What is the most infuriating case of double standards you've come across?

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  • @melodramatic7904
    @melodramatic7904 Год назад +160

    For me it's bullying.
    My whole life, no one has cared if I was bullied, but the minute I stand up for myself, I'm the bad guy.

    • @HH-ru4bj
      @HH-ru4bj Год назад +17

      I've seen that. By freshman year most bullied kids just decided that since they're getting in trouble anyway, they might as well just fight. So there were a lot of fights freshman year but not so many after that.

    • @thecatfather857
      @thecatfather857 Год назад

      This was when I was in middle school, this was a school for children with special needs. I have Aspergers Syndrome, a form of Autism. Some of the kids there had Autism far worse than I did, and it showed. Anyway…
      There was these two brothers, both not so bright, one even more so. One of their favorite pastimes was mimicking me and parroting what I said. Our teachers did nothing except sternly talk to them *occasionally.* Obviously this annoyed me to the point of pissing me off, but the second I start making a stink about it, our teachers insinuate that I’m *bullying* them and threaten to write me up. I was livid. I vented to my parents my frustration, as I often did about all the BS I endured at that school during my four years there, 4th-7th Grade.
      F*ck those teachers and f+ck Oakstone Academy.

    • @headbandus
      @headbandus Год назад

      Yep, this is accurate, can confirm.
      Some peice of shit pushed me into a wall over and over again in class growing up. One day i let the little bitch have it since he was always doing it when teacher wasnt around. Cunt sucker punched me in the back of the head and was lucky i was held back or he would have been dead pretty quick, i seen red that day. First of many i started picking up for myself but its sad that the persn who picks up for himself usually gets punished, not the asshole bully with no life 🤷‍♂️

    • @alexgrimm354
      @alexgrimm354 Год назад +4

      I feel that in a Spiritual Level. Was bullied in 4 th Grade and teachers never did anything. Got so Bad i didnt want to Go to school anymore. My Mom and me went to the bullys House and His mother was Like: No my son would never do this He would never every Angel... And so on. IT didnt end until i went to Gymnasium and He didnt. So at least i know im Not as stupid as a piece of bread Cedric.

    • @DanielSelk
      @DanielSelk Год назад +4

      OMG, this was me. Stand up for myself and it's "WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU???" and the person I stood up to...well, they care 100% about that person and dote on him and are buddy buddy with them, etc.

  • @mannydavis7708
    @mannydavis7708 Год назад +63

    Poor person dies of a drug overdose. Oh, well that happens. Rich person dies of a drug overdose. Go after whoever sold it to them and charge them with murder.

    • @cursed9019
      @cursed9019 Год назад +7

      Also the rich person is "taken too soon" and "didn't deserve it"

    • @jinga9862
      @jinga9862 5 месяцев назад

      TBF, they also claim that they're going after the poor person's dealer just because it's illicit substances. The difference is that it's on the government's time, not the rich peoples'.

  • @danielhaynes7212
    @danielhaynes7212 Год назад +66

    Having to take out the trash. While having a broken arm and being told by my Dad. "Stop acting like a pussy and man up" I hate that shit.

    • @rambofan334
      @rambofan334 Год назад +18

      I think your dad might be abusing you.

    • @FatherOFCrimzon
      @FatherOFCrimzon Год назад +4

      I used to walk 37 miles towards Arkansas to takeout 71 pounds of trash while being a paraplegic yet despite all that my father told me "you have a skill issue".

    • @rambofan334
      @rambofan334 Год назад +1

      @@FatherOFCrimzon Your dad was the final boss of boomers.

    • @FatherOFCrimzon
      @FatherOFCrimzon Год назад +3

      @@rambofan334 No one has been able to challenge him since 71'

    • @ledam2654
      @ledam2654 Год назад +9

      It's mostly men calling other men "pussy" and "gay" for feeling emotion or not being strong enough to carry something. People who complain about double standards RARELY mention that.

  • @IBeforeAExceptAfterK
    @IBeforeAExceptAfterK Год назад +56

    For me, it's spending all day working beside my mom making Thanksgiving/Christmas turkey, only for my family to compliment her and _only_ her efforts. Just because I'm a guy doesn't mean I'm not able to cook.

  • @peteranon8455
    @peteranon8455 Год назад +25

    Every situation where a police officer attacks the victim should result in charges to the officer.

  • @ronniec427
    @ronniec427 Год назад +48

    OMG on the guy whose child was almost kidnapped and the guy who was robbed and killed bc he was "the theif"

    • @Dartkitten
      @Dartkitten Год назад +1

      ​@@windfromfelixiasarcasm?

  • @Tobias_Klein
    @Tobias_Klein Год назад +16

    that one about the old man was really fucked up. the fact that people can get away with that kind of shit really makes my blood boil

    • @jogle9013
      @jogle9013 Год назад +2

      Like they could've easily opened the wallet to see his ID, or that the credit cards had a male nameon them

  • @shamzo1798
    @shamzo1798 Год назад +36

    As an ex jw kid, my parents would preach their religion to everyone but was so offened when other religions did the same.

    • @xd._.28234
      @xd._.28234 Год назад +6

      Always happens, they think their religion is the only valid one. And i don't mean jews, i mean all believers, from whatever religion. I could say i believe in mother earth, being somewhat alive or idk, with a temper and they should respect it. They will? No lol because how dare i to believe a piece of floating rock is a god or sth right? XD

  • @richvandervecken3954
    @richvandervecken3954 Год назад +53

    Women in the work place can be as lewd,crude, and socially unacceptable as they want to be and never get charged with sexual harassment. A man cannot even have a private conversation with an extremely subtle sexual innuendo with a coworker, even outside the workplace without fear of being charged with sexual harassment from a 3rd party who happened to overhear the conversation!

    • @jdoe7674
      @jdoe7674 Год назад +8

      This is why I’m single and every girl I’ve ever been with made the first move on me because I’m terrified of going to jail for harassment or r@pe because I hit on a girl and she didn’t like me

    • @ledam2654
      @ledam2654 Год назад +3

      The woman is wrong and should definitely be reported. But why does a conversation with a coworker at the work place need to have an "extremely subtle sexual innuendo" to begin with? It's less about 'stringent rules' and more about sex obsession stemming from porn for some people but many aren't ready for that conversation.

    • @ledam2654
      @ledam2654 Год назад

      @Sarafina Summers Yeah, yeah yeah. It's filthy and no amount of whining will change that.

    • @ledam2654
      @ledam2654 Год назад +1

      @PhoenixLord777 People can talk about whatever they want lmao. But why are you cracking random jokes at work with a coworker? Clearly you probably wouldn't know them well enough like a friend to even know how they might interpret that. People are trying to normalize their sex/porn addictions big time.

    • @silversalmon9909
      @silversalmon9909 Год назад +1

      @@ledam2654 reading comprehension isnt your strong suit is it? Rich stated that this was happening outside of work specifically, not in the work place. Read again

  • @theintrovertedaspie9095
    @theintrovertedaspie9095 Год назад +4

    The story where the guy was accused of stealing that woman wallet and was severely beaten up for it really pissed me off. I was even more so at the end when he died and the police finally found out the truth and dropped the charges.
    Reminds me of how Sirius Black was accused of betraying Harry's parents but the charges were only dropped and his name was cleared after he died.

  • @raine6813
    @raine6813 Год назад +19

    you can get away smacking, hitting, and verbally abusing your children and the law wont care
    but if you so much as push your spouse youll be arrested for domestic abuse.
    shouldnt it be the other way around if anything?

    • @shamzo1798
      @shamzo1798 Год назад +2

      Yes you can hit a child but you cant hit an adult

    • @xd._.28234
      @xd._.28234 Год назад +1

      @@shamzo1798 yeah, always happens, because who cares ab children, they're just hairless chimps anyways! Btw this is obviusly said with irony

  • @Some_Guy6
    @Some_Guy6 Год назад +15

    Famious example (sadly) : Woman giving a kid a hug/kis = No one bats an eye. If a man does it = OMG! What a p3d0! OMG he must be doing something wrong! Because, you know. A father cannot love his child as much as a woman (apparently).....

    • @xd._.28234
      @xd._.28234 Год назад

      Yeah! it's messed up! but this also has a medical reason. men are in fact(and sadly) More likely to have that mental deviation with kids, while women are much less likely to in proportion. So everyone is eyebrow raising with men bc of this.
      Ofc it's sad because innocent men get affected more than women. Also could be that women are less the ones registered bc maybe they're not reported with this deviated thing as much as with men, occulted or lying ab it. So probably the statistics are kinda wrong. Because there's been too many cases of that adult woman abusing of a male kiddo or women abusing little girls(too!!)

    • @Some_Guy6
      @Some_Guy6 Год назад +3

      @@xd._.28234 A woman does it just as much as a man, but it gets reported much less indeed. + it's a taboo still.

    • @Avenging_Archer
      @Avenging_Archer Год назад

      @@xd._.28234 First off, that is false, society simply doesn't give a fuck about women sexually abusing underage men, just look at all the stories of teachers fucking their students and getting a slap on the wrist. One of the victims of SA was even forced by the law to pay child support to his abuser.
      Wanna talk facts? Women murder children, even their own, far, FAR more than men do. So we should keep them away from kids, according to your logic.
      What the fuck kind of point were you trying to make?

    • @karn33333
      @karn33333 Год назад +7

      @@Some_Guy6 thats because when it happens to a boy and the predator is a female "oh my god he's so lucky", yeah no, he's scarred for life. he's not going to be okay for a very long time.

    • @Some_Guy6
      @Some_Guy6 Год назад

      @@karn33333 :(

  • @thewhitewolf58
    @thewhitewolf58 Год назад +87

    For me it was snow showeling. I had to shovel some 3 feet of snow and my sister who is my age didnt have to help. If you want equal rights that means equal work.

    • @melodramatic7904
      @melodramatic7904 Год назад +14

      Equal work doesn't mean doing the exact same thing. Boys have stronger muscles due to testosterone.
      She could do something else that you don't have to. Now, if that didn't happen, that was unfair.

    • @matthewmiller6987
      @matthewmiller6987 Год назад

      @@melodramatic7904and here I thought women were just as strong as men which is what women’s empowerment has been pushing for a decade, women ALWAYS want equality until inequality benefits them

    • @ledam2654
      @ledam2654 Год назад +7

      I see girls shoveling for their parents all the time. And to be fair, if you guys had much younger siblings, I almost guarantee she would be the one responsible for help babysitting them most of the time. I know people who are the same age but the parents make the girl help out with younger siblings all the time while the boy is free to do his own thing.

    • @voidyvoid11
      @voidyvoid11 Год назад

      @@matthewmiller6987 Some people are stronger than others, just saying.

    • @matthewmiller6987
      @matthewmiller6987 Год назад +10

      @@voidyvoid11 whoopty do if men “should” do certain things (a gender role) then women should do other certain things, feminists today seek to make all things women do as part of their gender role become things both men and women do, but at the same time they still think men should do the heavy lifting or pay for the first date, if u want equality then it need to be equal

  • @voidlazar9912
    @voidlazar9912 6 месяцев назад +2

    There's a girl at my school. She constantly calls me white boy. I called her black girl one time and got suspended.

  • @yukitai9063
    @yukitai9063 Год назад +2

    Mine would've been disrespect towards parents vs sibling fights.
    If you beat up your sibling enough to draw blood, you just get a talking to, but if you give your father the slightest hint of attitude you get the belt-whooping.
    (The blood-drawing was a nosebleed from a back-hand, the disrespect was after them making you run around the house thrice for no reason)

  • @juliannickermann9492
    @juliannickermann9492 Год назад +3

    I recently saw something like that too on an cafe with a little playground.
    There was that dude who looked like that stereotypical gang dude, hoody, a pretty avoiding view on his side and one of those belly bags.
    So there was also a girl, maybe 6 or 7 and that girl had an inhaler, but the guy carried it, also the way they acted before and during that situation made it pretty obvious that he was her father or at least a closer person.
    The Girl got to him, sat on his lap and he got that inhaler out of his belly bag, and it had that thing you put over mouth and nose, so something you generally don't see that often.
    He helped the Girl and as he held that mask an elderly Woman came running and slapped him and started screaming, some other people came running aggressively talking/screaming to him, then there was another woman who might knew him and deescalated the whole situation to that point only a few were staring, but that elderly woman and a guy still shit talked him and prevented him from helping that girl with her inhaler, until that nice woman did it for him while he told her what to do, like, why?
    Im pretty sure if a woman had been in his situation, this would have never been questioned.
    Also if i see that, especially children, need medication or similar i would not prevent adults who that kid trusts from helping and let an unrelated person to that situation handle that with orders from the victim...
    Men and children is such a pain, since many people seem to forget that a child usually has 2 parents and not just a mother, but also a father who might know that kid better than strangers on the road...
    Literally reason no. 1 why i don't really want children.

  • @johnhill4937
    @johnhill4937 5 месяцев назад

    In regards to the last story of the video with the preacher dad, that has to be one of the most literal examples of the phrase, "not practicing what they preach", that I've ever heard.

  • @slimeyello710
    @slimeyello710 Год назад +7

    My most undeniable irritating and double standard thing is fucking 2022 @Reddit💀🔫

  • @slamshift6927
    @slamshift6927 9 месяцев назад +1

    Don't ever, EVER work through a break. That's YOUR time.
    And the only time you should ever stay late is if you're getting 1.5x time, or you're making up for a tardy.

  • @maxrobertson2834
    @maxrobertson2834 Год назад +1

    My school always calls my stepmom when someone needs to be picked up or something, and that would be fine if my mom and dad didn’t work 5 and 10 minutes away, while she works an hour away.

  • @invisible123-l9d
    @invisible123-l9d 2 месяца назад

    The retail industry. They demand that customers be polite and respectful to staff, whilst staff treat customers like dirt.

  • @johnhill4937
    @johnhill4937 5 месяцев назад

    In regards to the hypocrisy, for YEARS, I've had to deal with some family members being the most blatant of hypocrites. They were so quick to tell me not to do something anytime anyone told them but no matter how many times I told them about something that someone else did, they would just keep giving excuse after excuse after excuse to never have to do anything.
    To this day, 1 specific family member, whenever I call anyone of them hypocrites, they like to say "That's your favorite word, isn't it?" & I'm just like "Well yeah. I kind of has to be since y'all just REFUSE to stop!" 1 such example is how, whenever they do anything, no matter how recent it was, I'm never allowed to bring it up because it happened "in the past" even if it happened literally the week before.
    However, that exact same person won't hesitate to repeatedly bring up things that I did almost A DECADE AGO! So I'm like "How is it that I'm never allowed to bring anything that y'all did this year but it's more than okay to bring up stuff I did in 2015 or earlier?!"

  • @Sparklethehunter
    @Sparklethehunter Год назад +2

    Actually I was sexually assulted by this rly annoying dude at my old middle school once and he STILL goes there, like.. wtf???

  • @SkreltNL
    @SkreltNL Год назад +2

    Pron addiction, especially the people on the jerking side.
    Everybody claims they aint addicted
    But try to stop for 100 days, just try it
    Other words, everybody knows they are addicted but just dont wanna face the fact.

  • @SukkaPunch321
    @SukkaPunch321 Год назад +5

    Regarding the marijuana thing, I’m not sure why we normalized giving employers the right to their employee’s urine.

    • @jaydee3392
      @jaydee3392 Год назад +1

      It's federal law in some industries.

  • @random_content8165
    @random_content8165 Год назад +9

    equal rights equal fights

  • @Tinker_Nerd
    @Tinker_Nerd Год назад +2

    My high school girlfriend always tore into me the next morning if I fell asleep at night while we were texting. Whenever she did it, she never even apologized, and I honestly had no problem with her falling asleep while texting because it was fucking late and we needed sleep. When I finally called her out on it after a month and pointed out that she never saw it as a big deal when she fell asleep on me, but it was always a crime against humanity when I fell asleep on her, she got real quiet, muttered "I'm sorry" and that was the end of it. At least the end of getting chewed out, she still had an attitude. Decided to give her attitude one time when she fell asleep on me, and never had to deal with her bad attitude again

  • @merevel436
    @merevel436 Год назад +2

    Yeah, after having kids, even though mine are almost teens, I still avoid places with no change table in the mens room.

  • @johnhill4937
    @johnhill4937 5 месяцев назад

    Also my 1st ex was a hypocrite in 3 ways: 1. whenever we were talking over the phone, if I went a few seconds without speaking, she would ask me to say something (which wasn't the issue), only to immediately turn around & ask me to be quiet when I would actually tried to talk. 2. she would get upset or annoyed whenever I was busy helping my grandad with stuff for even an hour or 2. But yet, when her next boyfriend after me ended having to work for even LONGER, she was suddenly okay with it. And finally 3. when we broke up for good, she moved on the VERY NEXT DAY but then suddenly got mad when I moved on a week later.
    Like WTF?!

  • @MrXemrox
    @MrXemrox Год назад +7

    So much for male privilege.
    Talk about overcompensation.
    To the point that these issues needed to be resolved.

  • @darkshadow2502
    @darkshadow2502 3 месяца назад

    i worked in a nursery/daycare who had a male luckily he was not treated any differenly everyone loved him the staff, the parents ,the kids he taught me so much when i was learning saldy he moved but he was truly one of the best people i know sadly we did have one parent who said "pls dont let him change my childs nappy" lucky the manager said "sorry we treat all staff equally here he has gone throught the same safety checks as everyone else"

  • @patientzero8130
    @patientzero8130 Год назад +2

    I don’t know what it is but I feel like every English teacher I’ve had has silently hated me and I’m not sure why

  • @tromboneman4517
    @tromboneman4517 Год назад +4

    2:21, not gonna lie, if I were the guy in by that situation, there’d be some lawsuits.

  • @sea_triscuit7980
    @sea_triscuit7980 Год назад +1

    10:50... THIS the changing table thing is absolutely true and it's effed up

    • @theintrovertedaspie9095
      @theintrovertedaspie9095 Год назад

      Yah, you shouldn't have premarital sex when you've signed a contract for a Bilble college that says not to. Whats wrong with people.

    • @BlooMonkiMan
      @BlooMonkiMan 6 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@theintrovertedaspie9095 signing contracts is worse. It's kinda the Devil's gimmick, isn't it? Or are deals just a Hollywood myth about him?

  • @1234Julo
    @1234Julo Год назад +7

    ...a hippie vegan being mad at me at the supermarket for buying meat and killing animals while wearing fur coat and leather shoes. xD

    • @andreaslind6338
      @andreaslind6338 Год назад +1

      R/thathappened.

    • @1234Julo
      @1234Julo Год назад

      @@andreaslind6338 You're right. Vegans are just a myth.

  • @cliffcorson4000
    @cliffcorson4000 Год назад +2

    On a person being late vs staying late
    I used to let workers know that we needed them to let us know if they were going to be late as several were habitually late. They used to complain that they couldn't get to work on time so we started scheduled them 1/2 hour later and when they complained told them that it allowed them to get to work on time
    A couple would comment that they stayed late to make up the time and we had to let them know that if we let everyone come in late we'd not get anything done
    I also said how would you like to hear "sorry we are waiting for the next shift to show up" and when they said it woukd make them now to now see how your fellow employees feel

  • @Ravenishish
    @Ravenishish Год назад +1

    I'm not saying it's not a double standard but the male nurse with the kids, often schools have policies that male staff aren't allowed alone with children to protect themselves from lawsuits.
    It sucks that it's common enough this needs to happen, but in this case it's the best shield this guy could ask for.

  • @blackmagician7645
    @blackmagician7645 Год назад +1

    Like seriously?!!! With the 80 year old man being pick pocketed. None of the falsely accusing geniuses thought to open his wallet and check for any I'd????

  • @michaelnilio6746
    @michaelnilio6746 2 месяца назад

    When I was in middle school, some of my friends and I were heading home after school one day and as I was riding my bike, I felt some weird bumps on my back tire and figured I must have hit a hole. A few seconds later I felt it again so I decided to look back and in doing so, some female student who was directly behind me started hitting me for no reason. I didn't hit back but I did try and block the attack. The next day during lunch while I was eating, some other student walked past and started making fun of me for "getting beat up" by a female.
    The moral of the story is: if a woman attacked a man for whatever reason, it's considered funny or the guy "must have done something" to deserve it. But if a man hits a woman, even if it's in self defense, people label him a woman beater.

  • @infinitepossibilities3760
    @infinitepossibilities3760 6 месяцев назад

    7:03
    If you could do homework in detention, the school might see it as a study hall, and the detention could be a last-ditch effort to get some work done before the due date.

  • @onewholovesvenison5335
    @onewholovesvenison5335 8 месяцев назад

    9:39 I’m a woman and I typically get the ice and snow off my car by myself. I don’t understand why it would be a “man’s job”.

  • @darkshadow2502
    @darkshadow2502 3 месяца назад

    i hate it when all men who are just trying to spend time with their kids are either judged or told "aww ur babysitting today how nice" or "aww how kind to give mum a break" like bruh dads are parents the woman didnt make a kid by magic. scary to think women can just easily grab a child claim its theirs and no questions asked but oh no not a man cause of course men cant be good parents they have to be pedos or kidnappers

  • @Digitalfairy
    @Digitalfairy Год назад +1

    People bitching about the wars fought dangerous criminals in one book a colony that BTW even shocked the eff out of the Romans, but the moment I bring up the other kind of genocide done by colonists against native americans, the Holocaust, the KKKlan’s atrocities, the horrors of forced child labor during the 1800s, the Bolshevik’s teachery against loyalists... I get told: its all in the past, don't bring it up.

  • @generalnawaki
    @generalnawaki Год назад +14

    women expecting to make the same wage while being able to take more days off.

    • @keirtanaka2929
      @keirtanaka2929 Год назад +1

      It's 1 thing if'n tha time is actually taken off butt otherwise makes no sense...unless you're possibly trolling|

  • @sevrono
    @sevrono Год назад

    the japanese man beaten by bystanders because of the thief who later died? the mall ctv footage is actually available online, ive seen it, on camera its super obvious what happened

  • @4lexIsNotReal51
    @4lexIsNotReal51 Год назад

    This video would be better if you just showed the posts instead of 5 comments per post

  • @Doraemon1126
    @Doraemon1126 Год назад +2

    Sad

  • @that_one_dude_3541
    @that_one_dude_3541 Год назад +1

    Deez

  • @Dusty141
    @Dusty141 Год назад

    Mask wearing

  • @sumsum-rq1nc
    @sumsum-rq1nc Год назад

    Early squad

  • @lilharm
    @lilharm Месяц назад

    6:40 of course that’s different
    a working person in detention will only lose money they could’ve made, but a football player in detention could lose the school money! (sarcasm)

  • @sidd_not_vicious2609
    @sidd_not_vicious2609 Год назад +2

    rich/poor any legal system