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I guess it boils down to ‘Desperate people do desperate things’. My advice is, Never beg for anyone’s love or acceptance because once you do that, you loose their respect for you.
Advice is worth what people are willing to pay for it. I live in Mexico for almost nothing. When I post a video or website post, I'll get guys really down on their luck financially. They spend a huge amount of my time asking the most basic of questions. I've always said if you've got borderline personality disorders in the US, you'll drag those with you wherever you go. I have a super power. The ability to say know. Plenty of lonely old guys don't.
Dr. Reekay..I'm sitting here watching this with my mouth wide open.. shaking my head wondering...How do you find these guys?? I don't do Facebook because I rarily have time to watch you and Old Dog most days...Being a Airline Pilot I won't have time to keep a Filipina interested in me unless I come there and visit first...But this guy you talked about got issues and I am glad you are finally rid of him..Great Stuff you put out...
hi Reekay, I like Stoic Bond, interesting channel. About Willie, I think the issue is tied to his isolation. Basically living in a social vacuum for work, he doesn't get to try different ways to interact with women. So he's like a high-gain microphone in an empty room. All he hears, is his own feedback, instead of other voices providing a broader, healthier perspective. Failure is an important part of learning, but he needs to know "the theory" of healthy interactions, to develop the social tools to actually participate in a great relationship.
I’ll guess Willy was a great driver.Men like him are a rare breed and are of great value.OTR drivers need a very high level of skill and need to exercise judgement on a daily basis. My advice to him : Don’t cast pearls before swine.
"People are gonna do, what they wanna do." Your mom drilled into you one of the most important wisdom on how to live a good life. Which is basically, you have zero control of anyone, how they behave, their attitude. But you have complete control of your attitude, how you react and how you behave.
I got issues I lived my life on the Road also and was an low life trucker and Solider. I've been been taking care of my Friend and her daughters for 2 two years now. I spent one month with her. I did not "do It " because I'm 66 and she's 41 and I could careless about sex I did not "do it" for over 40 years. My mother live in my house. She pissed her house a away. Abandoned 3 boys never saw her. My brother also lives on my property to lazy to work. I give everything I have away. I don't want anything material and I hate 99.9% all humans
I'm not quite sure if you have covered all bases of life there in the in the Philippines, I mean, if someone gets extremely ill, are the hospitals there well maintained for proper health care? Or are they pretty much run down. Is there a serious problem with diarrhea? Do they have proper sewage facilities to treat human sewage? Food safety. Do they have government agencies to contend with food spoilage at food market places to protect of food expiration dates on perishable food items? Are most Filipinos vaccinated? Etc...etc....
I get the physical attraction, many of these women are very attractive. But, what do you expect when you head over to the Philippines for a couple of weeks vacation? You're looking for good times and you mostly find good time girls. They know what the score is, you should as well. If you're looking for a serious relationship with ANY woman, including Filipinas, you have to follow a serious course. But, some guys never learn.
That's not the right question bro...The right question is: Is your heart strong enough to handle the bs your Pinay companion will bring to your bed? Family drama, tampo, constant karaoke, hehehehe....How many crazy chicks have you dealt with in the past? Or, to use Jimmy Hendlix' lyrics, Are you experienced? I know 15 year old Dominican boys that understand women better than 90 year old American men...If you have over 2.5 million in the bank and experience at dealing with all sorts of people, do it...Otherwise stay home and don't cancel your subscription to PornHub...and there you can visit any country you want....
Look here's the hard truth. Before I met my current wife I made all the mistakes with a beautiful but evil Filapina gold digger. It was only through learning hard awful lessons from my divorce that I was able to stop the damage at $3000. Men make our own mistakes and no one to blame but ourselves for falling prey to scammers or even getting in to a relationship with a wonderful and trustworthy women like I have now. In as much as we all like to make excuses as grown ass men we have only ourselves to blame for adult mistake
yea i am on a Filipino dating site and one time a Filipino and i started to chat, the chat only lasted like maybe 2 hrs, then she said she had to charge her phone, well that was 2 days ago, now i had invited her on viber, which is a chat app, well i blocked her and removed her from my viber and the reason is, it does not take 2 days to charge a cell phone, i just took it after we chatted and had a video chat on viber, she spoke very little English and i did not speak Filipino at all, so the only thing i can figure is she was not that interested in me, well ok no problem on my end, so yea gents do not simp over any woman, if they stop chatting with you for more then a day i would say, just block or remove them from your chat app you are on and keep it pushing like i did, do not do like what willie here did, that is simping ok and no it does not make a man look good, it really makes a man look very bad and most women do not like guys simping on them, it makes a man look very weak to not only women but to other men as well ok, cheers :)
So... your channel mostly covers expats moving to PI and either finding a wife or finding a string of girlfriends. I've seen channels on Thailand that mostly focus on going to "go go" bars, beer bars, afternoon gentlemen's clubs & whatnot where you can relax, have a drink & maybe meet a woman who will spend time with you. Sometimes a couple days, sometimes a couple hours. Are there bar settings like this in the Philippines? Somewhere you can have a drink or a meal watch a sporting event & go home... or you can buy a drink for one of the staff & maybe entertain her for the night, depending on if you both are interested? I've never really seen a channel that covers that dating/relationship angle in the Philippines.
yes, however i'd say 90% of that is done in Angeles City, near Manila. as well as various parts of Manila city itself. think of it as Pattaya-Lite. Cebu City (Mango Square area) has less of this than Angeles, but you can find some cheesy dives here and there. i've been to several and, honestly, it's very disappointing to see women who are about 4's and 5's on a 1-10 scale. once in a blue moon you might see an 8+. the rest of the PH, it's hit and miss. mostly miss.
Can I ask you guys opinion on something. We already know what Reekay thinks on this subject. I wanna know what you guys really think. Talk like no one's gonna know. Exactly what is the benefit to us expats to get married? We can't work. Can't own anything and most of the time have no children in the Philippines of our own. So outside of pleasing the woman we love. What is in it for us?
Your own situation will dictate your reasoning. If you feel like there's no compelling reason to do something, then the answer is: don't do that thing. Other people have their own reasons and motivations, but a general one is to have a loving relationship that they find satisfying. If you're retired, have savings, and a pension, not being able to work isn't an issue. Also, property ownership isn't required to enjoy life. Renting/leasing is fine with many people. Also, if you really want to own your lodging, you can buy a condo there. You can own a building, but you can't own the land it's on. So, you can own an entire house there, but you have to lease the land it's on for 30 or more years. As for me, I feel no need to own property. It's cheaper and more convenient to rent a house because I can move anywhere I want at any time I want. Owning a home ties you down; plus, it's *really* hard and time-consuming to sell property in Asia. It usually takes years to sell it, and you'll almost always lose money on it. Owning property, whether it's a condo or a house, is a pretty bad financial investment over there. But, rents are cheap compared to western economies. If you're not financially secure, and you have to work for a living, then moving to the Philippines will be difficult. Some people can earn a living performing their work remotely, with only occasionally needing to fly home for in-person work. Some people own a business in the Philippines, for example, a hotel, resort, scuba dive shop, store, factory, security firms, or whatever. In general, running a successful business is difficult and risky. But some people do it. Some people own multiple homes or apartments in their western country and rent them out to earn their living that supports their life in the Philippines. But, what's the motivation? For most people, it's companionship. Only you can decide what works for you.
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I guess it boils down to ‘Desperate people do desperate things’.
My advice is, Never beg for anyone’s love or acceptance because once you do that, you loose their respect for you.
Thanks for sharing the story Reekay. You're a good man for helping complete strangers... even if they can be a bit annoying sometimes :)
Free Willie.
I think they both did! 🤭
Good advice for anywhere really. I keep coming back to this channel. Thank you for what you do.
Word is Willie is the polyester kareoke king of the Philippines who is really popular on the ladyboy circuit 😂.
The perils of being a popular vlogger. Everyone lay's their questions and problems at your feet.
i don't mind. i want people to be prepared.
Advice is worth what people are willing to pay for it. I live in Mexico for almost nothing. When I post a video or website post, I'll get guys really down on their luck financially. They spend a huge amount of my time asking the most basic of questions. I've always said if you've got borderline personality disorders in the US, you'll drag those with you wherever you go. I have a super power. The ability to say know. Plenty of lonely old guys don't.
Dr. Reekay..I'm sitting here watching this with my mouth wide open.. shaking my head wondering...How do you find these guys?? I don't do Facebook because I rarily have time to watch you and Old Dog most days...Being a Airline Pilot I won't have time to keep a Filipina interested in me unless I come there and visit first...But this guy you talked about got issues and I am glad you are finally rid of him..Great Stuff you put out...
i feel bad for him. he ventured out without taking the time to become informed or prepare himself.
Stoicism is a very healthy way of living one’s life. I have adopted this mindset myself. 👌
She gave him some good poonany!
Never met poo that was good, but, diff strokes!!
Interesting story… didn’t see the plot twist coming, but now that I think about foreshadowing, and his name being Willie…
🤔
Mr. Willie for president 2024
Willie took a walk on the wild side and never came back.
Entertaining video, thank you. Willie Willie Willie ...Peace ☮
Life usually beats the stupid out of people. Usually.
hi Reekay,
I like Stoic Bond, interesting channel. About Willie, I think the issue is tied to his isolation. Basically living in a social vacuum for work, he doesn't get to try different ways to interact with women. So he's like a high-gain microphone in an empty room. All he hears, is his own feedback, instead of other voices providing a broader, healthier perspective. Failure is an important part of learning, but he needs to know "the theory" of healthy interactions, to develop the social tools to actually participate in a great relationship.
don´t waste your time - some people never learn!
I’m looking for a good Pina in her 30s. Good video
Always enjoy your rational content. Always interesting and useful. 🙏
I’ll guess Willy was a great driver.Men like him are a rare breed and are of great value.OTR drivers need a very high level of skill and need to exercise judgement on a daily basis.
My advice to him : Don’t cast pearls before swine.
Thanks for the entertaining story as I sit in the airport waiting for my flight to the Philippines.
Some people never learn 😂
What a story. Love to hear them. Never would have guessed that his dream girl would be a guy. :)
I'm pretty sure you could sell this story to The Hallmark channel for a movie script.
What an interesting guy he was!!!!
Lol. Sounds like Napoleon Dynamite!
He definitely needs to grow up.
Ha , thanks for the laugh ! Hope it all works out for him .
I hope so too
It's thousands of women that will accept Willie. He needs a mentor.
"People are gonna do, what they wanna do."
Your mom drilled into you one of the most important wisdom on how to live a good life.
Which is basically, you have zero control of anyone, how they behave, their attitude.
But you have complete control of your attitude, how you react and how you behave.
Good video Reekay, love hearing all these crazy stories.
Willie meets another Willie
In the AI photos, he looks like Richard Brandson... If he also has the money he has, he is enjoying the Philippines!
Quite the storey. Poor Willie wanted a Filapina and got a willy instead. As Always, May God Bless you and yours! 😇
😂
O M G ! silly willy !
Good one
Sad story!
His main problem is to think that somebody (eg a Ph girl) exists just to make him happy.
I got issues I lived my life on the Road also and was an low life trucker and Solider. I've been been taking care of my Friend and her daughters for 2 two years now. I spent one month with her. I did not "do It " because I'm 66 and she's 41 and I could careless about sex I did not "do it" for over 40 years. My mother live in my house. She pissed her house a away. Abandoned 3 boys never saw her. My brother also lives on my property to lazy to work. I give everything I have away. I don't want anything material and I hate 99.9% all humans
I think that's halerious mums on the chat lol
Oh, the drama.🙀
Sounds like 3rd time was the charm
I'm not quite sure if you have covered all bases of life there in the in the Philippines, I mean, if someone gets extremely ill, are the hospitals there well maintained for proper health care? Or are they pretty much run down. Is there a serious problem with diarrhea? Do they have proper sewage facilities to treat human sewage? Food safety. Do they have government agencies to contend with food spoilage at food market places to protect of food expiration dates on perishable food items? Are most Filipinos vaccinated? Etc...etc....
Ladyboy? Ewww run 😂
Unless you have a barge pole. For intimacy.
I get the physical attraction, many of these women are very attractive. But, what do you expect when you head over to the Philippines for a couple of weeks vacation? You're looking for good times and you mostly find good time girls. They know what the score is, you should as well. If you're looking for a serious relationship with ANY woman, including Filipinas, you have to follow a serious course. But, some guys never learn.
9:23 omg
Lol! I have got to see willy's youtube channel! 🤣🤣🤣
Am I to old at 78 very energetic to find a older phillipina companion?
That's not the right question bro...The right question is: Is your heart strong enough to handle the bs your Pinay companion will bring to your bed? Family drama, tampo, constant karaoke, hehehehe....How many crazy chicks have you dealt with in the past? Or, to use Jimmy Hendlix' lyrics, Are you experienced? I know 15 year old Dominican boys that understand women better than 90 year old American men...If you have over 2.5 million in the bank and experience at dealing with all sorts of people, do it...Otherwise stay home and don't cancel your subscription to PornHub...and there you can visit any country you want....
You’re not as long as you’re mobile
Actually I know one that would be happy to meet you, she gets fulfillment for being a caregiver strong Christian lady
not at all. get to the PH, find the right woman and enjoy life. just don't rush.. that's where the problems begin.
Your not too old.
I'm 77 and and have a great Philadelphia lady.
Been 4 years of laughter and happiness.
Poor Willie 😂
Oh man, that guy seems like the type that would get taken to the cleaners and left homeless in the Philippines. Hopefully not but it is not uncommon.
Many over the road truckers have earned degrees by listening to audio books and more.
Quit a yarn Reekay.
a lot of crazy stuff happens between philippines and thailand. cambodia as well.
Poor guy. It’s probably a bit late in life to make such drastic changes I think.
You should start a dating service.
nope. no way to weed out so many scammers online. it's gotta be done one at a time, meeting them in-person.
Funny
Look here's the hard truth. Before I met my current wife I made all the mistakes with a beautiful but evil Filapina gold digger. It was only through learning hard awful lessons from my divorce that I was able to stop the damage at $3000. Men make our own mistakes and no one to blame but ourselves for falling prey to scammers or even getting in to a relationship with a wonderful and trustworthy women like I have now. In as much as we all like to make excuses as grown ass men we have only ourselves to blame for adult mistake
yea i am on a Filipino dating site and one time a Filipino and i started to chat, the chat only lasted like maybe 2 hrs, then she said she had to charge her phone, well that was 2 days ago, now i had invited her on viber, which is a chat app, well i blocked her and removed her from my viber and the reason is, it does not take 2 days to charge a cell phone, i just took it after we chatted and had a video chat on viber, she spoke very little English and i did not speak Filipino at all, so the only thing i can figure is she was not that interested in me, well ok no problem on my end, so yea gents do not simp over any woman, if they stop chatting with you for more then a day i would say, just block or remove them from your chat app you are on and keep it pushing like i did, do not do like what willie here did, that is simping ok and no it does not make a man look good, it really makes a man look very bad and most women do not like guys simping on them, it makes a man look very weak to not only women but to other men as well ok, cheers :)
So... your channel mostly covers expats moving to PI and either finding a wife or finding a string of girlfriends. I've seen channels on Thailand that mostly focus on going to "go go" bars, beer bars, afternoon gentlemen's clubs & whatnot where you can relax, have a drink & maybe meet a woman who will spend time with you. Sometimes a couple days, sometimes a couple hours. Are there bar settings like this in the Philippines? Somewhere you can have a drink or a meal watch a sporting event & go home... or you can buy a drink for one of the staff & maybe entertain her for the night, depending on if you both are interested? I've never really seen a channel that covers that dating/relationship angle in the Philippines.
yes, however i'd say 90% of that is done in Angeles City, near Manila. as well as various parts of Manila city itself. think of it as Pattaya-Lite.
Cebu City (Mango Square area) has less of this than Angeles, but you can find some cheesy dives here and there. i've been to several and, honestly, it's very disappointing to see women who are about 4's and 5's on a 1-10 scale. once in a blue moon you might see an 8+.
the rest of the PH, it's hit and miss. mostly miss.
I’m getting Cousin Eddie vibes.
i just...... cant get past the bamboo palm trees. XD
You have so much beautiful scenery there, why not use a real background?
sometimes i do.
Kool
Hahaha.....great story. But i disagree with your title. Maybe a lady boy, that's what he has been looking for all his life hahaha...
Can I ask you guys opinion on something. We already know what Reekay thinks on this subject. I wanna know what you guys really think. Talk like no one's gonna know. Exactly what is the benefit to us expats to get married? We can't work. Can't own anything and most of the time have no children in the Philippines of our own. So outside of pleasing the woman we love. What is in it for us?
Your own situation will dictate your reasoning. If you feel like there's no compelling reason to do something, then the answer is: don't do that thing.
Other people have their own reasons and motivations, but a general one is to have a loving relationship that they find satisfying.
If you're retired, have savings, and a pension, not being able to work isn't an issue. Also, property ownership isn't required to enjoy life. Renting/leasing is fine with many people. Also, if you really want to own your lodging, you can buy a condo there. You can own a building, but you can't own the land it's on. So, you can own an entire house there, but you have to lease the land it's on for 30 or more years. As for me, I feel no need to own property. It's cheaper and more convenient to rent a house because I can move anywhere I want at any time I want. Owning a home ties you down; plus, it's *really* hard and time-consuming to sell property in Asia. It usually takes years to sell it, and you'll almost always lose money on it. Owning property, whether it's a condo or a house, is a pretty bad financial investment over there. But, rents are cheap compared to western economies.
If you're not financially secure, and you have to work for a living, then moving to the Philippines will be difficult. Some people can earn a living performing their work remotely, with only occasionally needing to fly home for in-person work. Some people own a business in the Philippines, for example, a hotel, resort, scuba dive shop, store, factory, security firms, or whatever. In general, running a successful business is difficult and risky. But some people do it. Some people own multiple homes or apartments in their western country and rent them out to earn their living that supports their life in the Philippines.
But, what's the motivation? For most people, it's companionship. Only you can decide what works for you.
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Sorry but that story is not that sad to me 🤣 Willie is now a fisherman or farmer in some remote Philippine island
I hope he didnt spend to much most of the gals will take the foreiner for as much as they can.
He should have found a normal gal to much wierd stuff there.
Just another Wacko Reekay !
Aren't ladyboys wonderful, Willy became a real man.😅
Willie is a wack