control herself for the sake of Leah. It's allll about her, like always. Leah is a very mature, sensitive, sweet girl . Gary should have had Amber leave but that would have caused WW3 and Leah was upset enough as it was. Leah is getting to the age where she can make her own decisions as to how much time and often she wants to spend with Amber. Amber should not act shocked and boo hoo all over the internet when Leah reaches the age and the point where she wants nothing to do with her. Leah should not have shed one tear on her birthday. Keep your mouth shut and put your daughter first, Amber. Talk to Gary later , it an wait! Kristina knew this was garbage but as usual, she can never say anything. Amber rules it all and no idea why. After ruining Leah's bday like this, Gary and Kristina both need to make a strong united front and create a no amber zone for awhile. Too bad, no way should Leah have been crying like that on her special day. she won't forget it ever, it should be happy not upsetting. I would not invite her to anything anymore. put your foot down, Gary, that's enough.
"When im around her she brings out the worst" THATS YOUR DAUGHTER 😮
Amber gives off abusive vibes.
And Gary still weak cause he should’ve checked amber and stood up for Leah , they both get on my nerves actually I feel bad for Leah .
Naw Amber shouldn’t be a biatch Amber the one who started the whole thing and Gary did stood up for Leah when he saw that the whole thing was upsetting Leah he apologized not Amber
There it is!! I feel the same. At some point there has to be a line drawn, or else you become a punching bag. It is not just him anymore being that punching bag it’s Leah, and boundaries are required with people like Amber. They know Amber is late MOST of the time, they’ve said it before, why set your daughter up for that? If the party was at 6 you tell Amber 5, and you give a 15/30 minute window, she doesn’t get there move the party along. Eat and when she got there y’all pay yalls you tab say some pleasantries if you want to, and be out! No it’s ands or buts! You have to put your foot down with people like Amber. I’m sure they had to kind of wait and let it play out for the cameras, but not at the cost of my child’s mental health NOPE! And the fact that Gary knows her patterns, knows how she is and continues to allow it, I blame him honestly.
@@llaw8760you are correct 👍🏻
This was so disappointing. And you can tell the daughter has had enough of her own Toxic Mother who deliberately triggers her because Amber in fact dislikes herself.
Poor Lesh😢 that poor child is being pulled in too many directions for being so young Amber is so damn selfish she doesn’t deserve to be a mom, being a mom is a privilege, not a right!😢thank goodness she has her dad and her step mom ❤❤
Amber always makes it about her and causes issues to a father who looks after Leah so good whilst Amber goes and does as she likes with as many men and what ever she does . It’s all about Amber ! And never a mother to Leah
Bruh cancel Amber! She’s toxic and just needs to be handled !
I thought it was so sad that she made Leah cry for that very cruel remark! I wish mtv would fire amber she does nothing but sit on her couch and whine about her problems!
Did Amber even bring Leah a birthday present?
Amber is a full blown narcissist 😈
What the heck did leah do to her face!?
"This is why I never have a chance with her" How about grow up and take some responsibility and accountability for YOUR OWN ACTIONS!!! Maybe stop acting like a kid for starters. Your own man faked a missing persons just to get away from this attitude!!! Wake up Amber!!!!!!!
What a horrible mother. Who calls their daughter a dick? Gary should have gathered his wife and daughters and walked out long before he actually did. Not blaming him..he's been a great Dad. But that interaction was so damaging to Leah and heartbreaking to watch. Amber should never be allowed to see her again. Not even kidding. Leah is and has been better off without her for years. And Kristina is a saint for how she's handled Amber's shit all these years. It can't be easy for her.
It's all Gary's fault. He's the one that keep pushing Leah to have a relationship with that lunatic of a mother.
Where are all the people in that restaurant? Lol
Leah blaming someone else for her issues your issue Leah she’s a bad mom
u see leah sister looking back nd forth as they was arguing
Everything about her just screams BPD
Amber is a disgrace of a Mother. My heart breaks for Leah 😢
This was so upsetting to watch, and I hope her TM friends watch it and realise what a p0s Amber really is. They give Kristina so much grief, but she's the one that's been there for Leah, and Gary has given Amber chance after chance. Now, look at the evidence. I really feel for Leah. This is so humiliating for her with it all in tv showing how erratic and cruel her mother is. The MH and trauma is not an excuse for that behaviour either
Wow - you did a fantastic job putting together this episode! I'm having trouble making simple videos and your video is fantastic!
“When I’m around her (Leah) the worst of me comes out…” Good Lord. Amber should just sign away custody and go live her toxic life..this is tragic. Gary & Kristina may want to fight for full custody
Amber wtffffffff that is your daughter honestly this is so depressing poor Leah
Leah's face is so red. She hated this moment. Poor angel. Her daddy is doing a great job with her.