Trying to tell a grown woman how to live her life is hilarious like I’m no Selena fan but the way her fans try to tell her what to do is hilarious like I hope she marries this mf so her fans will learn their place
as much as i get viscerally disgusted every time i see benny blanco pop up on my fyp, i agree, i think people should leave selena alone. to be more specific, i dont just mean his looks, its just his internet presence especially on tik tok
do i get her attraction? actually yes but i get why other people are so hateful. but she's the happiest i've ever seen her since the early days when she was with youknowwho.
@@toriplayssg i never thought too deeply about how he looks, i mentioned it bc this video specifically talks about his looks, i mostly dont like the fact that he acts immature in the videos ive seen of him online gagging at ethnic foods. i associate that mans face and voice with gagging and i hate it.
I would have said the same if she has not benefited so much in her carrer from involving her fans in her relationships and drama. She uses them like weapons when it's convenient and encourages them to defend her by liking and replying shady comments... now she doesn't want anyone in her business 🤡 ...you can't just deactivate the unhealthy attachment they have.
@@missymanieverything I've seen of Selena the last year she's been encouraging her fans to not go and bully people such as Hailey Bieber. To blame her for the actions of some of her crazed fans is WILD. To think you can have an opinion on her relationship now because of past actions IS WILD. To think you have some sort of opinion or stake in the game because you're her fan? IS WILD.
"Fighting your fans for a man is embarrassing"? Lmao naw What is embarrassing?Is these people being so obsessed with a celebritg who doesn't even know them 💀 You are so obsessed with this person that you expect her to listen to your words and dump somebody that she loves? For you? THATS weird. People are mad because of how Benny looks. Period. Who cares if he shades pop stars who have a make up brand. If that is the worst thing I could experience with a partner, I'd be incredibly grateful. Her "fans" are being gross and judgmental
You should see how korean fans are with their korean idols (actors/singers). They can't even have a relationship or else the fans cancel their own idol.
I don't understand the people telling her he's not a great guy. She's a grown woman, she can make her own decisions, if he turns out to be a bad guy, so be it??? But those are her choices, people need to stop babying her tbh.
Yeah no fr lol I'm confused why anyone gives a shit? Like if you have a job, full time college student, or in a relationship of your own I cannot envision you caring at all. It's boredom that makes peopel care
You have now been introduced to Andrew Santino. That was very mild for him though, so I wouldn’t recommend watching him again if that felt brutal. He goes too hard, to anyone’s face but especially with people he actually knows. 😂😂😂
Me. I think it was during the Colleen Ballinger thing last year. I actually found a lot of "tea channels"/commentary channels that way. Spill Sesh is one of the better ones. The rest are either boring (Radiantbritt), preachy (Drama Kween), or just cheap content mill shit with AI vocals that mispronounce half the words (can't remember that one, but it's something like Tea Spill or some variation of the tired old "spill the tea" phrase we need to permanently retire because white people have ruined it for everyone else).
I feel kinda hurt for Benny in that interview . To be spoken about how you look everyday I can never imagine the emotional damage and self insecurity’s that are building up because of other people . We need to do better as a society .
Why did people think that she was going to go after a guy that is like socially attractive? She’s happy he’s happy. He cares about her. She cares about him like leave it alone. I feel bad for the guy.
I think it's absolutely ridiculous that strangers legitimately believe they know Selena's insecurities and what's best for her. Like STOP! And bringing up how someone's appearance is less than standard... that's in your eyes, not anyone else's. People are SO WEIRD.
I'm just shocked she actually replies to trolls. With as many followers/fans she has and how big she is in the industry, she actually replies which means she also reads that many comments too.
I don’t see how people don’t see how sick she is. If she didn’t give it any attention no one would know about this. The only reason people care is cause she’s responding. All celebrities have to deal with fans talking sh1t but most don’t engage cause they know it makes it worse. But Selena knows she is nothing without the drama so she has to participate.
@@nitely2345plenty of celebrities engage with online comments. Ariana grande, Taylor swift, and some ex one direction members had their own online drama pre covid, whether it be twitter or tumblr.
@@nitely2345She's sick for responding but y'all ain't sick for going on her page talking mess?? Make it make sense plus she's more relevant than you sis literally had a song blow up before it was released and her makeup line is successful but she's nothing without drama that y'all start?? Ok
Idk why people think they know whats best Selena... Let the girl live. And so fucking what if he made a silly comment 3 years ago. Just because he mentioned Justin doesnt mean hes referring to Selena either..
But she can fight all night with her fans who made her rich over a guy who poops his pants 🤭💀 and people tried to warn her about Justin she had the same pick me reaction years ago 😅 I don't know why people care about her dating life, let her destroy it 🤷🏻♀️
the same fans that talk sh!t about Benny's looks are the same ones that want Selena and Justin back together. That man literally treated her like trash.
Not that I care about any of these celebs but people telling her Benny isn't good for her are kids still hoping for a reunion with Bieber. The same kids who keep fighting Hailey for "snatching JB away."😂😂 Get off your diapers!
I think it’s great to spread more awareness about how toxic social media can be. And how taking breaks once in a while is healthy. Also I can respect standing up for your relationship when you’re legitimately happy. No matter what people say about shallow things like looks. If she forgives him for those past comments, then it could have the potential to be the real thing. Who knows.
It’s 2024, literally everyone is aware social media can be toxic. She wasn’t spreading awareness, she was whining and fishing for sympathy. Based on your comment, it worked. At the end of the day, social media is not a necessity If you can’t handle it, simply don’t use it. I don’t understand the “breaks are healthy” part, but if using Instagram requires her to constantly take a break in order to keep her health, then she definitely shouldn't be using it.
Relationships are not for public consumption. He seems like a great guy tbh. People who talk about his looks are immature. There is much more to a person other than what they look like.
This is so disgusting. Imagine if the world was dissing a woman in that way, the world would be in an upoar. But just because benny is a man it's ok to go after his looks??
Selena Gomez is in the top 5 most people followed on IG. And now she's telling people it was just her marketing team running the page for her and she didn't even check what they were putting out for 4 years?
Just because other people were running her socials doesn't mean she didn't know about or approve the posts. It just means she didn't directly interact with the social media sites herself. It's a pretty common setup for celebrities
@@owl.feathers I highly doubt she was approving photos but even if she was, it was just a PR agency posting captions, comments and likes as though it was Selena directly interacting with her fans Do you see the posts from girls crying with happiness after getting a like from "Selena" or "Taylor Swift" on their post? It's just a bit of a slap in the face to fans now she's admitting any response was from a Brent working as a PR media manager..
@@KittyCatt1326she has a billion dollar beauty brand. She hasn’t been single for like 4/5 years. You can’t act like she’s relevant because of Benny blanco
She replies because celebrities aren’t above everyone else on social media just like youre allowed to leave comments wherever you please. It’s her instagram page, why do people comment there if they don’t want her to see and react?
She has enabled and used her fans for years. Especially when they go after people she does not like. Obviously now the fans think they get a say because they've been doing her dirty work for so long. The celebrities that weaponized parasocial relationships haven't really seen the negative sides of them yet.
What do Selena fans expect from someone who’s built a career off a victim complex? Like that’s her whole aesthetic 😂 respectfully she’s always going to “clap back” because her fans enable her behavior just stop talking about her and she’ll be fine
All drama aside. How is it normal to bully someone for their looks ? In this self-confidence, body-positive society ? Let the man be, he's more successful than any of us.
I've never cared for her. Selena. Also, imo selena received all thise followers the wrong way aka other ladies getting bullied while her numbers grew. Her speaking voice is 😖
She gained her followers by being a famous Disney actress and dating an international superstar + makeup brand. I just don't think these insults of her speaking voice or anything of the sort are fair. She can't control how she SPEAKS. Her voice is shaky. Lupus can cause voice issues. A quick google search shows that..
I’m all about women supporting women but the clip of her has me wondering whether her monotone speaking voice is a trauma response/disassociation thing? Has she always spoken like that?
Idk why people knock her make up line. I’m not even a fan of her music, but her make up is amazing. The only celeb line that’s good imo. Idk about the new lotions she’s come out with, but the rest is so good
At first I was neutral about Benny because I don’t know who he is outside of these videos about him. But he was shiiiiiiitty about Jollibee. Super disrespectful. Not so neutral now.
I forgot way too over priced for chicken shack 😅 you're better off getting chicken shack in the most dangerous neighborhood then go to Jollibee, all that hype for medicore chicken
Was it just a rumor or did Benny post really gross videos of his child a while ago?? When ppl do stuff like that, I never have respect for them again. Everyone in the comments are saying he's a good guy, so maybe it wasn't true.. I'm just confused lol
Selena Gomez fan base is rabbit, they don't know who he is. He was making fun of her years ago, yeah because he was Justin's friend and you talked bad about the ex. Until, he actually knows who she is and was like I want to tap that. Allegiance changes when you start dating a person.
She looks happier than ever and he seems like the sweetest guy !! Not to mention incredibly talented. I’m happy for them and would love to see them make music together
Selena’s fans can be so toxic. They feel entitled to say hurtful words and dictate how she behaves under the guise of care. Even to a family member, maybe I would give them warnings but never act condescending like that. Edit: the word “toxic friend/family member” comes to my mind.
I just feel like since she was young she had this persona of being the ‘girl next door’ that she doesnt even realise she can fo wrong and her behaviour on so many different issues had made me lose more and more respect for her each time.
I find him endearing and adorable and you can tell that he speaks with loads of sarcasm and I’m happy that she’s happy. Outward appearances aren’t shit they really aren’t and I think he’s handsome as all hell, I really do, then after finding him on TikTok his personality makes him even more so. No one is perfect and if you are, you spent a hell of a lot of money to get that way.
*_Those jerky fans are miserably bizarre! Thinking they have a right to someone else’s intimate relationship?! What they would do & what she should do?! They ALL need to find a real life productive hobby._* 😳
It's interesting she doesn't have the same attitude towards speaking up against genocide when her fans tell her how important it is only if it's about her
Selena is chronically online..which is a shame because she doesn't use it well. Just 3 months ago she was interacting with old non-viral hate tiktoks online and it fuels her fans against other women and that has been going on for a long time, over a decade easily. She has sicked her fans on several women such as Miley Cyrus, Barbara Palvin, Cailin Russo, Sophia Richie, Bella Hadid, the Jenner sisters and of course her favorite Hailey Bieber. I DO genuinely hope Benny is end game for her, I get what she meant when she said "so off" to that fan. She is ready to settle down and she chooses Benny. He seems to treat her very well, that's what matters. She wanted to be married by 25..she is in her 30's now. She snapped at her own fans over him so let her be with him. I hope he gets her to a place where she can step away from social media again !! A lot of her fans have turned away from her because of her encouraging fans to drag other women, so she needs to take a step back for the sake of her image.
Fans need to realize they do not know these people. They have NO CLUE whats going on, and they have no right to order her around. Shes a grown woman who can make her own decisions.
@@AKbaby89 Just saying, she is a grown woman and can make her own choices. There’s no need for people to tell her what to do. Doesn’t mean people have to like him. A lot of people naturally won’t like him since a lot of people don’t take kindly to those that distribute child porn. Don’t get why thats a controversial stance. Its one thing for people to discuss his appearance and to make nasty rumors, (not cool), but arrest records are public knowledge, not gossip.
@kelseyling987 dude are you replying to the wrong comment thread? I legitimately do not understand why you're saying all this. My comment says "fans need to realize they do not know these people. They have NO CLUE what's going on, and they have no right to order her around. She's a grown woman who can make her own decisions." Not only did I explicitly say the public has no right to order her around, and she's a grown adult who can make her own decisions, but I also never talked about any criminal record, my comment has absolutely nothing to do with her criminal record and weather or not criminal records are public info or not. You're literally arguing about something I wasn't even talking about, and at the mean time you're saying the exact same thing I said. How you got to where you are, I truly have no clue. I also never said that a criminal history is gossip, and I never said shit about his appearance or insulted anyone, or spread any rumors.
@@AKbaby89 Oh it seems like you don’t know? My apologies then. My comment will make more sense if you google his arrest records. Outside of public records people have no clue about their life, but yeah he has cp on his record so people do have somewhat of a clue of who he is as a person.
The reality is, you’re not a real fan if you don’t support your girl in a healthy relationship but try to bully her back into a relationship with Bieber. You don’t care about her, you care about your sick fantasy. I’m so happy Selena finally found someone who treats her like the absolute Queen she is.
I don’t like her anymore but why do people think they have a right to comment on her relationship. Or think she owes them anything. Keep your opinion to yourself and let her date whoever she wants it’s no one’s business.
He said something a long time ago that people are so offended over while selena isn’t. People talking bad about his appearance are so awful and shallow
People need to mind their own business lol parasocial relationships are getting out of control especially when everyone dogpiles on someone (like they did with Selena and Hailey) and then one person will be like the bullying (that everyone started for no reason because of control parasocial relationships) is too much now guys and then everyone loves the person they were bullying and by doing that they bully someone else and it’s a really bizarre online cycle that never stops it’s so weird
She's a public figure, not public property her toxic fans should stop trying to control her love life and fix themselves for being so involved in a celebrity who doesn't know their existence
people blame her for how she reacts to shit online but then try and control who she dates. like if i had that many people coming at me i'd probably get frustrated too.
I always thought benny seemed like a very relatable and down to earth person. I saw him in a tv show called "dave" where he played himself and it was so funny. So when i heard he was with selena gomez now, i was genuinely happy for them ❤ and lets be real folks at the end of the day a person's character is so much more important than any looks...
I think it’s one thing for Benny of saying something off and then it’s another thing when he gets to know her and then he’s dating her. I just hope they’re having the best relationship with each other.. but that dude that was interviewing Benny like he really doesn’t like him or things he doesn’t deserve her. That’s kind of scary.
It’s no one’s business who she’s fallen in love with and it just shows how superficial these people are. The most important thing is how a person is from the inside out before the outward appearance which if anyone knows someone who is funny, kind and a decent person would know how easy it is to fall in love with a man when he’s not ideally who you go for or would loo at…… but when there someone with substance, personality & funny it like a wow, ahhha moment. Couldn’t be more happier for her she deserve someone who loves her and treats her properly.
She, as well as many other celebrities, need to put up stronger boundaries earlier on with these fans. I think it's great she's holding her own. Honestly, if the key argument is based on looks then truly that's despicable. If he treats her like gold and she's attracted to him, that's what matters. Why do these "fans" feel like they should get to dictate such personal things? Seriously superficial horseshit
Can we agree this society pays too much attention to looks? Nobody has to be the hottest man or the hottest woman for you to date them, I dont understand why people pay only attention to that, and I get he's problematic but that's on selena
I think aside from his looks…I just didn’t appreciate him talking that smack about her previously and him disrespecting Filipino culture. I’m happy if Selena is happy, but I can’t I find him to be a decent guy.
I love how everyone watched Justin treat Selena like literal SHIT, FOR YEARS... and still some are hardcore "Jelena" fans.... but Benny says ONE fucking barely shady comment years ago, not even known for sure if it was toward Selena.... and suddenly she's not doing what's best for her, she's with a loser, she deserves better, etc. What the fuck.
This is why many people who criticize the Kardashians are hypocritical. The same people who slam them for promoting "unrealistic" beauty standards will turn around and criticize Benny Blanco for his looks.
I know how she feels. So many people called my husband so many names. Cause he was overweight and told me that he was a woman beater and that he was gonna hurt me and why not? Well, those she poured no longer in my life and my husband has been there for 28 years. Marriage 29 years together. Don't listen to the hate.
I'm glad your marriage sustained and you are happy. I hope he was also able to work though that - that's genuinely horrible and traumatic. I have a firm policy of not speaking negatively about my partners or exes with friends and family. I won't hide the truth if something occurred, but I don't allow others to speak negatively like that to me. Genuinely curious, why did they claim that he was abusive? That's a life ruining and crazy thing to lie about somebody with. Especially if it was multiple people. I have a toxic family that I went no contact with, so I know sometimes groups of people can double down on saying/doing anything just to control a single person's life.
When you spend your limited lifetime telling celebrities who they should or shouldn't have relationships with, YOU are the embarrassing one. She likes him the way he is. He gives her something she loves and that's between them. She is finally happy and not lonely. No person who supports her will do that to her. Those are not fans those are trolls, pathetic trolls.
if they're happy and the relationship is healthy, their relationship is no ones business. also a break can last anywhere to a few hours to a few days to a few weeks.
Girl needs to protect her peace and stop replying to comments or all together not read them 🫠 shes a grown women who can date whoever she wants. Replying to those comments does nothing but make her look bad and its not helping AT ALL bc its feeding the fire
As long as Benny isn't treating Selena like shit, their relationship is none of my business.
Period bby
Selena treating Benny like shit too right?
i feel like it be that way either way. its creepy and annoying for random ppl to be invested in other's relationships at all
I agree but like people change he may have shaded her before but i guess noone heard of enemies to lovers thing lmao
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Trying to tell a grown woman how to live her life is hilarious like I’m no Selena fan but the way her fans try to tell her what to do is hilarious like I hope she marries this mf so her fans will learn their place
as much as i get viscerally disgusted every time i see benny blanco pop up on my fyp, i agree, i think people should leave selena alone.
to be more specific, i dont just mean his looks, its just his internet presence especially on tik tok
Well said, it's crazy that ppl are like "well that's just her fans". Like, no.. it's not okay.
@@thesaltines8220wait why you just don’t like how he looks?
do i get her attraction? actually yes but i get why other people are so hateful. but she's the happiest i've ever seen her since the early days when she was with youknowwho.
@@toriplayssg i never thought too deeply about how he looks, i mentioned it bc this video specifically talks about his looks, i mostly dont like the fact that he acts immature in the videos ive seen of him online gagging at ethnic foods. i associate that mans face and voice with gagging and i hate it.
I love how everyone can “tell” how he’s a “bad guy” or a “horrible person” but y’all can’t identify the red flags in your own relationships? 😂
the man posted his child naked
@@kpopqueenie8085 Now this is the kind of information I care to know about. This is a reason ppl should hate him. Not because he’s not attractive.
They need a gentle reminder that a lot of serial killers are attractive men
@@kpopqueenie8085wtf. like accidentally or what?
@@kpopqueenie8085yeah the problem is most ppl don’t know this bc they’re too focused on how he looks
Nah I’m on Selena’s side. Literally leave her alone. She’s the only who’s with him not you. Let it go
I would have said the same if she has not benefited so much in her carrer from involving her fans in her relationships and drama. She uses them like weapons when it's convenient and encourages them to defend her by liking and replying
shady comments... now she doesn't want anyone in her business 🤡
...you can't just deactivate the unhealthy attachment they have.
@@missymanieverything I've seen of Selena the last year she's been encouraging her fans to not go and bully people such as Hailey Bieber. To blame her for the actions of some of her crazed fans is WILD. To think you can have an opinion on her relationship now because of past actions IS WILD. To think you have some sort of opinion or stake in the game because you're her fan? IS WILD.
@@missymani are we talking about the same person?
she and her fans needs to let it go.
"Fighting your fans for a man is embarrassing"? Lmao naw What is embarrassing?Is these people being so obsessed with a celebritg who doesn't even know them 💀 You are so obsessed with this person that you expect her to listen to your words and dump somebody that she loves? For you? THATS weird. People are mad because of how Benny looks. Period. Who cares if he shades pop stars who have a make up brand. If that is the worst thing I could experience with a partner, I'd be incredibly grateful. Her "fans" are being gross and judgmental
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Her fans are their worst enemy
Preaaaach!!!!!!
You should see how korean fans are with their korean idols (actors/singers). They can't even have a relationship or else the fans cancel their own idol.
I don't understand the people telling her he's not a great guy. She's a grown woman, she can make her own decisions, if he turns out to be a bad guy, so be it??? But those are her choices, people need to stop babying her tbh.
That video of him talking shit about her is so bad though. It's public. Everyone can see that.
And he made an off handed comment that could have been about anyone. This is what they're using to call him a bad person. It's so strange.
Yeah no fr lol I'm confused why anyone gives a shit? Like if you have a job, full time college student, or in a relationship of your own I cannot envision you caring at all. It's boredom that makes peopel care
Constantly sharing love life online. Surprised about getting reception.
@@rakenzie Insulting someone, their boyfriend, and then saying they have low-esteem is not reception. Y’all seriously need to get a life.
The guy interviewing Benny WAS BRUTAL LMAO. He kept backtracking but also kept going 😂😂😂
Andrew is a comedian and really good friends with Benny. Otherwise yeah, I'd be worried because he went hard 🤣.
I'm pretty sure he was doing a bit. I thought it was funny and I think Benny did too lol
You have now been introduced to Andrew Santino. That was very mild for him though, so I wouldn’t recommend watching him again if that felt brutal. He goes too hard, to anyone’s face but especially with people he actually knows. 😂😂😂
the amount of bodyshaming i've seen regarding this relationship is insane, so sad thought we were better than that
According to the internet, we can’t body shame women but men are fair game. And they wonder why more men commit suicide….sad world we live in
Apparently he's a man so it's okay.
Who else found Spill Sesh one day and just cant stop watching her videos?
Can’t relate, been here for years.
@@trayas2272that’s what they mean tho cause u came across her channel one day and you’ve been a fan ever since
I don't even know most of the influencers/celebrities but I click so fast seeing a new video posted. Her voice is soothing and entertaining.
Me. I think it was during the Colleen Ballinger thing last year. I actually found a lot of "tea channels"/commentary channels that way. Spill Sesh is one of the better ones. The rest are either boring (Radiantbritt), preachy (Drama Kween), or just cheap content mill shit with AI vocals that mispronounce half the words (can't remember that one, but it's something like Tea Spill or some variation of the tired old "spill the tea" phrase we need to permanently retire because white people have ruined it for everyone else).
I clicked to sort by oldest and realized one day that I've been watching since they started
I feel kinda hurt for Benny in that interview . To be spoken about how you look everyday I can never imagine the emotional damage and self insecurity’s that are building up because of other people .
We need to do better as a society .
he’s a gross person so he deserves it idc
I feel really bad for Benny. I think its way too low to comment on someones appearances
Lmao wait, he does look like the guy from Ice Age 😂
YES
Are we referring to Sid? Cause personally I really don’t see it 😭 what am I missing
He looks like the baby from ice age 😭😭
@@andreaperez1210 now that makes more sense
yup 💯
Why did people think that she was going to go after a guy that is like socially attractive? She’s happy he’s happy. He cares about her. She cares about him like leave it alone. I feel bad for the guy.
If she’s getting treated amazingly.. Looks ?? Do they matter that much?
I think it's absolutely ridiculous that strangers legitimately believe they know Selena's insecurities and what's best for her. Like STOP! And bringing up how someone's appearance is less than standard... that's in your eyes, not anyone else's. People are SO WEIRD.
I'm just shocked she actually replies to trolls. With as many followers/fans she has and how big she is in the industry, she actually replies which means she also reads that many comments too.
I don’t see how people don’t see how sick she is. If she didn’t give it any attention no one would know about this. The only reason people care is cause she’s responding. All celebrities have to deal with fans talking sh1t but most don’t engage cause they know it makes it worse. But Selena knows she is nothing without the drama so she has to participate.
@@nitely2345plenty of celebrities engage with online comments. Ariana grande, Taylor swift, and some ex one direction members had their own online drama pre covid, whether it be twitter or tumblr.
@@nitely2345She's sick for responding but y'all ain't sick for going on her page talking mess?? Make it make sense plus she's more relevant than you sis literally had a song blow up before it was released and her makeup line is successful but she's nothing without drama that y'all start?? Ok
@@ZionDoesMakeup right? how dare a woman stand up for her man when she's a celebrity and she's just supposed to shut up
@@denise7530 EXACTLY YOU GET IT!!
Honestly I went down a rabbit hole of this guy and honestly he's so chill. I think people just HATE ethnic looking people
I agree. I don't know much about the guy but based off what Ive seen, he seems like such a friendly and easy going guy.
He posted a video of his kids privates or something I'm pretty sure that's why they don't like him....
nothing about his appearance but there's also this controversy about him posting his child naked on the internet.
@@ricaramos9631he has a kid ? And he posted them naked ? Gross
YES EXACTLY ITS SO FRUSTRATING
Idk why people think they know whats best Selena... Let the girl live. And so fucking what if he made a silly comment 3 years ago. Just because he mentioned Justin doesnt mean hes referring to Selena either..
I’m not Selena’s biggest fan, but if they are happy that’s what matters! She loves who he is for WHO HE IS and he seems to love her for being her.
You can't be a unicef world ambassador and not speak out against genocide...
PREACH !!!!!!!!!!!!
Took way too long to find this comment! 🍉
But she can fight all night with her fans who made her rich over a guy who poops his pants 🤭💀 and people tried to warn her about Justin she had the same pick me reaction years ago 😅 I don't know why people care about her dating life, let her destroy it 🤷🏻♀️
Isn’t Benny blanco also a z1onist
@@5autumndream He sure is!
She needs to go back to not running her socials 💀 I feel like she's been wreaking havoc in her own reputation for the past 2 years
the same fans that talk sh!t about Benny's looks are the same ones that want Selena and Justin back together. That man literally treated her like trash.
Not that I care about any of these celebs but people telling her Benny isn't good for her are kids still hoping for a reunion with Bieber. The same kids who keep fighting Hailey for "snatching JB away."😂😂 Get off your diapers!
I think it’s great to spread more awareness about how toxic social media can be. And how taking breaks once in a while is healthy. Also I can respect standing up for your relationship when you’re legitimately happy. No matter what people say about shallow things like looks. If she forgives him for those past comments, then it could have the potential to be the real thing. Who knows.
It’s 2024, literally everyone is aware social media can be toxic. She wasn’t spreading awareness, she was whining and fishing for sympathy. Based on your comment, it worked. At the end of the day, social media is not a necessity If you can’t handle it, simply don’t use it. I don’t understand the “breaks are healthy” part, but if using Instagram requires her to constantly take a break in order to keep her health, then she definitely shouldn't be using it.
I guess i’m part of the percentage of people who actually love their relationship!! I find them so adorable! And I also find Benny attractive.
but he posts his child naked
Yes! Same!
Y'all worried abt the wrong things.. the real problem is him posting his child naked on the internet full of creeps
When?
👏 That and him being Zionist.
Relationships are not for public consumption. He seems like a great guy tbh. People who talk about his looks are immature. There is much more to a person other than what they look like.
He’s posted disturbing photos and captains of his infant child to instagram
@@lyss.n.wndrlnd many parents do the same thing. Maybe stop being pedo. And thrust over a kid.
This is so disgusting. Imagine if the world was dissing a woman in that way, the world would be in an upoar. But just because benny is a man it's ok to go after his looks??
This is why celebrities hate their fans. You can support someone’s art/music without being so invested in their personal lives.
True but no one wants to support a person they don’t believe to be good
Selena Gomez is in the top 5 most people followed on IG. And now she's telling people it was just her marketing team running the page for her and she didn't even check what they were putting out for 4 years?
Just because other people were running her socials doesn't mean she didn't know about or approve the posts. It just means she didn't directly interact with the social media sites herself. It's a pretty common setup for celebrities
@@owl.feathers I highly doubt she was approving photos but even if she was, it was just a PR agency posting captions, comments and likes as though it was Selena directly interacting with her fans
Do you see the posts from girls crying with happiness after getting a like from "Selena" or "Taylor Swift" on their post? It's just a bit of a slap in the face to fans now she's admitting any response was from a Brent working as a PR media manager..
Benny just needs to hire a stylist or something to give him that non surgical glow up on par to Jack Harlow.
I don’t understand why she keeps replying to everyone on ig
She only gets attention for her relationships
@@KittyCatt1326she has a billion dollar beauty brand. She hasn’t been single for like 4/5 years. You can’t act like she’s relevant because of Benny blanco
She replies because celebrities aren’t above everyone else on social media just like youre allowed to leave comments wherever you please. It’s her instagram page, why do people comment there if they don’t want her to see and react?
@@dotcom3015 so true, why can't it be "I don’t understand why people keep leaving nasty comments on a celebrity's IG"
because she human lol 😂
She has enabled and used her fans for years. Especially when they go after people she does not like. Obviously now the fans think they get a say because they've been doing her dirty work for so long. The celebrities that weaponized parasocial relationships haven't really seen the negative sides of them yet.
This is the only comment that matters! Thank you for making this statement
He actually looks like a nice guy. I wish them the best
What do Selena fans expect from someone who’s built a career off a victim complex? Like that’s her whole aesthetic 😂 respectfully she’s always going to “clap back” because her fans enable her behavior just stop talking about her and she’ll be fine
All drama aside. How is it normal to bully someone for their looks ? In this self-confidence, body-positive society ? Let the man be, he's more successful than any of us.
Selenas fans telling her how to live her life yet they go back to an ex who cheats on em is WILD 😂
I've never cared for her. Selena. Also, imo selena received all thise followers the wrong way aka other ladies getting bullied while her numbers grew. Her speaking voice is 😖
She gained her followers by being a famous Disney actress and dating an international superstar + makeup brand. I just don't think these insults of her speaking voice or anything of the sort are fair. She can't control how she SPEAKS. Her voice is shaky. Lupus can cause voice issues. A quick google search shows that..
I’m all about women supporting women but the clip of her has me wondering whether her monotone speaking voice is a trauma response/disassociation thing? Has she always spoken like that?
I really wish happiness to Selena, but her man gives me bad vibes
She is the bad vibes
@@tamara10 Nah, wrong.
@@tamara10they're both both bad vibes 😂
Her fans actually dont have to think he is attractiv. Only she has to think that
Idk why people knock her make up line. I’m not even a fan of her music, but her make up is amazing. The only celeb line that’s good imo. Idk about the new lotions she’s come out with, but the rest is so good
At first I was neutral about Benny because I don’t know who he is outside of these videos about him. But he was shiiiiiiitty about Jollibee. Super disrespectful. Not so neutral now.
As a Filipino, fuck him for saying that about Jollibee.
& did you see those posts of his son a few years ago? (Naked photos) The proof is out there on tea or other channels.
@@markramos1216 I’ve never had Jollibee but I was absolutely disgusted about how he acted. I wanna try it even more now
Sorry but Jollibee isn't that good, maybe overseas but here in the u.s it's pretty nasty with no flavor and soggy ass school cafeteria fries
I forgot way too over priced for chicken shack 😅 you're better off getting chicken shack in the most dangerous neighborhood then go to Jollibee, all that hype for medicore chicken
Was it just a rumor or did Benny post really gross videos of his child a while ago?? When ppl do stuff like that, I never have respect for them again. Everyone in the comments are saying he's a good guy, so maybe it wasn't true.. I'm just confused lol
Yeah, I only read one other comment similar to yours mentioning that. everyone is calling him an angel and it confused me too.
Selena Gomez fan base is rabbit, they don't know who he is. He was making fun of her years ago, yeah because he was Justin's friend and you talked bad about the ex. Until, he actually knows who she is and was like I want to tap that. Allegiance changes when you start dating a person.
She looks happier than ever and he seems like the sweetest guy !! Not to mention incredibly talented.
I’m happy for them and would love to see them make music together
Lmao she never took a 4yr break
It wasn’t a secret. I actually thought they were still running it until recently when she started clapping back and being messy
Selena’s fans can be so toxic. They feel entitled to say hurtful words and dictate how she behaves under the guise of care. Even to a family member, maybe I would give them warnings but never act condescending like that.
Edit: the word “toxic friend/family member” comes to my mind.
I just feel like since she was young she had this persona of being the ‘girl next door’ that she doesnt even realise she can fo wrong and her behaviour on so many different issues had made me lose more and more respect for her each time.
Benny reminds me of Abel funny enough. Maybe shes trying to relive her weeknd days.
Didn’t she break up with him though?
@80sbrunnette I'm not a selena fan at all just one of the bored one they talk about in these comments.
He doesn’t look like Abel, tbh Abel is better looking. 👀
@@celestialceleste369 I’m not a Selena fan either😂 that’s why I asked if she broke up with him
I find him endearing and adorable and you can tell that he speaks with loads of sarcasm and I’m happy that she’s happy. Outward appearances aren’t shit they really aren’t and I think he’s handsome as all hell, I really do, then after finding him on TikTok his personality makes him even more so. No one is perfect and if you are, you spent a hell of a lot of money to get that way.
Salina needs to totally ignore those from the peanut gallery who denounce her current relationship😺
Leave Benny alone !!! He has lupusssssssssss
They should totally dress up as beauty and the beast for halloween as a response
That’d be iconic
Love when you post, I can finally eat in peace 💞💞
this is so real
Me too !!
I'M NOT SHOCKED! He gives her everything she needs! Looks mean NOTHING! When will people understand that? Quit judging!
She’s been in so much drama that I refuse to believe she’s the victim EVERY single time.
I've said it once and I'll say it again Selena's 'fans' are her biggest enemies-
At last she came to know how toxic her fandom is I'm living for the drama but the way thy treating Benny is disgusting
Parasocial relationships are so weird. People feel entitled to their opinions because they think they know the person from social media. 😂
People need to worry about their own lives
He looks like the kind of guy who could truly make Selena happy
I am literally watching this channel EVERY DAY😂
Same omg
So what if he isn't attractive to y'all he clearly treating her better than Justin ever did 🤦🏽♀️ like y'all needa worry about y'alls relationship
Yeah y'all.
*_Those jerky fans are miserably bizarre! Thinking they have a right to someone else’s intimate relationship?! What they would do & what she should do?! They ALL need to find a real life productive hobby._* 😳
It's interesting she doesn't have the same attitude towards speaking up against genocide when her fans tell her how important it is only if it's about her
it's kinda ironic tho because when justin was dating sofia richie she was lashing out on him because he was defending her from fans lol
The fans who hate Benny and tell her he’s bad are some of the same fans who still wanna see “Jelena” back together 🙄
Selena is chronically online..which is a shame because she doesn't use it well. Just 3 months ago she was interacting with old non-viral hate tiktoks online and it fuels her fans against other women and that has been going on for a long time, over a decade easily. She has sicked her fans on several women such as Miley Cyrus, Barbara Palvin, Cailin Russo, Sophia Richie, Bella Hadid, the Jenner sisters and of course her favorite Hailey Bieber. I DO genuinely hope Benny is end game for her, I get what she meant when she said "so off" to that fan. She is ready to settle down and she chooses Benny. He seems to treat her very well, that's what matters. She wanted to be married by 25..she is in her 30's now. She snapped at her own fans over him so let her be with him. I hope he gets her to a place where she can step away from social media again !! A lot of her fans have turned away from her because of her encouraging fans to drag other women, so she needs to take a step back for the sake of her image.
Fans need to realize they do not know these people. They have NO CLUE whats going on, and they have no right to order her around. Shes a grown woman who can make her own decisions.
Arrest records are publicly available actually
@kelseyling987 that has nothing to do with my comment, and im aware of that, I never said they're private.
@@AKbaby89 Just saying, she is a grown woman and can make her own choices. There’s no need for people to tell her what to do. Doesn’t mean people have to like him. A lot of people naturally won’t like him since a lot of people don’t take kindly to those that distribute child porn. Don’t get why thats a controversial stance. Its one thing for people to discuss his appearance and to make nasty rumors, (not cool), but arrest records are public knowledge, not gossip.
@kelseyling987 dude are you replying to the wrong comment thread? I legitimately do not understand why you're saying all this.
My comment says "fans need to realize they do not know these people. They have NO CLUE what's going on, and they have no right to order her around. She's a grown woman who can make her own decisions."
Not only did I explicitly say the public has no right to order her around, and she's a grown adult who can make her own decisions, but I also never talked about any criminal record, my comment has absolutely nothing to do with her criminal record and weather or not criminal records are public info or not. You're literally arguing about something I wasn't even talking about, and at the mean time you're saying the exact same thing I said. How you got to where you are, I truly have no clue. I also never said that a criminal history is gossip, and I never said shit about his appearance or insulted anyone, or spread any rumors.
@@AKbaby89 Oh it seems like you don’t know? My apologies then. My comment will make more sense if you google his arrest records. Outside of public records people have no clue about their life, but yeah he has cp on his record so people do have somewhat of a clue of who he is as a person.
Spill Sesh and Sloan are my tea updates ❤
The reality is, you’re not a real fan if you don’t support your girl in a healthy relationship but try to bully her back into a relationship with Bieber. You don’t care about her, you care about your sick fantasy. I’m so happy Selena finally found someone who treats her like the absolute Queen she is.
I don’t like her anymore but why do people think they have a right to comment on her relationship. Or think she owes them anything. Keep your opinion to yourself and let her date whoever she wants it’s no one’s business.
He said something a long time ago that people are so offended over while selena isn’t. People talking bad about his appearance are so awful and shallow
they go well together, end of discussion.
People need to mind their own business lol parasocial relationships are getting out of control especially when everyone dogpiles on someone (like they did with Selena and Hailey) and then one person will be like the bullying (that everyone started for no reason because of control parasocial relationships) is too much now guys and then everyone loves the person they were bullying and by doing that they bully someone else and it’s a really bizarre online cycle that never stops it’s so weird
I like Benny, he seems like a nice guy, people are way too harsh on him and Selena deserves all the love, people should leave them alone
She's a public figure, not public property her toxic fans should stop trying to control her love life and fix themselves for being so involved in a celebrity who doesn't know their existence
people blame her for how she reacts to shit online but then try and control who she dates. like if i had that many people coming at me i'd probably get frustrated too.
She should just block the comments 😂
I always thought benny seemed like a very relatable and down to earth person. I saw him in a tv show called "dave" where he played himself and it was so funny. So when i heard he was with selena gomez now, i was genuinely happy for them ❤ and lets be real folks at the end of the day a person's character is so much more important than any looks...
I think it’s one thing for Benny of saying something off and then it’s another thing when he gets to know her and then he’s dating her. I just hope they’re having the best relationship with each other.. but that dude that was interviewing Benny like he really doesn’t like him or things he doesn’t deserve her. That’s kind of scary.
Exactly what I was thinking! He’s allowed to change his opinion on her after getting to know her more
The people who bully him are the same one who get offended from literally anything.
Didn’t he post his child not clothed and just gross conversations that should be private
It’s no one’s business who she’s fallen in love with and it just shows how superficial these people are.
The most important thing is how a person is from the inside out before the outward appearance which if anyone knows someone who is funny, kind and a decent person would know how easy it is to fall in love with a man when he’s not ideally who you go for or would loo at…… but when there someone with substance, personality & funny it like a wow, ahhha moment.
Couldn’t be more happier for her she deserve someone who loves her and treats her properly.
The red headed guy is disgustingly mean
3:52 so is being worried about a celebrity’s, or anyone for that matter, love life.
She, as well as many other celebrities, need to put up stronger boundaries earlier on with these fans. I think it's great she's holding her own. Honestly, if the key argument is based on looks then truly that's despicable. If he treats her like gold and she's attracted to him, that's what matters. Why do these "fans" feel like they should get to dictate such personal things? Seriously superficial horseshit
why does she talk like that in that first clip😭
Can we agree this society pays too much attention to looks? Nobody has to be the hottest man or the hottest woman for you to date them, I dont understand why people pay only attention to that, and I get he's problematic but that's on selena
I think aside from his looks…I just didn’t appreciate him talking that smack about her previously and him disrespecting Filipino culture. I’m happy if Selena is happy, but I can’t I find him to be a decent guy.
As long as he makes her happy that’s what matters and the most important thing she needs at the moment
I love how everyone watched Justin treat Selena like literal SHIT, FOR YEARS... and still some are hardcore "Jelena" fans.... but Benny says ONE fucking barely shady comment years ago, not even known for sure if it was toward Selena.... and suddenly she's not doing what's best for her, she's with a loser, she deserves better, etc. What the fuck.
This is why many people who criticize the Kardashians are hypocritical. The same people who slam them for promoting "unrealistic" beauty standards will turn around and criticize Benny Blanco for his looks.
I know how she feels. So many people called my husband so many names. Cause he was overweight and told me that he was a woman beater and that he was gonna hurt me and why not? Well, those she poured no longer in my life and my husband has been there for 28 years. Marriage 29 years together. Don't listen to the hate.
I'm glad your marriage sustained and you are happy. I hope he was also able to work though that - that's genuinely horrible and traumatic.
I have a firm policy of not speaking negatively about my partners or exes with friends and family. I won't hide the truth if something occurred, but I don't allow others to speak negatively like that to me.
Genuinely curious, why did they claim that he was abusive? That's a life ruining and crazy thing to lie about somebody with. Especially if it was multiple people. I have a toxic family that I went no contact with, so I know sometimes groups of people can double down on saying/doing anything just to control a single person's life.
When you spend your limited lifetime telling celebrities who they should or shouldn't have relationships with, YOU are the embarrassing one. She likes him the way he is. He gives her something she loves and that's between them. She is finally happy and not lonely. No person who supports her will do that to her. Those are not fans those are trolls, pathetic trolls.
You didnt even mention him posting his naked child on tiktok thats the beef I have with him
Why does it sound like she's holding her nose when she talks? She didn't always sound like that
if they're happy and the relationship is healthy, their relationship is no ones business. also a break can last anywhere to a few hours to a few days to a few weeks.
“you’re so red…. you’re SO red.”
😂😂😂
Girl needs to protect her peace and stop replying to comments or all together not read them 🫠 shes a grown women who can date whoever she wants. Replying to those comments does nothing but make her look bad and its not helping AT ALL bc its feeding the fire
Does anyone else hate her speaking voice? 😖