the FIRST reason is a good one to remember. they can change their mind on a dime and that is the end of it. I had to build my life around what I COULD accomplish and not rely on someone else.
I’ve tried dating enough. I was married twice; had a kid with each husband; now divorced AND widowed. I’m done. I loved second hubby, but if he’d lived another 30 years, that would have honestly been increasingly difficult to deal with. He was disabled and a hoarder, and wasn’t above pulling the “well I have anxiety and depression so I can’t be expected to do anything but what I already am doing” card. And he was the best I ever found. Nope, sorry, focusing on kids and probably grandkids later now. Done looking for a grown adult to be the mommy of! 🤷♀️
Chicks want to replace what makes you happy almost as soon as they see what does so they can control your happiness. I’ve built happiness alone and don’t want anyone to destroy that frivolously.
Life is already hard enough. We don’t need someone to drag and say they are the table while not contributing anything to the relationship. (I don’t expect any of your money before you say it).
Being put into a position of servitude. It happens slowly over time. ' I like cream in my coffee ' ' what's for dinner?' Innocently. Then 10 years later , he hasn't done his own laundry in three years and you somehow clean everything.
I’m Asexual and introverted and I’m soooo happy to finally be alone and have my own. I’m not sharing my life because I want to keep enjoying it.😊
Most ppl are only in relationships because they don’t wanna be alone!
the FIRST reason is a good one to remember. they can change their mind on a dime and that is the end of it. I had to build my life around what I COULD accomplish and not rely on someone else.
I’ve tried dating enough. I was married twice; had a kid with each husband; now divorced AND widowed. I’m done. I loved second hubby, but if he’d lived another 30 years, that would have honestly been increasingly difficult to deal with. He was disabled and a hoarder, and wasn’t above pulling the “well I have anxiety and depression so I can’t be expected to do anything but what I already am doing” card. And he was the best I ever found. Nope, sorry, focusing on kids and probably grandkids later now. Done looking for a grown adult to be the mommy of! 🤷♀️
Been single 8 years I don’t miss it.
Chicks want to replace what makes you happy almost as soon as they see what does so they can control your happiness. I’ve built happiness alone and don’t want anyone to destroy that frivolously.
I've heard too many crazy cheating or secret addiction stories.
Too old and too tired to deal with the BS.
Peace > Piece
Life is already hard enough. We don’t need someone to drag and say they are the table while not contributing anything to the relationship. (I don’t expect any of your money before you say it).
Reading comments online. The PR for singles is insane.
wait, there is another option?
I'm single because I have to max on OSRS.
Being put into a position of servitude. It happens slowly over time. ' I like cream in my coffee ' ' what's for dinner?'
Innocently. Then 10 years later , he hasn't done his own laundry in three years and you somehow clean everything.
But who was paying most of the bills?
@ it was equal, I worked critical care, he was a mechanic.