This goes hand and hand with how social media gives average women an ego. They get so many DMs and see so many attractive men on social media, that it gasses them up. Suddenly, every woman wants the top 10% of men without being the top 10% of women. This has been brought up a lot, and is a huge problem.
This also effects us girls too! Like i'm overexposed to soo many perfect girls I start thinking that those perfect features have become the 'average' and suddenly i went from feeling average to ugly.
You know what J.cole said on "Love Yourz". Society nowadays makes you compare yourself to people that are “better” and you try to become like them but when in reality it’s not better it’s just different from your life. And this song reminds me to be grateful for what I have and the people I have around me. “Cause you ain’t ever gon be happy till you love yours.”
i’m so glad someone related this to love yourz cause i was thinking the exact same thing. j cole’s songs really leave you with a message to dwell on and apply to your everyday life.
This was still the typical funny and informative Strawberry Park video, but it actually has me thinking about the damage social media is doing to the young generation. So much content is being absorbed into your brain today, that it’s actually overstimulating our perception of the real world. We’re losing our attention span from mindlessly scrolling through TikTok, IG, etc. and creating these fantasies that we see on social media is all there is out there. Social media can be used for a lot of benefits but currently it’s very detrimental for most people.
Living in Los Angeles is like living in a virtual Instagram page. When I travel I am reminded of how many pretty faced people migrate to LA to try their luck. Here is the flip , now that I am older . When I travel, I absolutely appreciate the cute girl next door types with the sweet, content personalities waaay more. No rat race mentality, less fronting, a tad more genuine. Working in entertainment I had no idea how " Hollywood" my taste & perspective had become personally. You can't see it, when you're in it. Social media is an absolute collage of delusions if you do not step back & look at it for what it has become, its like Hollywood. Everyone is constantly fronting & selling & you can lose some of yourself if you ingest to much of it.
You guys give me more motivation then anybody I've stopped watching porn. I'm interacting with people more(girls mainly) Losing weight working out Life is better now..
as a female, i always thought this like, people who were supposed to consider pretty dont seem as beautiful anymore due to all of these women and men on social media that you rarely see in real life, but since tik tok constantly pushes pretty people to the algorithm it seems like the norm and that this is how the average person should look so now when other people who are ACTUALLY average see these beautiful people thinking this is the norm they get insecure and think something is wrong with them when nothing is wrong with em and we all just need to log odd social Media for some time, even though that might be impossible now for us all to collectively log off, but yeah thats just how life is heading now towards 2023
Y'all fr always are speaking facts. These issues are huge in society and need to be talked about more. I'm deleting my TikTok and unfollowing the IG models I follow, none of that stuff benefits us at all and won't get us to where we want to be 10 years from now.
I love how they psycho analyze today’s societal problems, giving advice to young men and women, overall being amazing realistic people and I’m sitting there smiling and nodding at my phone like an idiot😂 Thanks for the daily uploads guys❤️
I wonder if it could create a culture where those teenagers turned adults who haven't used social media will become highly valued because they won't be ruined by social media. They may not be the most attractive physically, but their personalities and compatibility would be amazing compared to their peers. Thus, a relationship with them would be much more fulfilling.
I've never had social media so I can't speak for others, but honestly I don't think anything is better than meeting a beautiful man or woman in real life.. It blows my mind how there's so many attractive girls in my area and I wouldn't feel the same way scrolling through random people's pictures
For real this was really informative. I don’t use Instagram or tik taks but my friends do and they have really high standards. I’m out of the loop when it comes to social media.
Been thinking about this a lot and how it affects us. It’s gonna be 10x worse for the iPad kids when they get older. We’re gonna have to give them flip phones and homeschool them 💀
@@bloopahh yeah and to actually marry before we have kids, and accept our roles. Life really isn't as complicated as we make it. It's just that survival is not the main focus anymore so we have to make issues and destroy structure. And now we need it again lmao
@@JanieBee The rate at which people are having children is literally falling every decade, what does marriage have to do with social media's pushed of lookism? I'm pretty sure that's what this video is about, what is this entire thread even talking about lol
noah was spitting facts!! the rocky analogy hit hard ngl girls think they really that bad just coz they get virtual love when in person nobody would even wanna date them
Unfortunately that’s like none of them.. 99% of girls wear makeup and it screws up our brains because we higher our expectations.. I’ve seen so many ugly girls just put on the makeup and turn into an 8/10 it’s so foul
When these are in their 30’s ,40’s or 50’s they should honestly react to these videos and see if they still agree with their opinions on certain topics or issue’s that they discussed
I used to have that addiction on these kinda social apps and being a simp... And I knew it's too poisoning and tiresome... So what I did... I Uninstalled Tiktok... And I post memes and text my friends and go out, have some fun, play video.. And I don't care how many followers I have as a guy.... And it is way much better for to talk to a girl I like face to face than in social media, it really builts my confidence
instagram is full of baddies, so much it's overwhelming. what's crazy is the development of smartphones which had everyone able to access the internet and causing people to act some sort of way. social media is just a tool, people got to remember that. many women use social media to post porn, soft core porn any lewds. it's frustrating because often it times these pics are just illusions. social media should've been used in a fruitful way, social, business, life saving knowledge, like there's a lot of potential in the internet. but the internet has been corrupted. humans typically ruin good things.
It is used in that manner. Your blaming the world for your own actions. The algorithm feeds you what you want, watch, or attracted to. If you watched or looked up videos on business, finance, health, you’d get that. But instead you search up half naked girls. Videos like this just give people victim mentalities and reasons to blame the world for their own issues
@@EveningShowWithJeremiah was just about to reply to that comment & say evrything you said!! So true. Also It is not a woman's or man's fault for posting "thirst traps" that cause YOU to get "distracted" that is your own doing lol most people know what they're doing when they post that kind of content & they feed off that energy & attention. Honestly just saw this mind-blowing video about filters & it's use on social media. Most people don't evn post their authentic selves! EVRYTHING is so heavily edited evn though it looks SOOO REALl!! & it's not just pics you can easily edit videos too!! & IF you're some1 like me who nvr edits or dabbles in any of that foolishness just to post a pic OR VID, YOU WOULD NEVER KNOW THIS KIND OF TECHNOLOGY IS OUT THERE, but thankfully more people are speaking out to spread awareness. I heard they automatically put a filter on any person posting a tik tok how crazy is that???
I think that the influence of "Instagram baddies" is generally negative on men, messing with their perspective of women, and them lowering their morals to the point basically worshipping these girls, but one thing I do have to say is that it does inspire women to be more fit.
if anything it makes woman more insecure and forcing them to look like what everyone thinks an average woman should look like. they’re insecurities are pushing them to be more ‘fit’ and chase a lifestyle and look that looks good but isn’t realistic. if anything more women are probably insecure than they’ve ever been now not unless they meet the beauty standard. the competition between woman is also very viscous now.
@S Alena Yea I noticed this on with alot of the new age girls who all do their makeup too look like Bella poarch, now you have clones who all look the same aside from height
I mainly use social media for my art accounts. I’m trying to push my Art out there and grow a platform for myself. I want be a successful artist so idk if I can necessarily delete social media since that’s the main way to put my art out. But I do agree 100% on seeing to many good looking people that it messes with the brain.
When making an art account on social media especially Instagram it will be harder especially when there's other things people are more interesting such as twerking videos and stuff like that.
LLS is the only channel that has both a great main channel and a great second channel. Watching the reaction videos it feels like you’re in the room with your friends, keep up the good work y’all
Honestly I respect that she will keep posting. If she stops posting, somebody else will start. It’s an ongoing cycle that’s already out of hand. And it’s not her fault. Great points brought up in this one. 💯
I feel like the only thing social media is good for is making money, so if you ain't doing that and you know that there isn't any really any good reason for you to have it then delete it. It's as simple as that because if you know what's making you feel the way that you do then the answer will be starring right in yo face!
needed to hear that take. it really is a good tool for creators to make money, but if you’re just using it to consume content, you gotta be extremely careful of how much it takes a toll on your time and mental health
I have had the experience where I have a gf and get on social media and go "damn she's prettier than my girl." But most people have more than likely had that. Personally, my view on the world hasn't changed because I see pretty women on social media. At first I definitely would go "damn where are these fine women I see on here in my area." Then when I just took the time to actually talk to people and meet new people, I have met some of these women on campus and even in stores. Just cause you see them a lot on social doesn't necessarily mean your view on how women generally look will be misconstrued.
i would just like to go out and say u guys always make the most sense out of everything and have more knowledge on the social media platform than any other people i’ve seen wether you guys know it or not ur amazing and are very wise keep up the good work
I used to drive with Lyft. As a driver u can see the girls picture before pick up. I seen a lot of baddies but when they got in the car they didn't look anything like their picture. These filters really do hide their flaws and make us think women like that exist everywhere when in reality it's very few.
You guys speaking facts on here. I look at so much social media girls that its almost addictive. It also does effect how i see girls in real life. The expectations are through the roof. I need to quit social media lol
as a 25 year old woman who's been on these apps for half my life, i can really tell how social media turned from a place to "hang out" into an undeclared competition between who's the shit, who the bad and who the baddest. it's sad but it's true
Thank you for talking about this subject and how harmful it is for the image or males and females and how we interact with each-other today. It needs to be talked about more. Thank you.
This is a problem which can and already has affected lot of people.All i see on my fyp or ig are models,women with aesthetic poses,etc.I personally don't see anything wrong with that but the influence it has on a lot of people needs to be addressed.We live in a society where a majority of people are exposed to a lot of stuff at a young age.With the evolution of technology it's not a surprise to me.A perfect example could be discord.I recently just found out that the way girls talk on discord(not every) has a "baddie" personality or is slowly trying to make a whole new personality.Just try to be you and focus on self improvement❤️.It's better to be yourself than make up a character just to try and fit in.Value the right people in your life who love and care for you and stay by your side during tough times.I really believe in humanity and hopefully it will get better soon.Have a fun one y'all❤️
I think this is such a good video because everything you guys stated are facts the fact that it’s so hard for us as people to separate social media and reality
@@ritaa1359 Idk they’re all worse than eachother 😂 but i personally think tiktok is the worst one it’s so influential on everyone’s lives these days all people talk about is tiktok and it’s trends
I completely agree with this. I followed so many instagram baddies until the point I realized that it added no value to my life seeing that many beautiful women when I go on instagram. Worse it was skewing my perception of what beautiful is to extremely high standards. I decided to do take the mature approach and unfollow them all. But I didn’t unfollow them all. I kept a few because I can’t all stop at once. It will be too brutal. I need to wean myself of of them gradually 😂
What she said about the jello makes sense like when you get a new gaming console you’re satisfied until the next console comes out and makes you feel like you need to get the next best thing
As a girl who’s a good 3-4 in 8th grade. I don’t know if I’m actually that. There are a few crazy attractive girls at my school, but they wear makeup, and I don’t. I’ve been told that I’m hideous so much, and seeing all these pretty girls online have just made me self conscious and confused. People either say I’m pretty, or I’m terribly ugly.
hey as an older female who's already past that stage (20), I will say ignore all of it. I dealt with insecurities too but don't follow follow these crazy hot models. Don't worry about not being the prettiest girl in school. You're not terribly ugly.
@@skatergrl13 ❤️❤️ I’ll try I really will, I’m trying to cut off this guy who always says I’m extremely ugly, or “the last in the list of who the prettiest girl is”
Yo I was not expecting her to be so profound. Most attractive women I’ve seen on the internet and real life are incapable of understanding the world outside of themselves. Also I’m sure it has different variations but I think she was talking about the concept called choice overload. Having an abundance of options and that in itself reducing your ability to make a good choice and having it overwhelm you
There is no question that social has destroyed dating and peoples ability to connect. Swiping right and always looking for the next dopamine hit is the new addiction.
I literally never took notice of this and this actually makes a lot of sense. It’s almost like standards are being raised because every person is constantly consuming the content of the top 10%
I agree 100%. I am a 15 year old male, that has deleted Instagram, Tiktok, Snapchat, and more. The only "Social Media" I have is RUclips, Twitch, and Discord. Living the happiest life I can right now.
Yea I just deleted Tiktok last week after having it for 2 months. I only use Instagram and Snap to talk with friends in our group chat. But being on those apps are TOXIC. Every Instagram meme page I was following started posted IG models that took pictures of their ass. I literally had to delete over 100 pages.
@@antviper135 yeah a lot of my friends actually in college don't really use TikTok now. I use it to post content only so people are surprised when I say I don't actually watch lol. Just a waste of time
I can't imagine being one of those guys who desperately wants a "baddie". Like absolutely, I want to be attracted to my partner and I want them to take care of themselves. But I don't need a model. I don't need this extra pressure of having someone who is overexposed in a literal and metaphorical sense. I just want a partner who I connect with on multiple levels that will be just as interested as I am in the relationship .
also usually those types of girls are actually really insecure and rely deeply on receiving validation from their instagram followers. I knew a guy who’s gf was nice but extremely obsessed with constantly posting pics wherever they went like she would make him retake her pic 36378348 times until she liked it. just exhausting
I feel like they're not even baddies, there's for me a difference between hot and pretty, and its the pretty sweet ones that we should treasure, because the ones that cake their faces with makeup and flaunt on instagram probably aren't what you're looking for personality-wise
Im reminded everyday i walk outside that baddies aint everywhere. Even though I don’t see baddies, i do find a good about of normal looking girls cute and attractive.
Didn't expect y'all to react to it lol. But yeah Ashley has been blowing up with that one video for like the past month and the amount of guys who stitched that TikTok to talk about how fine she is, is jokes😂 But nah Ash if your somehow in the comments and just so happen to stumble upon my comment, I need you on my team :)
I had to disconnect fr. Lemme know how yall feel bout this. The dopamine high from looking at beautiful women is slick higher than what you get from smoking that gas sometimes. shii I can smoke and be like "ight, that's enough" but that Instagram high be "Ight, I can take another hit" and then its like every scroll onto another girl is another and another. Then when you finally either go and take care of yourself (ifykyk) or manage to stop scrolling, you just feel depressed from the come down. Its worrying to see how bad things have gotten with social media, but its like from the perspective of this video and LLS knowing ashley. what is there to technically fix, because these are just other ppl at the end of the day, just looking good. The first thing you see on tiktok being some girl either of age or underage shaking her assets is crazy. This happens if you just download the app aswell before you even make an account. Its been tested on a newly bought phone. something isn't right and almost feels like something is going on here, because years ago you would have like mothers against violent video games. Where the hell is that type of organization now. NOWHERE
To all the young dudes out there. It's easy to grasp their beauty. Here it goes: IT"S NOT REAL! When you see them comfortable or without makeup , you'll understand exactly what I'm talking about. Most of their "Beauty" has to be applied in the morning and it messes with their skin as they age. Don't put them on a pedestal. That would be the equivalent of calling someone smart who cheats on their tests.
I’m only 23 but I already uninstalled all social media. I only use RUclips through safari because it’s not as addictive as the app. All of these apps have an algorithm designed to hook you onto it. Social media has shattered people’s egos and the attractive people are to blame for seeking out validation and attention.
This goes hand and hand with how social media gives average women an ego. They get so many DMs and see so many attractive men on social media, that it gasses them up. Suddenly, every woman wants the top 10% of men without being the top 10% of women. This has been brought up a lot, and is a huge problem.
sadly have to agree
hamza
How are these baddies average women?
@@mvvbruvv7670 not every women is a "baddie" but they think that they are bc of social media
Increases the narcissism
This also effects us girls too! Like i'm overexposed to soo many perfect girls I start thinking that those perfect features have become the 'average' and suddenly i went from feeling average to ugly.
This too! I totally agree. The subconscious pressure of having to be perfect on social media is insane
@@kylajohnson8864 you're beautiful don't ever feel that way again.
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@@TheyCallmeCray Naw Fam that's all you I'm sure you're paying for someones only fans subscription.
@@jamesmarshall4827w comeback
You know what J.cole said on "Love Yourz". Society nowadays makes you compare yourself to people that are “better” and you try to become like them but when in reality it’s not better it’s just different from your life. And this song reminds me to be grateful for what I have and the people I have around me. “Cause you ain’t ever gon be happy till you love yours.”
i’m so glad someone related this to love yourz cause i was thinking the exact same thing. j cole’s songs really leave you with a message to dwell on and apply to your everyday life.
This was still the typical funny and informative Strawberry Park video, but it actually has me thinking about the damage social media is doing to the young generation. So much content is being absorbed into your brain today, that it’s actually overstimulating our perception of the real world. We’re losing our attention span from mindlessly scrolling through TikTok, IG, etc. and creating these fantasies that we see on social media is all there is out there. Social media can be used for a lot of benefits but currently it’s very detrimental for most people.
Thank you for realizing
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FACTS!
Exactly I'm loosing my sense too , these days it's like it's ok not to be ok but actually it's not ok
m.ruclips.net/video/uZdv-TtiMkg/видео.html
Bro we being exposed to too many baddies and it's actually desensitizing us to reality🤦🏾from such a young age too
Noah- Understanding
Rob- Knowledge
Rhino- Wisdom
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@@bluuuuueguyfacts
bro said wisdom 💀
@@honorablecnotes wisdom is crazy 😂
I would switch rhino and rob..
Living in Los Angeles is like living in a virtual Instagram page. When I travel I am reminded of how many pretty faced people migrate to LA to try their luck. Here is the flip , now that I am older . When I travel, I absolutely appreciate the cute girl next door types with the sweet, content personalities waaay more. No rat race mentality, less fronting, a tad more genuine.
Working in entertainment I had no idea how " Hollywood" my taste & perspective had become personally. You can't see it, when you're in it. Social media is an absolute collage of delusions if you do not step back & look at it for what it has become, its like Hollywood. Everyone is constantly fronting & selling & you can lose some of yourself if you ingest to much of it.
try their luck at acting?
@@nickgerr1991try their luck becoming famous quick😂
@@brandoncorrea511 I rather have anonymity
@@NostalgicHearts yea, it's good for them. I'm a dude, I value my anonymity tho
@@NostalgicHearts oh shit. My misunderstanding then. You're good bro
You guys give me more motivation then anybody
I've stopped watching porn.
I'm interacting with people more(girls mainly)
Losing weight working out
Life is better now..
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W king. I’m beginning my porn free lifestyle
Amen brother! I hope you do good my friend!
legit, I would watch 'em everytime they upload
love to hear that champ
as a female, i always thought this like, people who were supposed to consider pretty dont seem as beautiful anymore due to all of these women and men on social media that you rarely see in real life, but since tik tok constantly pushes pretty people to the algorithm it seems like the norm and that this is how the average person should look so now when other people who are ACTUALLY average see these beautiful people thinking this is the norm they get insecure and think something is wrong with them when nothing is wrong with em and we all just need to log odd social Media for some time, even though that might be impossible now for us all to collectively log off, but yeah thats just how life is heading now towards 2023
Y'all fr always are speaking facts. These issues are huge in society and need to be talked about more. I'm deleting my TikTok and unfollowing the IG models I follow, none of that stuff benefits us at all and won't get us to where we want to be 10 years from now.
Great mindset.
that's what's crazy. Ask yourself. Besides checking up with old/currents friends on Insta, what good does any of this do?
That's the spirit king 🤴🏿
I love how they psycho analyze today’s societal problems, giving advice to young men and women, overall being amazing realistic people and I’m sitting there smiling and nodding at my phone like an idiot😂 Thanks for the daily uploads guys❤️
What she described at the end is the paradox of choice. You end up choosing nothing when overwhelmed with options
That’s basically Netflix in a nutshell
I like how they always speak facts
If Ashley is back get Ester's fine self back in 🤣
Whos Ester 👀
nah yo ester was bad asf gahdamn
ester got me thru hard times 🤣
@@JAIONII pun intended?
@@JAIONII ester gave me hard times💀
Rob + Noah + Ryan = LOGIC!!!!
It is not that hard to think logically
Coolest youtubers😎
I wonder if it could create a culture where those teenagers turned adults who haven't used social media will become highly valued because they won't be ruined by social media. They may not be the most attractive physically, but their personalities and compatibility would be amazing compared to their peers. Thus, a relationship with them would be much more fulfilling.
Probably not, since those people would date others like them and not date social media zombies
This is so important!
I‘m glad you spoke about it because I feel like many people don’t realize how damaging this can really be.
I've never had social media so I can't speak for others, but honestly I don't think anything is better than meeting a beautiful man or woman in real life.. It blows my mind how there's so many attractive girls in my area and I wouldn't feel the same way scrolling through random people's pictures
For real this was really informative. I don’t use Instagram or tik taks but my friends do and they have really high standards. I’m out of the loop when it comes to social media.
I think i will delete IG soon
she look better on ft than social media jesus
I don’t sees the difference
Been thinking about this a lot and how it affects us. It’s gonna be 10x worse for the iPad kids when they get older. We’re gonna have to give them flip phones and homeschool them 💀
we just need as a generation to be better parents
Ong
@@bloopahh yeah and to actually marry before we have kids, and accept our roles. Life really isn't as complicated as we make it. It's just that survival is not the main focus anymore so we have to make issues and destroy structure. And now we need it again lmao
@@JanieBee The rate at which people are having children is literally falling every decade, what does marriage have to do with social media's pushed of lookism? I'm pretty sure that's what this video is about, what is this entire thread even talking about lol
@@JanieBee That’s the western world summed up. Either gotta move to a different country or like you said make some changes
Ryan, Noah, and Rob are the best!
Ur a bot
Was that in order from best to least best?
They are
Zyan Zoah Zob
Agree
noah was spitting facts!! the rocky analogy hit hard ngl girls think they really that bad just coz they get virtual love when in person nobody would even wanna date them
Putting the girl yall just did skits with on the front of a video titled "The Problem With Instagram Baddies" is crazy😂💀
There not talking bad about her
@@paulsilloway7520 i know but it was just funny lol
she was just an example of what one looks like, I know you get that, just wanted to state it
@@jellymatsuryuka6853 it was just funny to me 💀
😂😂😤
Rob the type of guy to slap his thigh and say Gee Willikers
Thats good
love the in rainbows pfp
@@Ben-ql6hc That’s not in rainbows
@@BigVirgin read, bozo
@@Ben-ql6hc best album
A true baddie looks good without makeup
Unfortunately that’s like none of them.. 99% of girls wear makeup and it screws up our brains because we higher our expectations.. I’ve seen so many ugly girls just put on the makeup and turn into an 8/10 it’s so foul
This girl does
They would look good without plastic surgery too
@@Noelle52506 what?
When these are in their 30’s ,40’s or 50’s they should honestly react to these videos and see if they still agree with their opinions on certain topics or issue’s that they discussed
LoveLiveServe in the morning kinda fire
I used to have that addiction on these kinda social apps and being a simp... And I knew it's too poisoning and tiresome... So what I did... I Uninstalled Tiktok... And I post memes and text my friends and go out, have some fun, play video.. And I don't care how many followers I have as a guy.... And it is way much better for to talk to a girl I like face to face than in social media, it really builts my confidence
instagram is full of baddies, so much it's overwhelming. what's crazy is the development of smartphones which had everyone able to access the internet and causing people to act some sort of way. social media is just a tool, people got to remember that. many women use social media to post porn, soft core porn any lewds. it's frustrating because often it times these pics are just illusions. social media should've been used in a fruitful way, social, business, life saving knowledge, like there's a lot of potential in the internet. but the internet has been corrupted. humans typically ruin good things.
It is used in that manner. Your blaming the world for your own actions. The algorithm feeds you what you want, watch, or attracted to. If you watched or looked up videos on business, finance, health, you’d get that. But instead you search up half naked girls. Videos like this just give people victim mentalities and reasons to blame the world for their own issues
@@EveningShowWithJeremiah this is correct. The algorithm just feeds you what you were already looking for.
@@EveningShowWithJeremiah He's not blaming anyone for anything
@@EveningShowWithJeremiah was just about to reply to that comment & say evrything you said!! So true.
Also It is not a woman's or man's fault for posting "thirst traps" that cause YOU to get "distracted" that is your own doing lol
most people know what they're doing when they post that kind of content & they feed off that energy & attention. Honestly just saw this mind-blowing video about filters & it's use on social media. Most people don't evn post their authentic selves! EVRYTHING is so heavily edited evn though it looks SOOO REALl!! & it's not just pics you can easily edit videos too!! & IF you're some1 like me who nvr edits or dabbles in any of that foolishness just to post a pic OR VID, YOU WOULD NEVER KNOW THIS KIND OF TECHNOLOGY IS OUT THERE, but thankfully more people are speaking out to spread awareness.
I heard they automatically put a filter on any person posting a tik tok how crazy is that???
I think that the influence of "Instagram baddies" is generally negative on men, messing with their perspective of women, and them lowering their morals to the point basically worshipping these girls, but one thing I do have to say is that it does inspire women to be more fit.
It doesn’t really inspire them to be more fit even obese women get attention
@user-qc2wd1qm7o right lol
if anything it makes woman more insecure and forcing them to look like what everyone thinks an average woman should look like. they’re insecurities are pushing them to be more ‘fit’ and chase a lifestyle and look that looks good but isn’t realistic. if anything more women are probably insecure than they’ve ever been now not unless they meet the beauty standard. the competition between woman is also very viscous now.
@S Alena Yea I noticed this on with alot of the new age girls who all do their makeup too look like Bella poarch, now you have clones who all look the same aside from height
@@matthewb2799took the words right out of my mouth
Easily my favorite channel. the mixture between comedy and spittin real shit is peak
Nah facts
I mainly use social media for my art accounts. I’m trying to push my Art out there and grow a platform for myself. I want be a successful artist so idk if I can necessarily delete social media since that’s the main way to put my art out. But I do agree 100% on seeing to many good looking people that it messes with the brain.
When making an art account on social media especially Instagram it will be harder especially when there's other things people are more interesting such as twerking videos and stuff like that.
LLS is the only channel that has both a great main channel and a great second channel. Watching the reaction videos it feels like you’re in the room with your friends, keep up the good work y’all
Honestly I respect that she will keep posting. If she stops posting, somebody else will start. It’s an ongoing cycle that’s already out of hand. And it’s not her fault. Great points brought up in this one. 💯
These guys always bringing up great points love the content❤️🔥
I feel like the only thing social media is good for is making money, so if you ain't doing that and you know that there isn't any really any good reason for you to have it then delete it. It's as simple as that because if you know what's making you feel the way that you do then the answer will be starring right in yo face!
needed to hear that take. it really is a good tool for creators to make money, but if you’re just using it to consume content, you gotta be extremely careful of how much it takes a toll on your time and mental health
I have had the experience where I have a gf and get on social media and go "damn she's prettier than my girl." But most people have more than likely had that. Personally, my view on the world hasn't changed because I see pretty women on social media. At first I definitely would go "damn where are these fine women I see on here in my area." Then when I just took the time to actually talk to people and meet new people, I have met some of these women on campus and even in stores. Just cause you see them a lot on social doesn't necessarily mean your view on how women generally look will be misconstrued.
it’s just messing with young boys’ head. they see too much baddies online that gives them a false sense of reality about women
Frr like that’s not what girls would usually look like unless they got sum done ✋😂🤚
i would just like to go out and say u guys always make the most sense out of everything and have more knowledge on the social media platform than any other people i’ve seen wether you guys know it or not ur amazing and are very wise keep up the good work
love you guys, the trio is perfect, you guys all bring the best to the convo
I used to drive with Lyft. As a driver u can see the girls picture before pick up. I seen a lot of baddies but when they got in the car they didn't look anything like their picture. These filters really do hide their flaws and make us think women like that exist everywhere when in reality it's very few.
You guys speaking facts on here. I look at so much social media girls that its almost addictive. It also does effect how i see girls in real life. The expectations are through the roof. I need to quit social media lol
as a 25 year old woman who's been on these apps for half my life, i can really tell how social media turned from a place to "hang out" into an undeclared competition between who's the shit, who the bad and who the baddest. it's sad but it's true
Thank you for talking about this subject and how harmful it is for the image or males and females and how we interact with each-other today. It needs to be talked about more. Thank you.
This is a problem which can and already has affected lot of people.All i see on my fyp or ig are models,women with aesthetic poses,etc.I personally don't see anything wrong with that but the influence it has on a lot of people needs to be addressed.We live in a society where a majority of people are exposed to a lot of stuff at a young age.With the evolution of technology it's not a surprise to me.A perfect example could be discord.I recently just found out that the way girls talk on discord(not every) has a "baddie" personality or is slowly trying to make a whole new personality.Just try to be you and focus on self improvement❤️.It's better to be yourself than make up a character just to try and fit in.Value the right people in your life who love and care for you and stay by your side during tough times.I really believe in humanity and hopefully it will get better soon.Have a fun one y'all❤️
The upload schedule is🔥 before I sleep I know imma be viewing an awesome video😮💨
All time fan, all the way from South Africa🇿🇦
wassup my fellow south african🇿🇦🙃
It's refreshing to see you guys have these type of conversations
I think this is such a good video because everything you guys stated are facts the fact that it’s so hard for us as people to separate social media and reality
“Instagram ruined todays society”
Instagram isn’t even the main issue it’s tiktok, literally the devil of all social media
@@ceezee57it’s literally all of social media
ig snap twitter facebook and tiktok
@@ceezee57 nah it’s both but Insta can be worse
@@ritaa1359 Idk they’re all worse than eachother 😂 but i personally think tiktok is the worst one it’s so influential on everyone’s lives these days all people talk about is tiktok and it’s trends
yall be hella popular yet so humble, love it
I like how these guys balance each other out, never too extreme; just real.
Ashley is back
I completely agree with this. I followed so many instagram baddies until the point I realized that it added no value to my life seeing that many beautiful women when I go on instagram. Worse it was skewing my perception of what beautiful is to extremely high standards. I decided to do take the mature approach and unfollow them all.
But I didn’t unfollow them all. I kept a few because I can’t all stop at once. It will be too brutal. I need to wean myself of of them gradually 😂
Rob the typa guy to say let’s take a silly one now 😝 when taking pics w his friends
Love da upload schedule 💯🤟
This is the best commentary video I’ve seen all year. Too many people need to open their eyes
they’ve best content and I love your curls you’re stunning!!
The fact that y’all held down a straight face the entire time when watching that video in the beginning is wild.
What she said about the jello makes sense like when you get a new gaming console you’re satisfied until the next console comes out and makes you feel like you need to get the next best thing
As someone who has no social media. Life is A LOT better without it
As a girl who’s a good 3-4 in 8th grade. I don’t know if I’m actually that. There are a few crazy attractive girls at my school, but they wear makeup, and I don’t. I’ve been told that I’m hideous so much, and seeing all these pretty girls online have just made me self conscious and confused. People either say I’m pretty, or I’m terribly ugly.
hey as an older female who's already past that stage (20), I will say ignore all of it. I dealt with insecurities too but don't follow follow these crazy hot models. Don't worry about not being the prettiest girl in school. You're not terribly ugly.
@@skatergrl13 ❤️❤️ I’ll try I really will, I’m trying to cut off this guy who always says I’m extremely ugly, or “the last in the list of who the prettiest girl is”
"Not at 8 AM" had me dead🤣🤣🤣
Yo I was not expecting her to be so profound. Most attractive women I’ve seen on the internet and real life are incapable of understanding the world outside of themselves. Also I’m sure it has different variations but I think she was talking about the concept called choice overload. Having an abundance of options and that in itself reducing your ability to make a good choice and having it overwhelm you
Noah speaking facts💯💯💯
broo i love yalls vids!!
Ive always noticed how LLS has always been able to describe and evaluate very niche situations.
BROTHERS WE MUST STAY FOCUSED
these videos are no longer just entertainment. they are more then that. i learn soomethjing from each video i watch from these guys
Bro this video was so on point you have no idea.. Thank y'all for bringing this subject to light.
There is no question that social has destroyed dating and peoples ability to connect. Swiping right and always looking for the next dopamine hit is the new addiction.
2:35 ain’t no way😭😭 the way the other guy just quickly agreed is so heartbreaking
“that other guy”
Bless y’all for exposing this!! Praying that God blessed y’all with more wisdom, and that people will be blessed by this 🫶🏽
Ryan, Noah, & Rob are speaking facts. 🔥🔥🔥
Rhino: FaceTimes ashley
Ashley: doesn’t pickup
Everyone else:😹😹😹😹😹
I was setting up my Grandma's phone the other day, the fact that Tiktok was labeled as an "Essential App" and the install was mandatory says enough.
I literally never took notice of this and this actually makes a lot of sense. It’s almost like standards are being raised because every person is constantly consuming the content of the top 10%
I love the input love listening to you guys speak your minds 💯
I like the point Ashley brought up about the over saturation of people, interesting concept
I agree 100%. I am a 15 year old male, that has deleted Instagram, Tiktok, Snapchat, and more. The only "Social Media" I have is RUclips, Twitch, and Discord. Living the happiest life I can right now.
Good for you. Tell your friends to do the same. I think all that stuff should he banned for high school and grade schools anyhow.
Don't do insta, don't do snap, don't do tiktok and i go outside
BFFR people
Life is better without the crazy socials
I thought I was the only one without social media. Good to know I’m not.
Yea I just deleted Tiktok last week after having it for 2 months. I only use Instagram and Snap to talk with friends in our group chat.
But being on those apps are TOXIC. Every Instagram meme page I was following started posted IG models that took pictures of their ass. I literally had to delete over 100 pages.
@@antviper135 yeah a lot of my friends actually in college don't really use TikTok now. I use it to post content only so people are surprised when I say I don't actually watch lol. Just a waste of time
@@skatergrl13 Fr shit is the biggest waste of time
This is such an eye opening video!!
I can't imagine being one of those guys who desperately wants a "baddie". Like absolutely, I want to be attracted to my partner and I want them to take care of themselves. But I don't need a model. I don't need this extra pressure of having someone who is overexposed in a literal and metaphorical sense. I just want a partner who I connect with on multiple levels that will be just as interested as I am in the relationship .
also usually those types of girls are actually really insecure and rely deeply on receiving validation from their instagram followers. I knew a guy who’s gf was nice but extremely obsessed with constantly posting pics wherever they went like she would make him retake her pic 36378348 times until she liked it. just exhausting
Wassup Ryan, Rob, Noah. Keep the streak going 🔥
7:42 fr we are being hustled, bamboozled, hood winked, and led astray. These filters crazy
I feel like they're not even baddies, there's for me a difference between hot and pretty, and its the pretty sweet ones that we should treasure, because the ones that cake their faces with makeup and flaunt on instagram probably aren't what you're looking for personality-wise
Stop speaking for everybody. Y’all will still obsess over baddies even while with someone who is not. The problem is you.
@@briannanicole5888 “stop speaking for everybody” bro read what u just said 💀💀
Love u guys. Haven't missed a single vid
Im reminded everyday i walk outside that baddies aint everywhere.
Even though I don’t see baddies, i do find a good about of normal looking girls cute and attractive.
Asking all the right questions in this vid... Good stuff 💯💯
Didn't expect y'all to react to it lol. But yeah Ashley has been blowing up with that one video for like the past month and the amount of guys who stitched that TikTok to talk about how fine she is, is jokes😂 But nah Ash if your somehow in the comments and just so happen to stumble upon my comment, I need you on my team :)
You guys are the best , straight facts
what did we do to deserve all these uploads
I love how this video directs us to her Instagram after telling us all these problems
Dang y’all always spitting fax on this channel!
we are too exposed to baddies 😆
0:30 been thinking about this for a while now. Speaking facts.
I had to disconnect fr. Lemme know how yall feel bout this. The dopamine high from looking at beautiful women is slick higher than what you get from smoking that gas sometimes. shii I can smoke and be like "ight, that's enough" but that Instagram high be "Ight, I can take another hit" and then its like every scroll onto another girl is another and another. Then when you finally either go and take care of yourself (ifykyk) or manage to stop scrolling, you just feel depressed from the come down.
Its worrying to see how bad things have gotten with social media, but its like from the perspective of this video and LLS knowing ashley. what is there to technically fix, because these are just other ppl at the end of the day, just looking good.
The first thing you see on tiktok being some girl either of age or underage shaking her assets is crazy. This happens if you just download the app aswell before you even make an account. Its been tested on a newly bought phone. something isn't right and almost feels like something is going on here, because years ago you would have like mothers against violent video games. Where the hell is that type of organization now. NOWHERE
amazing how all that shit they said about "China controlling us" is lowkey true😂
I wish I had friends like rhino rob and Noah 💯🙏🏽
To all the young dudes out there. It's easy to grasp their beauty. Here it goes: IT"S NOT REAL! When you see them comfortable or without makeup , you'll understand exactly what I'm talking about. Most of their "Beauty" has to be applied in the morning and it messes with their skin as they age. Don't put them on a pedestal. That would be the equivalent of calling someone smart who cheats on their tests.
I’m only 23 but I already uninstalled all social media. I only use RUclips through safari because it’s not as addictive as the app. All of these apps have an algorithm designed to hook you onto it. Social media has shattered people’s egos and the attractive people are to blame for seeking out validation and attention.
wdym, You control you, if an algorithm can hook you that easily, then maybe that ur fault
Same. I recently uninstalled RUclips after deleting TikTok cause I figured out the RUclips shorts algorithm is just as addictive as it is on TikTok.
Elizabeth C was the baddie of my highschool…..”Never meet your idols” type ish after getting to know her a bit more 😂😂😂😂