The hardest thing to unlearn is perfectionism. It took me incredibly long to realise, I don't have to be good in everything. That my strengths cancel my weaknesses. And even in the areas where I shine, I need not shine the brightest, I just need to shine bright enough and things will sort out.
_______ 00:00 - Intro 00:22 - You need a high-paying job to get rich 01:32 - Money & Wealth are scarce 02:54 - Good things come to those who wait 03:40 - Your parents are always right 04:33 - You need 7 income streams to get rich 06:05 - Breakfast is the most important meal of the day 07:40 - You have to pick a side 08:48 - Rich people are a lot smarter than you 10:00 - That opportunities are secretly limited to a select few 11:06 - Fly under the radar 13:37 - That you need to be an expert to start 14:18 - Your worth is what others think you’re worth 15:00 - You are correct, because the people around you support it. 16:18 - Not everybody finds happiness in the things that make you happy 17:38 - You need to please everybody in the comments 18:53 - Question
Almost everything worthwhile carries with it some sort of risk, whether it’s starting a new business, whether it’s leaving home, whether it’s getting married, or whether it’s flying into space.
There’s no shortage of remarkable ideas, what’s missing is the willingness to execute them, Success usually comes to those who are too busy looking for it.
📌Do what everybody else is doing if you are okay with only having what everybody else has.Information that will pay you everyday, you've got to stop saving all your money. Venture into investing some, if you really want financial stability. Choose to grow and elevate your mind by studying audios, videos, attending conferences that will give you the edge!
@@jeanstrassl9956 I used to invest on my own because of making your money work for you mentality but never made any progress until I sought the guidance of Daniel Christopher Downes and he has made me understand that strategy is everything.
One of my favorite sayings has always been, "better's better" and it simply means, if you can do something better, make something better, make yourself better... then that's always better. "Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better." -Maya Angelou
This is something I'm thankful to my mum for. She was a banker and she had a knack of speaking to us like we were older than we really were. So I was learning about stocks and dividends and how to maximize the opportunities from them before I turned 10
I currently just started a career as a banker for this very reason. To be financially stable/literate and to set my unborn son (currently preggo) on the right path
@@deenadream he's gonna be one of the lucky ones 😊 If I can give you any advice tho, it'll be to be extra conscious about him and his personal life. If he grows up like I did, he will go thru battles in his life and he won't wanna tell you cos he would see how stressed out banking makes you and wouldn't wanna add to that stress by telling you bout what bothers him
I had to learn, and I still have challenges with my youth programming and how I had grown up. Again my parents didn't know what they didn't know, bless them, and they did the best they could, and for that I am very proud of them for loving me according me in that regard!
I had to unlearn many things : 1. Fear of society is good for you. 2. Slow and steady wins the race, 3. Read again and again what you want to memorize, 4. Keep complete distance from the opposite sex, 5. Always take care of others (and not of your interest), 6. Whatever is done in secrecy is always wrong and dishonesty, 7. Don't let outside influences cast their shadow on your goodness 8. It is better to get failed in life than to win by even a small fraction of bad means and dishonesty , 9. Only hard work brings success.
@@alexiafox8000 Even definition of goodness changes with time and different people. As a child one has to follow what according to their parents is real goodness. Everything becomes more difficult for the child when he or she is protected from the outside influences in the name of protected environment. Instead of giving stress on goodness parents should consider smartness more which is the way of successful people today.
its interresting how "Your Worth is what others think you're worth" and "Not everybody finds happiness in the things that make you happy" are potntial contradiction, but the there a sweet (golden)spot once you understand the theme of this video. Well done Alux!
Also the good things come to those who wait vs the 7 streams of income. It takes patience and persistence to make 1 big stream, and seems faster to do 1 small, then another small, etc. In general these are good since any one could be a hard wired assumption holding someone back
The hardest unlearning is and was that sales people are disgusting and sleazy. I had a terrible experience with sales years ago that made me avoidant to salespeople. I’ve since been learning how to sale to move past that opinion. It’s still tough, but I’m getting through it.
I can testify that following this channel has influenced my life in the most positive way I never could have imagined I know with time I'll only get more BETTER, not because am a genius, but because your content has conditioned me to strive for that BETTER✅
Unlearning taking things personally. Replacing it with compassion: after considering why they did/said it to extract any useful info), think, “It’s so sad that they’ve had such a bad life/experiences/relationships/mind that they live in such an ugly world.”
The one big thing that I had to unlearn is that "you should study so hard, that you never ever have to work again". I've been there, not having to work, everything taken care of, but after a while the human mind starts breaking down. YOU WANT TO WORK! YOU WANT TO WORK HARD! YOU WANT TO CONTRIBUTE VALUE TO PEOPLE! It's non-sense that you should "study so that you don't have to work". Don't be afraid of hard work, because hard work is the most rewarding!
"BETTER" Though it's said that it's bad to spend most of time on media. But I can't wait to keep online looking out for these videos. Life's really working out learning something new everyday. Thanks so😌
i'm a morning person..i wake up between 3-5 am and start my day..(i live in SEA and waking up at 4am is normal and generally what we do here).. everything is done in the morning: laundry, reading before going to school, etc.. that's why breakfast IS the most important meal..we usually skip dinner because the stomach needs to be emptied before sleep..i guess that's why you don't see tons of obessed SEAsians.
Doesn't eating maybe some oatmeal start the metabolism? I don't eat dairy heck I know just drinking water kickstart the metabolism. The oatmeal keeps you fuller longer and you won't eat more later in the day usually. Right? Having said that this was a really good video thank-you for your hardwork!
Yes I been a freelancing entrepreneur since leaving Advertising and Public Relations grad school at University of Illinois in 1973. Four books made me realize the corporate world was NOT for me. Think & Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace Wattles How to Live Free In An Unfree World by Harry Browne Looking Out for Number 1 by Robert Ringer My mentor Grant Cardone got it right: WHO HAS MY MONEY?
You need a high-paying job to get rich. This is because you need a lot of money to live a comfortable life and to have a good standard of living. Money can buy you things like a nice home, a new car, and a good education. It can also help you to have a better lifestyle and to travel more. Therefore, if you want to be rich, you need to get a high-paying job.
I had to unlearn that being an employee is the safest thing you can have! Most of the times the employee doesn't have any freedom to get better or the opportunity to learn new things and that's why they are bored with their jobs and they don't see the challenge to be better every day.
Some people are rich, some are poor and that’s just the way it is. After all, rich people have worked hard to get where they are, and anyone with the right mind can, too.
I was going through the list in the description for s quick run down and thinking, "that's not true, that's not right, that's Definitely wrong." I misread the title thinking this was necessary lessons to learn. I feel stupid after rereading the title properly.
That’s not what Fly Under The Radar means. Fly Under The Radar means doing hard work and being successful and also keeping yourself discreet. This is why we don’t know majority of the billionaires in this world. The popular billionaires are always judged for their actions. But we have no idea about how the majority of the billionaires live and are because they always Fly Under The Radar.
The one thing I had to unlearn was being a good kid and trying to please everyone. Now I give priority to my needs and don't care about what others believe about me. I try to be BETTER for myself first and then for others.
That fear is a barrier and so if you are scared of something stay out of it. Quite the opposite for me in fact. D things that scare you at least a little. Yes you will go through the fear and it will probably feel horrible. Gradually you will orientate yourself, planning helps of course, and then draw the benefit of the expereinces which have stretched you at least a bit to use for other things.
Breakfast is the most useless meal, ever since i stopped taking breakfast in 2020 my health has really improved and even managed to get rid of my pot belly by that
I have no idea if you were referring to me as a hater in the comments as I have previously critised some of the messages in your videos but it's not because I'm a hater. I do it because I enjoy the videos on the whole and when I see something jarring I'm bringing to your attention to see if you respond to make the product better. If I hated what you did I wouldn't waste my time giving feedback and I'd just unfollow. It's not always easy to judge intention correctly, sometimes you say something to help others and people perseive it as you looking out for no.1. Anyway for me personally the system doesn't work for me and I would like to see a more socialist society but I'm 100% positive that you guys are loving capitalism just fine and it does have some advantages so not all bad right.
One of the things I've said throughout a career in the military, and another one in commercial construction is, "Ya can't be hard unless you do hard stuff." This doesn't exactly mean that hard = smart because I have bulldozed my way through life sacrificing my body and dreams in the process. I'm here hoping to add some smarts to this rock before my body throws in the friggin towel. In the meantime, if I'm not 'smrt', I'd better be strong, because my wife's shoes won't buy themselves. "I'm so smart, so S M R T smart" -Homer Simpson
@@DesmoProfundis There are only two jobs that a failed man can do: the first is the priest and the other is the soldier. And there is a huge difference between a hard man and a smart man. 🤗
Daydreaming is unproductive. It's not daydreaming! It's envisioning and assembling an effective method of action for a particular project with the most desired outcome in mind.
Okay just started looking into this channel, really great stuff and highly informative.. however, the narrators voice is unbearable. I’m sorry, it makes it very hard to listen to the tonnage, variations and enthusiasm in her voice.. not sure if I’m the only one 😰
What I like about this channel is how relevant it is to might current situation. Some things I already knew while other nuggets of information does help me improve in different areas of my life.
Better, but one thing I had to learn is a Nuclear family doesn't equal immediate wealth or even long term wealth. If only seeks to selfishly extend you life via your union or offspring. Either way you will eventually be forgotten. Offspring cost money and if you are not ready for that then going for a "family equals wealth" mentality will make you poor in every sense of the word
I think Alux is always underestimating professionals most of the time and think that a person will only get rich if he/she becomes a businessman. I disagree. At the end of the day, your wealth will be determined by how you handle and manage your money whether you are a businessman, entrepreneur or a professional.
Friends/ Relationships are temporary and make sure you get everything out of them and it is all about you and your alliances and your mate and kids happiness.
Go to alux.com/freelance and make sure you’re on the waiting list!
The hardest thing to unlearn is perfectionism. It took me incredibly long to realise, I don't have to be good in everything. That my strengths cancel my weaknesses. And even in the areas where I shine, I need not shine the brightest, I just need to shine bright enough and things will sort out.
Strive to be excellent not perfect.
I still struggle with this.
I'm working on this now.
I'm still struggling with it
That's a good one
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00:00 - Intro
00:22 - You need a high-paying job to get rich
01:32 - Money & Wealth are scarce
02:54 - Good things come to those who wait
03:40 - Your parents are always right
04:33 - You need 7 income streams to get rich
06:05 - Breakfast is the most important meal of the day
07:40 - You have to pick a side
08:48 - Rich people are a lot smarter than you
10:00 - That opportunities are secretly limited to a select few
11:06 - Fly under the radar
13:37 - That you need to be an expert to start
14:18 - Your worth is what others think you’re worth
15:00 - You are correct, because the people around you support it.
16:18 - Not everybody finds happiness in the things that make you happy
17:38 - You need to please everybody in the comments
18:53 - Question
Almost everything worthwhile carries with it some sort of risk, whether it’s starting a new business, whether it’s leaving home, whether it’s getting married, or whether it’s flying into space.
There’s no shortage of remarkable ideas, what’s missing is the willingness to execute them, Success usually comes to those who are too busy looking for it.
Speaking of investing, People are really making a lot of money from it.
But I don't know why people remain poor due to ignorance.
Nah that ain't always the case. One could be born rich, or actually work smart and understanding money and how to make it.
Cypto is risky as many would say but I think the actual risk in it the fear of not Investing.
📌Do what everybody else is doing if you are okay with only having what everybody else has.Information that will pay you everyday, you've got to stop saving all your money.
Venture into investing some, if you really want financial stability.
Choose to grow and elevate your mind by studying audios, videos, attending conferences that will give you the edge!
Investment guidance sounds like a great idea,thought about it before but never knew how to go about it.
@@jeanstrassl9956 I used to invest on my own because of making your money work for you mentality but never made any progress until I sought the guidance of Daniel Christopher Downes and he has made me understand that strategy is everything.
Wow…..Daniel Christopher Downes?
I basically follow his trade pattern and haven’t regretted doing so.Hence I can confidently say I’m impressed by my returns so far.
@@loiusbenetti1811 This is refreshing coincidence,he has been handling my trade, it’s been a year now and the experience has been amazing.
The day I Unlearned "Opportunity comes but Once,"
I began to see Opportunity in almost everything. 😁
One of my favorite sayings has always been, "better's better" and it simply means, if you can do something better, make something better, make yourself better... then that's always better.
"Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better." -Maya Angelou
This is something I'm thankful to my mum for. She was a banker and she had a knack of speaking to us like we were older than we really were. So I was learning about stocks and dividends and how to maximize the opportunities from them before I turned 10
That’s really good and rare
I currently just started a career as a banker for this very reason. To be financially stable/literate and to set my unborn son (currently preggo) on the right path
@@deenadream he's gonna be one of the lucky ones 😊
If I can give you any advice tho, it'll be to be extra conscious about him and his personal life. If he grows up like I did, he will go thru battles in his life and he won't wanna tell you cos he would see how stressed out banking makes you and wouldn't wanna add to that stress by telling you bout what bothers him
@@0LLy796 thank you very much
I had to learn, and I still have challenges with my youth programming and how I had grown up. Again my parents didn't know what they didn't know, bless them, and they did the best they could, and for that I am very proud of them for loving me according me in that regard!
I had to unlearn many things : 1. Fear of society is good for you. 2. Slow and steady wins the race, 3. Read again and again what you want to memorize, 4. Keep complete distance from the opposite sex, 5. Always take care of others (and not of your interest), 6. Whatever is done in secrecy is always wrong and dishonesty, 7. Don't let outside influences cast their shadow on your goodness 8. It is better to get failed in life than to win by even a small fraction of bad means and dishonesty , 9. Only hard work brings success.
Great list but can you explain the 7th point? I didn't get that.
@@alexiafox8000 Even definition of goodness changes with time and different people. As a child one has to follow what according to their parents is real goodness. Everything becomes more difficult for the child when he or she is protected from the outside influences in the name of protected environment. Instead of giving stress on goodness parents should consider smartness more which is the way of successful people today.
@@raghusudhir3641 That makes sense. Thanks.
@@alexiafox8000 😊
I need more light on "Keep complete distance from the opposite sex," pls
its interresting how "Your Worth is what others think you're worth" and "Not everybody finds happiness in the things that make you happy" are potntial contradiction, but the there a sweet (golden)spot once you understand the theme of this video. Well done Alux!
Also the good things come to those who wait vs the 7 streams of income. It takes patience and persistence to make 1 big stream, and seems faster to do 1 small, then another small, etc. In general these are good since any one could be a hard wired assumption holding someone back
The hardest unlearning is and was that sales people are disgusting and sleazy.
I had a terrible experience with sales years ago that made me avoidant to salespeople. I’ve since been learning how to sale to move past that opinion. It’s still tough, but I’m getting through it.
Learning= Hard
Forgetting= Harder
I can testify that following this channel has influenced my life in the most positive way I never could have imagined
I know with time I'll only get more BETTER, not because am a genius, but because your content has conditioned me to strive for that
BETTER✅
Unlearning taking things personally. Replacing it with compassion: after considering why they did/said it to extract any useful info), think, “It’s so sad that they’ve had such a bad life/experiences/relationships/mind that they live in such an ugly world.”
This is what I teach my children everyday! Dam alux this is a real one
Not sure about the skipping breakfast thing, though the rest, spot on. Thanks ❤
The one big thing that I had to unlearn is that "you should study so hard, that you never ever have to work again". I've been there, not having to work, everything taken care of, but after a while the human mind starts breaking down. YOU WANT TO WORK! YOU WANT TO WORK HARD! YOU WANT TO CONTRIBUTE VALUE TO PEOPLE! It's non-sense that you should "study so that you don't have to work". Don't be afraid of hard work, because hard work is the most rewarding!
"BETTER"
Though it's said that it's bad to spend most of time on media. But I can't wait to keep online looking out for these videos. Life's really working out learning something new everyday. Thanks so😌
i'm a morning person..i wake up between 3-5 am and start my day..(i live in SEA and waking up at 4am is normal and generally what we do here).. everything is done in the morning: laundry, reading before going to school, etc.. that's why breakfast IS the most important meal..we usually skip dinner because the stomach needs to be emptied before sleep..i guess that's why you don't see tons of obessed SEAsians.
Doesn't eating maybe some oatmeal start the metabolism? I don't eat dairy heck I know just drinking water kickstart the metabolism. The oatmeal keeps you fuller longer and you won't eat more later in the day usually. Right? Having said that this was a really good video thank-you for your hardwork!
The contents keep getting BETTER. Thank you Alux.
This Alux lady deserves a world recognition award
Yes I been a freelancing entrepreneur since leaving Advertising and Public Relations grad school at University of Illinois in 1973. Four books made me realize the corporate world was NOT for me.
Think & Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace Wattles
How to Live Free In An Unfree World by Harry Browne
Looking Out for Number 1 by Robert Ringer
My mentor Grant Cardone got it right: WHO HAS MY MONEY?
The more try to forget something, the more you are likely to remember it
To unlearn something you first have to be aware of it.
😉
In short you are not trying to forget it but you keep on remembering it so there is no forgetting happening
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@GloryBlazer unfortunately.
There is nothing your mind cannot help you achieve🙏
I don't skip breakfast in the morning fuck no I need a good meal to be productive in the morning
Sundays are indeed BETTER with you ALUX
You need a high-paying job to get rich. This is because you need a lot of money to live a comfortable life and to have a good standard of living. Money can buy you things like a nice home, a new car, and a good education. It can also help you to have a better lifestyle and to travel more. Therefore, if you want to be rich, you need to get a high-paying job.
I had to unlearn that being an employee is the safest thing you can have! Most of the times the employee doesn't have any freedom to get better or the opportunity to learn new things and that's why they are bored with their jobs and they don't see the challenge to be better every day.
Some people are rich, some are poor and that’s just the way it is. After all, rich people have worked hard to get where they are, and anyone with the right mind can, too.
I was going through the list in the description for s quick run down and thinking, "that's not true, that's not right, that's Definitely wrong."
I misread the title thinking this was necessary lessons to learn.
I feel stupid after rereading the title properly.
I think this is one of the most powerful channels on RUclips. Keep doing what you’re doing, because businesses like me need you.
We got you!
That’s not what Fly Under The Radar means. Fly Under The Radar means doing hard work and being successful and also keeping yourself discreet. This is why we don’t know majority of the billionaires in this world. The popular billionaires are always judged for their actions. But we have no idea about how the majority of the billionaires live and are because they always Fly Under The Radar.
BETTER
Great video! Great content! Great insight as always! :)
Better. Had to unlearn/learn that the pursuit of great artistry does not lead to being great in business.
A wise person once said, “Good things come to those who wait... after those who rushed for them are finished with them”
The one thing I had to unlearn was being a good kid and trying to please everyone. Now I give priority to my needs and don't care about what others believe about me. I try to be BETTER for myself first and then for others.
That fear is a barrier and so if you are scared of something stay out of it.
Quite the opposite for me in fact. D things that scare you at least a little. Yes you will go through the fear and it will probably feel horrible. Gradually you will orientate yourself, planning helps of course, and then draw the benefit of the expereinces which have stretched you at least a bit to use for other things.
Thank you for BETTER education everyday ALUX.
Will the freelance course be available on the app
Please don't say "bullshit". It's like a verbal slap in the face. I appreciate class, not crass.
Recommend a good alternative.
I'd like to know how you will do without plumbers, auto mechanics, electricians, construction workers, cooks....
Trying to keep up with Alux is a great self challenge. Especially trying to turn ideas into actions man is it intense but fun…. After awhile
I can only describe this as a CONDENSED MASTERPIECE!😮
Take care of YOURSELF BEFORE you take care of anyone!
Breakfast is the most useless meal, ever since i stopped taking breakfast in 2020 my health has really improved and even managed to get rid of my pot belly by that
First time commenting, been watching for a couple years☺️
I have no idea if you were referring to me as a hater in the comments as I have previously critised some of the messages in your videos but it's not because I'm a hater. I do it because I enjoy the videos on the whole and when I see something jarring I'm bringing to your attention to see if you respond to make the product better. If I hated what you did I wouldn't waste my time giving feedback and I'd just unfollow. It's not always easy to judge intention correctly, sometimes you say something to help others and people perseive it as you looking out for no.1. Anyway for me personally the system doesn't work for me and I would like to see a more socialist society but I'm 100% positive that you guys are loving capitalism just fine and it does have some advantages so not all bad right.
*As always* ,
a very inspiring and instructive video, thank you for your effort, I always look forward to your new content.👍
Worried about RUclips! Love this format was always a place for the free flow of information. RUclips what are you don’t in Brazil???😮
Goode
What other people think is limited to their psychology.
Don’t take it personally!
Thank you very much. More than happy to follow you guys.
The harder it is, the stronger you become 💪🏻🔝
One of the things I've said throughout a career in the military, and another one in commercial construction is, "Ya can't be hard unless you do hard stuff." This doesn't exactly mean that hard = smart because I have bulldozed my way through life sacrificing my body and dreams in the process. I'm here hoping to add some smarts to this rock before my body throws in the friggin towel. In the meantime, if I'm not 'smrt', I'd better be strong, because my wife's shoes won't buy themselves.
"I'm so smart, so S M R T smart" -Homer Simpson
@@DesmoProfundis There are only two jobs that a failed man can do: the first is the priest and the other is the soldier. And there is a huge difference between a hard man and a smart man. 🤗
Yes
"Opportunity Is Missed Because It Is Dressed in Overalls and Looks Like Work"
For me its.. Being polite to eaveryone is must. Even when you know they are being mean or unkind to you
Daydreaming is unproductive.
It's not daydreaming!
It's envisioning and assembling an effective method of action for a particular project with the most desired outcome in mind.
The more we’ve done, the more we’ve got both experiences…
BETTER
Thanks Alux… as always… it’s been a great time with you… could sb write the name of background music?
Thank you Alux!
Okay just started looking into this channel, really great stuff and highly informative.. however, the narrators voice is unbearable. I’m sorry, it makes it very hard to listen to the tonnage, variations and enthusiasm in her voice.. not sure if I’m the only one 😰
One of the most important life lessons that I need to learn is the importance of patience.
This is simply GREAT ! Everything talked about herein is the blatent truth. Thanks for the brutal truth. Bye.
good things don't come to those who wait...they come to those who DO!
What I like about this channel is how relevant it is to might current situation. Some things I already knew while other nuggets of information does help me improve in different areas of my life.
A shoutout. Anyone. Tell me: how much?
Challenging to discover how minds can easily be shaped! But sorry I clicked on dislike by mistake. This video is wonderful
Better
does the freelance work for anyone around the world?
Good "BETTER" Best 👌 👍
There is a lot of my side is better... It's a strategy used in war... Keep them fighting each other instead of us...
We love ❤️ you alux!!!
Better, but one thing I had to learn is a Nuclear family doesn't equal immediate wealth or even long term wealth.
If only seeks to selfishly extend you life via your union or offspring. Either way you will eventually be forgotten.
Offspring cost money and if you are not ready for that then going for a "family equals wealth" mentality will make you poor in every sense of the word
Early this morning !
I’m determined to be better. Thank you so much Alux.
I think Alux is always underestimating professionals most of the time and think that a person will only get rich if he/she becomes a businessman. I disagree. At the end of the day, your wealth will be determined by how you handle and manage your money whether you are a businessman, entrepreneur or a professional.
BEST
0:58 👊
Alux you have to compose a lifetime book guide of actually getting everything right in life .
Experimentation is necessary in all things...
Life doesn't last forever, keep that in mind.
Facts!
These were wise insights. Life is what you make it. Earn it.
The title of this video is wrong, it should be lessons hard or harder to learn not hardest to learn
Nah, the 1st 1 was obvious ma.
It is more painful to learn the truth, but that's what changes your life.
wow
Friends/ Relationships are temporary and make sure you get everything out of them and it is all about you and your alliances and your mate and kids happiness.
I LOVE YOU ALUX….❤️
Better! I unlearned that my thoughts don't matter.
You don't have to take sides
Better...
👍
I could Never save enough MONEY to buy a house BUT THAT WAS NEVER THE PLAN ✅
What if you can buy a house but you had to save money for 5years straight ?
My hardest lessons is how to find our talents. Everything is easy if we find it out. We can start from the beginning point.
16. Being asimp
Better. Better balance to life.
Lesson learned through unlearning
No answer or response is an answer and a response