These Keep The Narcissist In A State Of Distress

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  • @LizaJane51360
    @LizaJane51360 3 года назад +395

    They are the great imposters who create their own misery and then want to punish others for it. 💯 % Brilliant!!

    • @alexanderhordge5223
      @alexanderhordge5223 3 года назад +18

      I know this to be true because I'm never jealous of what the narcissists Have. I in fact know that narcissists are lovers of deception that is why they can never ever be satisfied with anything they do regardless of how many things they have. As long as they are lovers of deception dissatisfaction is guaranteed.

    • @nicky9148
      @nicky9148 3 года назад +20

      Biggest posers!!

    • @nd612
      @nd612 3 года назад +17

      And that's the truth

    • @rasmuswellejus2809
      @rasmuswellejus2809 3 года назад +7

      True that!

    • @janeajoa2889
      @janeajoa2889 3 года назад +6

      @@alexanderhordge5223 thats 💯 bro.

  • @dawnia4291
    @dawnia4291 3 года назад +254

    The narcissist is highly likely to be controlled by various demons who want to crush the soul of anyone who leads a happy contented life. This is their mission, it does not change.This is why the narcissist chose you. You display a light of spiritual fullness and joy. They can’t stand it.

    • @themegaislandman
      @themegaislandman 3 года назад +9

      @Mary Carroll So true...

    • @IsraelWillBeFree
      @IsraelWillBeFree 3 года назад +12

      Leviathan and Jezebel are two I've learned about..are the other ones known? Either way, we have to give the devil permission to work evil through us. So ultimately we are accountable for our sins..whatever the sin is. My husband tries to use spiritual warfare as an excuse like he has no control whatsoever. Nice try.

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 3 года назад +7

      @@IsraelWillBeFree 🎯🎯🎯

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 3 года назад +4

      @Mary Carroll 🎯🎯🎯

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 3 года назад +5

      🎯🎯🎯

  • @janeajoa2889
    @janeajoa2889 3 года назад +240

    There is no rest for the wicked. Thank you.

    • @marcalampi5036
      @marcalampi5036 3 года назад +5

      Amen, simply put they are wicked and cursed

    • @janeajoa2889
      @janeajoa2889 3 года назад +2

      @@marcalampi5036 😄👌🙏

    • @travismcdaniel2034
      @travismcdaniel2034 2 года назад +4

      Amen!

    • @caroledwards3184
      @caroledwards3184 2 года назад +7

      None whatsoever, let them keep living their miserable silent lives .

    • @karenblueford9082
      @karenblueford9082 Год назад +6

      What goes around comes around twice has hard or more. The narcissist chose that LIFE 💯 by how they treat people and their family.,so let them be miserable.

  • @laverdadesmejor
    @laverdadesmejor 3 года назад +188

    From my experience, they deserve every moment of grief, unrest and discontentment that they get. It's just unfortunate that they do so much damage to others in the process.

    • @lilybeth7565
      @lilybeth7565 3 года назад +18

      Totally no one should ever feel pity for these creatures…

    • @muskokamike127
      @muskokamike127 3 года назад +12

      Now I don't go that far, I never wish ill will on anyone but they are the masters of their own misery.

    • @kallahari7542
      @kallahari7542 2 года назад +9

      @@muskokamike127 I disagree with you, but i do think that we have to protect our selves against them. Unfortunaly there is no cure so it's them or us. And i chose ME....

    • @muskokamike127
      @muskokamike127 2 года назад +6

      @@kallahari7542 what, you DO wish ill will on them?
      The only thing I'd wish on my ex is that one day she comes to realize where she went wrong...but I doubt that will happy to any narc because they are so wrapped up in their own mind.
      Yes, we do have to learn to spot the signs and avoid them at all costs. I've thought numerous times about sending videos, or articles or ? to "talk some sense into her" but I know I'd have better luck convincing a rock that it is actually wood.

    • @Justmee10
      @Justmee10 2 года назад +1

      Nah my narc is happy, happy around half naked girls lol

  • @mercyrahma9501
    @mercyrahma9501 3 года назад +95

    They sure can't escape Death and the Day of judgement !

  • @gregh2322
    @gregh2322 3 года назад +177

    Spot on. They must dump their shame, guilt, and fear on others to keep their equilibrium. Pathetic.

  • @muskokamike127
    @muskokamike127 3 года назад +80

    Narcissists also live a life of stress. It can't be easy putting on 2 faces/facades. I find they also are extremely "busy" all the time. I think that's so they don't have time to think about what they truly are.

    • @GenerationX1984
      @GenerationX1984 2 года назад +8

      Meditation and self reflection would force them to face their greatest fear. Themselves.

    • @JohnJohn-lu7wd
      @JohnJohn-lu7wd 2 года назад +15

      The truth is that they don't tire just like predators don't get tired of their lives. A wolf doesn't get tired of hunting sheep, but when a sheep tries to hunt for wolves, it will drop dead from exhaustion! That is why one should never emulate, copy, mimic or mirror them.

    • @okgirl64
      @okgirl64 2 года назад +5

      Oh so true..the person I was around was so busy..also helps them to lie...they can't answer questions or avoid because they are so busy..they don't have to look you in the eye..they don't expect to get questioned..he would run out to his truck 6 times a day to keep up with his cheating, acting like he was searching for something ..pathetic

    • @mvp_health-n-beauty
      @mvp_health-n-beauty 2 года назад +6

      and why they can be so tired, and yes, the business is a point of distraction to avoid the pain

    • @Ehuff
      @Ehuff 2 года назад +3

      So true!!!

  • @ardent9422
    @ardent9422 3 года назад +163

    It's so good to hear and know the truth. Narcissists come into your life, sabotage your opportunities and then leave, acting like now it's all good for them and their ship has come in, but it's not true it's an illusion, as nothing is ever good enough for them. No amount of entitlement can be met on a consistent basis, it's impossible. So no matter how happy or successful the narcissist may look, it's not real.

    • @carolbanks960
      @carolbanks960 3 года назад +7

      Thank you for the the light and and basically these people are unpleasable my mother was a narcissist end up going out with men were narcissists and so I finally figured it out what do you do to a person that WILL NEVER be pleased, NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO FOR THEM!🙀😿😾 You just STOP TRYING! THEY WILL NEVER GET TO THAT PLACE OF SATIFACTION, BECAUSE IT DOESN'T EXIST!!! That's a place that they want you to strive to help them get there, but they don't know where this place is, but they want you to take them there. When the whole time, that place of SATIFACTION, CONTENTMENT, FULLFILLMENT, HAPPINESS is in THEM THE WHOLE TIME & THEY DIDN'T NEED TO GO ANYWHERE. BECAUSE IT WAS INSIDE THEM THE WHOLE TIME & THEY DIDN'T NEED ANYBODY TO HELP THEM GET THERE, BECAUSE IT WAS RIGHT THERE INSIDE THEIR BODY ALL ALONG. So, I just give them DIRECTIONS HOW TO GET THERE, & THEY DON'T HAVE TO GO ANYWHERE & DON'T NEED ANYBODY TO HELP THEM GET THERE!!!! BUT THEY THINK THEY KNOW EVERYTHING! YOU CAN'T TELL SOMEBODY ANYTHING, THAT ALREADY KNOWS EVERYTHING!!!!!!!g

    • @ntombifuthiyika5975
      @ntombifuthiyika5975 3 года назад +4

      I watched Sarah Breathnack on Oprah from RUclips. She wrote a successful book that turned her into a multi millionaire. She bumped into somebody she had known when they were younger. He became her 3rd husband. All was good until he started abusing her. When she asked why are you treating me like this, he said because the money is gone.

    • @ginarios9442
      @ginarios9442 3 года назад +1

      @@carolbanks960 SHLM & HaB (peace & love). The Name of the Creator is Hayah asher Hayah, as what He told Moshah (Exodus 3:14), preserved in the Hebrew Scriptures. There is a curse to the G-o-d name (Isaiah 65:11-12), preserved in the Hebrew Scriptures. All followers of the Messiah are to do the 7 appointed times (Leviticus 23), but no more animal sacrifices, following the Crucifixion of the Messiah. We are now of the order of MLK TSDQ (King, righteous), to Whom ABRaHM tithed. Ask the Messiah to be your personal Savior. He is the Atoning Offering for mankind for the remission of sin ( 1 John 2:2). He said to him, I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me (John 14:6). If you believe the Messiah died on the cross, & Resurrected three days later (presenting Himself as First Fruits to the Father), please ask Him to be your Savior. He is the ONLY way to Everlasting Life.

    • @ginarios9442
      @ginarios9442 3 года назад +1

      @@ntombifuthiyika5975 SHLM & HaB (peace & love). The Name of the Creator is Hayah asher Hayah, as what He told Moshah (Exodus 3:14), preserved in the Hebrew Scriptures. There is a curse to the G-o-d name (Isaiah 65:11-12), preserved in the Hebrew Scriptures. All followers of the Messiah are to do the 7 appointed times (Leviticus 23), but no more animal sacrifices, following the Crucifixion of the Messiah. We are now of the order of MLK TSDQ (King, righteous), to Whom ABRaHM tithed. Ask the Messiah to be your personal Savior. He is the Atoning Offering for mankind for the remission of sin ( 1 John 2:2). He said to him, I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me (John 14:6). If you believe the Messiah died on the cross, & Resurrected three days later (presenting Himself as First Fruits to the Father), please ask Him to be your Savior. He is the ONLY way to Everlasting Life.

    • @carolbanks960
      @carolbanks960 3 года назад

      @@ginarios9442 What are you saying??? You think I'm m not a child of GOD?!! OH, BUT I AM A CHILD OF GOD!!!!!!!!

  • @susanmcmahon4733
    @susanmcmahon4733 2 года назад +11

    Best to leave them in their own misery, don't let them drag you down with them into the darkness run away from them.

    • @fainitesbarley2245
      @fainitesbarley2245 8 месяцев назад

      You can’t help them. Many people tried with the charismatic, attractive, covert vulnerable narcissist I knew.
      People saw their potential and their emotional dysregulation and really tried to help. At the time I knew them after failed marriages and relationships, people who befriended them generally lasted less than a year. The narc could not resist the emotionally abusive mind games and growing disrespect and devaluation.
      Despite the harm they cause - it’s actually sad. I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy!

  • @flowersofthefield340
    @flowersofthefield340 3 года назад +37

    They are cursed ..... They come from darkness and will return to darkness once this life is over.
    They come to kill steal and destroy.

  • @tyroneblume3046
    @tyroneblume3046 3 года назад +46

    Narcissists is miserable, consumed with self-hatred, envy, discontentment, and delusions. I believe narcissists plagued by early childhood trauma left unattended and care for. Thank you for another great video.

    • @sinceresong9907
      @sinceresong9907 3 года назад +2

      Perceptive observation

    • @sinceresong9907
      @sinceresong9907 3 года назад +7

      @@yadiachar7591 sad but true. Not all can pull themselves out of the cycle abusing others and abusing themselves.

  • @jannlewandowski5540
    @jannlewandowski5540 2 года назад +8

    From my personal experience with a narc of 5 years, they are NASTY, CRUEL, and full of HATE. God forbid if you make a narc angry! They are VICIOUS! They are JEALOUS of you and anyone who even looks at you. I couldn't take anymore, so I left him. My GUT FEELING TOLD ME THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG. I should have listened back then, but I was in love. From now on, after my experience, I ALWAYS FOLLOW MY GUT FEELING..It's a shame they won't seek help, but they don't think they need it.

    • @amynix1496
      @amynix1496 2 года назад

      My relationship to a T! I was with mine six years and I left and I can never go back! He is a demonic human being!

  • @JessicaJLandi
    @JessicaJLandi 2 года назад +8

    I wouldn't want the life of a narcissist for anything. Their depraved contempt for truth, freedom, love, and joyful worship of and dependence on God are beyond sad.

  • @therenegadepianotechnician5170
    @therenegadepianotechnician5170 3 года назад +75

    Great video ! It pleases me that these evil people also suffer. These narcissists appear ,on the outside, to be enjoyably "skating" through life completely unaccountable for anything they do . The other thing is that narcissists (because they are never accountable) never learn and are DOOMED to repeat harmful behaviours that can boomerang right back at them. Any real and meaningful relationship with them is impossible.

    • @rmmn7
      @rmmn7 3 года назад +8

      most of the narcissists dont have happy family.

    • @kathyadair8552
      @kathyadair8552 2 года назад +1

      YGTR!

  • @missta1820
    @missta1820 3 года назад +53

    They are truly cursed!

  • @LoveNeverFails1
    @LoveNeverFails1 3 года назад +26

    They attract some of the best people. Eventually each of those people realize what they're dealing with and leave. A narcissist plays so dirty that most cannot even imagine or beleive what they really do.
    I have 3 and possibly 4 in my past. Mother, husband, female friend, and former boyfriend. Not sure on my mother but no matter, close enough. Life with them seemed impossible. I am happy to be free and healing.

  • @sabrinawanderer7560
    @sabrinawanderer7560 3 года назад +33

    Actually at times I cry over the loss of their companionship but when I recall all the things I was put down with them..i couldn't let them re-enter my life... I pity them because they are unhappy in their real lives...no wonder they don't like people who are happy...

    • @Reckless_abandon23
      @Reckless_abandon23 2 года назад +5

      I so agree. It's just sad for both sides. I love her, but know she is bad. I also feel terrible that she is miserable. I also become sad knowing that she can never re enter my life again. She was just an idea...for 25 years. Signed, upside down.

  • @surfshack2
    @surfshack2 3 года назад +78

    The thing is too is that they realize sooner or later you are gonna catch on to their personality disorder. And it will change how you perceive them. I can't believe that there are people out walking amongst us that are that psychotic and get away with it for so long. I will never get involved with somebody who i meet on social media again. My fault for allowing that to happen.

    • @jolly7728
      @jolly7728 3 года назад +9

      Well, yes, we are ultimately to blame for "welcoming" them into our lives. Once we accept responsibility, only then can we truely walk away and begin to heal. Walking away can mean either no contact or gray rock. Either way, we'd be refusing to play their destructive little chess game.

    • @PrettyToez07
      @PrettyToez07 3 года назад +5

      Absolutely true.

    • @jolly7728
      @jolly7728 3 года назад +1

      @Mrs. Vargas Congratulations on stepping away from SM. Hopefully you've found good alternatives.

    • @desertangelfish140
      @desertangelfish140 3 года назад +7

      Don't blame yourself. Don't hate the player hate the game! They come in so many different flavors and varieties. They are like carbon monoxide. Educating yourself is the best defense. 💕

    • @sercc1
      @sercc1 2 года назад +3

      That happened to me I met a woman in Plenty of Fish and she is one of those monster

  • @carlissable
    @carlissable 3 года назад +30

    I did everything in my power to show him he was loved in servitude. Cooking, cleaning so well to help him that I put his bills and mail in order for him. I even realized that even the stuff I bought at the grocery store was mostly stuff he liked..and still he would consistently ask if I really loved him (and stare in my eyes when I would answer as if it was unbelievable). Eventually he started getting nasty.. vicious.. disrespecting me... allowing others to disrespect me...and that is where I drew the line...all the way down to his mother who claims to be a Christian . All she cares about is ensuring he doesn't build a healthy relationship so he can marry ... She will loose control of his check whoa nelly

    • @cherylthompson2731
      @cherylthompson2731 2 года назад +5

      Mother's usually are the ones who make them how they are.

    • @carlissable
      @carlissable 2 года назад +7

      @@cherylthompson2731 I use to have rose colored glasses on because I thought a Older person claiming to be a Christian woman was just that. Boy did I learn. About 3 weeks ago I was out and about and I kept hearing my name...it was his downstairs neighbor. Told me that my ex had moved in a girl from the projects across the street from his house. He would always accuse me of messing with someone who lived over there and I loathe those nasty apartments .. I've never even been on that side of the street. So he was telling on himself. The neighbor says that the female comes from nothing and is known in the neighborhood for sleeping with just about everybody so equally as toxic. Says he's so bad off that when he rages she in turn is just as toxic and stands in the doorway of HIS apartment and call him drug head and puts his business out for the neighborhood to hear. She also calls the police on him so he runs from his own home. I have absolutely NO SYMPATHY for this piece of 💩. Too think of the lady I was to him. How I accepted him knowing he had issues because he said everyone judged him or treated him a certain way. I handled him with extra care and love. It's the DISRESPECT for me. You would disrespect a woman who would move mountains for you and pick up a booger from the gutter and move her in? You know I'm utterly confused. 😯😲😲😲

  • @panfried7566
    @panfried7566 2 года назад +3

    04: 51 "Narcissists use and abuse people and they think that is what everyone else wants to do with them in some form or fashion" - this is such a profound statement! No wonder narcissists strike first and pin you down, sadly, for trying to love them.
    yes, narcissists are cursed to live this way. As much as I empathize with what may have happened in their childhood as no one, specially children deserves to be abused, i have zero empathy to the abuse they inflict specially to those closest to them. I will not be able to change what has happened in the past 2+ decades, but I have a future now clear of narcissists and that is something to rejoice!
    thanks, Clarice.

  • @williamcastilla1963
    @williamcastilla1963 3 года назад +91

    Clarice, this video was a masterpiece. If I ever want to torture a narcissist, I'll make sure to have him/her listen to this message over and over and over. Thank you!

    • @mercyrahma9501
      @mercyrahma9501 3 года назад +3

      😅👍

    • @mariamirovya5471
      @mariamirovya5471 3 года назад +14

      I agree the video is a masterpiece for normal people to understand the narcissist but narcissist listening to this video won't make a difference, they are cursed they believe they are superior and always right

    • @bobtaylor170
      @bobtaylor170 3 года назад +2

      I never don't want to torture a narcissist.

    • @jenniferwasinski3675
      @jenniferwasinski3675 2 года назад +3

      That's an awesome thought but from my own experience the minute you put one of these videos on the narcissist freaks out and tells you to shut it off

    • @jenniferwasinski3675
      @jenniferwasinski3675 2 года назад +2

      @@mariamirovya5471 a narcissist will never listen to this video I know for a fact I put one of his videos on the other day and seeing a complete freak out and was told immediately to shut it off

  • @alcrook6662
    @alcrook6662 2 года назад +14

    Working hard at developing one's "narc radar" is so important. We all can make mistakes in life, but can avoid many by spotting the narcissists and not get involved with them. A total rejection of narcissists and narcissistic behaviour is like sunshine and fresh, sweet air.

  • @Tony-dh
    @Tony-dh 3 года назад +53

    Possessions of a narcissist are “ stuff “. Exactly. The ex is a hoarder. Nothing is good stuff. Average at best.
    I see sadness in her eyes behind her smile. She thinks she is punishing me, but in reality she is punishing herself.
    I know her so well.
    Good video Clarice.

    • @frankbujans5901
      @frankbujans5901 3 года назад +3

      I have had to deal with a few hoarders in my line of work it is absolutely pathetic and they are also sharing their pain with you and everyone around them by hoarding

    • @l.5832
      @l.5832 3 года назад +1

      When my narc sister sees something I have, she needs to start to 'collect' it herself....to the extreme. I have a set of 3 casseroles I bought 40 years ago and still use. I have only 3. I visited my sister who lives alone, and I see she has started 'collecting' the same pattern. She has stacks of them! On the coffee table, hidden in the oven, on top of the stove, on the kitchen table. I have no idea how many. It is truly bizarre. She has done the same with other items I have. She gets the identical one, then collects countless more from the same brand.....

    • @frankbujans5901
      @frankbujans5901 3 года назад +1

      @@l.5832 Okay I can't help it what if you were to get something extremely rare some sort of antique it doesn't have to be that expensive but extremely difficult to get it could be a pendant a pin maybe a set of earrings oh my goodness I just realized what if it's the only one of their kind maybe you had them custom made just for you think about that concept

  • @getrudemwaura946
    @getrudemwaura946 3 года назад +9

    It's so unfortunate for the Narcissist.
    I have Chosen not to live in misery.
    Let them live their lives 🙏🙏
    I am responsible for mine 🙏.
    Thank You so Much 🌹💕💕💕

  • @funlovinbloke6266
    @funlovinbloke6266 3 года назад +35

    Interesting video. When a narcissist loses control than he or she will show his / her true face. You just can't live with these kind of people. Don't try it, it is a waste of time. I had a relationship with a covert narcissist and after 3 months she showed her true face. That was just in one word: FAKE. These people are frustrated, insecure, immature, damaged, angry and cowards. I agree to point 3. That is also the weird part (although it is very sad): they always blame and complain to others that they don't meet the demand of the narcissist but when you confront the narcissist for the same issues they walk away because they don't like confrontations about their own flaws and shortcomings. Narcissists' don't think they have issues, but they are only human too and they have them also. Put energy in yourself and hopefully you will meet the right person in your life.

  • @aldamendes5024
    @aldamendes5024 3 года назад +12

    I do remember when I went to Monaco, my narcissist friend was always calling to check on me! Those insects 🐜 will always be around us to kill us mentally! They are here to destroy us.

  • @dreambeliever3652
    @dreambeliever3652 2 года назад +3

    Narcissist: tears if down everyone’s building in order to have the tallest.
    They are miserable creatures!
    I’ve seen these traits over and over again. Truthful video rt here

  • @catlady6938
    @catlady6938 3 года назад +61

    Thank you Clarice, another good video. My ex told me he wanted my life! He did not like me being happy with friends or family, he never even pretended to be happy, maybe in the beginning during the love bombing stage, but when the mask fell he was very childlike and always miserable and ranting about something. There was always a drama usually of his own making and he thrived on that.

  • @danmcdonald8522
    @danmcdonald8522 3 года назад +11

    The narc is a broken person and when they're left to do what they want they will do what ever makes them feel good they are hedonistic and are only here to please themselves so look out because they are unstoppable if it feels good then that's what they want and you don't need to know about it because you don't matter move on God bless

  • @rmmn7
    @rmmn7 3 года назад +34

    some narcissists though they dont believe in God.
    . yet its certain some narcissists believe in something. this gives them power. this is an evil power they have within and they have faith in it.

    • @ardent9422
      @ardent9422 3 года назад +15

      Some narcissists are deeply wrapped up in God, they use knowledge of God and the bible to put themselves above others. They claim no one knows the word of God better than them or they feel God will enact vengeance on their behalf, like a personal hitman.

    • @jessoftherocks
      @jessoftherocks 3 года назад +6

      Its the "i was created this way" justification for the bejavior and trail of bodies they leave behind them.

    • @rmmn7
      @rmmn7 3 года назад +5

      one aged female narcissist when asked why she have been doing mischief in others lives. she replied.. every person has different natures. so in this way she justified her narcissistic behaviours.

    • @Tony-dh
      @Tony-dh 3 года назад +4

      Satan believes he is equal to God.
      My ex when she left scoffed at me about God and what sin i was committing with her. I was lost for words, she was right about the sin.
      My gift is whenever i am with a person, mainly females, their demons always show themselves.
      Its like a curse i thought.
      But i will definitely know if they have none, for any future girlfriend i meet.

    • @gabrielamartiniuc6322
      @gabrielamartiniuc6322 3 года назад +10

      They embody the narcissistic characteristics of the devil.

  • @barbarawaddell-steele3603
    @barbarawaddell-steele3603 3 года назад +24

    All things are possible in Christ. Even in dealing effectively with a narcissist.

    • @willowwhite7196
      @willowwhite7196 3 года назад +5

      Oh yes. No contact with them is the best way to deal with them.

    • @ronfirek5824
      @ronfirek5824 3 года назад +4

      Yes the bible states clearly to avoid.......
      BLESSINGS

    • @goldilocks3593
      @goldilocks3593 3 года назад +3

      Turn away from evil - is what the Bible clearly instructs us to do. God may be able to reach them - or not. I had the very clear impression the last narcissist person I knew was here to collect souls for his master. And nowhere near finished yet.

    • @ronfirek5824
      @ronfirek5824 3 года назад +2

      Yes.....if you are niaeve you would not know what to look for because NARCISSISTS ARE con artists and completely opposite of what they pretend!
      They are so kind bit in reality are truly profoundly evil out to destroy anyone who walks in their path.
      My beautiful kind cousin, ( both taught at western university) married one and he ultimately destroyed her.
      She was intelligent but didn't understand that there was such an evil person in her private life.
      No one that is innocent would understand.....it is hard to fathom that such evil surrounds us.
      I suggest everyone be very careful today because NARCISSISTS are awaiting everywhere to entrap the innocent into their misery and take them down with pure evil.
      Narcissists are immoral with nothing good about them....so don't be so kind.
      BLESSINGS

    • @ronfirek5824
      @ronfirek5824 3 года назад +3

      @@goldilocks3593 believe they are Satan's children here get as many as they can for their god Satan, the father of lies.
      BLESSINGS

  • @sheiladay9775
    @sheiladay9775 3 года назад +31

    Your understanding of narcissistic personalities is brilliant. I am sure you have saved the lives of many people who have left these kinds of relationships, or realized they should stay away from these kinds of people because of your ability to share your awareness of the dangers of even interacting with them. Thank you so much!

    • @ExposingtheNarcissist
      @ExposingtheNarcissist  3 года назад +1

      You are very welcome Sheila.🙏

    • @okgirl64
      @okgirl64 2 года назад +1

      Thank you.. I'm struggling today with fatigue and headache...

  • @yosmeryjimenez4729
    @yosmeryjimenez4729 3 года назад +24

    Everything you’ve mentioned is exactly how it is. I do believe it is a curse and that it has to do a lot with being influenced by bad spirits and that if it’s not broken by the GRACE and POWER of our almighty God, these people will continue to pass this same behavior from generation to generation like the Bible says. I know for a fact and experience that in most cases at least one of parents of a narcissistic person is also narcissist themselves.

  • @abowling5759
    @abowling5759 3 года назад +9

    Very helpful to understand why narcissists behave the way they do, specifically why your happiness and contentment offends them.

  • @stacymcclure3531
    @stacymcclure3531 2 года назад +2

    This is the part that makes it so darn hard to let go of the one afflicted with narcissism. I happen to love the man I hv been dealing with & I know his abusive & neglectful child hood that has caused much of this in him. The flip side is that when his bad side comes out I want to flip him upside down & scream at him that he needs a hospital or rehab facility but he doesn’t see anything wrong with him!!!!

  • @elijahcharles9951
    @elijahcharles9951 3 года назад +7

    I have experience all these behaviors personally. This interpretation is pure prophecy. When the scripture says this is not a war of flesh and blood but of principalities they are the demons they send out to perform all of the evils of the world.

  • @gaytor10
    @gaytor10 2 года назад +9

    Thank you soooo much! I have thought, observed and experienced everything you talked about, and I have finally reached my peak... they don't live up to their promises, and can't be trusted, no matter how much you love them. They don't accept responsibility, only place blame on everyone else!

  • @ginamendez7758
    @ginamendez7758 3 года назад +39

    They are chronically miserable people they want their own way they’re inflexible….it’s true what you’re saying u cannot change a narcissistic personality disorder or even make them happy ….they would never admit their fault no matter how I try for my ex narc to take accountability he will always blame me for everything…
    Ms Clarice your video is amazing u r always 💯% on POINT 🙏Thanks immensely I genuinely appreciate your efforts in making this video …. You’re a ⭐️ 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟Ms Clarice n a wonderful Coach thank you 🌹❤️🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️❤️❤️🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️❤️❤️🌹❤️❤️enjoy the rest of your Weekend 👍👍👍👍

  • @thoughtfulone8312
    @thoughtfulone8312 3 года назад +9

    Thanks for the video. Remind me that I'm divorcing a sick individual that I can not have pitty on. One day he will be mean and the next he is so apologetic
    So indecisive, drives me nuts.

  • @Cmac1328
    @Cmac1328 2 года назад +4

    Your comments on the use of “humor” is spot on. It’s abuse. I referred to my BPD/NPD as a sarcastic bully at one point. I got a histrionic discarding response because it was spot on and she knew it. They use off-hand “humorous” (to them) comments to control and suppress those around them…and if anyone pushes back, they can claim “I was just kidding…I joke…I’m just teasing…etc”. It’s all a method of making their targets for supply feel “less than”.

    • @deepasuresh9270
      @deepasuresh9270 2 года назад

      Yes, its abuse through love, of course!!

  • @jimbougard8560
    @jimbougard8560 2 года назад +8

    I have been learning everything I can about narcissism for the past four years. This has been the most insightful and helpful videos I've seen.

    • @zandatee
      @zandatee Год назад

      for me its 2 mounths since I dsiscovered the topic. And it feels like 2 years. Its so intense.

  • @lorrainemarcone6912
    @lorrainemarcone6912 3 года назад +10

    Extremely insightful video. Spot on. There is no reason under God to envy a narcissist!

  • @suelos2948
    @suelos2948 3 года назад +13

    I was involved with a narcissist for 30 years until I finally found out what narcissist was and I broke it off for good but thank you for all the insight... I've been watching you a lot to understand further...

    • @binumary3554
      @binumary3554 2 года назад +5

      Same here,30 years of endurance and finally managed to run away

  • @Ian140265
    @Ian140265 3 года назад +21

    Thank you Clarice, I am tired today because it has been a busy day with various problems. Just wanted to say I think it is possible for a narcissist to repent and actually become a decent person. I think it is very rare maybe about a few percent of all narcissists. I think if the narcissistic collapse can go on a very long time I think the narcissist can finally become aware that he or she needs to create their own energy just to survive a long term collapse. I also think they have to turn to God through Jesus Christ that they might receive the Grace of God to such an extent where they can finally have victory over their narcissism. Love in Christ Jesus.

    • @ruthgayle3936
      @ruthgayle3936 3 года назад +3

      This statement deserves an Academy award.👍👍👍👍👍

    • @dorothysmith7226
      @dorothysmith7226 2 года назад +5

      I BELIEVE ITS THEIR ONLY HOPE!!

    • @kitana3977
      @kitana3977 2 года назад +7

      I was a narc and I am slowly changing. First I myself had to get sick and tired of my hurtful behaviour. Than I had to confess publicly my evil nature and lastly I made a conscious decision to put to death that evil person in me and surrender all to a new identity living in me by faith and daily application of renewing my mind in an actual spiritual relationship with the God who created and saved me. He only can change the heart. Praise His Holy name!

  • @b4ned
    @b4ned 3 года назад +6

    I've watched many of these Narcissist videos...this one is the most useful

  • @artsimulation
    @artsimulation 3 года назад +5

    Going back some years I once worked with a fellow designer and from what i have learned from your channel I am pretty sure he was a narcissist. Every day he would make fun of me, especially in social settings like at lunch time in the canteen. It got so bad that I decided to start eating at a cafe instead. After a while he went and complained to our manager that he thought I was being "unsociable." So I was called into a meeting with my manager who ordered me to return to eating at the canteen with the rest of the designers. And so once again he would make fun of me and ridicule me while sat at the table full of other designers and managers. Usually about 15 people were on that table.
    One day I had bought an average used car - a Mitzubishi Lancer. And now this was going to be the new source of ridicule because he had a sports car. So, half way through lunch he starts talking to one of the other designers; "Hey Joe what car do you have? "A Mercedes" He replied.
    "Oh nice car. What is your opinion of a Mitzubishi Galant?" he asked. It was at that point that I realised he was setting me up to be ridiculed over my car.
    "What? Er no opinion really"
    "Yes but do you think Mitzubishi Galant is worth having" He insisted. To which the designer replied; "Well Im not in to Japanese cars."
    My colleague then went around the table asking more of the designers and managers their opinion of a Mitsubishi Galant. It was clear that they were a little perplexed as to why he was so interested. Then came the attack. Hey Art, what is your opinion of a Miztubish Galant? But I was ready. I had noticed that he was reffering to a Mitzubishi Galant - but my car was a Miztubishis Lancer. They look similar but the size is different. So I replied; "Yeah not a great car at all. It is a bit bulky and uses too much petrol for my liking" I said. The whole table was silent listening to my answer.
    "Er but I'm confused Art, dont' you own a Mitzubishi Galant?"" He said wuth a confused expression.
    "No, mine is a Miztubishi Lancer" I replied.
    Well the entire table erupted with laughter- "He got you back there Phil" shouted one of the mangers.
    It was the one and only time I ever did to him what he had constantly been doing for me for the last 3 years and he took it really really badly. After that things got worse and I ended up leaving for another job. Just before I left the manager apologised to me for how I had been treated and told that; the same thing had happened to several other designers before me who had all resigned.

    • @ExposingtheNarcissist
      @ExposingtheNarcissist  3 года назад +4

      Why would they allow this person to keep driving people away?
      He clearly felt threatened by you and the others. They are just as bad for allowing this to continue.
      I am glad you are out of that situation now.

    • @ExposingtheNarcissist
      @ExposingtheNarcissist  3 года назад +1

      Also please see this video. ruclips.net/video/tL9M5AegmPU/видео.html

    • @artsimulation
      @artsimulation 3 года назад +2

      @@ExposingtheNarcissist I forgot to mention that his uncle was on the board of directors so I think managers were frightened of interfering for fear of reprisal. Corporate culture is not a friendly environment I'm afraid. This was a long time ago and I work for myself now.
      I admit it was a tough period as I felt I had no one to go to for help. I was just baffled as to why he targeted me. He was really brutal. One day he came in and told me that his best friend from school had told him that he no longer wanted him in his life. He looked me in the eye and asked: "Why would he do that, we've been friends for years?"
      He seemed to have no idea how brutal he was.
      I will watch the video - appreciate the reply. Great work you are doing by the way- I have subscribed.

  • @cooloften
    @cooloften 3 года назад +21

    You've truly exposed them with this video!

    • @5Luckyducky
      @5Luckyducky 3 года назад +3

      @Sanju
      Yes she did. 👍🏽

  • @surfshack2
    @surfshack2 3 года назад +13

    I'm pissed for what the narcissist did to me. Sometimes i think she is lucky she is dead because if she were still alive at some point I would have done something. I don't know what but what she caused still doesn't sit well with me at all. I wish i never met the devil. I was very content and doing ok in my life before that demon showed up.
    The crazy thing is is that they are so blinded by their own selfishness i don't even think they know the havoc they cause to people's lives...or a better answer would be that they know the havoc they cause they just can't stop. They cause problems and instead of leaving well enough alone they have to take it further until something or someone gets hurt.

    • @givegodthanks
      @givegodthanks 3 года назад +5

      I agree with you, that's how I feel it's been 3 years and I still can't get over the hurt and the disrespect my narc causes me. Not even death can give closure from the pain I understand.

    • @surfshack2
      @surfshack2 3 года назад +4

      @@givegodthanks Yep, mine was a psycho. More than likely a BPD/NPD mix. Very dangerous. Mine really f** my head up because i was blinded by her attractiveness. Never again.

    • @givegodthanks
      @givegodthanks 3 года назад +6

      @@surfshack2 😊 same here, they will Roth in hell. We will be OK it's a learning lesson but lord I'm too old to be learning that lesson my poor 42 year heart can't take it. But I feel better with no contact going on 3 years now.

    • @UnluckyGirl81
      @UnluckyGirl81 2 года назад +1

      @@surfshack2 I was just curious as to how your narc died. Some of them seem to always be sickly...

    • @surfshack2
      @surfshack2 2 года назад +2

      @@UnluckyGirl81 Liver failure, cirrhosis of the liver from alcohol and taking prescription xanax for too many years and not eating.

  • @kaymuldoon3575
    @kaymuldoon3575 3 года назад +23

    Thank you, Clarice. This is so true in regards to my neighbor and former friend, who is a communal narcissist. She also struggles with major depressive disorder and anxiety. After I ended our 12 year long friendship last year, I can tell she has been going through a lot of depressive episodes. I know this because I almost never see her outside in her yard gardening, which is normally one of her favorite activities. When she’s not doing well, we never see her outside.
    Too bad, she brings every bit of her sadness and depression upon herself. As you said, this is the narcissist’s karma…their own self inflected misery.

  • @teapot1991
    @teapot1991 3 года назад +7

    100% true..Great video. You could be describing my sister in law. She has wrecked havoc on our once close family. Obviously nothing is her fault. I have always said she lives in fear of being exposed. One day her enablers and flying monkeys will see her for what she is when her mask falls.

  • @roscluaran
    @roscluaran 3 года назад +46

    Brilliant video as always. Everything in this video is the truth.

  • @riyaabdul4810
    @riyaabdul4810 3 года назад +4

    Omg so true I am in this relationship since past 22 years and it is 💯 true and I am done with this relationship even though I still love him😢

  • @tootienottoofruitie1726
    @tootienottoofruitie1726 3 года назад +23

    Well, they look human but they are NOT ❗🐍

  • @jolly7728
    @jolly7728 3 года назад +18

    An excellent narrative. This vid does a great job of casting the mental state of narcissists in a form that's easy to process. The narcissist I have to associate with has every neurodivergent trait I've ever heard described -- every single one in the cluster B category and more, including the Dark Triad. There are also some characteristics present that I’m sure I don't know much about. Never seen such a screwed up person in my life (she thought she was the famous actress Marilyn M-n-o-). So sad. Just about every bad behavior imaginable seems to stick like glue. It's almost as if the person wants to have as many curses as possible to alleviate the never ending boredom - as if being a high functioning malignant narcissist isn’t enough! It's painful seeing another human being suffer such torment with no end in sight. Your video gave me a much needed perspective on the tragic life narcissists live.

    • @rmmn7
      @rmmn7 3 года назад +6

      the narcissist mind is a very complex thing. a michievous mind.

    • @catelutasmarandache8306
      @catelutasmarandache8306 2 года назад +1

      they know very well what they are doing and they are doing it on purpose, and God gives them the chance to be saved through Christ the Lord but they will not, they reject the light because they like the darkness. well, so whatever fate is fully deserved, beware of kidnappers on the internet are sharks who use magic to discover wounded and vulnerable souls like sharks feel the blood

    • @jolly7728
      @jolly7728 2 года назад +2

      @@catelutasmarandache8306 Everything you've mentioned is completely accurate. One of my NA's (narc associates) is a devout churchgoer and avid reader of religious books, but not the Bible. She even informed me she doesn't believe in selected Bible scriptures, especially when it comes to marriage.
      The lady regularly closes the curtains and drapes during the day and has stated that she enjoys the darkness, and her bed covers are also black. The things I've seen her do might fill a book since she takes every word and action her targets says or performs as a cue to sabotage, ridicule, insult, and discourage them.
      I've never seen her give a true smile. But she's the opposite in public because she craves attention.
      Yet, every minute of every day, I become stronger and closer to God, His Son, and the Holy Spirit, and my bountiful blessings/successes enrage this extremely jealous and egotistical individual even more. "Don't obsess (about the narc). Focus on success," a mantra borrowered from another channel.

  • @carolbanks960
    @carolbanks960 3 года назад +7

    And they will never admit it it's very sad

  • @andrewlee5848
    @andrewlee5848 2 года назад +2

    Thank you 💕 Clarice... I'm a Survivor... Blessings! Praise the Most High!

  • @bvictorian12
    @bvictorian12 2 года назад +4

    Yep mine lived a fake life… namebrand clothes, makeup, soooo many selfies, luxury apartments… yet had bad credit, wasn’t as stable as me, and also copied me and other ppl. Also, very weird and seemed like she had a hard time figuring out her identity. Always talked about someone being broke but I felt like she was too.

  • @Mocheesemoeugene
    @Mocheesemoeugene 3 года назад +6

    "Their DILLUSION is Their Downfall." BLEZZ#KEEP DA CHANGE.

  • @christopherharper6229
    @christopherharper6229 2 года назад +5

    I know a Narcissist in my circle of friends. I know it's a strong word and it's wrong to use, but I hate him with passion. All he has ever done is make everyones lives a misery, it got to the point that I walked away from that circle of friends and haven't spoke to any of them for two or three years. He has every single trait of a grandiose narc and it shows really bad, he can't hide because he has a drink problem and when drunk it amplifies all his Narcissistic symptoms!!

  • @muskokamike127
    @muskokamike127 3 года назад +5

    "never content with what they have" my ex went out to Ikea and bought a dozen new prints for her house and replaced all the ones she had hanging on her walls. She also replaced all her daily use cutlery. Other than the ones I lost in a move, I'd still have the same cutlery I bought when I first moved out of my parents house 40 years ago lol.

  • @bebe8842
    @bebe8842 3 года назад +7

    One of the best videos on who narcissists really are, briefly explained.
    Thank you! 🧠❤

  • @ramsesosiris292
    @ramsesosiris292 2 года назад +2

    This overview let me look at my ex narc on a whole new level..Thank you .I knew she was crazy and a empty shell of a human when I left her..Now I know she' is doomed everyday..GOD IS GOOD ..ALL PRAISE TO THE MIST HIGH.BLESSINGS I SEND TO THEE.

  • @hubertmantz1516
    @hubertmantz1516 3 года назад +7

    I grew up with so many in my life especially family members i sometimes wonder how I’ve managed to maintain my sanity!?

  • @peterknyk1942
    @peterknyk1942 3 года назад +26

    Thank you Clarice! Finding the right key to unlock the truth about narcissistic behavior is so difficult! Today you gave me a brand new key to use and I am so grateful! This was and is a wonderful video! 💙

  • @aldamendes5024
    @aldamendes5024 3 года назад +11

    My so called ex friend is expected to get what she deserves! I know that she is suffering because she really abused me like nobody else and she will pay for it!

  • @mov1ngforward
    @mov1ngforward 3 года назад +3

    The one downstairs from me is 90 years old...absolutely pathetic. She's 24/7 with her antics...I am starting to enjoy the show, she's getting louder and more people are watching her.

  • @RickLoconto
    @RickLoconto 3 года назад +3

    Perfect description of a Narcissist 👍

  • @MsStephanieJane32
    @MsStephanieJane32 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for this insight; I understand the narcissistic cycle and mindset so much better now!❤️😍💖💜💖💙

  • @lauraJa777
    @lauraJa777 3 года назад +5

    That was a very good video. I've watched a lot of NPD vids and have read a dozen books, but your vids are straight to the point, true and sad.
    I always wondered why, when ever I was happy, "he" would ruin my happiness. Now I know!

  • @poonamsadhna4967
    @poonamsadhna4967 3 года назад +4

    Very well explain, it's very clear they are totally like this, nothing can be done even if u want to help them☹️

  • @karenblueford8
    @karenblueford8 Год назад +2

    I totally AGREE 💯 on this Video, because I seen this happen with the narcissist that's why I gotta away, because they are evil to,and immature .

  • @vanjagcaoili3712
    @vanjagcaoili3712 3 года назад +2

    Poor lost souls (hell-bound). They don't know their Creator and their purpose in life. They need to meditate on Psalms 23.

  • @ten2269
    @ten2269 3 года назад +3

    Mine even told me, "I'm my own worse enemy"..I didn't understand why until now. I prayed she gets professional help. I don't even want to think about if she doesn't. I prayed for her family. They have seen her behavior her whole life, and laugh about it like it's a joke. It's not a joke, she has crumbled plenty of guys, but that's ok I guess. In some years from now, they will laugh at her behavior and what it has costed her, bc I guess that's laughable too. Enough is enough.

  • @wendywhite4929
    @wendywhite4929 2 года назад +1

    Feels great to hold him accountable

  • @christopherwoodward806
    @christopherwoodward806 2 года назад +3

    Thank you Clarice, another great video affirming everything. It saddens me though because even now I keep hoping that all the character traits and actions are only coincidental and she really isn’t like this. My heart wishes that it wasn’t so but my head knows the truth. I would have given everything but it was never enough. All the time abandoning me and looking around for more and more, safe in the knowledge that she could click her fingers and I would be back when she was bored. I am so disappointed, I really believed that we would spend our last years together, despite everything I still cannot find myself being attracted to anyone else it is really as though I am bewitched.

    • @ExposingtheNarcissist
      @ExposingtheNarcissist  2 года назад +1

      Interesting you should use that word 'bewitched' it is something I mentioned in a video I have just finished editing for next week. Please also see this video ruclips.net/video/7ATGlMXUEhI/видео.html

    • @patvass3019
      @patvass3019 2 года назад +3

      Christopher, I believe there is definitely some bewitching that goes on. My experience was very unusual and when I started learning about narcissism and discovered much sought-after answers, I found it very sad and confounding. Someone I loved so completely wasn't real. He was actually someone I would want to avoid like the plague, but love him I did. So bizarre to realize I gave genuine love to nothing, a made-up character. For years now I've been free of it, thank God, but still appreciate a wonderful refresher from Clarice! I've found great comfort in honoring my ability to love and care deeply for others, unlike narcissists who are consumed with malevolence.

    • @christopherwoodward806
      @christopherwoodward806 2 года назад +2

      @@patvass3019 Thank you for your comment. Yes it is sad, horrible, disappointing, heartbreaking but also confusing. It is confusing because although I still love her with all my heart, soul and every fibre of my being I don’t know what it is that I love. All the experiences, moments and memories are just fiction. I am in love with something that doesn’t exist in real life and it is so hard to get my head around this.

  • @johnpaul2285
    @johnpaul2285 3 года назад +8

    Thank you sweet Clarice Peace and blessings to you

  • @cristoprimero1478
    @cristoprimero1478 3 года назад +11

    I was married to a Narc! Thank God I am no longer involved with this guy!!

  • @johnolson5429
    @johnolson5429 2 года назад +1

    Thank you very much for sharing your knowledge love! I’m a very empathic person who seems to be Velcro to narcissists as I seem to be a target for their rage, manipulation and attempts to control someone. I believe I’ve had about 4 women in my life as romantic pursuits, my children’s mother, a girlfriend, another girlfriend and I married this last one and the and I do believe all of them are possessed by demonic entities. The mother of my son and daughter seems to have a legion of demons and one of the girlfriends I’m sure had at least one and probably some severe mental distortions and disabilities. The other girlfriend I’m sure had at least one high ranking demon because she could absolutely crush you with a few words and combine that with narcissistic rage and I would feel like I had been run over by a train. Then she would stop communicating for a day or two or a week or two and the thing is that these evil things they do are supposedly never their fault but rather mine. I would break up with her and then she would beg her way back and give a very convincing performance that she had a change of heart and she would put on that show for a week or so and sometimes only for a few days until I lowered my defenses and then I was an easy target for her to attack again! The abuse was severe! This last one whom I married and have video court at the end of this month to divorce because I will give someone every reasonable chance to redeem themselves when I’m in a relationship with them, she was mostly sweet to me for about a year with only occasional outbursts of rage and then when I asked her to start working to help out with expenses she turned her hate switch on and left it on.(For the first year I was paying for everything except when she got some money from a settlement and the time she sold some jewelry) I couldn’t even get her to be honest with me and she lied even when I would tell her that I know she’s lying to me and then go into a rage or the silent treatment and act like I’m not even present! The hate, the lies, the manipulation. They all use expressions which are exactly what the other ones say which indicates to me that it’s like 3 or four cars that are being driven by the same person or in this case people being controlled by the same dark, evil and corrupt forces or entities! Demonic entities!

  • @Mocheesemoeugene
    @Mocheesemoeugene 3 года назад +3

    This video is definitely one of Liberation for the empath & at the same time ; a heavy heart towardsthe narcissist that has no hope.BLEZZ#KEEP DA CHANGE.

  • @samuelsurbrook1428
    @samuelsurbrook1428 3 года назад +10

    This video was spot on. Thank you so much Clarice.

  • @davidslocum9536
    @davidslocum9536 3 года назад +12

    Clarisse, I look forward to your videos. They're always on point and you just keep getting better. Keep up the good work. You're helping people. ♥️

  • @jennysue9131
    @jennysue9131 3 года назад +2

    Theres so much more true life horrific NARC stories I have endured in these 2 yrs with him. But here is just one.
    It was weird how his family & him seems almost cult like. & he is always extremely defensive concerning them..especially his leader of the pack very NARC mom..
    His family always totally excuses & approves anything he does. They never blame him. And he does same with them. They justify anything each other does. He is like their movie star. They totally enable him. He also definately seemed to idolize his 10 yr daughter who he only was allowed dual visits every 2 wks when she visted his mom. He kept bragging to his daughter over & over telling her how she was just like he was when he was her age & even how she is "just like him now" also. It was almost like he was trying to live his childhood again through her like she is his trophy/ possession not a daughter. I feel sorry for her because I kept seeing her actually get more like him with each visit. She has to take medication's already at her age to even be able to attend school.
    I havent heard videos how narcs & their family are extremely close to each other as his family & him are. This was another big part of the literal hell I went through!. They were very cruel & mean bullies to me.
    And he would tell me it was my fault not theirs.
    And they all are really very happy now knowing how deeply hurt I have been since he totally disapeared & abandoned me & went back to them.
    But little do they know I feel real sorry for all of them. They can't be too intelligent to not face the reality they cant keep hurting vulnerable people with no bad consequences. There's a God who sees it all & they will reap what they sow..someday.
    But I have to admit at this stage of the 7wks without narc
    I am still praying for him. Because it helps me better than allowing myself to be angry & other bad feelings.This is the only way I can deal with all this
    right here/right now.

  • @sheilabradshaw7540
    @sheilabradshaw7540 Год назад +1

    My Narc husband always had to be doing something. He never can relax and enjoy just sitting still. We’ve been separated 4 months and I am enjoying being able to relax and not have to be constantly running. 30 years marriage wore me out and my health was beginning to be affected. CPTSD, depression, migraine headaches, IBS, thyroid issues.

  • @grantaugustyniak6667
    @grantaugustyniak6667 Год назад +1

    Everyone has a choice to do the right thing in life - some folks have physical injury & some emotional injury. It’s up to them to make that decision wether to keep themselves in this cycle of unhappiness their entire life or not. The thing that folks around them need to do is - DO NOT let them bring you down to their level of misery.

  • @normasantana8239
    @normasantana8239 2 года назад +2

    Wow! Again well said! Luv luv!
    Especially...your ways with words! Great Job!! And so true!

  • @badjoj015
    @badjoj015 2 года назад +2

    the narcissist whom i left and used to be with, is tryna pretend their life is great and awesome on social media. when i know them enough that they are absolutely not happy.

  • @oleleewahjahlawze60
    @oleleewahjahlawze60 3 года назад +4

    I will always love 💖, Clarisse .Your podcast inspire me to lift my head higher not to tremble in fear before these demons.

  • @jayla1968
    @jayla1968 3 года назад +16

    I would hate to be narc.i feel bad for them i believe they got it worse than us. At least we will get better. They never will and they got to do to much to be a narcissist. That's wayyyyyyy to much for me.

    • @tootienottoofruitie1726
      @tootienottoofruitie1726 3 года назад +8

      I do not feel sorry for them... This action on my part sets me free🕊️

    • @rmmn7
      @rmmn7 3 года назад +3

      feeling sorry for some narcissists could be a plus point for some narcissists to get encouragement to be more mischievous .

    • @tootienottoofruitie1726
      @tootienottoofruitie1726 3 года назад +3

      @@rmmn7 yeah any feeling on your part is Narcissistic supply... I MO

    • @jayla1968
      @jayla1968 3 года назад +3

      @@rmmn7 no im actually being sarcastic saying I feel sorry for them trust me its not in a a good way

    • @rmmn7
      @rmmn7 3 года назад +1

      @@jayla1968 ohh😀

  • @rhondacooper7957
    @rhondacooper7957 3 года назад +4

    Thank God I got away from my ex narcissist boyfriend 🙏🏾

  • @malaniadoo4731
    @malaniadoo4731 3 года назад +3

    This video is adding mor energy fr me wich I lost in 30 yrs with this demon im living with..just really enjoying it

  • @leanita7549
    @leanita7549 3 года назад +7

    An excellent digest. Thank you

  • @lindsay5348
    @lindsay5348 3 года назад +9

    Thank you .. you described my moms husband and my sisters boyfriend 😳

  • @nicky9148
    @nicky9148 3 года назад +2

    Whatever good might have once been there...it has been long dead & gone.

  • @ntombifuthiyika5975
    @ntombifuthiyika5975 3 года назад +43

    Narcissists are not cursed. They are doomed. When Adam and Eve sinned, God cursed the snake and the ground.

    • @mikewallis2987
      @mikewallis2987 3 года назад

      God made the snake and subjected man to inequity according to scripture.

    • @jasonstone8222
      @jasonstone8222 3 года назад

      You ever sinned?

    • @ntombifuthiyika5975
      @ntombifuthiyika5975 3 года назад +6

      @@mikewallis2987
      The devil presented God as a narcissist to angels and a 3rd of angels believed the devil. If God had destroyed the devil it would have proven the devil was true so God gave men freewill so they can choose. Some believe God's truth and some believe the devil's lies.
      Those who believe the devil's lies choose eternal damnation.

    • @sherrydrake9578
      @sherrydrake9578 3 года назад +1

      Nonsense biblical mumbo jumbo.

    • @ntombifuthiyika5975
      @ntombifuthiyika5975 3 года назад +2

      @@sherrydrake9578
      Got you to comment didn't it? That's how it is. It penetrates the intelligent.

  • @theartzscientist8012
    @theartzscientist8012 Год назад +1

    I was the joke of our home. Even after I divorced, my adult children still disrespect me. This is a major issue after leaving with victims. The children wanted us to stay.

  • @marka.8535
    @marka.8535 3 года назад +2

    My soon to be ex wife covert narc never has physical energy; she’s close to her ideal weight but she really has limited energy; on my worst days I run circles around her. She is never happy, optimistic or kind. It’s truly pathetic.

    • @markbentink3808
      @markbentink3808 3 года назад +1

      Mark hi hope OK & ask about any info you can give me advice on this emotional crash that I have heard that a person goes through after the discard because I have been learning for 3 years that I am not crazy & because l have been not showing much emotional reactions it has done that switch in her head only weeks away from having to leave family home feeling nervous about this crash

  • @heathermixson1265
    @heathermixson1265 2 года назад +2

    I needed this reminder today....thank you 💝

  • @nabilhijazi6131
    @nabilhijazi6131 3 года назад +4

    Awesome video, very educational & helpful indeed

  • @JD-ou2xr
    @JD-ou2xr 2 года назад +1

    This is very helpful. God bless your channel ❤️❤️❤️

  • @carriedillmann4455
    @carriedillmann4455 3 года назад +2

    You are so true!!!