another soul crushing thing is when you see your crush flirting with someone and smiling with his/her gorgeous eyes and laughing with someone that should be you.
Or when you see them hug someone else so sweetly, and stroke their head, or when they hold hands, or when they almost don’t see you sometimes, they see you but don’t react, they don’t say hi or anything :(
My bestie and my crush call each other nicknames and they hang out 24/7 and I'm just there being the third wheel! But it gets worse because she knows I like him alot but she doesn't give a damn...
SkepHalo Exists You said tell your best friend that you feel that she is not caring about your feelings toward your crush and talk to her that her behavior is making you feel jelly
Cooky :P oh my God something similar happened to me like that. So I had a crush on this guy lest call him mark, I liked him in 5th grade to 6th. I had a crush on this other guy, let's call him Steve. So I started to like Steve twards to end if 6th grade, so over the summer I would watch "how to tell if your crush likes you" and stuff like that. So when 7th grade started, I didn't notice Steve showing the signs, but instead I realized that mark was showing me the same signs. In my head I was like "noo I got the wrong person" but in like January I started to like mark again, and got over Steve. Mark is still showing me the same sighs, and I even asked him out in April and he said mabeyin high school since he's not allowed to date. So I still like him now Erhard it's summer break, but idk if he still likes me, or even likes me at all. Sorry that this was pointless but this was just my story
UGH the thing I hate the most about crushes is that you spend hours and hours thinking about them, panicking and they're just living life.... not knowing you even EXIST.
You know what crushes my soul.... when they act all flirty with you and like hold your hand or say like "marry me" as a joke or look at you all the time but they are dating someone....
The key to a good (high school) crush is to wait until the day of their graduation, then hand them an envelope with memes and a letter explaining the crush. Then run like hell and hope that you never see them again.
Tbh that is me to the point where it hurts so much, like when i see my crush with my friend my chest hurts and i just want to do something but i dont and i hate myself for not doing anything
Honestly, I was really close to coming back to this comment and giving y’all some hope because I confessed to my crush and he confessed to me. We were basically dating up until last week when he told me that he doesn’t like me anymore. So oh well there is no hope and love is dead.
Caitlyn Gigi I definitely identify with that. My biggest crush was such a trainwreck that I've never been the same. Good luck to everyone who relates to this thread XD
When you thought you've finally moved on from liking them but then you see them and they say hi and all your feelings just comes crashing right back at you.
hah... happening to me now. i just want to move on (again) and be frieeeeenddddsss (since his feelings will never change). I would know if someone liked me, but I'm not stupid. I look for the signs... and find none.
OMG yeah you spend like a week telling yourself to move on and then you finally summon up enough strength to think you have and then they send you a text message or they wave at you in the corridor...crushes do crush your heart
or when they actually liked you too all this time and they give you hope for something more happening between the two of us but they have someone else already, so your heart brokes into million pieces.
+Silvia J.J Alcantara my crush knows I like him and he told my friend he likes me and she told me right in front of him and he startednto blush but someone asked him out on my 6th grade graduation and I'm afraid he's gonna date her
"When you're waiting for your crush to text you and then it buzzes, but then you look at it and it's just Sallie Mae" - The most relateable sentence in this whole video
That moment when you messed it up. That moment that you replay in your mind for weeks, thinking "Why did I do that". That is the worst. Especially if that moment involved you being yourself, or being vulnerable, and then it get's thrown in your face.
Danielle Allen I feel you. My friend and my crush were talking and I came over. She said "Brooke REALLY likes you Justin! " and I turned red and said it was a lie. He believed me, or acted like he did, and now I feel like I am going to just DIE when I am around him. I should have just said "It is true." or stayed quiet and let him ask me if it was true. I will now probably never tell him. I really regret it, and I kick myself over it all the time.
Lanybug 378 Oh few xD Yeah, I hate calling it stalking and tell my friends it's an "intense research of an individual without them knowing about it." But tbh... Yeah xD
and the worst thing is when you finally pluck up the courage to tell them you like them and they explain that they don’t like you ‘like that’. then you have to smile and pretend that everything is fine because it was ‘just a crush’ and you’re cool with staying ‘just friends’ when in reality you’re completely and utterly devastated.
so true :( I had expressed my feelings to my crush and he said he would love to date me, but it’s hard because we’re on the other side of the country. And then they forget those feelings and go date someone. It’s heartbreaking
Yeah, he keeps you in friendzone. But then he tells you "Oh, you had a chance to get me, but you didn't want to" I mean what chance? You literally told me.that you don't like me
My crush pulled me aside one day and I was so excited and then he was like "Hey, so is she (my best friend) single?' and I literally wanted to fake my death, move to Burkina Faso and start my life over as a loner bartender.
Dude yess everyday at school he gets so shy all of a sudden and it makes me feel upset cause I don't know what he's thinking. It's so wired cause I catch him staring at me. And we got assigned seats for lunch and our table only had one seat left which was for him but it was right next to me, and he paused, looked at me, and then walked away and wanted to sit somewhere else 😣 but the right after lunch he was talking to me a lot more than usual. I think it's cause maybe he saw the sadness I had when he walked away?? Idek 😂
I’ve had my fair share of crushes, but I’m straight so they were all on guys. It crushes me and makes me feel horrible to know that I have two girl friends who have had a crush on me for the longest, but I definitely don’t like them that way. It makes me feel like a horrible person even though I know I’ve done nothing wrong. When they told me , they knew I was straight, but they just wanted to see if there was any chance. I felt so bad telling them no, and it was awkward. But we’re still friends, not quite the same as before but we’re friends. I know this probably isn’t the right time to quote Hamilton buttt... “Love doesn’t discriminate between the sinners and the saints, it takes, and it takes, and it takes, and we keep living anyway, we laugh, and we cry ,and we break, and we make our mistakes.” Very true, props to Lin.
oh my god same, one of my girl bestfriends has a crush on me, and it is so weird. i talk to her all day about my crush who is a boy, i wonder how she feels? lmao this is super super weird for me since i am a self-hater and i am self-destructive. so i cannot imagine anyone liking me.
Is it just me or like, when I genuinely like somebody, it either: 1) Treat you like crap (not that much, but I act rude towards you for no reason) over text and pretend I hate you or something when I actually like you. But in real life I am very shy and red near you/I smile super awkwardly. 2) I am super quiet/shy and I am red around you, and I ignore you completely. Say hi/wave at me I ghost it.
Ya, it sucks. I had a major crush on someone for months, but never acted on it because she was very open about about her crush(not me). Then one day we all moved seats, and I was sitting closer to her and I noticed her constantly looking in my direction, giggling with her friends, blushing constantly, and she had stopped talking constantly about her crush, making me think she had gotten over him. Right when I got my hopes up... BAM!!! Turned out it was my really good friend who happened to sit right next to me in nearly every class. Now there dating, and everyone thinks they’re the cutest couple ever, I’m friends with both of them, and want to die...
Dawson Webber Jeszus man. That’s rough. I can barely talk to my crush without like blushing or making a fool out of myself. But I don’t want to act on it yet BC I don’t want to ruin the friendship we have.🙄life sucks. Sorry for what happened to you.
helko buy I feel u , I liked this guys for a couple months but I got over him , but then he asked me out and I said yes , and I broke up with him later on because I felt like I was crushing my happiness and putting myself in a burden for someone else’s happiness Someone that I didn’t even like , let alone love
The worst is if their in a relationship... but you can't get over it... so you just wait and hope that they will break up even though you know it's a horrible thing to think... you eventually try to get over them by flirting with other people and than the other person you're flirting with starts to get serious... but than you think that your crush is going to break up with them any day... and you have to be single for when they get out of that relationship
Aimee Landry One of my guy friends had that problem where the girl he liked was in a relationship and he was trying his best to get over her but he said it was nearly impossible, eventually he did get over her but about a month later he told me that he liked me and had for well, about a month, but I wasn't ready for any sort of relationship and told him to ask me again in a couple years.
Hannah Simoney one time I had a feeling that was going to happen so me being the weirdo I am I photoshopped a picture of them together so I would become immune......middle school was weird
When they're so aware of you crushing on them and they use that to their advantage so you end up loosing your feelings for them but they just keeeep reminding you about it, and saying the feelings are still there even though they're not
When your crush ends up falling for your best friend and you have to see them flirt with one another but be supportive of your best friend. It hurts you don't know if you should stick around in fear of hurting one of them or both. But also you will feel yourself breaking. Either way, someone will get hurt. Love is complicated...
Pumpkin Spice Number 1 on Billboard Hot 100 and I’m making different versions like my country version. Take a listen. *strums country guitar with a cowboy outfit* AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Having a crush can be soul crushing, but honestly I'm feeling really happy now, because my crush likes me back and now we're dating. It's actually an amazing feeling to be able to not relate to the video at the moment. Because at a different time, I did.
luckily for me, he likes me back. Sadly we can't even be friends since were both shy to eachother and tend to avoid. He was my friend before, so I'm kinda sad I wasnt classmates with him. :(
EAB yup yup yup yup I am dead I side when that happens to you like it did to me u will never get over it and I moved away so now there is no chance and it was this in going thing between us for 2 years and I didn't do freakin anything lol anyways yes I agree lol
This is so relatable 😭and surprisingly it made me cry too Edit: wow so many likes 🤔 welp I thought I was the only one but I guess not 😭 I just wanna say it's all gonna be fine y'all 👍🏻
the most soul-crushing that i've experience which is this morning is that when your crush said "i love you" and u thought it was real not long after he/she said "haha april fools" i just wanna say one thing u don't joke about love it doesn't work that way lol like if u r agree
When you think she likes you, you have like 50 reasons why you think she likes you. You know she's bi so it's not impossible. She stares at you in class. She blushed when you talk to her. She laughs at all your jokes. You are pretty sure she likes you. then she introduces you to her boyfriend.
When you are in love with your friend that you know is gay and I your too socially awkward to ask her out. Also you also have a fear of rejection and ruining the relationship
+Sorry I am awkward But you still have a higher chance to actually date the person someday. My crush is one of my friends who is very straight and I just know that nothing is ever going to happen but you still love her and you just can't get over it.............even if you wanted to.
I feel so bad for this people because they're all suffering, getting sad, nervous, mad for their crushes, and also I feel weird because I've never had a crush, or never suffered for someone in particular... :(
Im a very picky person so ive never liked anyone i know either (celebrities are an exception) But i think im starting to like this one guy, and i hate this feeling so god damn much, its torture. Even though its just mostly me thinking about him a lot, its very frustrating
having a crush is literally so fkn painful especially when like I can't have like normal crushes, I have to go get myself emotionally invested so damn much that I just fall in love with them
When you know your crush likes you but they don't know you like them and you live away from each other. Then, they ask you for relationship advice for this one person. You give good advice and now you have to listen to how happy they are with that person and knowing that you have to let them be together because they can see each other a lot easier than they can with you. Wondering if that if you said something earlier if things could be different.
O k I like a girl. She said she's straight... I always get nervous around her. I had the chance to talk to her today but I just didn't want to. I met her this year. My friend said that when someone likes her she'll always say "Ew" this video literally made me cry..
when your crush has recently become single and your just like "this is it I can finally tell them how I feel" and then they talk to you about how they think they like someone else and ask you for advice on how to ask out that person....... (absolute heart break)
or when you get over them because they 'don't like you in that way' and then about a month later they ask you out because they realized they have liked you the entire time but now you 'don't like them in that way' and it sucks because you know exactly how they feel because they did that to you
When your crush is someone new to your school, but you know in a matter of time they will hang with the "popular kids" and be annoying like the others.
it fucking hurt when it's 5 YEARS !😭😢 and then you know you are just loosing your energy and time with no results😧. i feel you ... enjoy your life and forget about him, trust me , with the time, you are going to forget that he even exist. at least that's what I think
yeah but not being able to talk to your crush is torturing as well because i don't even know if i have a chance. But have you tried to make a move or to tell your crush how you feel about him ?
for me the most soul crushing moment is when you and that person are best friends and you're really close to them and people ask if we're dating but you fight the urge to say yes because they already have a girlfriend and you're stuck in the friend zone
When they ramble about how much they love someone and ask your for guidelines so they can go out with that someone. All you can do is smile and try your hardest to be happy for them.
Mansi Sinha so true. I had a guy friend who I liked a few years back and he liked me too but then he met a girl and I was heartbroken but now I like ship them so hard
When your crush is your best friend and they're always flirting and messing with your heart and every time I think she'll decide she likes me or not because she thinks she might and I just want to ueghhhhh :/
So I’m bisexual and I had a crush on a girl, and I was blushing every second near here and I thought she was into me back, she was kinda close and she was really playful towards me, so eventually I told everyone she was my crush (I met her at a close friend party) and my friend told me she’s straight and doesn’t like me back. And now it’s just uncomfortable and I was so sad...
I think of this one guy every time I watch this. We were never in a relationship but I was so smitten. My soul crushing moment was when I found out he was dating one of my friends.
That's why it's called a crush. Because it crushes you.
Real talk.
Feel me fam?
ugh, 100% yes
yeah
yeah
everything makes sense now
+Ollie Langdon Omg hi I love your channel!
EEEEEEYYYYYYYY!
does anyone notice how when you have a crush, their name becomes so beautiful
Omg yes
yeeessss
hahaha been listening to all time low so much guess the name haha
ugh yes
ElectricCrybaby love the name and I got a Melanie Martinez crybaby shirt today!
What sucks is when your crush is flirty with you and is really nice to you all the time, and you think they like you back... but they don’t.
YOU LITERALLY JUST DESCRIBED MY FREAKING LIFE
Imagination.
OMGGGGGGG SAMEEEEEEEEEE I can completely relateeeeee
Omg I'm screaming
This happened to me but he liked my best friend.
Yea
another soul crushing thing is when you see your crush flirting with someone and smiling with his/her gorgeous eyes and laughing with someone that should be you.
Yeah, this really hurts
Or when you see them hug someone else so sweetly, and stroke their head, or when they hold hands, or when they almost don’t see you sometimes, they see you but don’t react, they don’t say hi or anything :(
Hannah F yikes this happened to me and a dude i knew, does it hurt that bad?
My bestie and my crush call each other nicknames and they hang out 24/7 and I'm just there being the third wheel! But it gets worse because she knows I like him alot but she doesn't give a damn...
SkepHalo Exists
You said tell your best friend that you feel that she is not caring about your feelings toward your crush and talk to her that her behavior is making you feel jelly
When you’ve never had a crush actually like you back
Relatable 😭
Kailey Hoopes no one has ever liked me. Not just my crushes, but literally NO ONE in my 13 years of existence
I had a crush on this guy, and this guy confessed that he liked me too but then I realized I didn’t like him anymore. Wtf is wrong with me
Cooky :P oh my God something similar happened to me like that. So I had a crush on this guy lest call him mark, I liked him in 5th grade to 6th. I had a crush on this other guy, let's call him Steve. So I started to like Steve twards to end if 6th grade, so over the summer I would watch "how to tell if your crush likes you" and stuff like that. So when 7th grade started, I didn't notice Steve showing the signs, but instead I realized that mark was showing me the same signs. In my head I was like "noo I got the wrong person" but in like January I started to like mark again, and got over Steve. Mark is still showing me the same sighs, and I even asked him out in April and he said mabeyin high school since he's not allowed to date. So I still like him now Erhard it's summer break, but idk if he still likes me, or even likes me at all. Sorry that this was pointless but this was just my story
Crybaby Hamilton Dawson same but i'm 19...
I know a big soul-crushing moment, when someone says you and your crush would looks cute together but then your crush says '"Ew no" and laugh it off.
Lilly Marie oml that's one of the worst things that could happen 😢
Lilly Marie I know
Lilly Marie true that
Thats been happening for two years with me and with two different crushes
I said, "Ew!" At the same time as her....
Hahah...ha... ehhh
UGH the thing I hate the most about crushes is that you spend hours and hours thinking about them, panicking and they're just living life.... not knowing you even EXIST.
Exactly!!!!!!! lol! All upset and worried and he or she like jaja! I live my life super relax!
💙
Damn,that made me sad.
Damn,that made me sad.
ikr :(
You know what crushes my soul.... when they act all flirty with you and like hold your hand or say like "marry me" as a joke or look at you all the time but they are dating someone....
This one hits home
This hits home for me...those brown eyes are still in my head
It's so heart breaking like he says he loves me but as a joke or as a friend
@KRYMauL The thing is that it's just a joke... Said by your crush to you, which crushes your heart.
Same for me!!!
Life. It's all fun and games til someone falls in love.
carousel? or nah
Melanie Martinez reference? No? Okay
*somebody
Life is worse than death.
Pastel Mods I know this song. I'm saying the original lyrics had somebody instead of someone
The key to a good (high school) crush is to wait until the day of their graduation, then hand them an envelope with memes and a letter explaining the crush.
Then run like hell and hope that you never see them again.
Best idea
Pinkimena Pie Idea??? hell, this is what i did.
hahahahah best thing ever I would so do this
What if you go to the same college/university?
what happened?
has anyone ever felt like your chest hurts like stings bc of sth that makes u sad? anyone
yep
Tbh that is me to the point where it hurts so much, like when i see my crush with my friend my chest hurts and i just want to do something but i dont and i hate myself for not doing anything
I Aslo get butterfies in my stomach🦋
meeeeee
omg I thought that was just me
When you have a crush on a girl who ends up dating your brother.
That's soul-crushing.
Holly Purse that's rough
Damn
Damon Salvatore is that u?
Ohh noo😯
THE PLOTLINE OF "PRIVATE PEACEFUL
I was expecting a bunch of people being like "lol when he doesn't text back!!" BUT NOOO IT HAD TO BE EMOTIONAL AND MAKE ME CRY
this is too relatable just crying now
Lol SAME
I know! I've never cried from buzzfeed before and I was not expecting THIS to be the one
I was expecting the same thing too! I'm experiencing all of these atm and it made me tear up a bit XD
EXACTLY OMG
I’ve been crying about my crush like, all day. When I thought I was done, I watch this video and now I want to cry again.
Linn ?? Same when I wake up I think about her and then I think about her stupid boyfriend
Linn ?? *gives virtual hug* it’s okay, don’t cry ;c
Linn ?? Big fat mood
Honestly, I was really close to coming back to this comment and giving y’all some hope because I confessed to my crush and he confessed to me. We were basically dating up until last week when he told me that he doesn’t like me anymore.
So oh well there is no hope and love is dead.
same
*meets crush*
Me: *forgets english* *speaks fluent japanese*
Crush: the hell?
*le me walking past crush*
*le me sees him*
*forgets how to walk for his beauty*
*me embarassed*
Lmao
AAARRRRRMMMMMYYYYYY
@@aanyasingh2663 ooooooh You guys are army too????? #ARMYYYYYY
BTS : Army in love...
When your crush becomes engaged and you dont have a chance with her.
I've been through this.
Panic! at the Twenty One Brandon Rogers! I like your name
Panic! at the Twenty One Brandon Rogers! Your name 🖤🖤🖤
I love you account name I dig it
Panic! at the Twenty One Brandon Rogers! Like your username ;)
Everyone I've ever had a crush on has never liked me back, this feeling amplified times 2000 :/
Caitlyn Gigi Same.. Though i've never confessed to any of my crushes that i liked them.
Caitlyn Gigi I definitely identify with that. My biggest crush was such a trainwreck that I've never been the same. Good luck to everyone who relates to this thread XD
Join the club
Caitlyn Gigi same
same here
When you thought you've finally moved on from liking them but then you see them and they say hi and all your feelings just comes crashing right back at you.
So true! I hate that...
omg :(
hah... happening to me now. i just want to move on (again) and be frieeeeenddddsss (since his feelings will never change). I would know if someone liked me, but I'm not stupid. I look for the signs... and find none.
OMG yeah you spend like a week telling yourself to move on and then you finally summon up enough strength to think you have and then they send you a text message or they wave at you in the corridor...crushes do crush your heart
When your crush talks about how much they love their girlfriend/boyfriend/partner
FUCKING RELATABLE
or when they give you their number and then weeks later mention their gf/bf :|
+mae mumbles ugh that happened to me
or when they actually liked you too all this time and they give you hope for something more happening between the two of us but they have someone else already, so your heart brokes into million pieces.
+Silvia J.J Alcantara my crush knows I like him and he told my friend he likes me and she told me right in front of him and he startednto blush but someone asked him out on my 6th grade graduation and I'm afraid he's gonna date her
The worst moment is when your crush is the same gender,
And they're straight
Ohmygodthatsuckssogoddamnmuch
Hailey Minos Me. All of my crushes. All of them
lol sucks for u
Sucks as f
my crush thinks I’m straight
My crush talked to me about his crush for an hour today.
Millianna I feel your pain
Awww ❤💔
Millianna i feel you girl💔
Millianna ugh that’s gotta hurt...💔
I...feel ...your...pain😧
My crush once started walked to me really seriously, I got really nervous. You know what he said??
"I'm hungry".
WOW
oh my god i feel you
That's a hint that he wanted to eat you. Lmao
Hahahahaha!
EAT ME
"When you're waiting for your crush to text you and then it buzzes, but then you look at it and it's just Sallie Mae" - The most relateable sentence in this whole video
*melancholy eating of string cheese*
Rina Yamamoto literally
That moment when you messed it up. That moment that you replay in your mind for weeks, thinking "Why did I do that". That is the worst. Especially if that moment involved you being yourself, or being vulnerable, and then it get's thrown in your face.
Danielle Allen Been there. Good luck hun, we'll all find the one we find.
Danielle Allen i mean you can be proud for having the courage to express your feelings ! That's such a hard thing to do
Danielle Allen I almost cried in front of him cause of a video of me he saw and he and I regret that moment soooooooooo much
Danielle Allen I feel you. My friend and my crush were talking and I came over. She said "Brooke REALLY likes you Justin! " and I turned red and said it was a lie. He believed me, or acted like he did, and now I feel like I am going to just DIE when I am around him. I should have just said "It is true." or stayed quiet and let him ask me if it was true. I will now probably never tell him. I really regret it, and I kick myself over it all the time.
I wish my crush was atleast friends with me...
Lanybug 378 same bro
Lanybug 378 same
Eren Jaeger I didn't know my crushes last name until I looked up I meant stumbled across her Instagram account
Eren Jaeger I know how you feel about the stalking and even about the laugh, that's how I am with my crush.
Lanybug 378
Oh few xD Yeah, I hate calling it stalking and tell my friends it's an "intense research of an individual without them knowing about it." But tbh... Yeah xD
and the worst thing is when you finally pluck up the courage to tell them you like them and they explain that they don’t like you ‘like that’. then you have to smile and pretend that everything is fine because it was ‘just a crush’ and you’re cool with staying ‘just friends’ when in reality you’re completely and utterly devastated.
Cerys Churchyard I'm there right now, but he is still very sweet and nice to me, which makes it even harder.
so true :( I had expressed my feelings to my crush and he said he would love to date me, but it’s hard because we’re on the other side of the country. And then they forget those feelings and go date someone. It’s heartbreaking
Yeah, he keeps you in friendzone. But then he tells you "Oh, you had a chance to get me, but you didn't want to" I mean what chance? You literally told me.that you don't like me
That basically happened to me. 😂😂😭😭
When your crush says hi to you and you start planning your marriage...
😂
Lol true 😂😂
😂😂
Same 😂😂😂 my crush once took my pen out of my hand and I kinda died like on the spot 🥺🥺🥺😭
So accurate 😂😂
When your crush has a crush on your bestfriend.
When your crush is dating your bestfriend..
Farah Salem some people's crushes are their best friends and that's even worse 😂
Farah Salem that has happened to me before
Farah Salem literally me right now
Or when ur best friend chrushes on your chrush so u kinda just listen about how great they are and your like yea...
I didn't realise other people felt this way too omg thank you for this
ikr
True
u r not the only one
A soul crushing moment is when you text your crush and he/she reads it and doesn't reply right away. It's kind of scary
yea right
They're probably waiting just not to seem desperate
Its worst when they just read the text and never replies
Alexia Gonzalez 😂😂 yeah that all happened to us
+Alexia Gonzalez Right omg!! And u just die inside and overthink everything lol
"so then you worry if you're in the friend zone, which is a difficult one to navigate"
bro i felt that
My crush pulled me aside one day and I was so excited and then he was like "Hey, so is she (my best friend) single?' and I literally wanted to fake my death, move to Burkina Faso and start my life over as a loner bartender.
Alokha Sureiander oooh girl, that must have hurt.
Dammmmmmmnnnn, that fucking sucks
That sucks but you have a solid plan.. LMAO.. I love the YT comment section!
When u have a crush and u kno they don't like u back but u still want them
Malena Barrington true
La doular exquise
It’s harder when you know your crush is straight but still wanna have a spark.
Malena Barrington Oh so very RELATABLE
I know how you feel fam
"It is sad when you still like someone, but you're just friends"... Story of my life
real
Or became best friends and suddenly strangers 😢
yea same story of my life!!
Diana M. Yeah that's my life story:(
WHILE I WAS READING THIS COMMENT THEY SAID IT!!
Crush: "Hey!!"
Me: **Waves awkwardly** "H-Helloooo"
Crush: "What's up?"
Me: **Finger guns** "CATS"
that soul crushing moment when your crush is a fictional character and all you can do is curl up and cry
It's like "senpi why , you abandoned me , WHAT ABOUT ALL THOSE FAN FICS I WROTE ABOUT EACHOTHER THEN YOU HAVE TO BE FAKE!!! " 😂😂😝😝
Shelby Allred yeah 😂😂😂
is your prof pic fil
that soul crushing moment when you would love your celeb crush to be with you but also to be with the otp. *cough cough*phan *cough* sorry
Arden Rose yes :D
That moment when your crush is shy around you and you don't know if that's an indication if they like or hate you..
I KNOW YOUR PAIN
You know, they may be, like, just shy, they don't have to hate you or love you for that.
YESSSSSSSSSS I make him super nervous which makes me nervous so we're just a cloud of nervousness around eachother
That is literally me around my crush
Dude yess everyday at school he gets so shy all of a sudden and it makes me feel upset cause I don't know what he's thinking. It's so wired cause I catch him staring at me. And we got assigned seats for lunch and our table only had one seat left which was for him but it was right next to me, and he paused, looked at me, and then walked away and wanted to sit somewhere else 😣 but the right after lunch he was talking to me a lot more than usual. I think it's cause maybe he saw the sadness I had when he walked away?? Idek 😂
It's been a year since I started liking my crush. Ughh my life.
Bea Latorre same, I feel your pain
Bea Latorre I feel ur pain, it's been 4 for me and idk how I'm still living 😅😅
Bea Latorre lol well it's been almost 9 years for me 😂
Bea Latorre its been 8 years
Bea Latorre 9 years ♥️
I’ve had my fair share of crushes, but I’m straight so they were all on guys. It crushes me and makes me feel horrible to know that I have two girl friends who have had a crush on me for the longest, but I definitely don’t like them that way. It makes me feel like a horrible person even though I know I’ve done nothing wrong. When they told me , they knew I was straight, but they just wanted to see if there was any chance. I felt so bad telling them no, and it was awkward. But we’re still friends, not quite the same as before but we’re friends.
I know this probably isn’t the right time to quote Hamilton buttt...
“Love doesn’t discriminate between the sinners and the saints, it takes, and it takes, and it takes, and we keep living anyway, we laugh, and we cry ,and we break, and we make our mistakes.” Very true, props to Lin.
Ava Hess don't feel bad about it, you have your opinions an beliefs for a reason.
lol
oh my god same, one of my girl bestfriends has a crush on me, and it is so weird. i talk to her all day about my crush who is a boy, i wonder how she feels? lmao this is super super weird for me since i am a self-hater and i am self-destructive. so i cannot imagine anyone liking me.
100% relate!!!
Love the Hamilton reference
soul-crushing moment when nobody will ever like you back :'(
ive never related to something so much
So simple, yet so true!
Me
Astrid Poot maybe because of your avatar
Funny that all of these comments come from kids who are under 20 and haven't even experienced adulthood yet.
It's even worse when you are not even friends...
Χαρά Π I always get nervous around my crush.
That hurts like nothing else.
Χαρά Π Hurts even more when your crush isn't gay and thinks you're annoying.
Exactly
Holy Mochi Jimin Then it's just a Hayley Kiyoko song.
crushes are called crushes beacuse they crush your fcking soul man
Do you know annyeonghaseyo? So true 👌🏻
Do you know annyeonghaseyo? Okay but this is so true it us sad
Do you know annyeonghaseyo? Not always 💖
Damn so true
I’ve pushed my crush into a locker
Twice
And I also threw his hat in his face.
At least I apologized.
OMG you’re a freaking badass
Least you can interact with your crush
Is it just me or like, when I genuinely like somebody, it either:
1) Treat you like crap (not that much, but I act rude towards you for no reason) over text and pretend I hate you or something when I actually like you. But in real life I am very shy and red near you/I smile super awkwardly.
2) I am super quiet/shy and I am red around you, and I ignore you completely. Say hi/wave at me I ghost it.
Does why they are called crushes bc they crush our hearts into infinity of pieces😭😔💔
Thats*
definitely
Truuu
Go away
Deep
Ya, it sucks. I had a major crush on someone for months, but never acted on it because she was very open about about her crush(not me). Then one day we all moved seats, and I was sitting closer to her and I noticed her constantly looking in my direction, giggling with her friends, blushing constantly, and she had stopped talking constantly about her crush, making me think she had gotten over him. Right when I got my hopes up... BAM!!! Turned out it was my really good friend who happened to sit right next to me in nearly every class. Now there dating, and everyone thinks they’re the cutest couple ever, I’m friends with both of them, and want to die...
Dawson Webber Jeszus man. That’s rough. I can barely talk to my crush without like blushing or making a fool out of myself. But I don’t want to act on it yet BC I don’t want to ruin the friendship we have.🙄life sucks.
Sorry for what happened to you.
It sucks.
I once liked a girl she liked me back I actually didn't like her
helko buy I feel u , I liked this guys for a couple months but I got over him , but then he asked me out and I said yes , and I broke up with him later on because I felt like I was crushing my happiness and putting myself in a burden for someone else’s happiness
Someone that I didn’t even like , let alone love
it's even worse when you're too shy to talk to your crush...
Simone Schmid well it is worst when you have a crush on every girl in the classes crush
maybe when your enemy is dating your crush. yeah thats happening
trulyhannah yessssssssssssssss except mine is flirting just to get on my nerves. But the thing is, she’s like super pretty so...
HAS HAPPENED TO ME BEFORE! when your nemesis is dating your crush...
Omg same
She liked both of us but I left
The worst is if their in a relationship... but you can't get over it... so you just wait and hope that they will break up even though you know it's a horrible thing to think... you eventually try to get over them by flirting with other people and than the other person you're flirting with starts to get serious... but than you think that your crush is going to break up with them any day... and you have to be single for when they get out of that relationship
Aimee Landry One of my guy friends had that problem where the girl he liked was in a relationship and he was trying his best to get over her but he said it was nearly impossible, eventually he did get over her but about a month later he told me that he liked me and had for well, about a month, but I wasn't ready for any sort of relationship and told him to ask me again in a couple years.
Aimee Landry That hurts.
Damn I feel ya😕
This is exactly my problem.
Aimee Landry
Wow this is me 😢
One soul-crushing moment when you have a crush is when you see them making out with the person they're dating. That's pretty soul-crushing.
And you can feel physical pain but you can't explain.
Hannah Simoney one time I had a feeling that was going to happen so me being the weirdo I am I photoshopped a picture of them together so I would become immune......middle school was weird
Hannah Simoney // Yup. That's happened to me
Yeah. It's kinda hot though when both of them are attractive...
Lesbian Axolotl or when neither of them are and you only like them because of their personality......
When they're so aware of you crushing on them
and they use that to their advantage
so you end up loosing your feelings for them
but they just keeeep reminding you about it, and saying the feelings are still there even though they're not
No that's weird 😲
I hope I will get used
That's happened alot
That’s fucked up
“What are some soul crushing moments when you have a crush?”
“Every moment”
Amen
That time when you are the closest friends with your crush........ And they admit they're in love with someone els *slowly dies on the inside*
Or when you gained the confidence to tell them and they move away
Both of these things have happened to me *cries*
I feel ya buddy
That just happened to me... the most soul crushing moment of my life
me rn
Yeahhhhhh... I'm gonna die alone
Yeah, me too Vanessa, me too
Olivia Peihopa same here, Olivia
Vanessa Marquez everyone dies alone though
lucky shits.
Hey same here yoooooooooooo LONER BUDDIES
When your crush ends up falling for your best friend and you have to see them flirt with one another but be supportive of your best friend. It hurts you don't know if you should stick around in fear of hurting one of them or both. But also you will feel yourself breaking. Either way, someone will get hurt.
Love is complicated...
Beautiful Undine yes 😢
If it really was my bestfriend they would know about my crush therefore realising that they are off limits
Luna Irene I'm going through this right now
Ok, I have a song for those who have crushes and/or are in the friendzone.
Here it is:
*strums guitar*
*AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH*
Pumpkin Spice Number 1 on Billboard Hot 100 and I’m making different versions like my country version. Take a listen.
*strums country guitar with a cowboy outfit*
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
99!!
Hannah F That’s lit
*i love this songggg*
I brought my friend together with her crush today and I felt so happy for them and I thought "but no one ever helps me get together with my crush" 🙄😂
Eeyore Slimez i would help you, letz doo dis
Eeyore Slimez lemme help u at my school I’m known as the CUPID
Having a crush can be soul crushing, but honestly I'm feeling really happy now, because my crush likes me back and now we're dating. It's actually an amazing feeling to be able to not relate to the video at the moment. Because at a different time, I did.
Akasha Kirby your so lucky no boys like me😣
luckily for me, he likes me back. Sadly we can't even be friends since were both shy to eachother and tend to avoid. He was my friend before, so I'm kinda sad I wasnt classmates with him. :(
The worst moment is when your crush doesn't know all the things you've done for them and just be kinda mean to you...
My crush told me he likes me and I say the next day "so lemme get this straight, we both like each other?" Then he replies with
Why would I like you?
Ariana M omg i’m so sorry
Friennnnnd zone
Was he too nervous to admit that he likes you again, or did he not actually like you??
Maybe it was a dare
Awe.... :( I'm so sorry
Just remember though, the worst thing you can do is nothing at all, forever wondering what could've been.
EAB damn right. this is literally the worst. I'm always just being attacked by my own thoughts of what could've been
I wish I could but, I’m just never able to. I’m too shy.
Marii _ same....the person stares at me but I’m not to sure.. I don’t know.
EAB stat alive
EAB yup yup yup yup I am dead I side when that happens to you like it did to me u will never get over it and I moved away so now there is no chance and it was this in going thing between us for 2 years and I didn't do freakin anything lol anyways yes I agree lol
Well, I figure there's a reason why it's called, "having a crush".
Because one way or another...YOU WILL GET CRUSHED.
Ndusk XD Hahahaha
Well yeah I guess. Hehehhehe
Ndusk. funny😂
This is so relatable 😭and surprisingly it made me cry too
Edit: wow so many likes 🤔 welp I thought I was the only one but I guess not 😭 I just wanna say it's all gonna be fine y'all 👍🏻
SAME...I CRIED TOO
Monica Faustino I CRIED BECAUSE THIS HAPPENED 2 TIMES FOR ME
the most soul-crushing that i've experience which is this morning is that when your crush said "i love you" and u thought it was real not long after he/she said "haha april fools"
i just wanna say one thing
u don't joke about love it doesn't work that way
lol like if u r agree
Nandita Kinanthy but they usually don't know you like them.
LegendSkull367 yes and that makes it worst 😂😩
I might confess to my crush on April 1st so if she rejects me I can say that :D
When you think she likes you, you have like 50 reasons why you think she likes you. You know she's bi so it's not impossible. She stares at you in class. She blushed when you talk to her. She laughs at all your jokes. You are pretty sure she likes you. then she introduces you to her boyfriend.
Marley Hunt goddamn
OMG THIS IS SO ME RN And that time she laid on your shoulder and hugged you and then the boyfriend comes and you immediately want to die
That doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you
Marley Hunt awe
Ooff ouch that hurts just to read 😂😂😂
soul-crushing moment when ur crush doesn’t get ur vine references
ikr and they r like *what?* and the moment passes and it gets super awkward
me
me
Facts 😭
Hi armies! :)
when you're in love with your best friend and they're straight, with a boyfriend.
yeeeah :-(
YES. yes yes yes yes yes eys ey es yes
When you are in love with your friend that you know is gay and I your too socially awkward to ask her out. Also you also have a fear of rejection and ruining the relationship
+Sorry I am awkward But you still have a higher chance to actually date the person someday. My crush is one of my friends who is very straight and I just know that nothing is ever going to happen but you still love her and you just can't get over it.............even if you wanted to.
troye franta I like my best friend and she likes another girl a lot smh
I feel so bad for this people because they're all suffering, getting sad, nervous, mad for their crushes, and also I feel weird because I've never had a crush, or never suffered for someone in particular... :(
Aromantic? No, I've never heard of it, what is it?
kaep jjang! It's when you don't have romantic attraction toward anyone
Im a very picky person so ive never liked anyone i know either (celebrities are an exception)
But i think im starting to like this one guy, and i hate this feeling so god damn much, its torture.
Even though its just mostly me thinking about him a lot, its very frustrating
Hi connor
when you have a crush on a straight girl.. like...💔
Kotryna Tarnauskaitė I don’t know if the person I like is straight or not..... I never talked to her, because I’m bi.
Kotryna Tarnauskaitė but I know how you feel....
Yesss... Ppl say she likes this random guy Leo... *Why Leo, Why* :')
That is the worst.
god thats the worst
HAVING A CRUSH ON A STRAIGHT GIRL ITS NOT FAIR WHY IS SHE SO CUTE AND STRAIGHT GODDAMMIT
I feel you
lupe Is weird *sad gay highfives you*
I pheel you ;)
eughhh that's that most heart breaking one, and you have to remain friends and watch them date someone esle
Same since 2 fucking years -.
having a crush is literally so fkn painful especially when like I can't have like normal crushes, I have to go get myself emotionally invested so damn much that I just fall in love with them
When you know your crush likes you but they don't know you like them and you live away from each other. Then, they ask you for relationship advice for this one person. You give good advice and now you have to listen to how happy they are with that person and knowing that you have to let them be together because they can see each other a lot easier than they can with you. Wondering if that if you said something earlier if things could be different.
I know.. This happens every time.
Wow just why
Berat Su Aydın hey I mean i don’t even remember who this was about so 💀
@@movmov9327 huh then good for you ~
I had a crush and she knew. Then I didn't like her anymore and I told her. Now I like her again.
2 Words
Life sucks.
This happened to me before and yes it sucked
O k same same
O k I like a girl. She said she's straight... I always get nervous around her. I had the chance to talk to her today but I just didn't want to. I met her this year. My friend said that when someone likes her she'll always say "Ew" this video literally made me cry..
O k SAME. GOD DAMN SITUATION
when your crush has recently become single and your just like "this is it I can finally tell them how I feel" and then they talk to you about how they think they like someone else and ask you for advice on how to ask out that person....... (absolute heart break)
or when you get over them because they 'don't like you in that way' and then about a month later they ask you out because they realized they have liked you the entire time but now you 'don't like them in that way' and it sucks because you know exactly how they feel because they did that to you
Too true D:
When your profile pic loons like the person in the video...
i feel the pain😂😭
omg you just want to die right there, it's like R.I.P.
or when you know someone isn't good for you but you still like them anyway
I feel you. And then your friends get on to you, and tell you that they are no good for you because they are toxic but you still have hope.
I get it then u feel that ur stupid or u love them to much to let go of ur crush.cuz I still have mine.i a,ready told him.but I keep holding on
I can relate
i relate entirely
Relatable
Soulcrushing moments w/my crush
1. He laughs and talks with my Bff
2. I find out he's leaving next year and I still don't have his number
Nancy J. Did you have any luck?
What a great video to watch, right after I've been rejected....
BRO ITS OK IM THE SAME
Me too
same
Guess I'm not gonna die alone!!!😸😿
Sameeeee :(
Is it wierd that I started crying ?😭😭😂😅
Xalexisisherex Msp Lmao😂 Hi
+수연장 hi ARMY huhuhu I cried too because my bias didn't even know I exist T_T
+수연장 hi ARMY huhuhu I cried too because my bias didn't even know I exist T_T
수연장 is that jungkook's picture ?????
수연장 I started crying too 😭😭😭
When your crush is someone new to your school, but you know in a matter of time they will hang with the "popular kids" and be annoying like the others.
I smiled at my crush once...
IT WAS AMAZING!!!!
when ur in love with ur crush for aBOUT fUcKING 3 YEARS END MY SUFFERING
Sylwia Jackowska I've had a crush on him for 2 and a half years
it fucking hurt when it's 5 YEARS !😭😢
and then you know you are just loosing your energy and time with no results😧. i feel you ...
enjoy your life and forget about him, trust me , with the time, you are going to forget that he even exist. at least that's what I think
Sylwia Jackowska I just got over my crush of 3 years about 4 months ago. I also once had a crush for 5 years.
Sylwia Jackowska same boat. 2 years. I told her and she hates me and all I did was defy my every thought that I liked her
Sylwia Jackowska try 10
How tf do they get their crushes number
"Everything comes naturally"
-Selena Gomez
I actually asked it from my friend then prank called him xD
my best friend got my crush's no. for me lol
Magic.
Group. Chats
It hurts...
to accept that he will only treat you as a friend....
It's worse when your not even friends
One sided love; raise your hand ya’ll, Idk why but I feel so alone
one sided love here✌✌
Lpslpslps
: That's extremely painful
🙋♀️
I don't even have the courage to talk and become friends with my crush.
Same. I like this guy who is 1 year older than me. I always see him at school but don't know how to talk to him. Any advice ?
siham o'brien SAME
girl we need to get ourselves together and look for advice asap lmao
siham o'brien beging friends with your crush is the worst! trust me...
yeah but not being able to talk to your crush is torturing as well because i don't even know if i have a chance. But have you tried to make a move or to tell your crush how you feel about him ?
Soul-crushing moment when your crush is your best friend
its the fucking worst and there is nothing you can do about it
The worst thing to me, is when they have a crush on your best friend
Emma .S
That hurts.. a lot. The worst part is when the only thing you can do is be happy for them, but on the inside, you’re dying.
Hannah R. That’s way too true 😞
Emma .S yes that hurts so much and my crush actually likes my best friend
Emma .S YES
I’m going through that and it stressful
I was so nervous around my crush that I forgot his name while trying to give him a compliment and now he hasn't talked to me in 3 days
that soul crushing moment when your crush is fictional😣
Too true. 😫
Mettaton whyyyyyyy
*_*cough cough_** Bill Cipher *_*cough cough_**
LEVI
*pulls out long list of anime characters*
for me the most soul crushing moment is when you and that person are best friends and you're really close to them and people ask if we're dating but you fight the urge to say yes because they already have a girlfriend and you're stuck in the friend zone
emily relatable ;-;
When they ramble about how much they love someone and ask your for guidelines so they can go out with that someone. All you can do is smile and try your hardest to be happy for them.
Mansi Sinha so true. I had a guy friend who I liked a few years back and he liked me too but then he met a girl and I was heartbroken but now I like ship them so hard
And listen the song....Mai phir bhi tumko chahunga😄
My crush asked me out tonight nd im literally dying out of happiness❤😭
Update? Lol
@@deborahpablo786 they’re married 👰♀️ 🤵♂️
what happened?
Update??
When you and your friend are sitting next to your crush,and suddenly your friend becomes a comedian.
Omg that's the worst lmao
Emma Navaroi De Los Santos
And then you get the feeling that she likes him 2
And Suddenly, you're wondering the meaning of life.
Emma Navaroi De Los Santos 😂 Right!
Emma Navaroi De Los Santos 😨
When your friend thinks they're helping you out by saying, "OMG you two would be so cute together!" and then your crush says, "Eww WTF no!"
Is it healthy not to have a crush and be focused on other stuff
very
I feel the same
totally healthy😂good for you...
100% natural Oats & honey It is.
100% natural Oats & honey yes
crush: walks towards me
me: forgets english, begins speaking fluent norwegian
crush: wtf
When your crush is your best friend and they're always flirting and messing with your heart and every time I think she'll decide she likes me or not because she thinks she might and I just want to ueghhhhh :/
Esmeme literally my problem but worst, she got a boyfriend. You're not alone 😂
Larry Stylinson ahhh i feel you
***** wow
OMG this is happening to me rn
Laura Mendoza Jordà damn girl that sucks, good luck. You deserve someone who is honest and good to you, I'm sure it'll get better.
So I’m bisexual and I had a crush on a girl, and I was blushing every second near here and I thought she was into me back, she was kinda close and she was really playful towards me, so eventually I told everyone she was my crush (I met her at a close friend party) and my friend told me she’s straight and doesn’t like me back. And now it’s just uncomfortable and I was so sad...
im sorry..
Almost the same situation with me..
Same here
Awww I'm sorry :(( *virtual hug*
Ashley's acting is so good here, I just.. wow.
do you know whos the other girl?
+Shiro SEA sorry, no.
I think of this one guy every time I watch this. We were never in a relationship but I was so smitten.
My soul crushing moment was when I found out he was dating one of my friends.