ISTHEMBU EP8 | Polygamy | He made someone pregnant

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Комментарии • 453

  • @Gabrielovic
    @Gabrielovic 2 года назад +88

    To cheat with Thato was a big mistake this guy did, Panel is a beautiful,strong and intelligent woman and she so matured you can see how she handled the situation this guy is going to regret what he's done

  • @emilypule9948
    @emilypule9948 2 года назад +41

    My favourite host, she is friendly and level headed.

  • @cosmasncube3219
    @cosmasncube3219 2 года назад +30

    CMTV is employing very beautiful ladies ,but for smiling ,make up ,your welcome you are the best Ntsiki .also u never take sides .u do your job perfectly .

    • @nomanomanoma3647
      @nomanomanoma3647 2 года назад

      Khalelan wena Ungenelile cc mxxxxm

    • @zazzleq6139
      @zazzleq6139 2 года назад +1

      I noticed that she uses makeup to hide her true beauty so that we can focus on the show.

  • @StuchaTumelo
    @StuchaTumelo 2 года назад +40

    My mind keeps telling me that Thato ain't actually pregnant she is just trapping the guy

  • @Mimi-gj1fq
    @Mimi-gj1fq 2 года назад +31

    Thato is NOT PREGNANT…lies!!! She just playin her cards right..manipulative..i hop he stays with her so he learns his lesson🤣😂

    • @tshegofatso5643
      @tshegofatso5643 2 года назад

      And she is old to be his ssta & she is capable of killing or go to sangoma,she is not pregnant.

    • @andersmonis5243
      @andersmonis5243 10 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂

  • @missy_Richggy
    @missy_Richggy 2 года назад +7

    The second lady is full of her self kamo ga tsebe lo apara 🥺drama queen

  • @Lesediramushu
    @Lesediramushu 2 года назад +32

    This is by far the best female host.
    She’s matured and doesn’t assume to know everything, uya-lalela kahle

  • @preciousndebele3451
    @preciousndebele3451 2 года назад +33

    First girl is beautiful I lv her ❤❤❤.

    • @panelthabiso9649
      @panelthabiso9649 2 года назад +6

      Thank you n I love you too❤❤❤

    • @bornwise9132
      @bornwise9132 2 года назад +1

      Phanel is a good woman i love her🔥🔥❤️👌

    • @missy_Richggy
      @missy_Richggy 2 года назад +1

      @@panelthabiso9649 ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @sibusisiweadora7266
    @sibusisiweadora7266 2 года назад +11

    The way Thato points at Panel. *the height of disrespect* ... Shem.....☹️☹️

  • @danielthulani6151
    @danielthulani6151 2 года назад +14

    Panny just go away from all this pls go ahead and study and do well then reconsider going back for love mybe that time will be alright for you , still young at 25yrs time still there by your side honestly

  • @ninahmbatha1890
    @ninahmbatha1890 2 года назад +15

    I like the 1st girlfriend she was so calm with out any violence ❤️❤️❤️💯💯

  • @sniperking7772
    @sniperking7772 2 года назад +57

    No shot she's 28. She looks 41 🤣🤣

  • @Eltonea_Lebepe
    @Eltonea_Lebepe 2 года назад +28

    The level of the disrespect that the second gf is giving to the 1st gf is bad. She’s even saying “He already told me about this one.” 😂😂😂😂😂😂this one neh

    • @alecmakgoale2517
      @alecmakgoale2517 2 года назад +1

      Eish, this lady is so wrong from the word go

    • @topsymtshali7541
      @topsymtshali7541 2 года назад

      The guy is weak,sorry

    • @phililemosia6956
      @phililemosia6956 2 года назад

      The guy is poor and useless , why fight for such a stupid boyfriend. The first girl mst jst leave , she deserves better.

    • @magdelinemapheto2328
      @magdelinemapheto2328 2 года назад

      People. Yoooooo. Kamo she's just domperyong

  • @lisamthethwa4088
    @lisamthethwa4088 2 года назад +21

    Please Thato leave these two love birds and find your match

  • @makhotsomanki3073
    @makhotsomanki3073 2 года назад +27

    Panel is so beautiful and matured

  • @nozipholadyn2887
    @nozipholadyn2887 2 года назад +32

    you lost it my Brother (Panel) is future wife material😢😢😢😢😢

  • @ntandoe_Nonduh
    @ntandoe_Nonduh 2 года назад +29

    I have a feeling that Thato is lying about pregnancy though

  • @tinyfox9857
    @tinyfox9857 2 года назад +22

    This Thato is so silly shame the guy will regret

  • @ross100bozie8
    @ross100bozie8 2 года назад +24

    This guy is going to regret this

  • @carolinesibanda7673
    @carolinesibanda7673 2 года назад +7

    She came with attitude and now she's the one who's crying

  • @simosethukhumalo6644
    @simosethukhumalo6644 2 года назад +8

    Firts wife muhle and she is cool .Lo 28 years uyaphapha bhudi zomkhumbula firts wife

  • @sisipho6945
    @sisipho6945 2 года назад +18

    How i wish Panel can just leave these two once

  • @thabiso4193
    @thabiso4193 2 года назад +26

    “Mjolo o tlo re bolaya” this guy is playing with fire😂ba no mo betha ka leru straight🌪⚡️😔🤞🏾

    • @ronaldsello7078
      @ronaldsello7078 2 года назад +2

      Mo tlogele ba nyaka go moloya batho ba ko Limpopo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @siyandabhengu5020
      @siyandabhengu5020 2 года назад +1

      My brother you are not thinking well ,you gonna regret about all this thing,Panel She's a wife material my brother ,the other lady i dont feel her there is something fishy on her.

    • @beautymellz5600
      @beautymellz5600 Год назад +1

      I hope they do🤣🤣🤣

    • @mathewkade8933
      @mathewkade8933 Год назад

      ​@@ronaldsello7078pp

  • @janine5694
    @janine5694 2 года назад +13

    This second girl got an altitude haiboooo. I would leave the relationship..... no wayyyyy how are they going to cooperate while second lady is behaving like a kid mxm

  • @juliaherbet2063
    @juliaherbet2063 2 года назад +28

    You have to understand that you have international audience as well. Put some subtitles please

  • @mohlomphimalatji6598
    @mohlomphimalatji6598 2 года назад +5

    25 years, u r still young my boy for isthembu

  • @yolandandibongo4319
    @yolandandibongo4319 2 года назад +27

    I like Panel she's so calm❤

  • @exclusivetotheyanos2885
    @exclusivetotheyanos2885 2 года назад +15

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Mjolo will be the end of us yoh🤣🤣🤣🤣 Eh Ae boy my advice for you is that leave the Sugar Mama and focus on Panel, In future, you won't survive with this Sugar Mama, firstly she seems to be bossy, two she's full of herself and three she'll muur you physically🤞🤞🤞

  • @mbalimagayela6061
    @mbalimagayela6061 2 года назад +13

    A real actor indeed sis Thato 🤣🙆‍♀️

  • @pheladi_PS
    @pheladi_PS 2 года назад +8

    " Ke tlo go thusa ka txhelete ya go dira abortion "😂
    She's so calm. I love Panel batho bagešo❤😂

  • @georgealexkhumalo4498
    @georgealexkhumalo4498 2 года назад +10

    That man doesn't know what he really wants,the second woman Thato has stinking attitude and Panel is hurt she is the one for keeps not Thato.

  • @sphiwesithole2892
    @sphiwesithole2892 2 года назад +13

    The presenter is very good and matured. 🙏

  • @nokukhanyandlovu4035
    @nokukhanyandlovu4035 2 года назад +12

    Run Panel a when the time is right a good man will find you.

  • @lawrencenkuna8881
    @lawrencenkuna8881 2 года назад +16

    Mjolo earned this guy an Old Lady, Thato is the eldest in this show today. Moguy wont manage this.

  • @tinashejosiah
    @tinashejosiah 2 года назад +13

    The show was going to to be more exiting of these was a subtitle for the benefit of those who don't understands the language
    Good presentation Neexy

  • @sheillasiboli7697
    @sheillasiboli7697 2 года назад +4

    This second lady yooo she looks like she is 40 and uya phapha first girl she is so beautiful and so good nkazana be wise god will bless you

  • @zama9041
    @zama9041 2 года назад +1

    The Pride anayo uthato it makes me worried,,, it's like wuye ofike kqala in ths relationship, yet wumakwapheni.... Big up to u Panel Nami I would hv done the same if I were u,, Bashiye u ar still young uzomthola u muntu obetter thn both of thm... uthato uyakuchiliza kule relationship... Best of luck in getting some1 else

  • @GabiMudau
    @GabiMudau 2 месяца назад +1

    He caught the feelings rather than the flu heeeee 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @zeldahrivers1585
    @zeldahrivers1585 2 года назад +8

    The guy is digging his own grave, having two women is no pap n vleis🤣🤣

  • @richardmasina5454
    @richardmasina5454 2 года назад +4

    I just love Panel she's so matured and handled it very well unlike the second one uyadelela ngifisa kube yena oshiyiwayo, she must deal with her child

  • @thembekilemtsi2004
    @thembekilemtsi2004 2 года назад +8

    2nd gf is rude and disrespectful. the guy is in trouble and 1st gf uyajola and 2nd gf is lying she is not pregnant

  • @abongilembusi6231
    @abongilembusi6231 2 года назад +15

    Thato is a real actress, she not pregnant, she is not crying

  • @extrabady4156
    @extrabady4156 2 года назад +15

    The second lady is an actress for real 🤣

    • @visavisa4315
      @visavisa4315 2 года назад

      😁😁😁😁

    • @thabisilemakhoba4758
      @thabisilemakhoba4758 2 года назад

      🤣She was joking

    • @visavisa4315
      @visavisa4315 2 года назад +1

      Where? 🤣🤣🤣 ayikho lonto
      Thato is old shame 🤐🤐

    • @visavisa4315
      @visavisa4315 2 года назад

      We don't joke like that 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @thabisilemakhoba4758
      @thabisilemakhoba4758 2 года назад +1

      @@visavisa4315 🤣🤣🤣sizothini phela makungekho okukhombisa ubu actress

  • @anelisaphahla4439
    @anelisaphahla4439 2 года назад +11

    Penny thanks for representing women☺️😍

  • @tumelomolokoane3287
    @tumelomolokoane3287 2 года назад +9

    This guy is a fork-lift, heavy lifter and strong back 🤞🏼.

  • @missy_Richggy
    @missy_Richggy 2 года назад +8

    Panel i love u home gul♥️♥️♥️♥️ur strong n beautiful

  • @Issynails
    @Issynails 2 года назад +7

    Thato manipulated the situation thinking if she had his baby he would marry her first and she'd have all the power.... allegedly. Also she's very rude, that guy will regret his decision to be with her.. her facial expressions towards Panel tell us all we need to know about her.. I wonder if the pregnancy is even real.

    • @lungiswasogoni5956
      @lungiswasogoni5956 Год назад +1

      Thato is not pregnant at all
      How can she say she is 2 months and yet never told her man No

    • @ntombienhlemahlaba8368
      @ntombienhlemahlaba8368 Месяц назад

      ​@@lungiswasogoni5956Nisazomangala kwasho Msholozi😲

  • @thabangpholo568
    @thabangpholo568 2 года назад +8

    Well the 1st lady seem like someone you can easily maintain control on (in a good way) than the second lady. The reasoning that the first lady didn't have time for you, hai I dont buy that (1st lady doesn't seem like someone who can't be managed). From what I can see, the 2nd lady will most probably control the guy.

  • @boitumeloshuping7601
    @boitumeloshuping7601 2 года назад +9

    On a lighter note, away from cheating. Ntsiki speaking Venac (Sepedi) ☺️☺️☺️🤭
    Positive note

    • @lizzyfaya1132
      @lizzyfaya1132 2 года назад

      Thato she is lying lo makhulu nxaaaa

  • @abigailcharakupa8490
    @abigailcharakupa8490 Год назад +2

    Panel just quit that relationship, u are such a beautiful young lady u can't compete with that old lady Thato, u are educated just leave Panel don't be involved in those dramas, u are beautiful Panel leave them

  • @zaneledlamini3614
    @zaneledlamini3614 2 года назад +6

    But the guy said he’s not planning to have kids so it’s clear Thato is trying to belittle Tshidi.The child is not his

    • @tshegofatso5643
      @tshegofatso5643 2 года назад

      I support you & she is not worth it ,one night same day with unknown man whom u don't nou dat he is sick or what? It's not de 1 St time sleeping around with man after booze

  • @tumeloarthur8819
    @tumeloarthur8819 2 года назад +5

    One of dedicated presenters across the country @Ntsiki

  • @ayabongandlungwana4407
    @ayabongandlungwana4407 Год назад +4

    I'm SAn but this time I needed subtitles

  • @magdelinemapheto2328
    @magdelinemapheto2328 2 года назад +5

    🤣🤣🤣is the hand for mlando from the side for me. Actress in deed

  • @snackwithab1130
    @snackwithab1130 2 года назад +11

    😂😂😂 south African need God, the son and the holy spirit straight is a mess

  • @nomzamopometun2992
    @nomzamopometun2992 2 года назад +6

    Dear sister Panel. Leave. Jusy leave baby girl. You deserve better

  • @ntshangaselwande3579
    @ntshangaselwande3579 2 года назад +2

    Translation plzz ayvakal le language 🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️
    Lee Mfoe zama njengaku niyathembana na....
    Ahh Lomjita 💔💔😢...
    I lyk panel 💓❤️sheet so Calm 💝

  • @williamjere8478
    @williamjere8478 2 года назад +7

    All the best panel ,my brother is confused

  • @TransformationLive1
    @TransformationLive1 2 года назад +9

    I'm happy to see you presenter girl❤❤❤

  • @kagisogaofetoge8335
    @kagisogaofetoge8335 2 года назад +11

    😂😂😂😂😂😂panel killed me though!she talks calmly when she say she must do an abortion

  • @londiwemkhize2650
    @londiwemkhize2650 2 года назад +12

    Next tyme guys if someone say is pregnant do test same time so that will know the truth seems like second lady just want to trap the guy n l don't think she is really pregnant 🤔

    • @celiandlovu4545
      @celiandlovu4545 2 года назад

      Ipregnant test mayihlale estudio incase🤣🤣🤣

  • @nomzamopometun2992
    @nomzamopometun2992 2 года назад +26

    I will never understand those who cheat without protection. That's some kind of selfishness, irresponsible and reckless

    • @komsanenondumiso9896
      @komsanenondumiso9896 Год назад +1

      Eyoooo sis wami...that's somthing that upsets me as well. It just tells me that the people who are cheating don't love themselves and sure as hell don't respect nor love their partners...
      Like imagine getting diseases that you had no business getting.

  • @keithdube2030
    @keithdube2030 2 года назад +9

    This guy madoda washela umuntu onje guys eloGal omuhle so Eish😆

    • @marthanasie7838
      @marthanasie7838 2 года назад +1

      I always say let’s check Man if they’re ok😂😂😂

    • @nomvulabetty7243
      @nomvulabetty7243 2 года назад +2

      That old woman uze ngempi and distroy everything

  • @ntombisebiloane1785
    @ntombisebiloane1785 2 года назад +4

    Kodwa abantu besilisa bayakwazi ukubulala abantu besifazane bephila yena ufuna intombi ikhulume kodwa yena uxolele ukuthi ambulale kunokuba akhulume naye

  • @ju-ice7747
    @ju-ice7747 2 года назад +14

    Panel ma-leather ....
    "O sure sure sure gore hawu gafi" 😂💦
    "Wa lla, o llela mogatsa mang" 😂😂😂 I'm getting me a Pedi girl next 🤞 just for entertainment cos they're always lit on this show

    • @koketsolee
      @koketsolee 2 года назад

      Hey🤣🤣🤣

    • @ju-ice7747
      @ju-ice7747 2 года назад

      @@koketsolee 👋🤣🤣

    • @panelthabiso9649
      @panelthabiso9649 2 года назад +2

      I'm here🤣

    • @ju-ice7747
      @ju-ice7747 2 года назад +2

      @@panelthabiso9649 🙈 ..... you've gotta be kidding 🤭😂😂💦 how you holding up ???

    • @panelthabiso9649
      @panelthabiso9649 2 года назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

  • @pauletta3182
    @pauletta3182 2 года назад +4

    AI THATO IS NOT PREGNANT ,HER FAMILY KNOWS ABOUT THE PREGNANCY BUT THE PERSON WHO IS RESPONSIBLE DOESN'T KNOW FOR THE WHOLE TWO MONTHS ...FISHY THIS GUY IS TRAPPED .

  • @nomfundodlamini2325
    @nomfundodlamini2325 2 года назад +15

    thato is older than everyone there

    • @naledivimbani
      @naledivimbani 2 года назад +2

      I think so as well.

    • @cosmasncube3219
      @cosmasncube3219 2 года назад

      How do you know?

    • @bekimangcangazadavid1404
      @bekimangcangazadavid1404 2 года назад

      @@cosmasncube3219 she also say that is 28

    • @cosmasncube3219
      @cosmasncube3219 2 года назад

      I used to believe like that but I was disappointed several occasions with these so called intanga yethu ,now I prefer someone who's older than me even 10 years .I don't mind as long as I get it enough everytime , older ladies are far much better than these nowadays ladies .these nowadays ladies they demand too much money ,and about 90% of them they earn better money compared to our salaries ,but still they demand like nobody's business

  • @nokulungacele5287
    @nokulungacele5287 2 года назад +5

    This big mama is lying about pregnancy she is so desperate to sleep with a young man shame on u ma antiza

  • @naledivimbani
    @naledivimbani 2 года назад +6

    I hope Penel really leaves, she will never have peace with this Thato woman. You can see she is bullying the guy, he obviously cant express himself fully. I guess he wanted a woman who talks and really got one.

    • @ThandiZondi-jl3iq
      @ThandiZondi-jl3iq 5 месяцев назад

      Isthembu bekungathi esamazulu only but now zonke iynhlanga seziyasfuna sophephelaphi kanti?

  • @Mimi-gj1fq
    @Mimi-gj1fq 2 года назад +7

    What is thato doing to her face & 👃🏾??😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂shes so dramatic

  • @malehopampeir8089
    @malehopampeir8089 Год назад +1

    Ba godise ngwana ka chelte yabo DJ was a punchline felt deep by the guy🤣🤣🤣

  • @kelvinbongs2757
    @kelvinbongs2757 2 года назад +5

    It is what it is before it was what it was

  • @juliamonakede3195
    @juliamonakede3195 2 года назад +6

    Panel goes like" o sure gore Ga o gafe 😂😂

  • @felixomondi1776
    @felixomondi1776 Год назад +4

    I'm afraid the second lady gonna cause constant trouble in paradise.

  • @dorcasgoto7949
    @dorcasgoto7949 2 года назад +9

    She is lying she is nt pregnant

  • @kapesisinesipho9151
    @kapesisinesipho9151 2 года назад +3

    That's facial expressions were killing me 💔🤣🤣🤣😭😭

  • @angezellekasaona3191
    @angezellekasaona3191 2 года назад +9

    Please add subtitles, you have an international audience!!!

  • @ntandoe_Nonduh
    @ntandoe_Nonduh 2 года назад +26

    Why u Thato is having so much attitude Bathong 🙄🙄☹️

  • @thabelofortune
    @thabelofortune Год назад +2

    Mara o sure! sure! sure! sure! gore ao gafe Thato.😂

  • @zamamvulacebekhulu6275
    @zamamvulacebekhulu6275 2 года назад +1

    Isodoma negomora ,silibona ngamehlo buya nkosi Jesu.

  • @brianngomani3493
    @brianngomani3493 2 года назад +15

    I love Panel ♥️

  • @mwanderizkitchen4374
    @mwanderizkitchen4374 2 года назад +5

    Udlisiwe lomjitha struu

  • @phumieable
    @phumieable 2 года назад +13

    Panel leave this guy. You have a bright future ahead unlike labobaphandi. They will use and abuse you. so who is undlunkulu la? I doubt she is even pregnant. RUBBISH. A happy father definitely does not look like you bruh.

  • @mfanwenkosimathebula9736
    @mfanwenkosimathebula9736 Год назад +2

    Ladies, never ever stand on what a man say because you would be happy at that time. Thato, I somehow this guy will play you to hell.

  • @nomzamopometun2992
    @nomzamopometun2992 2 года назад +6

    She is not pregnant this one. I don't believe it.

  • @katekilerakubu592
    @katekilerakubu592 2 года назад +6

    Good...Panel...dont look back

  • @taylamolly8583
    @taylamolly8583 2 года назад +6

    Guys why is she crying?😭🤣🤣

  • @MapuleEsther-lj8ct
    @MapuleEsther-lj8ct Месяц назад +1

    Tshidiso,,,,, Thato ke S'kokwane 😮😮 . Panel is Future life ❤❤❤

  • @mthitohmthiyane8680
    @mthitohmthiyane8680 2 года назад +3

    I love you presenter i can pay lobola please get back to me kwamthiyane no makoti but my eyes and my heart loves you a lot

  • @tygaboymukoni2490
    @tygaboymukoni2490 2 года назад +3

    advertising volume is too loud .. you are a good presenter but try not to use your hurting slogans when you can clearly see tht someone is already crying there.. we also need your help out here but with your attitude we doubht

  • @busimaseko39
    @busimaseko39 2 года назад +3

    Yoohhh…. If I was Thato I would just drop everything, even the “tissue” she’s given to wipe those tears 🤣🤣

  • @mofokengmoleboheng7646
    @mofokengmoleboheng7646 Год назад +2

    😂 😂 😂 😂 The pregnant woman though 🤰🤣🤣🤰🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😏😒🙄🤨Her face

  • @thezondoinsuranceTV
    @thezondoinsuranceTV 2 года назад +1

    @the age of 25years this guy already is looking for a polygamy... his life has not yet reach fulfilment. 25 year old man should not have to deal with this. he is a dj

  • @TekocarolineDikgotlhang-im2gt
    @TekocarolineDikgotlhang-im2gt Год назад

    This gal o tsene ka morale tota a bo a bua ka ngwana 😅 waitse mojolo the hrt😂😂❤

  • @Leandra05
    @Leandra05 2 года назад +2

    Soon please can we see these 3 on Niyathandana na, and surely if this Thato girl is really pregnant the stomach will be visible.... she's just Lying and her personality gives me headache njhe

  • @nthabisengtlali8901
    @nthabisengtlali8901 Год назад +3

    I respect Panel decisions your happiness comes first, leave him

  • @zamamvulacebekhulu6275
    @zamamvulacebekhulu6275 2 года назад +1

    Shembe ngenelela nyazi lwezulu, second mudala nkosiyami, we mayebabo.

  • @bulelanivolofu
    @bulelanivolofu 2 года назад +8

    Umjita screwed himself.

  • @tam_tam3496
    @tam_tam3496 2 года назад +2

    i so much love the host ... shes so professional 😍😍

  • @jaykefh8310
    @jaykefh8310 2 года назад +4

    The major problem is Tshidiso, he should have briefed Thato that since they have been cheating Panel, the approach should be humble as they can to allow Panel to digest and acknowledge that even though cheated by Thato, Thato is humble, loving and can be a good partner to their husband and also a good co-wife. Eish Panel should leave the two to enjoy what they have started, and maybe her absence from the relationship as well means she's seeing someone.