me saying i have a celebrity crush, is very different to me than really crushing on someone. basically finding someone really attractive. but that does not go beyond liking pictures or watching their projects
I agree to an extent. Meet and greets are fine. Especially if it’s like a comic con… that’s basically what half of it really is. When it comes obsessive/non entertainment value greeting then I agree. It’s weird. ESP when it’s 1k just to take a damn photo. Like I better get some free tickets, multiple autographs (sell them bitches no shade) or a name brand goodie bag like 1k is INSANE.
2:51 The difference is DELUSION 😭 There’s people that have a celebrity crush, but it’s really just the regular “Omg, this actor is so fine” and maybe you’ll follow them, like their pics, etc; Regular fangirl/fanboy shit. And then there’s people with genuine crushes on these celebrities who are infatuated with them. For example, I saw this girl on TikTok being genuinely upset about Jungkook of BTS having Korean actress Han Sohee in his Seven music video because she didn’t like him interacting with other woman….Now I love me some Jungkook, myself, but girl 💀 Like, fans like this is literally why kpop idols can’t date publicly because the industry loves to sell this dream of you having a chance with these people. An idol literally just recently got hated on and kicked out of his group because he had a girlfriend ‼️
Yes, this is a perfect way to describe the differences, especially using the K-pop dating issues reference it is a real problem over there(it is worse than here in the US)
Delusion is exactly the issue. I had a homegirl not speak to me for MONTHS after I told her Future wouldn't look twice at her if he saw her on the street. And don't get me started on when I tried to explain i went to a concert back when Ciara was bigger than Beyoncé, girl swore that just wasn't a time that could have ever happened. And if she don't stop wearing them ugly church lady hats to look more like him I may have to hide them from her. She is a grown woman, in her 30s, married with 2 college aged daughters. I can't for the life of me understand why she would even wanna be his 85th baby mama! Let alone hold a grudge cause, he AIN'T looking twice at you! If he look at you ONCE he gonna hit cause you so dang thirsty! And if you get pregnant you'll DEF never see him again. IMHO.
That's why people call Beyonce unrelatable because they tryna have these parasocial relationship with her lol😂 Kpop stans don't even allows their faves to date and it's really scary how they treat them after they find out😂
exactly, i think it has to do a lot with our new generation wave of “influencers”. we view influencers like “our friends” but that are lowkey/highkey celebrities, so some people feel like we need to “know” a celebrity now. I feel like people in 90’s and 2000’s weren’t demanding to find a celebrity “relatable”.
yall idolize and worship beyonce too much and its str@nge bru thats not normal to be parasocial... yall will see soon when her and jay z start to be exposed, the whole industry comin down
parasocial relationships, lonely people with internet access. this is getting way too normalized. A celeb could post their political views, new relationship, etc and people will go on social media and make threads and think pieces because this Celebrity isn't acting according to their beliefs?? people are so weird.
It’s not just because of lonely people on the internet, people were treating The Beetles the same way. Celebrity worship is just prevalent in our culture.
@@williamhardee8863obviously, but im not talking about the 20th century where the only media outlets were newspapers and television. The relationships that fans think they have with celebrities today is because they are way more accessible due to social media (tiktok, twitter, instagram, facebook) they actually think they are a part of their lives and want them to live according to their beliefs. For example, a celebrity hangs out with someone that voted for Trump and here comes 30 videos and 30 paragraphs about why they shouldn't hang with this person or how they are cancelling them because of the friendship this celebrity has with this person. Like they treat it as if their whole life is ruined.
@@blvckrlly the accessiblity of information about complete strangers is the root of the issue IMO. Because back in the day, fans were for sure critical and crazy about celebs. But we literally just knew LESS, and saw LESS of their personal lives. Today, we all think sydney sweeney is a trump supporter, just because one of her relatives is one. And she continued to speak to said relative. Relationships are already complex enough, but knowing everything about someone who knows NOTHING about you, only makes it more unfair to the celebrity in question. Edit: I have no beef with sydney, I just seen the thinkpieces n deepdives into her political stance lol
@@mirza2975This is exactly what im saying, not that it's only lonely people but that we have more access to certain things with social media! edit: hell there are actual sites where you can look up celebrity properties, it's crazy out here.
@@mirza2975idk what happened to my comment but yes this exactly what im trying to say. There are actually websites where you can look up celebrity property also it's so weird
Idk why he ain’t include Michael Jackson, bro was the first celebrity I ever seen having people faint over a look, and he did it all without internet 😭😂. People were sweating, crying, and even trying to climb on stage for that man.
There are many adults and even elders who have celebrity crushes and it’s quite normal and common for the most part. But the difference between a person who obsesses over their crush and someone who simply just admires them is that people often form parasocial relationships with these celebrities and become delusional and obsessive. Those are people who take things way too far. Imo, there’s nothing wrong with having a celebrity crush as an adult bc even celebrities have them too, but it becomes a problem when people make it personal and weird.
Even earlier. Around the late 1700s-early 1800s, classical composer Paganini made women cry, faint etc. at concerts. He had flashy entrances, created a mysterious image, there were rumors that he had a pact with the devil because he was a virtuoso, ...
Fax idk why people acting like this is something new. As if we all didn't lose our complete minds over Michael TF Jackson!! Nowadays the celebrity "exclusivity" seems to be dying. Idk if it's bc I'm older or what....but I just see celebs as normal people....minus Beyonce and that's probably bc she's still so exclusive and mysterious to an extent
To everyone trying to create their own definition of crush, it literally means to have a STRONG feeling of romantic attraction characterized by INFATUATION. So it's not as innocent as only thinking they're attractive lol not saying it's necessarily a bad thing, most people experience it. But let's not act like it's not a mild form of obsession
Well, there is the textbook definition of a word and then there is its common use. Crush has a broad spectrum of use and meaning. I just use it to mean "an attraction."
eh its not really always obsessive . A crush can span from "oh ive seen this guy a few times now he is always studying and has a guitar case with him. maybe he takes school serious and musically inclined like me" to "we're childhood friends and i've let this feeling grow without doing anything about it. to the point of knowing everything about this person" to me its just you seeing information about them that you see in a partner and it makes you want persue something romantic. alot of definition say its usually something that doesnt last long. a celebrity is something else though tbh.
Crazy enough i feel the same way about when Celebrity's pass and people cry as if they knew them, i just can't wrap my head around it. Even when i enjoy their work i just be like that unfortunate and move on
The entire world was sad af when Michael Jackson passed. I could feel the sad energy all around me. I think it's normal to cry when anyone passes tbh. Some celebs are people's inspirations and their work probably made them hella happy or saved their life (me with Jackson Wang & Michael Jackson)
About the horrible people part, people simply just don’t care lol. Chris Brown has gotten away with a lot of things in his career, but people don’t really care about that. They don’t care about Chris Brown the person, they more so infatuated with Chris Brown the artist, so this isn’t anything new.
Listen, the way my self-worth is set up, I could never. Even as a teenager I saw celebrities as just regular human beings with jobs in the public eye. This is pathetic.
To me a crush is somebody that’s usually unreachable like a celebrity, teacher, or maybe liking your older sibling friend. Being obsessed with somebody is excessively thinking about them or following what they do it’s basically being a stalker.
i remember seeing a video of some fan crying and not letting go of Michael Jackson... she was acting like he was some holy water from heaven 😭 plus most of these people end up worshipping celebrities that probably would be rude to them
You’re right Dee. I used to have a huge crush on SZA afew years ago when I was in highschool but I could never see myself obsessing over her, paying 1k for a picture, having pictures of her on my wall etc. As an adult I can’t understand that
I think there’s levels to it; Keke Palmer was my ‘celebrity crush’ as a kid. As an adult she is still one of my favorite celebrities. I’ve never seen her in person though, if I ever meet her that would be cool, but it’s not on my to do list lol. So I guess depending on who you ask, I may or may not have had a celebrity crush and maybe just like her personality and think she’s attractive, like most guys think…
i Agree we got stans arguing more than actual People involved and instigating beefs, they’ll defend mass murder if its their fav and throw out their morals
A crush is somebody who you are sexually attracted to , it's something you can't control and can happen at any time those who becomes obsessed are people who don't have control over their mind
@@valentine5056 this is just semantics tbh, the term celeb crush is usually describing looks and physical attraction. But kids/adults also form crushes in their personal lives, based on more than just looks.
I think having a crush is a mix of two things 1. Liking or Having romantic feelings about someone you see often or personally know, but Are also too shy or timid to approach them about your feelings, and 2. The person doesn’t know you like them. Now, if the person you like, knows that you like them and The feelings aren’t mutual. I think this crush has turned into an obsession if you continue to like this person.
as an adult i think of crushes as some one who you are interested in but cant persue or dont persue because of fear of rejection or other factors. or do persue, basically just someone your interested in, idk about being obsessed over them tho, that sounds a but too extreme esp as an adult
Baby BEEN! that’s what it should’ve said 😭 since the beginning of time people have put celebs on a pedestal and WORSHIP them. Stalking, harassing, making whole ass STAN accounts with their profiles & updating them EVERYDAY of what they’re doing, treating them as NON humans & some superior beings… the list goes on and on chile… people are just WEIRD!
Lol, the last part where he talked about running from a partner whose free pass is a celebrity shouldn't be THAT bad though!😂 Its better theyre a celebrity than your good friend or someone you actually know. That has to be the worst!😂😂
3:45 that one fan basically paid over 2 grand for 2 pics with Chris brown. That’s what bugs me out and Chris brown for damn sure would not remember her name
I think a healthy crush is: you like someone for their looks, their personality, and time together. An unhealthy crush is obsessing over someone who don’t even care or you ain’t never even met.
I think it's OK to have a crush as an adult because usually adult crushes are a little more fleeting than child crushes or teenage crushes. As an adult who does have many crushes, I never take it that far. I never let it get to my head and I always get over it. Whether it's a real life person crush or a celebrity crush. Never would I behave like a child Or a teenager who has a crush, which is way more intense and requires way more emotions. I'll be excited to see that person, but nothing more. And I always keep it to myself.😅
I was never that passionate even when I was a child Or teenager. I never begged my parents to see anyone that I had a crush on. I didn't care that intensely.
Yeah I have had crushes on celebrities but not to the point where I need to know where they’re at 24/7 🤣 Sure I think The Weeknd is cute but I’m going full crazy if he did a 1K meet & greet. Even when I was younger I thought Nick Jonas was cute in elementary school However having a actual crush on someone I know. Any time I see him in photos & in person I always feel my heart skip a beat, cheeks flush & feel like I got star struck
Yeah I don’t think everybody has obsessive tendencies as they crush, I did lmao But I don’t think everybody is obsessive when they have a crush on somebody, it’s usually what initializes courting with people in your proximity.
15:02 nah this does happen 😂 there’s a twitch streamer that I watch who got donated sumn hefty about a year or two ago by a viewer who stole his grandpa’s card 😭😭
My crushes growing up was icarly, Topanga, jade , cat, six from blossom, zendaya. Hs have one on my background on my phone. I still like Topanga and six those characters. But following the actors and basically stalking them is wild
I'm ngl, I'm super into pop culture and celeb tea. Social media do be fun! But my celeb crushes DONT KNOW ME OR WANT ME, and I'm very aware of that LMAOOOO. But I can't even blame people for being like this, cuz we live in a society that commodifies looks MUCH MORE, than intellect or character. It's sad asl, but I can understand it, even if I cant relate🤣
I'm adult dee and I stopped having crushes the second I hit college it was always just an attraction thing then I would move on, it might've been earlier because the last time obsessed over someone was in middle school.
Yeah I’m not paying $1100 for no mf picture idc if it is Chris Brown lmao id rather enjoy the concert unless the $1100 is covering for the concert itself, dinner w him, pictures & videos, signed cd/vinyl etc. something lmao. 🤣
Enjoy videos and experiences Dee Shanell! I respectfully disagree because I have like loads of celebrity crush and I am not weird so I dont really see much reason for, as ohmeezzy stated, "Restricting parasocials" near 13:30 to 14:24 . That's just being abusive. Thats what I personally think. Whether abusive is necessary or not is up to you and your future children. But overall love the video. Keep watching your videos! Love you!
Well, having a crush on someone is basically to be smitten, infatuated with, or enthralled by them. This is actually quite an ordinary experience for many and can happen no matter a person's age. Basing your opinion on something like this solely off of your own personal experience in a world of over 8 billion people - each having their own personal experiences - is never a great approach to sound reasoning.
I feel like they're are levels to it... As long as you aren't crossing the line or letting it affect your real life. I wouldn't even pay 1K to see my fav singers in concert if I cant meet them because I have a good time being at home listening to a their music or watching a performance on youtube. Crushing and obsessing are two different things.
these thumbnails always get me lmaooo 0:47 yeah i havent had a crush since i was a kid and even then ive never crushed on a celeb before, i dont get it😭
I think in terms of crush I would think of attractiveness and some people have “crushes” differently but obviously some are obsessed asf which is weird as an adult and even weirder if your in a relationship (looking at some kpop fans 👀)
lol I love how you are as a person, how you express the real shit that needa be known to the world. it’s sad to say that you gotta tell people that to understand 😂
Idk about other people but when I say I have a crush on somebody it literally just means that I like them and wish to begin something with them. Stalking and all of that, that's not a crush, that's being a creeper. There's a difference.
I have a crush on any black woman with glasses and natural hair. I am sitting here tryna think who i have a crush on right now and i cant think of anyone. I got other shit to worry about.
The people willing to risk themselves and relationships do not have a crush they have an obsession and it's a problem in my opinion in terms of crushing on a celebrity for me i just think they're nice to look at and i might follow them on social media but im not constantly looking for anything realted to them and i sure ain't bout to risk it all for them cuz like Dee was saying u don't know them
Finding someone attractive does in some way mean a crush, now there are some people who have crushes where they have an obsession, having a crush as an adult is normal that how people end up in relationships
There are some celebrities that I LOVE and respect them, but if I were ever in their presence, I’m not going to lose all self composure and start acting like an animal and hinting at sexual acts. I’m going to act freaking normal and show them that I’m just another human being that likes their art 💀💀. Ppl do too much and end up not getting the same chance again.
Sometimes u just appreciate their art not everything is sexual.. some of these fans life changed because of the ART of those artist some of them got out of depression from the entertainment they got from the artist.. as for Duke its just an inside joke to glaze him & dramatize his "aura" among his fans.
4:26 you need to react to that redhead girl. Who was stalking Chris Brown. Showed up took a pic at the 11:11 tour. Then threatened his crew and BG dancer Taylor.
Ima be honest I do have a Beyoncé poster on my wall BUT it came with a vinyl and it matches the theme of my room with the black and white space theme LOLLL. I SWEAR IM NOT LIKE THESE FOLKS I PROMISE LMAO
Having a celeb/fictional crush is supposed to stay in the fan zone lol its never supposed to go outside of that, you like their photos, go to concerts or fan meets, and chat with your friends about how hot they are and thats it, if your a kpop fan then theres extra stuff but it stays in the fan zone😂wtf is wrong with people Edit: lol i gotta add more cause its these crazy saesang(korean for "stalker/crazy fans") that ruin it for us regular fans that just admire celebs, like its cool to love a celeb and keep photocards from albums and show the artist love and treat them like a human, but its another thing to be so obsessed that your ruining your relationship, stalking them, sexual harassing them, or trying to harm them when they find love...YOUR ACTUALLY INSANE😂im so sick of yall seek help
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The thumbnail 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
Smooth edit😅
Got me crying 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀
I'm done with Dee
Right! Why they do my girl Zoe Spencer like that 😂😂😂
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this thumbnail is ART 😭
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@@DeeShanell10 omw rn lol
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lol nice selling point
me saying i have a celebrity crush, is very different to me than really crushing on someone. basically finding someone really attractive. but that does not go beyond liking pictures or watching their projects
Exactly. You just appreciate them, but you're not obsessed Or Possessive.
Most people have a celebrity crush, but these are all obsessions, paying money to meet someone is weird 😂
Meet and greets can be cool, but I wouldn’t even pay that much money to meet my #1 favorite artist. $1,000 is CRAZY
I agree to an extent. Meet and greets are fine. Especially if it’s like a comic con… that’s basically what half of it really is. When it comes obsessive/non entertainment value greeting then I agree. It’s weird. ESP when it’s 1k just to take a damn photo. Like I better get some free tickets, multiple autographs (sell them bitches no shade) or a name brand goodie bag like 1k is INSANE.
@ YES. Like the fact that the M&G didn’t even include a concert ticket 💀
@@ariz347It was $1000 to shoot your shot in exchanging instagrams to link up with financial benefits
That would be a good part of the population then
Dees thumbnail guy must have had his rent, gas and electricity bills due 😂😂 earning their money for real 😅
The thumbnail just keeps getting crazier by the vids 😂😂😂
2:51 The difference is DELUSION 😭 There’s people that have a celebrity crush, but it’s really just the regular “Omg, this actor is so fine” and maybe you’ll follow them, like their pics, etc; Regular fangirl/fanboy shit. And then there’s people with genuine crushes on these celebrities who are infatuated with them. For example, I saw this girl on TikTok being genuinely upset about Jungkook of BTS having Korean actress Han Sohee in his Seven music video because she didn’t like him interacting with other woman….Now I love me some Jungkook, myself, but girl 💀 Like, fans like this is literally why kpop idols can’t date publicly because the industry loves to sell this dream of you having a chance with these people. An idol literally just recently got hated on and kicked out of his group because he had a girlfriend ‼️
Yes, this is a perfect way to describe the differences, especially using the K-pop dating issues reference it is a real problem over there(it is worse than here in the US)
Delusion is exactly the issue. I had a homegirl not speak to me for MONTHS after I told her Future wouldn't look twice at her if he saw her on the street. And don't get me started on when I tried to explain i went to a concert back when Ciara was bigger than Beyoncé, girl swore that just wasn't a time that could have ever happened. And if she don't stop wearing them ugly church lady hats to look more like him I may have to hide them from her. She is a grown woman, in her 30s, married with 2 college aged daughters.
I can't for the life of me understand why she would even wanna be his 85th baby mama! Let alone hold a grudge cause, he AIN'T looking twice at you! If he look at you ONCE he gonna hit cause you so dang thirsty! And if you get pregnant you'll DEF never see him again. IMHO.
@@mzmendy Months is crazy, wtf?? 😭
That's why people call Beyonce unrelatable because they tryna have these parasocial relationship with her lol😂
Kpop stans don't even allows their faves to date and it's really scary how they treat them after they find out😂
exactly, i think it has to do a lot with our new generation wave of “influencers”. we view influencers like “our friends” but that are lowkey/highkey celebrities, so some people feel like we need to “know” a celebrity now. I feel like people in 90’s and 2000’s weren’t demanding to find a celebrity “relatable”.
fr! my mind goes to the seunghan situation and how he’s out of his group because he dated in the past. crazy shit
*korean kpop stans. Intls have their own issues but the dating thing is largely reserved for home base.
yall idolize and worship beyonce too much and its str@nge bru thats not normal to be parasocial... yall will see soon when her and jay z start to be exposed, the whole industry comin down
parasocial relationships, lonely people with internet access.
this is getting way too normalized. A celeb could post their political views, new relationship, etc and people will go on social media and make threads and think pieces because this Celebrity isn't acting according to their beliefs?? people are so weird.
It’s not just because of lonely people on the internet, people were treating The Beetles the same way. Celebrity worship is just prevalent in our culture.
@@williamhardee8863obviously, but im not talking about the 20th century where the only media outlets were newspapers and television. The relationships that fans think they have with celebrities today is because they are way more accessible due to social media (tiktok, twitter, instagram, facebook) they actually think they are a part of their lives and want them to live according to their beliefs. For example, a celebrity hangs out with someone that voted for Trump and here comes 30 videos and 30 paragraphs about why they shouldn't hang with this person or how they are cancelling them because of the friendship this celebrity has with this person. Like they treat it as if their whole life is ruined.
@@blvckrlly the accessiblity of information about complete strangers is the root of the issue IMO. Because back in the day, fans were for sure critical and crazy about celebs. But we literally just knew LESS, and saw LESS of their personal lives. Today, we all think sydney sweeney is a trump supporter, just because one of her relatives is one. And she continued to speak to said relative. Relationships are already complex enough, but knowing everything about someone who knows NOTHING about you, only makes it more unfair to the celebrity in question.
Edit: I have no beef with sydney, I just seen the thinkpieces n deepdives into her political stance lol
@@mirza2975This is exactly what im saying, not that it's only lonely people but that we have more access to certain things with social media!
edit: hell there are actual sites where you can look up celebrity properties, it's crazy out here.
@@mirza2975idk what happened to my comment but yes this exactly what im trying to say. There are actually websites where you can look up celebrity property also it's so weird
The "please touch my booty cheeks" Dee said to mock these people was hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Posters aren't ok? Ah damn, now I have to get rid of 40 Dee-posters around the house 😅
Idk why he ain’t include Michael Jackson, bro was the first celebrity I ever seen having people faint over a look, and he did it all without internet 😭😂. People were sweating, crying, and even trying to climb on stage for that man.
That’s Mike he different
Mf MJ A GOAT OF POP can't compare his greatness to this
There are many adults and even elders who have celebrity crushes and it’s quite normal and common for the most part. But the difference between a person who obsesses over their crush and someone who simply just admires them is that people often form parasocial relationships with these celebrities and become delusional and obsessive. Those are people who take things way too far. Imo, there’s nothing wrong with having a celebrity crush as an adult bc even celebrities have them too, but it becomes a problem when people make it personal and weird.
5:29 "Please touch my bootycheeks" 😂😂
It’s been this way since James brown and Elvis so it’s nothing new.
And The Beatles lol.
Even earlier. Around the late 1700s-early 1800s, classical composer Paganini made women cry, faint etc. at concerts. He had flashy entrances, created a mysterious image, there were rumors that he had a pact with the devil because he was a virtuoso, ...
Shouldn’t be normalized
At all, it is literally a marketing strategy.
Fax idk why people acting like this is something new. As if we all didn't lose our complete minds over Michael TF Jackson!! Nowadays the celebrity "exclusivity" seems to be dying. Idk if it's bc I'm older or what....but I just see celebs as normal people....minus Beyonce and that's probably bc she's still so exclusive and mysterious to an extent
To everyone trying to create their own definition of crush, it literally means to have a STRONG feeling of romantic attraction characterized by INFATUATION. So it's not as innocent as only thinking they're attractive lol not saying it's necessarily a bad thing, most people experience it. But let's not act like it's not a mild form of obsession
Well, there is the textbook definition of a word and then there is its common use. Crush has a broad spectrum of use and meaning. I just use it to mean "an attraction."
eh its not really always obsessive . A crush can span from "oh ive seen this guy a few times now he is always studying and has a guitar case with him. maybe he takes school serious and musically inclined like me" to "we're childhood friends and i've let this feeling grow without doing anything about it. to the point of knowing everything about this person" to me its just you seeing information about them that you see in a partner and it makes you want persue something romantic. alot of definition say its usually something that doesnt last long. a celebrity is something else though tbh.
“Please touch my booty cheeks “🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 5:30
Couldn't agree more, celebrity worship has always been weird to me.
I’ve always wondered this when people say celebrity crush. I always say no one cause idk them like that. 😂😂😂 Thinking someone’s cute isn’t a crush.
My exact thought bc how u having crushes on people u don't know. These people put on personas all the time, u don't truly know them 😂
@ Exactly! If you have a crush on someone it’s because you’ve been around them and you like how they are not just because of how they look. 💀
Literally everybody who is actively on “stan twitter” or refers to themselves in real life as a “barb” or a “carb”. Please find a life.
Now you know damn well they don’t call themselves carbs. LMFAOOO im cryin😭😭😭
Mfs referring to themselves as a carbohydrate
Crazy enough i feel the same way about when Celebrity's pass and people cry as if they knew them, i just can't wrap my head around it. Even when i enjoy their work i just be like that unfortunate and move on
so reall
The entire world was sad af when Michael Jackson passed. I could feel the sad energy all around me. I think it's normal to cry when anyone passes tbh. Some celebs are people's inspirations and their work probably made them hella happy or saved their life (me with Jackson Wang & Michael Jackson)
About the horrible people part, people simply just don’t care lol. Chris Brown has gotten away with a lot of things in his career, but people don’t really care about that. They don’t care about Chris Brown the person, they more so infatuated with Chris Brown the artist, so this isn’t anything new.
Listen, the way my self-worth is set up, I could never. Even as a teenager I saw celebrities as just regular human beings with jobs in the public eye. This is pathetic.
To me a crush is somebody that’s usually unreachable like a celebrity, teacher, or maybe liking your older sibling friend. Being obsessed with somebody is excessively thinking about them or following what they do it’s basically being a stalker.
I agree , imagine paying $1100 for a photo....like be so foreal especially at our big age???! 🤦♂️ no ma'am.
i remember seeing a video of some fan crying and not letting go of Michael Jackson... she was acting like he was some holy water from heaven 😭 plus most of these people end up worshipping celebrities that probably would be rude to them
Michael Jackson should’ve definitely been added in the video, he has people fainting from a look 😭
I'd pass tf out if I got to hug Michael Jackson tho so I understand
@@JessAnonymous that's understandable but the fan been saying they want to marry Michael Jackson and sleep with him 😭
@@JessAnonymous thats under stable but that fan said they want to marry him and stuff they want to sleep with him
@@Dxstiny_2pretty lmaoo frr i wonder because he was a normal human being like us
You’re right Dee. I used to have a huge crush on SZA afew years ago when I was in highschool but I could never see myself obsessing over her, paying 1k for a picture, having pictures of her on my wall etc. As an adult I can’t understand that
I think there’s levels to it; Keke Palmer was my ‘celebrity crush’ as a kid. As an adult she is still one of my favorite celebrities. I’ve never seen her in person though, if I ever meet her that would be cool, but it’s not on my to do list lol. So I guess depending on who you ask, I may or may not have had a celebrity crush and maybe just like her personality and think she’s attractive, like most guys think…
i Agree we got stans arguing more than actual People involved and instigating beefs, they’ll defend mass murder if its their fav and throw out their morals
A crush is somebody who you are sexually attracted to , it's something you can't control and can happen at any time those who becomes obsessed are people who don't have control over their mind
Kids have crushes, so I doubt it's a sexual attraction, maybe for adults but not as a whole.
@@valentine5056 this is just semantics tbh, the term celeb crush is usually describing looks and physical attraction. But kids/adults also form crushes in their personal lives, based on more than just looks.
Let's just say "a non-platonic attraction."
The thumbnail's are sending ME!!!!😂
I think having a crush is a mix of two things 1. Liking or Having romantic feelings about someone you see often or personally know, but Are also too shy or timid to approach them about your feelings, and 2. The person doesn’t know you like them.
Now, if the person you like, knows that you like them and The feelings aren’t mutual. I think this crush has turned into an obsession if you continue to like this person.
This has been the year of thumbnails for Dee, she said let me practice my Photoshop skills
as an adult i think of crushes as some one who you are interested in but cant persue or dont persue because of fear of rejection or other factors. or do persue, basically just someone your interested in, idk about being obsessed over them tho, that sounds a but too extreme esp as an adult
Baby BEEN! that’s what it should’ve said 😭 since the beginning of time people have put celebs on a pedestal and WORSHIP them. Stalking, harassing, making whole ass STAN accounts with their profiles & updating them EVERYDAY of what they’re doing, treating them as NON humans & some superior beings… the list goes on and on chile… people are just WEIRD!
Right those people have no self respect whatsoever and no morals
A crush is having interest in somebody you've been around frequently but you haven't expressed it to them. The video is describing fanaticism.
Lol, the last part where he talked about running from a partner whose free pass is a celebrity shouldn't be THAT bad though!😂
Its better theyre a celebrity than your good friend or someone you actually know. That has to be the worst!😂😂
3:45 that one fan basically paid over 2 grand for 2 pics with Chris brown. That’s what bugs me out and Chris brown for damn sure would not remember her name
I think a healthy crush is: you like someone for their looks, their personality, and time together. An unhealthy crush is obsessing over someone who don’t even care or you ain’t never even met.
Perfect explanation
Take her thumbnail editor away😂😭
I think it's OK to have a crush as an adult because usually adult crushes are a little more fleeting than child crushes or teenage crushes. As an adult who does have many crushes, I never take it that far. I never let it get to my head and I always get over it. Whether it's a real life person crush or a celebrity crush. Never would I behave like a child Or a teenager who has a crush, which is way more intense and requires way more emotions. I'll be excited to see that person, but nothing more. And I always keep it to myself.😅
I was never that passionate even when I was a child Or teenager. I never begged my parents to see anyone that I had a crush on. I didn't care that intensely.
The thumbnail is WILD!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The Jamaicans who worship vybz kartel should watch this
Yeah I have had crushes on celebrities but not to the point where I need to know where they’re at 24/7 🤣 Sure I think The Weeknd is cute but I’m going full crazy if he did a 1K meet & greet. Even when I was younger I thought Nick Jonas was cute in elementary school
However having a actual crush on someone I know. Any time I see him in photos & in person I always feel my heart skip a beat, cheeks flush & feel like I got star struck
LMFAO bru thumbnails is getting wilder and wilder and soon the editor himself will insert itself in the thumbnail 😂
Yeah I don’t think everybody has obsessive tendencies as they crush, I did lmao But I don’t think everybody is obsessive when they have a crush on somebody, it’s usually what initializes courting with people in your proximity.
15:02 nah this does happen 😂 there’s a twitch streamer that I watch who got donated sumn hefty about a year or two ago by a viewer who stole his grandpa’s card 😭😭
It’s something about loneliness…. I can’t remember what it’s called, having almost an imaginary love life with a celebrity
These cringe ass people barely have any morals nowadays.. 😂😂 The way they lose control over Duke is silly
Leave Dee alone in these thumbnails😭😭😭😭
My crushes growing up was icarly, Topanga, jade , cat, six from blossom, zendaya. Hs have one on my background on my phone.
I still like Topanga and six those characters. But following the actors and basically stalking them is wild
your videos make my day, only RUclipsr I watch when I’m taking a break from studying
There is literally no point. Why pick one moment of fame over a true relationship.
I'm ngl, I'm super into pop culture and celeb tea. Social media do be fun! But my celeb crushes DONT KNOW ME OR WANT ME, and I'm very aware of that LMAOOOO. But I can't even blame people for being like this, cuz we live in a society that commodifies looks MUCH MORE, than intellect or character. It's sad asl, but I can understand it, even if I cant relate🤣
I'm adult dee and I stopped having crushes the second I hit college it was always just an attraction thing then I would move on, it might've been earlier because the last time obsessed over someone was in middle school.
Yeah I’m not paying $1100 for no mf picture idc if it is Chris Brown lmao id rather enjoy the concert unless the $1100 is covering for the concert itself, dinner w him, pictures & videos, signed cd/vinyl etc. something lmao. 🤣
Enjoy videos and experiences Dee Shanell! I respectfully disagree because I have like loads of celebrity crush and I am not weird so I dont really see much reason for, as ohmeezzy stated, "Restricting parasocials" near 13:30 to 14:24 . That's just being abusive. Thats what I personally think. Whether abusive is necessary or not is up to you and your future children. But overall love the video. Keep watching your videos! Love you!
Well, having a crush on someone is basically to be smitten, infatuated with, or enthralled by them. This is actually quite an ordinary experience for many and can happen no matter a person's age. Basing your opinion on something like this solely off of your own personal experience in a world of over 8 billion people - each having their own personal experiences - is never a great approach to sound reasoning.
I feel like they're are levels to it... As long as you aren't crossing the line or letting it affect your real life. I wouldn't even pay 1K to see my fav singers in concert if I cant meet them because I have a good time being at home listening to a their music or watching a performance on youtube. Crushing and obsessing are two different things.
The thumbnail 😂😂😂
Your thumbnails be hitting nowadays 😂💯
these thumbnails always get me lmaooo
0:47 yeah i havent had a crush since i was a kid and even then ive never crushed on a celeb before, i dont get it😭
1:58 me specifically I'm just a lot nicer and sweeter to the person I'm crushing on until I'm given a reason to be an asshole again
I think in terms of crush I would think of attractiveness and some people have “crushes” differently but obviously some are obsessed asf which is weird as an adult and even weirder if your in a relationship (looking at some kpop fans 👀)
lol I love how you are as a person, how you express the real shit that needa be known to the world. it’s sad to say that you gotta tell people that to understand 😂
an some mfs still won’t listen
The ONLY reason I clicked on this video was the thumbnail! Good Job Dee!
@05:14 So Dee is confirming that she will be at the K Dot + SZA concert 🏁💙🏁
Now Dee…I know DAMN WELL…😭😭😭😭💀💀💀💀
Idk about other people but when I say I have a crush on somebody it literally just means that I like them and wish to begin something with them. Stalking and all of that, that's not a crush, that's being a creeper. There's a difference.
Not her biting your edges off 😂
Thumbnail is crazy work💀
I have a tik tok crush on this one girl but I would never broadcast it online like this! I basically follow her socials and comment.
I have a crush on any black woman with glasses and natural hair. I am sitting here tryna think who i have a crush on right now and i cant think of anyone. I got other shit to worry about.
Too many people don't realize that they're parasocial
4:36 nah Dee you ain't tripping 😂😂😂
The people willing to risk themselves and relationships do not have a crush they have an obsession and it's a problem in my opinion in terms of crushing on a celebrity for me i just think they're nice to look at and i might follow them on social media but im not constantly looking for anything realted to them and i sure ain't bout to risk it all for them cuz like Dee was saying u don't know them
THE THUMBNAILS WIN AGAIN😂😂😂
The thumbnail ate
Finding someone attractive does in some way mean a crush, now there are some people who have crushes where they have an obsession, having a crush as an adult is normal that how people end up in relationships
Now I don’t obsess over celebrities but I’m just sayin if y’all mention doja cat near me I might feel some typa way🤣🤣
Dee going crazy with the thumbnails now 💀💀.
"evil genius"😂✅
There are some celebrities that I LOVE and respect them, but if I were ever in their presence, I’m not going to lose all self composure and start acting like an animal and hinting at sexual acts. I’m going to act freaking normal and show them that I’m just another human being that likes their art 💀💀. Ppl do too much and end up not getting the same chance again.
Celebrity crushes is attraction in my eyes. I think Sade and Tems is cute but I just listen to the music and like pictures. Nothing more
Sometimes u just appreciate their art not everything is sexual.. some of these fans life changed because of the ART of those artist some of them got out of depression from the entertainment they got from the artist.. as for Duke its just an inside joke to glaze him & dramatize his "aura" among his fans.
The thumbnail is CRAZY😂😂😂
4:26 you need to react to that redhead girl. Who was stalking Chris Brown. Showed up took a pic at the 11:11 tour. Then threatened his crew and BG dancer Taylor.
Ima be honest I do have a Beyoncé poster on my wall BUT it came with a vinyl and it matches the theme of my room with the black and white space theme LOLLL. I SWEAR IM NOT LIKE THESE FOLKS I PROMISE LMAO
Who tf made this thumbnail?! Im dying and the video didnt even start yet.
dee fight back 😂
Having a celeb/fictional crush is supposed to stay in the fan zone lol its never supposed to go outside of that, you like their photos, go to concerts or fan meets, and chat with your friends about how hot they are and thats it, if your a kpop fan then theres extra stuff but it stays in the fan zone😂wtf is wrong with people
Edit: lol i gotta add more cause its these crazy saesang(korean for "stalker/crazy fans") that ruin it for us regular fans that just admire celebs, like its cool to love a celeb and keep photocards from albums and show the artist love and treat them like a human, but its another thing to be so obsessed that your ruining your relationship, stalking them, sexual harassing them, or trying to harm them when they find love...YOUR ACTUALLY INSANE😂im so sick of yall seek help
That money they are paying them celebraties they should be investing in charities or something that's just sad.
People worship serial killers its nothing new idk why people saying its getting worse.
dee you n these thumbnails have me falling OUT 😂😂😂😭😭
8:38 the finger tapping gets me. 🤣🤣🤣
Its unfair that only Chris' female fans were able to attend the meet and greet 💔
trying to “call out” Nicki but not EVERY ARTIST AND FANBASE ON THE PLANET is diabolical.
nah the thumbnail got me 😂
The way you said Beyonce had me dead😭😭😭
My answer to the only male star comment "Miley Cyrus" 😂