JP Saxe: I Need a Therapist
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- Опубликовано: 7 июн 2024
- TW: addiction, grief and loss
Your hosts are both massive fans of this week’s guest, musician and singer JP Saxe. The episode is full of energy and insight, as JP starts off by inquiring if the Lautners find navigating enmeshment more challenging by their shared name. The three then dive into love and conflict languages and the importance of being malleable to your partners’ styles. JP talks about his childhood, including the blessings he’s discovered from not being popular at a young age and his journey of defining masculinity in his own terms. Taylor also opens up about the struggles he faced when playing Jacob and the pressure he felt to portray a perfect life. The three then discuss feelings of being a burden to your partner, bullying, and being an only child-something girl Tay and JP have in common! JP opens up about growing up in a house suffering from addiction, and explains his journey with loss and grief to Taylor, who has not yet experienced any sort of family loss. He also shares the series of decisions that made him realize it was time to start therapy and the role songwriting has played in his healing journey.
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00:00:00 Intro
00:06:10 Welcome JP
00:08:35 Cit-Rus Got Real (hotdogs and love languages)
00:14:10 Conflict languages
00:22:25 Did he grow up in a musical family?
00:24:45 Growing up and finding yourself
00:27:35 Separating Jacob from Taylor
00:35:10 Bullying
00:39:33 Managing addiction in a family and being an only child
00:50:20 Marrying his friends (with his ex in the wedding party)
00:51:53 Dealing with loss and grief
00:56:28 Therapy
01:05:30 What role has songwriting played in his healing journey?
01:08:45 Lemon 11
01:32:55 Outro
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thx for having me girl tay and boy tay. love yall ❤
His discussion about delayed grief is spot on and very wise.
By far one of the best episodes. This podcast makes me realize it’s ok to have bad days. Thank you for all the stories and tips 💛 🍋
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I think this is one of the most valuable podcasts online. For the first time people aren't capitalizing on their trauma, but making it "normal" to discuss it for the purpose of healing and not wallowing in it. People forget that actors/celebrities are PEOPLE with real problems.
I lost my dad 4 years ago, and goodness, it comes in waves for sure. I wasn't an only child but gapped in the middle, so at time it feels like I am.
Thanks for your time, effort, and genuine love for people. This is easily in my top 3 podcasts! Your collaboration with the people you bring on makes me interested every week! Never a dull moment, and always valuable and entertaining.
I almost skipped this episode because I didn't know him (I dont know a lot of people, it says nothing about his music career) but HOLY MOLY i think this has been my favorite episode so far. annndddddd I looked him up on Spotify and I LOVE HIS LYRICS AND VOICE!!! wow. so good!! Thank you for this!!!
Love JP! I completely relate on the delayed grief. Years later, it is very hard to resurface the feelings and work through them. It feels like everyone has left the party and turned the lights off, but you are still sitting their trying to go through it. You will get there, it is a journey. ❤️🙏🏼
I loved this podcast so much. So deep, comical, insightful. Just incredible. A million ⭐️
I loved the way that JP talked about his masculinity and that it’s okay to be vulnerable, sensitive, soft, emotional but yet still be masculine. That it doesn’t have to be one or the other. Also, Hillary duff was my first concert too ❤️
These episodes keep getting more and more real. Keep going! We love it!
I have watched this and listened to it. When he talks about grief and how he had to make himself grieve, I can’t help but just cry and cry. I have been through a lot of grief the past three years and I need to deal with it. Thank you for inspiring me.
I was not sure how to feel going into this podcast because I’m not familiar with JP Saxe. However, I’ve finished the podcast with a whole page of notes and insightful info that’s I’ve already shared with a few friends. What an incredible episode. Which is what I love about The Squeeze. Half of your episodes I have been unfamiliar with the guest. But I leave every single episode with something to value and always wanting more. You guys are doing amazing things. Thank you Tays!
When you came because you were team Jacob but stayed because of girl Tay
Literally. I love them both so much but omg, when people ask how boy tay could end up with a “normal person” all you have to do is listen to this podcast to see why he fell for her. She seems like one of the sweetest people I’ve ever seen.
Wow JP is awesome! I wasn't familiar with him before this, but now I want to be friends with him 😂
Your podcasts make me so happy 😭 JP Saxe was a great guest and so insightful and I appreciate how y’all are willing to be open about your struggles and how you make it work. Very refreshing to see most couple in Hollywood who just be fake and pretend everything is perfect all the time. So real and amazing 🥰🥰
Small world! My husband is a Mental Health Counselor and is an EMDR provider. He speaks very highly of the benefits of EMDR. I’m sure it will be a great experience for you both. If I’m being honest, I think we could all benefit from some counseling…especially in the world we live in now.
I’m so glad that I came across your podcast channel. Your energy and inflection is very calm and soothing. This episode was very cathartic. Thank you! Keep up the great work!
EMDR has helped me so much with my PTSD!! It’s amazing!! So excited for you all to try! Also love the podcast 💛💛💛
Such a great episode! Many deep thoughts! Love learning more about some of JP songs that I simply love so much!!
I did EMDR therapy to help my anxiety when I was in high school and it’s super beneficial and helped me a lot!
It's probably my favorite episode so far. He's so easy to listen to and made so many wonderful points.
Loved this video! I learned things about myself in this video. Thank you
Loved this one so much!
Loved this episode! Such as interesting and entertaining conversation. I also love seeing more of Girl Tay's personality with each episode!
I love his music ❤❤ can't wait!
I have to start by saying I've been a Boy Tay fan since Shark Boy. Recently I came across Girl Tay, and you (Girl Tay) are the reason I started watching The Squeeze and its been a bit life changing to put it lightly. You are both real and wonderful and a breath of fresh air to the internet. Also, at this moment in life I am very jealous of Boy Tays four grandparents! I have no grandparents, and I lost my mother to cancer when I was 25 so this episode was a ride, but a little more healing. Great job everyone!
Podcast is amazing!! It’s my comfort podcast 🥰 love you guys!!
You guys are amazing! Love your podcast so much ❤
Love this episode!
I am obsessed with this podcast good job guys 🎉🎉
I loved this episode 🤗
I love JP!!
I love your podcast!! An idea for an episode: talk about mental health in movies and tv shows.
I’m here too early :( love you guys can’t wait to watch
Great topic yes👏🏽👏🏽
you guys are great ❤❤
Brene Brown- Atlas of the heart!!! Great book
Iam so excited 🎉❤
Can’t wait
WOAH?? i didn’t know this happened, i love this
"Its just a bad hot dog" 😂 ...i agree.
Ive never watched jp saxe actually...talk. ive only listened to his music. I loved this episode. He seems like a cool dude.
Thanks for the laughs but also making me think, as well.
Ahhh I know I’m not gonna be awake for this but I’ll watch it after 😂
I'm so curious to hear about your EMDR experience if you choose to share how you liked it. I've been curious about it myself for a while now.
You guys are awesome I can’t wait to watch
a good way to think about EMDR is like exposure therapy but you're exposing yourself to traumatic memories
I'm with you boy Tay... what's up with Boba 😂😂😂...no way.
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There’s an episode in one tree hill like your rom com scenario haha
Ahhh this is off topic but tay’s nails are so pretty 😂
lefty loosey righty tighty, noted 📝
I hope it’s okay to give constructive criticism. While I love this podcast, I think that the thumbnails are too busy and not intriguing. Maybe make them simpler with a different font. The speaking pace is also quite slow. I find myself putting your videos on 1.5x speed. I do love the content and topics though so keep up the great work! 🍋💛
Thanks for being kind with your criticism. I agree with these suggestions.
I must say, boy tay looks extra good in this episode. Love that color on him!!