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The fact that matt is berating her until she cries, all with a smile on his face really has true abuser vibes, horrifying, he was savoring every moment of that fight
Yes, this. He loses his empathy completely in situations like that. I would be more empathic than him even if my girlfriend had slept with somebody else, and i was walking away for real. Makes me scared for her if he ever starts suspecting something more serious than being the object of somebodys flirting, like what of he stars believing she cheated for some reason, what would he do?
Only reason she was crying was cause she was caught entertaining another man and in his eyes playing a game. Pretty typical of a lot of women(and men) and he’s smiling in an “are you kidding me?” type of way. It’s not hard to say “I appreciate the flattery, but that’s my man and you should talk to your fiancé. Then she goes out with the girls(put forth by the show I know), doesn’t text him, “Hey babe the girls are going out to the bar or club(w/e it was), I’ll let you know when I’m back”. That shows in his eyes that she is not there for a serious relationship and untrustworthy, but I applaud her for fighting for the relationship and admitting her faults. I think his actions are justified
I think people are really downplaying just how toxic Matt is and how scary he is. Huge huge red flags for abuse and DV and yet it was not addressed on the show at all.
Honestly. Nick and Vanessa were talking about when the show is going to get their first baby. Both Shayne and Matt have me thinking this show will have it's first murder long before that.
He really is very scary. I hope Colleen is ok. I wonder if her saying (SPOILER) yes was coerced, because she was afraid of what he’d do if she said no to him. He didn’t even take her hesitation very well at the aquarium. I know for the sake of the series all the couples went on fairly elaborated dates towards the wedding date, but even that date reminded me of the cycles of abuse. Incident, blame, elaborate apologies/ gifts, empty promises, more abuse.
I’m like a nervous “work out”er and there’s been times where having a serious conversation and I just start stretching or if it’s my boyfriend or close friend/mom I just start doing yoga 😂 It’s how I cope with too many emotions - but I’m also on the spectrum and can’t handle sitting still with a lot of stress. So I was like “OH NY GOD RAVEN JUST LIKE ME” And comments started rolling in like this and I’m like - Ohhhhh noooo 😂😂😂😂😂
I think she did the jumping jacks because she was not interested. I wouldn’t be interested in someone who just spoke about their childhood trauma for the first time with me instead of a therapist.
Same. I’d rather listen to him talk about ejaculation free orgasms while he uses eye drops than be around most of these people. Especially liars from this season…
If you haven’t you need to watch ‘I like to watch’ with Trixie and Katya, they react to that season and the infamous eye drop moment and it’s hilarious 😂
The fact that they still showed the dude putting the eyedrops in is what really kills me. I find that hilarious. Like they were not going to let him come off as a sensitive guy who would cry over a girl. Nah, show him as the kind of guy he actually is
I had to look this shit up because my girlfriend explained this as “the producers did him no favors” 😭 and wow I’m speechless he must have been a real POS to have this aired on TV
@@dunno6469 He was trying to hook them up with some water-works to make the show dramatic... and they filmed it on the DL and made him look like a weasel 😂 I'll never trust these showbiz types 😒
@@dukesheshou6801honestly if you’re mad enough to demean your fiancée you should be man enough to express that anger to all parties not just the woman. Sounds like Matt’s a huge pussy
Colleen's "flirting" with Cole was so incredibly benign. She was obviously just being nice and had no actual interest in Cole. Matt's severe overreaction and his unwillingness to let it go is a HUGE red flag. That guy is just scary.
BS. Benign my A hole.She said to his face she would have picked him in the "real world." I'm so sick of people (mostly women) taking sides with her and dogging Cole. She is 100% as guilty as him.
@@jeremysmith9694 Dude, that is not what she said at all. She never indicated that she would have picked Cole OVER Matt in the real world. She said that she would approach Cole at a bar in the real world, indicating that she also thought he was attractive. That's it. And it was obvious that she only said that to be nice, there was no actual desire on her part for Cole.
@@-NiamhWitch- I disagree. It was pretty obvious she had a lot of interest in him. She clearly wanted Cole. In fact, the only reason she didn't pick him in the pods was because he said she was shallow and dumped her first. The chemistry was definitely there at the pool. She could have easily shut that conversation down just like Raven did to Bartise, but she chose not to. Stop acting like she's blameless.
@@jeremysmith9694 You're welcome to your incorrect view of her level of interest in Cole, lol. 😂 The only thing I *will* agree with you on is that she is not blameless. I never said she was. She certainly should not have engaged in the flirting with Cole, but it definitely was not as dramatic as Matt made it out to be or how you are making it out to be. It was very mild. And I will act like however I want, internet stranger, lmao. 😂
@@-NiamhWitch- That's pretty funny isn't it? An engaged woman flirting with another guy, getting into a heated argument with her fiance and not taking any of the blame. That's hilarious. What a benign thing.
I couldn't believe Colleen married Matt. He's a huge red flag. I don't think he ever got over what happened with his first wife. He projected a lot onto Colleen, and tried to run, twice. He was so upset about the pool situation, yet was completely fine only after speaking to Cole? 🙄
Something tells me that she was raised to be a people-pleaser and to minimize her own emotions, opinions and assertiveness. I get the sense that her own emotional development was stunted and she has a lot of growth to do to learn who she really is and how to assert herself and set healthy boundaries. To a (much lesser) extent I think Nancy also grew up this way.
I don't think Matt had any real intention of leaving Colleen. Blowing up over small things and threatening to leave you is just something abusers do to keep you in line.
I dunno but I always got the feeling that Colleen would have said yes to anyone (maybe to be on the show longer?) so that feeling is confirmed by your comment about Matt. Why would she put up with that?
Are you kidding? I'd say she was waving the biggest red flag. Matt seems like a good dude, was willing to marry her and wasn't openly flirting with people saying that he could see himself with them, like she did with Colle(the guy who dumped her 😒). She didn't even throw in a "but I'm in love with Matt." It's especially humiliating because it is a guy Matt knows. Furthermore, Matt had this happen to him before and she knew that. Matt could do better, she isn't trust worthy at all. Most western women aren't nowadays
I think we need to give Jessica a break, as she was clearly an alcoholic during the filming. I would argue shake, Shayne, Shayna and Andrew were ten times worse
@@anniem2777 How can you not include Ambar, Shake, Bartise, Matt, and Zenab along with them? Alexa also gives off mean girl vibes and Brennan is too faced…I actually liked Jessica and didn’t get the hate she got. I’m glad she’s in a relationship she’s happy in now.
Thank you for pointing out that Matt is extremely scary and controlling.. don't know why it wasn't mentioned in the show at all and they kept on and on about the flirting issue even in reunion, absolutely bizarre to me.
What the show needed to air was the bachelor party/night before their Wedding - where Cole in response to learning the women were @ a strip club with d**k in their face, tells Nay about him trying to get his last kiss as an unmarried man from some girl @ a bar. So just like Natalie & Shane, they have a big blowout fight before the wedding. Nay cried that whole morning of her wedding, before she walks down the asile to delver her big “I don’t” speech Each couple is assigned their own camera crew where you filmed for 47 days, where they want to capture conflicts & disagreements, but unfortunately most of their harsher fights happen overnight so they have to reference what happened last night when the camera crew wasn’t there
@@ask4theupgrade359 Or it never happened, it's just what Zanab said. No proof was given, only a shady story provided by her. Where is a legit evidence?
The missing teeth clip in the beginning kinda triggers me. I used to have perfect teeth, but my ex punched them out and said afterwards that nobody would want me now. It was a nightmare and he was exactly like that first guy in the clip. He was vain and a horrible person. I'm having now to save up to buy new teeth now and maybe that's why the comment triggered me. Sorry I just vent alot because I don't really have anyone else to talk about it because I'm just scared in some ways. But one day at a time...
Oh my goshh, hope you’re doing better now and healing properly from all that. It must of been a really tough thing to go through! Be safe and take care of yourself ❤️
I hope you’re alright now and not in contact with him anymore 🤍 one question out of curiosity: can’t you make him or his insurance pay the replacement? I mean it was physical assault and it isn’t right that you have to deal with and pay for the consequences
@@Blue-sj8tk yeah I'm working with some helpful people and just saving and paying it myself. He is in jail but last I heard. I wouldn't take a dime from him though. It's just a personal thing to have to have his help because I don't want it from him ever. But I'm doing so much better everyday and thank you for taking the time to show support it's nice to know there are great people in this world still!❤
I'm sorry you went through that. Shallow people like Shane aren't worth any of your time or consideration. People lose teeth for various reasons and it has little to do with their value. The ones who try to destroy will eventually destroy themselves. That POS's soul is what's hideous. I sincerely wish you so much more joy and peace in life. ❤
How about when Shaina returns to shayne for another shot and then says yes to Kyle,or before saying yes to kyle..cant remember which happen first. There's many more than this list
I’m so glad that I’m not the only one who picked this up. As a survivor myself, I recognized the red flags right away in the reunion and it made me so worried for her
ikr...im surprised it didnt come up in at the reunion..he seems very controlling n she's a ppl pleaser...so that combo has the potential to become very toxic
Season 3 was just trash. I’m done with this. See y’all for season 4😅🤣 P.S just some notes on this season: So happy for Raven & SK. Bartise is such a joke. He definitely deserved the heat that Cole got instead. & I’m with Cole on this because Zay was just ugh. I mean did y’all see that cuties story !!
A lot of the stuff that Cole said to Zanab struck me as lowkey racist. She was definitely hypercritical and she annoyed me at times, but the fact that the other cast members backed her up tells me everything I need to know.
@@Ilikefrogs..How tf was Cole racist? 😂 and the only reason cast members backed her up is because they believed Zanab without seeing any evidence. Once the footage was released at the end of the reunion, no one is on Zanab’s side.
The ickest moment of love is blind was when the whole cast of season 3 ganged up against Cole making him break down and cry then in the end finding out Zaynad lied or at least misinterpreted the conversation she and Cole had! That should have been number 1! Matt getting mad shouldn't have been on there because he got so mad at Colleen because he told her his ex wife cheated and got pregnant by another man and to then see the new love of his life flirting with another man all his old fears and past hurts came back he was scared! Salvador bringing his new girlfriend to the cast weekend and her insulting Mallory should have been on the list as well. The conversation between Mallory and Jared should have made the list! Ambers behavior at the anniversary party should have been on there and Damian inviting a girl he was rumored to be cheating with should have also been on there!
Stop. Blaming. Zanab. She can only interpret the events and that situation from her perspective, what he said and how he acted had caused her harm. You also forget the context of what she said was she developed and eating disorder bc Cole and how he compared her to others. She had not eaten at all that day and he questioned her eating 2 oranges which are like 30 calories each. She wasn't eating well and this was not just that day. Him msking the comment shows he is too preoccupied/ focused on her weight when he should he focused on her health. If he had been by her all day shooting as it sounds it was he would notice she hasn't eaten anything and he would NEVER make a comment (at least he SHOULDN'T) about anything she ate cause her would just want her fed and to have energy. Coming from someone who has had an eating disorder and has had days on end where I haven't eaten, when I'm finally ready to eat again and someone makes a comment, I completely lose my appetite and fall back into that bad pattern. It's embarassing and even if a loved one asks out of concern, it still causes me hurt. If Zanab and Cole were living together and they spent several evenings together and he witnessed her not eating much, that should cause concern. Making that psrticular comment and furthermore, not noticing this was an issue for her shows a very apparent lack in awareness on Cole's part. Which checks out bc it seemed in several cases that he was very focused on himself, when if in a trial marriage, you should be developing the "we" group mentality. That doesn't make Cole a bad guy, but he definitely could have been better to Zanab. At the same time, when Zanab went in on him at their wedding, it was a bit far and could have been handled privately.
@@erynpoulin8151 because on the reunion she made it seem like cole was abusive and telling her not to eat just because of her figure. When in reality they were gonna go eat later and warned her as to not lose her appetite.
@itsraven984 it's not even that. In the clip, he even asks why the banana was all she ate. She was NOT healthy enough to be on this show, and she brought Cole down with her
@@itsraven984cole was like a little kid and handled situations with jokes and wasn't malitious. He just needs to do some more growing up for these types of experiences. She had issues and made him out to be a villain and that poor guy was so smashed at the reunion. I felt so bad for him when everyone was attacking him and there were toxic people who they should have talked to.
@@MsMojo tie between the engaged to be married Cole flirting with Colleen at the pool, Bartise telling his fiancé to her face that he finds another woman attractive, and Matt going off his rockers when Colleen stayed out late 😀
Colleen is young, and we’ve definitely seen from the show that she is a pleaser. And that’s the worst combination. He will always be aggressive and she will always do whatever she can to please him. I understand maybe because she was on the show, she wants to work out the relationship. But, she should’ve been the one to leave Matt instead of feeling bad and pleasing him. I hope Matt gets his aggression and traumas figured out, otherwise it will only damage their marriage.
It was soooo much more cringe moments. Carlton’s bad character, everything Shake and Andrew, everything Shayne especially at the reunion he was gaslighting Natalie the entire time and she just kept apologizing, drunk Jessica, that beach conversation with Shayna and the other guy, etc. it was so much.I understand why many of these people were unsuccessful in love for so long.
So glad to see I wasn't the only one who noticed the red flags being thrown up from Matt. I'm terrified for Colleen... he gives me "if you ever leave me, I'll kill myself" or "if I can't have you no one can" vibes. Also, the cuties story should have been included, since it absolutely proves that Zanab is a liar, or at the very least, an instigator. She took what Cole said COMPLETELY out of context and RAN with it. He is absolutely not innocent and said some shitty things... but her trashing him at the reunion and it turning out that the situation was not at all how she described pissed me off.
She didn't though! She spoke her truth and he made an off comment. He wasn't really sensitive to what she was feeling in the moment. He can't control how she reacts in the moment and maybe she didn't communicate her hurt the best of ways, but he didn't even acknowledge her hurt or how his words/ actions affected her. I don't think he was malicious, but what he said clearly hurt her and his not seeing that shows a severe lack of self- awareness from him.
Am I the only one who couldn’t stand Gigi from season 1? Her mannerisms and way she talked always seemed over the top and possibly just for the cameras. Idk she didn’t seem genuine to me
The way she reacted when Sikuru said no to her at the altar makes me think that isn't the case. She never really seemed into Bartise the way she was into SK.
I don’t think so! When baristas started getting deep it seem like she wasn’t into it. Barely responding. When SK got deep she stopped and listened. Even cried. In that moment I think she realized she knew she cared about SK more.
@@johnconnor4749 it’s not even about that. True that’s what he is, but it’s about him being bashed for things he didn’t do. He did not intentionally try to hurt her, nor did he do some of those things that she was accusing him of in the reunion. he’s not evil… just stupid.
Natalie has confirmed on her podcast that the moment Shane mistook her for Shayna actually didn't happen, and they were fighting about something else (Deepti to be exact). It's all editing, baby.
Something that deserved to be on the list was Bartise bringing up Nancy's views on abortion around his family. Regardless of where you stand on the issue, you do not bring that up when someone's just meeting your family. It was obvious he was trying to sabotage the relationship
Cole was icky throughout until the very end. I'm sad he had to act that way, because he appeared to be genuinely remorseful during reunion, minus the gaslighting. To be honest, I think he was pretty much airhead and obvious to the impact of his words and actions. Learning that his toxic wording affected Zanab in a traumatic way was the catalyst, I believed, to have broke him
9:09 calling him verbally aggressive and attempting to passively paint him as an abuser of women after a simple disagreement is outrageous and sexist! Female cast member have exhibited the same behavior on the show and it was highlighted several times in this clip. Reported. Please do better.
@@selena.yvette He’s not abusive. He was ready to leave and completely walk away that night. That’s not what an abuser would do. They should have let him go.
Me just learning Andrew was on the show as a social experiment and I had a girlfriend the whole time, and they both made the decision for him to go on there.😩
Yeah. They were never going to work. I was embarrassed for her that she let it go on for so long. Have some self respect and walk away! But I’m sure they get more money if they wait to make the final decision at the altar.
@ I don’t understand why some of these couples don’t walk away sooner to prevent embarrassment. I agree, there must be a monetary incentive for them to last longer on the show.
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Shake and Jessica win this! 🎉😩
The fact that matt is berating her until she cries, all with a smile on his face really has true abuser vibes, horrifying, he was savoring every moment of that fight
Yes, this. He loses his empathy completely in situations like that. I would be more empathic than him even if my girlfriend had slept with somebody else, and i was walking away for real. Makes me scared for her if he ever starts suspecting something more serious than being the object of somebodys flirting, like what of he stars believing she cheated for some reason, what would he do?
Only reason she was crying was cause she was caught entertaining another man and in his eyes playing a game. Pretty typical of a lot of women(and men) and he’s smiling in an “are you kidding me?” type of way. It’s not hard to say “I appreciate the flattery, but that’s my man and you should talk to your fiancé. Then she goes out with the girls(put forth by the show I know), doesn’t text him, “Hey babe the girls are going out to the bar or club(w/e it was), I’ll let you know when I’m back”. That shows in his eyes that she is not there for a serious relationship and untrustworthy, but I applaud her for fighting for the relationship and admitting her faults. I think his actions are justified
@@johnkainoa1186 sure but it was done distasteful and off the handle kind of way.
@@johnkainoa1186 Sounds like you're an abuser as well that justifies throwing violent temper tantrums
He enjoyed it so much. He should be on a watch list
I think people are really downplaying just how toxic Matt is and how scary he is. Huge huge red flags for abuse and DV and yet it was not addressed on the show at all.
Honestly. Nick and Vanessa were talking about when the show is going to get their first baby. Both Shayne and Matt have me thinking this show will have it's first murder long before that.
@@Ilikefrogs.. I didn't get murder vibes from shayne... maybe drug bust or stalker from Shane. Matt definitely is the murderer
My sister and I thought the same thing
He really is very scary. I hope Colleen is ok. I wonder if her saying (SPOILER) yes was coerced, because she was afraid of what he’d do if she said no to him. He didn’t even take her hesitation very well at the aquarium. I know for the sake of the series all the couples went on fairly elaborated dates towards the wedding date, but even that date reminded me of the cycles of abuse. Incident, blame, elaborate apologies/ gifts, empty promises, more abuse.
Matt should have been asked to leave the show immediately. Those two reminded me of Brian Laundrie and Gabby Petito…
I laughed so hard when Raven started doing jumping jacks.
"Oh, you can hear that?"
💀💀💀
That really sent me 🤣imagine pouring your heart out and someone starts doing jumping jacks
@@TheRealLastJedi721 Right? I was dying! 🤣🤣🤣
I’m like a nervous “work out”er and there’s been times where having a serious conversation and I just start stretching or if it’s my boyfriend or close friend/mom I just start doing yoga 😂
It’s how I cope with too many emotions - but I’m also on the spectrum and can’t handle sitting still with a lot of stress.
So I was like “OH NY GOD RAVEN JUST LIKE ME”
And comments started rolling in like this and I’m like -
Ohhhhh noooo 😂😂😂😂😂
I think she did the jumping jacks because she was not interested. I wouldn’t be interested in someone who just spoke about their childhood trauma for the first time with me instead of a therapist.
@@KinkyFlowerCrown and his trauma sucked lol. His dad got mad because his mom had an ex-fiancé 😂
I actually found the Andrew eye drop moment very funny. 😂😂😂
Same. I’d rather listen to him talk about ejaculation free orgasms while he uses eye drops than be around most of these people. Especially liars from this season…
OF COURSE, that was the thumbnail! too funny.
If you haven’t you need to watch ‘I like to watch’ with Trixie and Katya, they react to that season and the infamous eye drop moment and it’s hilarious 😂
@@joshuabishop5527 I cropped out the audio and made Katya's "no, no, no, no" reaction my text message notification sound.
Really. 🙄
Bartise’s haircut is an ick on its own
And his back hair 😂😂🤢
Exactly what I say 😂 remove that and MAYBE
Yoh it annoyed me so much
The fact that they still showed the dude putting the eyedrops in is what really kills me. I find that hilarious. Like they were not going to let him come off as a sensitive guy who would cry over a girl. Nah, show him as the kind of guy he actually is
I had to look this shit up because my girlfriend explained this as “the producers did him no favors” 😭 and wow I’m speechless he must have been a real POS to have this aired on TV
@@lukamagiccI found him funny tbh lots of charisma
I’m pretty sure those eyedrops are for ilness lmao. He was taken them because when he cries, his eyes get really irritated
Those producers were so MESSY with Andrew 😂😂😂😂😂
And rightfully so!
They did Andrew wrong lol
@@soulsurfer639 nah they did him so right🤣
@@dunno6469 He was trying to hook them up with some water-works to make the show dramatic... and they filmed it on the DL and made him look like a weasel 😂
I'll never trust these showbiz types 😒
Bartise was very immature.
matt's behavior with colleen was disturbing
I'd say Colleen's behavior with Cole was disturbing, Colleen was waving some serious red flags 🚩
Shake is even more disturbing overall...
Bull! Matt did nothing wrong, he explain his feelings! If he were female this wouldn’t disturb anyone
The fact that Matt went off on Colleen and sat and laughed with Cole about the situation told me everything I needed to know about him…
that he is a common normal person?big deal,if he was a woman and acted the samen way,u won't be bothered at all
@@dukesheshou6801honestly if you’re mad enough to demean your fiancée you should be man enough to express that anger to all parties not just the woman. Sounds like Matt’s a huge pussy
Colleen's "flirting" with Cole was so incredibly benign. She was obviously just being nice and had no actual interest in Cole. Matt's severe overreaction and his unwillingness to let it go is a HUGE red flag. That guy is just scary.
BS. Benign my A hole.She said to his face she would have picked him in the "real world." I'm so sick of people (mostly women) taking sides with her and dogging Cole. She is 100% as guilty as him.
@@jeremysmith9694 Dude, that is not what she said at all. She never indicated that she would have picked Cole OVER Matt in the real world. She said that she would approach Cole at a bar in the real world, indicating that she also thought he was attractive. That's it. And it was obvious that she only said that to be nice, there was no actual desire on her part for Cole.
@@-NiamhWitch- I disagree. It was pretty obvious she had a lot of interest in him. She clearly wanted Cole. In fact, the only reason she didn't pick him in the pods was because he said she was shallow and dumped her first. The chemistry was definitely there at the pool. She could have easily shut that conversation down just like Raven did to Bartise, but she chose not to. Stop acting like she's blameless.
@@jeremysmith9694 You're welcome to your incorrect view of her level of interest in Cole, lol. 😂
The only thing I *will* agree with you on is that she is not blameless. I never said she was. She certainly should not have engaged in the flirting with Cole, but it definitely was not as dramatic as Matt made it out to be or how you are making it out to be. It was very mild.
And I will act like however I want, internet stranger, lmao. 😂
@@-NiamhWitch- That's pretty funny isn't it? An engaged woman flirting with another guy, getting into a heated argument with her fiance and not taking any of the blame. That's hilarious. What a benign thing.
To this day, the entire season 2 reunion gives me the ick
I couldn't believe Colleen married Matt. He's a huge red flag. I don't think he ever got over what happened with his first wife. He projected a lot onto Colleen, and tried to run, twice. He was so upset about the pool situation, yet was completely fine only after speaking to Cole? 🙄
Something tells me that she was raised to be a people-pleaser and to minimize her own emotions, opinions and assertiveness. I get the sense that her own emotional development was stunted and she has a lot of growth to do to learn who she really is and how to assert herself and set healthy boundaries.
To a (much lesser) extent I think Nancy also grew up this way.
I don't think Matt had any real intention of leaving Colleen. Blowing up over small things and threatening to leave you is just something abusers do to keep you in line.
@@Ilikefrogs.. that's my point.
I dunno but I always got the feeling that Colleen would have said yes to anyone (maybe to be on the show longer?) so that feeling is confirmed by your comment about Matt. Why would she put up with that?
Are you kidding? I'd say she was waving the biggest red flag. Matt seems like a good dude, was willing to marry her and wasn't openly flirting with people saying that he could see himself with them, like she did with Colle(the guy who dumped her 😒). She didn't even throw in a "but I'm in love with Matt." It's especially humiliating because it is a guy Matt knows. Furthermore, Matt had this happen to him before and she knew that.
Matt could do better, she isn't trust worthy at all. Most western women aren't nowadays
Everything involving Jessica. The Whiney voice and “I’m not like other girls/pick me” attitude was just like nails to a chalkboard
Not saying Jessica wasn’t cringey, but Amber gives off bigger pick me energy
@@TributesAndUnique omg I forgot about amber 😩 yeah she was AWFUL X
I thought Mark was pretty insufferable. Desperate puppy dog vibes.
I think we need to give Jessica a break, as she was clearly an alcoholic during the filming. I would argue shake, Shayne, Shayna and Andrew were ten times worse
@@anniem2777 How can you not include Ambar, Shake, Bartise, Matt, and Zenab along with them? Alexa also gives off mean girl vibes and Brennan is too faced…I actually liked Jessica and didn’t get the hate she got. I’m glad she’s in a relationship she’s happy in now.
Andrew became Love is Blind royalty without matching with anyone 🤷♀️😂
I can’t unsee that Bartiste looks like Bert from Bert & Ernie.
I kept saying plz cut some off, reminded me of my boys when their hair grows wild.
That 'Fresh Prince Of Bel-Air' haircut doesn't help.
I busted up at this comment. I knew he reminded me of someone
I kept saying this to my sister 😂
Best comment🤣😭
Shake will ALWAYS be #1 ick for me!
Same frrrr
😩 yyeessss, he was baadddd
Reminds me of a jock who had many head injuries
Lol when Nancy tried to repeat what bartisse said but she said "smoke program"
😂😂😂
Nancy's a total smoke program
@@jeremysmith9694: 💯 😂
Thank you for pointing out that Matt is extremely scary and controlling.. don't know why it wasn't mentioned in the show at all and they kept on and on about the flirting issue even in reunion, absolutely bizarre to me.
I remember rooting for Matt at first, but when I saw this scene I was actually disgusted and I just wanted Colleen to get out of that relationship.
You should also add cut from reunion where everybody trashes Cole + last cut where it is clear that Zanab lies. For me that was ultra ick.
I wondered why they made the decision to show that
Zanab didn't lie. The clip showed her truth actually happened.
Yea, I thought she overreacted. I was on her side throughout but she overreacted there.
What the show needed to air was the bachelor party/night before their Wedding - where Cole in response to learning the women were @ a strip club with d**k in their face, tells Nay about him trying to get his last kiss as an unmarried man from some girl @ a bar. So just like Natalie & Shane, they have a big blowout fight before the wedding. Nay cried that whole morning of her wedding, before she walks down the asile to delver her big
“I don’t” speech
Each couple is assigned their own camera crew where you filmed for 47 days, where they want to capture conflicts & disagreements, but unfortunately most of their harsher fights happen overnight so they have to reference what happened last night when the camera crew wasn’t there
@@ask4theupgrade359 Or it never happened, it's just what Zanab said. No proof was given, only a shady story provided by her. Where is a legit evidence?
I forgot about Jessica until this very moment. She was cray cray! 😂
Gonna need to reload that season cause of her 🤣
@@TheRealLastJedi721 😂
Andrew is hilarious that was the best moment. Most ick would be Zanab, but her behaviour is more cruel than ick
Zay's wedding speech for me is definitely at least an honorable mention.
Also some of the things Cole said.
Ummm . . . how come no one ever mentions Bartise throwing fake ones 💵 all over the floor of Raven’s pod after being told she’s a bottle girl?
Cameron and Lauren were the best people ever on the show!!
Cameron’s rap was cute 😭😂😂
Collen always looks worried
The missing teeth clip in the beginning kinda triggers me. I used to have perfect teeth, but my ex punched them out and said afterwards that nobody would want me now. It was a nightmare and he was exactly like that first guy in the clip. He was vain and a horrible person. I'm having now to save up to buy new teeth now and maybe that's why the comment triggered me. Sorry I just vent alot because I don't really have anyone else to talk about it because I'm just scared in some ways. But one day at a time...
Oh my goshh, hope you’re doing better now and healing properly from all that. It must of been a really tough thing to go through! Be safe and take care of yourself ❤️
@@Lunchtable94 thank you I am doing alot better. Each day away is better. I really appreciate the kind comment ❤
I hope you’re alright now and not in contact with him anymore 🤍 one question out of curiosity: can’t you make him or his insurance pay the replacement? I mean it was physical assault and it isn’t right that you have to deal with and pay for the consequences
@@Blue-sj8tk yeah I'm working with some helpful people and just saving and paying it myself. He is in jail but last I heard. I wouldn't take a dime from him though. It's just a personal thing to have to have his help because I don't want it from him ever. But I'm doing so much better everyday and thank you for taking the time to show support it's nice to know there are great people in this world still!❤
I'm sorry you went through that. Shallow people like Shane aren't worth any of your time or consideration. People lose teeth for various reasons and it has little to do with their value. The ones who try to destroy will eventually destroy themselves. That POS's soul is what's hideous. I sincerely wish you so much more joy and peace in life. ❤
season 2&3 were entertaining to watch, but they don't give the same feels like season 1
I think season 3 is my favourite. It felt way more real than the previous two seasons.
Shayne sounds drunk and seems like the guy who never moved passed middle school.
How about when Shaina returns to shayne for another shot and then says yes to Kyle,or before saying yes to kyle..cant remember which happen first.
There's many more than this list
Not as I'm finishing the reunion 😂😂
Andrew’s eyes were dry y’all. 😂 He was the most interesting one! Lmao
Matt is a huge red flag. I hope that Colleen is ok and truly happy
I’m so glad that I’m not the only one who picked this up. As a survivor myself, I recognized the red flags right away in the reunion and it made me so worried for her
ikr...im surprised it didnt come up in at the reunion..he seems very controlling n she's a ppl pleaser...so that combo has the potential to become very toxic
Did you see the reunion show. Colleen looked absolutely miserable the entire time. Run, Colleen, run.
I’m so worried for her, and the way he tried to play it off at the reunion was also concerning
She can leave anytime she wants. She's a big girl. She needs to make her own decisions.
Shaynes laugh 😂😂😂
Season 3 was just trash. I’m done with this. See y’all for season 4😅🤣 P.S just some notes on this season: So happy for Raven & SK. Bartise is such a joke. He definitely deserved the heat that Cole got instead. & I’m with Cole on this because Zay was just ugh. I mean did y’all see that cuties story !!
Except for SK and Raven part I agree to you on all points ..there's noone like Cameron and Lauren period...Love from India 🇮🇳❤️ MsMojo
A lot of the stuff that Cole said to Zanab struck me as lowkey racist. She was definitely hypercritical and she annoyed me at times, but the fact that the other cast members backed her up tells me everything I need to know.
@@Ilikefrogs..How tf was Cole racist? 😂 and the only reason cast members backed her up is because they believed Zanab without seeing any evidence. Once the footage was released at the end of the reunion, no one is on Zanab’s side.
Honestly, Matt comes across as borderline psychotic at times. Yet she marries him. What?
She must also be psychotic
@@jeremysmith9694 Just lock them both up and throw away the key
Trauma bond
The ickest moment of love is blind was when the whole cast of season 3 ganged up against Cole making him break down and cry then in the end finding out Zaynad lied or at least misinterpreted the conversation she and Cole had! That should have been number 1!
Matt getting mad shouldn't have been on there because he got so mad at Colleen because he told her his ex wife cheated and got pregnant by another man and to then see the new love of his life flirting with another man all his old fears and past hurts came back he was scared! Salvador bringing his new girlfriend to the cast weekend and her insulting Mallory should have been on the list as well. The conversation between Mallory and Jared should have made the list! Ambers behavior at the anniversary party should have been on there and Damian inviting a girl he was rumored to be cheating with should have also been on there!
Stop. Blaming. Zanab. She can only interpret the events and that situation from her perspective, what he said and how he acted had caused her harm. You also forget the context of what she said was she developed and eating disorder bc Cole and how he compared her to others. She had not eaten at all that day and he questioned her eating 2 oranges which are like 30 calories each. She wasn't eating well and this was not just that day. Him msking the comment shows he is too preoccupied/ focused on her weight when he should he focused on her health. If he had been by her all day shooting as it sounds it was he would notice she hasn't eaten anything and he would NEVER make a comment (at least he SHOULDN'T) about anything she ate cause her would just want her fed and to have energy. Coming from someone who has had an eating disorder and has had days on end where I haven't eaten, when I'm finally ready to eat again and someone makes a comment, I completely lose my appetite and fall back into that bad pattern. It's embarassing and even if a loved one asks out of concern, it still causes me hurt. If Zanab and Cole were living together and they spent several evenings together and he witnessed her not eating much, that should cause concern. Making that psrticular comment and furthermore, not noticing this was an issue for her shows a very apparent lack in awareness on Cole's part. Which checks out bc it seemed in several cases that he was very focused on himself, when if in a trial marriage, you should be developing the "we" group mentality. That doesn't make Cole a bad guy, but he definitely could have been better to Zanab. At the same time, when Zanab went in on him at their wedding, it was a bit far and could have been handled privately.
Anything shake is clearly the most ick!
cuties gate should be number #1
Everything I ever learned about Jessica has been 100% against my will.
Wow how did somebody who doesn’t even get engage make number One? Hilarious! 😂😂😂
the whole show is kinda stupid.
they talk with strangers, meet, have sex and then break up again haha.
All in front of cameras 😂
Zanab was very toxic and needs to be addressed. Exhibit A the cuties story and scene.
@@erynpoulin8151 because on the reunion she made it seem like cole was abusive and telling her not to eat just because of her figure. When in reality they were gonna go eat later and warned her as to not lose her appetite.
Thank you
💯
@itsraven984 it's not even that. In the clip, he even asks why the banana was all she ate. She was NOT healthy enough to be on this show, and she brought Cole down with her
@@itsraven984cole was like a little kid and handled situations with jokes and wasn't malitious. He just needs to do some more growing up for these types of experiences. She had issues and made him out to be a villain and that poor guy was so smashed at the reunion. I felt so bad for him when everyone was attacking him and there were toxic people who they should have talked to.
After watching this show you quickly realise why most of these people are still single
Waiting the top 10 cringiest moments for season 3!
Which moment would you make #1?
@@MsMojo Those weird shoots that focused on Raven’s feet 😬
@@MsMojo tie between the engaged to be married Cole flirting with Colleen at the pool, Bartise telling his fiancé to her face that he finds another woman attractive, and Matt going off his rockers when Colleen stayed out late 😀
Andrew’s “Tears” 😂 or SK and Raven finale. Definitely didn’t see that coming
The cuties!
i just like cameron and lauren. that’s it.
They're the only happy and healthy couple
Colleen is young, and we’ve definitely seen from the show that she is a pleaser. And that’s the worst combination. He will always be aggressive and she will always do whatever she can to please him. I understand maybe because she was on the show, she wants to work out the relationship. But, she should’ve been the one to leave Matt instead of feeling bad and pleasing him. I hope Matt gets his aggression and traumas figured out, otherwise it will only damage their marriage.
What about the guy who got with Diamond in season 1. Forgot his name but he gave me the ick more than any of the ones picked here
Matt and his reverse cap wearing friends give me wife-beater energy😊
Shake and Bartise number 1 icks
This man (Shane) sounds like a character in big mouth 😂😂😂
Honestly Shake gave off a horrible 1st through 5th impression, as well as a bad 55th impression, a bad 98th impression, etc
You need to update this list 😂. So much has happened!
It was soooo much more cringe moments. Carlton’s bad character, everything Shake and Andrew, everything Shayne especially at the reunion he was gaslighting Natalie the entire time and she just kept apologizing, drunk Jessica, that beach conversation with Shayna and the other guy, etc. it was so much.I understand why many of these people were unsuccessful in love for so long.
Right? I never understood why everyone just sat there and watched him gaslight her again
Bruh I forgot about carlton
So glad to see I wasn't the only one who noticed the red flags being thrown up from Matt. I'm terrified for Colleen... he gives me "if you ever leave me, I'll kill myself" or "if I can't have you no one can" vibes.
Also, the cuties story should have been included, since it absolutely proves that Zanab is a liar, or at the very least, an instigator. She took what Cole said COMPLETELY out of context and RAN with it. He is absolutely not innocent and said some shitty things... but her trashing him at the reunion and it turning out that the situation was not at all how she described pissed me off.
She didn't though! She spoke her truth and he made an off comment. He wasn't really sensitive to what she was feeling in the moment. He can't control how she reacts in the moment and maybe she didn't communicate her hurt the best of ways, but he didn't even acknowledge her hurt or how his words/ actions affected her. I don't think he was malicious, but what he said clearly hurt her and his not seeing that shows a severe lack of self- awareness from him.
Shake is a walking ick.
So true. Even the hosts were like ew hell no
Giannina was just enacting her own tele-novella! 😂 She was absolutely nuts. So over-the-top and melodramatic.
Am I the only one who couldn’t stand Gigi from season 1? Her mannerisms and way she talked always seemed over the top and possibly just for the cameras. Idk she didn’t seem genuine to me
I'm so happy I've never seen this show & ur recap was all I needed 👍
Season 1's Lauren & Cameron is so far a champoining factor. Just basically season 1 as a whole. Still dramatic but to the point of who's finding love.
Matt’s temper is number 1. I worry Colleen will eventually end up dead. I cannot believe she married him!
Colleen knew she would get air time by getting engaged hence why she kept going to different blokes. Felt the same with raven.
The way she reacted when Sikuru said no to her at the altar makes me think that isn't the case. She never really seemed into Bartise the way she was into SK.
I don’t think so! When baristas started getting deep it seem like she wasn’t into it. Barely responding. When SK got deep she stopped and listened. Even cried. In that moment I think she realized she knew she cared about SK more.
Agree about Colleen but maybe not Raven…
Eh now I understand why raven was doing jumping jacks. I would to if Bartise was talking to me 😂
How could you guys not include the cuties clip.....it was cringy because we all saw that Zanab was telling lies.....ickkkkkkk
Exactly
Stop defending white male mediocrity
@@johnconnor4749 it’s not even about that. True that’s what he is, but it’s about him being bashed for things he didn’t do. He did not intentionally try to hurt her, nor did he do some of those things that she was accusing him of in the reunion. he’s not evil… just stupid.
Just finished watching the reunion today. I’m sorry, but I’m with Cole. That Zay is too weird.
The cuties story at the end though.... crazy stuff!
That toilet conversation is proof to me this isn’t real.
Literally everything Shake and Andrew said in their seasons, I wanted to vomit
This entire show gives me the ick
We need a part 2 cos they’ve been tons of icky moments afterwords
I had SUCH hopes for Bartise
The eye drops thing was so cringey. Because it's so obvious what he was trying to do. 🤣
Nancy bathtub conversation made me want to turn off the tv.
I love Andrew so much! It’s so bad that it’s good! Good in the most epic manner!
An updated list would have to include Zack’s singing
Just awful! Had to fast forward every time 😂😂😂
Natalie has confirmed on her podcast that the moment Shane mistook her for Shayna actually didn't happen, and they were fighting about something else (Deepti to be exact). It's all editing, baby.
There needs to be an updated list
435 days? Oh hunny lol try 2,555 days 😂
Something that deserved to be on the list was Bartise bringing up Nancy's views on abortion around his family. Regardless of where you stand on the issue, you do not bring that up when someone's just meeting your family. It was obvious he was trying to sabotage the relationship
9:36 nah I’m with Matt. You just got engaged but you letting another man know he can get it.
Wrong 😑
Cole was icky throughout until the very end. I'm sad he had to act that way, because he appeared to be genuinely remorseful during reunion, minus the gaslighting. To be honest, I think he was pretty much airhead and obvious to the impact of his words and actions. Learning that his toxic wording affected Zanab in a traumatic way was the catalyst, I believed, to have broke him
Pretty sure zanab was gaslighting the fuck outta him the whole time
@@danyalraza9707 Oh she was alright!
Im sorry but Cameron’s rapping was iconic.
I like Cameron's rap😅😅
The eye drops😂
If Jessica, Shane and Matt are drowning in a lake would you read the newspaper or go have lunch.
9:09 calling him verbally aggressive and attempting to passively paint him as an abuser of women after a simple disagreement is outrageous and sexist! Female cast member have exhibited the same behavior on the show and it was highlighted several times in this clip. Reported. Please do better.
Exactlyyyy
@@selena.yvette He’s not abusive. He was ready to leave and completely walk away that night. That’s not what an abuser would do. They should have let him go.
I don’t know why, but Shayne just immediately gives me ick vibes all the time. Have you seen him on Perfect Match 🤮
Andrew did everything as a joke. As an asian I'm proud of him. He trolled everyone so good some of them didn't even know they got trolled.
Does anyone know if Coleen and Matt are still together? I can’t stomach the thought of her having to be with that asshole..
WHERE IS THE PART WHERE ZAYNAB LIED BOUT COLE ??
i really really love raven and SK!
i hope this is a joke? xD
Andrew is GOATed 😂😂😂😂
Me just learning Andrew was on the show as a social experiment and I had a girlfriend the whole time, and they both made the decision for him to go on there.😩
WHAT
What about Tiffany falling asleep during a date?! 😂
I felt Cole and Z wasn’t good from the get go. Their interaction with each other just seems so vapid.
Did he not get that we all saw him put the eye drops in. Geez. All of these guys are creeps. No vetting
This voice over person isn't a bias feminist at all. Not a red flag herself at all. Sounds like a man's dream girl to me.
Shake was never into Deepti and vice versa. Deepti wanted a white man and Shake wanted a white woman.
Yeah. They were never going to work. I was embarrassed for her that she let it go on for so long. Have some self respect and walk away! But I’m sure they get more money if they wait to make the final decision at the altar.
@ I don’t understand why some of these couples don’t walk away sooner to prevent embarrassment. I agree, there must be a monetary incentive for them to last longer on the show.
Matt was crazy