I have a short temper and I just can't express myself when I'm angry...coz sometimes I end up saying things I don't't even mean..and I don't share much of this side with my friends... I'm an extrovert but I'm book.
Yeah i have a hard time articulating in the moment so, some of the anger is at myself because I can't get people to understand why I'm upset. But to the other people, they just hear me sounding angry and they don’t get why. I mean usually I do get angry because of they did but, I find it hard to, in my opinion, properly articulate why they made me mad so then I just get more frustrated trying to use my words to explain. I need space and time to figure how to articulate what I want to say but I'm not always given that time.
For myself I realized all my anger stemmed from feeling out of control. I couldn’t control my environment growing up and so when Id feel out of control as an adult I’d resort to anger. Once I gave my childhood trauma to the Lord I haven’t had an issue in two years. Praying for everyone who suffers and struggles with anger here. 🙏🏻
If you can’t speak to someone right away, in my experience it helps a lot to just write down or type out all of your feelings in full and keep writing until you run out of steam
I’ve never wanted to be friends with people more than I do stray kids. Like they’re just this group of people who seem so caring and sweet and fun and I just love them sm
I feel like Chan would be the perfect big brother, like you could talk to him about anything and he would still love you no matter what you are going through yk like he would always be there for you🤍
This validates my cousin's friend. Apparently he had swimming lessons with Chan when he was probably like 5 - 7, and from memory, he said Chan was competitive so he would easily get angry. But the guy said the same thing as Chan did. "It was a long time ago though"
I can relate, I also believe him when he says that his dad is different now, my dad too, now he actually acts like a father, but i used to be terrified of him, he was so abusive and now he's like a panda or golden retriever which is CRAZY, I also try not to repeat the same mistakes, I hope and wish he always is surrounded by loving, understanding, caring people with whom he feels comfortable and talks, our boys are very stubborn so I hope he sees that he's never alone
Yes I have anger issues to but to calm me down is just listening to Channie's videos actually calms me down,I feel his more then just an idol his a great friend ❤❤❤❤
Anger stems from not feeling heard. Over time, you become resentful, lost, underappreciated and neglected by the people closest to you. So it festers into anger. One day you meet someone who validates you and encourages you to speak up even if it's uncomfortable and soon it will allow you to deal with that trauma over time. It's a process but it's possible.
I used to have really bad anger issues growing up. I learned to manage them at about 10 and now I only get mad if someone is disrespectful to someone I love. We’re so much alike💀
I also have the anger issue i think, I’m normally really patient but when it reach the highest i would be like sth ,i hope i can find s/o that i can share my feelings ☺️
I also got it from my dad, it's really really hard to hold anger in especially when you're in an environment that can easily trigger anger. My jaw often hurts because I clench my jaw so much trying not to explode, I had a habit of pinching or digging my nails to my skin to control my anger before but I've already abandoned that habit. Now usually breathing helps, I pause everything I do and then just do deep breaths on the spot. I always feel guilty everytime I can't control it tho because my words are harsh when I lose my shit, then because I feel guilty the next thing I'll try to hold in is crying lol
Bro my younger sisters just literally fought before i watch this clip, they won't even listen to me as the elders & continue shouting at each other when i already give out a solution. So i just called my parents and let them hear how bad the argument was silently without them knowing before i open the speaker for everyone, they instantly went quiet. Im so tired, they're going to be in a deep shit when my parents get home.
I also have immense anger issues but Im glad that I can atleast recognize when its unreasonable and stupid and not act out on it because whew, also Idk how to describe it but its as if I can only have 2 extremes, Im either neutral/apathetic or Im completely engulfed in emotion (Which includes other emotions not just anger). Sort of a blessing and a curse.
Gosh my anger gets to such a terrible point sometimes and so easily that I can't control it anymore. I end up hurting the people around me and then I DROWN in self guilt, but my aggression and anger is so bad that when do get angry I start seeing red and have no control over it. Sometimes I have to hurt myself so I don't project it onto others. It's that bad :(. I know I get it from my father too lol. He projects his anger onto us a lot in aggression but that makes me question if it's mor e hereditary or the environment I grew up in. I guess it's both.
I dont get angry like I used to be angry. But I was in a bad situation before so it felt like the world was against me. Now, even with increasing pressure to measure up for my future, I feel so much more chill (i blame it on skz 😂)
He's being so careful . He's like: "😓...Don't cancel my dad please."
Real ❤
anyone wanna cancel mine?
@@chadstchad if you cancel mine I'll cancel yours :)
@@LeeknowsnothingandeverthingI’ll cancel yours if you cancel mine
Yeah let's cancel each other's dads ( daddy issues gang, new to the club, stronger not weaker✊️)@@Leeknowsnothingandeverthing
He's such a great friend we ALL ever need 😭😔🤙
Fr bro
yeah hes just so comforting, idk why but i trust this man with my life 😭
Fr
I just a great dad to 🥺
my bestie was like this but she broke my heart so😢
Yeah anger issues are usually hereditary mostly not because of genetics but the environment you are brought up in
Yess so true!
Fr I get mine from my dad too
@@BANGCHANSBABYGORL Same here, and I hate it 😤
I get mine from both of my parents, so you can guess how well that goes in fights lol
It seems like my siblings inherited my mom's anger issues, but I inherited my dad's calmness...
I ALWAYS have to be the peacemaker 😭
If I don’t have a husband like him, I don’t want to marry. 😭👰♀️
Same honestly. If it means that I have to stay single forever, then fine. I’ll just marry a cardboard cutout of Chan or something 🤣
@@laurastayatinyharmony9923I'm totally joking,but your comment is giving Oli London🤣🤣🤣 Minus the plasic surgery and crazy koreaboo stuff
The sad truth😂😭
Same with me💀😭
@@laurastayatinyharmony9923😂😂😂😂😂
He is just like me :")
I hope that he is not feeling bad of what he said on this live I understand him :((
I have a short temper and I just can't express myself when I'm angry...coz sometimes I end up saying things I don't't even mean..and I don't share much of this side with my friends... I'm an extrovert but I'm book.
I can unfortunately relate to this..
Talk with your loved ones and tell them when you're angry, you need time to yourself to cool down, in your room/space alone.
@@samikshasinha2202 same here
Yeah i have a hard time articulating in the moment so, some of the anger is at myself because I can't get people to understand why I'm upset. But to the other people, they just hear me sounding angry and they don’t get why.
I mean usually I do get angry because of they did but, I find it hard to, in my opinion, properly articulate why they made me mad so then I just get more frustrated trying to use my words to explain.
I need space and time to figure how to articulate what I want to say but I'm not always given that time.
Yeah i have the same problem
He is such a good human... Acknowledging ones flaws, reflecting on them and working to get better is peak maturity
He is so humble to speak bout his problems...Chan isn't an idol, he is an angel and a very great man...😊😊😊❤❤❤
For myself I realized all my anger stemmed from feeling out of control. I couldn’t control my environment growing up and so when Id feel out of control as an adult I’d resort to anger. Once I gave my childhood trauma to the Lord I haven’t had an issue in two years. Praying for everyone who suffers and struggles with anger here. 🙏🏻
Channie always gives the best advices
If you can’t speak to someone right away, in my experience it helps a lot to just write down or type out all of your feelings in full and keep writing until you run out of steam
What calms me down when I'm mad I just put headphones in and listen to straykids ❤ they are the best
for me i always watch videos of "funny chan's room moments" it makes me calm down right away and sometimes it even makes me laugh my anger out
Yeah or just listen to ther voices no matter what they speak about😂😂😂 I love Bang chans very calm voice😊😊😊
stray kids are the best therapists shhh😅😂😂😂
yep agreed therapy is expensive but Straykids content is unlimited and free 😃❤️ #Straykidsbesttherapists
Me trying to imagine chan with anger issues when he's a literal angle
I’ve never wanted to be friends with people more than I do stray kids. Like they’re just this group of people who seem so caring and sweet and fun and I just love them sm
Same 😭
We STAYs may not know him personally but I think most of us trusts him more than we trust our parents and friends
I love his voice it's so soothing, honestly he'd be perfect for a podcast
When im angry I shut down. It takes time to discuss it, but I will talk about it calmly.
Chan remains a role model for any man out there. He is just everything.
Speaking it out. Music and dancing. Both work for me.
Chan is the husband material we all need
My dad is angry all the time, it's kinda depressing to know that Chans dad was too.😔
Chan is really so cute
His smile gets me every time
Everybody : Paying for a therapist
Me : Taking life notes on Chan's lives
Thank you Chan for being human so we don’t feel alone ❤
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🎛🎛🎛🎛🎛🎛🎛🎛🎛❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🎺🎺🎺❤️❤️
Bro why couldn't all men speak of how they feel,just like him 😭
I feel like Chan would be the perfect big brother, like you could talk to him about anything and he would still love you no matter what you are going through yk like he would always be there for you🤍
He’s really authentic and real. Very sincere.
Chan is now officially my therapist 😂❤
Also he looks so hot here
Chan is a such a beautiful human. If the world was more like Chan we would be Alot better. What a joy he truly is.. many blessings 🙏☮️🌞🌻💙🤍🖤💕
Bangchan has a really similar personality to me I'm glad to have someone that understands me
Kinda of topic, but why does he look so insanely handsome here-
IKR
he always looks insanely handsome
@@shrutipanday5918 yup true, but now even more than usual
@@noorpie143 yess he slays effortlessly all the time
Chan would be a good therapist
He’s like that one friend who’s always there when you need them
This validates my cousin's friend. Apparently he had swimming lessons with Chan when he was probably like 5 - 7, and from memory, he said Chan was competitive so he would easily get angry. But the guy said the same thing as Chan did. "It was a long time ago though"
I love he is so honest on matters like this
I can relate, I also believe him when he says that his dad is different now, my dad too, now he actually acts like a father, but i used to be terrified of him, he was so abusive and now he's like a panda or golden retriever which is CRAZY, I also try not to repeat the same mistakes, I hope and wish he always is surrounded by loving, understanding, caring people with whom he feels comfortable and talks, our boys are very stubborn so I hope he sees that he's never alone
And that's why he's my bias in skz. Imagine him coming to you with every problem. I'd listen to him all night.
Nobody understands how much i love him 😭😭
Im so sad that chan stopped doing these lives,he was literally like my therapist😭🤚
I love that he’s open about his struggles. We will always support you Chan
Yes I have anger issues to but to calm me down is just listening to Channie's videos actually calms me down,I feel his more then just an idol his a great friend ❤❤❤❤
It's so cute how he's being so delicate with his words❤ he's so sweet
It's just scary to see chan be mad/angry cause you dont expect it from someone like him.
We love you channie❤🤙
Me🤝Chan
Have anger issues from dad
(I'm crying, I love him so much)
Bro this boy needs to be hugged and protected like watching his lives is like going to a therapist for free 😭💗💗
Lol me too I got anger issues from my dad 😂😂
he’s being real😭
I love Chan for talking about this. The more you hold it in, the angrier you get and that’s just more stress on you than anything.
Amazing and wise advice from Bangchan
Oof he said I wouldn't be the same as my dad
I need someone like him in my life
His such a pure down to earth Aussie . We need more people using their platform in a positive way . Males definitely need support too .
that's why i loved bangchan
He’s our free therapist
i cant relate to any anger issues being that i cry pool of tears at the sense
lol he's like my school counselor 😭
Chan thank you for being my therapist. 🙏
Chan is so careful but honest❤
I wish someday we all can have a friend like him , his future wife will be the luckiest one 😌😌😌
He is literally A psychologist to us ❤
Anger stems from not feeling heard. Over time, you become resentful, lost, underappreciated and neglected by the people closest to you. So it festers into anger. One day you meet someone who validates you and encourages you to speak up even if it's uncomfortable and soon it will allow you to deal with that trauma over time. It's a process but it's possible.
This man is an angel on earth....I mean even the way he talk you can't help but smile at how genuine he is about everything.
Bang chan would be a great guy to get to know better and become friends with him or just someone to talk to ❤😊
I used to have really bad anger issues growing up. I learned to manage them at about 10 and now I only get mad if someone is disrespectful to someone I love. We’re so much alike💀
He so wise so young but so wise so proud 👏 🥲 of him he is definitely a role model 💖
Moral of the story: you can break the cycle 💛
I got that from my dad too and he is no more with us (didn't die he just leaved us) it's hard to control yk :(
I also have the anger issue i think, I’m normally really patient but when it reach the highest i would be like sth ,i hope i can find s/o that i can share my feelings ☺️
This is why he’s our daddy- he’s so wise and nice and sweet
He’s so pleasant person☺️
I also got it from my dad, it's really really hard to hold anger in especially when you're in an environment that can easily trigger anger. My jaw often hurts because I clench my jaw so much trying not to explode, I had a habit of pinching or digging my nails to my skin to control my anger before but I've already abandoned that habit. Now usually breathing helps, I pause everything I do and then just do deep breaths on the spot. I always feel guilty everytime I can't control it tho because my words are harsh when I lose my shit, then because I feel guilty the next thing I'll try to hold in is crying lol
girl how could I not simp on him, when he's this sincere and even this fine
Who can I speak to when all I have are K-pop idols 💀😭
Dude this makes me feels even more lonely 😭😂
chan always have the best advice if idol do not work out he can be an advisor,counsellor,or therapist 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚
This explains what I.N meant when he said " Chan Hyung when his hair were red" 😂
Naw bc if I try saying why I'm angry, I start ranting and getting even more pissed 😭
People around us don't understand speaking ,thats why they make us angry in the first place
if I don't marry someone like chan then I'm not getting married
He’s the friend I need🥹 I need him as a friend but I can’t have that😭
He's the sweetest guy ❤️
oh i feel him so immensely xbjzbzjzbzj
We miss him soo mich.😢
If I dont have a husband like chan then marriage will never come across my mine
Him making lives in English so he doesn’t forget it and doesn’t lose his weird accent 😅😅😅😅😅
he's just so fine icnthd
When he gets angry the most? when Seungmin calls him old 😁
Bro my younger sisters just literally fought before i watch this clip, they won't even listen to me as the elders & continue shouting at each other when i already give out a solution. So i just called my parents and let them hear how bad the argument was silently without them knowing before i open the speaker for everyone, they instantly went quiet. Im so tired, they're going to be in a deep shit when my parents get home.
I like people who are honest!
I ❤❤❤❤ your eyes.full of purity and kindness.
Don't be stressed okay.
I also have immense anger issues but Im glad that I can atleast recognize when its unreasonable and stupid and not act out on it because whew, also Idk how to describe it but its as if I can only have 2 extremes, Im either neutral/apathetic or Im completely engulfed in emotion (Which includes other emotions not just anger). Sort of a blessing and a curse.
Gosh my anger gets to such a terrible point sometimes and so easily that I can't control it anymore. I end up hurting the people around me and then I DROWN in self guilt, but my aggression and anger is so bad that when do get angry I start seeing red and have no control over it. Sometimes I have to hurt myself so I don't project it onto others. It's that bad :(.
I know I get it from my father too lol. He projects his anger onto us a lot in aggression but that makes me question if it's mor e hereditary or the environment I grew up in. I guess it's both.
Chan u can always talk to us and share ur problems we'll always be there for u 🤗
Damn he's so charming 😍🥰
I dont get angry like I used to be angry.
But I was in a bad situation before so it felt like the world was against me.
Now, even with increasing pressure to measure up for my future, I feel so much more chill (i blame it on skz 😂)
I love him. Like how can I NOT
Boxing really really helps 🤌🏻
Same Chan I get really annoyed and angry at people who constantly bug me and I get that from my dad
HIRE HIM AS A THERAPIST ☝️☝️🤌🤌🤌🤌
Oof, I got anger issues from both sides. But luckily, I too have moved past it.