Things That Make Your Home Look Dated | All Grey Interiors, Tuscan Kitchens and More!

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    In this video, I go over some of the home decor and furniture pieces that are looking a little dated that might be lurking in your home! Now if you love these things, keep em! However if you have some of these items and you are thinking of giving them a refresh, then I give you some great ideas to updated your home in this video.
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  • @dsquared1950
    @dsquared1950 Год назад +483

    The very best thing about never having any trendy elements in my house is never having to regret and change them.

    • @DeeDee_Stands_On_Business
      @DeeDee_Stands_On_Business Год назад +30

      I'm the same...I never buy trends, even with clothing...classics never go out of style...

    • @hereforit2347
      @hereforit2347 Год назад +8

      YES! 👍🏾

    • @channarubin8267
      @channarubin8267 Год назад +16

      oh..i also never followed trends ... but i had to regret and remove my own ideas :D
      and believe me - that were lots of ideas and styles through the years 🤣

    • @cynthiajohnston424
      @cynthiajohnston424 Год назад +4

      @@channarubin8267 Love your " true confessions " ! 😂

    • @fabergeegg1722
      @fabergeegg1722 Год назад +9

      @@DeeDee_Stands_On_Business Bingo! I totally agree. What annoys me are people who take classic furniture, decor, etc. and say, this is in! Get lost! Classic is classic! meaning, its timeless. You want to save money? are you concerned about the environment? Get classic timeless pieces. Sadly, a lot of people are very insecure, and follow like robots what others dictate. And another factor ANTIQUES. Using antiques helps the environment becuase its real wood, and it originally was made to last. Today you have complete junk, and you have to put it together using some crap mini wrench. Also, the stuff today gets junked quickly falling apart. Ok, even if you like very simple lines, the 1930s-1940s furniture are simple lines. Also, the furniture back then was very well made, and made to last with real wood, etc.

  • @Tom-hp3kw
    @Tom-hp3kw Год назад +525

    I live in a 100 year old farmhouse that my grandparents built. It's always going to be a farmhouse style, I don't care if it's trendy or not.

    • @lindaaphillippi7015
      @lindaaphillippi7015 Год назад +20

      Me too! I have dark woodwork so have picked colors that the woodwork and I like! ( also dark wood floors, which I love)

    • @natasha8302
      @natasha8302 Год назад +106

      If you live in a true farmhouse then it is authentic and not a theme 😉 👍. The problem is some parts of farmhouse can be used in all sorts of styles but many people start to go all the way giving it that un-authentic cheesy theme feeling. Farmhouse tables are great (I have one myself) but all the all white, faking distress/shiplap is when it goes down the wrong path. Nothing wrong with a farmhouse staying true to its self 😀 if fact it is better with people work with the character of the house. My exception to that rule is cookie cutter homes with out a clear style 😅 I have had to add character to my 80's cookie cutter 🤣.

    • @lindaaphillippi7015
      @lindaaphillippi7015 Год назад +21

      @@natasha8302 agreed. I always work with the style of the house. It will let you know when it hates something.

    • @natasha8302
      @natasha8302 Год назад +8

      @Linda A Phillippi I wish there were more designers & architects who were on the same page as you! Embrace what it is even if it isn't your style. Farmhouse isn't my style but if I lived in a true 100 year old farmhouse, then you better believe I would embrace the style (of course with modern solutions & technology.) Since 1980s cookie cutter doesn't have any true personality then I feel free to add personality that my 80s cookie cutter is lacking. Too many time have I watch some home remodeling show and they took a true character home and remodeled it outside it's character. I just get so frustrated over that 😤 there would be people who loved the home's character & history as it is so why do these people push their image of perfection on an existing home that is no where in that ball park.I feel like transitional styles might be a work with the existing structure and person taste. It is horrifying to see your childhood home list online stripped of all of it's original character and given a Fixer Upper make over. I am not a sentimental person and there were some improvements made but I had a problem with stripping it's over all character and design into a cringey HGTV worthy design 😬! Unfortunately, money talks and not everyone appreciates nor understands design or architecture. Of course I am no expert but I would never take a historical Victorian and pull a Fixer Upper on it like HGTV dose. I appreciate style, craftsmanship and history of a building even if it is not my preference.

    • @jrobert6916
      @jrobert6916 Год назад +2

      Good for you! I’d keep it too!

  • @daynaw.7290
    @daynaw.7290 Год назад +72

    We bought our house from an older couple who basically had all the trends you listed put in the house. However they used such quality, beautiful materials that we just kept the Tuscan kitchen etc. I will say that almost everyone who walks into our house comments on how much they like it lol. So I think some of these things are timeless if you use quality cabinetry and materials. I mean who is really going to tear out or refurb high end cabinents event if they are out of style? You'd have to have a lot of money to waste to do that.

    • @jercasgav
      @jercasgav 9 месяцев назад +6

      You can still update and refresh some by painting walls, painting or refinishing cabinets, changing a sink or faucet out, new light fixtures, cabinet knobs/pulls, maybe just get newer counter tops, etc. Save the best parts and augment the overdone/not as nice aspects. It's also pretty cheap to do this too.

    • @jsheldon
      @jsheldon 3 месяца назад +3

      I agree. My house was built in 2000 but with high quality everything. I don’t love the countertops but I cannot in good conscience rip it out just to replace with less expensive quartz I love. It’s such beautiful black granite and so thick that I doubt I’ll ever replace them.

  • @jeanvignes
    @jeanvignes Год назад +99

    One month before the lockdowns began, I moved into an "all gray everything" rental home. Gray tile flooring. Gray walls, Gray carpet in the bedrooms. White trim throughout. It felt like a very nice prison. I started wondering if I should buy an orange jumpsuit! At one point, I ordered a bag of fresh limes & a bag of fresh lemons to stack in bowls and bring some COLOR into my space. I had no furniture with me (2,500 mile move just beforehand) and everything affordable on-line (sofas, living-room chairs, rugs) was gray, gray, gray, taupe, and gray. I went from a person who was mildly fond of gray to a person with more than a little bit of a gray-phobia. Furniture manufacturers and retailers are finally catching on to the color trend (mustard! pale teal! rusty orange! butter yellow!) but now I'm anxious about over-reacting and turning my home into a carnival. Sigh.

    • @karlabritfeld7104
      @karlabritfeld7104 Год назад +4

      Why did you buy get furniture when you already had grey walls? The walls are just the neutral background. You could have gotten nice colored furniture, draperies, cushions, artwork and rugs.

    • @amartin9293
      @amartin9293 Год назад +1

      My experience too, 'we have every color as long as it's grey"....

    • @boatymsboatface3929
      @boatymsboatface3929 Год назад +2

      Wow- every rental in the town I lived in was painted grey in the eighties and nineties, wall sockets and everything else. We called it Landlord Grey!

    • @MsLambchop
      @MsLambchop Год назад

      I love your comment, lol - you made me lol 😂

    • @dimplesd8931
      @dimplesd8931 Год назад +3

      I’m a royal colors girl. My husband is a neutrals man. We did COLOR for 10yrs and now we’re doing neutrals but with aubergine and sky blue as accent colors. We literally picked sea shells off the beach one vacation day and that’s how we choose our new palate. We decided if that combo is good enough for nature, it’s good enough for us.
      If you don’t want to repaint everything. Pick some warm colors to add as accents. If you can repaint. Do it. Your house should wrap it’s arms around you every time you come home. Life’s too short not to love where you live ☺️

  • @jelatinosa
    @jelatinosa Год назад +634

    It's as if the all cool grey thing was an extreme reaction against that all warm yellow brown tuscan thing. It also went from cheesily ornate to flat and plain.

    • @vjhreeves
      @vjhreeves Год назад +42

      That is exactly the explanation

    • @merrywalsh2809
      @merrywalsh2809 Год назад +30

      It was an embrace of Scandinavian interiors also.

    • @vanessabogaert2104
      @vanessabogaert2104 Год назад +41

      My gray walls help offset my wood floors. The original owner had painted the interiors a yellowish beige and it really pulled out the orange in the wood floors. The gray I picked toned that down. I think balance is important, and all-anything is going to lack it.

    • @JamieM470
      @JamieM470 Год назад +20

      @@vanessabogaert2104 That really works! I did the same kind of thing in a room with built-in orange-ish & dark wooden cabinets. I painted the walls a soft gray & it really toned down the orange. They almost appear cherry now. It's weird lol. (I am not re-doing cabinetry. Not for me.)
      The only thing I really can't stand is wood-look floors that are gray. It makes a room look like a black-and-white photo--because Nick is right; it's not natural....and it's the most difficult & expensive thing to try to warm up.

    • @jeanvignes
      @jeanvignes Год назад +37

      I hate to be unreasonably cynical, but in all fashion trends (clothing, hair, makeup, home goods, interiors, etc.) the wider the swing from one style trend to the next, the more consumers must pay to not be "out of style". If you have to gut your kitchen to go from Tuscan Side-Show to Stark Minimalism, then you're going to spend a lot more on cabinets, counter-tops, appliances, paint, etc. than if you just want to warm up your upper cabinets by going from semi-gloss Shaker fronts in Behr Nano White to semi-gloss Shaker fronts in Behr White Peach.

  • @amberbanuelos7053
    @amberbanuelos7053 Год назад +439

    I love how you always say, “If you love these, don’t listen to me.” Style is so subjective and I love that you’re not trying to make people feel badly for liking what they like.
    * goes to grout new bathroom floors with Nick’s glitter grout *

    • @mstsp9546
      @mstsp9546 Год назад +2

      Haha

    • @Hello_Betty
      @Hello_Betty Год назад

      Fuckinf hell

    • @Hello_Betty
      @Hello_Betty Год назад +1

      Need an update

    • @katie7748
      @katie7748 Год назад +5

      Same here. Some people are so unnecessarily snarky about it. Nick's got class.

    • @amberbanuelos7053
      @amberbanuelos7053 Год назад +6

      @@katie7748 so true. Obviously I would never use glitter grout for anything, at least until Nick releases his version. But it’s so refreshing to have a RUclips style guru let people know upfront it’s okay to like what we like and that we don’t have to agree with him on everything. And he’s not a jerk about it, which is sadly always refreshing in today’s world.

  • @plantmom3699
    @plantmom3699 Год назад +128

    If you can’t update the heavy Tuscan tile backsplash, you could try painting it with tile paint. A friend of mine did that in white and it looked so beautiful! A subtle Tuscany vibe. But light and fresh! Without breaking the bank ❤️

  • @paulmaloney2383
    @paulmaloney2383 Год назад +24

    Decor is very personal, I deliberately have lots of dated things in my home and I like it. My kitchen has painted cupboards and chrome leg table and chairs, my basement has brown paneling, and it has a very retro 70's look with lava lamps and the whole bit and it's my favorite space. If you put the most modern touches to you home it will eventually become dated. Enoy your own style.

  • @EllenOzHealth
    @EllenOzHealth Год назад +203

    The dusty bowl of potpourri on the pork chop ledge 😆 I was immediately transported back to 1998 at my grandparents’ house!

    • @scushman4
      @scushman4 Год назад +6

      And the lonely bamboo stalk

  • @PaolaRL
    @PaolaRL Год назад +373

    Hi Nick! I’m Italian and I grew up in Tuscany and I agree with you! Those kitchens are an “Americanised” version of what old fashion kitchens look like here😅

    • @Nick_Lewis
      @Nick_Lewis  Год назад +36

      Glad you agree!

    • @marian.jablonski54
      @marian.jablonski54 Год назад +31

      Real Housewives of New Jersey kitchens - (No snark here - I live in New Jersey and I love New Jersey. It's a great place with lovely towns and great recreational areas.)

    • @stellajean3020
      @stellajean3020 Год назад +17

      @@marian.jablonski54 Yep, I was thinking the same thing, Real Housewives of New Jersey kitchens.🙂

    • @653j521
      @653j521 Год назад +15

      Every country takes a trend and makes it their own, so of course it is "Americanized" in the US. How could it be anything else? Buy a Tuscan house and move it here, the way Hearst used to buy up stately homes and have them shipped to CA? There are undoubtedly homes in Tuscany that are "Italianate" versions of the originals in other countries, too. No reason to be smug and superior about knowing the version in its native environment. We all grew up somewhere with whatever was native there.

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Год назад +16

      Yes genuine Tuscan is much more classier and timeless. I like the American version but in small doses.

  • @CornbreadOracle
    @CornbreadOracle Год назад +80

    I am so over all gray. I don’t have it but many of my friends do. It’s starting to feel like I am visiting them all in prison. I’ll be so glad when they update their interiors!

    • @timberline1487
      @timberline1487 Год назад +7

      It's so dreary and institutional looking. I could never understand how anyone wants to feel like they were living in a black and white photo. The fake grey wood flooring is especially hideous.

    • @jesseostone386
      @jesseostone386 Год назад +2

      It always made me feel color blind!

    • @ThePoohlewis
      @ThePoohlewis Год назад +1

      I don't have it either. Reminded me of a battleship.

    • @MaximilianvonPinneberg
      @MaximilianvonPinneberg Год назад +1

      grey smacks of builder refurb and flipped houses.

    • @JoJoPanda03
      @JoJoPanda03 Год назад +2

      My parents neighbour painted their brick fireplace grey. It looks like Bowsers castle 😅

  • @PJ-Sparkles
    @PJ-Sparkles Год назад +10

    Sometimes budget constraints are the reason for choosing decor. It’s often not possible for folks to just “choose better tile”. Choosing a “boring tile” and adding a strip of more expensive glass tile might have been a way to add a splash of something “better” that also fit within their budget, rather than 100% of the boring tile.

  • @gary4760
    @gary4760 Год назад +275

    The pork chop counter top was developed to make a home for the crochet TP doll cozy.

    • @Lisa-yg9tn
      @Lisa-yg9tn Год назад +11

      😂

    • @charlotteparadis4754
      @charlotteparadis4754 Год назад +10

      That’s hilarious!

    • @Hoticicles00
      @Hoticicles00 Год назад +5

      Brilliant! 🤣

    • @madusonkeeper
      @madusonkeeper Год назад +9

      But how much bacteria did that hold! lol we never thought of that back then..

    • @dawna4185
      @dawna4185 Год назад +12

      @@madusonkeeper that's probably what made us hardier stock back then 🤣

  • @rosezingleman5007
    @rosezingleman5007 Год назад +207

    A lot of those big entertainment centers (say from Costco?) were actually three pieces kind of nudged together. My daughter separated the pieces and took off the more gross trim, repainted and then installed them as built in cabinetry in her next house. You’d never dream what they’d started out as.

    • @tilywinn
      @tilywinn Год назад +14

      Yes that’s a great idea! I was thinking if people remove the top part of shelving it becomes almost the same as just a regular media console. Then it’s really up to you what you wanna repurpose the top for. If it real wood you could probably find someone to take it for free.

    • @Nick_Lewis
      @Nick_Lewis  Год назад +62

      Oh they come apart!? I was going to suggest a chainsaw.

    • @fancynancy2888
      @fancynancy2888 Год назад +17

      My mother did something similar with her giant entertainment centre. Hers was simpler and did not have ornamentation so I helped her remove the centre piece which housed the TV. She kept the two outer bookcase/storage units and kept them together in a corner with an armchair as her reading nook.

    • @anitamrr3987
      @anitamrr3987 Год назад +24

      Lots of older furniture can be used as storage in a basement or garage.

    • @gloriaalex11
      @gloriaalex11 Год назад +9

      My media console was marketed with matching vertical shelving and a top to make all the pieces look like one unit. However, I chose to purchase the console only. BTW, my local thrift store currently has several large entertainment centers available.

  • @katieharris412
    @katieharris412 Год назад +66

    I have never had a "porkchop" counter, but I think it is a genius idea. I can tell by your hair that you seldom have to find a place for the hot roller machine. Some of us "really, really" need counter space. Beauty is important in any room, but function is paramount!

    • @Ash-gj2lf
      @Ash-gj2lf Год назад +6

      Alternatively, proper shelves are way more functional and actually look better

    • @theManishMuse
      @theManishMuse Год назад

      I wouldn’t use objects sitting so close to the toilet. It attracts fecal matter. I get paranoid with my toothbrush on the counter. Just put your irons in a drawer.

    • @Elena-me8ul
      @Elena-me8ul Год назад +10

      @@Ash-gj2lf and where do you install the shelves in order to hold a hot roller machine? You need it counter level, which rules shelves out.

    • @winterzee
      @winterzee Год назад +2

      My concern with those is access to the toilet tank when the toilet has issues.

  • @Ian.D.
    @Ian.D. Год назад +92

    I don't live in Tuscany but in the region right above it (Emilia Romagna) and I've never seen a "Tuscan" kitchen. So maybe the reason it's not only that it's dated but that it wasn't authentic to begin with. And nothing goes out of style faster than something fake. That said, if someone loves their kitchen they should stick to it and don't bother with trends. As long as it's functional and it makes us feel good.

    • @kck9742
      @kck9742 Год назад +7

      This is a great point... things tend to be come dated when they aren't authentic.

    • @Wguy56
      @Wguy56 Год назад +5

      About a decade ago I was treated to a tour of a newer, authentically designed Colonial home out in the county- no neighbors within view. . No "driveway"...there was a dirt road with grass growing between the tire tracks. A natural native-plant unmowed yard. The stoop was a huge flattish boulder. (LOVED that!) Unpainted hand-plastered walls and ceilings with only the trim (milk) painted; smoke marks on the ceilings from candle burning fixtures. The only concession apparent was a Martha Stewart style huge traditional kitchen, which was beautifully designed for the gourmet cook owner. THEN we went down to her basement Tuscan wine room/cellar...fake stone floors, faux (Styrofoam-?) beams,a twelve foot ceiling- maybe more. an immense wrought-iron chandelier with, yes, grape and ivy motif. Fancy carved dark woodwork, perhaps fake as well? It was a real WTF moment. I assumed she had gotten "authentic" out of her system.

    • @judyh3707
      @judyh3707 Год назад +2

      ​@@Wguy56 maybe it was too far in the rurals to visit Olive Garden

    • @karenryder6317
      @karenryder6317 3 месяца назад

      Yes, just as I don't live in Tuscany, I don't live on a farm either. When your house is ultra suburban tact style, that extreme rustic/farm house/log cabin vibe which is so popular today also is fake. Maybe now that farmhouse rustic has been popular for so long will give way to a style of decor which befits its locale. Transitional is the most authentic.

    • @jamesdellaneve9005
      @jamesdellaneve9005 2 месяца назад

      Yes. I built a Tuscan home in SoCal. When I was researching, i found all of those dark faux Tuscan kitchens and furniture. Just look at homes in Italy. The homes in the country are more farmhouse. Yes, use real wood, but they are plain and not large and heavy. I focused on the building. Putting in hand made beams, rustic walls, no trim and real hand made Terrace Cottage floor tiles.

  • @awifeinterrupted
    @awifeinterrupted Год назад +146

    😂 "made everybody apparently want to go live in an Olive Garden" - I do love that movie. But you were spot on. Thank you Nick for making me laugh out loud today. ❤️

  • @carmelasantana3091
    @carmelasantana3091 Год назад +119

    Nick Lewis, going straight for the jugular with the Tuscan kitchen 🤣! All of your comments are so on point. It seems as if something is more apt to become dated when it's inauthentic. That's a good reminder for future projects. Thanks for all the work you put into these videos!

    • @Nick_Lewis
      @Nick_Lewis  Год назад +9

      oh I'll hear about this one!

    • @Ash-gj2lf
      @Ash-gj2lf Год назад

      There really is a better way to embrace the Tuscan style and it not be this cheesy mockery of Italy

    • @lisalu910
      @lisalu910 Год назад

      @@Nick_Lewis I have some Provençal decorating elements in my home but they are authentic in that they are mostly things I actually bought in Provence within the last 5-10 years or at least something that coordinates with those items.

    • @bosslady2002
      @bosslady2002 Год назад

      Every one of your changes Nike,will eventually be outdated as well..

  • @twylie2590
    @twylie2590 Год назад +2

    Sheesh... I grew up in Europe where people are proud of their houses retaining the patinas of the past. We displayed furniture, objets d'art, even utensils that were still in our possession after 100-150 years, if not more. Being au courant is good for the economy but not necessarily for the soul. Some people may feel good every time after refreshing their surroundings, surely they must feel pride with a pinch of a sense of superiority for their ability to "read the times" and be properly trendy. But after a while... a sense of rootlessness will set in. Guaranteed!

  • @spaguettoltd.7933
    @spaguettoltd.7933 Год назад +13

    One of my favorite places to see “Tuscan kitchen” style is at Wegmans, a regional upscale grocery store chain in the northeastern US. Wegmans committed hard to that aesthetic, and now going there is like entering a time portal back to 2007 😊

    • @umassigkap
      @umassigkap 4 дня назад

      Love Wegmans !!! They are getting away from that Tuscan look though

  • @arlenerivera6631
    @arlenerivera6631 Год назад +59

    I put my huge entertainment center in the garage and use all the storage space and shelves to organize there where I never had enough shelving. It is not overly ornate, and it works for me. My garage has more personality now, too. lol

    • @Starry_Night_Sky7455
      @Starry_Night_Sky7455 Год назад

      Would need strong movers for that. It works.

    • @karlabritfeld7104
      @karlabritfeld7104 Год назад

      If your garage is full of old furniture, you're hoarding. Give it away.

    • @diana6842
      @diana6842 Год назад +3

      @@karlabritfeld7104 She didn't claim her garage was "full of old furniture." She said she repurposed one piece of old furniture to use as garage shelving. That's hardly a hoarding situation.

  • @madaboutmadigan2710
    @madaboutmadigan2710 Год назад +27

    Our home is a rustic Tudor. We have updated (somewhat), but the Tuscan, rustic vibe just fits the style so organically. The grape and ivy stuff was never my vibe, but the wine rack has remained- smaller, but it remains! 😁 We can't envision anything better for us.

  • @erinmoore9681
    @erinmoore9681 Год назад +10

    I was a kitchen designer before I moved into architecture. So I spent an entire decade getting people out of “Tuscany” kitchen-ville and into something more transitional. Most of my clients couldn’t jump to stainless steel range hoods and subway tile backsplashes. But your recommendations are great. And by the way, you’re welcome for removing all of those tile windows and “old world” acanthus leaves.

  • @KarenPScott
    @KarenPScott Год назад +20

    Sitting in my all grey bedroom, which I find serene, I just realized my love of gray grew out of my hatred of years and years and years of finding nothing but beige (which I call blah-ge) and sage absolutely everywhere as though no other neutrals ever existed. And now blah-ge is coming back?? Aarrgghh!

    • @tamarastone141
      @tamarastone141 Год назад

      Just add a little blah age to that stark grey and it'll warm it up, totally modernized. Voila!

    • @timberline1487
      @timberline1487 Год назад +2

      Grey is hideous. Its literally the color of prisons, medical facilities and school gymnasiums. Can't understand how anyone finds that anything but depressing.

    • @AA-yc9dq
      @AA-yc9dq 5 дней назад

      @@timberline1487ive worked at 10 different hospitals. I wish they’d use gray instead of using vomit inducing colors.

  • @VictoriaGates
    @VictoriaGates Год назад +45

    Early 2000's.. 2006-2010 or so I was obsessed with the Tuscan look. Not because of the movie but because I thought the grapes and vines were beautiful and brought some natural elements into the house. I had wine bottles, vines, and lights above my cabinets and always got compliments. That look would be very dated now.. but at the time it was really lovely. It's mostly gone from my life now but kept some grape artwork on metal plates that I got from a vendor back then which hang on a wall in my kitchen next to my coffee nook (which is probably going to be dated soon too). Ahh, trends.

    • @karlabritfeld7104
      @karlabritfeld7104 Год назад +1

      Yes, keep the small things but definitely don't paint all the walls like that.

    • @tamarastone141
      @tamarastone141 Год назад

      I absolutely loved it too! ❤️ I recently renovated my kitchen to a more "updated version" no words, vines, or wood. I do have a couple wine racks on the walls but it's very modern.

  • @lorareynolds2351
    @lorareynolds2351 Год назад +42

    My husband took the old entertainment center apart and made a desk and two other smaller furniture pieces from the wood. He'd never done this before, so it was new and interesting for him. There are still a few odd wood pieces around...maybe we'll find a use for them eventually.

    • @paumiller74
      @paumiller74 Год назад +3

      I think that's great that the wood was saved from a landfill. That's one thing Nick didnt mention. In this world, just throwing it out seems to be the adage. Repurposing is great.

    • @tribeofdog
      @tribeofdog Год назад +3

      Came looking for this comment! There are some pretty cool videos here on YT on repurposing them into other stuff.

    • @diana6842
      @diana6842 Год назад +1

      Good idea! They also make good storage units for linens/blankets, etc. Using the center/main compartment, pare down some of ornate elements, paint it, and move it to a bedroom or hallway and use it for linen storage if you're short on closet space.

  • @atanasiamandru8188
    @atanasiamandru8188 Год назад +15

    Those humongous entertainment centers actually come in pieces… you can just dismantle the monstrosity, do a little diy with covering up the unfinished sides and break them up. Then they become statement pieces that actually look pretty good on their own, with some breathing room around them. Having said that, Nick, I really enjoy your sense of humor and how gentle you are when voicing your opinion. Always a joy to watch your videos!

    • @Starry_Night_Sky7455
      @Starry_Night_Sky7455 Год назад +1

      Yes. I look for them. I buy the shelf units. Some are easy to move. Others not quite easy at all to move.

  • @olgaboisvert3964
    @olgaboisvert3964 Год назад +13

    Hi Nick, before we put our house on the market we had a stagger come in. My once very warm and colourful home turned into gray everything. Yes we got well over asking but it killed me to live in that cold lifeless house. Thank God it sold quickly. We went house hunting I turned down any house that had a drop of gray in it. Thank goodness I had a patient realtor.

    • @mrsshelton226
      @mrsshelton226 Год назад +1

      You do know you could've just painted the house once you moved in right?

    • @olgaboisvert3964
      @olgaboisvert3964 Год назад +2

      @@mrsshelton226 What about all the flooring and gray stone counter tops. Painting is no big deal but replacing everything else is not worth the cost.

    • @mrsshelton226
      @mrsshelton226 Год назад +1

      @@olgaboisvert3964 that's very true.

  • @cocokai9661
    @cocokai9661 Год назад +90

    So gladyou mentioned the tile 'borders'. Always hated them. Think they're odd and distracting. It always looked to me like the people ran out of the tile they meant to use and threw in some random, mismatched mess to fill the space. It tends to be really ugly.

    • @rosezingleman5007
      @rosezingleman5007 Год назад +8

      That’s what literally happened to me. Tile guy miscalculated. Calls me in and shows me how he’s screwed up and there is an odd number of inches of drywall showing at the top of my bathroom. $3000 of tile, screwed up.
      I had a few of the shower tiles leftover and decided to slice them up and lay them end to end as a kind of border running above the medicine cabinets and window. Then a course of the regular tiles, again cut lengthwise to fill the remaining gap. It’s not what I really wanted but wtf choice did I really have?

    • @donotlendbookstome7923
      @donotlendbookstome7923 Год назад +5

      I love my tile border! I didn’t even choose it (rental), but after looking at it for 8 years, I’m still a fan.

    • @kck9742
      @kck9742 Год назад +3

      Yes, I see a lot of that, and could never understand it. Usually the tile borders are pretty fugly and don't even really go with the other tile.

    • @hollydays56
      @hollydays56 Год назад

      Bought a house that was all grey this year. Just about done getting it repainted. But I did just get a bathroom finished and got a border on my tile. Ugh....I didn't know it was outdated.

    • @kck9742
      @kck9742 Год назад +2

      @@hollydays56 I didn't either, and I'm personally not a fan of most of them. I also don't pay attention to whether something is in style or not... the only thing that should matter is whether or not you LIKE it. Nick even agrees that if you like it, keep it!

  • @despinakyraleos2234
    @despinakyraleos2234 Год назад +108

    Hi Nick , the grey era was the most annoying decor ever. I bought my place in the early 2000s when red and browns, Tuscan were all the rage, so when the grey Era came along I could do nothing to refresh my place. Thankfully now I can work with all these warm whites and greens!

    • @MizJilly
      @MizJilly Год назад +25

      I would argue that's the reason trends go in and out in the order that they do. The goal is to make you feel you have to $tart from $cratch will all new thing$.

    • @masulliv55
      @masulliv55 Год назад +4

      In fashion too

    • @Imbatmn57
      @Imbatmn57 Год назад +10

      I hate that modern restaurants are grey boxes its so ugly, i liked when taco bells/McDonald's didn't blend in with other buildings.

    • @bluewren65
      @bluewren65 Год назад +4

      You do realise that you can paint your house whatever colours you like irrespective of the current "trend"?

    • @despinakyraleos2234
      @despinakyraleos2234 Год назад +6

      @@bluewren65 sure, you can paint any colour you like, but I could not find a pillow (or any other accent) in any store to match the palette I had to save my life.

  • @merrywalsh2809
    @merrywalsh2809 Год назад +23

    I think the pork chop was there to give more counter space (and the illusion of more counter) in that builder grade size bathroom. Ditto, the huge mirror was to give the illusion of a larger bathroom. P.S. I think the large mirror actually emphasized how small the space was by reflecting the close opposite wall that you were standing next to.

  • @nonamenoname1133
    @nonamenoname1133 Год назад +6

    My partner's house leans towards Gray Mode and he wants that gray wood table centerpiece, but he made the excellent choice of warm walnut cabinets and shelves, black quartz counters in the kitchen and grayish in the bathroom. Gray really elevates the things that aren't gray.

  • @japspeedgirl6216
    @japspeedgirl6216 Год назад +191

    I have never seen a pork chop countertop, didn’t even know it was a thing!😂

    • @Nick_Lewis
      @Nick_Lewis  Год назад +17

      Oh it be a thing. Builders LOVE them.

    • @gerardacronin334
      @gerardacronin334 Год назад +13

      Both my bathrooms have pork shop countertops. I’m OK with them as they provide space for my toiletries, and the large mirror makes the bathrooms look bigger. But I did replace my builder basic toilets recently, and the height of the countertops was a constraint. Speaking of toilets, on my plumber’s recommendation I chose Toto toilets that flush in a whirlpool (no mould under the rim), two different flush volumes, and seats that automatically go down. My bathrooms function well, which is key!

    • @tanianaldrett8637
      @tanianaldrett8637 Год назад +10

      I’d never seen or heard of them either 😂

    • @JJoy-bk8yr
      @JJoy-bk8yr Год назад +7

      I remember when they first arrived in the late 1980s. Multiple magazine layouts, and apartments used them as a selling point. I rented a brand new apartment with one, '88 or '89. Most called them "banjo" counters. I was always lukewarm about it. The bit over the toilet was not functional and there was no way to style them in any attractive way - not ugly but just pointless. I was not sad when they went out of style.

    • @wolfsmaid6815
      @wolfsmaid6815 Год назад +16

      I´ve never seen them in Europe either. Maybe it´s an American thing.

  • @christinaslocum8761
    @christinaslocum8761 Год назад +76

    Tuscany reminds me of decorative vegetables marinating in oil in a tall bottle.😂 It was never ok.

    • @Nick_Lewis
      @Nick_Lewis  Год назад +15

      Or those dried soup mixes used for decoration!

    • @roseharte1473
      @roseharte1473 Год назад +12

      And they were always DUSTY! ugh

    • @gailwilliams5278
      @gailwilliams5278 Год назад +5

      I see those nasty-looking bottled vegetables at the thrift store (they’ve turned brown and the bottles are usually greasy and dusty). And I see people buying them!!!

    • @MyFocusVaries
      @MyFocusVaries Год назад +1

      They still sell those at Winners!

    • @janetduback5161
      @janetduback5161 Год назад +12

      Bottles of botulism

  • @nancynewlin
    @nancynewlin Год назад +22

    I wish that you had talked to the person who did the design work for the 150+ apartment complex where I live. Grey walls, floors, and kitchen cabinets. I’ve done my best to cover the walls with original art and a stylish set of tall bookshelves. And warm furnishings throughout, including a lot of wood furniture.

    • @karlabritfeld7104
      @karlabritfeld7104 Год назад +2

      That's the way to decorate. Furniture, cushions, draperies, artwork, area rugs. That's where the color goes. Neutral grey belongs on the walls. Yes I'm an interior decorator.

    • @timberline1487
      @timberline1487 Год назад

      @@karlabritfeld7104 neutral gray belongs in prisons, school gymnasiums and medical facilities, not peoples homes. It was a horrible trend that needs to die already.

  • @Joliepinkyswear1
    @Joliepinkyswear1 Год назад +7

    I had one of those large entertainment units from the late 90's. It was actually quite a gorgeous and simple maple piece but you are right, it' was just overwhelming and could only fit in one spot in my great room. I ended up putting it up for free last year (which wasn't easy because I remembered how much we actually paid for it) and someone took it to make into a china cabinet for their wife. I'm so glad it found a new life because it really was nice looking. I was just done with it after 20+ years and I feel relief when I think about the fact that it's gone...though I rarely even think about it.

  • @BewareTheLilyOfTheValley
    @BewareTheLilyOfTheValley Год назад +18

    People with the giant entertainment centers are usually in houses in which they've been in for 40 years and have no intention of moving those monstrous things 😅. With my mom's last husband, his parents had all the quintessential 90's bulky furniture. An overstuffed arm chair that could only be sat in by the step-grandfather, the huge hutch full of china and random odds and ends, and of course, the large entertainment center, and everything was just brown (including the walls as they lived in a trailer and had the brown wood paneling). I had no opinion on the decor as I was a child back then, but damn, you bringing up the entertainment center was a throw-back!
    Also, in a very morbid story, my mom had one at one point. Before we knew better, she kept two beta fish in small bowls on each side of the center. I cleaned the bowls one day but filled one of them too high, allowing the fish to jump out...onto the hard, tiled floor, about six feet below. I put it back in the bowl, but he didn't look so well and when I came home from school the next day, he was floating at the top. I had named the two fish Fred and George (yes, Harry Potter references). The book in which Fred dies had not come out yet, and I'm only realizing now that I'd lost "my" Fred as well.
    As though suffering from a broken heart, my George passed away not even two weeks later. Or, you know, keeping it in a tiny bowl in close proximity to a very loud TV probably killed him...😭

  • @Lisa-yg9tn
    @Lisa-yg9tn Год назад +15

    Want to live in an Olive Garden! I almost spit out my coffee! 😂 You covered every design dislike I have!
    Your tips are great.

  • @betsyk22
    @betsyk22 Год назад +9

    I just put IN a ledge extending over the toilet in the guest bath due to extreme size constraints--it gives guests a place to put a brush, make up bag or shaver. Also full wall mirror framed in to reflect more light. It is such an improvement over the previous where there was no where to put anything and no room for shelves.

  • @katherinethomas1637
    @katherinethomas1637 Год назад +12

    I made a bedroom into a closet and used the entertainment center to store purses, added shelves after I painted it white. I love it.

    • @karlabritfeld7104
      @karlabritfeld7104 Год назад

      Must be a small bedroom.

    • @katherinethomas1637
      @katherinethomas1637 Год назад +1

      Yes, the bedroom is small 12x13 but it only has a TV, desk, and the cabinet which holds my purses it's fine. The closet is for my coats.

  • @SarahRenz59
    @SarahRenz59 Год назад +77

    The "pork chop" countertop isn't to cover the toilet top; it's because most toilet tops are slightly convex, not flat, and it's hard to put anything on top of them. The countertop extension give you a little more space to put a box of Kleenex, a spare roll of TP, etc.

    • @earlmacmullin4688
      @earlmacmullin4688 Год назад +3

      Yes, and for this reason, I actually have to disagree with Nick for once! (especially if done in a modern bathroom with a gorgeous stone/engineered stone countertop)

    • @guerralg63
      @guerralg63 Год назад

      That's true. Ive got one in my bathroom that was installed in 1978. That stinker is going once we get to that bathroom for remodeling. However, the new problem is where do i put the kleenex. That bathroom is very small, and I imagine that's why they installed it in the first place. I dont mind any suggestions for an alternative.

    • @ragnheiursteingrims1416
      @ragnheiursteingrims1416 Год назад +3

      @@guerralg63 you can buy shelves that go over the toilet :)

    • @guerralg63
      @guerralg63 Год назад

      @@ragnheiursteingrims1416 that's true. One problem if I buy them they will sit in the garage for half a decade before my husband puts tgem up😆

    • @bnwing
      @bnwing Год назад +6

      @@guerralg63 I had this issue for years & finally determined that I don’t need Kleenex at all. My family only uses toilet paper for disposable Kleenex now & it has been a life saver.
      Toilet paper is always available, & already stored there on the roll holder. I always hated all the boxes sitting around my house, sliding off of the toilet or counters, etc. And when we didn’t need tissue often, they would end up dusty. The Kleenex boxes were such a nuisance!
      Now we just go to the bathroom & fold up a few sheets of toilet paper as needed.
      If I need to take some with me or to keep in another room, I just take a roll there, like when it’s cold/flu season, & set it on a coffee table. Or in a ziplock bag in my car.
      You can even remove the cardboard roll in the middle & make the toilet paper pull up from the center, like a commercial paper towel dispenser! Just leave the first sheet still attached in place on the outside for a neater dispenser.
      Or if I want it out of sight, I just squish the roll flat & place in a drawer. That makes it less likely to roll away, as well.
      When we aren’t needing tissue often anymore, it just goes back to the bathroom & gets used up.
      An added bonus is, if traveling or camping, it easily serves multiple uses. It’s a lot easier to use toilet paper as Kleenex, whereas Kleenex doesn’t work as well as toilet paper. 😂 It’s easier to store, as well.
      Getting rid of Kleenex boxes has been one of the best decisions ever & has made life so much less stressful once I did it, even though it is a minor change.
      Plus, it’s cheaper! And one less item to try to remember to buy.
      My husband & sons also use washable handkerchiefs, as well. 😊

  • @sweetkitty3249
    @sweetkitty3249 Год назад +108

    I thought Tuscan kitchens looked corny even back when they were popular. Also, so hard to keep those kitchens clean because of all the nooks & crannies in the doors & embellishments everywhere.

    • @DNAConsultingDetectives
      @DNAConsultingDetectives Год назад +5

      The tile countertops looked dirty they day they were built. Ack!

    • @katie7748
      @katie7748 Год назад +6

      I love fancy looking stuff but omg the dust drives me bonkers!! Especially since some of the really tight spaces literally cannot be dusted with anything bigger than a Q-tip!

  • @sandiep7717
    @sandiep7717 Год назад +45

    I agree with you about the grey. I never liked all grey in homesTo me, grey means sadness.

    • @bosslady2002
      @bosslady2002 Год назад +1

      I have dove grey bedroom walls & bathroom, just did it.the rest of bedroom white,black,cream.headboard is upholstered off wlhite I use black leather throw pillows & grey,black cream faux fur throw.also have a personal seating area with a off white with black stripes & use silver stools under my black parson table.. I.. love the look and feels so elegant & restful.i like clean lines,do not like colors. Pop the bathroom up with 2 large black framed abstract picture one hung over the other,...placed over the toiletit takes the eye off of the toilet and right to the picture.s.flooring is grey,black, cream,small octagon shaped tile ,dove grey vanity cabinet doors,black handles, used a large tall glass vase filed with sunflowers.thats it.. absolutely love both rooms.out of date??? High end looks are never out of style,& don't have to spend alot to achieve the look...you..are happy with... I say again,nothing is outdated...if you like it. Changes are for companies to make money.i help other fluff their houses just st by using things from each room and using them in other places.change bedding,throw pillows...a area rug here & there.walla..you have a new look,without braking the bank.

    • @timberline1487
      @timberline1487 Год назад +1

      @@bosslady2002 gross. Sounds like a cold depressing prison. No thanks

    • @timberline1487
      @timberline1487 Год назад +1

      100% agreed. I'm so glad to see it go away.

    • @lifeexperienceandgrowthyoutube
      @lifeexperienceandgrowthyoutube 28 дней назад

      ​@@bosslady2002As long as you love it, you do you. I like your nice vase of sunflower touch against the gray background. It's sophisticated and relaxing. (Human beings are varied. I'm more of a red-blue-black-and-white-loving person.)

  • @MsSavagechef
    @MsSavagechef Год назад +6

    "If you buy my house you get my entertainment center" Yes, that is exactly what we were told while house hunting. We passed, but mostly because the kitchen had one of those black glass stovetops that was badly chipped. Also,the ceilings were popcorn. We bought, a new house with a gas cooktop.

  • @thomaspotsbytom6805
    @thomaspotsbytom6805 Год назад +12

    I have such vivid memories of episodes of Trading Spaces wherein each of these outdated styles were the subject of the episode... one homeowner wanting their kitchen become a villa in Tuscany, someone wanting an all grey modern living room or, Ty Pennington building one of the ugly giant entertainment centre and we all just ATE IT UP.

  • @CarolYatesWilkerson
    @CarolYatesWilkerson Год назад +111

    You have to be able to access the toilet tank, so a ledge over it is problematic.

    • @vaderladyl
      @vaderladyl Год назад +3

      Yes I had known people to cut that part off or install hinges to access the toilet tank lid, because it was installed too close.

    • @AnnaReed42
      @AnnaReed42 Год назад +21

      Exactly! I have never seen this style of countertop before, but my first thought when Nick popped up a picture was "How are you supposed to fix the toilet if something breaks in there?" I know basically nothing about plumbing but I know that the tank lid comes off for a reason 😂

    • @laurac56
      @laurac56 Год назад +3

      My sister-in-law’s was JUST narrow enough in depth to remove the tank lid. I think that’s the way they (were supposed to) be.

    • @frisco61
      @frisco61 Год назад +4

      @@AnnaReed42 from the pictures you can obviously tell that you can get the lid off. Now working on the inside of the tank is a whole other matter.

  • @nicholnunn8074
    @nicholnunn8074 Год назад +2

    Our old entertainment center was three separate parts. I pulled the doors off, painted them, changed the hardware on the drawers and separated the pieces in different rooms. My kids each have a piece and use them for storing books and toys.

  • @melissafraser2190
    @melissafraser2190 Год назад +2

    Ah, thank you for mentioning the all grey thing! I am so happy that's over!

  • @rebelliousraven
    @rebelliousraven Год назад +51

    I think tile borders are more a cost saving measure than "I love tile borders let's install one."
    A "non boring" tile more often than not translates into an expensive tile. When covering a large Sq footage (like a large shower/bathroom) it just can be totally cost prohibitive for the average person to use an expensive tile over the whole expanse. The border is a way to use a beautiful tile in a non cost prohibitive way. I do think we need more ideas/options of how to incorporate tile accents in new ways.
    In looking at slightly older pictures I've come to appreciate how many tile jobs look dated -not just those with borders and/or cheap tile. Tile "styles" really do come and go. Tile is very expensive, dirty, and time consuming to change out when styles change. More discussion about tile styles that are " timeless" would also be appreciated.

    • @agravery223
      @agravery223 Год назад +3

      I agree and keep it simple with basic white subway tiles and make the accents warm and inviting... I have an old claw foot tub and it looks great with light gold accents and green plants with a stained glass window to protect privacy in the bathroom 😉

    • @rebelliousraven
      @rebelliousraven Год назад +2

      @@agravery223 I agree white subway tile is timeless (however over-used in Modern Farmhouse)
      We have one bathroom in white subway and another with a black/white tile design ....both look as good now as when we put them in 20 yrs ago. Another shower with "on trend" tile makes me say "what was I thinking??" everytime I see it, 😆

    • @Ash-gj2lf
      @Ash-gj2lf Год назад +4

      Plain and inexpensive tile still looks better without a boarder though. “Boring tile” can also be minimalistic, simple, and elegant!

    • @dawnchesbro4189
      @dawnchesbro4189 Год назад +1

      I appreciate tile that keeps to the same style period of your house. So if you have a 1950s house, lean into that pastel tile. But mix it up with more modern fixtures. Or if you have a 1920s house, look at art nouveau tile for inspiration.

    • @rebelliousraven
      @rebelliousraven Год назад +1

      @@dawnchesbro4189 yes I agree. Nothing looked worst than when my Grandma tried to "improve" on her very classic mid century ranch by ripping out the kitchen cabinets (solid, beautiful maple) and bathroom tile (pink) and making it look like it was puked on by the 80s

  • @FTG2Eli
    @FTG2Eli Год назад +9

    For me the LARGE entertainment center started in the '60s; held the turntable, amplifier, speakers, LP's, my father's 78's and 45's. Even had room for our set of encyclopedia!

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    • @DeeDee_Stands_On_Business
      @DeeDee_Stands_On_Business Год назад +1

      Remember those days fondly...

  • @suetrublu
    @suetrublu Год назад +1

    First time you showed up on my feed and I wouldn't have chosen to watch. That's why I'm grateful for my automix. Turns out you're fun and your ideas make a lot of sense. So Thanks.

  • @maryannsmith4046
    @maryannsmith4046 Год назад +8

    After living with oak flooring hell for years, I love the grey flooring I currently have. Call it dated, but for me it’s a breath of fresh air.

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    • @sophievanderbilt1325
      @sophievanderbilt1325 Год назад +4

      Yes I have super yellow oak flooring and my next home is having sandy gray vinyl plank flooring. I can’t not wait!!! Feels fresh and new to me, so I’m happy.

    • @wisteria808
      @wisteria808 Год назад +2

      @@sophievanderbilt1325 - Why would you replace real wood floors with vinyl? Can't you just have your floors sanded and stained a more neutral brown color?

    • @sophievanderbilt1325
      @sophievanderbilt1325 Год назад

      @@wisteria808 my next home is a custom build. They didn’t even give us the choice to have hardwood floors. LVP was the only thing we could get.

    • @Dani._ella
      @Dani._ella Год назад

      Yes same here!!!

  • @onedgurl425
    @onedgurl425 Год назад +7

    As someone who lives in a very grey apartment and building (it’s contemporary brutalist) here’s how I added life to my space:
    -Lots of wood tones and accents. Sofa is dark brown and beige, light brown wood coffee and console, etc.
    -add color. I have two super cozy turquoise velvet chairs (very art deco style), oriental rug, etc
    -warm lighting. Go for yellower bulbs to make a room cozier.
    Open to suggestions if y’all got any tips because it’s definitely a work in progress

  • @Jade93972
    @Jade93972 Год назад +1

    Lowkey, those massive ass entertainment centers are a throwback and despite not owning a TV I still desire owning one only for nostalgia vibes.

  • @amandavogtman1312
    @amandavogtman1312 11 месяцев назад +7

    I literally just finished converting my boring, terrible kitchen into a Tuscan kind of theme 😅 I work in wine and drink a lot of it so it works well for me. I actually really enjoy my kitchen now and that’s what matters 😊

    • @marciabyram6003
      @marciabyram6003 2 месяца назад

      I work part time at a vineyard too and the tasting room and big room is Tuscan but done in good taste, not cheesy. The owner is from Europe so she knows how to create the real McCoy. The customers seem to love it along with the great views from the country.

  • @AndreaSmith-gx4yj
    @AndreaSmith-gx4yj Год назад +6

    When I wanted to get rid of my entertainment center, I put it for free on craigslist and mentioned that it was made from real wood and could be taken apart to make a new project. Wood is so expensive now that it was swooped up.

  • @slowcrochet
    @slowcrochet Год назад +41

    Driftwood is gray. Old barns are gray. Japanese burnt wood treatment isn't brown or beige. Grey can be a natural color for wood, but if you want a gray floor, polished concrete is my pick.

    • @hiwelcometochillis2579
      @hiwelcometochillis2579 Год назад

      Yes also deck In beach house are gray, all fine woods in yatch boats turn gray.
      Gray wood Is an organic color (if you let wood age with time)

    • @esfirkoles
      @esfirkoles Год назад +1

      He’s talking more about fresh, unweathered and natural woods. In natural state, grey woods are extremely rare

    • @hiwelcometochillis2579
      @hiwelcometochillis2579 Год назад

      @@esfirkoles most woods turn gray over time and sun but there is woods that trees are gray and very common like gray oak , Blue Mahoe,Sapwood,Heartwood etc etc many more

  • @liseb2667
    @liseb2667 Год назад +1

    I'm new to this channel, but what I love most are the very clear examples of what you/Nick means by what not to do / what to do instead. I'm guilty of putting grey toned engineered hardwood when we reno'ed our last house a year ago, and now picking finishes for our new build we're strongly in the warmer brown toned floor camp, so this was reassuring that we're on the right track for something that is going to be more enduring style-wise.

  • @AlexGauthier
    @AlexGauthier Год назад +5

    Interesting comment about "porkchop" counter tops. I'd never heard this term before but I recently installed one in my bathroom remodel not so much for style reasons but for practical considerations. It's a *very* small bathroom and storage is quite limited so this additional shelf over the toilet added a little storage. I think I'm pulling it off though. It looks more modern with a glass shower wall for the step-in shower adjacent and the floating vanity top and shelf being made from solid 8/4 walnut with matching floating shelves. The tile is oxidized black on the floor and a really nice distressed blue tile on the walls. I also broke the rules and used a black basalt vessel sink with black metals throughout. I used a wood shower panel instead of just a traditional head and handle. I dunno... it breaks a lot of current trend advice but I get lots of compliments on it. 🙂

  • @PrinceDuCiel7
    @PrinceDuCiel7 Год назад +13

    *sitting in my all grey and white apartment* This is clearly the video for me!
    🤣
    But it totally works for my space. Very narrow studio apartment and the light cool colours keep it feeling spacey. *ignores black walls*

    • @BoringTroublemaker
      @BoringTroublemaker Год назад +1

      My bedroom is grey and white. I love it because I can add any accent color I want. I can put any color sheets with a matching quilt with my grey linen duvet and white headboard and trunk, or change my frames, lampshades, whatever… blue, pink, green, whatever I want. 🤷🏻‍♀️🙌

  • @LynetteMcGrath
    @LynetteMcGrath Год назад +3

    My son was working on a building job where there were boxes & boxes of leftover plain white subway tiles. They were going to junk them so he bought them home and re-did all the splashbacks in my kitchen & butlers pantry, but we did include a tile border just to break up all that white, as I have white cupboards and black counter tops.

  • @PaulJohnYBAS
    @PaulJohnYBAS Год назад +2

    "Ma'am, you live in Calgary, not in Tuscany" sends me 🤣💀 @2:43

  • @djimmock
    @djimmock Год назад +1

    Nick, you have a delightful talent for being funny while avoiding being condescending.

  • @anonknitter
    @anonknitter Год назад +9

    In our first apartment, we had a hand-me-down massive media console. I don't know how my husband got in in there, but to get it out he first chopped it up with a reciprocating saw and we tossed the pieces out the window 😂

  • @marciaolson2388
    @marciaolson2388 Год назад +13

    toilets: also, from the get-go install a tall ADA approved toilet. Much easier to utilize especially as one ages.

    • @lsmc8909
      @lsmc8909 Год назад +1

      For defecation, the human body is set up to eliminate in a squat position. Having a toilet that is too high can introduce difficulty eliminating. While understanding that it can be harder to stand up from sitting as one ages, 💩 is important.

    • @653j521
      @653j521 Год назад +3

      That very much depends (no pun intended) on how tall a person is. If you have to get tippy toed to be seat level, not great. :)

    • @trinam2503
      @trinam2503 Год назад

      As someone who is 5'3" with a 6'6" husband, I can attest we need different height toilets. Our home came w 3 ADA height toilets. When one needed replacing, we drove over 100miles to find a shorter toilet so I could potty in comfort!

  • @LynnThompsonAuthor
    @LynnThompsonAuthor Год назад +47

    Thank God somebody is finally telling people to get rid of all that gray! I decorated with some gray back in the '80s and am so over it. When I was house shopping online 6-7 years ago, every new or "updated" house I looked at was gray, gray, gray. Boring! I love color and use it lavishly in my décor.

    • @lisalu910
      @lisalu910 Год назад +2

      What I remember from the 1980s is that particular color of Wedgewood blue - it was EVERYWHERE. Also that dreadful country scheme - "ducks on a stick" we used to call it. I don't really remember gray being a thing as much.

    • @karlabritfeld7104
      @karlabritfeld7104 Год назад +3

      I use tons of color in my house. In curtains, pillows, chairs, artwork. But neutral ways. Grey. Everything goes with grey.

    • @LynnThompsonAuthor
      @LynnThompsonAuthor Год назад +2

      @@lisalu910 Gray wasn't a thing in the '80s; I just liked being different. I remember a lot of hunter green, mauve, salmon, and flowery chintz from that era. All the Laura Ashley prints!

    • @ivanrodriguez268
      @ivanrodriguez268 Год назад +1

      I like warm grays and then a pop of color. Or some rooms that look more neutral so that YOU can be the focal point. I wear bright colors like that red blazer you have on your pic. It's a great choice to wear red!

  • @GigglingKat
    @GigglingKat Год назад +21

    Untrained Viewer Opinions!
    Tuscany kitchens: there was also a weird thing where this was the only room in the house given this treatment and just made it all look so choppy. Or the whole house was “Olive Garden” which I almost appreciate more. COMMIT.
    Pork chop countertops: how do you get to the toilets for repair?
    Tile borders: there was a 80s/90s version as well with wallpaper. I’m waiting with baited breath to see where it ends up next.
    Gray: I think whenever you pick a neutral to be just neutral instead of a color you love. I think if you put in an all white kitchen because you love them, it just somehow shows. Versus putting in an all white kitchen because you were terrified of picking the wrong color. Grays just exacerbate that problem. If you are using grays because you love them, then you are working with them. If you’re putting gray everywhere so you don’t have to pick a color…. Stop. Please.
    HUGE Entertainment Center: the only option is to get into furniture diy and make other things out of them. Which is why Nick would just move and leave it behind. LOL

  • @jayburris6252
    @jayburris6252 Год назад +23

    I agree that the Tuscany kitchen can look dated. It looked dated when it was installed. I don’t hate the tile backsplash at all. I don’t think the style is inherently bad though. I think there are lots of styles that are lazy and not good as soon as it’s put in. I think the standard “modern” style put in today is just as bad as the 90s Tuscany kitchen.

  • @mariearce8021
    @mariearce8021 Год назад +5

    We each like different things. I have never gone with trends in anything because I never wanted to have to change something and spend more money down the road. Our tastes might change but if you have more neutral colors and keep it simple, you can easily and less expensively change decor and accents around the house if you want to. For myself, I'm not at all fond of grey but I have always liked a combination of white, cream and beige, it goes with just about everything and gives me an airy serene look I like in my home and I see it as a classic look but I figure not every one will like that. We don't have to like what every one else likes, that's the point of making your home a personal space that feels good to you. I enjoy having items that mean something to me and bring back good memories, a combination of new and thrifted things. It's my own style not necessarily a picture from a fancy house magazine but if someone likes that, that's ok for them.

  • @spriggansiedeutsch6817
    @spriggansiedeutsch6817 Год назад

    I chuckled when you called the toilet bend “the worm.” 😅 Never thought of it that way before, and now, I’ll never think of it another way. 😂

  • @kerryharrison3806
    @kerryharrison3806 Год назад +2

    The grey phase was like living with cataracts!

  • @juliaagostinelli5169
    @juliaagostinelli5169 Год назад +4

    I've never been a fan of the all-grey rooms. However, the one grey I adore is the griege-colored flooring. A wonderful combo of grey and brown that instantly warms a room. This allows decorating to move away from all grey.

  • @frangish9579
    @frangish9579 Год назад +3

    I turn free solid wood (TV) armoires into tool lockers for my garage and studio storage she shed. Not only is it economical, reduces waste It just is warms up the perimeter walls. Also, it reduces the visual noise and the floor space. 😅

  • @Countess88
    @Countess88 Год назад

    The bees on the black painted wall, in that living photo, is ridiculous. But, I OVE that cinnamon wall with the cinnamon pillows & colored rug! Wow! 😮

  • @lindalinda9441
    @lindalinda9441 Год назад +3

    I about died with your large entertainment center comment 😂😂 “I’m not taking/moving it” I felt that soooo deep. 😂😂
    Nothing screams “free” more than a heavy piece of furniture ya simply don’t want to move, no matter what you paid for it! 😂😂❤️❤️❤️

    • @diana6842
      @diana6842 Год назад

      We did that with our old, massive, upright piano. We told the buyer it went with the house. I felt kind of guilty about it. 😂

  • @godblessamericamyhomesweet1094
    @godblessamericamyhomesweet1094 Год назад +5

    I splurged on the blue Caraway set last year. I regret nothing. They are worth every penny people. ❤
    Side note edit: As an Italian, I approve this message. 🤣

  • @flavialm1
    @flavialm1 Год назад +22

    I actually love the all grey everything, I have adhd and having color in my house actually makes me uncomfortable like I can't relax, almost like my brain continues to be estimulated. Since I removed all color from my house I'm much more relaxed and sleeping a lot better.

    • @pxn748
      @pxn748 Год назад +5

      Then it is perfect for you!

    • @bmccarthy3333
      @bmccarthy3333 Год назад +4

      Well, Enjoy your home to the fullest! But if your hair turns gray, how will anyone find you? 😁

    • @psychologicallyspeaking
      @psychologicallyspeaking Год назад +4

      i love it, too. i have many different shades of grey and I find its a great canvas for any accent color you want to use. right now I'm in a purple accent mode but I might be moving to a deep teal for throws , pillows and carpets. to me grey is classic and there are so many shades of grey that are delicious. charcoal is gorgeous as one accent wall, purplish greys (I dare say mauve) are so pretty, too. even shiny metallics like silver and gold go so well with grey. in the video he's sitting in a GREY chair, which goes beautifully with any kind of wood furniture. to me grey is timeless.

    • @Dani._ella
      @Dani._ella Год назад +1

      Right. You have what makes you happy! I too have all grey walls with grey vinyl flooring that has brown in it. I have darker brown furniture to pick up in the floor. I have beige stone backsplash with cherry wood cabinets in my kitchen. My home is functional, cozy, bright, airy and comfortable and I’m happy here. That’s all that matters!!

    • @Dani._ella
      @Dani._ella Год назад +1

      @@psychologicallyspeaking yes grey is definitely timeless and so easy to break up with furniture and pops of color

  • @guerralg63
    @guerralg63 Год назад +1

    Dear Nick your's is the first channel i found of its kind and I love it! Knowing RUclips i got suggestions for other decorating channels, and some were ok, but yours is the best!! You have the best advice and suggestions and the best take on them. You also have the best personality, and you never come off as snooty. You have great humor always, and todays "living in Olive Garden" made me glad I wasnt eating or drinking anything!😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣

  • @karlabritfeld7104
    @karlabritfeld7104 Год назад +3

    I have all grey walls in my house with white trim and beautiful wood floors. Furniture in living room is deep red couches, black swivel chairs. Large mirrors on the walls and large pieces of abstract art, large modern area rugs. The key to a warm liveable house is in the decorating. When something gets worn out, I get rid of it and replace with something new and modern looking. My house have always looked, warn, modern and inviting. You should really talk to a decorator if you don't have a clue. It will save you a lot of money in the long run.

  • @joykinser3444
    @joykinser3444 Год назад +7

    Aw man, you got me Nick! I just redid my bathrooms and put border tiles in both. It's ok bc I love them so I'll still keep them. Im no professional designer so I knew this day would come eventually, lol.

    • @Motherhubbard170
      @Motherhubbard170 Год назад

      awww never mind you're not alone

    • @shell2250
      @shell2250 Год назад

      @@Motherhubbard170 I also like most of the border tiles. I agree that if the rest of the tile is cheap, and those are the only nice tile, then it looks odd. But, I have border tile in my kitchen, and I love it. The rest of the tile is still really nice on it's own, and I think the border tile just makes it even better. To each their own. lol.

    • @mrsshelton226
      @mrsshelton226 Год назад

      I'm guilty as well. Just redid my bathroom and got glass mosiac tile border around my shower. Oh well. I love it though lol

  • @ClineFamilyof5
    @ClineFamilyof5 Год назад +28

    Living in an Olive Garden had me lol’ing. The gray on gray trend always made me think of people living in a 1950’s black and white sitcom, but more depressing.. I couldn’t do it

    • @katie7748
      @katie7748 Год назад +2

      Did you know that some people actually, genuinely think the world used to be black and white? I knew a girl back in high school who truly thought that's how it was.
      Edit: same btw lol

    • @ClineFamilyof5
      @ClineFamilyof5 Год назад +1

      @@katie7748 wowza…I wonder what that girl is doing now?! Lol

    • @lanaj1107
      @lanaj1107 Год назад +4

      @@ClineFamilyof5 and probably a news anchor.

    • @kck9742
      @kck9742 Год назад +2

      I agree. I LIKE grey and have nothing against it, but it needs something to warm it up. Not just all-grey everything.

    • @Dani._ella
      @Dani._ella Год назад +1

      Grey is timeless. Easy to use furniture and pops of color to brighten.

  • @daniellemartin9896
    @daniellemartin9896 Год назад +1

    The purpose of the "pork chop" counter is to add storage space that still allows access to the toilet tank. That slice is more sturdy and stable than the top of the toilet. Basically that's where you store the poopourri - not potpourri!

  • @SeaTurtle515
    @SeaTurtle515 Год назад +1

    When I bought my home last year, it had a pork chop countertop and full width mirror. The counter top was a beautiful color, quality material and in pristine condition, it didn’t feel right to remove it. So I replaced the mirror with a gorgeous round brass, sleek, metal frame and I did a bit of classy decor on the part of the countertop covering the toilet. I’m actually glad I have that part, as I like putting an interesting vase with natural dried flowers on it then on the toilet top. When I refurbished my home, I tried to keep as much out of the land fill that I could and still achieve the look I was going for. I’m pleased with the outcome.

  • @sophievanderbilt1325
    @sophievanderbilt1325 Год назад +5

    That cookware is really pretty. Also, I’ll always be a fan of cool or cool-neutral tones. I loved the all-gray era but I’m ok with adding in some sandy taupe and cream accents to freshen up my space.

    • @herewego1115
      @herewego1115 Год назад

      Same for me. I now have gray walls, white trim, some wood tones, cream and tan accents. I then add just a few pops of color with throws and such.

  • @kellystanton7378
    @kellystanton7378 Год назад +4

    Nick, 100 percent agree about the "porkchop" countertop. I have one in my bathroom, which is the secondary bathroom. We call it a "banjo" countertop. Whatever it's called, I HATE IT! I want to have it and the gigantic mirror removed, but I think that's going to be very expensive. I imagine removing them will tear up the paint, and I'll have to have all that cleaned up. Oh well, I'll save up and do it, totally worth it! Great video Nick 😀

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  • @focusedflow5785
    @focusedflow5785 6 месяцев назад

    Hey Nick - don’t know if you’ll see this but I wanted to comment on the entertainment centers. We had a massive one, and we removed it. We gave it to our painter, who figured out they were all actually pieces that were so heavy they just sat on each other. So it can definitely be done!

  • @migrabar79
    @migrabar79 Год назад +1

    Loved this video. My favorite part: "If you have one of these (entertainment centers) you should consider.... not having one!" LOL! You cracked me up! Great advice!

  • @Neenerella333
    @Neenerella333 Год назад +8

    Teak and cedar do become gray over time, if they are left unfinished. Also, quality textures and material in any monochrome shake things up. People seemed to have forgotten about accent colors in those monochromatic gray rooms.

    • @lanaj1107
      @lanaj1107 Год назад +1

      Water and UV exposure causes those woods to turn grey. Something you would likely find on fences and decks... Not in houses unless it's repurposed. If it's repurposed, it would need to be sanded and sealed. To my eye, it doesn't belong in houses but it looks great outside. I had cedar shakes, deck and fences plus cedar lawn furniture in my yard and I loved them! 😍 I miss that now that I'm living in the desert SW.

  • @joythornz
    @joythornz Год назад +3

    The irony is, what's new today will be dated tomorrow. Focus on designs that brings you joy and not about pleasing other people. At the end of the day, you'll be the one to live with it 24/7.

  • @ilovetodaycoaching6865
    @ilovetodaycoaching6865 Год назад +2

    This was SUPER helpful! I have a home with color from the early 2000s. I love my rich gold walls and yes...tuscan red wall (one wall) but never got into the grapes, tile and accessories, vines...olive garden vibe. 😄 i just love the warmth of color. BUT to know how to lighten up the home and give a refresh helps so much! Love your channel and thank you!!

  • @katemartin8064
    @katemartin8064 Год назад +1

    You can't even give those giant entertainment centers away! We had one that we tried to sell, then give away, then donate. No takers, so we cut it into pieces and used it as firewood for our fire pit.

  • @marialavere
    @marialavere Год назад +6

    I really love all your videos and all the example pictures look so beautiful. But they seem to all have really tall cielings… I was wondering if you could share some tips about how to design rooms with relatively low cielings? That would be super helpful!😊

  • @marypineda1945
    @marypineda1945 Год назад +9

    We’ve been lookin at downsizing so I’ve been looking at homes. Some houses have been “updated” for sale and have gone with nearly all grey. If it’s just walls or cabinets I can paint that’s fine, but this carpet, tile, engineered flooring and slate in varying shades of grey is a non-starter. I’ve passed on a number of houses because I couldn’t justify ripping out new flooring, countertops or tile in a color I hate….glad it’s on your list….

    • @DNAConsultingDetectives
      @DNAConsultingDetectives Год назад +6

      I hope you told the realtor who was showing the house. Sellers need to know to just stop with the grey.

    • @victoriafisher1923
      @victoriafisher1923 Год назад +1

      Yep--grey is still a colour people are into. Some developers "doing up" houses near me in my historic neighbourhood (very expensive to buy in) are stripping out all the colour inside and out for sale. The "updated" houses look awful as a result--grey floors, white/grey walls, grey countertops, glass stairs. The older houses with their warmer, softer styles and tones look so much more cosy and appealing in comparison.
      I don't think people are snapping up the greyified homes, either. They know, like you, that they'd be locked into the icebox style with icebox fittings and floors, and people around here willing to spend the money are looking usually for something to raise a family in. The grey houses are just too chilly and soulless. If people want something like that, they'll probably buy a new build. Removing the historic, cosy elements from a house people will largely look at for its location is a really terrible decision.

    • @katie7748
      @katie7748 Год назад +1

      I saw an absolutely gorgeous older house that had all kinds of character to it but they painted all the original, ornate hardwood trim and details that God-awful grey. The walls were a weird almost purple-grey or white (depending on the room) and the kitchen was completely white. Top to bottom. White. Well, except for the stainless steel appliances. The only color in the whole house was on a few throw pillows that were such washed out, faded pastels they may as well have just used cream. It made me think of the meme from The Godfather. "Look how they massacred my boy."

  • @kriscosta1
    @kriscosta1 Год назад +1

    The way he pronounced pasta I can never get over it.

  • @ivanrodriguez268
    @ivanrodriguez268 Год назад

    I like the gray because it neutralizes everything so then YOU can be the center and focal point. Wear a red jacket and you are the star!

  • @jbalconi5922
    @jbalconi5922 Год назад +3

    I laughed aloud when I saw the title of your video. My house was built in the late '90s, when numerous paint colours with a grey base were popular, including dull lavender and a grey-blue. The original owner of my home, despite mostly cloudy days in this region, used them inside and out. The next owners repainted a couple rooms in designer "effects": Calvin Klein's navy paint with sand in it (why?) and badly-done plaster for Tuscan, naturally. I honestly don't know which is worse.

  • @bemdederwin1554
    @bemdederwin1554 Год назад +3

    I like parts of the Tuscan style... the warm colors and tile counters. I also hated everything gray when it first started but I ended up with a charcoal sofa gifted to me and am considering painting my walls light gray (currently sage green). I am always a bit behind the trend lol.

  • @davidemmet7343
    @davidemmet7343 Год назад

    The Tuscan kitchens that you showed really brought out the kitsch in kitchen.

  • @veroniquefauvette5049
    @veroniquefauvette5049 Год назад

    We've never had this heavy Toscan style in France 😂 since, at least, the 70's....😉
    New French follower, I love your videos.🙏🙏🙏

  • @caseynk1
    @caseynk1 Год назад +5

    Our house has the 2000s cherry wood cabinets. They are really nice cabinets so we don’t plan to replace them but it makes updating everything else extremely challenging 😂

    • @74betty
      @74betty Год назад

      Sand and paint them so many ppl are updating that way

    • @lijohnyoutube101
      @lijohnyoutube101 Год назад

      I LOVE that cherry look! Its so warm and vibrant!!