Relationship Talk | Why the BREAKUP is a BLESSING

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  • Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
  • OUCH!!! Breakups hurt like hell!!!! Seriously they do, but even with all that hurt we still can find beauty. This video is to reveal the amazing benefits to the breakup. Also it shows how no matter how Christian we are we still are going to experience the pain of heartbreak. No sugar coating it only plain hurt that you have to continue to surrender over to God. Not saying every breakup will be the same, but God will strengthen you through all the lonely nights. All the tears you've cried is only watering those fertile seeds God has planted. Now say God… “I’m all Yours now.. Nothing is blocking me from getting all that you got for me”.
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Комментарии • 86

  • @angelapowell9464
    @angelapowell9464 6 лет назад +44

    Yes, a few months ago I was cruelly dumped for another woman. Now that I look back after four months is that I am going to be okay. I cried every day but the tears have stopped. I thought of him every second but now it's less frequent. I can finally see a life without him and see my own self so clearly. And that God is the true lover of my soul.💜

  • @blacknight5107
    @blacknight5107 7 лет назад +30

    For me it wasn't about doors open, it was about my eyes open to appreciate the things I took for granted, and being there for the people who have always been there for me.

  • @Ms.Marvel1939
    @Ms.Marvel1939 2 года назад +1

    This inspired me, thank you Jesus hallelujah God is so good!!!! God bless you sister!🙏🏼💝

  • @vanessagonzalez8121
    @vanessagonzalez8121 6 лет назад +38

    Amen! It does hurt. I agree with you in that those breakups allow you to seek God. I was recently broken up with and it hurt so bad. My heart hurt. I went and am going through what you describe. However, God is so good he slowly reveals what needs to be healed in me and the path I need to take. There is a sense of renewal and restoration. Breakups are a blessing. It also mean we are not ready to be in a relationship and put Gods relationship first. Thank you for the quick and down to the point RUclips vid. 🙏🏼

    • @JaniceHylton
      @JaniceHylton 5 лет назад

      Vanessa Gonzalez aaaaawwww beautiful sister.💞

  • @alexakearney
    @alexakearney 4 года назад +2

    I needed this so badly. I’m two weeks into a break up of a 4 year relationship. I have the same voids and unfulfilling. I need to keep talking to God. This is perfect

  • @Reonnaaaaaa02
    @Reonnaaaaaa02 5 лет назад +3

    This was definitely what I needed to come upon. Just broke up with my boyfriend again. Crazy thing about it is we wanted to be in a relationship but things kept happening.. it was always something I felt he was doing. However, he was a good man. He exemplified the fruits of the spirit. I was confirmed that he was my husband. I seen this man being my husband. I felt that God showed me. There were so many times I walked away from him over a course of us knowing eachother and being with eachother . 1 year and 5 months. Yesterday was the day we came to a calm mutual agreement to part ways. It hurted but I had peace about it through the pain. Many times we stopped talking sometimes 1 month sometimes 3 months . We were always on and off and all this came from me because it was always something I felt he was doing or I didn’t like that he was doing so I would end it harshly every single time and we’d come back together. He seen me as his wife and constantly spoke into existence that I was gonna be his wife and the mother to his first child. I felt the same for him. We were in agreement on every level except for Christ. He believed in God and everything just like me, but I was a step further in my walk with God that he was. He was a good man but not a godly man. And he knew I wanted a godly man. But I Loved him. I was willing to accept him but I found myself not being able to even when I tried. I always felt drained in this from time to time but I decided one day I was gonna manage my relationship with Christ and my relationship with him correctly, and that’s when I felt myself being drained of energy, drive etc.. I wanted both but it didn’t seem like I could have it. He started going to Church with me and we started doing devotions together but I kept getting this odd feeling that us doing the devotions wasn’t authentic. It didn’t feel real. It felt like I had forced him to do them because if he didn’t I would have a problem with it. I never approved of his friends since day one. I wanted more for him than he wanted for himself. He knew he was still in a place in his life and was not yet where I was.. it got toxic over time simply because I wasn’t letting go. And once it got toxic verbally between us both mainly me. I knew it was time to walk away. I’m at a place right now I understand but I don’t understand all of it. I really wanted to be with him but we were just not clicking. I think us being in a relationship together was a distraction for us both. I didn’t feel that God could get his full attention because I was there. And I also didn’t feel that I was moving further in my walk with God. I was stagnant. He told me many times he don’t think he could give me what I wanted and that was a godly man

  • @JaniceHylton
    @JaniceHylton 5 лет назад +5

    This is why I don't believe in boyfriends and getting with ONE guy and making him it.
    Nope!!!! Date aka gather data on several guys at once until you meet the one that you both want to get married. I share on this alot
    Awesome testimony sis.

  • @hannahlanell5024
    @hannahlanell5024 6 лет назад +5

    I’m going through a really hard break up right now. I was in a relationship for 2 years and getting ready to get married. This is the hardest thing that I’ve ever had to do, and you have truly spoken to me today and I will be listening to this video over and over and over again. Thank you so much for letting God speak through you.

  • @A.Purpose
    @A.Purpose 6 лет назад +19

    Thank you. I needed to hear this. Recently my fiance and I broke up. I thank you for posting this. I needed to see t his video. There was so much that happened to me that I never dealt with until now. I realized I was not happy ever and I was always angry. I finally was able to talk to my mom again and my family. Thank you.

    • @zoiahargrove9500
      @zoiahargrove9500 5 лет назад

      Noel Lee wow beautiful I’m going through every other month but I’m done for good

  • @zoiahargrove9500
    @zoiahargrove9500 5 лет назад +9

    This a blessing 🙏🏽I deserve so much better I’m done with breakups I’m not dating anymore

    • @MorganTracyJ
      @MorganTracyJ  5 лет назад +4

      Yes, take your time to heal, find your, walk in your purpose and allow the right man of God come and find you.

  • @marissawilson4644
    @marissawilson4644 8 лет назад +14

    Girl this was nothing but the TRUTH!!!!!

    • @MorganTracyJ
      @MorganTracyJ  8 лет назад +1

      Marissa Wilson thanks girl!

    • @marissawilson4644
      @marissawilson4644 8 лет назад

      Morgan Tracy J We all need a reminder! Thanks girl! XOXO

  • @aiciaaera767
    @aiciaaera767 6 лет назад +5

    Thank you so much. I actually had an experience before, well I walked away from God's will, and yeah got hurt. But then during the relationship, God showed me it's not His plan for me. It was hard for me and I cried a lot as I prayed. I made a choice: can I bear hurting God and my parents? No. So there's only one thing to do. BREAK UP.
    It happened and I can't believe how things changed pretty quicker than I expected. God allowed me to see myself IN HIS WILL and HOW HE CAN CHANGE ME.

  • @tamikawindham123
    @tamikawindham123 5 лет назад +4

    I'm am experiencing my 2nd breakup up. but this is encouraging thank you

  • @beardedgamerdrew5813
    @beardedgamerdrew5813 6 лет назад +4

    This really helped me! I was dating a younger woman and she just broke my heart a few days ago because she didnt want commitment. It hurts but God is restoring my broken heart!

  • @bbrgirls
    @bbrgirls 6 лет назад +6

    Aww you have me in tears!!! We were engaged to get married this coming ends of November! It’s been 2 months and it’s been so extremely hard. Finding your video tonight was not a coincidence you were under my feed of related makeup vids and I’m not even subscribed to you! You’ve touched my heart w your words, it truly hurts like hell and miss him so much every single day. I pray Father helps me like he’s helped you. Thank you

    • @MorganTracyJ
      @MorganTracyJ  6 лет назад +4

      Our Father knows exactly what we need!

  • @shammahn4845
    @shammahn4845 4 года назад +1

    Needed this right now.. grieving for the past few weeks, thanks for the perspective ❤

  • @jesamaeremoreras-magno4905
    @jesamaeremoreras-magno4905 6 лет назад +8

    Thank you for this beautiful video. I know God has a better plan for me. God bless you beautiful lady. 🙂

  • @clayadams5872
    @clayadams5872 6 лет назад +2

    Your accent is hypnotizing me. Man it’s so soothing and comforting

  • @YoMyKey
    @YoMyKey 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Morgan for this message. 🤍

  • @ellelammonsss
    @ellelammonsss 3 года назад

    I love this video so so much!!!

  • @spiritualrain3146
    @spiritualrain3146 6 лет назад +3

    I know this was last year post but I needed this for this time this year in my life I receive every word it's the hurt and pain we can't deal with I say God when will I ever get over this guy crying all the time sad and beating MYSELF up knowing that it's not what GOD want for me I can go on and tell the whole story but thank you so much and say a special prayer for me please I truly need it

    • @MorganTracyJ
      @MorganTracyJ  6 лет назад +3

      I know the pain. Keep pushing through on the other side of your obedience is major blessings. I know because I was once there. I cried many nights, but that season really helped me blossom into the woman God was calling me to be. Don't Fret God is with You.

  • @ngalahansel6066
    @ngalahansel6066 4 года назад

    Makes it even harder when you've done some traditional rites and have moved in together for six months...

  • @alereyna6144
    @alereyna6144 6 лет назад +2

    I’m going threw this with the father of my boys it was an ugly abusive relationship that god got me out I started focusing only one god it helped until he came around again and feelings towards him started to come again he got engaged to someone else and that right now is hurting me a lot the guy I though loved me is loving someone else and at this point I just need god again 😢

  • @anysiakelly3391
    @anysiakelly3391 4 года назад

    Thank you are awesome ❤️🙌🏽

  • @Annamelese
    @Annamelese 5 лет назад +1

    blesse you girl!!! am going through it now i turn to God!!

    • @MorganTracyJ
      @MorganTracyJ  5 лет назад

      Amen!! Turn it on over! He will give you strength through it!

  • @benedictaoppong9015
    @benedictaoppong9015 6 лет назад +8

    Mine was a blessing too

  • @zamarawhite5961
    @zamarawhite5961 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you I needed to hear this ❤❤❤

  • @niquesencouragementcorner7349
    @niquesencouragementcorner7349 5 лет назад +1

    This video is so helpful even though its been a while since my breakups happen this video is confirmation this is exactly what God told me in prayer this is just a blessing in disguise. This still hurts so bad im in so much pain emotionally I still scream and cry Thank you for this video it is really helpful💝🌹

    • @MorganTracyJ
      @MorganTracyJ  5 лет назад

      Yes!! God sends us confirmation and lets us know we are on the right path.

  • @TheCassandraMitchell
    @TheCassandraMitchell 4 года назад

    I needed this so bad 😭 my heart hurts so bad rn

  • @liav342
    @liav342 5 лет назад +5

    Yes It sucked but Its blessing 😅🙏🏻❤️

  • @TheJessCasonBrand
    @TheJessCasonBrand 6 лет назад +1

    Giiiiiiiirl! This was amazing!! Thank you!

  • @clemenciajaune981
    @clemenciajaune981 6 лет назад +1

    I can relate soo much...God bless you!

  • @GreenDragonSlayer690
    @GreenDragonSlayer690 5 лет назад

    Thank you so much 💜

  • @MizzleBaaby
    @MizzleBaaby 4 года назад

    wow I really needed to hear this.

  • @JourneyzwithGod
    @JourneyzwithGod 7 лет назад +1

    This is very true! May God continue to bless you.

  • @tadiwa9297
    @tadiwa9297 6 лет назад +1

    I needed this! Thank you❤️

  • @ghostballs1874
    @ghostballs1874 6 лет назад +1

    Amen thank you

  • @TheMissNewNew32
    @TheMissNewNew32 6 лет назад +2

    Bless you;

  • @clayadams5872
    @clayadams5872 6 лет назад +1

    PREACH!!!

  • @Immeka_Media
    @Immeka_Media 6 лет назад

    Amen 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @haleighmillard1633
    @haleighmillard1633 7 лет назад +1

    Just found this channel, and I’m so thankful that you make these videos! ❤️ Thank you for saying everything I needed to hear

  • @213ireon
    @213ireon 4 года назад +1

    Currently going through this I’m 8 months pregnant and my baby daddy has moved in with another woman and her kids she knows about me and says they have been talking even after I told her all the things he’s done to me and that’s he is a cheater she is still staying with him

    • @MorganTracyJ
      @MorganTracyJ  4 года назад +3

      He is her problem now, you heal and grow closer to God.

  • @_thevinylflower
    @_thevinylflower 7 лет назад

    Omigoodness Morgan. Truth!! I love your channel. Thank you for letting God use you!

  • @raulcurincita
    @raulcurincita 6 лет назад

    Great Testimony

  • @rittikabasu2579
    @rittikabasu2579 5 лет назад

    It really hurts......I loved him like anything....i don't know right now what to say...ur vdo inspired me

  • @IMcr1.s
    @IMcr1.s 7 лет назад +1

    thank u Morgan

  • @IMcr1.s
    @IMcr1.s 7 лет назад +2

    able to be used by God

  • @raphaelturner1963
    @raphaelturner1963 6 лет назад +2

    Is it possible God can separate you, to bring you guys back together better and also develop and have a better relationship with God

    • @MorganTracyJ
      @MorganTracyJ  6 лет назад +6

      Definitely possible, the best way to know for sure is to keep your Godly standards and work on your relationship with God. With time it will be revealed.

    • @raphaelturner1963
      @raphaelturner1963 6 лет назад +2

      Yeah cause she is going through a depression phase real bad and she ended it because she wasn’t in the right mental state, I’m just hoping and praying and putting God first, we still have feeling for each other but she’s just being very distant and I feel isolated and just having faith for the best

  • @THATGIRLCHELSEAS
    @THATGIRLCHELSEAS 5 лет назад +1

    I wish we were close friends

  • @IMcr1.s
    @IMcr1.s 7 лет назад +1

    yessss AMEN

  • @ldntipton
    @ldntipton 6 лет назад

    Amen

  • @SheWritesHerJourney_
    @SheWritesHerJourney_ 4 года назад

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @martinathom5167
    @martinathom5167 6 лет назад

    I broke up with someone two weeks ago but I don't feel any pain whatsoever.its like just another day. I wonder why that is its weird

  • @martinathom5167
    @martinathom5167 6 лет назад

    however I don't see any open doors or anything about self discovery. I seriously feel nothing

  • @KIMBA1222SPIRITUALAWAKENING
    @KIMBA1222SPIRITUALAWAKENING 4 года назад

    Slow down, you have a great messege, your going a mile a minute.

  • @taisabittencourt9527
    @taisabittencourt9527 6 лет назад

    Thank you so much for sharing your heart. I have a question.. when you broke up did you feel like you were never going to be happy again? Or that you would never find someone like him? I trust the Lord but this is how I feel right now, I’m afraid of never getting over it

    • @taisabittencourt9527
      @taisabittencourt9527 4 года назад

      @ffliberty I’m very happy now, living an amazing moment of my life. I didn’t even remember this comment. Thank you for asking so I could see it again and see what the Lord has done for me. He healed my heart completely and gave me way more than I deserve. ❤️

    • @taisabittencourt9527
      @taisabittencourt9527 4 года назад

      It will! Time is needed. It was the worst moment for me so far but also it was the best. I learned so much while I was suffering and it drew me closer to Jesus

    • @taisabittencourt9527
      @taisabittencourt9527 4 года назад

      @ffliberty I’m glad to know! I’ll keep you in my prayers. 😊 If you wanna talk my Instagram is taisavbittencourt it would be nice to share my testimony with you

  • @dorothynbrown
    @dorothynbrown 5 лет назад

    Girl, you look like Lauren London!

  • @Lifewithliece
    @Lifewithliece 5 лет назад +1

    I dont think we ever should have been allowed into a relationship in the first olace. Its pointless if God would just get us to breakup. Its almost stupid

    • @MorganTracyJ
      @MorganTracyJ  5 лет назад +2

      God doesn't force us to do anything. We choose what we desire and God uses a mess to bless us.

  • @craigime
    @craigime 6 лет назад +1

    i like your accent

  • @MrMaybachJizzle
    @MrMaybachJizzle 5 лет назад

    Hello Beautiful Nubian Queen ❤️💐💐 💐 . Hope All is well💗

  • @vincentdrafor3431
    @vincentdrafor3431 5 лет назад +1

    Amen