True story. When I was in grad school (in Chicago), my best friend was a Japanese MBA student. We were staying on the same floor in the dormitory. He's very shy, and even though his English is quite good (compared to most Japanese), he didn't like to socialize and hang out with others, ESPECIALLY other Japanese students (who considered him very eccentric). But for some reason, we got along famously and we quickly became really good friends and were inseparable, so much so that there were rumors (mostly among the Japanese students) about us. We both knew that but thankfully we didn't care. The truth is, I did have a crush on him and he might have some feelings for me. But even though he's quite unconventional when it comes to his personality and his choice of friends (preferring non-Japanese to Japanese - he was like that even when he was at Waseda university in Japan where he preferred hanging out with Mainland Chinese foreign students), he's still a traditional Japanese man, especially because he's the oldest son in his family. I am 100% sure that he's gay, but we never expressed our feelings for each other, let alone consummating them. Over all these years, we have still somehow managed to stay in touch. He's married now and has a daughter. (The fact that many Japanese couples sleep in separate beds really suits him.) I went to Tokyo to visit him a couple of years ago and we had dinner together. I still have a lot of fond memories of the time we spent together and the weird things we did (e.g. driving to O'Hare Airport in the middle of the night to watch the planes land and take off - he had a strange obsession with airports). Sometimes not all gay relationships have to be consummated sexually but can still give you fond memories. By the way, he's really handsome and had a nice body - on another previous visit to Japan, we went to an onsen together so I saw everything .....
Wow, thank you for sharing with me your story. When I went to the U.S. for graduate school, I met a very attractive Japanese guy as well. We were very close and hung out together a lot. Too bad that we lost contact with each other. I knew he got married as well. Well, memory is something good to have and no one can take that away.
In my country, we used to live like this too - in the closet all day, at night... free. It is not a happy way to live. We are very, very lucky in Taiwan. We have the best of Japan, the best of China, and the best of the west.
Thank you for your message. The gay friendly environment is not easy to create. Taipei is probably the most comfortable city for gay. Other cities are catching up I think.
謝謝馬分讓我們知道了日本同志公私分明的態度
我也是開了眼界。
日本的夜店种类分得很清楚，其实不止是夜店，日本人的生活、习性各个领域都分的很清楚。工作就是工作，私下就是私下。大家平时不太会过问对方的私生活这一点让我觉得很舒服，个人觉得这并不是一种冷漠，而是对于对方独有空间的一种尊重和包容。 新橋的ビジネスマン感觉就是和赤羽的サラリーマン层次不一样，虽然都是上班族（开玩笑）😌
还有我觉得，老师给marvin吃的不算是寿司吧😂感觉要么是韩国的紫菜卷，要么是日本的恵方巻哎～
對不起，老師不是日本通，台灣把這種都叫做壽司吧？節目時間不長，否則Marvin一定還能多說很多日本的事情。
Teacher Shen 谢谢老师的回复。我来自大陆，所以不太清楚台湾食物中对于寿司的定义问题。若产生误解，请多多包涵。不过这样的长度的话，一般在大陆食物中会被归类为“紫菜包饭”这一类，或是“韩国紫菜卷”当中去😂。大陆这边的寿司都比较短，稍长一点的可能就是三角形冰淇淋筒状的“手卷寿司”了。
@@ナーパイ 沒關係啦，不要覺得抱歉，個地方的文化不同。這些「壽司」也是我在台灣的便利店買的，為了遊戲好玩而已。一般台灣的日本料理店賣得壽司也不是長這樣。
壽司有很多種類啊~
印象中最容易想到的那種, 在醋飯上面放片魚肉的是握壽司
如果是橢圓形側邊包海苔 上面再放料的叫軍艦壽司
影片裡的是壽司捲
還有在平底圓形容器裡鋪上一層飯, 再把不同的料鋪在上面的叫散壽司
不過這不是美食頻道XD
Marvin好帥，而且聲音好聽以外，講話也很有調理❤️
對呀，整一個超級優秀的。成熟的人真的非常討喜。
So cute this Marvin....got ig or not
日本人真的分床睡 認同😄！去外面住飯店也是要雙床😂😂😂
年紀輕的時候親密浪漫比較好，結婚久了就覺得睡眠品質比較重要。謝謝回覆。
True story. When I was in grad school (in Chicago), my best friend was a Japanese MBA student. We were staying on the same floor in the dormitory. He's very shy, and even though his English is quite good (compared to most Japanese), he didn't like to socialize and hang out with others, ESPECIALLY other Japanese students (who considered him very eccentric). But for some reason, we got along famously and we quickly became really good friends and were inseparable, so much so that there were rumors (mostly among the Japanese students) about us. We both knew that but thankfully we didn't care. The truth is, I did have a crush on him and he might have some feelings for me. But even though he's quite unconventional when it comes to his personality and his choice of friends (preferring non-Japanese to Japanese - he was like that even when he was at Waseda university in Japan where he preferred hanging out with Mainland Chinese foreign students), he's still a traditional Japanese man, especially because he's the oldest son in his family. I am 100% sure that he's gay, but we never expressed our feelings for each other, let alone consummating them. Over all these years, we have still somehow managed to stay in touch. He's married now and has a daughter. (The fact that many Japanese couples sleep in separate beds really suits him.) I went to Tokyo to visit him a couple of years ago and we had dinner together. I still have a lot of fond memories of the time we spent together and the weird things we did (e.g. driving to O'Hare Airport in the middle of the night to watch the planes land and take off - he had a strange obsession with airports). Sometimes not all gay relationships have to be consummated sexually but can still give you fond memories. By the way, he's really handsome and had a nice body - on another previous visit to Japan, we went to an onsen together so I saw everything .....
Wow, thank you for sharing with me your story. When I went to the U.S. for graduate school, I met a very attractive Japanese guy as well. We were very close and hung out together a lot. Too bad that we lost contact with each other. I knew he got married as well. Well, memory is something good to have and no one can take that away.
I laughed at you when you said he wasted his time when he only had one boyfriend in five years. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Very informative episode. Marvin is an angel.
I like him a lot. He is alway very polite and sweet. The reason I said he wasted his time because I know he is single now.
@@teachershen oh now I understand. Five years then to end seems like a waste. I hope they at least had some good times together. Best wishes to him.
@@chrisdelacruz6093 I will ask him to come read this message. I'm sure it wasn't a waste. We all learned something from our past.
我看西島秀俊跟內野聖陽合作的《昨日的美食》，他們飾演的同志情侶就是分房睡。
我以前看過蔡亦竹老師談日本人的性子，日本人真的很分明，而且不喜歡麻煩別人，所以人跟人有距離感。
我覺得他們是不是真的很注重「禮貌」，這種禮貌會讓人太過於尊敬對方所以產生距離感？
睡覺生活分開保持個人空間超適合我的😝
我也覺得自己一個人睡覺比較好睡。
支持各種分床睡，真的睡著的世界不會有另一半
哈哈，只要你另一半也支持，怎樣都好。
沒去過日本的Gay Bar, 不過從日劇中看到一般的bar也就是小小一個L型櫃台 客人就坐在那邊 畢竟一個人顧店 大概就只能招呼到這麼大小而已吧 就有點像台灣ㄇ字型的涮涮小火脫店那樣 (還比台灣小好多好多) Marvin是很帥 看到訂閱1.18 觀看1.3K 應該越請越帥就會越來越接近1:1啊
我一直告訴Marvin說他很帥，但他自己卻不覺得，真的奇怪。但謝謝你和我們分享這麼多，你的回覆是給我們最大的鼓勵。
感覺Marvin應該是個內心很纖細的人！
但是這不是重點，重點是他太迷人可愛了！好想把他娶回家！👍❤️😬😅
他真的是細心與貼心的人，歡迎去追蹤他的IG和他交朋友。
@@teachershen Marvin是0號嗎？我也想娶他回家！
可以再多說一點 很有趣呢
二丁目有Dragon Man 聽說已經是存在蠻久的夜店了 感覺也不錯
不知道Marvin有沒有去過。我會請他上來看看問題。
In my country, we used to live like this too - in the closet all day, at night... free. It is not a happy way to live. We are very, very lucky in Taiwan. We have the best of Japan, the best of China, and the best of the west.
Thank you for your message. The gay friendly environment is not easy to create. Taipei is probably the most comfortable city for gay. Other cities are catching up I think.
我好喜歡日本人，但沒去過日本，上班的社區日本人住戶，男生好帥氣喔！♥可惜都是人夫人爸
日本人感覺對人很有禮貌。你有機會出國玩玩是很好的。
@@teachershen 老師我只去過泰國一次2004年，第一次出國，之後就沒有出國玩，最想要去的就是日本♥
@@蘇宏諺-f3h 找時間去阿，很近很方便的。
@@teachershen 想啊！但沒有人陪
@@蘇宏諺-f3h 看來你真的要多交一些好朋友。我個人是很喜歡一個人出國旅遊，無拘無束的。
謝謝老師和 Marvin 讓我們能了解到別國家的相處模式。比起很多地方，台北真的是相對自由和開明的國家，希望這樣的文化能一直傳承下去～
謝謝你的留言，沒錯，台灣能有今天的成果，真的要感謝許多前人的鋪路。日本如果有更多人願意出櫃，相信他們的平權也能更順利。
不是我怼你惹，真素笑鼠，现在连台北都是一个国家了嘛，嘻嘻
@@羽早川 哎呀，人家應該是筆誤啦。
Teacher Shen 嗷嗷，居然被老师翻牌了，开森。老师，距离上次留言到现在我还没有男朋友呜呜呜。占卜说我如果今年不交男友，就会单身一辈子😨
@@羽早川 江湖術士。算命要是會準還有人匯出來選總統玩股票？男朋友要小心選，不要急。
想到華燈初上
是喔？可惜我還沒看。是小酒館的意思？
他好端莊穩重哦！
是不是？成熟的男人真的比較有魅力，我認為啦。
他是富察皇后嗎
@@ac1110041 這是什麼意思阿？
日本訂的生活規矩，例如有哪些啊?
節目中沒有這樣講啦，這要看每個人不一樣，有些人進家要脫鞋，有些人上床要先洗澡，應該沒有一些規矩是日本人特別有的吧？
Marvin好帥
我正在想請他再來上一集。謝謝您的鼓勵。
怎麼會！回台灣時，覺得同友們都有點瞎拜假淑女、放不開，真希望他們能夠更直接乾脆點，免得浪費光陰，甚或痛失良機。
很好奇你的朋友是哪些人阿？但台灣喜歡假模做樣的人真的也是有。
good 很有趣
謝謝您的留言與鼓勵。
直男表示看到偶包很大，还以为是下面那包很大的台湾用语。。。
這誤會大了。是偶像包袱啦。
希望老师能访问曾在中国、韩国、东南亚、生活过的同志。
有喔，新的內容與題材會慢慢上傳。中國、新加坡的都已經拍過。將來還預計會拍泰國的。請繼續支持與關注。謝謝您的回覆。
男神男神
好帥喔😍
是不是？我也覺得他超級迷人。
有Marvin ig嗎？
marvin0507 可是他都放吃的內容比較多。
请问一下有什么推荐的约炮app吗？
看你去哪一國，現在比較熱門的有grindr, hornet
@@teachershen 谢谢
@@teachershen 誒 hornet變約砲軟體嗎？那還有什麼是真正的交友軟體啊？
@@Raindropfallingdown 要類似像臉書或是aloha這種比較像交友吧？但「交友」都是通稱啦，看你想交怎樣的朋友都行。
@@teachershen 臉書是...？怎麼交?aloha好像只能大陸註冊欸
老师真的看的出对Marvin, 虎爪难收， 一开始就搂抱着 marvin, 从来没有对男嘉宾露爪， Marvin的魅力难挡， 我也觉得
哈哈，Marvin真的超可愛！不小心就忍不住。但我們兩個感情還不錯，之前就認識，我才敢這樣做啦。
日本真压抑
我覺得他們是收放自如。
新宿很多同性恋酒吧就一个吧台，不好玩，喝一杯酒后就跑路了。据说台湾同性恋酒吧好玩，去过两次台北，没去过同性恋酒吧:-(
你下次來台北玩，一定要去同志酒吧玩，很多酒吧都有自己的特色，有大有小，玩很瘋，人也很多。
@@teachershen 不敢去台湾同性恋酒吧，怕看到帅锅（帅哥）后不想回大陆了，没法留在台湾....
@@teachershen 感觉台北很繁华，和北京一样车水马龙，我喜欢台东、花莲等小地方。
帥喔
我也覺得他超帥。
沈老师你要感谢上帝你住在台湾，你可以在台湾到处浪。日本很不开放，日本人比中国人更加循规蹈矩，我感觉日本人活得很压抑。
我沒去過日本幾次，也沒去過日本的同志場所，所以不是很瞭解。我是很喜歡台灣，特別這幾年同婚合法，更棒！
@@teachershen 去日本旅游不错的，特别干净有序...
日本Gay bar有點像lounge bar？跟新生北路的Scorpion 很像
我沒去過耶。那家是日式經營風格嗎？
Teacher Shen 是啊，開應該十幾二十年了吧，跟Marvin所講的內容很像，一個小吧台，一群人坐一排，跟bartender 聊天，有卡拉ok大家唱
Teacher Shen 在10491台北市中山區新生北路一段110之1號，雖然是一個很不起眼的小門，但剛好在路邊，所以應該算好找，純聊天唱歌，很適合我這種肢障
@@YetzFuh 你這樣一講我好像去過，就和朋友坐在酒吧旁邊唱卡拉ok，我好像20年前去的吧？
Teacher Shen 以前有兩個人，一個是ㄏㄧㄠˊ唧唧的媽媽桑大偉，一個bartender 小偉，但前幾年去的時候只剩小偉一個了
長知識了
謝謝您的回覆！
我喜欢
謝謝您喔。我也覺得他非常迷人，我有邀請他再來上節目，可惜他現在的工作不方便了。
头
感謝多支持！
@@teachershen 嘻嘻