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I remember one of the first things my martial arts teacher told me, "This is not about fighting, it's about being able to walk away from a fight confidently."
Same here in different words. I was taught violence is the last resort that includes pride yes that is a tough one but you got to walk away from it. It doesn’t matter what people think even if they are friends and they say how could you? Why would you walk? You need to take a look at your friends ?
I studied martial arts from the time I was 9 years old. By the time I was 20 I was extremely lethal. I fought and trained with some of the best athletes in the world. However I can't count the number of times I allowed people to bully me. I usually just walk away and in some incidences I bust out laughing when threatened. I deeply admire Terry and his success. You just don't go around punching people out because you can.
@@detrickmeadows until you learn self control,.I won't make any sense to you He wasn't even raped, if y'all got all these energies and anger put it into fighting for young innocent and weak females being victims of sexual assault and rape, and leave Terry alone, he's a man and can handle situation himself the way he wants. Period
@@RR-gp3qy50 is petty tho, hes very mentally off, with terry hes a lover and a fighter not just one and he learned. 50 doesnt have much emotions or suppresses them. Terry is what many men should at least try to be
Do you follow him on face book as just tried to post a message and it wouldn't so I'm kinda asking a favour of you to ask if he will be doing a John Henry sequel is he cooking one up
I learned that being a man is how you deal with situations that are uncomfortable with discipline and knowledge. Your mind is a bigger weapon than your fist or feet.
Just cannot be any more honest and humble than Terry Crews. What a great story from a man raised in such a tumultuous environment as child to what he's decided to be compassionate as a man a father and husband. Great role model for those that certainly need one. Much respect for Terry. 👏 His book was an amazing read
I agree..we as a people. As black man should be supportive of our fellow bls m brothers. Not attack them by showing the world what's hoping on in live.it was brave of him to expose this fifty white trash of a human being. And 50 cent should have been man enough to stand and support Terry. Instead of attacking him. That's what's wrong whit the black community. We don't stand togheter. We destroy echother. All the other ethnic groups stand togheter except us.
Yesssas. You know, I'm officially, SICKENED, by 50 cent, being soooo cold hearted, and reckless when it comes to matters of the heart!!He speaks about his own son, as he acts.....with hatred, and that is even sadder. I commend Mr. Cruz for being a MAN, with restraint and understanding, and unlike fifty, commune with his anger and vile mentality. Prayer for a more compassionate, world!
@@rodniegsm1575 Agreed!!! Absolutely agreed. I felt his pain, and it bothers me deeply to know, he was attacked, for choosing a higher ground. But, God.
@@kevagardner4659 exactly, and so many people idolize 50 cent because he's arrogant, cocky, ignorant, immature, flashy, and prone to violence. Because that street culture and hyper masculine males feel that he is the poster boy of what a "real man" should be. It's pathetic and shows how screwed up society is today.
This man is a gem and very much human. We all make mistakes. Some of us can resist temptation better than others, but it takes guts to stand up and admit to your partner and the world, your darkest secrets. Well done Terry.
Not everyone has to respond to things with violence, it takes a lot for a person to not hit you! It just shows how much he has grown and learned about the man he wants to be. I like that!
It may take strength and discipline to hold back from being violent but it also takes courage and strength to be violent. There’s a time for violence and a time to hold back. Being Grabbed by the genitals is definitely a time to be violent🤨.
I'm a guy that was sexually assaulted by my male boss about 30 years ago. Absolutely no one believed me, and so it got worse. I had to quit the job. This caused a lot of stress at the time.
I can only imagine how hard it was for him coming from a situation with his father as abusive and it is crazy how he still remembers how powerless he felt as a child. No wonder he became obsessed with being powerful but I am so proud of him for being vulnerable and open, we need more men like him!
@@niners2162 you feel me cuz she seen that buck broken fool didn't do anything when that man grab his manhood and play with him what you think his wife thought about him the same as our Ancestors did they husband they look at they man as weak and less of a man and he cant protect me but when your manhood was challenge and did nothing your wife will never look at you the same all women gonna look at you like that and as a man you should not let that happen
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
If Terry Crews won't defend himself against sexual a$$ault, one would have to ask the question, would Terry Crews defend his wife if she was getting sexually a$$aulted in front of him. What about his daughters and sisters?
I know right! It's ridiculous that people will think your "not a real man", or weak etc. If you don't fight someone back! Seriously!? That's just absurd! So I definitely agree with you! I think it's ok to defend yourself but if someone is just causing problems and just trying to fight you, then it's BETTER to just walk away! I think that actually shows Maturity...
@@maldust7438 You stated " but if someone is just causing problems and just trying to fight you, then it's BETTER to just walk away! I think that actually shows Maturity ". But it's just not causing a problem, the man was SEXUAULLY ASSAULTED (twice) by him. I do not understand why people are trying to downplay this, if a Black man grabbed a White man's testicles (twice) would anyone be saying that the White man should not fight or defend himself? If that situation was reverse, people would be asking, why didn't the white dude slap the taste out of the Black dude's mouth.
When he says "i just want peace man" you know this guy has been through it all & understands not only what it means to be a real man but a real human. 💯🙌🧡
People who’ve never suffered trauma don’t understand that most people do freeze instead of going into fight or flight. People often just can’t believe what is actually happening to them & are just stunned. It’s disgusting to victim shame anyone. If it’s such a terrible experience for a large, strong man like Terry imagine how terrible it is for women & children.
Wouldn't say people who've never suffered trauma doesn't understand. We've all suffered from some kind of trauma or another at some point of our lives, or will at some point. No one ever gets through life unscathed. That being said however I do get your point and it is valid being frozen, shocked, surprised, or in denial/disbelief are some of the many reasons someone may not fight back. Had he reacted with violence he could've easily killed that dude, whether intentionally, inadvertently or accidentally and ended up in prison or worse. I've never been sexually assaulted, abused, molested or anything (my traumaisa whole different kind), but I know people who have been and I've seen the havoc and destruction it can cause and leave in it's wake first hand. I have a whole new perspective and type of respect for Terry Crews, he is absolutely a "Real Man", it takes a lot of guts, strength, courage, bravery, and heart to share such a horrible experience and be so open and honest about it and I thank him for sharing his story with us. What little respect I had for Curtis Jackson he just oblitherated, never to return, he's the one that's NOT a "Real Man", a real man wouldn't abandon his family nor would he not maintain contact ir a relationship with his son (or kids), or at the very least try his damndest to try and fix it. A real man would also support another man who has been through and reveals something like this, even if it's just saying I support you telling your story, or say I'm sorry for what you went through, or even just to sit and listen to them. Curtis is an example of how mot to be a man, he's an egocentric, self important, self centered, narcissistic, ignorant AssClown.
I 100 percent agree with your statement. However if your trying to say 50 cent doesn’t understand trama then I disagree with you if your not already familiar with his back ground then look that up is what I suggest but for me knowing his background I disagree if your trying to insinuate 50 doesn’t understand trama in fact I’d argue the reason 50 came after him in this situation is bc of his high level of understanding for trama with where he’s from he’s used to trama and his environment forced him to react and have a fight response so I think that’s why 50 is coming at him saying he’s not a real man bc where 50s from he grow up thinking real men respond immediately and go into a fight response bc that’s what 50 had to do in order to survive so in my opinion from only the knowledge I have of the situation I think 50 is trying to wrap his head around someone who in his eyes is supposed to be a man who didn’t fight not saying 50 is right if that’s what’s he’s doing I’m in simpler words put I think the issue isn’t that 50 doesn’t understand the trama but in fact understand trama to an high extent I think the issue is the environment in which they grew up in where one’s normal trama response is different then the other.
This is deep. Self control is the best control. Terry knows what he is capable of doing. I think that man wanted to set him up. Terry did the righteous thing. I'm proud of you Mr. Terry 🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇
Self control when it comes to a white man grabbing his d**** but ZERO self control when he said he was going to slap d.l. hugely for his opinion and he came at 50.....stand down when it's the white man disrespected you in FRONT of your wife, but try to fight a black man for his opnion....the hypocrisy is so real, it's sickening....
O you proud of him....ok lemme ask you a question ma'am.. what if it happened to your husband or whatever and you standing right there and yo husband does what Terry did...how would you look at your husband/whatever from that point forward??
I’m very proud of Mr Terry and the way he handled it. I have been in a similar situation and I thought of violence first also, but then I had to provide for my family. So I honestly asked God to give me something to say to this person and let them know that there was no way I would ever go that way and to please never make that type of suggestion to me again.
MUCH RESPECT to you, Terry! You are AN EXCELLENT example to all young men ( and women!) today. Too many choose violence. No one would have blamed you by making that choice, either. But you took the high road. What a MAN INDEED!
@@daisydaviswoods5727 50 is just like most kids on the net. Knowing it's easy to talk with a camera on in a private space. But wouldn't be able to say anything right in front of someone in public without security.
THANK YOU for sharing your story...the TRUTH!!! AND, Mr. Cruise, you are absolutely correct in your definition of strength!!! Maturity, truth, and love for God helps one to identify and apply strength that is not obvious.
F 25-CENT dude is a straight up snitch and claiming ja rule is a fraud he is the basicly the same 🎮 🥌 🏑 🎲 🎴 🏀 exposed his scarry A.... and stans still like this dude than he wonder why nobody likes him and he says we're all haters nah homie the ones who know the real you aren't 🐑 🐏 ja rule has a better career and family and life that you wish u can dream of and word is that dude is miserable from letting lil wayne kanye and the south pass him up in sales with music to now were he only trolls has female tendencies and gets in people's business this dude should just go away already wishin he can be ja rule still after 20 years of him fame hahaha 😆 😂 he a real definition of a 🤡
It takes waaaaay more strength and courage to do what terry did opposed to destroying that dude physically. That’s easy especially for someone like him. I commend this brother to the fullest
@I me personally no. I'm just saying we don't what was going through Terry's mind at the moment. But I know where you're coming from. I would have acted on it violently and act on self defense during trial. Sexually assaulting someone is a violent act which requires a violent response.
@@user-cb7eq7ps9s tf? How? Because he aint beat his ass? Wtf was cowardly about letting mfs know that some bs went down and he took the high road and legal route? I see.. you wanted terry to fuck him up then be fighting assault charges for the rest of his life. Throw away everything he’s worked for just to physically dominate a mf he well knows wouldn’t be able to do shit back to him? 🙄 you part of the problem now. You cant fight everybody
I always admired Terry Crews funny and chill personality. And after watching this video, my respect towards him grew even more deeply. Such a class act, and a very good man.
No he's not a real man would have checked that guy and make sure that it never happens again and not keep quiet like a little kid then attack 50cent why not speak up to that guy who grabbed your balls guess we different 😉
If a real man allows himself to be sexually assaulted & does nothing about it then give me a woman! Same thing! If he can't protect himself , will he have the courage to protect me & the kids if need be!
If the man that grabed hum wouldve been black, would he have displayed the same restraint? I think we all know the answer to that question. ABSOLUTELY NOT. NOW THE FOLLOW QUESTION. WHY NOT?
@@khoney6600 Sounds very weak and emasculating. And all the women congratulating him on restraint for being fondled by another man. The push of wokism and emasculating all males especially African men around the world is real.
@@terrancerutledge3104 YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT ANSWER! So many people of color have been programed to violate, kill and destroy each other that it would have been a normal reaction had he been touched by a man of color to knock him out .remember white is not a color it's an attitude in their mind they can do whatever they want when ever they want it's Hollywood where everything goes!
Terry crews is an absolute beast and he deserves nothing but the best in the rest of his career and life. He brought himself back from the brink and built himself back up with the support from his wife. It doesn’t matter who or what you are, anyone can be assaulted by anybody. He chose the self control that he had trained himself to do. He knew he would have been like his character in jail eating mccheeseburgers! I don’t know the dude but I admire him and his actions. I love 50 too but he spoke out of turn there and I’m sure he was left eating his words when Terry came back with the truth about his own actions!
It is so much harder to be a man in this world than to be a thug people think going to prison makes you a man.. walking away from things that you don't want to walk away from makes you a real man. Keep your head up my brother terry.🙏🇺🇲
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
People don't realise how powerful minded you have to be to admit the stuff he's admitting. Terry was never weak, we all know from his movies how scary he can be if he wanted to.
@@aceburgers8801 no many movies like Friday, i was about to make the White Chicks reference that you wouldn't believe that the guy who loves Vanessa Cartlot's Thousand miles can also be scary. He's scary in a few other movies as well, that's an example of how he could quickly switch and crush you if that was his intention.
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
@@kingsweattv2465 He didn't allow to get groped, the guy groped him unexpectedly and without his permission, Terry just didn't retaliate and that's what I meant, not everything needs to be retalited with violence that's why the cycle in our communities do not end. You dont have to result to violence with everything bc best believe Terry couldve killed that dude but didnt. U have to change ur mentality brother.
Man Terry is a solid dude. Yes he has made mistakes. But he took accountability for his actions and instead of continuing what he was doing. He changed himself for the better. It definitely gave me more respect for him.
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
Yeah... this brought tears to my eyes... I grew up with both parents fighting when I was a child.. I saw lots of serious violence in many ways, I was also abused physically, and emotionally, not sexually, thank God. But I know what pain is.. I've been through allot. I'm still here today. Doing well, was in army basic, did martial arts for 15 years and still to this day... had to overcome addiction, it's been tough. But this is what a man does. We not only survive, we thrive.
U said a mouthful.. I completely agree with you. The right thing is the hardest thing to do with all the temptations surrounding you. This is my favorite comment so far on this topic ❤👏💯
@GZus_Christ Definitely bro. Actually praising a 6'3" 240 pound dude that stood there right in front of his wife and let another man feel on his private parts. Unreal.
I will say this until my fingers hurt, no woman can judge on who a real man is, especially if she doesn't even know her father! Do you even know him? You are a woman, judge woman hood like 50 Cent's oldest baby momma!🤣
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
He would have gotten no satisfaction from knocking that man out. From that situation, he made the choice to grow and he can be proud of that. And 50 Cent can sh*t the f*ck up. Always In somebody else's business.
Just want to say this was a beautiful story and I am so proud of him of the way he choose to stand up realizing if he would have act out of violence it could have cost him everything.
What a sad day when the criminal aka the pedophile has more rights to put hands on the victim than the victim has to put hands on the criminal. But that's how the people are being brian washed think... 🐑
💯 Yeah, everybody feels real comfortable talking about what they *think* they would do in that situation and half the time, they can't even fathom something like that happening to them.
@@d2dar459 sorry I know exactly what I would do in that situation. It wouldnt be what Terry did that's for sure. I would give him a bitch slap right away.
Out of all this, 50 says "you ask yourself how long can you love somebody that don't love you back"...when it's your child, you love them till the day you die. I'm personally going through that right now with my own son. Get a spine 50, man up!
Did he??? So we're charges filed??? Did the man learn his lesson. Will he never do it to anyone else! The answer is No to each one so Terry did nothing but allow it to happen & keep happening to others! Smh
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
Thank you Terry for being an example for black men all over the globe. You're breaking that curse that says masculinity is defined by how much damage you can do to someone physically. You used your strongest muscle and for that as a black woman, I say thank you.
I understand precisely why Terry reacted as he did. We can always say "I would have done" this or that. The fact is that unless you are actually in that moment, you can only assume, hope or guess. AA really need to unite and support one another. Men, be the man you "think" you are but in a positive manner. Seriously, 50cent should be the last to talk. Rather than demonizing a victim, maybe he should use that same energy to establish a relationship with his son. That would be the true test of manhood.
I have a question, what advice would Terry Crews give to his 17year old son if his son asked him, dad what should I do if I am being sexually a$$aulted by a man? What advice would y'all give y'all sons? What advice would y'all give y'all daughters?
If Terry Crews won't defend himself against sexual a$$ault, one would have to ask the question, would Terry Crews defend his wife if she was getting sexually a$$aulted in front of him. What about his daughters and sisters?
@powergb2218 Just be cool bro, this is PC. He already said he didn't do anything because he didn't want to hurt his Hollywood career. Harvey definitely smashed afterwards
Terry crews not only admitted he was wrong about his past , but he's one of the few men out there who will talk about his sequel assault. Now THAT s a real man!
I never shamed Terry because he was right.the public would've understood if he retaliated with violence but the industry would've blackballed him and i believe that they still did it anyway.it hit me hard when he spoke on only having a few chances in society because I've been put in those situations when the opposition just wants you to fuck up your life over something you could walk away from
@@deandavis963 idk what I would do.i probably would've reacted differently.i might've pushed him which would've caused a scene but I can't speak for him.he did what was best for him.me deciding to get physical wouldn't make me more of a man than him.im just speaking from experience because I've had people not get in my face and I pushed them but that didn't make it right
@@mrmvp2323 lemme ask you...what is the right way to get someone out ya face? It seems like yall think change means you let someone invade ya space now or defending yourself is not the right way to handle situations.
I've never heard of Mr. Crews, but I now hugely respect and admire him. This man is a phenomenal representation of not using violence and for speaking up and speaking out on the important things!
That was awesome. I've done the same thing and have been for 6 years now. Everyday I have to keep that monster tied up. So far I have not had to get out of character or put my hands on another person. I've been disrespected by people that take kindness for weakness" But it doesn't matter to me. Being a real man is a wonderful experience. I lived a certain way for so long now I'm experiencing the other side, by choice". Peace is better than war.
WOW! I love Terry, I never knew or even heard anything about this. I takes a strong, intelligent, passionate, and determined man to come out and not only talk about any kind of mistakes or demons you have, but to be a celebrity, black, and a huge role model. What an inspiration, one of the hardest things I’ve ever done is just opening up, admitting I’ve done wrong, and asking for forgiveness. It’s easy when it’s just between you and god or your higher power, but to be known and tell the world. That’s a real man, role model, father, husband, son. Thanks for making this video, it literally spoke to my soul.
4:36 "I've seen many, many young black men who were provoked into violence and they were in prison or they were killed." Terry Crews I agree with him. I can strongly relate to that. It's a struggle for me not to be provoked, especially at work.
Fighting is not always the answer. Love his story. He expose the other man’s lifestyle for the world to know. 50 Cent talks about people to much when he needs to look at his own life.
men's world is a weird things... You have to fight to have your feeling acknowledge and accepted. But how can you feel safe to show those feelings if you have to fight just to talk about them. We need safe space.
Tru brother...look at how will smith shit transpired...now errybody hate him.had he not done it..niggas would be taunting him.i mean what do people want from a man???
@@jochebed3675 maybe because you are sexist and never heard about empathy. It’s not because you struggle that other doesn’t have their own problem. You are self-centred. Check yourself. You just behave like an oppressor, how does it feel to pass to the other side?
I had this happen to a friend of mine who is a stand up comedian and very verbal and confident. He froze. It happens. They are mixing videos because Crews had a porn addiction and they are talking about that and not the agent harassing him. Sick. He's a good man and mad respect.
That is a Man! Walking in integrity, transparency, and dignity. Speaking his truth and facing it with no excuses but to be a purer version of himself to his family and all watching him. He is now living in alignment with his true self. Love you Terry!
@@calandusingram8794 exactly! Now what if a man grabbed a woman like that. We'd be hearing a whole different tune! There are 27 bones in the human hand, a man grabs my jewels and sexually assault me he'll have 51 bones in his hands and a very profound ass whooping to go along with it💯
Any man that is separated purposely from his children is a boy, not someone who's in the position to judge what a man is. I respect Terry and admire his true manly courage. Fighting and strong arming people is a sign of weaknesses and the true mark of someone who's broken and fake..Terry showed true manhood in accountability and humility..A true hero.
Lots of people find their nuts with someone smaller and weaker but he put his family first and himself last. He showed incredible strength in doing what he thought was best for his people. Terry could have beat that man up. You are amazing and thank you for showing true strength. 💪🏼
Well done Terry! The fact that his wife went back, as strong as she is, speaks volumes! He took time out to go within, which a lot of men refuse to do. That alone takes courage and she knew it. She went back to the whole man who did the hard work of finding his true self. No matter what he did, that warrants grace, even if they wouldn’t have reconciled the marriage.
Terry Cruz acknowledged he had a problem and got help. What is 50 doing to repair his situation with his son. Maybe 50 should reevaluate his own behaviors. Learn to be a dad to his son. Not favorite one son and treat the other one like he does not exist anymore.
If Terry Crews knocked that guy out, he would have been sued, never in a movie again, and maybe even went to jail. We would have seen a thousand opinion articles about angry black men and why people should not fight. Then several years later, the full story about the SA would have come out.
He is the perfect example of how "PEOPLE" should be in this situations, be civilized, smart, and educated. It takes a real man to keep his character, not lose his mind and stay with the feet on the ground to handle this situations in the best manner possible. Keep it up Terry you're a great pearson.
I’m crying you talk about all of us you stand for all of us including 50cent . You the man Terry you just changed me to be a better man from today to my woman and kids
He did the right thing, he told the truth how trouble makers try to make you react in violence, only to receive the blame as if it was you who created the situation, Beautiful job Terry!!!! 😍❤️❤️👣
Exactly! He would have played into their hands as a black man if he had reacted violently. We would have heard of the violence while the abuse would have been covered up either as a mere mistake of a drunken man or totally denied. He would have lost everything and marked as violent meaning no one will ever work with him again. How he spoke up is very powerful! That's the most powerful thing someone who has been abused can do. Many seemingly strong Hollywood men have been enslaved and abused for pay checks without us ever hearing about it. I don't care what anyone says, Terry did what was best!
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
I have a question, what advice would Terry Crews give to his 17year old son if his son asked him, dad what should I do if I am being sexually a$$aulted by a man? What advice would y'all give y'all sons? What advice would y'all give y'all daughters?
"True masculinity is beautiful," These words and the combination they are in need to be forwarded to everyone in the world. Not all will understand, but those who have the power to take the world on their shoulders will understand and need to see/hear them.
Yeah, somehow a lot of people got the idea that masculinity means getting together with a bunch of other straight guys to harass a gay guy.. oh brother! 🙄🤣
Great story. Much respect to Terry for doing self reflection and not falling into a trap that could've costed him everything all for the sake of perceived image.
I understand where Terry is coming from but he should also understand people questioning his approach to what happened. He doesn't have to agree with them but should expect it instead of arguing with them or even threatening them as he did with DL .
Nah that shit was cap. This would be a totally different story if that same guy would’ve done the same exact thing, but to his wife instead. Everything he just said in this video would go right out the window…..so might as well have punched him in the face.🤷🏽♂️😆
@@jwdathefax377 - deezam.... I tried to find a way around the probable truth of your statement statement and, to be completely honest, I really can't you're likely right. enlightening.
@@khoney6600 the best thing to do as a man is to fight. But if it happened years ago when you were younger, all you can do is learn from it, warn others, comfort those that have been through it, and help prevent future events like that from happening.
Yeah I don’t care what folks say this worked for him but I couldn’t let another man fuck with me sexually an me not say nothing that’s wild 50 wasn’t taking no shit an still don’t props to terry for being that type of man but that’s not a normal mentality for a man to have these days
@@kronikoolgaming9578 mad respect to Terry for being a real man but it was the mother of a girl I went to school with and they told me only men could be that creepy. What's done is done and I don't fear that shit anymore
I'm an Independent Latino. I am SO proud of Terry Crews, why because he got up and push on with life without deranging and damaging other peoples lives. Absolutely, broke the "GENERATIONAL CURSE". Many people need to break this curse (as difficult as it sounds) in order to move on, or else it's just Repetition. Boring.
50 said how long can you love someone that doesn't love you back? Bro that's your blood! Many times in my 33 years as a father I haven't felt loved. Never once has my love for my children changed. Actually as the years pass and the grandchildren came, my love has only grown! I feel sorry for 50 because he obviously doesn't know LOVE!
This story was truly meant to be heard Terry showed what it means to be not only just a real man but a great person and example for everyone in the world I deeply admire and respect him for his struggles and his truth now he’s proven to his soul that he’s a better man for himself and his family ❤❤❤❤
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I remember one of the first things my martial arts teacher told me, "This is not about fighting, it's about being able to walk away from a fight confidently."
Or defend yourself from a sexual assault.
Preach brother
U can do that without martial arts
Even when your balls are being squeezed? Yall just making excuses for being pussies.
Same here in different words. I was taught violence is the last resort that includes pride yes that is a tough one but you got to walk away from it. It doesn’t matter what people think even if they are friends and they say how could you? Why would you walk? You need to take a look at your friends ?
I studied martial arts from the time I was 9 years old. By the time I was 20 I was extremely lethal. I fought and trained with some of the best athletes in the world. However I can't count the number of times I allowed people to bully me. I usually just walk away and in some incidences I bust out laughing when threatened.
I deeply admire Terry and his success. You just don't go around punching people out because you can.
If someone violate you as a man you defend yourself not give a pass to someone that groped you.
@@detrickmeadows that's not a life and death situation, let the man handle it the way he wants.
@@seethisclip27 its a sexual attack.
So me being black, I should allow some shit like that? No sir.
@@detrickmeadows until you learn self control,.I won't make any sense to you
He wasn't even raped, if y'all got all these energies and anger put it into fighting for young innocent and weak females being victims of sexual assault and rape, and leave Terry alone, he's a man and can handle situation himself the way he wants. Period
It's refreshing to see someone who is honest about their mistakes and change.
& even after the horrible things 50 cent said, terry crews said he *still* loved 50 cent & enjoys his music. he really is an incredible man
Really don’t understand how anyone likes Curtis on any level….. Most of 50 music is azz…., He truly is a ho azz ninja
Terry would easily beat the bisexual punk
@@samuelprett 50 does boxing training and has since he was young. Terry is just a body builder so I doubt it lol
@@RR-gp3qy50 is petty tho, hes very mentally off, with terry hes a lover and a fighter not just one and he learned. 50 doesnt have much emotions or suppresses them. Terry is what many men should at least try to be
@@HurlingMongroach yeah I was just talking strictly fighting skill
It takes REAL guts and a lot of humility to come clean, face one’s mistakes, AND take action to be a better person. Terry did that. Very inspiring 😢
💯
About as inspiring as Will Smith 'apologizing' for hitting Chris Rock, there's NO justification for some things in this life..NONE
@@butchiej404 why are you comparing?
Just crying, what a great man. As a abused child everyone always said you are SO strong. While I was dying on the inside.
So sorry 😐
@@MistresstheMediator ❤TY!
I hope things get better stay strong 💪 🙏
@GZus_Christ ay Goofy hmu when u got a life until then keep being depressed n sad lmao 🤣
@GZus_Christ well then enjoy it to the fullest
I am crying over hear seeing a man be his best authentic self. God bless him and keep him and his family safe.
Nothing is more refreshing than a man who is transparent and take accountability for their mistakes.
This is very touching. I applaud him for admitting the things he have & changing it to be a better man. I wish it was a lot more men like him
You mean with a fat ass bank account, muscles, and emotionally vulnerable? Yeah, you'd probably love that.
Oh yeah ‘very touching’..!!! 😂😂
Apparently it was very touching for Terry Crews as well.
He came out on when dude grabbed 🍆
Very touching🤣🤣🤣🤣
The more I learn about Terry the more I love and admire his strong character and his insightful choices in life. ❤
50 got some shit dissing Terry..when he don't even check 4 his own son..perpetrating a fraud..smh🤦♂️
Same here
Most feel the opposite
@@markerbloxOffical yeah he can't talk about nobody hypocrite Terry Crews would smash his ass I will put money on it
Do you follow him on face book as just tried to post a message and it wouldn't so I'm kinda asking a favour of you to ask if he will be doing a John Henry sequel is he cooking one up
I learned that being a man is how you deal with situations that are uncomfortable with discipline and knowledge. Your mind is a bigger weapon than your fist or feet.
Violence is not required but a solid confrontation and stand up for yourself is a must.
Just cannot be any more honest and humble than Terry Crews. What a great story from a man raised in such a tumultuous environment as child to what he's decided to be compassionate as a man a father and husband. Great role model for those that certainly need one. Much respect for Terry. 👏 His book was an amazing read
Whats thename of Terrys book?
The meaning of "Power" dives much deeper than to use it for violence. Terry defined that other half. Much respect to that man. 💯
I agree..we as a people. As black man should be supportive of our fellow bls m brothers. Not attack them by showing the world what's hoping on in live.it was brave of him to expose this fifty white trash of a human being. And 50 cent should have been man enough to stand and support Terry. Instead of attacking him. That's what's wrong whit the black community. We don't stand togheter. We destroy echother. All the other ethnic groups stand togheter except us.
Yesssas. You know, I'm officially, SICKENED, by 50 cent, being soooo cold hearted, and reckless when it comes to matters of the heart!!He speaks about his own son, as he acts.....with hatred, and that is even sadder. I commend Mr. Cruz for being a MAN, with restraint and understanding, and unlike fifty, commune with his anger and vile mentality.
Prayer for a more compassionate, world!
@@kevagardner4659 if mr.cruz had retaliated whit his full strength we probably would have killed the man. And then he would be the one in jail.
@@rodniegsm1575 Agreed!!! Absolutely agreed. I felt his pain, and it bothers me deeply to know, he was attacked, for choosing a higher ground. But, God.
@@kevagardner4659 exactly, and so many people idolize 50 cent because he's arrogant, cocky, ignorant, immature, flashy, and prone to violence. Because that street culture and hyper masculine males feel that he is the poster boy of what a "real man" should be. It's pathetic and shows how screwed up society is today.
To recognize when one is on the wrong & try to do something about it is the height of mental, emotional, & spiritual maturity.
This man is a gem and very much human. We all make mistakes. Some of us can resist temptation better than others, but it takes guts to stand up and admit to your partner and the world, your darkest secrets. Well done Terry.
Not everyone has to respond to things with violence, it takes a lot for a person to not hit you! It just shows how much he has grown and learned about the man he wants to be. I like that!
All about self control being a man. Like you say takes more of a man to hold back. Ego will destroy you.
It may take strength and discipline to hold back from being violent but it also takes courage and strength to be violent.
There’s a time for violence and a time to hold back. Being Grabbed by the genitals is definitely a time to be violent🤨.
@@smkngunzzz1843 forreal tf they talking about lol. In no way is letting someone violate you a part of being a man.
🤔
@@Fasa_Lee exactly!!! Fuck what they talking about. Muthafka grab my nuts violence is the only solution. 💯
Powerful! As a veteran and a father, striving to be better for all mankind is a personal responsibility
I'm a guy that was sexually assaulted by my male boss about 30 years ago. Absolutely no one believed me, and so it got worse. I had to quit the job. This caused a lot of stress at the time.
Your family did not believe you
🤦♂
I would literally be in jail for aggravated assault or attempted murder
My gosh..I hope someone believes you now..🌸
Tell us where this guy lives … even just a name
This is why I love Terry Crews, he's just straight up and does not sugar coat. Takes a lot to do what he does.
obrigado por seu amor e apoio 🙏❤️😘😘😘
I can only imagine how hard it was for him coming from a situation with his father as abusive and it is crazy how he still remembers how powerless he felt as a child. No wonder he became obsessed with being powerful but I am so proud of him for being vulnerable and open, we need more men like him!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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No you don't.
Bollocks
You say you do, until you actually get more, then it's, "men are too sensitive.... there are no real men😢".
It happens EVERY TIME
3:48
I didn't go to rehab to get my wife, I went because i needed to be a better person.
Terry Crew.
WELL SAID ✔️
Yes indeed very well said 150% real talk 💯✌🏼
Indeed 😊👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯
Lies he went to rehab cuz he had to to change and get her back.
@@niners2162 you feel me cuz she seen that buck broken fool didn't do anything when that man grab his manhood and play with him what you think his wife thought about him the same as our Ancestors did they husband they look at they man as weak and less of a man and he cant protect me but when your manhood was challenge and did nothing your wife will never look at you the same all women gonna look at you like that and as a man you should not let that happen
@@meechgaddy exactly
It takes a strong man to peacefully choose to do the right thing . im proud of you Terry
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
If Terry Crews won't defend himself against sexual a$$ault, one would have to ask the question, would Terry Crews defend his wife if she was getting sexually a$$aulted in front of him. What about his daughters and sisters?
I know right! It's ridiculous that people will think your "not a real man", or weak etc. If you don't fight someone back! Seriously!? That's just absurd! So I definitely agree with you! I think it's ok to defend yourself but if someone is just causing problems and just trying to fight you, then it's BETTER to just walk away! I think that actually shows Maturity...
@@maldust7438 You stated " but if someone is just causing problems and just trying to fight you, then it's BETTER to just walk away! I think that actually shows Maturity ". But it's just not causing a problem, the man was SEXUAULLY ASSAULTED (twice) by him. I do not understand why people are trying to downplay this, if a Black man grabbed a White man's testicles (twice) would anyone be saying that the White man should not fight or defend himself? If that situation was reverse, people would be asking, why didn't the white dude slap the taste out of the Black dude's mouth.
@@leesimmons8856EXACTLY!
When he says "i just want peace man" you know this guy has been through it all & understands not only what it means to be a real man but a real human. 💯🙌🧡
People who’ve never suffered trauma don’t understand that most people do freeze instead of going into fight or flight. People often just can’t believe what is actually happening to them & are just stunned. It’s disgusting to victim shame anyone. If it’s such a terrible experience for a large, strong man like Terry imagine how terrible it is for women & children.
Definitely. People who are ignorant will victim blame. They will never know because they are stupid.
Wouldn't say people who've never suffered trauma doesn't understand. We've all suffered from some kind of trauma or another at some point of our lives, or will at some point. No one ever gets through life unscathed. That being said however I do get your point and it is valid being frozen, shocked, surprised, or in denial/disbelief are some of the many reasons someone may not fight back. Had he reacted with violence he could've easily killed that dude, whether intentionally, inadvertently or accidentally and ended up in prison or worse. I've never been sexually assaulted, abused, molested or anything (my traumaisa whole different kind), but I know people who have been and I've seen the havoc and destruction it can cause and leave in it's wake first hand. I have a whole new perspective and type of respect for Terry Crews, he is absolutely a "Real Man", it takes a lot of guts, strength, courage, bravery, and heart to share such a horrible experience and be so open and honest about it and I thank him for sharing his story with us. What little respect I had for Curtis Jackson he just oblitherated, never to return, he's the one that's NOT a "Real Man", a real man wouldn't abandon his family nor would he not maintain contact ir a relationship with his son (or kids), or at the very least try his damndest to try and fix it. A real man would also support another man who has been through and reveals something like this, even if it's just saying I support you telling your story, or say I'm sorry for what you went through, or even just to sit and listen to them. Curtis is an example of how mot to be a man, he's an egocentric, self important, self centered, narcissistic, ignorant AssClown.
Yeah he is built for moments like that . Violence is good when directed.
Naw he was welcoming that shit but when his family was present played a dif tune
I 100 percent agree with your statement. However if your trying to say 50 cent doesn’t understand trama then I disagree with you if your not already familiar with his back ground then look that up is what I suggest but for me knowing his background I disagree if your trying to insinuate 50 doesn’t understand trama in fact I’d argue the reason 50 came after him in this situation is bc of his high level of understanding for trama with where he’s from he’s used to trama and his environment forced him to react and have a fight response so I think that’s why 50 is coming at him saying he’s not a real man bc where 50s from he grow up thinking real men respond immediately and go into a fight response bc that’s what 50 had to do in order to survive so in my opinion from only the knowledge I have of the situation I think 50 is trying to wrap his head around someone who in his eyes is supposed to be a man who didn’t fight not saying 50 is right if that’s what’s he’s doing I’m in simpler words put I think the issue isn’t that 50 doesn’t understand the trama but in fact understand trama to an high extent I think the issue is the environment in which they grew up in where one’s normal trama response is different then the other.
This is deep. Self control is the best control. Terry knows what he is capable of doing. I think that man wanted to set him up. Terry did the righteous thing. I'm proud of you Mr. Terry 🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇
Right 👍 On bro....
Self control when it comes to a white man grabbing his d**** but ZERO self control when he said he was going to slap d.l. hugely for his opinion and he came at 50.....stand down when it's the white man disrespected you in FRONT of your wife, but try to fight a black man for his opnion....the hypocrisy is so real, it's sickening....
If that guy does something to me the wrong way, I would've put him to a hospital bed, UNRECOGNIZABLE! That'll be a lesson, keep your hands to yourself
O you proud of him....ok lemme ask you a question ma'am.. what if it happened to your husband or whatever and you standing right there and yo husband does what Terry did...how would you look at your husband/whatever from that point forward??
@@bathalamulejackson8965 she would look at him like a straight sucka like most women would
I’m very proud of Mr Terry and the way he handled it. I have been in a similar situation and I thought of violence first also, but then I had to provide for my family. So I honestly asked God to give me something to say to this person and let them know that there was no way I would ever go that way and to please never make that type of suggestion to me again.
MUCH RESPECT to you, Terry! You are AN EXCELLENT example to all young men ( and women!) today. Too many choose violence. No one would have blamed you by making that choice, either. But you took the high road. What a MAN INDEED!
Bravo to you Terry Crews! Strength is not measured by how much one can do, but by how much one can endure.
obrigado por seu amor e apoio 🙏❤️😘😘😘
Thank you so much
We can talk on email
Terry endured sexual harassment 😂😂
@@CesareNero and it is a laughing matter ?
What a Man ! To make a decision to choose not to React in Violence; But, to STAND -UP for what's Right
When he says “I love 50 cent, I listen to his music when I’m working out 🏋♀ “ pure genius, pure strength, Terry I proud of you 👏
50 cent runs his mouth way too much. I guess he didn’t grow up getting many praises. Terry you are the man.❤
Let's be honest though. Crews would tear 50 apart. They should sanction a fight so 50 can see why Terry holds back
@@daisydaviswoods5727 50 is just like most kids on the net. Knowing it's easy to talk with a camera on in a private space. But wouldn't be able to say anything right in front of someone in public without security.
THANK YOU for sharing your story...the TRUTH!!! AND, Mr. Cruise, you are absolutely correct in your definition of strength!!! Maturity, truth, and love for God helps one to identify and apply strength that is not obvious.
F 25-CENT dude is a straight up snitch and claiming ja rule is a fraud he is the basicly the same 🎮 🥌 🏑 🎲 🎴 🏀 exposed his scarry A.... and stans still like this dude than he wonder why nobody likes him and he says we're all haters nah homie the ones who know the real you aren't 🐑 🐏 ja rule has a better career and family and life that you wish u can dream of and word is that dude is miserable from letting lil wayne kanye and the south pass him up in sales with music to now were he only trolls has female tendencies and gets in people's business this dude should just go away already wishin he can be ja rule still after 20 years of him fame hahaha 😆 😂 he a real definition of a 🤡
Only you can choose your destiny. Thanks for coming out and helping others in the same situation.
It takes waaaaay more strength and courage to do what terry did opposed to destroying that dude physically. That’s easy especially for someone like him. I commend this brother to the fullest
@I Lmao....keep in mind that Terry used to play in the NFL once... especially with the San Diego Chargers
@I he assessed the situation and found out he had too much too lose. If it was a younger Terry I bet he would have dropped that f**got.
@I me personally no. I'm just saying we don't what was going through Terry's mind at the moment. But I know where you're coming from. I would have acted on it violently and act on self defense during trial. Sexually assaulting someone is a violent act which requires a violent response.
@@user-cb7eq7ps9s tf? How? Because he aint beat his ass? Wtf was cowardly about letting mfs know that some bs went down and he took the high road and legal route? I see.. you wanted terry to fuck him up then be fighting assault charges for the rest of his life. Throw away everything he’s worked for just to physically dominate a mf he well knows wouldn’t be able to do shit back to him? 🙄 you part of the problem now. You cant fight everybody
So terry gets touched by a white man and liked it then tries to go for 50?
I always admired Terry Crews funny and chill personality.
And after watching this video, my respect towards him grew even more deeply. Such a class act, and a very good man.
He is the definition of a Real Man
Can control anger
Well said.👍
No he's not a real man would have checked that guy and make sure that it never happens again and not keep quiet like a little kid then attack 50cent why not speak up to that guy who grabbed your balls guess we different 😉
Even when another man grabs him by the balls in front of his wife. I agree
Then you need a better dictionary.
If a real man allows himself to be sexually assaulted & does nothing about it then give me a woman! Same thing! If he can't protect himself , will he have the courage to protect me & the kids if need be!
Easily the best and most inspirational video I've seen on RUclips in as long as I can remember. Awesome
Had he put his hands on that man YALL KNOW DAMN WELL HE WOULD BE IN PRISON
If the man that grabed hum wouldve been black, would he have displayed the same restraint? I think we all know the answer to that question.
ABSOLUTELY NOT.
NOW THE FOLLOW QUESTION.
WHY NOT?
No he wouldn't! That's what lawyers are for! FIGHT THE CASE! TOO SCARED TO FIGHT BACK IS HOW SLAVERY LASTED SO LONG! #Pathetic
Why don't Black Men have this type of self control when it comes to eachother & BW???? This is sad & embarrassing how weak y'all sounding!
@@khoney6600 Sounds very weak and emasculating. And all the women congratulating him on restraint for being fondled by another man. The push of wokism and emasculating all males especially African men around the world is real.
@@terrancerutledge3104 YOU ALREADY KNOW THAT ANSWER! So many people of color have been programed to violate, kill and destroy each other that it would have been a normal reaction had he been touched by a man of color to knock him out .remember white is not a color it's an attitude in their mind they can do whatever they want when ever they want it's Hollywood where everything goes!
Love and respect for this man, he has just teach us all a big and good lesson of life
obrigado por seu amor e apoio 🙏❤️😘😘😘
I believe an standing ovation with a round of applause is in order for Mr Terry Crews 💯%
Indeed!!👏👏❤
LMAO
Terry crews is an absolute beast and he deserves nothing but the best in the rest of his career and life. He brought himself back from the brink and built himself back up with the support from his wife. It doesn’t matter who or what you are, anyone can be assaulted by anybody. He chose the self control that he had trained himself to do. He knew he would have been like his character in jail eating mccheeseburgers!
I don’t know the dude but I admire him and his actions. I love 50 too but he spoke out of turn there and I’m sure he was left eating his words when Terry came back with the truth about his own actions!
It is so much harder to be a man in this world than to be a thug people think going to prison makes you a man.. walking away from things that you don't want to walk away from makes you a real man. Keep your head up my brother terry.🙏🇺🇲
I don’t make you a dog if you’re trying to get somebody off you using violence
So if a dude just out of nowhere grabs your B@lls your reaction is to just walk away?? FOH!!!
Yes so true here in Australia our youth have the attitude you have to bash people and spent half your life in prison just to be a man it's crazy
Right letting someone grab your dick sure makes you a man - 🇺🇸
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
People don't realise how powerful minded you have to be to admit the stuff he's admitting. Terry was never weak, we all know from his movies how scary he can be if he wanted to.
From his movies? Like white girls when he was singing shaking his head?
@@aceburgers8801 no many movies like Friday, i was about to make the White Chicks reference that you wouldn't believe that the guy who loves Vanessa Cartlot's Thousand miles can also be scary. He's scary in a few other movies as well, that's an example of how he could quickly switch and crush you if that was his intention.
I would like to thank social media for exposing how stupid people are, their appearance and how many exist.
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
Refer to the above
Terry killed 50 with kindness. Real shit. We need more men like this in this world. If we had more men like this the world would be a better place.
if we had more men like him, the world would be full of victims who allow themselves to be groped..
@@kingsweattv2465 He didn't allow to get groped, the guy groped him unexpectedly and without his permission, Terry just didn't retaliate and that's what I meant, not everything needs to be retalited with violence that's why the cycle in our communities do not end. You dont have to result to violence with everything bc best believe Terry couldve killed that dude but didnt. U have to change ur mentality brother.
@@kingsweattv2465 lol
@@thetony8959 stop it… a man getting his teeth caved in 😂
@@thetony8959 dude this has nothing to do with our community. People like you are why are community is always getting mistreated
Profound message! If only people would appreciate and learn from strong men like him.
He is surely a strong man.
Man Terry is a solid dude. Yes he has made mistakes. But he took accountability for his actions and instead of continuing what he was doing. He changed himself for the better. It definitely gave me more respect for him.
That’s real talk 💯
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
I have _so much_ respect for Terry Crews. He is the epitome of what every man should try to be, in my opinion.
Yeah... this brought tears to my eyes... I grew up with both parents fighting when I was a child.. I saw lots of serious violence in many ways, I was also abused physically, and emotionally, not sexually, thank God. But I know what pain is.. I've been through allot. I'm still here today. Doing well, was in army basic, did martial arts for 15 years and still to this day... had to overcome addiction, it's been tough. But this is what a man does. We not only survive, we thrive.
Amen
He better than me my reflexes would've ended the whole party
😅😅😅😅😅😅 facts
Churrrrrrrrrrrrrrchhhhhhhhh,In My Bishop Magic Don Juan Voice!!!!!!!!💯
Real talk fuck that
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Maybe you have not been sexually abused as a child or assaulted as an adult & really have no idea how it would make you feel
Like Mike Tyson, Terry fought his greatest fight - himself. 👌❤️
I love Terry! Such an absolute class act! I think he did the right thing and more often than not, the right thing is the hardest thing.
U said a mouthful.. I completely agree with you. The right thing is the hardest thing to do with all the temptations surrounding you. This is my favorite comment so far on this topic ❤👏💯
@@Jesus__Christ rare Jesus L take?
I agree 💯
@GZus_Christ
Exactly smh
@GZus_Christ
Definitely bro.
Actually praising a 6'3" 240 pound dude that stood there right in front of his wife and let another man feel on his private parts. Unreal.
Terry Crews is definitely a real man who has been through trauma and learned from it🙏🏾❤️
No man is a lamb
I will say this until my fingers hurt, no woman can judge on who a real man is, especially if she doesn't even know her father! Do you even know him? You are a woman, judge woman hood like 50 Cent's oldest baby momma!🤣
But he cheated on his wife so a real real man rigjt
@@tcorben60 a real man who is an adulterer. Exactly. Can anyone really repent upon such an act? Or do you think they relish the memory.
This comment was really dumb
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 hats off to Terry Crews. Mental and emotional strength and self control saved him from a lifetime of sorrow.
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
Well said! Yes indeed!!
It's just that simple?
He would have gotten no satisfaction from knocking that man out. From that situation, he made the choice to grow and he can be proud of that. And 50 Cent can sh*t the f*ck up. Always In somebody else's business.
EXACTLY!!!
Yes he did that to his father and he said that it didn't made him feel better
Just want to say this was a beautiful story and I am so proud of him of the way he choose to stand up realizing if he would have act out of violence it could have cost him everything.
Well said.👍
I doubt it would of cost him anything, especially if he told y he had to punch the guy in the face
@@sleep1_024 Really? Black guy punches White guy in the Face and the Cops come! Who's going to jail!
@@tysmith2138 where not talking, about a average black, we’re talking about a known celebrity, getting violated at a event, so stop that arrest bull.
What a sad day when the criminal aka the pedophile has more rights to put hands on the victim than the victim has to put hands on the criminal. But that's how the people are being brian washed think... 🐑
I'm proud of him for putting it out there for all to know and calling the guy out
This is bogus. He already said he didn't do anything because he didn't want to hurt his Hollywood career. Harvey definitely smashed afterwards
I admire Terry. It’s not until you go through the same thing that you’ll understand his actions.
100% ♥️
I don’t, he gay.
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Yeah, everybody feels real comfortable talking about what they *think* they would do in that situation and half the time, they can't even fathom something like that happening to them.
@@d2dar459 sorry I know exactly what I would do in that situation. It wouldnt be what Terry did that's for sure.
I would give him a bitch slap right away.
@@versatileduplicity9313
I don't know if he's gay or not but he's definitely a punk b*tch.
Out of all this, 50 says "you ask yourself how long can you love somebody that don't love you back"...when it's your child, you love them till the day you die. I'm personally going through that right now with my own son. Get a spine 50, man up!
He did fight back! But with his intelligence! He beat him with the right muscle. HIS BRAIN! ❤
So on point
Did he??? So we're charges filed??? Did the man learn his lesson. Will he never do it to anyone else! The answer is No to each one so Terry did nothing but allow it to happen & keep happening to others! Smh
@@khoney6600I’m sure the guy who did it has also been punched in the face before and didn’t learn his lesson
@@leonhenry4861 good point people act like a punch solves everything.. mouthbreathers
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
Thank you Terry for being an example for black men all over the globe. You're breaking that curse that says masculinity is defined by how much damage you can do to someone physically. You used your strongest muscle and for that as a black woman, I say thank you.
thank you for your love and support 🙏❤️😘😘😘
Black men? Not just men in general? Why did you make this about race?
@@itsjustlyleyeah I was confused about that as well
@@TerryCrews-tc8rz Go scam somewhere else, scammer.
Why did you have to make it racial?
I understand precisely why Terry reacted as he did. We can always say "I would have done" this or that. The fact is that unless you are actually in that moment, you can only assume, hope or guess. AA really need to unite and support one another. Men, be the man you "think" you are but in a positive manner. Seriously, 50cent should be the last to talk. Rather than demonizing a victim, maybe he should use that same energy to establish a relationship with his son. That would be the true test of manhood.
I have a question, what advice would Terry Crews give to his 17year old son if his son asked him, dad what should I do if I am being sexually a$$aulted by a man? What advice would y'all give y'all sons? What advice would y'all give y'all daughters?
If Terry Crews won't defend himself against sexual a$$ault, one would have to ask the question, would Terry Crews defend his wife if she was getting sexually a$$aulted in front of him. What about his daughters and sisters?
Thank you Dr. AL-Satiif Phd. I'm sure you can relate to this.
Nah his son his a spoiled single mother raised brat . Real men don’t need that type of energy in their life.
Thank you for your love and support 🙏❤️😘😘
Why is this man making me cry so early in the morning. Gotta love Terry crews
I never thought at 31 I would shed a tear but that was amazing
Easy bro, I'm shedding tears too, I'mma come through for you so we can share the same bucket to catch 'em tears
Y’all folks something else man 🤣🤣
@@professr9343 it was clearly a joke
@@Marcusw34 you see I’m laughing .
@powergb2218 Just be cool bro, this is PC. He already said he didn't do anything because he didn't want to hurt his Hollywood career. Harvey definitely smashed afterwards
Terry crews not only admitted he was wrong about his past , but he's one of the few men out there who will talk about his sequel assault. Now THAT s a real man!
Nope! Real Wimp!
A real man wouldn’t have a sexual assault wtf are you talking about lol
@@michaeladams5004 she's a feminist speaking on what she thinks it's a real man. Enough said
@@EGGINFOOLS lol
If you say so
I never shamed Terry because he was right.the public would've understood if he retaliated with violence but the industry would've blackballed him and i believe that they still did it anyway.it hit me hard when he spoke on only having a few chances in society because I've been put in those situations when the opposition just wants you to fuck up your life over something you could walk away from
Yeah totally agree with you
So would you do the same as Terey Crews, scared of being blackballed?
@@deandavis963 idk what I would do.i probably would've reacted differently.i might've pushed him which would've caused a scene but I can't speak for him.he did what was best for him.me deciding to get physical wouldn't make me more of a man than him.im just speaking from experience because I've had people not get in my face and I pushed them but that didn't make it right
@@mrmvp2323 Will Smith would of slapped the hell out of him 🤣
@@mrmvp2323 lemme ask you...what is the right way to get someone out ya face? It seems like yall think change means you let someone invade ya space now or defending yourself is not the right way to handle situations.
I've never heard of Mr. Crews, but I now hugely respect and admire him.
This man is a phenomenal representation of not using violence and for speaking up and speaking out on the important things!
That was awesome. I've done the same thing and have been for 6 years now. Everyday I have to keep that monster tied up. So far I have not had to get out of character or put my hands on another person. I've been disrespected by people that take kindness for weakness"
But it doesn't matter to me. Being a real man is a wonderful experience. I lived a certain way for so long now I'm experiencing the other side, by choice". Peace is better than war.
WOW! I love Terry, I never knew or even heard anything about this. I takes a strong, intelligent, passionate, and determined man to come out and not only talk about any kind of mistakes or demons you have, but to be a celebrity, black, and a huge role model. What an inspiration, one of the hardest things I’ve ever done is just opening up, admitting I’ve done wrong, and asking for forgiveness. It’s easy when it’s just between you and god or your higher power, but to be known and tell the world. That’s a real man, role model, father, husband, son. Thanks for making this video, it literally spoke to my soul.
4:36
"I've seen many, many young black men who were provoked into violence and they were in prison or they were killed."
Terry Crews
I agree with him. I can strongly relate to that.
It's a struggle for me not to be provoked, especially at work.
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Here in the UK its real bad how often they try to provoke me... it breaks my heart because im so close.
Fighting is not always the answer. Love his story. He expose the other man’s lifestyle for the world to know. 50 Cent talks about people to much when he needs to look at his own life.
men's world is a weird things... You have to fight to have your feeling acknowledge and accepted. But how can you feel safe to show those feelings if you have to fight just to talk about them. We need safe space.
Tru brother...look at how will smith shit transpired...now errybody hate him.had he not done it..niggas would be taunting him.i mean what do people want from a man???
You never show feelings. Only with your kids and family. Men never cry in front of other men. He weak and he hate himself.
@@richbarker9486 mmmmkkay
Wow😢😢, I can’t imagine how hard that must be for y’all😰😰.
@@jochebed3675 maybe because you are sexist and never heard about empathy. It’s not because you struggle that other doesn’t have their own problem. You are self-centred. Check yourself. You just behave like an oppressor, how does it feel to pass to the other side?
It takes a strong man to maintain humility when he's being provoked to be violent.
Exactly because thats what they are expecting from black people - to be violent.
I had this happen to a friend of mine who is a stand up comedian and very verbal and confident. He froze. It happens. They are mixing videos because Crews had a porn addiction and they are talking about that and not the agent harassing him. Sick. He's a good man and mad respect.
Honesty is worth more than comments or showing what others want from or expected of you. Only belongs to your family to fight for. Your the Man
I remember this, may God bless him with happiness. I appreciate his vulnerability and her strength. Only mature people can understand this.
That is a Man! Walking in integrity, transparency, and dignity. Speaking his truth and facing it with no excuses but to be a purer version of himself to his family and all watching him. He is now living in alignment with his true self. Love you Terry!
So if he would have stood up for himself that wouldn’t be a man?
@@calandusingram8794 exactly! Now what if a man grabbed a woman like that. We'd be hearing a whole different tune! There are 27 bones in the human hand, a man grabs my jewels and sexually assault me he'll have 51 bones in his hands and a very profound ass whooping to go along with it💯
@@calandusingram8794 What do you call a man who does not stand up for himself???
Comment of the feed. I agree
@@Forthright131 a coward
he is a huge guy and has nothing to prove but his heart!!! his heart is bigger then him.....my respects to him
Any man that is separated purposely from his children is a boy, not someone who's in the position to judge what a man is. I respect Terry and admire his true manly courage. Fighting and strong arming people is a sign of weaknesses and the true mark of someone who's broken and fake..Terry showed true manhood in accountability and humility..A true hero.
Love and respect to Terry....truly a giant among men...spiritually.
I'm so glad that terry decided to make a change in his life and has become a better man he is a real man I truly respect him
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He got groped by another man! He’s a hoe 🤣
he wanted to get his junk grabbed by that man, he zesty
He’s a sell out
@@krystalherrand9122 are you serious?
I think it’s awesome that he is committed to peace, love you Terry!!
Lots of people find their nuts with someone smaller and weaker but he put his family first and himself last. He showed incredible strength in doing what he thought was best for his people. Terry could have beat that man up. You are amazing and thank you for showing true strength. 💪🏼
Well done Terry! The fact that his wife went back, as strong as she is, speaks volumes! He took time out to go within, which a lot of men refuse to do. That alone takes courage and she knew it. She went back to the whole man who did the hard work of finding his true self. No matter what he did, that warrants grace, even if they wouldn’t have reconciled the marriage.
Terry Cruz acknowledged he had a problem and got help. What is 50 doing to repair his situation with his son. Maybe 50 should reevaluate his own behaviors. Learn to be a dad to his son. Not favorite one son and treat the other one like he does not exist anymore.
I applaud you Terry for being strong 💪, not with muscles, but with integrity....thanks for sharing
Man, what a strong man to bounce back from all his struggles. Not many do. Hope the rest of your years are chillin
If Terry Crews knocked that guy out, he would have been sued, never in a movie again, and maybe even went to jail. We would have seen a thousand opinion articles about angry black men and why people should not fight. Then several years later, the full story about the SA would have come out.
He is the perfect example of how "PEOPLE" should be in this situations, be civilized, smart, and educated. It takes a real man to keep his character, not lose his mind and stay with the feet on the ground to handle this situations in the best manner possible. Keep it up Terry you're a great pearson.
This is why you're still one of my favourite celebrities Mr.Terry
I’m crying you talk about all of us you stand for all of us including 50cent . You the man Terry you just changed me to be a better man from today to my woman and kids
He did the right thing, he told the truth how trouble makers try to make you react in violence, only to receive the blame as if it was you who created the situation, Beautiful job Terry!!!! 😍❤️❤️👣
🗣️He Weak AF!
Exactly! He would have played into their hands as a black man if he had reacted violently. We would have heard of the violence while the abuse would have been covered up either as a mere mistake of a drunken man or totally denied. He would have lost everything and marked as violent meaning no one will ever work with him again. How he spoke up is very powerful! That's the most powerful thing someone who has been abused can do. Many seemingly strong Hollywood men have been enslaved and abused for pay checks without us ever hearing about it. I don't care what anyone says, Terry did what was best!
@@bibibello2181 well said and so true
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
I have a question, what advice would Terry Crews give to his 17year old son if his son asked him, dad what should I do if I am being sexually a$$aulted by a man? What advice would y'all give y'all sons? What advice would y'all give y'all daughters?
"True masculinity is beautiful,"
These words and the combination they are in need to be forwarded to everyone in the world. Not all will understand, but those who have the power to take the world on their shoulders will understand and need to see/hear them.
Yeah, somehow a lot of people got the idea that masculinity means getting together with a bunch of other straight guys to harass a gay guy.. oh brother! 🙄🤣
@@someoneout-there2165 there is not a single human on this earth that thinks thats what masculinity means.
obrigado por seu amor e apoio 🙏❤️😘😘😘
@@TerryCrews-tc8rz de nada. obrigado pelo vídeo
Being a strong black man not only physically but mentally, God bless you Terry Crews for being the man God meant for you to be.
Great story. Much respect to Terry for doing self reflection and not falling into a trap that could've costed him everything all for the sake of perceived image.
People don’t understand the shock that comes after being assaulted and how you can freeze up
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I understand that my knuckles are also for self defense.
Yep most of us don't understand & never will
You talking about how terry said his manager raped him. Yea it was his way of coming out
Only weak mfers don't understand.
I understand where Terry is coming from but he should also understand people questioning his approach to what happened. He doesn't have to agree with them but should expect it instead of arguing with them or even threatening them as he did with DL .
I feel like the audience doesn’t have to agree with him . A man will handle the situation his way not the way they want him to
Terry’s message touches right where you’re vulnerable. Your heart ❤😂
Nah that shit was cap. This would be a totally different story if that same guy would’ve done the same exact thing, but to his wife instead. Everything he just said in this video would go right out the window…..so might as well have punched him in the face.🤷🏽♂️😆
@@jwdathefax377 - deezam.... I tried to find a way around the probable truth of your statement statement and, to be completely honest, I really can't you're likely right. enlightening.
Respect to Terry for handling his sexual abuse the way he did, I never knew how to deal with my own sexual abuse for ten years !
Excusing it & doing nothing about it will never be the answer!
@@khoney6600 the best thing to do as a man is to fight. But if it happened years ago when you were younger, all you can do is learn from it, warn others, comfort those that have been through it, and help prevent future events like that from happening.
He should have put him in icu
Yeah I don’t care what folks say this worked for him but I couldn’t let another man fuck with me sexually an me not say nothing that’s wild 50 wasn’t taking no shit an still don’t props to terry for being that type of man but that’s not a normal mentality for a man to have these days
@@kronikoolgaming9578 mad respect to Terry for being a real man but it was the mother of a girl I went to school with and they told me only men could be that creepy. What's done is done and I don't fear that shit anymore
I'm an Independent Latino. I am SO proud of Terry Crews, why because he got up and push on with life without deranging and damaging other peoples lives. Absolutely, broke the "GENERATIONAL CURSE". Many people need to break this curse (as difficult as it sounds) in order to move on, or else it's just Repetition. Boring.
50 said how long can you love someone that doesn't love you back? Bro that's your blood! Many times in my 33 years as a father I haven't felt loved. Never once has my love for my children changed. Actually as the years pass and the grandchildren came, my love has only grown! I feel sorry for 50 because he obviously doesn't know LOVE!
Yea n you left out the rest he said in the interview.
This story was truly meant to be heard Terry showed what it means to be not only just a real man but a great person and example for everyone in the world I deeply admire and respect him for his struggles and his truth now he’s proven to his soul that he’s a better man for himself and his family ❤❤❤❤