It's OK to Have a Bad Day ❄ Vlogmas 4, 2014
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I felt so bad when I saw you crying then I got super jealous because you are the prettiest cryer
Agreed! Lol
I was thinking that! I am such a gross cryer and it's difficult for me to form words when I'm emotional.
Yes!!! That's exactly what I thought haha
Yeah that's true :D She's beautiful even though she's crying :D I'm so jealous, when I'm crying, I look like a zombie with fountain on her face. :D:D:D
LOL I feel ya. I look like a naked mole rat when I cry
Hope it turns around :) hang in there! you're a champ
You are so nice sawyer! Ily! ❤️❤️
Yas
Sawyer your so darn nice.
Yeah Sawyer is the nicest guy ever.
***** HAH! I Noticed that too! ;)
Oh Ingrid, my heart broke when I saw you cry. I've been watching your vlogs for the last couple of years and I admire you so much because you've grown so much as a person. :) I hope you feel better, and know you have MILLIONS of people that love and support you.
Could not have said it better
THIS.
I just wanted to hug and cuddle her when she started to cry!
Me too :(
Ahh! Me 3! :(
Me 4!!😪
Petra Gabriella Gazsó do you think this had anything to do with her being gay? or her coming out to a family/friend/or even her boyfriend...
ErinLuxe Maybe, but we'll never know that, leave her privacy :)
VLOGS ARE VIDEO BLOOOOGS, a blog is where someone can express themselves so why are people getting annoyed with her crying?! Leave this poor girl alone and let her grieve.
SOMEONE SAID IT THANK YOU
Exactly nobodies life is perfect!! Xo.
My uncle was diagnosed with a very severe and aggressive form of cancer today. They are doing an emergency surgery on him to try to remove the cancer, it's been a very scary and rough day for our family. It doesn't look good for him. This video was so uplifting to me. I have been doing small things to make my family and I feel better. Thank you for being so honest and encouraging. It's always nice to know that we are not alone in the painful moments of our lives. Thank you for being so open with your viewers. I ❤️ you Ingrid!
Everything is going to be ok :) I honestly don't know what you are going through but I know that no matter what happens, everything happens for a reason
I'm sending lots of well wishes and love your way! I hope your uncle's surgery goes well. xxx
My sister in law was diagnosed with Hodgkin's lymphoma last week =[[ I understand how you feel. It's hard but being positive is so important!!
actually the same thing happened to me last christmas.... my cousin was diagnosed with breast cancer and she had an emergency surgery on christmas day... It was a difficult year but she is better now. I hope your uncle get well soon.
This is exactly what's happening to my uncle as well. A very uncommon kind of cancer that even te doctors can't explain. They sad that if we don't treat it as early as possible, he might not even see the coming year. It's extremely sad and makes you realize that things like these can actually happen to you or your family 😔
I don't think you should ever apologize for showing your emotional side to us. It really shows that like you said you are human, you are real and like everyone else you unfortunately have bad days that you wish you could just make them go away. I've been watching your videos for over two years now and I feel like you're my comfort zone and I hope you feel the same for us when you have days like this. I know I feel better when I watch your videos after having a bad day. I know now probably isn't the best time to go into detail about your bad day but just remember, we're always here for you if you need anyone to express your feelings to.
I couldn't agree with you more
agreed :D
I really appreciate that you are so honest with your subscribers and don't pretend to always be happy and having a good day. It shows that you are really just like us and that is exactly why I watch your videos. Thank you for that
Exactly! she's amazing
I agree
Guys I know the general curiosity in all of us and our concern for Ingrid makes us want to know why she's sad, but she obviously made a choice not to share it to the world, so it's something that is private and she doesn't want maybe 400,000 people to know. That's okay. It's up to her to decide! She already shared she was going through a tough time we don't need to make it tougher on her by trying to pry. Let's just support her during this time and respect the fact that she doesn't want to share every single one of her personal problems to the world.
But she did decide to share it with us by filming herself crying... What...
This is absolutely right we are here for you Ingrid!
Look everyone, she had two choices. Act fake and pretend like nothing was wrong (which 85% of us would've figured something was wrong) and put up a front. Or be real and show her true feelings. Instead of criticizing her for a few moments of sadness, which we all have, we should be supporting her. I know it's a late time to comment about this but I think it's still important to say something.
You're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't.
Aww I cried with you :( Such true and wise words. I hope everything turns out okay in your personal life. Thinking of you
Surprising to see u here
Been Ingrid's fan for many years :)
So sorry Ingrid. You are right. We have to FEEL to overcome and grow stronger. You are a very wise woman
She is so mature and lovely! I love her to bits
What Happened Anyway???
I'm so happy Nugget is okay. My heart dropped and I thought something happened to him. I'm hoping this bad day doesn't involve your mom or Chris. Here's to hoping that tomorrow is better!
I thought the same thing about nugget to! Glad it was t about him :)
Josh Valero Yeah, I was thinking more health-wise, that her mom and Chris are both in good health
She's gay so it was probably about that
One time my mom was having a really bad day, and I accidentally wore two COMPLETELY different shoes to high school... and there was nothing I could do about it, but I texted her letting her know "there is nothing you can do but I have 2 different shoes on" and that made her laugh and her day was a little better. So just remember somewhere, someone probably has 2 different shoes on... and its probably me. Lol.
This was so good. Thanks for the laugh xx
Okay guys listen up- Ive read so many rude comments on this video for example someone said that she cried for attention. All she is doing is sharing her feelings with us! And yes she didn't tell us what happened and possibly she never will but you know what? If you were a real supporter of Ingrid then you wouldn't care for a second about what went on in her PERSONAL life, you would only care about her feelings and feel sad for her. If you are going to say something rude about the beautiful, talented Ingrid then why do you even watch her videos? Im sure Ingrid wouldn't mind loosing a few views or subscribers if they were haters. Guys, Ingrid is a person. she has feelings that get hurt! think before you act.I am only 14 and I am sure that you older haters need to grow up! SUPPORT HER if you are really, not her fan, but her friend. We love you SO much Ingrid!!! We know you will stay strong! We love you if you cry on camera or not! Continue making videos because they are literally the highlight of my day!!! you are so inspiring!!! Again, we LOVE YOU!!!
INGRID,Remember to keep your head up princess, your crowns falling off.
ingrid, this video made me feel SO much better..its weird because for the past week i've been in such a great mood, and then today its like i don't even know what happened. i cried at random things and just felt like absolute poo. after seeing what happened to you i felt relatable and like I'm not alone. i only wish to hug u one day in person!!
I completely agree. I had been feeling so great and then this week I've felt pretty crappy. This vlog definitely made me feel like I wasn't alone. Sending you hugs! xo
I'd gone through exactly the same thing! I hope your okay now x
Oh Ingrid, I hope you're OK. Cat cuddles are the best medicine! xx
Nugget will take care of her!
Cats are the best medicine. (For unhappy days)
& general life!
It broke my heart to see you crying like that ingrid!! ♡ all of us are here for you and it's so amazing that you are willing to show us the vulnerable side of you so we know we aren't alone!! I had a horrible night a few days ago for personal reasons and i just let myself cry, but it made me feel so weak. Even though i know that letting yourself be upset isn't being weak, it allows you to move on, it still never feels nice! Hope everything gets better, you deserve the best beautiful! ♡
I love how you continued to vlog and let us witness a sad moment in your life. So many people have this idea that youtubers are perfect and that all these amazing things happen to them. But you showing us that you experience down falls in life, just like any other person shows that you are just human.
I hope that all gets better and I just want to say thanks for sharing bits and pieces of your life with us.
you don't understand how heartbreaking it was to see you cry. You are the sweetest and most adorable being ever. But let it out girl. Your subscribers are always here for you
So sad to see you cry- I hope everything gets better soon!
This was so raw and I love you all the more for it!
First off I want to say that watching you cry broke my heart and made me cry too so do not cry again Ingrid !!!!! (ok that's not gonna happen cause you are human but remember that you are not alone the next time you feel like this) and second of all I want to say thank you for posting this because you have literally no idea how much you have helped me right now. I am the person who whenever is having a bad day is going to sit there and cry until I get so sick of myself, I just wallow and feel miserable and act like it's the end of the world. I am such a drama queen and it never ever crossed my mind that I would handle a crappy day differently (instead of the usual put on a happy face and go on which never works as you said). So watching you get through your day and finding little things to smile seriously changed how I looked at the whole situation. you just helped me a lot Ingrid, and it's not the first time. you are such an inspiration. you inspire me in everything. seriously I am so thankful that you exist. I love you
you are the prettiest cryer ever... im so ugly when i cry
I can't believe the amount of people who say you're attention seeking because for some reason they think they deserve to know ANYTHING about your personal life. It's great that you share your ups and downs - people are just frustrated because they are nosy.
This actually made me feel so much better. It was really refreshing and I needed to hear that it's ok to have a bad day. Usually I try so hard to pretend like everything's fine and that nothing bothers me, and it's gotten to the point where I don't allow myself to feel the sadness in order to let it go, so it just builds up inside me. I'm happy that there's someone like you on RUclips to remind people that it's ok to be sad, but I also think that you're crushing dreams because you look so cute when you cry and I look like I'm drowning in tears and snot :')
Always remember Ingrid and all subscribers if you're living today, and you think you've had the worst day remember you're still living. What doesn't kill you can only make you stronger. Love you Ingrid. Sending lots of hugs xxxxxx
Today is the 15 year anniversary that my dad passed away and every year I struggle with whether or not to put on a happy face because sometimes it gets awkward for people who don't know how to comfort me, but your right we're all human and it's okay to let our emotions show through. And glad to see that you are feeling better, sending you lots of love and hugs
Aww love, I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. I hope you get through the day xxx
Sending love from Hawaii
lots of love and hugs from Los Angeles
sending love & well wishes your way
you ladies are so sweet, feeling the love from complete strangers is such an incredible feeling
Ingrid you should know, that whenever I'm having a bad day or just feeling down, I come to your chanell and watch youre videos and it really makes it a lot better. You help me smile and enjoy the little things in life. My mood just changes to warm, fuzzy and nice after watching your vids :)
Freud said something very true: "Unexpressed emotions will never die. They are buried alive and will come forth later in uglier ways." I feel the same way as you, thank you for showing your emotions - it`s good to know that everybody goes trough shitty days ;-) Hope you`re feeling better by now!
"We're all human...aside from the animals out there watching". That was adorable. *hugs* Love you, Ingrid, been having a hard time the last couple weeks, reeling from a personal loss, trying to not show these things. You are absolutely right, we should be able to show how we're feeling. Thank you for putting that out in the world.
This may sound weird or like I'm being mean , but TRUST me I'm not. With that being said, THANK YOU for being YOU and being REAL! I feel like a lot of the youtubers out there are just fake and putting on a show. The fact that you showed a different side to us, made me love you even more. You are truly amazing, you don't let the haters get to you, and your just a sweet spirit about you. Love it and I love you!! Keep your head up, sweet girl!!! Sending you lots of hugs!!! ☺️☺️
Thank you for being so raw and real with us, Ingrid. Everyone has bad days, and what you said about just letting yourself feel what you need to feel instead of hiding it really made me think. I hide what I'm feeling probably a good 99% of the time... and because of you, I think I'm going to try to be better at letting my feelings show and not trying to hide them. In all actuality, hiding behind a smile all of the time and feeling like you have to pretend you're happy 100% of the time actually makes you feel worse sometimes. You don't HAVE to be happy if you're not happy, you don't have to pretend you're not sad just to make everyone else around you feel more comfortable. We're all human, we all have bad days, we all get sad, so why do we put on a smile and hide all of our negative emotions from other people? Anyways, tomorrow is a brand new day, and I hope it is a much better one for you than today was. You are so important, Ingrid. You deserve the happiest of days.
This is why you're my favorite person on RUclips. It shows that you are down to earth and not someone who attempts to just put out a video that will get many likes but to show videos that make you seem like a genuine, loving person.
You're so brave for showing your true, raw emotions. Life happens to all of us and sometimes it isn't so nice. I agree that it's ok to be upset and emotional. It's almost essential if you want to properly overcome upsetting things and truly grow from them. I hope everything gets better for you.
If a RUclipsr is happy all the time they're "so fake". If they cry in a video here and there it's "just for attention and sympathy". For goodness sake. If you'd like to pretend that humans don't get sad, I suggest you not watch videos where the sole purpose is taking you through their day.
You're watching a video on the internet about somebody's life- just let them live it.
awh the thumbnail broke my heart :( sharing panda hugs ingrid xx
I rarely comment on videos, but rather than looking at her vlog as a means of her trying to grab attention, think about the fact that she opened up to all of us by sharing that she's upset. I don't see anything fake about that. I really appreciate the fact that she's able to admit she's upset, but she's trying to find something in her day to turn her day around.
I find it personally offensive to film yourself crying and say it's personal and not say why. If it was really personal, she didn't even need to bother filming the tears. She had enough material for a vlog and if she wanted to explain why she couldn't film the video she planned to film, all she had to say was that unexpected circumstances arose that inflicted with her ability to film the video. She didn't even need to film herself crying. I feel like I am either going to get backlash from this or people agree. So before you tell me that I am being rude to Ingrid, ask yourself, did you honestly not want to know why she was crying? That's like your friend calling you in tears and saying I'm not going to tell you why I'm crying its personal. In a job like this, if you wanna keep things personal keep it personal, but crying on camera and being vague isn't fair to us as the viewers who do care about her.
I agree with this statement wholeheartedly. There's nothing "fake" about going on and showing us the things that make you happy.All you're doing is omitting some of the truth. She has to realize that she's all over the internet-that was her choice and when she just cries on camera and doesn't tell us why, she's insulting our intelligence as viewers. This crying on camera thing is a trend and it's immature.
Why is this a trend now? I feel a bit insulted that playing with my emotions to generate views as a marketing tactic to make money. First of all, she doesn't need more money. Her wardrobe costs more than my car and a years rent. I know Zoe did it too. But even if she was upset genuinely, if she respected us, then she would have told us what was wrong or omitted the footage. But people go off that WE need to respect HER but shouldn't it go both ways?
You make very valid points. Obviously, we're going to be sympathetic to the cause and remember that she's human and all but...I also realized that she reiterated some stuff that Zoe said in her video too. She's rolling around in her money and with her attitude recently, I don't see her respecting her viewers too much. I think the fame has gotten to her.
Thank you! I feel like I am the only person who feels like this. It's not even a diss to her, I love her. She worked hard for money and deserves nice things however... She started out being relatable. She shopped in places that the everyday college girl shops. The reason I found her was because I was looking for hauls from stores like target & forever 21. But now it's high end everything. Every time she mentions something and I google it it's hundreds of dollars. Nobody can afford $2,000 purses and $1,600 trench coats or everything that lululemon makes. I get that when you have money, you buy nice things and I appreciate that. But her brand and her image was something everyone could relate to. I say this about all the beauty girls who become famous. If you start out as relatable. Don't sell out because now you have money. Buy yourself some nice things but stick to your brand. Donate money to charity instead of buy an entire wardrobe from Saks. The beauty girls are losing their image to fame and money.just these last few years she has sold out. Personally, I liked Imgrid during her time with Luke than with Chris. She deserves happiness, but the chameleon needs to stop. If she wants to continue living lavishly, she may want to bring back some of the old Ingrid.
I mean yeah I want to know what made her cry, but it's none of my business so I'm not gonna get all butthurt over it. She doesn't have to share everything. Also, people knew that she would be filming a video that day, and since she said that she can't pretend to be happy, she's not gonna do a video, so then the viewers know why. It's like if you were crying and people asked you "what's wrong?" then you say "I don't want to talk about it" or something like that. She is legally allowed to show herself crying and she is not obligated to explain why.
I am soooo sorry for the pain you're feeling, but I'm so glad you let your viewers know that it's okay to feel things and not hold everything in and pretend like life is always okay. Life is not always okay...life can be cruel and unfair. But there's beautiful things that will happen after. Sending internet hugs!!
"Everyday may not be good, but there's something good in everyday" -You
I hope your day got better...seeing you upset is like seeing a best friend or sibling upset...wish I could help make it better. Hope everything works out Ingrid! :)
That is such a powerful quote!!!
Thanks for reminding me that its okay to have a bad day... today wasn't a great day for me, but as always, you keep me on my feet and thinking positively ♥︎
Oh the timing of this is perfect. Yesterday was not the greatest day for me, one of those days where by the night you're almost laughing at how awful things are going. I just had to embrace my bad day, hug my husband and give my dog some shnuggles. Then the next day I can start fresh and have an amazing day, so wishing you an amazing day Ingrid, you and everyone else! :)
I'm having a really awful day and this video made me feel a lot better. Thank you so much Ingrid. Your channel is more than just beauty advice. I hope whatever was causing you pain is resolved now.
You brought me to tears. I feel like I always hold in my feelings and I've just been having a hard year. Its always comforting to know that you aren't the only one hurting. Sending hugs your way!
Well Ingrid this video helped me so much. My life is actual Shit, nothing goes right wether it's school, friends, family. Everything is awful. Honestly everyday i come home from school and i cry. Just bc im so sad And i do have friends but i can't tell them my issues. Bc i Feel like they won't care anyway:/ And i Dont know what to do. After i SAW You cry i needed to cry too. And you are so strong And im so jealous. Bc i cant be that strong 😥😪
Are you in high school? Oh man, when I was in high school I had such a crappy time. It takes so long to get out, but once you do, you feel SOOO much better.
Stay Strong!!!
Something that has always helped me a lot--like you, I have found myself unable to share certain situations/feelings with those around me, although it's vital to unload and share or it will be worse when it is all bottled up. I find it very therapeutic to write things down, as in paper and pen, writing a letter you will never send to a friend or just writing on a journal. Once it is down on paper, whatever it is will not have so much power over you and when you read it, it might get you some perspective. After writing and reading and crying, rip it in pieces. First, so the stuff remains private. Secondly, the simple act of ripping the paper to pieces serves as a catharsis as if you are ripping the problems up. Hope it helps.
I felt the same way too. I know its really cliche but over time things get better and you become stronger. Before you know it, these problems you are facing will be over and it will make you a better person. Like Ingrid, look for the good in things. It will really help you, trust me💕
I went thought this in high school. I was so depressed I could not get out of bed. I dropped out of school. I cried all the time. I got back up, I fell down. I was not strong. I almost took my own life because I thought it was never going to get better. But guess what, it did! I am so happy right now. The storm has passed and I am so happy I chose to survive the rough to get to the good. My advice: stay as strong as you can, just put one foot in front of the other and take baby steps. You have no idea yet what amazing things are going to come along (trust me they are coming!) you just have to get through this as best you can. Hope this helps a little bit xx Sarah
For everybody that's complaining about her crying... She doesn't have to go into the details she said it was a personal matter which we should respect. She's not doing it to get views either she probably just wants us to know (as it said in the title) don't feel ashamed if you are upset. I think it must have taken a lot of courage to do that and she is also giving advice on how we can get over something like this. If you don't want to watch her cry then why are you sat there watching this video... :/
Hope everything is ok and you feel better tomorrow..
ps. check the humor section of Pinterest for a laugh ;)
I'm sorry ur going through a rough time
Katelovescbj If that is directed at me, thank you.. it's almost behind me..
Ingrid you are my favourite person to watch.. Your videos are genuine and happy. Not everyone knows what you have gone through for these years but I feel you! It's okay that people don't read your mind and I just hope you can be the happiest person in the world :)
This is by far one of my favorite videos from Ingrid. I usually don't like when RUclipsrs cry on camera.. but when Ingrid did and she started talking, there were so many wise words she said that ACTUALLY made sense. It made me realize some important things about life. For once, a RUclipsr that talked about life and not complained about how hard their job is has finally emerged...
I totally agree with letting yourself feel things. that what life is all about
I just love how Ingrid and Luke both still play that intro for vlogmas 😌😌😌😌
:-( at least you don't ugly cry like Kim kardashian. But you did make me want to reach through my computer and give you a hug.
Haha so true!!! 👍👍
Lol
I like that you pour out how you're feeling to us, Ingrid. you show us that not all youtubers have glamorous lives, and that's truly inspiring.
What you said in the video really spoke to me since my dog was killed two months ago.
I haven't been able to get over it, and have been trying to just put on a front instead of feeling. I feel like people expect you to just move on really quickly, but it made me feel a lot better hearing you say that it's ok to feel what you're feeling.
It really broke my heart seeing you cry because even though we've never met I feel like were friends (kinda weird lol). When I watch your videos it always cheers me up, so thank you!
I hope whatever you're going through will get better! Love you! Be strong!!
I totally understand why Ingrid likes to keep things private. But it sucks to show an emotional moment and not really explain it, only because the comment section is just full of speculation. Everyone is saying she broke up with her boyfriend but at like the 15 minute mark she clearly says hes coming over. So thats clearly not the reason.
I'm totally with you, when I woke up this morning I was blind and couldn't go to school. Thankfully my eyes got better through out the day but this has been going on since September. I have no idea what's wrong with me and I've seen the doctor countless times but there is nothing they can do. Now my school is threatening to not let me graduate. It's just so frustrating.
Wait are they not letting you graduate because you have eye issues or because you missed school due to appointments?
Because I've missed so much school. They're only allowing a certain amount of days missed, excused or not. Even though all my absences have been excused due to doctors appointments and being blind.
I'm sorry!! That sucks :( hoping you find a solution soon!
I'm so, so sorry about that, and I really hope you'll find a solution/cure soon!
That sucks! I hope everything gets sorted out for you xx
Ingrid, i love you very much and have been a subscriber since the very beginning. I, along with your other long time subscribers know who you are! and we know you would NEVER cry on camera for attention. all of the people commenting that you were doing that, don't know you and are looking for attention themselves! Even you sharing yourself during a bad day shows just how strong you are! feel better!!!!! love, lauren
even though you were sad on this video, I still felt your true joy coming through. Stay encouraged.
Oh my darling..seeing you in tears..my eyes were in tears. You are so genuine and sweet to have even tried to shoot this video I could somehow sense it the moment I saw your first shot of this video that something was wrong with you. You continue being yourself, bubbly and cheerful. Good things are just on your way, God had better plans for you.. Love you darling.
You are so brave to do everything you do, we love you ingriddd
So true! we all love her more than she will ever know♥♥
The whole time I thought that something happened between you and Chris until near the end of the video where you said Chris was coming over! Whatever it is you're going through, I hope you do fight through it, and become a stronger person :) xx
She's not crying for attention goodness people. Not everyone does stuff for attention. She wanted to tell us it's okay to not be okay and to remind us she's human too.
I admire your honesty so much - THAT makes you strong! I have had so many times where I have put on a "happy face" - l literally said those exact words before you said them on your blog. That you have the strength to say "it's okay not to be okay" is incredible. I hope the good moments outweigh the bad, and that you have a magical day tomorrow. Sending happy thoughts :) x
This video could not have come at a better time for me. I was having the worst day and this video made me realize that if today was my worst day then tomorrow will definitely be better and I hope you remember that too! Thank you for making a stressed out college senior feel better! Love you and nugget!
I wish I could be more like you and just get over what I am going through right now. I have had such a bad time. When the school year started that's when all of my sadness has started. I just feel like I don't fit in with anyone and that no one feels like I do. I like Katy perry a interview though (the 2014 one) it's very inspirational and I just wish I had more friends. I can't wait to go to college though and find new friends that I fit in with. All of my "so called friends" now just are so crazy and that's not a bad things it's just not really what I look for in a friend.I go to a very small school so there are not many school friend choices. I do dance and I LIVE for it. That's where all of my real friends are . There are many that I can call friends but I am just glad that God has blessed me with dance because if I didn't dance then I would probably kill myself because no one understood me - this was the hardest sentence of my life life to write but it's true and I am crying so hard right now but I am thankful that I was given the gift of dance to make me a better living person in the world. Thank you Ingrid for inspiring me to write all of my thoughts down it really helped me get out what I needed to.
I completely understand how you feel! I'm assuming you're in high school, or middle school? I am 21 years old and I didn't go through this until recently and I lost basically all of my close friends from high school. It was a really difficult time in my life. But if you just try to live each day knowing that God has made you for a reason, whether you know that reason or not. You have a purpose and you may have had a positive effect on people and didn't even know it. It's awesome that you have something that you love to do. Keep dancing and expressing yourself through it. As time passes, things do get better. Try to surround yourself with people that share the same values/morals as you, people who will inspire you and lift you up. I don't know why I felt compelled to write to you, other than I've been where you are and I know how it feels. Hope everything gets better hun :)
I've felt the same way through this school year. But just remember that it always gets better :)
I've gone through a lot lately but it was all worth it because I'm happier now.
This is coming from a college student who had a bad high school life.
It gets a lot better. :D
My advice is don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone every now and then.
tiu_maddie I was in the same situation as you. I'm 21 and about a year ago, I lost all of my high school best friends because college life was/is different for me than it was for them. I was always busy all the time and they were always partying and well long story short we walked on different paths without even knowing it, so we said goodbye and for a long time I felt the loneliness. But it does get better and as they say (i know its cheesy): It's always darkest, just before the dawn. :)
You are a true inspiration Ingrid!! You have such a good heart and it always shows in your videos!
You are so so wise, Ingrid. Love just listening to you, it's all important to hear time to time. You have so much support from us, don't forget it :) xx
It's such s breath of fresh air to see you be real! You still look pretty when you're crying though! I hope everything is okay and you feel better soon!
It's so wonderful that you tried to put on a brave face and then decided to help others by showing us all how you are feeling! I hope that your day does get better and enjoying the little things that come is the best way to get through it! So much love for you and Nugget!
Oh man seeing her cry broke my heart
I hope you feel better soon .
I was wondering the same thing :)
I was wondering if she was her roommate....?
Lol guys she's just a friend, and a fellow youtuber :P
shes a youtuber
Why is everyone being a rude?! What is a family member died or something just as bad and she trusted that we would all understand that she can have a bad day too and we only see 10 minutes of her day so we should know what she has feelings too.
Everyone is being so insensitive yet she felt comfortable enough to share this with all of us just to receive negative comments about "attention seeking".
Think before you post something on the Internet because you may not think she will read it but she probably has.
Omg I have so many cuddles for you. You're so sweet and honest. Props on being vulnerable.
Took me 45 years to learn that lesson. I think you are very brave to share that moment with us. You seem like such a genuinely nice person, Ingrid. Hugs to you.
ok guys, this has nothing to do with the video, but kalel and anthony broke up...
They did? Where you learn this?
R1R2R3L1L2L3 watch their last video in watchusliveandstuff
Cami i
Yeah...just viewed. Vid didn't show at first. Rough.
😦😲
Who's kalel and anthony ????
I never saw Ingrid cry don't cry love you 💕
Love ya Ingrid! It's been a while but I love catching up on your vids! You're so positive & inspiring and adorable! Hope to run into ya again one of these days! xoxo!
Ingrid! You're the best. I lost one my dearest pets about 2 weeks ago and I still hurt a lot. This video is just a nice reminder for me that it's OK that I'm still grieving and struggling. So thank you so much for this and Vlogmas. You never cease to put a smile on my face. Lots of love.
I'm sorry for your loss! Losing a beloved pet is hard to deal with.
Be strong Ingrid! It's okay to cry and to feel whatever you are feeling, but no matter what happens you have so many friends out there who support you! We love you!
Thank you for giving advice about having a bad day. I had a miscarriage a month ago and have been having many bad days. My husband and I greatly miss what our son would've been.
Oh gosh :( I'm so very sorry for the loss of your little one. It will take time and I'm sure you will never forget, but I hope your heart heals soon
forever wondering what happened
I hope your day tomorrow is better than today Ingrid!
rewatching all of your vlogmas videos and stumbled upon this one again
omg INNGRIIID PLEASE DONT CRY. sunshine...there will always me this moments when it will hurt. u're so strong. we are all here for u, ready to help u if we can. i really really hope it will get better whatever it is. lots of love for u prinzess.
I'm watching this video for the first time right now and some of the comments are disgusting and I don't know how they are supposed to make Ingrid any happier. I think she is gorgeous and this video was not attention seeking whatsoever- a vlog should consist of the things that happened in the day and if she had a shit day she shouldn't be made edit that out because she may come across as an 'attention seeker'. She can't edit the bad stuff out of her life so she shouldn't feel like she has to edit it out of her vlogs.
I definitely think it's annoying that she didn't tell us what was going on, but that's only because I and most others are nosy by nature. But with that being said, she doesn't have to be sharing ANY of this with us, let alone something personal and sad, and so it was really her choice whether or not she wanted to and we as viewers need to respect that.
Little did we know this was because she was gay
Andrea De Quintana I thought they same thing too! Do you really think that she is crying because of something related to her being gay?
I wonder if she came out to her boyfriend or to a family member or friend this day.....
ErinLuxe I think she came out to her friend Kat
that would be cool if she brought it up in a later video.. what a trip.
+Andrea De Quintana i wonder if thats what it was because she said its upsetting and i wouldnt want to jump to any conclusions
prob when she came out to her mother & got a bad reaction from her......
this is exactly what i needed today! I had been holding it in all day, but you reminded me that it's okay to cry, now I feel so much better. thank you so much ingrid.
We love you, Ingrid. More than you'll ever know! You might get an idea of how much you mean to us but that's nothing compared to how much you've helped so much of us and how much you truly mean to your viewers.
Even when you're crying you look amazing. My face looks like a nightmare when i'm crying tbh
She did look gorgeous when she cried I look like Kim kardashian 😄
You are such an inspiration and I don't mean to sound like everyone else but honestly you are incredible! The way you look at different things is just so eye opening and I don't just mean about this but about other topics I've watched in your videos. Thank you for this video because I love being able to watch your videos and hear some of your opinions! You are the first you tuber I every watched and I liked you since the day I watched you! Thank you!!
We all have bad days.... love you Ingrid
You should absolutely not apologize, we all have these days! ❤️ we love you ingrid ❤️❤️❤️❤️! Hope it gets better!!
I actually cried with you! Seeing you cry and still being so positive and cute was so touching. I really hope you feel better now, and eventhough I'm not a big "commenting-person" I felt the need to tell you what an inspiration you are to me! Stay as positive, strong and beautiful as you are.
Lots of love from Germany xxx
I hope her mom is still cancer free. Praying for you Ingrid.
Anyone else rewatching after she came out?
Hope your ok ingrid😟I love youuu💗
Keep smiling!!😊😊😊💓
I am going through a really tough time right now (depression and burn out ) and your blog just made everything better ! I feel not alone and I have energy to make it through they day and get better! Thank you Ingrid !
I love you so much Ingrid. Whatever happened will get better. I know it's hard now, but we are all going through some sort of pain at one point and how you deal with it defines who you are. This thing sounded pretty bad and you handled it with grave and strength. I am giving you a giant virtual hug right now because I and many others are here for you. Always.