as a teenager, i do not understand teenagers (and people who steal for no good reason (especially "for fun") are the worst, like i get stealing if you're desperate, but it isn't a cool thing to do)
1) It may be that they're afraid of social consequences for expressing themselves, but hopefully it's because they choose another way to express themselves and just want their clothing to blend in rather than stick out. 2) This probably isn't most of the people you're talking about, but I'm a non-passing trans woman and every time I have to use a public restroom I have to make a choice between humiliating myself or risking making others uncomfortable, both of which I hate doing. So in practice I only use gendered public restrooms if it's an emergency. 3) The iPhone business model is built in part on peer pressure: when two iPhones message each other, the messages come up in a different color and have more features than when an iPhone and Android message each other. Some people are really bothered by this, so they judge people who use Android. 4) Teens steal a lot because they want to rebel against authority but have enough empathy to know which crimes will hurt someone directly and which won't. Also, they're usually broke. I think hanging out in odd places has just always been a teenager thing; I know I did it as a kid but I don't really know why.
lmao the bathroom thing yeah, i was just so socially anxious when i did that. hearing you talk about it reminded me how irrational it is. though that’s how anxiety disorders work, you know it’s irrational you just cannot stop. it gets better though 😊
With the bathroom thing for me it’s not about ppl judging me but about the fact that hundreds of ppl have sat on that toilet seat and it’s so unhygienic I’d rather go in bushes lol
If I had extra hours in London I would go shopping for vintage and/or antique pins & jewelry... I like the touch that older crafted pieces add to my outfits. I hope your show is a good one.
at one of the high schools i went to, the girls would immediately turn the hand dryers on before they’d go into the stall to do their business. like i understand wanting noise if you’re about to nuke the toilet, but they’d do it for everything, it was so weird 🥴
That's something i also always ask myself! Some even ask : what tattoo should i get...? I mean...REALLY? A TATTOO is something that's PERMANENT ON YOUR BODY. A VERY , VERY (!) personal thing! And you ask STRANGERS? I mean...NO! I was always someone with a very unique personal style, since my teens, never followed fashion or other kids- IF there was something i liked of fashion i was wearing it but you know, kind of MIXED with my VERY OWN "new romantic" or "punky new wave"-style, so it became unique. I could NEVER do what OTHERS tell me, not even ppl who are my love ones....So , i think these kids of today all wanna look the same and what they do is all just for attention. Not EVERYBODY of course but those who ask something stupid like this!-BTW, i LOVE your vlog, i'm not a long time sub so i'll read it now "backwards" and lookin' out for your new ones. You look beautyful, nice clothes, make up and everything. I like people who are THEMSELVES! Greetings from Hungary / Europe!
as a teenager, i do not understand teenagers (and people who steal for no good reason (especially "for fun") are the worst, like i get stealing if you're desperate, but it isn't a cool thing to do)
1) It may be that they're afraid of social consequences for expressing themselves, but hopefully it's because they choose another way to express themselves and just want their clothing to blend in rather than stick out.
2) This probably isn't most of the people you're talking about, but I'm a non-passing trans woman and every time I have to use a public restroom I have to make a choice between humiliating myself or risking making others uncomfortable, both of which I hate doing. So in practice I only use gendered public restrooms if it's an emergency.
3) The iPhone business model is built in part on peer pressure: when two iPhones message each other, the messages come up in a different color and have more features than when an iPhone and Android message each other. Some people are really bothered by this, so they judge people who use Android.
4) Teens steal a lot because they want to rebel against authority but have enough empathy to know which crimes will hurt someone directly and which won't. Also, they're usually broke. I think hanging out in odd places has just always been a teenager thing; I know I did it as a kid but I don't really know why.
lmao the bathroom thing yeah, i was just so socially anxious when i did that. hearing you talk about it reminded me how irrational it is. though that’s how anxiety disorders work, you know it’s irrational you just cannot stop. it gets better though 😊
With the bathroom thing for me it’s not about ppl judging me but about the fact that hundreds of ppl have sat on that toilet seat and it’s so unhygienic I’d rather go in bushes lol
If I had extra hours in London I would go shopping for vintage and/or antique pins & jewelry... I like the touch that older crafted pieces add to my outfits. I hope your show is a good one.
I get you
I'm old and I take a pee,then all the other women holding it in start peeing, letting me drown out their sounds🤣🤣🤣
I dig your videos
at one of the high schools i went to, the girls would immediately turn the hand dryers on before they’d go into the stall to do their business. like i understand wanting noise if you’re about to nuke the toilet, but they’d do it for everything, it was so weird 🥴
That's something i also always ask myself! Some even ask : what tattoo should i get...? I mean...REALLY? A TATTOO is something that's PERMANENT ON YOUR BODY. A VERY , VERY (!) personal thing! And you ask STRANGERS? I mean...NO! I was always someone with a very unique personal style, since my teens, never followed fashion or other kids- IF there was something i liked of fashion i was wearing it but you know, kind of MIXED with my VERY OWN "new romantic" or "punky new wave"-style, so it became unique. I could NEVER do what OTHERS tell me, not even ppl who are my love ones....So , i think these kids of today all wanna look the same and what they do is all just for attention. Not EVERYBODY of course but those who ask something stupid like this!-BTW, i LOVE your vlog, i'm not a long time sub so i'll read it now "backwards" and lookin' out for your new ones. You look beautyful, nice clothes, make up and everything. I like people who are THEMSELVES! Greetings from Hungary / Europe!