My brother in law committed suicide 4 years ago. I never got angry as for his reason why he did this like some of my other family members did. I just told myself that whatever pain or grief he was dealing with was gone for him and only God not us would judge him for what he did. I do get upset and sad at times but I can't let that put me in a state of depression either. I loved him like he was my true real blood brother. I love you Paulie and I wont ever forget you.
Not surprising people would object but as a suicide survivor I can promise you there is nothing easy about an attempt. The aftermath is generally the worst because it’s one more thing that was failed. Please be compassionate. ❤
People always say that they can't imagine how intense the pain these people must be feeling that they can't live another day. I'm not speaking for anyone, but my suicide attempt was not in response to the pain as much as it was thinking and feeling the despair would never end. I concluded that since I was only 22, and may live to be 85, that would be about 65 long years of bearing my despair. Looking back now that I am 70, I am not only relieved that someone found me before it was too late, but that, with help I was able to work through the despair. I'm a very different person.
I get your "despair" each and every day. Why would I put up with 65 years of despair? Ultimately, we have no idea why anyone does anything, but it is MY belief that the only thing I can give is to send PEACE and love.
Definitely it's very painful, nor do I tell my husband, it would destroy him if I did that, he's my life & 2 cats that' are here for us, peace b with everyone. ❤
Wrong: no matter who the depressed person tells, it not only makes no difference but can make things worse. Nobody truly wants to be told somebody close to them is suicidal, because they are not qualified to help. Acknowledging someone’s in pain is nice, but does almost nothing in mitigating the suicidal person’s distress.
If you are not asking, how did you know that? If you can not read between the lines, ask again. If they answer things that might sound strange to you, ask them if they want to walk one day with you. Not in your shoes, they should not imitate you, but maybe to tell you how they see their world. That is the first step.
I have not been quiet about how every day is torture. Why should anybody care when doing nothing is easier? They know but they don't give a damn. They wouldn't even take me seriously if I killed myself in front of their eyes.
my son died by suicide at the age of 30. he suffered from depression. whether by mental health issues or circumstances, suicide is not a crime nor is it a sin. these souls have a right to an eternal light. always love and remember them in kind.❤
Suicide is MURDER, which is a COMMANDMENT. Those are SINS. Life is a gift, and not ours to end. Once born, we belong to those who LOVE US, NOT OURSELVES. I AM sorry for your loss.
@@Jacubamustoff We did not ask for depression to be part of our lives . We were just born into this world . Its not murder its simply ending the body thats keeping the mind alive thats causing the depression. Human beings didn't ask to be born . A person that lived a terrible life with depression and committs suicide at 40 should be classified as a victory as they didn't ask to be born in the first place
@@Jacubamustoff Please dont spread your crp . You have no idea what depression feels like . Ppl dont want to die because its a sin , they want to die to end the pain . If suicide is a sin then every single human on earth should be happy and depression free . If they end their lives while feeling ontop of world then it can be labeled as murder or sin . Til then its freeing ones self from pain .
I'm so sorry for your loss. You are right. It's no crime. It takes a lot of courage to end your life, so those who choose this way will have thought about it and decided their pain was too much. He will be fine and happy in Spirit. And no one will judge him. Please know this, as I have knowledge of these things. God bless you both. Love from the UK
I agree 100%. I have suffered with Bipolar II / Depression most of my life and mental illness is no joke. Until people are in that pit of despair and darkness, the lies the disease tells you, then one cannot judge for someone having to commit suicide. I'm so sorry for your loss and pray for continued healing.
My sister ended her life too. As difficult it is to understand on my part , her internal struggles became unbearable for her. She is at peace with our Mom n Dad 💕🙏🏻
🕯 I light a candle in memory of them all and all those who we have lost to suicide. Sometimes life just hits us with more than we can physically or mentally handle.
@nicegoal6608 Not true. I think I understand how you feel. I used to be depressed almost every day. Life can be quite horrible at times but also very enjoyable and magical at certain points. Sometimes it takes a while to find those moments in time. But it's worth it! Try to focus on any of the positive things in life that you can find, or try to find things to become interested in or excited about. When I was super depressed every day, I went out joined a gym and started working out several times per week. I'd take myself on "dates" to see movies or concerts, etc. Go out and try new food places, or activities, even if it's just a fast food joint or a local coffee shop. It is worth it to go on living even if, at times, it doesn't seem like it. If you really can't find a way to pull out of sadness and are falling into a very dark place, please seek some help from professionals! Nothing to be ashamed of. 🙏 Wishing you love, hope, good luck, and happiness!
This was almost me last year in March; I almost died and went through intense pain. No one will ever understand what I was and still go through; people are so cruel to each other. Years of being bullied, lonely, extremely depressed, physically sick, complex PTSD, abuse, and trauma took its toll. People believe it’s a selfish thing but I’m telling you to do this you are in unbearable misery. Doing better now. RIP to those lost❤
yes, it is scary when myself not believing in heaven/hell, I keep thinking end myself, but I fall asleep and the next day I want some good things happen, I deserve to be happy again, just simple things. I see god in peoples mind, so I stop worry, something bad won't happen. I should believe in that so I can chill and enjoy the rest of my life; life is short, but I must find it, happiness.
Jessica, I don't know you but I feel sad reading your words. Yes, why are people mean to each other? I think that whenever you feel sad, helpless, with negative thoughts, you can talk to a friend, listen to music you like, do physical activity outdoors, go to a park/garden and observe nature, read a book that inspires you or a movie that makes you happy. In other words, whatever gives you pleasure and brings moments of happiness. Believe in your potential, your qualities and if you can, help others by volunteering Try to be more confident in yourself❤ For my sanity, I stopped watching news about the (endless) wars and conflicts. I hope you can find hapiness in little moments, that's what life is about.
Agree,waking up and cursing another day being alive,and you can't stand the fact that if you didn't have a loving family,you could do it without hesitation
I am living with chronic pain and am permanently disabled through a freak accident. I have so many meds, and doctors. I am trying to lead as normal a life as possible, and work full time but some days are harder than others and then the dark thoughts come. Love of my family and devotion to them pulls me through most of those dark, dog days. My friends could not possibly be more wonderful and of course, my cat is the best! But when I go, I hope I can choose the time and place, without taking action that would cause my loved ones unnecessary pain nor leave a needless mess. God bless them all and God bless all of you xx
@@paulopanza9581Don't Commit Suicide. God In Time Will And Can Help You In Your Situation! Especially Since In The Bible Which Is God's Written Word He Told Moses To Write This - Being One Of His 10 Commandments And I Quote, "THOU SHALT NOT KILL." KJV Bible (Exodus 20:13 DON'T KILL, Whether It's Another Person Or Yourself!!! I Heard The Word Suicide Earlier To Night Way Before I Came On Line And Just So Happened To See This Video And Read The Comments. And, Now I Know Why! Don't Dare Do It! Praying For You🙏🙏🙏
Why would you even say judge them? That, would be the furthest thing from my mind. Sad that we even live in a culture where people think that judgement would be an appropriate reaction as opposed to empathy.
Here in the UK I just came across this video of those who committed suicide in 2023. Such sad news of all of them but my heart broke to hear that Choi Sung Bong had committed suicide at the age of just 33. For any of you who have never heard of him or heard him sing he was an inspiration. He ran away from an orphanage at the age of 6 after being abused. He spent his childhood living on the streets and sleeping in doorways. He would listen to music coming from establishments such as restaurants and clubs. His childhood was harrowing and his only comfort was music and his ability to sing. I saw him by chance on You Tube. He took part in Koreas X factor and I remember his performance and then leaving the building on his own, alone with no one to support him. His amazing operatic talent took him a long way but tragically never to recover, I think, from the effects of a devastating childhood. Please pay tribute to him and go and watch his audition on KGT. Really feeling full of tears. My own father committed suicide when I was 18, Bless you Choi Sung Bong. May you finally have peace.
Every person should have agency over their own life If life is painful, meaningless and without purpose, then making the choice to end life should be the individuals. Nobody should pass judgement regarding others suffering or choices
I think this avenue of thought very nicely frees us from curing our culture's poor systems. Here in the US, it's the Hunger Games to survive. Companies take your life and make it seem pointless while isolating you from your loved ones. Breaks from work are few and pay is so piddling you can't do anything but sit at home. The demand to perform at the top gives high achievers nothing after they've achieved.
Everyone does have that choice , but that doesn’t change the fact that it’s a selfish act that most hurts the people who care about them. My alcoholic father used to talk about wanting to die from the time I was 10 years old until I was 20 and decided to let it go. By that time I figured out he was a selfish person who didn’t care how damaging his self pity episodes were to his young children.
I lost my brother to suicide on New Year’s Day 2021 he jumped onto a motorway bridge he got buried on the 8th of January 2021 that’s my birthday I have never celebrated my birthday since his passing you just never know the pain and suffering that some people are dealing with and I have never agreed when people say suicide is the cowards way out I don’t believe it is .
It takes a lot of courage to kill yourself. We all have a natural innate disposition to live and fight for life. Fight or flight. So to contemplate and going thru suicide is a very strong indicator of the persons state of mind. The cowards are the ones who say the people who die by suicide are cowards. Thats rubbish! They feel they are a burden to people. Which is why they do it. To relieve you of the burden. Thats not a coward.
That is a very lovely tribute to your brother. Incredible hard that it is surrounding your own birthday celebration…. Sometimes survivors guilt can happen.. as in why them and not your self. I don’t think I have ever felt to judge someone experiencing so much sorrow and suffering. I’m in my 5 decade now even more so… yes there is mental illness, which in our society how does any one side step that. Along with just bad luck and sometimes factors you can’t control that can push anyone to the limit. Never say never. I do worry about people who can be so black and white and disregard a persons situation as…. One day you might have the love of your life get that desparate… and how on earth would they console or offer solace with such a rigid ,uncompassionate view. Could you live with yourself if that person left a suicide note explaining the treatment they had received. Just something to ponder. We all hit the wall at some stage… seek out someone who actually gives a genuine #+*^% folks.
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss 😢. I will never say that! We have no idea what a person is dealing with. I just wish they could reach out to someone and see that suicide is not the answer. My heart truly hurts all the families of suicide.
i bet your brother wanted you to keep celebrating your birthday, he found peace on his own way, how about you celebrate your birthday and his freedom day alltogether, he'd love that!
I know he's not on this list but I still think of Chris Cornell every day and miss him like a friend. His passing made me want to understand why some people feel this is their only choice left. Peace to all the souls lost and hope they are no longer in any pain.
I think about him a lot too, trying to understand how someone who apparently has everything, does something like that, a father and a husband. We will always miss you Chris.
May these people have found peace in their afterlife. The World can be a very cruel place at times. Hearts are broken and crushed by disappointment, the lies of others, the fear of the unknown, and a life of serious illness. R.I.P.
I agree. People in a suicide mindset think they are a burden and are causing pain to the people they love. It’s the mental illness. Reaching out for help, esp. with no health insurance makes actually receiving help impossible. Professionals only willing to help if you have $30,000 for 60 days in a mental health facility. What’s left? To face and overpower a humans natural instinct to survive isn’t cowardly or selfish. It’s the most selfless thing and the most difficult thing to go through with. My dad took his life in 2007 after multiple previous attempts by downing a nearly half bottle of vodka, took close to 100 Vicodin (which would have killed him alone) and then shot himself with a 9mm handgun with hollow point bullets while sitting on his couch in 2007 after his psychopathic ex wife (a woman who laid a hot clothing iron on my back when I was 12, the scar still visible today, cracked my skull open with a brick at 14, shaved my head down the center like a reverse Mohawk for using her shampoo when I’d ran out of mine while I was in the 6th grade, knowing I was already being bullied at that school and burned all of my belongings when I was sent to state custody per her threatening my dad to sign the papers.) I had undiagnosed Asperger’s/autism and was a bit different, but not a bad kid. She burned the JROTC award I was so proud of, my HS cheerleading trophies, academic awards and everything but my clothing. Dad sat me down, handed me $20K cash and apologizing for being a “shitty no good father and wanted to make things as right as possible me. I accepted and handed him back the cash. He gave it to my boyfriend at the time who gladly accepted. This just a year before his death. Why? She locked him out of the house HE purchased while he left one morning to see the doctor to receive his prostate cancer diagnosis. While he was gone, she changed the locks, moved another man in, with Hep C, while their 8 year old son lived there too and he never saw his son again. He survived the cancer though due to the surgery he was left unable to have sex which meant at 54 he would never be sexually intimate with another woman again. He was also an alcoholic and pain pill addict due to pancreatitis flare ups. He was in pain 24/7 so I understood his decision and figured he went out drunk, high and died fast. Better than suffering from a terminal physical illness like liver failure. My uncle (his brother and successful attorney) didn’t want to hire crime scene cleaners for $25k, so in funeral school at the time, I cleaned up the mess which included scraping his dried skull fragments and brain matter off the window with a metal spatula. I didn’t cry or feel anything but peace knowing he was no longer suffering. What’s truly selfish is normal people who don’t have to experience daily pain and suffering expecting people who do, especially older people, to keep living in agony just so they don’t have to experience the grief. Thats how I see it. A day doesn’t pass that my heart doesn’t find my dad. RIP my dad Rob, to all of these beautiful humans in this video and those in the comments written by loved ones. You’re never forgotten. (Dammit now I’m 😢)
I understand how incessant and seemingly permanent mental issues drag one to the bottom of their barrel. The saying: "Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" may fit some. Most of us battle our negative thoughts for decades before we finally give in to them. I sometimes wonder how I have lived this long...yet now, in my 7th decade, I am resolved to heal completely. It is my gift to myself; and well deserved.
Jesus Christ can take away all evil thoughts like mental health. Evil can manifest in your mind, causing you to kill yourself, medically it's mental health, but it's actually evil in your mind.
My brother in law committed suicide 10 years ago. I knew he was depressed but none of us knew how horribly depressed he was. I wish I could reach back, take the time and sit him down and talk to him. Tell him it was all going to be ok. I was just a sister in law but still I feel responsible. His siblings got angry at him after his suicide and still are. They don’t understand depression. Depression is a tough foe. I was never angry at him but still, I didn’t sit down with him. I didn’t take the time. I can’t help feeling like I could have saved him had I taken the time. I miss your sad, beautiful eyes the color of blue-glass and you peeking out from your long dark eyelashes. Your heart was good and I loved you. RIP Randy.
@@scottfreckle237 what do you mean what is his/ her “point”?? This ISNT just about celebrities and if people are brave enough to share their stories kudos to them and SHAME on you!!
I hope you will stop wondering what if or whatever you could have done for him. You have to free yourself of those thoughts. Frankly there was little one can do in cases of deep depression except to see medical help. It is a disease that not only affect the individual but also the people who love him or her. Don’t anguish anymore. Just think that your brother in law is at peace now.
So you think you just can't go on? Sometimes we just need to look at things from a new or different perspective The reason people are killing themselves is because they no longer believe in or believe God. They might say they do but if they did they wouldn't call him a liar, they may not say God is a liar but when you don't believe God's written word you're telling him he's a liar, Jesus, God's son told you over and over about hell. Yes hell is a real place and it's a place of fire and eternal torment. People kill themselves for the most part because they no longer want to face life, some do it because of illness, some maybe out of spite towards a spouse, etc. You think, oh It'll all be over, no more pain, no more trouble, I'm sick of all this and on an on. I promise you, you will be in hell, then you will know true pain, then you'll know true loneliness, you'll know pain you can't imagine. The churches have let you down, the pastors have let you down, many no longer speak of hell, they don't want to lose their congregation, their income. They will stand before God one day and give account for withholding the truth. I promise you, you don't even have to wonder about it, if you kill yourself, you will go to hell, then the lake of fire. You can pray about it, you can ask God to forgive you all day long for what you're about to do ,but it doesn't work that way, you will still go to hell. God is not mocked. do you think God is going to forgive you when you ask him , please forgive me for adultery then go out on your spouse and commit adultery. That's how stupid it is when you ask God to forgive you for killing yourself then go kill yourself. The adultery may be different, you might get forgiveness afterwards, but if you kill yourself it's to late......you will be in hell and you will be there forever burning in the lake of fire without end.
@@mountuplikeaneagleBut who will forgive all his lies ? For I don't know anybody who was healed directly in the name of God or Jesus. I guess you're a liar, for you don't have the signs. Think of that. The signs. If none then you'll go to hell, whatever you may think. And stop cheating.
I am full of emotion looking at all the beautiful, differently talented, sad souls. My first suicide attempt was around 17 years of age. It’s been a long journey, and I hope I never fall into that dark place again. Talking, supportive people, praying and hoping that I still need to fulfill my destiny, has kept me alive. 🙏🏾☮️❤️
Please continue to hold on and talk to people about ur feelings. As someone who has lost a family member to suicide, I know the intense pain and frustration it leaves. I'm proud of u for speaking out. Please continue to get support and stick around. Prayers and hugs to u!
The picture is Emmanuelle Béart. She is not dead ! It is horrible to post false news about people, even more horrible when they lie about the death of somebody.
How many times I’ve been into everytime i hit the rock bottom, instead i prayed and asked guidance. And the only answers I always get. Life is not about winning, success and always right all the time, instead I accept defeat, failures and accept i make mistakes. Having on and off depressions. But have to continue life despite its too hard to handle sometimes. Praying for the souls of this who committed suicide. May you all Rest in Peace.
Bullshit!!! Prayed and asked for guidance. Thats rubbish anyway! What about the people who pray and dont get guidance….what do you say to that. Dont talk about ridiculous things and offer solutions which are just inane and banal. You got over it. Good for you. Dont tar people with the same brush. Prayer doesnt always work. What then? Honestly what a thing to say.
Hey I tried to commit suicide but I lived and that's because a aunt who is very religious told me I came from a family of preachers and church mothers who prayed for the generations...yes yes YES my friend prayer and the correct medication works 💕 love
I have known 7 people (all male - 2 were teenagers) to commit suicide, the most recent 2 days ago - he 17 and a friend of my son. Although he was quiet and didn't say much, no one thought of him as depressed. It has come as a total shock. This was a commonality with all of those I have known who took their life. They did not reach out for help or give any indication that they might do something so drastic, so final. But there it is. There's no point in trying to make sense of it or blame oneself or anyone else. It's their choice - they know their time in this life is over. One can only hope they were at peace with such a painful decision.
This is an absolutely beautiful tribute to those who felt they had no other choice or option but to end their pain. I understand that pain, and I hope those watching this know there ARE ways to get through the darkness! 🙏❤️
@@acooksla One of my close friends jumped off a 15-story building on the beach in Miami. He had taken me there 2 weeks before so show me the view. I had no idea he was thinking such horrible thoughts. He was one of those people who always smiled. It really devastated me.
I had a long time friend from work who shot himself in the head about 3 years ago. I was initially quite shocked that it had happened, but later realized it was probably his only way out of his horrible predicament of being alone, being in debt, hating his job, hating his boss, his daughter being a drug addict and so forth. I philosophize now that it was his life, his life to end if he so chose. Life simply isn't precious to everyone.
I have a Canadian woman friend, When we are getting close she told me her ordeal. She had her husband and her two sons who died by commiting suicide. She's alone now in her 40's but she looks in 70's. All her hairs are white. I bet she hasn't had much sleep.
I did too. I thought it might be because the next one was a 'milestone' one; but apparently not in most cases. (Although that type of stuff/triviality probably didn't even cross their mind. I mean, not once their mind was made up.)
a 14 year old female committed suicide yesterday. one' of my daughter;s students. she is at peace now.. and her breath of life has returned to the Lord. this life is too hard for some. I almost checked out myself. but the Lord invited me to live in him.. and I now have the reason and ability to persevere and carry on. we must keep conscious contact with the Lord when our minds go dark.
My father died in june of 2023 of a heart attack. My mother could not deal with the loss of her husband and best friend, so a week later she shot herself. 57 years they were together. I miss them so so much. Sometimes i can't believe it. This small, wonderful, friendly woman could do something like that. She robbed me of time with her.
We have to fight with satan . The demons say you are alone your mother died husband died your father died, your wife died why shoul you live it is better to die blah blah satan is open enemy
The number of those in their 40’s is overwhelming 😞. I have 44 and I guess I know why 😳. I feel all their torment and agony 😣.. Love you , humanity , stay strong ! ❤💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️
Mental health is a hell of a thing! It’s so sad for the families and loved ones left behind. But for a person to make the decision to end their own life is just the last resort and they can not see any light at the end of the tunnel! I could never judge someone for doing it, only that I hope i never cross that line. I hope all these poor souls are resting in eternal peace!
How is it any different than if the loved one died of any other reason? What makes self ending so different than if it was a heart attack, or cancer or car accident? People say ‘’it was their time (to go)’’ but refuse to give the completed suicide the same thought?
The only way to stem the agony is to have free, good, clinics that are not full of paperwork. Suicidal, depressed people, as myself can't negotiate thru all that. My help came through TMS and REMD Combined. They are the latest successful treatment, but it's hard to find and expensive.
I’ve lost 3 friends to this and had 4 attempts myself 😞… and sadly i’m sure there will be more to come. Statistically there are more s____ in men then women because men are known to use more “violent” attempts such as 🔫 and jumping. This is probably why i’m still here. I’m scared of botching it and ending up in an even worse state. People are always quick to call this a “cowardly act”… but until you are alone in a room and those thoughts come to you and you truly fear life more then death? You will never understand. RIP to all 💔🙏🏼
I don't know u but please stick around. Just as things sometimes get worse, things can get better as well. Thank u for sharing ur struggle with us. Hang in there brave soul!
@@donpeace894 that’s great. Thanks for pointing that out 😒. Want to give me some pointers? Sorry if i didn’t know at 16 years old before the Internet that swallowing a whole bottle of aspirin will just get me really sick and lose hearing in my left ear. And two other times when i used stronger pills-a ton of them-I just woke up a day later with the worst headache i’ve ever had. And then there’s the time I sat parked in a closed garage with my car on, took more pills and went to sleep only to wake up again because i guess you have to cover the exhaust and use a hose or something. So no, i’m not very good at it. Neither was Princess Diana who also had four attempts. Marilyn Monroe did too but she finally succeeded because she had phenobarbital which was very effective, its also what Carole Landis took when Rex Harrison broke up with her and she succeeded as well. Anna Nicole Smith too although hers apparently was an “accident”…Like i said women are less successful then men because some of us are afraid of violence even in death.
I just wanted to say that If you have suicidal thoughts or mental trauma or even if you don’t or your just going through something ajust know that I love you and your loved by many and people and if you think that might not be loved by your family or people you know or just anyone just know they might even love you even more than your think. You have a purpose you are beautiful, kind, just be yourself and go after what you want to do. You are amazing, you got this, and things will get better in your life, you will do great things, and so many people and I are proud of you. Your future is bigger than your past and your past does not define you are awesome and a warrior. Don’t hate yourself simply because of your past, forgive yourself, love yourself no matter what because you deserve the world and the great things in it. I love you Have a wonderful beautiful nice day. Also how are you and your family doing today? Thank you so much for your service.🙏🏽❤️ Never forget you are not a mistake you belong in this world and you are light of the world and you are the true meaning of kindness.
I didn't know who he was, but I am literally a day older than him. I have battled depression and anxiety for decades. so that one hit me hard... I hope he has found peace...
I have a problem with the first one, Betty. It says voluntary assisted... Means poor health. As someone who is already diagnosed terminology ill, daily life is HELL in the last five years, I've had my stomach opened 5 times for a condition called intussusception/volvulus and have had over 6 feet of my bowels removed. It keeps coming back. I'm doing it without any pain meds whatsoever as I don't like how they make me feel. The constant feeling like someone has their hands inside my stomach squeezing all day long, hurts like hell, and I'm on the list to be put to sleep. It's not suicide if something is already killing you, and multiple Drs said it's eventually going to kill you. I'll be happy to trade one day of my life with anyone, and let's see if you consider it suicide, or helping you out of a terminal condition so you don't have to go through the pain anymore. Anyone up for a trade??
My identical twin brother committed suicide in 2023. He was a week away from his 33 birthday. It hurts everyday that knowing I can't talk to him anymore or see him. Mental illness is a real thing and I will wish this on nobody and I hope that whoever goes to a mental illness gets help.
damn sad & tragic..... thought it myself ,but 2 cats & man I married keep me moving forward, at 75 too young to leave life, you only live life one, make the best & worst 💔 of it, prayers to those who have passed 🙏
❤❤❤❤❤ may you have all returned to the light.Thank you for whoever praised this souls,,,,,,,this are conscious suicides,but in addiction,and accidents,there is that unconscious drive to depart,.... . I myself in the list .
I’m aware of the stigma associated with suicide but who can understand the intense emotional pain that causes one to lose their will to live? People tend to judge and be harsh but truth is you don’t have a clue what intense pain these people were in.
I have a terminal illness that will rob me of my faculties it has killed my brother, father and soon me. I am ready to leave here now before all the suffering comes, my children, family and friends know my wishes. Go when you want to, peace ❤
Worse than Hollywood. It was police "mishandling" (the one in charge chose a famous one for his own credits/promotion need). He was interrogated for many days. Done many drug test (tested negative). They rejected his request not to publicise his name. Resulted in lost of sponsorships & being sued for damage/breach of contracts for sky high amounts beyond him. It would be easily swiped off if it happened in other countries.
People just always remember to be kind to others. We have no idea in the world what they have been through or are going through right now. Show people love and kindness.
Seeing Miss Betty Rollin on here is an unbelievable wallop. She endured a Mastectomy in The Seventies while a renowned Journalist who inspired a telepic about Her Life and Troubles which Starred Mary Tyler Moore no less. Knowing that She went out this way is downright backbreaking after all that!😭B.W.
I would never thought that seeking to annoy others is a life's virtue, but in your case, it is ! Hope we'll cross paths one day and annoy the hell out of each other. Cheers.
I walk through my despiar with Yeshua, I have tried 3 times in my life and I never will again because I know that is wrong and there is not that Yeshua will not bring me through as he says he will never leave me nor forsake me,I hurt my children really bad the last time I tried and to me the worst pain is knowing that I could have left them behind with all that pain,I was gone my son and daughter bought me back, no correction Yeshua used them bring me back because it was not my time trusting in him makes me want to live now and my child as well I hope the this message can help someone.
I need help. Please pray for me. I just got divorced. We are being forced to sell our home. She has possession until the home is sold. Here's what I need you to pray for: She changes her mind and does not want to sell the home. If that happens, then I can go back home and try to fix my family. We have two children. There was no abuse. I admit I yelled, but that was because someone outside of our home was abusing me. She was also going through menopause but I did not know it until after she filed for divorce. We had stopped having sex or even hugging or kissing each other. I grew sad. So, she filed for divorce. I was forced to move out (I did not know I didn't have to move out). I made a lot of mistakes. I am hoping I can fix my family. But if I continue to have to live out of the house, I am also facing financial ruin, since I do not have enough savings to continue paying rent. I do not want to lose our beloved home. We are supposed to put it on the market March 1, 2024. If we both decide not to sell it, I think I can go back home. If I cannot go back home, I do not want to be here anymore.
Jesus is going not restore your home. This is what i want you to do, find a quiet place kneel down and ask Jesus Christ to help you fix your finance and marriage. then put your prayer into action. Go back home tell your wife you want you two to fix everything. allow her to talk then you listen, when she's done tell her your sorry and you goanna be there for her and the kids.
Losing a loved one like this... It's Incredibly hard to describe the pain. It hurts deep down in the heart. Read a prayer and keep them safe in our heart with love. 🙏🏻
; 💔 🙏 Mother of a survivor doped by doctors without a proper diagnosis. Please be cautious with antidepressants and anxiety medication. Do your research. Reach out to family, friends, God .You are loved, every life matters.
The picture you used to represent the actress Emmanuelle Debever is actually a picture of another actress called Emmanuelle Beart, who is still alive and kicking! 5:09
I can empathize and sympathize. I've had these thoughts for forty seven years, since I was nineteen. I never understood the reason why, after all the "hard" and working years, someone who retires and has basically few worries, would do this. I understand now. Thankfully, I'm a coward so I most likely will continue to resist. My condolences go out to the loved ones of the people in this video.
The biggest things Bubba Copeland did wrong was state that his private life did not effect his holy life. How wrong a “preacher” can be when they try to justify the sins in their life as not being sins. You don’t write stories like he did “fantasy stories” and not know that your heart doesn’t align with your walk with God and the dressing like a woman when you’re a man is also addressed in the Bible. Thinking you can pick and choose what parts of the Bible you will personally follow, then stand up to teach Gods word to others is so wrong. We all sin and we know there will always be consequences to those sins, but he knew exactly what he should have done with those sins. I am sorry he took his own life instead of being honest with his community and showing that God will forgive if you confess and repent. God is concerned about your heart , not what you purport to be on the outside. If those two don’t match it’s time to get your heart right with God and then the outside reflect your walk with Him, not hid your secret life. Please, if you can’t seem to turn away from sin on your own, know what God never meant for you to do life on your own, the good, bad and the ugly parts. He is always there to strengthen you, you just need to surrender it all to Him. Talk to Him!!!
Juat sharing a bit of my story. I was sexually abused from age 4 or 5. More than one person was involved. I was very inteoverted, didnt have many friends. I lost the love i had for my family, they would only mock at whatever i did with my life. I started feeling like i dont belong anywhere, so my first suici.. attempt was at age 15, I had some other attempts but never could complete them. I moved many times and even moved out of the country, i had many good moments, but the feeling of not belonging and the disappointment with people made it hard sometimes. I committed another attempt, which led me into hospitalization overnight and the last one in a coma for a week. Suic* is not wanting to live with this inner pain that can't be easily wiped out. I still live with days i have to struggle with my thoughts and not act on them. But many times i think i just want to rest.
@wendyhenderson8563 I'd recommend more than talking to your daughter is to listen, and even if she doesn't want to talk just sit next to her share a tea or coffee and some snacks. Some times is better to do certain things than trying to pull words out from people. When she feels more comfortable she can then open up
People who commit suicide are under great psychological pressure to automatically give up everything, leaving only the remaining relatives to suffer unforgettable losses.
@@ruthbarnes9999It's true many have no relatives left. But I can assure u of one thing: those who have loved someone who took this way out will shed tears and miss them very much.
My brother in law committed suicide 4 years ago. I never got angry as for his reason why he did this like some of my other family members did. I just told myself that whatever pain or grief he was dealing with was gone for him and only God not us would judge him for what he did. I do get upset and sad at times but I can't let that put me in a state of depression either. I loved him like he was my true real blood brother. I love you Paulie and I wont ever forget you.
My brother drank himself to death, never got over the wife and divorce. ❤❤
three suicides in my family and other tragedies. It's in the DNA, I guard against it for myself. God is the only judge.
@smokingrammy828 Prayers for you and your family.
My condolences go out to you and your family.
My brother -in-law committed suicide 31 years ago this April and the pain never goes away
@denisespencer6550 Thank you. God Bless You.
For someone to commit suicide, it takes a broken heart and existential emptiness 😔 No judgement, just compassion.
yes.
Or an easy way out if you're on trial for fraud etc..
@@WillScarlet1991 Well, I guess there may be different points of view. Different forces and factors at work in different lives.
Not surprising people would object but as a suicide survivor I can promise you there is nothing easy about an attempt. The aftermath is generally the worst because it’s one more thing that was failed. Please be compassionate. ❤
In some cases it takes a lot of self-centeredness.
Life is not easy. Life is not for everyone. Compassion and non-judgement are essential.
👍👍👍🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻👏👏👏
People always say that they can't imagine how intense the pain these people must be feeling that they can't live another day. I'm not speaking for anyone, but my suicide attempt was not in response to the pain as much as it was thinking and feeling the despair would never end. I concluded that since I was only 22, and may live to be 85, that would be about 65 long years of bearing my despair. Looking back now that I am 70, I am not only relieved that someone found me before it was too late, but that, with help I was able to work through the despair. I'm a very different person.
Greetings from Poland...🌺
I don’t know you, but I’m happy you’re here with us. Your words will help someone, I’m sure.
Am glad you are alive and impacted many lives which you would not have been able to do if you died earlier
I get your "despair" each and every day. Why would I put up with 65 years of despair? Ultimately, we have no idea why anyone does anything, but it is MY belief that the only thing I can give is to send PEACE and love.
Karen, thank you for your story. It might help someone who is contemplating suicide.
You just never know what someone is going through.😢☮️🙏😘
Definitely it's very painful, nor do I tell my husband, it would destroy him if I did that, he's my life & 2 cats that' are here for us, peace b with everyone. ❤
Wrong: no matter who the depressed person tells, it not only makes no difference but can make things worse. Nobody truly wants to be told somebody close to them is suicidal, because they are not qualified to help. Acknowledging someone’s in pain is nice, but does almost nothing in mitigating the suicidal person’s distress.
If you are not asking, how did you know that? If you can not read between the lines, ask again. If they answer things that might sound strange to you, ask them if they want to walk one day with you. Not in your shoes, they should not imitate you, but maybe to tell you how they see their world. That is the first step.
I have not been quiet about how every day is torture. Why should anybody care when doing nothing is easier? They know but they don't give a damn. They wouldn't even take me seriously if I killed myself in front of their eyes.
What can I do, how can I help?
my son died by suicide at the age of 30. he suffered from depression. whether by mental health issues or circumstances, suicide is not a crime nor is it a sin. these souls have a right to an eternal light. always love and remember them in kind.❤
Suicide is MURDER, which is a COMMANDMENT. Those are SINS. Life is a gift, and not ours to end. Once born, we belong to those who LOVE US, NOT OURSELVES. I AM sorry for your loss.
@@Jacubamustoff We did not ask for depression to be part of our lives . We were just born into this world . Its not murder its simply ending the body thats keeping the mind alive thats causing the depression. Human beings didn't ask to be born . A person that lived a terrible life with depression and committs suicide at 40 should be classified as a victory as they didn't ask to be born in the first place
@@Jacubamustoff Please dont spread your crp . You have no idea what depression feels like . Ppl dont want to die because its a sin , they want to die to end the pain . If suicide is a sin then every single human on earth should be happy and depression free . If they end their lives while feeling ontop of world then it can be labeled as murder or sin . Til then its freeing ones self from pain .
I'm so sorry for your loss. You are right. It's no crime. It takes a lot of courage to end your life, so those who choose this way will have thought about it and decided their pain was too much. He will be fine and happy in Spirit. And no one will judge him. Please know this, as I have knowledge of these things. God bless you both. Love from the UK
I agree 100%. I have suffered with Bipolar II / Depression most of my life and mental illness is no joke. Until people are in that pit of despair and darkness, the lies the disease tells you, then one cannot judge for someone having to commit suicide. I'm so sorry for your loss and pray for continued healing.
My sister ended her life too. As difficult it is to understand on my part , her internal struggles became unbearable for her. She is at peace with our Mom n Dad 💕🙏🏻
Sorry for your loss😢
🕯 I light a candle in memory of them all and all those who we have lost to suicide. Sometimes life just hits us with more than we can physically or mentally handle.
Amen to that 🙏
Definitely still struggle but not my time yet as Lord will let me know
There is no reason to be alive
@nicegoal6608 Not true. I think I understand how you feel. I used to be depressed almost every day. Life can be quite horrible at times but also very enjoyable and magical at certain points. Sometimes it takes a while to find those moments in time. But it's worth it! Try to focus on any of the positive things in life that you can find, or try to find things to become interested in or excited about. When I was super depressed every day, I went out joined a gym and started working out several times per week. I'd take myself on "dates" to see movies or concerts, etc. Go out and try new food places, or activities, even if it's just a fast food joint or a local coffee shop. It is worth it to go on living even if, at times, it doesn't seem like it. If you really can't find a way to pull out of sadness and are falling into a very dark place, please seek some help from professionals! Nothing to be ashamed of. 🙏 Wishing you love, hope, good luck, and happiness!
Well said.
This was almost me last year in March; I almost died and went through intense pain. No one will ever understand what I was and still go through; people are so cruel to each other. Years of being bullied, lonely, extremely depressed, physically sick, complex PTSD, abuse, and trauma took its toll. People believe it’s a selfish thing but I’m telling you to do this you are in unbearable misery. Doing better now. RIP to those lost❤
I'm glad you're doing better. 💜
yes, it is scary when myself not believing in heaven/hell, I keep thinking end myself, but I fall asleep and the next day I want some good things happen, I deserve to be happy again, just simple things. I see god in peoples mind, so I stop worry, something bad won't happen. I should believe in that so I can chill and enjoy the rest of my life; life is short, but I must find it, happiness.
Jessica, I don't know you but I feel sad reading your words.
Yes, why are people mean to each other?
I think that whenever you feel sad, helpless, with negative thoughts, you can talk to a friend, listen to music you like, do physical activity outdoors, go to a park/garden and observe nature, read a book that inspires you or a movie that makes you happy.
In other words, whatever gives you pleasure and brings moments of happiness.
Believe in your potential, your qualities and if you can, help others by volunteering Try to be more confident in yourself❤
For my sanity, I stopped watching news about the (endless) wars and conflicts.
I hope you can find hapiness in little moments, that's what life is about.
I agree. I don't think people to hurt others. I read Naomi Judd's last book on depression on could feel her pain that eventually ended her life
Agree,waking up and cursing another day being alive,and you can't stand the fact that if you didn't have a loving family,you could do it without hesitation
When you live in pain and you feel defeated, people have had enough. Be proud for who they were 😢 not what they finally did to stop it.❤
I am living with chronic pain and am permanently disabled through a freak accident. I have so many meds, and doctors. I am trying to lead as normal a life as possible, and work full time but some days are harder than others and then the dark thoughts come. Love of my family and devotion to them pulls me through most of those dark, dog days. My friends could not possibly be more wonderful and of course, my cat is the best! But when I go, I hope I can choose the time and place, without taking action that would cause my loved ones unnecessary pain nor leave a needless mess. God bless them all and God bless all of you xx
Praying for you in Brazil. Peace! God bless you!
Please let God take u home in His time, not yours. You are God's. He is good. Trust Him.
In Jesus Holy Name be healed…
I too have chronic pain conditions and I feel like one of these days will be my last. I cant say when exactly but I know how my life will end.
@@paulopanza9581Don't Commit Suicide. God In Time Will And Can Help You In Your Situation! Especially Since In The Bible Which Is God's Written Word He Told Moses To Write This - Being One Of His 10 Commandments And I Quote, "THOU SHALT NOT KILL." KJV Bible (Exodus 20:13
DON'T KILL, Whether It's Another Person Or Yourself!!! I Heard The Word Suicide Earlier To Night Way Before I Came On Line And Just So Happened To See This Video And Read The Comments. And, Now I Know Why! Don't Dare Do It! Praying For You🙏🙏🙏
I do not judge these people harshly. Each for their own reason decided that suicide was the answer. Peace be to all of them.
Sorry boys, no pity here. Condolences not available at this time.
Why would you even say judge them? That, would be the furthest thing from my mind. Sad that we even live in a culture where people think that judgement would be an appropriate reaction as opposed to empathy.
@@Azuria969...
Laughing here ?.😡
@@FireWork-nc8ib sorry I have no idea what was I laughing about
Here in the UK I just came across this video of those who committed suicide in 2023. Such sad news of all of them but my heart broke to hear that Choi Sung Bong had committed suicide at the age of just 33. For any of you who have never heard of him or heard him sing he was an inspiration. He ran away from an orphanage at the age of 6 after being abused. He spent his childhood living on the streets and sleeping in doorways. He would listen to music coming from establishments such as restaurants and clubs. His childhood was harrowing and his only comfort was music and his ability to sing. I saw him by chance on You Tube. He took part in Koreas X factor and I remember his performance and then leaving the building on his own, alone with no one to support him. His amazing operatic talent took him a long way but tragically never to recover, I think, from the effects of a devastating childhood. Please pay tribute to him and go and watch his audition on KGT. Really feeling full of tears. My own father committed suicide when I was 18, Bless you Choi Sung Bong. May you finally have peace.
Lamento sua perda. Paz seja contigo sempre.
I see from Rotten Tomatoes that he had starred in numerous successful movies there and he is listed as still alive.
I always like to watch these videos when I’m suicidal
Every person should have agency over their own life
If life is painful, meaningless and without purpose, then making the choice to end life should be the individuals.
Nobody should pass judgement regarding others suffering or choices
Agreed
I think this avenue of thought very nicely frees us from curing our culture's poor systems. Here in the US, it's the Hunger Games to survive. Companies take your life and make it seem pointless while isolating you from your loved ones. Breaks from work are few and pay is so piddling you can't do anything but sit at home. The demand to perform at the top gives high achievers nothing after they've achieved.
agreed
Everyone does have that choice , but that doesn’t change the fact that it’s a selfish act that most hurts the people who care about them. My alcoholic father used to talk about wanting to die from the time I was 10 years old until I was 20 and decided to let it go.
By that time I figured out he was a selfish person who didn’t care how damaging his self pity episodes were to his young children.
Agreed
I lost my brother to suicide on New Year’s Day 2021 he jumped onto a motorway bridge he got buried on the 8th of January 2021 that’s my birthday I have never celebrated my birthday since his passing you just never know the pain and suffering that some people are dealing with and I have never agreed when people say suicide is the cowards way out I don’t believe it is .
It takes a lot of courage to kill yourself. We all have a natural innate disposition to live and fight for life. Fight or flight. So to contemplate and going thru suicide is a very strong indicator of the persons state of mind. The cowards are the ones who say the people who die by suicide are cowards. Thats rubbish! They feel they are a burden to people. Which is why they do it. To relieve you of the burden. Thats not a coward.
That is a very lovely tribute to your brother. Incredible hard that it is surrounding your own birthday celebration…. Sometimes survivors guilt can happen.. as in why them and not your self. I don’t think I have ever felt to judge someone experiencing so much sorrow and suffering. I’m in my 5 decade now even more so… yes there is mental illness, which in our society how does any one side step that. Along with just bad luck and sometimes factors you can’t control that can push anyone to the limit. Never say never. I do worry about people who can be so black and white and disregard a persons situation as…. One day you might have the love of your life get that desparate… and how on earth would they console or offer solace with such a rigid ,uncompassionate view. Could you live with yourself if that person left a suicide note explaining the treatment they had received. Just something to ponder. We all hit the wall at some stage… seek out someone who actually gives a genuine #+*^% folks.
Only the kind of people that make this world unbearable would say that people that commit suicide are cowards.
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss 😢. I will never say that! We have no idea what a person is dealing with. I just wish they could reach out to someone and see that suicide is not the answer. My heart truly hurts all the families of suicide.
i bet your brother wanted you to keep celebrating your birthday, he found peace on his own way, how about you celebrate your birthday and his freedom day alltogether, he'd love that!
I know he's not on this list but I still think of Chris Cornell every day and miss him like a friend. His passing made me want to understand why some people feel this is their only choice left. Peace to all the souls lost and hope they are no longer in any pain.
Of course they’re no longer in pain - they’re DEAD 😮.
I think about him a lot too, trying to understand how someone who apparently has everything, does something like that, a father and a husband. We will always miss you Chris.
I don't believe he or Chester Bennington committed suicide. They were doing an expose on child trafficking.
Amen! He seemed like a beautiful soul. I was pretty bummed out about his death too, considering how good Soundgarden was back in the day.
they still can come back🧟
May these people have found peace in their afterlife. The World can be a very cruel place at times. Hearts are broken and crushed by disappointment, the lies of others, the fear of the unknown, and a life of serious illness. R.I.P.
People say it’s a cowards way out, myself I think it’s the bravest. Xx❤
Selfish
@@thehojo15who cares? Everyone is selfish
I have always felt this too -- the bravest act anyone can do. 😢
@@thehojo15 Selfish? Only if you have young child(ren) to take care of.
I agree. People in a suicide mindset think they are a burden and are causing pain to the people they love. It’s the mental illness. Reaching out for help, esp. with no health insurance makes actually receiving help impossible.
Professionals only willing to help if you have $30,000 for 60 days in a mental health facility. What’s left?
To face and overpower a humans natural instinct to survive isn’t cowardly or selfish. It’s the most selfless thing and the most difficult thing to go through with.
My dad took his life in 2007 after multiple previous attempts by downing a nearly half bottle of vodka, took close to 100 Vicodin (which would have killed him alone) and then shot himself with a 9mm handgun with hollow point bullets while sitting on his couch in 2007 after his psychopathic ex wife (a woman who laid a hot clothing iron on my back when I was 12, the scar still visible today, cracked my skull open with a brick at 14, shaved my head down the center like a reverse Mohawk for using her shampoo when I’d ran out of mine while I was in the 6th grade, knowing I was already being bullied at that school and burned all of my belongings when I was sent to state custody per her threatening my dad to sign the papers.)
I had undiagnosed Asperger’s/autism and was a bit different, but not a bad kid. She burned the JROTC award I was so proud of, my HS cheerleading trophies, academic awards and everything but my clothing. Dad sat me down, handed me $20K cash and apologizing for being a “shitty no good father and wanted to make things as right as possible me. I accepted and handed him back the cash. He gave it to my boyfriend at the time who gladly accepted. This just a year before his death.
Why? She locked him out of the house HE purchased while he left one morning to see the doctor to receive his prostate cancer diagnosis. While he was gone, she changed the locks, moved another man in, with Hep C, while their 8 year old son lived there too and he never saw his son again.
He survived the cancer though due to the surgery he was left unable to have sex which meant at 54 he would never be sexually intimate with another woman again. He was also an alcoholic and pain pill addict due to pancreatitis flare ups. He was in pain 24/7 so I understood his decision and figured he went out drunk, high and died fast. Better than suffering from a terminal physical illness like liver failure. My uncle (his brother and successful attorney) didn’t want to hire crime scene cleaners for $25k, so in funeral school at the time, I cleaned up the mess which included scraping his dried skull fragments and brain matter off the window with a metal spatula.
I didn’t cry or feel anything but peace knowing he was no longer suffering.
What’s truly selfish is normal people who don’t have to experience daily pain and suffering expecting people who do, especially older people, to keep living in agony just so they don’t have to experience the grief. Thats how I see it.
A day doesn’t pass that my heart doesn’t find my dad. RIP my dad Rob, to all of these beautiful humans in this video and those in the comments written by loved ones. You’re never forgotten. (Dammit now I’m 😢)
I understand how incessant and seemingly permanent mental issues drag one to the bottom of their barrel. The saying: "Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" may fit some. Most of us battle our negative thoughts for decades before we finally give in to them. I sometimes wonder how I have lived this long...yet now, in my 7th decade, I am resolved to heal completely. It is my gift to myself; and well deserved.
Mental health is as deadly as any disease ❤
Jesus Christ can take away all evil thoughts like mental health.
Evil can manifest in your mind, causing you to kill yourself, medically it's mental health, but it's actually evil in your mind.
My brother in law committed suicide 10 years ago. I knew he was depressed but none of us knew how horribly depressed he was. I wish I could reach back, take the time and sit him down and talk to him. Tell him it was all going to be ok. I was just a sister in law but still I feel responsible. His siblings got angry at him after his suicide and still are. They don’t understand depression. Depression is a tough foe. I was never angry at him but still, I didn’t sit down with him. I didn’t take the time. I can’t help feeling like I could have saved him had I taken the time. I miss your sad, beautiful eyes the color of blue-glass and you peeking out from your long dark eyelashes. Your heart was good and I loved you. RIP Randy.
I have fought suicidal thoughts all my life and almost gave in at 63 when I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. Now 84, i will let nature do me in ..
what's your point, considering this is about famous people?
@@scottfreckle237 what do you mean what is his/ her “point”?? This ISNT just about celebrities and if people are brave enough to share their stories kudos to them and SHAME on you!!
@@ckotcher1to be fair famous people are very important
I hope you will stop wondering what if or whatever you could have done for him. You have to free yourself of those thoughts. Frankly there was little one can do in cases of deep depression except to see medical help. It is a disease that not only affect the individual but also the people who love him or her. Don’t anguish anymore. Just think that your brother in law is at peace now.
May they find peace in God’s grace 😚🙏🏻
" god's grace ", my ass.
@@MOGGS1942As compared to your grace?
So you think you just can't go on? Sometimes we just need to look at things from a new or different perspective
The reason people are killing themselves is because they no longer believe in or believe God. They might say they do but if they did they wouldn't call him a liar, they may not say God is a liar but when you don't believe God's written word you're telling him he's a liar, Jesus, God's son told you over and over about hell. Yes hell is a real place and it's a place of fire and eternal torment. People kill themselves for the most part because they no longer want to face life, some do it because of illness, some maybe out of spite towards a spouse, etc. You think, oh It'll all be over, no more pain, no more trouble, I'm sick of all this and on an on. I promise you, you will be in hell, then you will know true pain, then you'll know true loneliness, you'll know pain you can't imagine. The churches have let you down, the pastors have let you down, many no longer speak of hell, they don't want to lose their congregation, their income. They will stand before God one day and give account for withholding the truth. I promise you, you don't even have to wonder about it, if you kill yourself, you will go to hell, then the lake of fire. You can pray about it, you can ask God to forgive you all day long for what you're about to do ,but it doesn't work that way, you will still go to hell. God is not mocked. do you think God is going to forgive you when you ask him , please forgive me for adultery then go out on your spouse and commit adultery. That's how stupid it is when you ask God to forgive you for killing yourself then go kill yourself. The adultery may be different, you might get forgiveness afterwards, but if you kill yourself it's to late......you will be in hell and you will be there forever burning in the lake of fire without end.
@@mountuplikeaneagleBut who will forgive all his lies ? For I don't know anybody who was healed directly in the name of God or Jesus. I guess you're a liar, for you don't have the signs. Think of that. The signs. If none then you'll go to hell, whatever you may think. And stop cheating.
@@tctecsas9340 Did you even read what I wrote? The subject is suicide. What lies are you talking about?
I am full of emotion looking at all the beautiful, differently talented, sad souls. My first suicide attempt was around 17 years of age. It’s been a long journey, and I hope I never fall into that dark place again. Talking, supportive people, praying and hoping that I still need to fulfill my destiny, has kept me alive. 🙏🏾☮️❤️
What do you want an award ?
Please continue to hold on and talk to people about ur feelings. As someone who has lost a family member to suicide, I know the intense pain and frustration it leaves. I'm proud of u for speaking out. Please continue to get support and stick around. Prayers and hugs to u!
@@donpeace894 Don't be so rude.
@@susannah1066 so dramatic. Attention seeking
@@donpeace894 You obviously have never watched Bambi.
You have the wrong picture for Emmanuelle Debever. The picture you have is for Emmanuelle Beart.
The picture is Emmanuelle Béart. She is not dead ! It is horrible to post false news about people, even more horrible when they lie about the death of somebody.
@@Maya.6868 so you are just repeating what she already said? i don’t get you comment
@@Maya.6868relax ..errare humanum est ...c,est une erreur, no point to be so agressif and reactive ..
She was also apparently one of the actresses that accused Gerard Depardieu of assault. So sad.
Yasssss!! Pay attention please and correct this HUGE mistake !
How many times I’ve been into everytime i hit the rock bottom, instead i prayed and asked guidance. And the only answers I always get. Life is not about winning, success and always right all the time, instead I accept defeat, failures and accept i make mistakes. Having on and off depressions. But have to continue life despite its too hard to handle sometimes. Praying for the souls of this who committed suicide. May you all Rest in Peace.
Bullshit!!! Prayed and asked for guidance. Thats rubbish anyway! What about the people who pray and dont get guidance….what do you say to that. Dont talk about ridiculous things and offer solutions which are just inane and banal. You got over it. Good for you. Dont tar people with the same brush. Prayer doesnt always work. What then? Honestly what a thing to say.
Hey I tried to commit suicide but I lived and that's because a aunt who is very religious told me I came from a family of preachers and church mothers who prayed for the generations...yes yes YES my friend prayer and the correct medication works 💕 love
Hey sarah ❤
you mad bro?
I have known 7 people (all male - 2 were teenagers) to commit suicide, the most recent 2 days ago - he 17 and a friend of my son. Although he was quiet and didn't say much, no one thought of him as depressed. It has come as a total shock. This was a commonality with all of those I have known who took their life. They did not reach out for help or give any indication that they might do something so drastic, so final. But there it is. There's no point in trying to make sense of it or blame oneself or anyone else. It's their choice - they know their time in this life is over. One can only hope they were at peace with such a painful decision.
This is an absolutely beautiful tribute to those who felt they had no other choice or option but to end their pain. I understand that pain, and I hope those watching this know there ARE ways to get through the darkness! 🙏❤️
Suicide by jumping ? My gosh the pain you must be in to be able to do that
This video is total BS ! I know for sure that one woman is still alive, french actress Emmanuelle Béart (in this video they wrote the wrong last name)
how many jumps take you out?
My cousin jumped off the GW bridge in NYC. Really awful for those of us left behind
@@acooksla One of my close friends jumped off a 15-story building on the beach in Miami. He had taken me there 2 weeks before so show me the view. I had no idea he was thinking such horrible thoughts. He was one of those people who always smiled. It really devastated me.
@@Maya.6868They mistakenly used a picture of Emmanuelle Béart, but Emmanuelle Debever actually did die by suicide.
I had a long time friend from work who shot himself in the head about 3 years ago. I was initially quite shocked that it had happened, but later realized it was probably his only way out of his horrible predicament of being alone, being in debt, hating his job, hating his boss, his daughter being a drug addict and so forth. I philosophize now that it was his life, his life to end if he so chose. Life simply isn't precious to everyone.
I have a Canadian woman friend, When we are getting close she told me her ordeal. She had her husband and her two sons who died by commiting suicide. She's alone now in her 40's but she looks in 70's. All her hairs are white. I bet she hasn't had much sleep.
Do Brasil, choro suas lágrimas também.
Rip to all of them, you never know, what triggers people off! God bless them! Hope they’re at peace now!❤
Well, the christian doctrine has them frying in hell. 😮
Anybody else noticed that a lot of these people committed suicide right before their birthday? Many of them
I did too. I thought it might be because the next one was a 'milestone' one; but apparently not in most cases. (Although that type of stuff/triviality probably didn't even cross their mind. I mean, not once their mind was made up.)
Omg God not until u said it! I was reading comments n really not paying attention to the dates.
a 14 year old female committed suicide yesterday.
one' of my daughter;s students.
she is at peace now..
and her breath of life has returned to the Lord.
this life is too hard for some.
I almost checked out myself.
but the Lord invited me to live in him..
and I now have the reason and ability to persevere and carry on.
we must keep conscious contact with the Lord when our minds go dark.
Are you sure? Might want to research that a little
@@thehojo15
research what...?
that her breath of life has gone back to the Lord..?
or my reliance on him..?
Thanks for not using AI to write something human. Ignore the other dude, he just wants the conflict. Misery loves company.
@@brettd7923
the demons always reveal themselves.. ;o)
and I'm not above egging them on.
but his one had no stuffing..
couldn't come up with a reply.
*You just never know what someone is going through*
I pray for those who grieve your loss you absence; may their good angels soothe their grieving hearts & mind.
My father died in june of 2023 of a heart attack. My mother could not deal with the loss of her husband and best friend, so a week later she shot herself. 57 years they were together. I miss them so so much.
Sometimes i can't believe it. This small, wonderful, friendly woman could do something like that. She robbed me of time with her.
We have to fight with satan . The demons say you are alone your mother died husband died your father died, your wife died why shoul you live it is better to die blah blah satan is open enemy
Tastefully presented, thank you. So much talent and inspiration - I wonder if we ever truly see ourselves as others do... Godspeed. 💖
I pray 🙏🏻 for their family 🙏🏻
Prayers for their famles and friends
you mean families
@@vernonm.4512what’s wrong with you?
I knew non of these people but Wish Them All Blessings and RIP 🫶🏻
Very, very sad. Tragic. May they all now Rest In Peace.
The number of those in their 40’s is overwhelming 😞. I have 44 and I guess I know why 😳.
I feel all their torment and agony 😣..
Love you , humanity , stay strong ! ❤💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️💔❤️
Mental health is a hell of a thing! It’s so sad for the families and loved ones left behind. But for a person to make the decision to end their own life is just the last resort and they can not see any light at the end of the tunnel! I could never judge someone for doing it, only that I hope i never cross that line. I hope all these poor souls are resting in eternal peace!
How is it any different than if the loved one died of any other reason? What makes self ending so different than if it was a heart attack, or cancer or car accident? People say ‘’it was their time (to go)’’ but refuse to give the completed suicide the same thought?
The only way to stem the agony is to have free, good, clinics that are not full of paperwork. Suicidal, depressed people, as myself can't negotiate thru all that. My help came through TMS and REMD Combined. They are the latest successful treatment, but it's hard to find and expensive.
This was very well done, thank you. I loved the music. I have considered suicide before but couldn’t do it to those left behind.
I’ve lost 3 friends to this and had 4 attempts myself 😞… and sadly i’m sure there will be more to come. Statistically there are more s____ in men then women because men are known to use more “violent” attempts such as 🔫 and jumping. This is probably why i’m still here. I’m scared of botching it and ending up in an even worse state. People are always quick to call this a “cowardly act”… but until you are alone in a room and those thoughts come to you and you truly fear life more then death? You will never understand. RIP to all 💔🙏🏼
Paz seja contigo, irmão.
Well said. Sending peace and love and hugs ❤
You are not very good at it to be certain
I don't know u but please stick around. Just as things sometimes get worse, things can get better as well. Thank u for sharing ur struggle with us. Hang in there brave soul!
@@donpeace894 that’s great. Thanks for pointing that out 😒. Want to give me some pointers? Sorry if i didn’t know at 16 years old before the Internet that swallowing a whole bottle of aspirin will just get me really sick and lose hearing in my left ear. And two other times when i used stronger pills-a ton of them-I just woke up a day later with the worst headache i’ve ever had. And then there’s the time I sat parked in a closed garage with my car on, took more pills and went to sleep only to wake up again because i guess you have to cover the exhaust and use a hose or something. So no, i’m not very good at it. Neither was Princess Diana who also had four attempts. Marilyn Monroe did too but she finally succeeded because she had phenobarbital which was very effective, its also what Carole Landis took when Rex Harrison broke up with her and she succeeded as well. Anna Nicole Smith too although hers apparently was an “accident”…Like i said women are less successful then men because some of us are afraid of violence even in death.
I just wanted to say that If you have suicidal thoughts or mental trauma or even if you don’t or your just going through something ajust know that I love you and your loved by many and people and if you think that might not be loved by your family or people you know or just anyone just know they might even love you even more than your think. You have a purpose you are beautiful, kind, just be yourself and go after what you want to do. You are amazing, you got this, and things will get better in your life, you will do great things, and so many people and I are proud of you. Your future is bigger than your past and your past does not define you are awesome and a warrior. Don’t hate yourself simply because of your past, forgive yourself, love yourself no matter what because you deserve the world and the great things in it. I love you Have a wonderful beautiful nice day. Also how are you and your family doing today? Thank you so much for your service.🙏🏽❤️ Never forget you are not a mistake you belong in this world and you are light of the world and you are the true meaning of kindness.
tho the sentiment is nice, empty words are just empty, love isnt telling someone you fake love them dude, this might trigger some just sayin
Help me please. I have nobody near me. No friens. No family. No relatives.
This is true . Emptiness
How can I help
This not the picture of Emmanuelle Debever, but rather the picture of French actress Emmanuelle Béart who is also 60 but alive and well.
Вот именно, я уж расстроилась.
Correct.
So sad for Lee Sun kyun and his family … he has been harassed and under a tremendous social pressure … RIP . I hope he will get justice.
I loved many of his TV series, he was a phenomenal actor. Very shocked of his passing, he will be missed.
I didn't know who he was, but I am literally a day older than him. I have battled depression and anxiety for decades. so that one hit me hard... I hope he has found peace...
It is always incredibly sad but I don't know their circumstances and I won't judge.
By saying you won't judge is indicating your disapproval
These are sad and tragic stories. May they rest in peace
The thing that stood out for me was their pleasant open faces and eyes portrayed in the photos and how desperate they must have been at the end. 😢
You will find out! Disease will kill us all!
I have a problem with the first one, Betty. It says voluntary assisted... Means poor health. As someone who is already diagnosed terminology ill, daily life is HELL in the last five years, I've had my stomach opened 5 times for a condition called intussusception/volvulus and have had over 6 feet of my bowels removed. It keeps coming back. I'm doing it without any pain meds whatsoever as I don't like how they make me feel. The constant feeling like someone has their hands inside my stomach squeezing all day long, hurts like hell, and I'm on the list to be put to sleep. It's not suicide if something is already killing you, and multiple Drs said it's eventually going to kill you. I'll be happy to trade one day of my life with anyone, and let's see if you consider it suicide, or helping you out of a terminal condition so you don't have to go through the pain anymore. Anyone up for a trade??
I also forgot to add it all started in 2009 when I also began kidney failure. In 2011 they took my left kidney and gall bladder.
Accept Jesus into your and dont take your life it is sin
take your lies elsewhere@@lovelove-fm3nn
My identical twin brother committed suicide in 2023. He was a week away from his 33 birthday. It hurts everyday that knowing I can't talk to him anymore or see him. Mental illness is a real thing and I will wish this on nobody and I hope that whoever goes to a mental illness gets help.
Some of the most successful people on earth...yet, those criminals n low life scammers, dealers, etc. are living...
yes, I'm just wanting to cry, I'm so slow and people takes my rights, I'm honest and trying nice to people, but it was I get
I'm glad their pain is ended but I am so sad for those who loved them . They now have to carry pain the rest of their lives.
They most certainly do.
haha suck it up life is tough😜
In Canada, we Have Medical Assistance in Death (MAID). I would not define that as "suicide" per say.
Dai lhe Senhor o eterno descanso,entre os esplenores da luz perpetua, fazei Senhor que descansem em paz
Sometimes the most beautiful people have the most wounded souls for which we have no idea of.
🕯I pray that they all are in peace now!🙏🕊🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯
damn sad & tragic..... thought it myself ,but 2 cats & man I married keep me moving forward, at 75 too young to leave life, you only live life one, make the best & worst 💔 of it, prayers to those who have passed 🙏
❤❤❤❤❤ may you have all returned to the light.Thank you for whoever praised this souls,,,,,,,this are conscious suicides,but in addiction,and accidents,there is that unconscious drive to depart,.... . I myself in the list .
Praying for their souls. May they rest in peace. 🙏
❤Only Almighty God Knows What’s Happening In A Souls Heart, Mind, Body & Emotions When A Soul Gives Up❤
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I’m aware of the stigma associated with suicide but who can understand the intense emotional pain that causes one to lose their will to live? People tend to judge and be harsh but truth is you don’t have a clue what intense pain these people were in.
On the plus side, nobody ever died due to the stigma of their committing suicide.
Good on them. I am glad they are in better places right now.
I have a terminal illness that will rob me of my faculties it has killed my brother, father and soon me.
I am ready to leave here now before all the suffering comes, my children, family and friends know my wishes.
Go when you want to, peace ❤
Korean entertainment industry is terribly hard to survive for everyone. We've lost a shining star 😢
But why? 😢
Don’t tell me the Korean entertainment industry is like Hollywood cause if it is I understand why
Worse than Hollywood. It was police "mishandling" (the one in charge chose a famous one for his own credits/promotion need). He was interrogated for many days. Done many drug test (tested negative). They rejected his request not to publicise his name. Resulted in lost of sponsorships & being sued for damage/breach of contracts for sky high amounts beyond him.
It would be easily swiped off if it happened in other countries.
The photo of Emmanuelle Beart is mistakenly used instead of the one corresponding to Emmanuelle Deveber .
People just always remember to be kind to others. We have no idea in the world what they have been through or are going through right now. Show people love and kindness.
Eu trabalhei em uma escola onde um professor se suicidou. Ele aparentava ser muito calmo e ninguém imaginava isso. Ele era casado e sem filhos.
I'm only family with two of these people but may they all be in a better place
Paz seja contigo
I didn't know Choi Sung-Bong died 😭 that is so sad - his voice was incredible.
Who the hell has even heard of him ?
@@donpeace894 He was an opera/classical singer - I wouldn't expect someone with such little class to know who he was. Move along troll.
@@SandiByrd😂😂😂 well dang
Bless you. I know several of those born in 1974.
Seeing Miss Betty Rollin on here is an unbelievable wallop. She endured a Mastectomy in The Seventies while a renowned Journalist who inspired a telepic about Her Life and Troubles which Starred Mary Tyler Moore no less. Knowing that She went out this way is downright backbreaking after all that!😭B.W.
Too many young people in their 40s on this list.
Very very sad.
I could not commit suicide.. I will just keep on going and annoy the Hell out of everyone if things get really awful......
Hard to understand what drove these people to these lengths. Read the bible every day and that is great therapy.
Wow, you’re cool
@@jimbo43ohara51 ...And dont forget to pay your preacher before you check out.
@@AC-ff1cn😊
I would never thought that seeking to annoy others is a life's virtue, but in your case, it is ! Hope we'll cross paths one day and annoy the hell out of each other. Cheers.
It's so very sad when someone has problems and get to the point of ending their lives my heart goes out to them may they all RIP😢
I walk through my despiar with Yeshua, I have tried 3 times in my life and I never will again because I know that is wrong and there is not that Yeshua will not bring me through as he says he will never leave me nor forsake me,I hurt my children really bad the last time I tried and to me the worst pain is knowing that I could have left them behind with all that pain,I was gone my son and daughter bought me back, no correction Yeshua used them bring me back because it was not my time trusting in him makes me want to live now and my child as well I hope the this message can help someone.
I want to go home, I am tired of this world.. everytime I want to tried thinking to end my life somethings made me afraid, coz I knew it is a sin.
Rest in peace ❤
I need help. Please pray for me.
I just got divorced. We are being forced to sell our home. She has possession until the home is sold.
Here's what I need you to pray for:
She changes her mind and does not want to sell the home. If that happens, then I can go back home and try to fix my family. We have two children. There was no abuse. I admit I yelled, but that was because someone outside of our home was abusing me. She was also going through menopause but I did not know it until after she filed for divorce. We had stopped having sex or even hugging or kissing each other. I grew sad. So, she filed for divorce. I was forced to move out (I did not know I didn't have to move out). I made a lot of mistakes. I am hoping I can fix my family. But if I continue to have to live out of the house, I am also facing financial ruin, since I do not have enough savings to continue paying rent.
I do not want to lose our beloved home.
We are supposed to put it on the market March 1, 2024. If we both decide not to sell it, I think I can go back home.
If I cannot go back home, I do not want to be here anymore.
Jesus is going not restore your home. This is what i want you to do, find a quiet place kneel down and ask Jesus Christ to help you fix your finance and marriage. then put your prayer into action. Go back home tell your wife you want you two to fix everything. allow her to talk then you listen, when she's done tell her your sorry and you goanna be there for her and the kids.
I survived 4 real attempts. You cannot see any hope at that point. We need to remember that it is a permanent solution to a temporary problem
Losing a loved one like this... It's Incredibly hard to describe the pain. It hurts deep down in the heart.
Read a prayer and keep them safe in our heart with love. 🙏🏻
Vous avez mis une photo d’Emmanuelle Béart pour Emmanuelle Debever!
je m'en fous
; 💔 🙏
Mother of a survivor doped by doctors without a proper diagnosis. Please be cautious with antidepressants and anxiety medication. Do your research. Reach out to family, friends, God .You are loved, every life matters.
More proof that big-pharma doesnt give a damn about anyone-its all about profits.
Amen❤❤❤❤
Being Happy and Getting what you want are two very different things💯💯💯
Many beautiful people lost and I’m sorry they felt so alone in their final moments.
Thomas H Lee, the birthdate must be incorrect, otherwhise he should be 48 years old when he died, not 78. (1975-2023)
Kyle Jacobs was Kellie Pickler's husband. She became famous on American Idol. My deepest sympathy to you, Kellie. 😢🙏
Breaks my heart, to think that people feel like they have nobody to talk to, & this is their only option…💔
The struggle is real. A daily fight that never get easier😞
The picture you used to represent the actress Emmanuelle Debever is actually a picture of another actress called Emmanuelle Beart, who is still alive and kicking! 5:09
Mut hat viele Gesichter 😮😢!
Conclusão angustiante a sua! Sintetiza em poucas palavras a realidade. Parabéns pela sabedoria.
I can empathize and sympathize. I've had these thoughts for forty seven years, since I was nineteen. I never understood the reason why, after all the "hard" and working years, someone who retires and has basically few worries, would do this. I understand now. Thankfully, I'm a coward so I most likely will continue to resist. My condolences go out to the loved ones of the people in this video.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. It takes courage to open up about such personal experiences.
I'm sending healing blessings to the people who passed away and their families.
MY they rest in peace!
The biggest things Bubba Copeland did wrong was state that his private life did not effect his holy life. How wrong a “preacher” can be when they try to justify the sins in their life as not being sins. You don’t write stories like he did “fantasy stories” and not know that your heart doesn’t align with your walk with God and the dressing like a woman when you’re a man is also addressed in the Bible. Thinking you can pick and choose what parts of the Bible you will personally follow, then stand up to teach Gods word to others is so wrong. We all sin and we know there will always be consequences to those sins, but he knew exactly what he should have done with those sins. I am sorry he took his own life instead of being honest with his community and showing that God will forgive if you confess and repent. God is concerned about your heart , not what you purport to be on the outside. If those two don’t match it’s time to get your heart right with God and then the outside reflect your walk with Him, not hid your secret life. Please, if you can’t seem to turn away from sin on your own, know what God never meant for you to do life on your own, the good, bad and the ugly parts. He is always there to strengthen you, you just need to surrender it all to Him. Talk to Him!!!
He was just a typical Democrat, with typical Democrat habits.
God bless them all ❤
Juat sharing a bit of my story.
I was sexually abused from age 4 or 5.
More than one person was involved.
I was very inteoverted, didnt have many friends.
I lost the love i had for my family, they would only mock at whatever i did with my life.
I started feeling like i dont belong anywhere, so my first suici.. attempt was at age 15, I had some other attempts but never could complete them.
I moved many times and even moved out of the country, i had many good moments, but the feeling of not belonging and the disappointment with people made it hard sometimes.
I committed another attempt, which led me into hospitalization overnight and the last one in a coma for a week.
Suic* is not wanting to live with this inner pain that can't be easily wiped out.
I still live with days i have to struggle with my thoughts and not act on them.
But many times i think i just want to rest.
@wendyhenderson8563 I'd recommend more than talking to your daughter is to listen, and even if she doesn't want to talk just sit next to her share a tea or coffee and some snacks.
Some times is better to do certain things than trying to pull words out from people.
When she feels more comfortable she can then open up
People who commit suicide are under great psychological pressure to automatically give up everything, leaving only the remaining relatives to suffer unforgettable losses.
Your assuming people have relatives and many like myself have noone. No family. So no relatives.
I'm really sorry about this@@ruthbarnes9999
@@ruthbarnes9999 exactly!!! People assume too much
@@ruthbarnes9999It's true many have no relatives left. But I can assure u of one thing: those who have loved someone who took this way out will shed tears and miss them very much.
@@aileenwagner2576 I'm sure your correct on that