Meth, the Mob, and Mental Health - Barriers for Gang Members Seeking Addiction Help | The Hui 2022

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  • Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024

Комментарии • 87

  • @unnamedchannel1237
    @unnamedchannel1237 Месяц назад +15

    Do you think the system let him down - “ definitely”
    How about taking responsibility for your own life and not rely on the “system”

    • @Itwasalladream1987
      @Itwasalladream1987 День назад +2

      Many of these people need the system to provide support for growth and change through therapy and utilizing tools. It's about breaking cycles not pointing fingers, many of these people have been born into hardship and are surrounded by risk factors.

  • @ArohaCookson
    @ArohaCookson Месяц назад +20

    As a Maori, my hearts goes to the kids who are born to these types of whanau. My father is a true east coast Maori, hard af worker, an amazing husband, father and koro. Im so grateful I grew up in a loving household. Turn away from the ganglife, there is a much bigger legacy you can leave behind 🤍 These gangs wont be visiting you at the ururpa when your gone, your kids will and surely you want them to think the world of you when your no longer here.

    • @mhutch5082
      @mhutch5082 Месяц назад

      Dont speak on the mob little girl. Don't speak on things you don't understand

    • @RogueX777
      @RogueX777 29 дней назад +1

      @@mhutch5082oh be quiet. Mobsters are wannabes, why don’t yous go over to America ☠️ let them show yous

    • @ArohaCookson
      @ArohaCookson 15 дней назад +3

      @@mhutch5082 little girl 🤣 oh everybody goes through hardship. Don’t give me that bullshit!

    • @mhutch5082
      @mhutch5082 15 дней назад

      @@ArohaCookson clown

    • @ArohaCookson
      @ArohaCookson 15 дней назад +5

      @@mhutch5082 some of us have jobs, clearly you don’t wasting your time online talking shit. Jealous I always have a fridge full of food huh 🤭🤣

  • @Tupunaforever
    @Tupunaforever 2 месяца назад +15

    so sorry for your loss e wahine Jade, may Mr Atkins RIP. Thankyou for being brave to tell his story, it's much appreciated. Not all inmates will want the new facility, but if it means saving a few from the busling crowd that want the help, kei te pai. All the very best.

  • @Swayze30
    @Swayze30 2 месяца назад +16

    Speak up now or forever hold your say, reach out an seek help. ❤ Don't be afraid whether it's a relationship breakup, mental health issues,drugs,trauma etc.
    If you don't ask you won't receive.

  • @kathleenwong3119
    @kathleenwong3119 Месяц назад +7

    The system didn’t fail him. His “brothers” failed him.

  • @leaisoufeauyoutube
    @leaisoufeauyoutube 2 месяца назад +20

    Our mental health system is 💩 short staffed, without resources, and people wanting help but not wanting to do the work. It takes partnership between the client AND service. Therapies, counselling etc is not a one stop shop, you have to want to change your life. One love whanau ✌️

  • @sadetiriana
    @sadetiriana 2 месяца назад +15

    The suicide is a generational curse. Which can only be broken in the name of Jesus. This is a sad story

  • @user-uo7vf3ne9w
    @user-uo7vf3ne9w 2 месяца назад +22

    Put the patch down and stand on ur own like a man, that wud of been the first bit of advice, 2nd throw that P pipe away and get into work and fittness, rugby etc, im sure if he spoke with his prezz they would b understanding if he wanted to pull away from the gang life to focus on his well being, R.i.P bro

  • @shonatyson5934
    @shonatyson5934 6 дней назад +2

    If he was brought up with love, not violence the outcome would have been an amazing man, I think is parents were to blame not society.

    • @Itwasalladream1987
      @Itwasalladream1987 День назад

      A mixture of both, they still need support outside of their whānau trauma to help them pivot and lead happy healthy lives.

  • @davidboyd8113
    @davidboyd8113 8 дней назад +2

    There are hundreds of men that take their own lives each year and no one cares and the system lets all them down so don’t think He had that on his own and where were his brothers did they try to help

  • @ronniegrey4445
    @ronniegrey4445 2 месяца назад +3

    Stay Strong Girl.

  • @pounamuriver7411
    @pounamuriver7411 2 месяца назад +2

    Yes we need our kaumatuas the most ❤

  • @user-ly9te3un7k
    @user-ly9te3un7k Месяц назад +1

    Being a good parent is so crucial, its not just being present in there lives its really knowing your kids which is important. I know this girl will break the cycle, all the best girl❤️❤️👍

  • @charmaineskipworth7891
    @charmaineskipworth7891 Месяц назад +3

    What a beautiful whahine❤ ..so sorry for your loss..

  • @taniawilliams14
    @taniawilliams14 2 месяца назад +4

    Armon Tamatea is one of the best minds in the country around what works for our people.

  • @DoinglifeGodsway
    @DoinglifeGodsway Месяц назад +1

    Suicide mental health is a state of torment in the mind. But if you believe 2 Timothy 1:7 For the Lord has not given us a Spirit of Fear but Power , Love and a Sound Mind.

  • @hamo946
    @hamo946 2 месяца назад +3

    All we need to do is give up the gang and drugs it takes your soul and time away from your family because that is the main reason why we lost so many young lives I didn't think that's the life my bro wanted just didn't have the right people to be around when he needed that help the most RIP brother

  • @SpatialAdmirer273
    @SpatialAdmirer273 2 месяца назад +2

    Rip brother

  • @jamiematthews4848
    @jamiematthews4848 2 месяца назад +8

    You need a women like her on your team

  • @user-sx8gd3hp8y
    @user-sx8gd3hp8y Месяц назад +1

    No more excuses too better oneself if you have your own family wear the patch of arohanui oku whanau

  • @Ripfire777
    @Ripfire777 Месяц назад +1

    Speaking up can also be the final straw too cause you finally speak up and nothing happens it smacks u down even more, theres no hope truth hurts.

  • @AmonAnon-vw3hr
    @AmonAnon-vw3hr День назад

    Can't help people who refuse help.

  • @terrikara6876
    @terrikara6876 2 месяца назад +1

    Whanau, blood, gang, or friends, we are first responders - offer a listening ear, a hug, a prayer & if you know of some support reach out - Love n blessings to our whanau - kia kaha ❤❤❤❤

  • @JohnLaker-cf3dw
    @JohnLaker-cf3dw 2 месяца назад +5

    It doesn't help when your on drugs and somebody else is in your head bad doings not owning people back stuffed someone's life up
    Being hard missing someone's day up there so much to it

    • @terrikara6876
      @terrikara6876 2 месяца назад +2

      Yes, there are many layers ❤ healing is possible, one layer at a time, one day at a time...

    • @ManaBlack208
      @ManaBlack208 2 месяца назад +3

      Man read your comment hard to understand

  • @AmonAnon-vw3hr
    @AmonAnon-vw3hr День назад

    9:17
    And what of the other 58%?
    Forgotten, ignored and dismissed simply because they weren't gang members.

  • @paulheywood2116
    @paulheywood2116 17 дней назад +1

    Strong woman you are girl

  • @ibringtherain7669
    @ibringtherain7669 2 месяца назад +6

    Zero sum game! Comes to ruin, kill and destroy. The illusion of pride and ego. Only the system wins here. All heading to the cliff edge.

  • @anton97658
    @anton97658 2 месяца назад

    He tino pōuri tēnei kōrero, ka tuku aroha kia koe e Hine. Moe mai rā Bonus, kua wehe atu koe tōmua, he pōuri 😢

  • @skyline472
    @skyline472 2 месяца назад +5

    Rip Tuta bro

  • @JADALEIGH08
    @JADALEIGH08 2 месяца назад +1

    Much love ❤. It's hard when their attached to the gang and it's thier normal. Breaking that cycle and.going against the grain of their peers

  • @ngarutalaman4401
    @ngarutalaman4401 29 дней назад +2

    Mental health support in New Zealand is non-existent and it's sad

  • @KysRoa-en9bn
    @KysRoa-en9bn 2 дня назад

    It's worse haveing mental health

  • @Honest-Tee07
    @Honest-Tee07 2 месяца назад +5

    2 of my brothers committed suicide in 2020 & 2022 neither of my brothers were gangstas, neither of them had gone to jail, the first who took his life was on meth. Where my brothers ate concerned the family support was there, the mental health services were there but besides trying to say my brother was suffering from a P induced psychosis they didn't know what was wrong then decided to give him a pill for psychosis, a pill for depression, a pill for bi polar and I pill for anxiety which I thought the pills all at the same time, considering what they were for would of fugged him up more than anything or been pointless cause wouldn't they cancel each other out?! Personally I think gangs and drugs play a part for some but not all if anything they want some bullsheeit to stop and death seems to be the only thing that works to do that 😢 I hope and pray all suicide deaths find the peace they wanted from life in death 🎗 #FukSuicide

  • @davisnicholls8714
    @davisnicholls8714 Месяц назад +4

    The choice is yours, choose the the narrow path or the wide path, Jesus is the ONLY WAY The TRUTH and the LIFE, repent and turn to God, God bless our kiwi friends.

  • @johnnymartin3846
    @johnnymartin3846 2 месяца назад +9

    Pity for a mob member please! Imagine the harm he caused family’s and helped others to be atics

    • @gerrardodonnell5084
      @gerrardodonnell5084 2 месяца назад +5

      Come on brother stop looking at the end result and look at why, how and what can we do to support.

    • @johnsonkeast9277
      @johnsonkeast9277 2 месяца назад +5

      He was still a son, brother, father and tangata whenua....this is not the place or time for slander ehoa, Nga Manaakitanga

    • @sbnz1207
      @sbnz1207 9 дней назад

      Suh a dismissive comment.... I've recently lost a family member to suicide, he saw his gang as family as he hadn't had much support through life. He was a beautiful person. People , I can only imagine, must be absolutely rock bottom and desperate to take their own life - it's not the easy way out, it's just a very, very sad situation for that person and the people who love him and are left behind. It's just not as simple as you are making out.

  • @mhh8072
    @mhh8072 2 месяца назад +1

    Sad 😢

  • @rastikras5977
    @rastikras5977 2 месяца назад +2

    Fk that's heavy RIP brotha bouns

  • @Michael-vw6rg
    @Michael-vw6rg 14 дней назад

    Suicide not a very good head space❤❤❤ very sad to hear this story its not the first he will never be the last??

  • @irifikkk8489
    @irifikkk8489 2 месяца назад +3

    Doing da pukanas with the glass taiaha lol

  • @Sal-yt6yi
    @Sal-yt6yi Месяц назад +1

    The interviewer needs to lower her damn head..looking like she's looking down on everyone she talking to 😂

  • @user-nf9cw3jj6u
    @user-nf9cw3jj6u Месяц назад

    It's the black power to

  • @WestyUru
    @WestyUru 2 месяца назад +30

    Where were the frogs when this brother needed them ? Frog Life

    • @Uchube77
      @Uchube77 2 месяца назад

      The mutts

    • @JamieH-i8p
      @JamieH-i8p 17 дней назад

      😢Bonus was up LST kicking it at Nigga Krayzees his brother in law catching up with kloe and leeroy and raaarking the Bois up RIP

  • @trillionairextreme
    @trillionairextreme 2 месяца назад +1

    In a better place with his people #arohamai #kiakaha

    • @ManaBlack208
      @ManaBlack208 2 месяца назад

      Wat hell with the demons 😈

    • @trillionairextreme
      @trillionairextreme 2 месяца назад

      @@ManaBlack208 #theblackpower #mangukahahard #tuhoe #kingcountry

    • @ManaBlack208
      @ManaBlack208 2 месяца назад

      @@trillionairextremeBlackpower?,he was a mobster

    • @trillionairextreme
      @trillionairextreme 2 месяца назад

      @@ManaBlack208 Why ask the questions if you don't like the answer. #bp #mk #ganggang

    • @ManaBlack208
      @ManaBlack208 2 месяца назад

      @trillionairextreme1277 Who said I didn't like your answer?I don't understand it,so your saying his people are blackpower where he is buried but he was a hardcore mongrel mob?I'm asking you,is his people where he's buried blackpower?

  • @Tankhorse02
    @Tankhorse02 2 месяца назад +2

    🎵Tiptoe through the tulips… with meeeeee eeeeeeee… 😈

  • @AmonAnon-vw3hr
    @AmonAnon-vw3hr День назад

    The dude think a group who walk the streets covered in swastika tattoos are the victims of "racism" lol

  • @amomentsnotice
    @amomentsnotice 2 месяца назад

    There has to be gang members that can communicate with their members on issues like mental health Whakawhanaungatanga financial issues & the hidden histories of Indigenous People’s World Wide, suicidal tendencies in my opinion is all about fear, a fear that comes from the Colonial System through English a Spell Casting Colonial Matrix Program commonly known as a language.
    👁️⚫️🌍🌎🌏☠️👽✨☮️

  • @chrismills8287
    @chrismills8287 2 месяца назад +6

    Gangster flops

  • @user-qr4wc5fc9l
    @user-qr4wc5fc9l 2 месяца назад +8

    Tragic tamariki born into gangs don't have a choice tino pouri.😢

    • @ManaBlack208
      @ManaBlack208 2 месяца назад +2

      Yeah their parents are sending them to hell