Wow, not expressing feelings or needs in order to keep someone else comfortable hit home. Thank you for this conversation and for the idea of not silencing or erasing yourself ❤
This was an awesome conversation. I promise it felt like she’s has been listening to my conversations with myself. I’m purchasing her book right now. Patrice I appreciate you and your transparency. Thank you for caring so much about your community of listeners
I have inner conflict from growing up. I really want to address those issues and what happened because I need closure. But I don’t know if we’re supposed to continue on with our own closure or address what happened with your parents after years of not saying anything. They changed, but the person, the relevance I have with them when I’m around them, still feels the same. Though they are better as people, I don’t trust them. They’ve helped me at times but I’ve always pushed for independence and I felt guilt for not allowing my family that once before wanted to do everything for me or control me. I don’t want that I want to do everything myself and I can. But somehow i feel tied to the obligation I need to let them help me because they are family. When I left home there was so much I didn’t know how to handle and I didn’t want their help. My mom keeps on insisting to take care of me and it’s exhausting because I want to do it myself but the guilt from letting them help me is killing me because I didn’t know how to feel because of family values vs. being independent. Even when I tried to move at one time, I felt pressured to stay in the state just to be closer when I want to live my own life. Even when I addressed these issues in the past I felt ignored about it. So I feel like in some way I’ve been enabling something I feel like I can’t get out of. There’s so much I still don’t know but I want to learn how to do that on my own. I’ve spent a lot of time in avoidance with my family because I felt ignored and I don’t know how to emotionally connect with them because I didn’t feel that strong connect growing up after being controlled, screamed at, criticized. They’re the you have a roof over your head type, I get that, but I also have emotional needs. My emotions matter.
This here sound a lot like my story. This was a very powerful lesson for me. In the divorce process now. It has helped press me forward! I have been set free. Now to order the book!!!
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She had to go through some heavy tribulation and trials and betrayals to have this level of wisdom 👏🏾. I'm only 12 mins in. Whew. My soul needs this.
Pass the offering basket!!! Thank you KINDLY!!!! ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Wow The wealth is the Goal is collective liberation not an individual story
Wow, not expressing feelings or needs in order to keep someone else comfortable hit home. Thank you for this conversation and for the idea of not silencing or erasing yourself ❤
This conversation was so poignant! I can identify with normalizing toxicity. I'm in awe! Thank you for sharing!
This is so good & FRUITFUL!!!
This conversation is need so much in our community!!
This was so needed for me
Thank you Dr. Bryant and Miss Patrice.
I just ate so good. This was amazing. Thank you for facilitating this conversation.
Loved this!❤
This BLESSED me!
My favorite person! Dr. Thema
My Argentine mother motto “If you can’t feel good look good.”
Wow! I’m late to this and I don’t know how but a word in due season definitely 💯
I looove Homecoming podcast
this episode is going to set someone free! I resonate with so much of what was shared…whew 😔
Me! I’m someone!!!
This was an awesome conversation. I promise it felt like she’s has been listening to my conversations with myself. I’m purchasing her book right now. Patrice I appreciate you and your transparency. Thank you for caring so much about your community of listeners
Wow I feel so welcome here ❤
I have inner conflict from growing up. I really want to address those issues and what happened because I need closure. But I don’t know if we’re supposed to continue on with our own closure or address what happened with your parents after years of not saying anything. They changed, but the person, the relevance I have with them when I’m around them, still feels the same. Though they are better as people, I don’t trust them. They’ve helped me at times but I’ve always pushed for independence and I felt guilt for not allowing my family that once before wanted to do everything for me or control me. I don’t want that I want to do everything myself and I can. But somehow i feel tied to the obligation I need to let them help me because they are family. When I left home there was so much I didn’t know how to handle and I didn’t want their help. My mom keeps on insisting to take care of me and it’s exhausting because I want to do it myself but the guilt from letting them help me is killing me because I didn’t know how to feel because of family values vs. being independent. Even when I tried to move at one time, I felt pressured to stay in the state just to be closer when I want to live my own life. Even when I addressed these issues in the past I felt ignored about it. So I feel like in some way I’ve been enabling something I feel like I can’t get out of. There’s so much I still don’t know but I want to learn how to do that on my own. I’ve spent a lot of time in avoidance with my family because I felt ignored and I don’t know how to emotionally connect with them because I didn’t feel that strong connect growing up after being controlled, screamed at, criticized. They’re the you have a roof over your head type, I get that, but I also have emotional needs. My emotions matter.
Love that!...wealth is not an Individual goal.
This was so good 😊💗 a much needed reminder for me to get back home😊🙏
Projecting... Great question!
Thank you so much! I believe I’m the one that had been set free! Just ordered the book/workbook.
This here sound a lot like my story. This was a very powerful lesson for me. In the divorce process now. It has helped press me forward! I have been set free. Now to order the book!!!
It is not this is how "i Am" but how I was "made to BE". recreating a better self requires a model of what better is
Beautiful conversation between two Beautiful women.
Loved this convo, listening to it again and will probably listen a few more times. '...And with that I bless and release you, back into the wild' 😂
Great conversation ❤
Facts ❤
🕯️ AMEN
Great word thank you!
I’ve found my new podcast
This is awesome! Well done, Patrice & Dr. Thema. Patrice, kindly respond to my DM
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