Planning and Shooting a Portrait Project (featuring the Godox AD200)

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  • Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024

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  • @nsiepmann
    @nsiepmann 4 года назад +94

    I've just started exploring photography for myself a little over a month ago, and I've been using RUclips a lot as a learning resource. I just wanted to say, in a world full of big, brash 10 minute "HEY WHAT'S UP GUYS" videos that should have been 3 minutes long, I'm so glad to have found your channel full of honest, quiet, considered videos and beautiful images. Thanks, Sean.

  • @sanbanrjee
    @sanbanrjee 6 лет назад +80

    The thing which distinguishes you from other photography tutorial channels is that you talk so honestly about yourself, about photography and also about life. You understand us and talk as if you were having a 1:1 conversation with us.

  • @TrevinoArt
    @TrevinoArt 6 лет назад +310

    Never get overwhelmed by thinking you should upload more often. Take your time and keep creating beautiful videos. I'm craving for them, but I wait for your meaningful creations patiently. Thank you, Sean, you are my hero.

    • @general_crap
      @general_crap 6 лет назад +23

      I agree, quite a few of my subscription channels just churn out videos daily and the quality goes down hill. Sean's are brilliant and show how much thought and time he puts into them.

    • @TrevinoArt
      @TrevinoArt 6 лет назад +18

      Right? And the thought he puts into them is one of the things that helped me to overcome a hard time in my life. His content is inspiring.

    • @jochemvanrijswijk9027
      @jochemvanrijswijk9027 6 лет назад +8

      I second this

    • @NikkiPhotoArt
      @NikkiPhotoArt 5 лет назад

      Agreed!

    • @FsquareTv_
      @FsquareTv_ 4 года назад

      I agree too

  • @georgestangaciu3322
    @georgestangaciu3322 Год назад +1

    After 4 years and this video still inspires me deeply and seriously makes take out my camera from my dusty bag which I'll do starting today and put together the same project you did here

  • @NikkiPhotoArt
    @NikkiPhotoArt 5 лет назад +31

    There are so many photographers on this platform that are in love with themselves, they put out content without thought or care, just looking for more followers and more ways to increase their numbers. You are a true professional and teacher. I teach but you are always my inspiration- I adore your work and videos. Always worth the wait - thank you.

  • @timbindner3554
    @timbindner3554 6 лет назад +86

    Takes great courage to reveal what you stated.

  • @hachewie
    @hachewie 4 года назад +15

    The black and white images at the end actually brought tears to my eyes. Beautiful portraits.

  • @robinpalmer9809
    @robinpalmer9809 6 лет назад +86

    I was moved by your story and your photography. Thank you.

  • @sasatrifunovski
    @sasatrifunovski 4 года назад +16

    This is probably 10th time I've watched this video, that's how much I LOVE it!!!
    I might steal your idea Sean and do images of our grandmothers...They're both 85+ years old, this might be beautiful thing to have for generations to come...
    Thank you Sean, you've inspired me

    • @seantuck
      @seantuck  4 года назад +3

      Sounds like a lovely idea.

  • @stuartackerman4594
    @stuartackerman4594 6 месяцев назад +2

    All I can say right now is, thank you Sean. The words, the images, and your honesty.

  • @E-Biz
    @E-Biz 6 лет назад +21

    "learn to grieve humanity"....love it.

  • @Souljacker7
    @Souljacker7 4 года назад +1

    Thanks to this video I took my first portraits using lights today. It was of my 96 years old grandfather. These will probably be how we will remember his latter life.
    Thanks for the inspiration.

  • @meletispix
    @meletispix 6 лет назад +154

    Stunning portraits and impactful life lessons man. 👌🏼

  • @emmanuelwilliams7873
    @emmanuelwilliams7873 6 лет назад +2

    This guy is something else, I swear. There's a profound level of emotion and thought that goes behind making these videos. They almost come off as enlightening.

  • @LogansRun91
    @LogansRun91 6 лет назад +3

    Sean, this video is absolutely stunning. I lost my father when I was 3 as well, to a car accident. I still remember certain aspects of his apartment when he would have my brother and I certain days of the week. This affected my brother greatly who was 5 at the time and it still rules his life to this day. I have learned from my brothers mistakes and a few men in my life. A few years back we lost my stepdad as well who helped raise me for 9 years & it was at this time that I opened up to my uncle about how much I watched him growing up and what he means to me. These emotions are hard to explain when everything comes flooding back again. This video brought both pain and joy to my heart & tears to my eyes, and I want to say thank you for that.

    • @seantuck
      @seantuck  6 лет назад

      Thanks for sharing that mate.

  • @AlexandruBogdanGhita
    @AlexandruBogdanGhita 6 лет назад +1

    And just by watching this you made me feel a lot better. Same anger, my dad died when I was younger, I even now have problems adjusting and answering authority. Yes, I always play the victim, but grieve humanity suddenly makes sense. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @mexiweze
    @mexiweze 6 лет назад +3

    I stumbled upon your channel yesterday and I haven't stopped watching your videos since. Not only are you a talented creator but your words are truly thought-provoking. "Grieve humanity". I think I'm currently in same state you were back then, so those words in particular have touched me profoundly.

  • @greatpix
    @greatpix 5 лет назад +1

    With each of your subjects you show three poses but IMHO it's the shots where they're looking straight into the camera lens that really brings out the person's personality. I picture them while they were talking with you and had their greatest impact.

  • @ashj1979
    @ashj1979 6 лет назад +20

    If I had to delete all my youtube subscriptions but one, your channel would be the one channel remaining. Love your videos. They are a massive source of inspiration and I can very much relate to your situation of having to switch track after having devoted many years in a particular field. Thank you!

  • @khalidhassani6173
    @khalidhassani6173 6 лет назад +1

    RIP for the others who didn't discover your channel yet. Thank you for all the stuff you make us live with you.

  • @architdharod9355
    @architdharod9355 6 лет назад +83

    This is such a rich video! there is so much to learn from it. not only in terms of Photography but also philosophy. Thanks a lot for making your channel more than just Photography. This kind of teaching is extremely rare and i am so glad to have come across your channel. Thanks alot

  • @chrisshepley1050
    @chrisshepley1050 6 лет назад +1

    As a therapist and portrait photographer this really hits the mark - bravo for your willingness to share

  • @GadgetJohn
    @GadgetJohn 6 лет назад +69

    I just wanted to say that your visuals are fantastic, the portraits especially, however your audio is so interesting and your narrative draws you in to a point where I can start to visualise your situation without even seeing your video. Truly brilliant work Sean.

  • @bryllupsfotofilm
    @bryllupsfotofilm 6 лет назад +1

    I have just wacth 5 minutes and already can see that you are a talented film director, photographer and journalist.

  • @commandingmargin
    @commandingmargin 6 лет назад +3

    There's so much I love about this video. But what I think I like most is how it covers the whole gamut of relevant topics. Tools, technique, workflow, inspirations, vision... it's all there. Which is not something I can say about just about 99.9% of other photography videos. Excellent work (on both the video and the portrait project).

  • @martintaylor4620
    @martintaylor4620 6 лет назад +1

    No matter what your job is there's always somebody there who is just starting out. The best teaching tip I ever got was; positive/negative /positive. In other words, praise and encourage - draw them in, constructive criticism - to correct an error, then encourage again - set some sort of goal. It's a buzz to mentor people who are looking for guidance and respond to it. All youtubers seem to be doing just that in their own way. This channel is one of the best. Keep it up Mr Tucker. You're good at it.

  • @benjaminwilkins1385
    @benjaminwilkins1385 6 лет назад +3

    Each of those men that mentored you should be very proud of the man you have become. Even from the other side of the world your videos have given me a lot to think about to heal my own wounds and get me back on track and become a better role model for my sons, my stepson and even the young men that I work with everyday. The church can have some radical ideas about how we are supposed to live but only though the grace of God can we be truly 'accepted' and be an inspiration to others. You are an inspiration. Thank you.

  • @b991228
    @b991228 5 лет назад +1

    You don’t shy away from heavy contrast yet you retain just enough shadow detail to still show dimension to the face and separation from the black background. Very nice.

  • @maortizjr80
    @maortizjr80 4 года назад +3

    Thank you Sean, I've been repeatedly watching this episode over and over. Something on it clicked on me and started thinking about all of the people that have been game changers in my life, without me even asking for help. All of them have had huge impact, but it wasn't until now that I'm almost 40 and my first child on the way that I'm going to do something about it. You have inspired me to reconnect with those mentors and start a project of my own. We are not getting any younger and experiencing how fragile life could be, I want to capture them before its no longer possible. Thank you again.

    • @seantuck
      @seantuck  4 года назад +1

      That’s great to hear, and congrats on your little one:)

  • @martinlorenzo2731
    @martinlorenzo2731 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Sean... I don´t have the words or even the knowledge of the english language to express my gratitude about how you give it all you got... bless you!

  • @NigelDanson
    @NigelDanson 6 лет назад +25

    Very good Sean. Probably my fav of your recent videos. Stunning b&w images as always.

  • @1966wasp
    @1966wasp 6 лет назад +1

    I think I watch more for the counselling than photography. This guy is another level, thank you Sean, brilliant as always...

  • @vlbaker
    @vlbaker 5 лет назад +3

    I very rarely comment on videos but this is a powerful story and your willingness to share such a personal experience makes this even more amazing. Thanks so much for sharing this.

  • @MasatsuguFUJINAKA
    @MasatsuguFUJINAKA 5 лет назад +1

    There are not so many books or films that I read/watch more than twice. Life is short. If I bump into one of them, always it is a master piece. I've never rewatched a piece of RUclips video before. This is something different. I watch this again and again and gravitating towards what I want to be (or should be). This is a master piece. You are an inspiration. Thank you very much.

  • @sandb1867
    @sandb1867 5 лет назад +3

    A perfect blend of the personal, the technical, the stories, wisdom, music, photography, video, dronography-- even the soundtrack was just right. 10 stars!

  • @digvijay990
    @digvijay990 6 лет назад +1

    When he said "I think you need to learn to grieve humanity" I got goosebumps. Sean your videos are amazing, these life lessons are really helpful and some epic portrait photography loved it keep up the good work.

  • @AhmedKamal-ok5fj
    @AhmedKamal-ok5fj 5 лет назад +7

    This is so much more than photography. I felt emotional at times during this movie. Going through your channel is changing the way I think about photography , I have even gathered a portrait setup similar to yours . God bless you man

  • @edgardomanuel7524
    @edgardomanuel7524 6 лет назад +1

    I have seen a few of your videos and I enjoy every minute of it and this time I could not help but make some observations. One of the main reasons why I keep watching your videos is that they contain life’s experiences and I’m particularly moved by the lesson you learned from your mentor on “grave humanity”. I’m 71 years old and still learning. Thank you and more power.

    • @edgardomanuel7524
      @edgardomanuel7524 6 лет назад

      Sorry I meant “grieve humanity”.

    • @seantuck
      @seantuck  6 лет назад

      Thanks:) it’s a good lesson isn’t it? I wish I could claim it as my own. I’m happy to pass on wisdom from older and wiser people than me though:)

  • @julioaponte3197
    @julioaponte3197 6 лет назад +4

    This is one of a kind video. Like your sincere advice. I'm a retired Counsellor and photographer for more than 40 years
    and enjoyed every bit of it. Your simple way of working is a must to get a nice expression from the person. Awesome
    Black and White pictures. Congrats and keep up the good work. Greetings from Puerto Rico. Wish you the best!!

  • @MdHossainFahad
    @MdHossainFahad 4 года назад +1

    Man, you are one of my most favorite philosophers. I am learning more philosophy here than any other philosophy books.

  • @kindmessias
    @kindmessias 6 лет назад +3

    Great way to honour these men. The pictures are beautiful and the expressions speak volumes. Great rendition and good of you to give back something as precious as your time .

  • @usamaalshughry4967
    @usamaalshughry4967 6 лет назад +1

    What makes your videos stand out for me is that they go very deep, for me they carry not only an outstanding esthetic value, but also a deeper humanistic core that make the experience of watching them go beyond. Very deep and beautiful. Well done Sean!

  • @Gattatapp
    @Gattatapp 5 лет назад +4

    I came for the photography and learned so much more than that. Thank you Sean, for sharing this beautiful story and of course your knowledge, much appreciated

  • @Heelissrogue
    @Heelissrogue 6 лет назад +2

    Seriously opening the locker Sean. What an amazing video. My father is my hero, brought up my brother & I on his own from the ages of 3 & 4 yrs. One of the first in the UK to gain full custody of children which was unheard of back in the 1980's. Keep uploading this great content. Last but not least, thanks.

  • @ncsa197
    @ncsa197 5 лет назад +3

    Stating why this is an incredible video would go on for a long, long time. This episode is helpful in many ways, and far beyond photography, though very good there also. Thanks so much. I look forward to more of your outstanding work.

  • @robertcheong5744
    @robertcheong5744 5 лет назад

    What I enjoyed about your channel is that its more than just about photography ... its about the trials and tribulations that is life. Inter weaving your own personal life story into your photography and your videos just makes your content that "much" more and to my mind, it rises above the thousands out there. I am thankful to have found your channel. Lastly your message to "pass it on" is poignant and beautifully put. The world needs more of this ... our Grieving Humanity needs healing. Thank you for a wonderful and well crafted video.

  • @JarmalWilcox
    @JarmalWilcox 6 лет назад +18

    This is amazing!!! You've inspired me to reach out to the men that have spoken into my life. God bless you!

  • @jpk8274
    @jpk8274 3 года назад

    You don't imagine how many times I've rewind the end of this beautiful video.. THE BW SERIES IS HEAVENLY

  • @jamiewindsor
    @jamiewindsor 6 лет назад +55

    Beautiful video. Keep up the good work.

    • @acecreates
      @acecreates 5 лет назад

      Big props when my fav photographers support each other

  • @markdecalmer2252
    @markdecalmer2252 6 лет назад +1

    A massive Thank you, and re grieving humanity, I feel sorry for your father who missed realising the son he never knew, he would have been so proud of the man his son became.

  • @Khandiephotography
    @Khandiephotography 5 лет назад +3

    Gosh I still love how breathtaking these portraits are and more so because of the backstory.

  • @laganigairo6540
    @laganigairo6540 4 года назад +1

    I think the majority of us here resonate with you Sean. What a blessing you are. God bless you!

  • @SherlockHohms
    @SherlockHohms 6 лет назад +13

    Your content is captivating and phenomenal. I love how raw and honest it is. Keep up the great work!

  • @miguelangelmendoza4075
    @miguelangelmendoza4075 2 месяца назад

    I love the way you speak about photography but making it human, photography is more than images is about feelings, stories and you are able to make us feel that, thank you

  • @alexandrafasciano9501
    @alexandrafasciano9501 6 лет назад +3

    Wow. Tears in my eyes. Great idea and beautiful portaits. Love it. Thanks so much for sharing your stories and Knowledge..

  • @dariocarnelutti6002
    @dariocarnelutti6002 4 года назад +2

    Literally cried at the end. Beautiful work. This is not just a video, it’s a Masterclass. Thanks 🙏🏼

  • @AngriestQuokka
    @AngriestQuokka 6 лет назад +3

    I only have one word for this video: Beautiful.

  • @olivierlachance1940
    @olivierlachance1940 5 лет назад +1

    Oh Sean. I am NEVER tired of listening you. You are an open heart, sensible, honest and true to yourself man and it's litting a fire inside me. You are triggering a urge to create compelling images but most importantly, you are telling me to live. I watched this whole video with deep attention since I've had the same kind of childhood. Dad abandonned us and two other men took a step in my life to guide me. Now I need to do my homework and create the same kind of story, but on top of it, I need to live this.
    Thanks Sean.

    • @seantuck
      @seantuck  5 лет назад +1

      I'm sorry to hear that my friend, and good for you for choosing to turn it around and make something of it.

  • @mattspencer1888
    @mattspencer1888 6 лет назад +3

    Inspirational and refreshing to see and hear real honesty. Thanks for sharing

  • @0y0chang0
    @0y0chang0 6 лет назад +1

    Your videos inspire me to shoot more and think deeper. I want to thank you for your mentorship to explain what really what drives you rather than simple step by step tutorials that show the process rather than the reasoning behind them. It's rare to find that in the age of commercialism.

  • @SimonBaxterPhotography
    @SimonBaxterPhotography 6 лет назад +46

    Brilliant, as always. Have a great Christmas and see you in the New Year!

  • @markthomas366
    @markthomas366 6 лет назад +1

    Never get tired of your videos or photography. Thanks for sharing.

  • @oddbjrnaustevikfoto
    @oddbjrnaustevikfoto 6 лет назад +30

    In my humble opinion, this is your best video (that I've seen so far). Truly inspirational and moving. Fantastic work and something to strive for. Well done.

    •  6 лет назад

      Agree! Agree!

  • @wheretheyhaveribs55
    @wheretheyhaveribs55 6 лет назад +1

    I'm so drawn by who you are and all the things you share with us. Huge fan. I use photography to heal the loss of my mother and being along in the world with no family. I mentor my friends because I want to direct my pain to love and to share what I can. Thank you Sean. ❤️😊

  • @isra3lnal
    @isra3lnal 6 лет назад +4

    Another phenomenal video Sean; you're the most inspiring photographer I've come across, so thank you for the labor you put into these.

  • @bazkaknics6095
    @bazkaknics6095 6 лет назад +1

    To me, this episode put up the crown on Sean's RUclips series so far. The content, the visuals and the message all were absolutely spot on. Very inspiring, thank you.

  • @thebucketlist9292
    @thebucketlist9292 6 лет назад +14

    Awesome video Sean. Keep making more. You inspire the heck out of me.

  • @SylvainDuford
    @SylvainDuford 5 лет назад +1

    There is an honesty and genuineness about you that is so refreshing to see on RUclips

    • @seantuck
      @seantuck  5 лет назад

      That’s kind. Thank you.

  • @DougThompson
    @DougThompson 6 лет назад +4

    Love your videos, Sean........especially this one.....speaks volumes. And the photos are superb!!!

  • @thapelomabuzaphotography4527
    @thapelomabuzaphotography4527 4 месяца назад

    I never get tired of consuming Sean's content, it exhibits so much authenticity

  • @shawndennstedt5898
    @shawndennstedt5898 6 лет назад +8

    Brother, your videos are truly next level shit...I absolutely love them. Informative, engaging, inspirational, motivational, philosophical, great production value, they just keep getting better. I really appreciate you.

  • @jaysmith1055
    @jaysmith1055 6 лет назад

    Sean, you are such an open, honest & real person...the world needs more men like you! God Bless.

  • @jamesj4998
    @jamesj4998 6 лет назад +12

    Great video! Love how much thought you put into everything

  • @markmckinney4
    @markmckinney4 6 лет назад +1

    Grieve humanity... those two words fill such a void for me. Thank you for sharing this message. I thoroughly loved watching your project. You've challenged me on multiple levels. Cheers.

  • @EdParsons
    @EdParsons 6 лет назад +15

    That was an utterly inspiring and interesting journey. Bravo, Sean!

  • @ncrh5186
    @ncrh5186 6 лет назад +1

    I swear you need your own National Geographic/Dicovery Channel programme. Absolutely amazing

  • @Schmavie
    @Schmavie 5 лет назад +3

    Thanks Sean for sharing so much of yourself with us, while also providing very practical photography help. :-)

  • @Cookerab
    @Cookerab 4 года назад +1

    This is far more profound than a flash / portrait video. Thank you for sharing.

  • @christophersmart3232
    @christophersmart3232 6 лет назад +3

    again, another amazing and inspirational video. absolutely captivated from Start to finish. was gutted when it was over.

  • @dhirajshetty483
    @dhirajshetty483 4 года назад +1

    Photography is a way of life & you truly embody that ...... thank you !

  • @Hangs4Fun
    @Hangs4Fun 6 лет назад +4

    WOW... great video, great story, great message, great photographs, great men...I too had my dad just up and leave when I was a tad younger than you. There were several mentors who stepped up to the plate over the years for me to fill the gap for me as well. I feel inspired to do something similar while I can. You might not have the quantity part of RUclips, but you most certainly have the Quality part down pat!!!

  • @andrewmissey5599
    @andrewmissey5599 5 лет назад +1

    As a guy that has come from the same background and has had to find father figures wherever they could I get it. Thank you for be so open and have great technical advice. You are a very informed, bright, intelligent and well shaven man!

  • @AgustinBernardoOrozco
    @AgustinBernardoOrozco 5 лет назад +3

    Stunning, It is very inspiring, I really appreciate your honesty, transparency and depth of your reflexions. You have gave a lot of thing to think in of. Regarding your technical skills in photography you are indeed a mentor for me.

  • @scotboy1297
    @scotboy1297 4 года назад +2

    This video is like a cinematic movie with the music,drone shots, portraiture and stories of these men/mentors with the beauty of South Africa, well done.

  • @meroslave
    @meroslave 6 лет назад +3

    it's been a long time I didn't watch a you-tube video affects me like that
    just go ahead Sean .. you are amazing

  • @SteveColburn3
    @SteveColburn3 6 лет назад +1

    Just saw your Portrait video, the 1st but not the last of yours I'll watch. As a 68 year old guy who has been an aspirational amateur photographer since I bought a reconditioned Zeiss Contax rangefinder in 1964, I find your video an inspiration - both personally and photographically. Many thanks.

  • @ishaan863
    @ishaan863 6 лет назад +3

    This is so honest and inspiring. Thank you Sean.

  • @PaulOttavio
    @PaulOttavio 4 года назад +1

    I am moved every time a watch this. Great instructions and life lessons. Thank you.

  • @JamesPopsysPhoto
    @JamesPopsysPhoto 6 лет назад +43

    One of your best mate, thoroughly insightful as always!

    • @mrjohnbaseley
      @mrjohnbaseley 6 лет назад

      James Popsys absolutely agree. Best yet..

  • @MickyPatagonia
    @MickyPatagonia 5 лет назад +2

    Your portraits have brought me into tears, how wonderful can that be? They are just emotional, three images, one story. I really appreciate it, and I totally love your videos. They inspire. So glad to have discovered you here. 🙏

    • @seantuck
      @seantuck  5 лет назад +1

      Thanks my friend

  • @KensUsedCarBuyingTip
    @KensUsedCarBuyingTip 6 лет назад +3

    Qualty viewing as always Sean. I like the way you look at the deeper side of life and explain it in your own unique way.

  • @allenarmstrong6379
    @allenarmstrong6379 4 года назад +1

    I am grateful to know that I am not alone in moving forward after ministry. I spent nearly a decade preparing for ministry, took my first call, and ended up leaving it last summer. There's been a lot to work through since that experience--a lot of pain, anger, and confusion. As a way of finding new direction, I bought my first dslr a month after leaving and am now building a photography career of my own. Thanks for teaching and thanks for sharing a bit of your story, which gives me hope.

    • @seantuck
      @seantuck  4 года назад

      It’s just the beginning. Keep moving forward my friend.

  • @victorsindean
    @victorsindean 6 лет назад +14

    A truly inspiring video mate! wow ...thank you!

  • @meditatesleepmelodies
    @meditatesleepmelodies 4 года назад

    I always feel intelligent after watching one of your videos. I had a challenging childhood-my father had polio so he couldn't do as much as he probably would have wanted. Had several men step up, a neighbor, youth group leader, track coach and minister that all guided me. Your video brought back these memories. Our experiences shapes us-some of us like you , make the best of life.

  • @stevebennettphotography
    @stevebennettphotography 6 лет назад +3

    What a captivating watch, you have a very beautiful way of taking the viewer on a journey. I love the idea of the three images too, very nice. Happy Christmas.

  • @jorgelopez-vy4ux
    @jorgelopez-vy4ux 6 лет назад +1

    You have a wonderful way of communicating. Your words and tone are soft, and caring but direct and to the point. Very impressed.

  • @asintu
    @asintu 6 лет назад +3

    Brilliant video - great content, wisdom and extremely well put together! Grieve humanity...genius! Cheers - keep up the great work you're doing!

  • @richardseekins24
    @richardseekins24 6 лет назад +1

    I see lots of integrity in everything you do and are. This is worth everything. Respect

  • @dey.photography
    @dey.photography 6 лет назад +7

    Most personal video I have ever seen as a photographer. Its hard being in front of camera and be the person who holds the camera and yet narrate the story - at such level of intimacy.
    Often we see people on RUclips who would talk Photography and gear and just that. Its refreshing, a bold move and absolutely respectable.
    On topic- I recommend paintings of Ivan Aivazovksy my personal favorite and his play of light and marine colors. The greens, the teals the aquas all so spot on.
    Great video!
    Merry Christmas if you are still believing. I took the other route :-) so Happy Holidays too.

  • @poppyspix4444
    @poppyspix4444 6 лет назад +1

    Excellent! What a journey. I too lost my father when I was 10 from divorce. Never saw him again and I went through much of what you did but it took me a lot longer to deal with it. Thanks for sharing and leaving us with "grieve humanity".