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"Just because i made a terrible egg this morning, that does not make me a bad cook and we are not defined by our failures" 😭😭😭 im crying coz ive been struggling with letting my failures define me but i am unlearning too and thank you Clarissa for this discussion and letting us take our power back!! Yes you are gorgeous in everyway and very much capable 🥺🥺❤ you are such a blessing and thank God for you Clarissa
"a woman who cuts her hair, is a woman who has really decided to change her life".....life truly is the art of learning, unlearning and relearning. love all you have going for yourself right now my girl. God bless ♥️
U look pretty. I shaved all of my hair a year ago and it's flourishing again. I always tell ppl that it's hair, it will grow back. Don't be scared of change
Watching this video really made me so emotional, I can't wait to actually tell myself that "I'm proud of myself". God knows it's been so hard for me to actually say this to myself.
Why does this make me cry 😭. Thank you for writing this. It truly reminded myself that I too have come far and I should at least clap for all that I’ve become this far 🥺❤️.
I’m literally at the verge of crying, you have no idea how much I needed to hear this. If anything this year has really humbled me, I quickly had to learn that all the ideas people had of me and that I myself started to believe isn’t even close to what the Lord has for me. I had to do (still am) a lot of unlearning and leaning more onto my intuition and discovering my personal desires. I had also clung soo tightly to my hair even though I wasn’t enjoying it anymore because everybody around me pretty much worshiped my hair and so I had been dancing around the idea of cutting but never really settling on it. This really is all that I needed! We love and appreciate you this side Clarissa❤️
the most prettiest girl i've eveeeeer....no one gets to put a label on you. you are the only one to put a label on yourself...be you and do you girll..love from Botswana🥺
I know the feeling of wanting to be your old self again, and I’m grateful for this video because I’m moving on from that now and just focus on the new book of my life ❤️
I saw you in public about a month ago and was so starstruck. I could tell you were not in a good space so I didn’t approach you that day, I’m so glad I can hear the story about how your life has been lately. May you continue on your healing journey and continuing to inspire us
Listen you literally a big hug and I know what I'm saying doesn't make sense but when I watch and listen to your videos, I feel like I'm getting a big hug from someone, your content like i can't explain but your videos are like medicine you know like healing like you as a person you're literally the most real and authentic person ever, we love you so much Clarissa
Ooo Chile, love your content, love the look and can't wait to read the new book 💛. You don't know how many people you're inspiring rn !! Stay shinning 🔥
Thank you for reminding us that nothing external defines who we are. You are beautiful ❤️Your inner light is shining through Tbh. I spent this year stressing about braiding my hair, doing this and that. Really none of that matters anymore. Never did. Bless your journey sis 🙏🏾❤️
Am in tears today I made a major decision because I wanted a new start then I see this, it feels like a confirmation that am on the right path. I love you ❤, thanks for being an inspiration
So proud of you, I cut my afro as well a week before my birthday last month, and its the best decision ive made... Love my new book and glad youve started yours too❤
tbh it really hit home for me since I went bald this year when you said don't return to the old you.rather use the broken pieces to create a whole new version of what confidence and self love ❤️ looks like in this season of your life.thank you babes✨keep shining bright🥂🍻
I’ve been following you for quiet sometime and I have never commented but I’m huge fan. I’m glad to see this from you. You’re authentic and very real. I’ve wanted to cut my hair for a very long time maybe I needed this video. Heal and I know this is a healthy beginning❤
I’ve never watched anything more relatable 😭🥺🥺 I’ve also recently cut my hair and it really was about letting go of the hurt I kept putting myself through and like you said writing my new book in which I define my own terms🥰🥰 Love you so much Bestie🥺❤️❤️
I watched this video yesterday and today I finally got the courage to cut my hair off. I had been contemplating cutting it off for a while and this video just seemed like a sign for me to just do it. So, thank you❤️❤️
I'm not crying...you are 😭 I'm so proud of you sthandwa, this is all so relatable, I'm so emotional right now. Cheers to your new book, thank you for taking us along for the ride. ❤️
The way I was smiling throughout this video🥺❤️❤️. I'd like to cut my hair, but I feel restrained by the idea it might not suit me due to forehead. I'm so insecure about it. Watching your video has helped❤️❤️. I'm in love with your new look
This really made me emotional, you such a motivator and an encouragement. Thank you for all the words I really needed to hear such . Also I'm proud of you and i love this for you🥺❤️your sanity comes first and you chose to do the right thing mama 😪❤️
Cutting my hair was one of the best decisions of my life. When you are bald especially as a black women I feel like it’s our way of letting go of all the negativity and judgement. It’s not for everyone but if you feel the urge just do it cause life is to short and hair always grows back.
You look so beautiful. Just in perfect time for your new year. You're really encouraging me to go for my big chop! I've been thinking about it for a while now. Love the new beginning for you sis! 💕💕
Its the fact that you went to cut your hair with your edges on point!! I remember a long time ago in one of your videos you said you wanted to cut your and said “it’s just hair”. I’m really happy you finally did it❤️
It is indeed your time to shine bestie, you are an amazing person, you have an amazing personality and overall you beautiful. Thank you thank you so much for your content, you inspires inspires me❤️❤️❤️🫂
I too went bald the beginning of the year for a fresh start it was my first time seeing my head, it had folds and bumps and i didn't even know this whole, but i totally enjoyed it, it was soo freeing❤
Is there anyone chopping onions?😭😭I ddnt know how much I needed to hear this until now, gurl u God sent ,thank you for venting n giving us the light😍💯❤️ you sóo beautiful bestie, keep pushing n keep narrating your own book , it's your life, live it to the fullest 💯💯❤️
I am in literal awe of you. Wow!!!!! I am proud of you. I don't even know you personally, but, man.... WOW!!!!! May God continue to be your anchor as you pursue His heart.
This is so inspiring, I was just telling my friends that I also want to do a big chop just for a fresh start 🥺Ill take this as a sign , I’m definitely proud of you wishing you all the best in your new chapter 🤍
I love the part where you said, "that is what taking back your power looks like....". This video is just so amazing! Thank you for sharing your growth and all the best in everything that you do. I'm a new subbie from today... actually coffeebean😊❤️
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The guy cutting your hair is so sweet, oh bless him lord. 🥺
Congratulations bestie, I love you! 🤍
right? love him sm!! Thank you sm bestie, I love you more 🥺❤️❤️
A true definition of ..”you are not your hair “ ❤❤
100%❤️
"Just because i made a terrible egg this morning, that does not make me a bad cook and we are not defined by our failures" 😭😭😭 im crying coz ive been struggling with letting my failures define me but i am unlearning too and thank you Clarissa for this discussion and letting us take our power back!! Yes you are gorgeous in everyway and very much capable 🥺🥺❤ you are such a blessing and thank God for you Clarissa
Thank you sm bestie. Glad I could help🥺❤️
"a woman who cuts her hair, is a woman who has really decided to change her life".....life truly is the art of learning, unlearning and relearning. love all you have going for yourself right now my girl. God bless ♥️
amen🥺 thank you sm❤️🫶🏾
Can we just take a moment to appreciate how sweet Johnson is😭😭😭
Forever Coffee Bean❤
"Just because I made a terrible egg this morning doesn't mean I'm a bad cook" I really needed to hear this.Thank you Clarissa
U look pretty. I shaved all of my hair a year ago and it's flourishing again. I always tell ppl that it's hair, it will grow back. Don't be scared of change
100%!! thank you so much bestie 🥺❤️
I’ve been contemplating cutting my hair and this for me is really the sign🥺❤️
🥺❤️ so liberating
Not me looking for scissors 😭🥺❤️
Watching this video really made me so emotional, I can't wait to actually tell myself that "I'm proud of myself". God knows it's been so hard for me to actually say this to myself.
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aww sending love and light bestie 🥺❤️ keep embracing the process
@@coffeenomilk Thank you sis ❤️
Why does this make me cry 😭. Thank you for writing this. It truly reminded myself that I too have come far and I should at least clap for all that I’ve become this far 🥺❤️.
I was heart broken .....but I'm so proud of you for doing this
thank you sm🥰
Clarissa and Johnson are responsible for all the gorgeous gorgeous huns being baldilocks this summer 🥺🥺❤
yaaaas ❤️🫶🏾
You need to have a podcast because your word truly is powerful.
" You are not your mistakes " 😭❤
🥺❤️❤️
I’m literally at the verge of crying, you have no idea how much I needed to hear this. If anything this year has really humbled me, I quickly had to learn that all the ideas people had of me and that I myself started to believe isn’t even close to what the Lord has for me. I had to do (still am) a lot of unlearning and leaning more onto my intuition and discovering my personal desires. I had also clung soo tightly to my hair even though I wasn’t enjoying it anymore because everybody around me pretty much worshiped my hair and so I had been dancing around the idea of cutting but never really settling on it. This really is all that I needed! We love and appreciate you this side Clarissa❤️
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the most prettiest girl i've eveeeeer....no one gets to put a label on you. you are the only one to put a label on yourself...be you and do you girll..love from Botswana🥺
thank you soo much bestie 🥺 amen & amen🥺❤️
“Healing is not linear” 🙌🏾 So proud of you girl! ❤
Big YES to being the one to define your story!! I absolutely love your new look bestieee!!!!!!!!!!!
thank youuuu bestie 🥺❤️
I don’t know why, but this is so emotional🤭🥺and the background music doesn’t make it easier
I get that 🤣 thank you bestie 🥺❤️
Why am I tearing up as he's cutting it 🥺
girl that was me. I was just like if I cry I can never come back here so let me not 😭
I know the feeling of wanting to be your old self again, and I’m grateful for this video because I’m moving on from that now and just focus on the new book of my life ❤️
So happy you’re in this space. You look beautiful and seeing and hearing how light you are at this point is refreshing. All the best!
thank youuuu omg I love this comment sm. this means a lot thank you bestie ❤️❤️🥺
She’s so beautiful 😭😭
“We are not defined by our failures…..”
This hit close to home……this was very therapeutic and a wake up call to charge of my story
Oh love seeing this. I did this 4 years back it reinvented my relationship with my hair in the most positive way.
thank you 🥺❤️
Why am I sobbing😭😭😭😭! Girl you look beautiful!
thank youuuu 🥺❤️
"A new chapter? Nah. A new book"
love that line.💕 love this for you sis
I’m amazed by how beautiful you look with or without hair, I’m emotional and wish you all the best on your new chapter 🥹❤️
I saw you in public about a month ago and was so starstruck. I could tell you were not in a good space so I didn’t approach you that day, I’m so glad I can hear the story about how your life has been lately. May you continue on your healing journey and continuing to inspire us
Not me watching this video twice so i can make notes and comment repeatedly coz it is soo relatable, thank you sooo much for this Clarissa 🥺🥺❤
ugh I appreciate you!! thank you 🥺❤️
Thank you for sharing this with us. Change is so scary, but it's worth it. So so worth it. I'm proud of you, you have grown a lot. Keep going.
I’m hearing you 100%. 2022 is for CHANGE. We are tired of our hair being our brand ❤ I’m proud of you my baby 🥰
100%!! thank you sm bestie 🥺❤️
❤️❤️❤️
Listen you literally a big hug and I know what I'm saying doesn't make sense but when I watch and listen to your videos, I feel like I'm getting a big hug from someone, your content like i can't explain but your videos are like medicine you know like healing like you as a person you're literally the most real and authentic person ever, we love you so much Clarissa
ugh bestie 🥺 I appreciate this, thank you ❤️❤️
I love how you chose to take back all the power and kept your head up☺️❤️super proud of you coffee bean🤎
thank you sm bestie 🥺❤️
Ooo Chile, love your content, love the look and can't wait to read the new book 💛. You don't know how many people you're inspiring rn !! Stay shinning 🔥
thank you so much!! I appreciate this🥺❤️
Not me crying so much towards the end of this video 🤍
The cut looks good! It brings out your cheekbones, eyes, and smile
thank you sm🥺❤️❤️
Girl I'm sorry for what you went through,
I love you, I love your content, I just love your whole energy, it's refreshing🥺
This look looks amazing on you Ma'am 🥺😍! Wow!!!
thank youuuu 🥺❤️❤️
Thank you for reminding us that nothing external defines who we are. You are beautiful ❤️Your inner light is shining through
Tbh. I spent this year stressing about braiding my hair, doing this and that. Really none of that matters anymore. Never did.
Bless your journey sis 🙏🏾❤️
omg-this literally made me feel better...like i'm down so bad and ngl this legit made me feel better and im happy for you girl...sending love
I’m so glad it did bestie. love you lots 🥺❤️
The sign I needed to start with therapy....the sign I needed to start working on myself.
I am truly inspired, I love you bestie
This video is beautiful. Thank you for being vulnerable with us! Sending you so much love ❤ you are glowing!
always ✨ thank you sm🥰
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Am in tears today I made a major decision because I wanted a new start then I see this, it feels like a confirmation that am on the right path. I love you ❤, thanks for being an inspiration
aww I love you too bestie. this made me smile 🥺❤️
So proud of you, I cut my afro as well a week before my birthday last month, and its the best decision ive made... Love my new book and glad youve started yours too❤
thank you sm for sharing 🥺❤️ & thank you!!
Your hair looked so beautiful 🥺😍😍
"You're NOT your mistakes"💗💗💗
100%❤️
tbh it really hit home for me since I went bald this year when you said don't return to the old you.rather use the broken pieces to create a whole new version of what confidence and self love ❤️ looks like in this season of your life.thank you babes✨keep shining bright🥂🍻
100%!! thank you for watching bestie 🥺❤️
I am so proud of you, and this was incredibly heartwarming to watch ❤ You are doing great!!!!
thank you so much 🥺❤️
I’ve been following you for quiet sometime and I have never commented but I’m huge fan. I’m glad to see this from you. You’re authentic and very real. I’ve wanted to cut my hair for a very long time maybe I needed this video. Heal and I know this is a healthy beginning❤
thank you soo much! i appreciate you bestie 🥺❤️
I shaved my head bald last year October. I can't describe how freeing and amazing it was. I loved it! You look beautiful 😍
thank you 🥺❤️❤️
your head is PERFECTLY ROUND this is the cutest! good for you!
Her courage>>>>🙊🥺🥳so proudddd
thank youuuu sm🥺❤️
So proud of you. Keep shinning ✨
thank youuuu 🥺❤️❤️
I’ve never watched anything more relatable 😭🥺🥺 I’ve also recently cut my hair and it really was about letting go of the hurt I kept putting myself through and like you said writing my new book in which I define my own terms🥰🥰 Love you so much Bestie🥺❤️❤️
Your eyes?! Plsss You're so gorgeous 🥺💕
thank you so much bestie 🥺❤️❤️
I watched this video yesterday and today I finally got the courage to cut my hair off. I had been contemplating cutting it off for a while and this video just seemed like a sign for me to just do it. So, thank you❤️❤️
I'm not crying...you are 😭 I'm so proud of you sthandwa, this is all so relatable, I'm so emotional right now. Cheers to your new book, thank you for taking us along for the ride. ❤️
The way I was smiling throughout this video🥺❤️❤️. I'd like to cut my hair, but I feel restrained by the idea it might not suit me due to forehead. I'm so insecure about it. Watching your video has helped❤️❤️. I'm in love with your new look
thank you so much 🥺❤️ I’m glad it did
You are not alone and you are love. Im so proud of you for reclaiming your power. It's giving big QUEEN energy ❤✨
This really made me emotional, you such a motivator and an encouragement. Thank you for all the words I really needed to hear such . Also I'm proud of you and i love this for you🥺❤️your sanity comes first and you chose to do the right thing mama 😪❤️
thank you so so much 🥺❤️ I appreciate you
This is so beautiful to see you grow man especially being an OG coffeebean, seeing you transition into the woman you are becoming ma'am!!🥺🥺
Your failure doesn’t define your potential 🥺🥺 this is literally the best thing I have heard today ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️
May you be blessed with greatness on your journey baby girl❤❤❤❤
This is amazing ❤
thank you bestie 🥺❤️
First gorgeous gorgeous girls come through 🥺🥺🔥❤❤ im screaming wow girl love love your new look and first page in the new chapter or even book !!!
thank youuuu 🥺❤️❤️
This is such a SPIRITUAL SETTINGS! I'm happy for you ❤️
I think a lot of us needed to hear this! Thank you! And damn you still look gorgeous ❤
your smile has been accentuated! So pretty
This is the sign I needed, I'm going to cut my hair too. I've been thinking about it for some time now. Anyway, let me sit back and enjoy this ❤️
🥺❤️❤️❤️
I needed to hear this🥺shed a tear or two❤️bless you ❤️
To an entire novel ❤️❤️❤️ To being patient with yourself.
I smiled throughout😭as a fellow afro woman who's planning to cut her hair I'm happy for you.
thank youuuu 🥰
Cutting my hair was one of the best decisions of my life. When you are bald especially as a black women I feel like it’s our way of letting go of all the negativity and judgement. It’s not for everyone but if you feel the urge just do it cause life is to short and hair always grows back.
You look so beautiful. Just in perfect time for your new year. You're really encouraging me to go for my big chop! I've been thinking about it for a while now. Love the new beginning for you sis! 💕💕
Preach it girl. I'm so proud of you babies ♥️
girl ,i am rooting for you , i'm so glad I came across your channel. I am a proud coffee bean and I am so proud of you , all the best mama
Its the fact that you went to cut your hair with your edges on point!! I remember a long time ago in one of your videos you said you wanted to cut your and said “it’s just hair”. I’m really happy you finally did it❤️
It is indeed your time to shine bestie, you are an amazing person, you have an amazing personality and overall you beautiful. Thank you thank you so much for your content, you inspires inspires me❤️❤️❤️🫂
This video was everything, thank you for sharing you with us💕❤💕
thank you for watching 🥰
U did it gurl, and I’m proud of you ❤🎉
thank you so much 🥰
Girl!!, you are bold and confidence🥰
yass bestie 🥰
Your barber is too sweet, I almost cried🥺
I too went bald the beginning of the year for a fresh start it was my first time seeing my head, it had folds and bumps and i didn't even know this whole, but i totally enjoyed it, it was soo freeing❤
Is there anyone chopping onions?😭😭I ddnt know how much I needed to hear this until now, gurl u God sent ,thank you for venting n giving us the light😍💯❤️ you sóo beautiful bestie, keep pushing n keep narrating your own book , it's your life, live it to the fullest 💯💯❤️
I’m in tears 😣 a lot you said touched me. Super proud of you ❤
this is so beautiful ❤
Here for the big QUEEN energy and the wins we are yet to witness honey❤️❤️
I'm sooooo proud of you. This got me so emotional in all ways. Best wishes in the new Chapter/Book ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Definitely proud of you… just here to remind you that you did the right choice and you’re sooo beautiful 😍 🎉
you look so good bestie😍😩
thank you bestie 🥺❤️❤️
please I love you so much 😭🥺my biggest inspo, love your work & your comforting words❤
This is the best video I’ve watched in such a long time. Super duper proud of you and I’m excited for this new book 🥺❤️❤️
We proud of you babe. You encourage (inspire) me to press on to true genuine healing. Love and Light. ✨✨
thank youuuu 🥺❤️
I am in literal awe of you. Wow!!!!! I am proud of you. I don't even know you personally, but, man.... WOW!!!!! May God continue to be your anchor as you pursue His heart.
thank you so much bestie 🥺❤️ I appreciate you!
@@coffeenomilk 🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️
This is so inspiring, I was just telling my friends that I also want to do a big chop just for a fresh start 🥺Ill take this as a sign , I’m definitely proud of you wishing you all the best in your new chapter 🤍
It's how much I can actually relate. I'm so proud of you sis❤
the growth is beautiful! god is shining through you.
thank youuuu 🥺❤️
I love the part where you said, "that is what taking back your power looks like....". This video is just so amazing! Thank you for sharing your growth and all the best in everything that you do. I'm a new subbie from today... actually coffeebean😊❤️
I'm speechless. this was beautiful to watch
Clarissa is such a motivation and inspiration. she gives us a warm and safe space to interact with her. thank you so so much.❤️❤️❤️❤️.