Scorpio Moon: The Depth, The Intensity, The Secret Pain

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  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2020
  • Having a Scorpio Moon is intense and painful. Why? What can you do? What are the good things about this placement? What are the issues? Let's dive deep!
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  • @ingaostra6470
    @ingaostra6470 Год назад +35

    Yes we are deep, but when you scorpio moon go into yourself, heal yourself, transform that pain to the light and love, you can create a beautiful harmonious life and relationship ❤❤♏️ I love me, love my scorpio, love to feel life intensely ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @Laska_VA
    @Laska_VA 3 года назад +61

    It hurts being a Scorpio Moon, the ability to feel more than others, the feeling of wanting closeness, understanding and love from others. Sometimes some people can't even handle our own emotions, don't understand the pain or don't know how to help. I'm a Scorpio Moon and my Sun Sign is Pisces and Rising sign is Cancer.
    In which makes me a into a very sensitive, empathetic, intuitive and emotional person.

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад +3

      Wow, I'll bet!!

    • @MyNameBeeKayy
      @MyNameBeeKayy Год назад +3

      Wow, grand trine luminaries (big 3). Super rare but also ouch. & With double moon influence since the moon is your chart ruler, hopefully there's earth in your chart to keep from being swept away by overwhelm. Pisces rising, Scorpio moon, Capricorn sun and even double water can be a struggle.

    • @Laska_VA
      @Laska_VA Год назад +3

      @@MyNameBeeKayy I'm not into astrology as much as when I posted this but having water signs is a struggle and a gift. It just hurts for us more what we feel and sometimes it's hard to even know to handle it, since it can lead into a down-spiral mindset. I guess since I'm triple water I just have a deep thoughts and an intense love buried inside. We need to grow ourselves and our emotions while having good people around to support us, especially those who care and can put some sense into our heads when we're drowning XD. Cause I can definitely say that people who abuse or hurt a water sign's heart will probably will see a darker side of them (Scorpio Moon XD) and most likely will leave since they feel unsafe or betrayed.
      I do get overwhelmed at times and the only earth signs I have on my chart are one Virgo and one Capricorn. Earth is my least element, not many grounded territory for me. Water is my strongest, while Air is second and Fire is third.
      P.S. I just realized that my comment might have the most likes on this video XD

    • @MyNameBeeKayy
      @MyNameBeeKayy Год назад +1

      @@Laska_VA your comment def has the most likes 🤜🤛 I checked earlier. Glad to have brought the stars to your forefront if just for moment. I think what hurts the most is feeling like emotions or any turbulence is hard to share. Difficult to put in words sometimes, difficult to change and even when expressing it's there's always more under the surface.
      Btw happy memorial day

    • @Laska_VA
      @Laska_VA Год назад +1

      @@MyNameBeeKayy Oh yeah putting it into words is a struggle too since there's a lot underneath since the emotions are strong. I'm getting better at expressing those emotions and feeling better on not feeling like I'm a bother. It's different for everyone but I would say take your own pace since mine may very well be different.

  • @gabbispivey1234567
    @gabbispivey1234567 2 года назад +27

    I really loved how raw this video is. No editing out moments where you were thinking and processing. Just like an open discussion. I found this spot on for me. Gemini sun, Scorpio moon, cancer rising. Feelings are very hard and intense. Especially the feelings of rejection.

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  2 года назад +5

      Thank you! I try to allow myself to be authentic in my videos and show people the real me. It probably helps that my Scorpio Moon is conjunct my Midheaven. :)

    • @loveli_anne
      @loveli_anne Год назад +3

      I’m a Gemini sun with Scorpio moon and rising.

    • @aml8760
      @aml8760 Год назад

      ​@@JoytotheWorld11 very appreciative of your authenticity.

  • @user-lj7cg3kz2p
    @user-lj7cg3kz2p 6 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you!!!! You have given me insight into my mother who had Scorpio moon and often went into her bedroom and shut herself away in a mood. She didn't receive the affection and emotional support from her mother who was busy working 2 jobs because her husband had abandoned family when my mother was very young. I grew up (Taurus moon having to be emotionally self sufficient and now I understand the pain my mother who had pisces sun experienced. I found your talk helpful but felt your pain deeply. ❤

  • @mmak2909
    @mmak2909 2 года назад +7

    What i like is u talk so naturally. Thanks for ur simplicity

  • @ditaz2378
    @ditaz2378 3 года назад +24

    Yes I can and express emotions easy and need it so bad. But so true about withdrawing too and sabotaging relationships before. I could open up to strangers but not to a man. And attracted emotionaly unavailable, toxic ones. Till few years back I accepted myself, done painful inner work and voilà lovely man came by:-).

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад +4

      Wonderful! :) That was my experience as well

    • @ZenithAstrology
      @ZenithAstrology 3 года назад

      I’ll only open up TO a man as a man because of what took place..

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад +1

      @@ZenithAstrology You okay?

  • @michellep3814
    @michellep3814 Год назад +12

    You are helping out so many people with the work that you do

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  Год назад +4

      People really don't get it, unless they do 💙

  • @katzumihanzo5471
    @katzumihanzo5471 2 года назад +8

    Alright, you talked about all our flaws and darkness, I think you also need to say the good side of our moon!

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  2 года назад +5

      I thought I did! haha
      One thing I wish I had discussed further is our ability to transform ourselves.

    • @katzumihanzo5471
      @katzumihanzo5471 2 года назад +1

      @@JoytotheWorld11 without any help!!!

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  2 года назад +6

      The key is Taurus. Sensory pleasure, stability, slowness.

    • @awakenedpisces680
      @awakenedpisces680 2 года назад +1

      @@JoytotheWorld11 you did ☺️

  • @krisslumsden6880
    @krisslumsden6880 2 года назад +7

    Yes... to all of it! Wallowing in that delicious emotional pain of breakup used to be my crack...lol. I also must say that Aqua rising (me too) with a Scorpio Moon makes a fantastic astrologer! ;-)

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  2 года назад +1

      Thank you!! 😊 I also have Uranus exact my Midheaven

  • @nityaprakash8871
    @nityaprakash8871 3 года назад +13

    Thank you for this video. I am a Capricorn sun, Taurus rising and scorpio moon. I feel positive thinking is such a challenge for me. Pain seems inherent but life is still very interesting.

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад +7

      For me, the trick is to balance it out with pleasure, and what I've read about neuroscience has taught me that it's important to consciously embrace whatever pleasure or joy or comfort or gratitude can be found in situations throughout the day. it's important to me to be honest with myself when I'm hurting and allow myself to experience it, but it's also important to make sure that I'm not just doing that all the time. Today, for example, I'm probably going to make some bone broth and beef jerky and maybe a salad. Simple, healthy pleasures go a long way to heal the nervous system. :)

  • @n.3840
    @n.3840 3 года назад +11

    You are wonderful. Thank you for making and sharing this. It was surprisingly helpful and awakening for me.

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад +3

      It's such a blessing to hear that. Thank you for sharing it with me :)

    • @n.3840
      @n.3840 3 года назад +1

      @@JoytotheWorld11
      Of course. We have to stick together. Us Scorpio moon people. We're all brothers and sisters here. ...don't get me wrong, I try to be brotherly towards everyone I meet, but not all of everyone I've met could be so kind and considerate. So I guess we can't all be together... but I try. Anyway. Thank you again. You got a new sub. I hope you have a nice rest of your night.

  • @awakenedpisces680
    @awakenedpisces680 2 года назад +6

    I really enjoyed this video. Very honest, personal, simple and intimate.
    My North Node is in Taurus as well, I’ve been practicing Taurean things for the last two years. I feel at peace within myself for the first time in my life at 36. The universe blessed me with a 12th house Taurus sun last year who is wonderful for my emotional well-being.

    • @lifelessonswithnoma
      @lifelessonswithnoma Год назад +1

      i wish i could say the same about my taurus sun in 12h with scorpio moon but as a cancer sun i have tried everything

    • @awakenedpisces680
      @awakenedpisces680 Месяц назад

      @@lifelessonswithnomaHow are you doing Goddess🤎✨

  • @zandatee
    @zandatee 2 года назад +5

    It's SO impressive such honesty. It' s just.. impressive, wise. The deepest respect to you.

  • @sukiliyah
    @sukiliyah Год назад +1

    This was AMAZING! I connected with it so much. Thank you for taking the time to record 🖤

  • @TheIbelieveinME
    @TheIbelieveinME 3 года назад +9

    Thank you for a great video and explanation, I am a pisces sun scorpio moon and this video has helped me in my path

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад +1

      Wonderful :) I'm so happy to hear it!

    • @themoonbleu627
      @themoonbleu627 3 года назад +1

      oh wow that’s an intense combo I’m a virgo Sun Scorpio moon .. My bf is a pisces rising making him very sensitive and emotional but he’s it’s not the same type of emotional as me so wow I can’t imagine that combination it sounds like a challenge but i’m sure you have figured it out ❤️

    • @awakenedpisces680
      @awakenedpisces680 2 года назад

      I share this as well. What’s your rising sign?

    • @TheIbelieveinME
      @TheIbelieveinME Год назад

      @@awakenedpisces680 Taurus

  • @heyyjoynae
    @heyyjoynae 2 года назад +6

    Pisces Sun Scorpio moon here 😍👋🏽👋🏽 I loved this video thank you ❤️❤️

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  2 года назад

      You're welcome, and thanks for commenting! 🥰

    • @hamerhaai6274
      @hamerhaai6274 2 года назад +1

      Same here. Pisces 🌞 Scorpio 🌙 and Virgo rising. My Virgo placements keep me grounded 😚

    • @viktorgadany7595
      @viktorgadany7595 Год назад +3

      Pisces sun, Scorpio moon and Scorpio rising here.

    • @jennaswann2191
      @jennaswann2191 9 месяцев назад

      Pisces sun, Scorpio moon, Leo rising here ❤😊

  • @magamaulina
    @magamaulina 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us. It was very useful and it helped me to heal too! Very very grateful, I send you a big hug ♥🌷

  • @Bazmimoon
    @Bazmimoon 3 года назад +6

    This was so eye opening. Will definitely have to listen to this over a few times 💯 🎯
    Capricorn sun/Scorpio moon/Gemini rising

  • @Jennie-yolan
    @Jennie-yolan Год назад

    Wow Joy I can cry…You are my everything. I understand my scorpio moon now more than ever.

  • @adriennesuydam791
    @adriennesuydam791 3 года назад +7

    Excellent video, thank you. I’ve never been able to pinpoint the “freezing”, it’s more of going mute IME, but this is spot on. Scorpio moon conjunct Saturn & Pluto.

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад +3

      Thank you, and you're welcome. :) It's rough! Recognizing it when it happens and learning ways to support myself through it has helped me so much though

    • @ZenithAstrology
      @ZenithAstrology 3 года назад +2

      Aquarius rules freezes I definitely do it as an Aquarius Scorpio moon Conjunct Pluto . This is a personality change. One or many is quite and one is not or many. People think my humor is me. No it’s a child altars makes jokes.

  • @utleythetrainer
    @utleythetrainer 10 месяцев назад +2

    Leo Sun
    Scorpio Moon
    Leo Rising
    5/1 Manifesting Generator
    Emotional Authority
    The best video!! You were spot on and deeper than 6 other videos I watched. Thanks.

  • @123gp1833
    @123gp1833 3 года назад +2

    Thanks for this video. It explains a lot.

  • @AS-eq2qm
    @AS-eq2qm 3 года назад +3

    26:49-27:29 interesting! THANK YOU(!!!!!!!!!!!!!) 💕 i went through my scorpio crisis back in 2018 i am currently still going through it so thanks again for the insight. I really needed to hear that... and it make so much sense where i am currently at mentally.

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад +1

      Happy to help :) Healing is so much more effective when you know how to work with these heavy energies. I wonder if you've heard of IFS?

  • @durellpowell3324
    @durellpowell3324 2 года назад +3

    I am a Scorpio moon and rising, DEEP
    WITH A LEO SUN

  • @sipa.8032
    @sipa.8032 Год назад +1

    this was great. thank you 🙏🏾💙

  • @michellep3814
    @michellep3814 Год назад +2

    thank you for making this video

  • @veronova7855
    @veronova7855 Год назад

    It was a spontaneous decision searching for a video regarding this specific topic. The title was so simple and yet to the point so I knew it was right for me. I wasn't prepared. The things you said were spot on. Even the reference to the spicy food? Like... I do the same exact thing, I wondered why I keep seeking and eating very hot and spicy food to the point of it being painful but I enjoy it every time and keep on craving it... it's just an example of how you hit the nail with pretty much everything you said... you described living life as a scorpio moon jut perfect... so much so, that I really have to take time and reflect, digest... I was pretty carefree as a teenager and through my adolescence I struggled immensely with any kind of relationships, like all my trauma (from birth to now, just as you said) struck me after entering a relationship with a person that triggered the depth and darkness in me (he is a scorpio sun)... so many questions I can approach (slowly) thanks to your perception and kind sharing... thank you, I really am dumbfounded right now

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  Год назад

      I'm so grateful that sharing these experiences and insights has had a positive impact :)
      How do you feel now that you've had a couple days to sleep on it?

  • @kilgonus
    @kilgonus 4 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing your insights in having a Scorpio moon. I've heard some astrologers give there take, but it's second hand or usually read from a book. Your first had knowledge is very helpful in peering through the mask that they need to have in order to function in the world. Cheers

  • @mystic8758
    @mystic8758 24 дня назад

    I have a Scorpio mars and this sums up me… and my childhood and the way i go about relationships. I’m very intense and secretive; everything resonated wow I’m crying. Taurus Sun, Virgo Moon, Leo Rising I’m fixed !!!

  • @awakenedpisces680
    @awakenedpisces680 2 года назад

    I now understand why the universe led me to you not only do we share the same mercury, this is only the second video that I have watched from you and to hear you say you share this placement. Divine timing

  • @Rob_Erto_33
    @Rob_Erto_33 5 месяцев назад

    Thank You Joy

    🙏

  • @kimszumowski4355
    @kimszumowski4355 2 года назад +1

    This was a awesome video about Scorpio ♏ moon. I'm an Aries with Aquarian rising and Scorpio moon. I'm doing the inner work on myself and sometimes it gets lonely, but I'm able to pull myself out of it. Thank-you for this video 💜

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  2 года назад

      Wow, those are my big three as well! 😱

    • @kimszumowski4355
      @kimszumowski4355 2 года назад

      @@JoytotheWorld11 OH MY GOD!!!!
      Actually I'm kinda of emotional and cold at the same time, do you feel the same way?

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  2 года назад

      @@kimszumowski4355 My tendency is to compartmentalize the difficult feelings and process them alone in private. I also have a tendency to spend a lot of my time in my head instead of just feeling my feelings.

  • @starryhearth5218
    @starryhearth5218 2 года назад

    Joy - amazing.

  • @starryhearth5218
    @starryhearth5218 2 года назад +1

    It was incredible joy, about 20 mind before I happened upon this video I had a revelation following a bit of a fall out with my aqua moon teen; I realised that I tripped up and fell prey to the deeper potentially (probably😅) complex truth and meaning of some pretty straightforward stuff. Yes I may well have been right but it kind of didn’t matter cos that ‘truth” was so way back in the mist and anyone else’s failure to spotlight it/own it was not dishonest, they were simply living life 😂😂😂 oh god, I know you know!!!! Same placements- I’m Aries/Scorpio moon/aqua rising. This video was gold.

  • @theodoreyoung8777
    @theodoreyoung8777 3 года назад +6

    Thank You Scorpio moon and Scorpio rising here 🌊🌊🌊🌊😎

    • @ZenithAstrology
      @ZenithAstrology 3 года назад

      As an Aquarius Scorpio man I’m ruff and rude . Like why can’t I point out a few of your insecurities and be not forgiving and thrown insults (stings) as joke are my forte. lol keeps me out of another cult.

    • @raktimamalhotra7128
      @raktimamalhotra7128 3 года назад +2

      Same here with Pisces in sun😎 it’s a battle inside

    • @theodoreyoung8777
      @theodoreyoung8777 3 года назад

      @@raktimamalhotra7128 Yes it is sis but just use all the intense energy we're blessed with in a positive physical way and we will always win 👐🏾😎

    • @raktimamalhotra7128
      @raktimamalhotra7128 3 года назад +1

      In what physical way? Workout

    • @theodoreyoung8777
      @theodoreyoung8777 3 года назад

      @@raktimamalhotra7128 Lol exercise u know weightlifting SitUps running all in a positive safe way 😎

  • @cherylkerr3125
    @cherylkerr3125 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks so much. I have a scorpio moon with Cancer rising, cancer sun, mars , mercury and uranus...a stellium of water. So good to hear solutions. Will check out IFS. Many happy blessings to you...

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  7 месяцев назад

      Did you know I have a video about how to practice IFS? :) "Doing your own inner healing work with IFS"

  • @michellemencias4818
    @michellemencias4818 Год назад +1

    I loved this video so much! I’ve never felt so seen and understood - thank you! Can you share a link to the IFS four part series that you mentioned?

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  Год назад +1

      Thank you! I appreciate the feedback 🥰
      This is the first one, and the others should be easy to find from there :) ruclips.net/video/2UfmGwENz9M/видео.html

  • @ditaz2378
    @ditaz2378 3 года назад +3

    Very good explanation. Thank you. Scorpio moon/rising.. Cancer sun

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад +1

      Thank you! Do you find that having a Cancer sun makes it easier to express your emotions? Or do your moon and rising sign push too hard for privacy?

    • @ZenithAstrology
      @ZenithAstrology 3 года назад

      @@JoytotheWorld11 my sun and rising are “lonely at the top” signs so. this works for me. To the surprise of geometry. Bit everything’s a surprise with an Aquarius. lol

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад

      @@ZenithAstrology haha for sure!

  • @SpookyMermaid90
    @SpookyMermaid90 3 года назад +2

    In the astrological system I follow which utilizes astronomy, I'm was born a Pisces sun with a Capricornus ascendant and a Scorpius moon with a lunar occultation at Antares.

  • @themoonbleu627
    @themoonbleu627 3 года назад +1

    thank you for this

  • @TK-fv5jv
    @TK-fv5jv 2 года назад

    I'm a Leo sun Scorpio moon Virgo ascendant, part of someone's famous words that I like, there is nothing right or wrong good or bad, but thinking makes it so

  • @robm8067
    @robm8067 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for this video! I have a Scorpio moon in the 12th house so I don’t always know how I feel because it’s hard accessing the emotions. You basically pointed out how I feel and I totally agree!! I just can’t actually feel the feelings. It’s like being numb most of the time. I would guess it’s a bit like Aquarius energy. The only feeling that seems to come through is betrayal or cheating.

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  2 года назад +2

      It's possible there's a part of you who doesn't feel it's safe to feel those feelings. I used to havea degree of alexithymia, so I get that. Music would help me experience my feelings. Fiction could be good for that as well. I have a couple of other ideas as well, if you're interested.

    • @aml8760
      @aml8760 Год назад

      @@JoytotheWorld11 yes, please share 🙏

  • @zahrasultan4853
    @zahrasultan4853 2 года назад +3

    Scorpio sun, Scorpio moon and Scorpio mercury

  • @katefaust2762
    @katefaust2762 5 месяцев назад

    Im a Virgo sun, Scorpio moon, Aquarius rising. This resonated with me deeply. I figured out in counseling a few months ago, I do the “freeze”. Such a weird thing because I never consciously was aware of it. I mean, to me I just always thought I didn’t have anything to say. Then I realized I had no thoughts. No emotions. No feelings. And it would always follow exposure to intense questions, feelings or conversations. I suppose freeze = disassociate in this way. Oh and the mistaking longing for love. Yes. Always. I could be in a perfectly healthy and loving relationship yet be longing for that which rejected me all the while not being available for it. Ridiculous. On the light side of the moon, I do enjoy my sense of humor.

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  5 месяцев назад

      Very important and valuable realizations 💙

  • @LilBafta
    @LilBafta Год назад +1

    I struggle to even open up about everyday sides of life even let alone my emotions... I just don't trust people with me... It's all avoiding vulnerability, as you said.
    I'm a Gemini/Taurus cusp (21 May), Scorpio moon and Pisces ascending.

  • @s.avitiaa6373
    @s.avitiaa6373 3 года назад +9

    Leo Sun with Scorpio moon :)

    • @AS-eq2qm
      @AS-eq2qm 3 года назад

      Lol.... me too! What is your rising sign?

    • @s.avitiaa6373
      @s.avitiaa6373 3 года назад +1

      @@AS-eq2qm Virgo :)

    • @ZenithAstrology
      @ZenithAstrology 3 года назад

      Aquarius rules add and adds I can definitely see through marketing people hate it. Aquarius also rules “the markets” and market. Any I’m an Aquarius Scorpio Conjunct Pluto.

    • @ZenithAstrology
      @ZenithAstrology 3 года назад +2

      @@AS-eq2qm the Lion 🦁

    • @themoonbleu627
      @themoonbleu627 3 года назад +1

      @@s.avitiaa6373 wow my ex has this placement I couldn’t stand to be around him too negative and his ego made him delusional he was awful and he struggled with depression he was atheist too but clearly was angry at a higher power and he self diagnosed with autusim was a big know it all I literally couldn’t physically stomach him he had like 1 close friend and would scare most people away ... sorry lol just seeing those placements triggered a flashback

  • @xoxoqueen6930
    @xoxoqueen6930 Год назад

    Aquarius rising and scorpio moon was so shocked when your said that was you too. I'm a Sagittarius sun what are you? BTW I love how you talk already know I'm gonna be watching your videos you seem really knowledgeable

  • @sadibarry
    @sadibarry Год назад +1

    Yes. When I’ve been hurt, I definitely withdraw my energy from that person & block them out. Although I miss them & want to talk to them, I remain cold bc they can’t know how deeply they cut me.

  • @craigo3849
    @craigo3849 Год назад +2

    What does that mean: focus on Taurus? How does 1 incorporate Taurus...you mean befriend or date a Taurean person?

  • @TheQuestion1001
    @TheQuestion1001 3 года назад +1

    I feel so called out

  • @mdzmdz7329
    @mdzmdz7329 12 дней назад

    Unfortunately never been wrong about energy. I unfortunately wish i was wrong. Love my placements shallowness is not a option. ❤

  • @jessheaps8356
    @jessheaps8356 3 года назад +7

    How can I feel more intimate with my Virgo moon lover as a Scorpio moon?

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад +6

      Being open about how you're feeling and what parts of you is thinking is a great way to connect more deeply. Just let your lover know that you just need to let it out (not get solutions) in those moments but that you appreciate their helpfulness in general.

  • @lionra4523
    @lionra4523 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you!

  • @consciousnessrenaissance7804
    @consciousnessrenaissance7804 4 месяца назад

    To have a Scorpio moon is intensely hurtful because nobody understands us. Then they label us a crazy or drama queens.
    Even in a relationship we feel lonely because we are not understood

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  4 месяца назад

      I think it's a matter of finding the right people, but it's really hard to do that because of attachment wounds. There's definitely hope though! I can't always express myself fully/properly, but I have people in my life who love and support me through my difficult times, and I have the tools to work through anything that arises from the darkness inside me, especially with their care and support (even if they don't entirely understand all of the things all of the time).
      There's a book titled You Are the One You've Been Waiting For by Richard Schwartz that explains my experiences and perspective on this really, really well, and I can't recommend it enough, especially for people with attachment trauma and difficult placements like Moon or Venus in Scorpio. It's available on audiobook as well as other formats including paperback.
      My Venus is in Aries, and both my Moon and Venus are also even intercepted, depending on which house system I use to draw my chart, so attachment trauma and difficulty connecting with others have been huge themes in my life. My numerology Life Path is 11, and my North Node is in my 7th house conjunct my Descendant, so I don't get to just sit back and not be in romantic relationships indefinitely... But they were waaaay too painful to keep doing them the way I was doing them, so I *HAD* to heal! My current relationship is the first one in my life (and I'm nearly 43 years old) that has been healthy and met all of my most important needs, so I believe there's hope if we keep working at it and, in the words of Rumi, "Open your arms if you want to be held."

  • @babysherl493
    @babysherl493 10 месяцев назад +1

    I’m a scorpio moon and yes once we’re hurt we withdraw so quickly. And I often make the mistake of not being at where the other person is at that moment. It feels all too much for me, I could explode from the pain. Sounds dramatic but we sc get ir.

  • @Therealnushat
    @Therealnushat 2 года назад +1

    I have Scorpio in the 4th house and relate to this energy so so deeply

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  2 года назад +1

      Do you also have a Scorpio Moon? Or just your 4th house in Scorpio? Either way, I hope the video was useful for you :)

    • @Therealnushat
      @Therealnushat 2 года назад

      @@JoytotheWorld11 I’m a Leo rising so i have Scorpio in the 4th house with a Sag moon. I definitely relate to both the sag moon and Scorpio moon strongly but when it comes to home life/ upbringing, the Scorpio moon resonates a lot more

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  2 года назад

      @@Therealnushat Is it a very, very early Sag Moon? Or conjunct Pluto?

    • @Therealnushat
      @Therealnushat 2 года назад +1

      @@JoytotheWorld11 no my sag moon is at 27 degrees and my moon is not conjunct Pluto

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  2 года назад

      @@Therealnushat okay, interesting :)

  • @zandatee
    @zandatee 2 года назад

    How should I handle ScorpMoon, who has been unintentionally hurt by me in his ability to trust and showed up after years of silence, but is still closed? Like wants smth. from me, but is distant. Is it a good idea to mirror his attitude - be distantly present throug years? He has been distantly present always through all my grownup life.

  • @anjanirathore8420
    @anjanirathore8420 3 года назад

    Can you give details about IFS? How and what to practice and the right source for this subject

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  2 года назад +1

      It's a method for access our unconscious and loving ourselves wholly.

  • @jakielThornton1994
    @jakielThornton1994 Год назад

    Well I don't have Scorpio moon but i do have Scorpio in the 7th house so i can relate plus i have pluto Jupiter and north node in Scorpio in the 7th house

  • @themoonbleu627
    @themoonbleu627 3 года назад +2

    my relationship issues lead me to this video . My bf is a gemini moon his venus in scoprio so I thought the connection would be a perfect match the intensity is a nice match but not emotionally ... any tips I would like to stay consistent emotionally and stop being so reactive so I can provide him with security . I would like to at least hide it for now ( fake it til I make it )

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад +2

      It's hard to say without seeing the synastry chart, but I'd say the key for emotionally stability for a Scorpio Moon is to make sure you're balancing it out with enough Taurus pleasure and physical/material comfort and stability for yourself. IFS is my absolute favorite tool for recognizing my needs of any sort and taking care of hurting parts of myself, and it provides me with inner security and peace that I haven't found through other methods. It might be worth checking out! I have an IFS playlist on my channel. :)

    • @themoonbleu627
      @themoonbleu627 3 года назад

      @@JoytotheWorld11 thank you !! checking it out !!

  • @michellep3814
    @michellep3814 Год назад +1

    What do you do if you, as a Scorpio Moon, struggle to forgive yourself?

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  Год назад +2

      There's a therapeutic modality called IFS (Internal Family Systems) that's really great for this. There are books you can buy to learn how to do your own inner healing work with this modality, and there are therapists trained in it as well. I actually have a video that's about how to use it yourself from a lay person to lay people, if you're interested! Sometimes I think the best place to start is physical self care, like making yourself really comfy and cozy, especially for people with Scorpio moons.

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  Год назад +1

      ruclips.net/video/MEC9KzY6tPQ/видео.html

  • @junkotabei545
    @junkotabei545 2 года назад

    Thank you so much...Scorpio moon 8th house conj/Uranus,NN; Aries Sun ,Pscis Rising here...Pluto 7th House , Cancer Mars at 4th House😂😂😂

  • @ChantelStays
    @ChantelStays 6 месяцев назад

    Whats your house placement for your moon?

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  6 месяцев назад

      9th conjunct my modern chart ruler (Uranus) and Midheaven or 10th in whole signs

    • @ChantelStays
      @ChantelStays 6 месяцев назад

      @@JoytotheWorld11 ahhh very cool, mine is conjunct Pluto in 6th... 7th in the whole house system. Xo
      Was just curious. I wonder how the processes of transformation and the undertones of pain-death-rebirth are affected by whatever house the moon lands in...

  • @fiksysnr1678
    @fiksysnr1678 3 года назад +3

    Hey! I’m a Gemini sun Scorpio moon and I was wondering how to unify these and overcome the quincunx. I see that you’re an Aries sun so hoping you can give insight in this sun/moon aspect.
    Also I have Scorpio moon inconjunct libra Mars rx. I was wondering how this would manifest, esp due to mars retrograde
    Hope to hear back from you!

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад +2

      My Sun and Moon are actually trine by degree despite their signs, so my determined Sun gets fired up by my Scorpio Moon's pain or desire or (when I was younger) vengefulness. The two energies aren't actually all that dissimilar, perhaps because both have a fairly strong martian influence. They're both passionate.
      With Gemini, it's a bit different because they actually are quite dissimilar. Are they inconjunct by angle? This would mean that when you want to creatively express yourself, to shine, to be seen and appreciated by others, you keep your Scorpio Moon out of it. And that's okay. :) Moon matters can just be Moon matters. I don't think it's possible to have an inconjunction between Scorpio and Libra. Are you sure it's not sextile or something else? Inconjunct and quincunx are the same thing, 150°.
      Rx Mars in Libra could mean that it's difficult for you to identify and go for the things that YOU want. Finding the energy to go for things could be a challenge. So much depends on the rest of your chart though, so getting a reading would be the best way to determine how to work with it.

    • @fiksysnr1678
      @fiksysnr1678 3 года назад

      @@JoytotheWorld11 thanks so much for your response!
      Yeh I have difficulty reconciling my very social, inquisitive, superficial & scattered Gemini with my more internal reclusive broody Scorpio, and they definitely do not coexist at the same time. It’s almost like they take turns in rotation, and it feels like this is to my detriment.
      Eg Gemini may deem it impolite for Scorpio to assert itself, and Gemini doesn’t like the intensity/commitment/unapologetic nature of Scorpio. And Scorpio can’t focus and commit to tasks due to gemini distractions/emotional unease. Also yes they are (almost) inconjunt by angle.
      As for the Mars-moon, it’s an an exact semi-sextile w libra and Scorpio. I guess I’m just wanting to know how to honor/embody both energies simultaneously. I wondered how Scorpio moon would affect libra Mars, as Mars is Scorpios ruler

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад +1

      @@fiksysnr1678 There are too many things involved to answer without just reading the chart, but I can say that your planets and all of the signs and houses are just parts of you. There's a core YOU that's present throughout the chart and can connect to different parts of it to find out what each part needs and the best ways to meet those needs. I use a model called IFS for this. It's really gentle and effective. :) If you're curious, check out the video on my IFS playlist about doing your own inner healing work. If you watch it and it resonates, let me know, and I might be able to facilitate a start with it.

    • @fiksysnr1678
      @fiksysnr1678 3 года назад

      @@JoytotheWorld11 thank you!!!🤎✨

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад

      @@fiksysnr1678 You're welcome :)

  • @ArtClaux
    @ArtClaux Год назад +1

    Hi, is scorpio moon similar to pluto conjuct noon?

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  Год назад +1

      Yes! The sign will have a big impact though joythemodernmystic.com/2021/12/31/pluto-conjunct-moon-in-a-natal-chart/

  • @masoprid3
    @masoprid3 10 месяцев назад

    aries sun scorpio moon. very true

  • @jerseystotler3615
    @jerseystotler3615 5 месяцев назад +1

    SUBSCRIBED ❤🎉❤

  • @jadenedward1049
    @jadenedward1049 7 месяцев назад

    🙏🏼

  • @edrock8318
    @edrock8318 2 года назад

    I am a Aquarius ♒️ sun scorpio ♏️ moon I only learned my moon sign at 55

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  2 года назад +1

      Sounds like it would be confusing to know that you've got this logical sun sign and not have an explanation for why your inner world is so intense and turbulent

    • @edrock8318
      @edrock8318 2 года назад

      @@JoytotheWorld11 omg I had no idea who I truly was. My Aquarius sun attributes never explained my intensity and my stubbornness and so many scorpio moon attributes. It was exhilarating to learn only 2-3 weeks ago. I’ve managed to make it this far but knowing only my sun sign from a young age 12-13 left a lot of understanding of myself on the cutting room floor. I’m deeply saddened by that. I only find comfort that this last chapter of life can be more of a mastery of myself. My emotions, intensity, suspicions lack of trust. My upbringing as a foster child and other issues with my mother. I’ve managed to turn out fairly well. I will try to learn as much as I can. I don’t know my ascendent yet because I have to order a copy from New York State. My copy doesn’t have my time of birth. You are right in all you have said and I found you very therapeutic to hear and learn from thank you 🙏🏽 I’m getting emotional 🥹 jejeje

    • @edrock8318
      @edrock8318 2 года назад

      @@JoytotheWorld11 exactly what I’ve been sharing with people about the importance of learning their individual moon signs.

  • @Triplesolid
    @Triplesolid 3 года назад +4

    CANCER SUN SCOPIO MOON SO YOU KNOW

    • @ZenithAstrology
      @ZenithAstrology 3 года назад

      We sit the same in thereapist chairs . I barley move. Just waiting to strike . ⚡️🌪 tornados are Aquarian Scorpios.

    • @michellep3814
      @michellep3814 Год назад

      same placement but Aries Rising

  • @Jennie-yolan
    @Jennie-yolan Год назад

    Can a scorpio rising relate?

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  Год назад +2

      The neediness of the moon is unparalleled because it represents the infant in each of us. Also, our Moon is our connection to the physical plane and our bodies. It's how we experience life. It's how we feel ourselves and everything that happens in our outer worlds. It's incredibly pervasive like that.
      That aside, a lot of the themes I discussed are plutonian in nature just in general, so other placements in Scorpio, the 8th house to some extent, and strong aspects to Pluto may find this video resonates to some extent. And we all have Scorpio, Pluto, and the 8th house *somewhere* in our charts!

  • @aml8760
    @aml8760 Год назад

    What about as a taurus moon in the 8th house? I have so many scorpio placements in my chart, struggling to balance 😢this lifetime is very heavy!

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  Год назад +1

      Sounds like it! Stability and sensual pleasure in intimate relationships is going to be really important to your sense of security and emotional well-being. I imagine you'd prefer to build intimate relationships slowly and have a solid foundation so they can remain stable and withstand the 8th house transformations.
      As an astrologer, I really appreciate oppositions (and I have a lot of them in my own chart as well). They create tension and conflict, sure, but they can be really wonderful for finding the highest expression of both sides of the polarity. Often, "the truth" really is somewhere in the middle, and even when it's not, I believe there's a ton of value in considering both sides. :)

    • @aml8760
      @aml8760 Год назад

      @@JoytotheWorld11 thank you very much. 🙏

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  Год назад

      @@aml8760 Does it resonate? And you're welcome!!

    • @aml8760
      @aml8760 Год назад

      @@JoytotheWorld11 yes, it takes me a long time to form relationships, but also because of the attachment trauma I've experienced as pluto is aspecting my moon. Not to mention my capricorn stellium in the 4th house. I am in my 30's now trying to build more stability internally and educating myself as much as I can about my placements. I appreciate all the wisdom you share.

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  Год назад +1

      @@aml8760 Thank you got your appreciation, and you're welcome 😊

  • @theodoreyoung8777
    @theodoreyoung8777 3 года назад +2

    Aries sun 🔥😎 with Scorpio moon and Scorpio rising 🌊🌊🌊🌊🙂

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  3 года назад +4

      I've got an Aries Sun, too

    • @theodoreyoung8777
      @theodoreyoung8777 3 года назад +2

      Joy to the World Yes lol when I heard that on your video I had to stop just to reply and let u know I am one too but i feel my Scorpio moon and Scorpio rising takes most of that fire loud energy away 😂 I can be very introverted most of the times and like to be a homebody and spend lots of time by myself at home to its very relaxing and gives me a chance to find peace within myself 🙂

    • @theodoreyoung8777
      @theodoreyoung8777 3 года назад

      Joy to the World Yes I know lol I had to stop your video to let u know I am one too but with Scorpio moon and Scorpio rising I can be very but of a introvert and love to spend a lot of time home alone in my room it really gives me inner peace and time to think and rejuvenate to prepare for the next day 😎

    • @theodoreyoung8777
      @theodoreyoung8777 3 года назад +1

      Joy to the World Thanx for replying and I replied twice because the first reply didn’t show until now lol

    • @macdye2157
      @macdye2157 3 года назад +1

      Pisces sun scorpio moon rising Pisces

  • @anpaul4533
    @anpaul4533 2 месяца назад +1

    mars is sex drive, not the moon, moon is the emotionally

    • @JoytotheWorld11
      @JoytotheWorld11  2 месяца назад

      Mars is yang sex drive. Other planets, signs, and houses have their own relationships with sex though, especially Scorpio and the 5th and 8th houses. For Moon in Scorpio, sex is an emotional wellness need.
      It would indeed be more accurate to say that it's a need for frequency and quality (which also means intimacy) of sex rather than calling it "sex drive" as "drive" implies something more Yang, and the Moon is very Yin, so you're correct that it was a poor choice of words on my part if I simply referred to it as "sex drive". Even "appetite" isn't quite right. It's nothing so casual. Mars is about wants, and Venus is about pleasure. The Moon is about *needs*.
      It's a wellness need, an emotional security need.

  • @noone-yx3fl
    @noone-yx3fl Год назад

    :DDD