Sometimes I think it is fate, if it is not meant to be then you won't be with that person no matter how much effort you put in. For my situation I dated my ex for almost two years to break up because I felt like our relationship is going nowhere and she is not putting in the effort. She immediately found another guy a few months later which broke my heart. Almost a year and a half later I found someone else and she is perfect for me and we are planning to get engaged even we have only knew each other for over a few months.
There is no one right answer. It could be many things. It could also be that since most girls want a guy with "experience" the guys are just practicing being in a relationship but all along they know she is not the one and are on the lookout for the right one and now that they have the experience they know what to do, so they move things faster. Seems harsh but its true. If a guy ends things and the next girl asks about his past relationship experience he might be embarrassed if it was a very short one. Girls these days want a guy with like a 1 year+ of relationship experience. It's kinda their fault. This is also why girls shouldn't give it away because if they do, they devalue themselves and that is not attractive. Women are the most valuable thing on Earth. That's why some guys go to extremely great lengths to better themselves, get rich, have XYZ, I've even heard some go as far as becoming doctors just to get girls. It's not because they want to do all that work. No its because they want a woman. In my opinion I think if its not gonna work out, just cut off the relationship and stop wasting her time because women have less time. BTW you forgot to ask us our opinions at the end of the video.
Sometimes I think it is fate, if it is not meant to be then you won't be with that person no matter how much effort you put in. For my situation I dated my ex for almost two years to break up because I felt like our relationship is going nowhere and she is not putting in the effort. She immediately found another guy a few months later which broke my heart. Almost a year and a half later I found someone else and she is perfect for me and we are planning to get engaged even we have only knew each other for over a few months.
Sometimes I think it is fate, if it is not meant to be then you won't be with that person no matter how much effort you put in. For my situation I dated my ex for almost two years to break up because I felt like our relationship is going nowhere and she is not putting in the effort. She immediately found another guy a few months later which broke my heart. Almost a year and a half later I found someone else and she is perfect for me and we are planning to get engaged even we have only knew each other for over a few months.
There is no one right answer. It could be many things. It could also be that since most girls want a guy with "experience" the guys are just practicing being in a relationship but all along they know she is not the one and are on the lookout for the right one and now that they have the experience they know what to do, so they move things faster. Seems harsh but its true. If a guy ends things and the next girl asks about his past relationship experience he might be embarrassed if it was a very short one. Girls these days want a guy with like a 1 year+ of relationship experience. It's kinda their fault.
This is also why girls shouldn't give it away because if they do, they devalue themselves and that is not attractive. Women are the most valuable thing on Earth. That's why some guys go to extremely great lengths to better themselves, get rich, have XYZ, I've even heard some go as far as becoming doctors just to get girls. It's not because they want to do all that work. No its because they want a woman. In my opinion I think if its not gonna work out, just cut off the relationship and stop wasting her time because women have less time.
BTW you forgot to ask us our opinions at the end of the video.
But you shared anyway 😆
Thanks for sharing!
Sometimes I think it is fate, if it is not meant to be then you won't be with that person no matter how much effort you put in. For my situation I dated my ex for almost two years to break up because I felt like our relationship is going nowhere and she is not putting in the effort. She immediately found another guy a few months later which broke my heart. Almost a year and a half later I found someone else and she is perfect for me and we are planning to get engaged even we have only knew each other for over a few months.
Thank you for sharing and I’m happy you found love!