Stedman Graham on What Makes His Long Relationship with Oprah Work

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  • Опубликовано: 25 июл 2024
  • Stedman Graham sat down with Ellen to talk about his new book, "Identity Leadership: To Lead Others You Must First Lead Yourself," and revealed how he and Oprah make their long-lasting relationship work, and why she'd make a great president.
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  • @mam564
    @mam564 5 лет назад +365

    I've always admired how secure Stedman is with himself! Oprah found that "needle in a haystack" when she found him. Love them both!

    • @mam564
      @mam564 5 лет назад +1

      Typo - I meant secure rather than secured

    • @clip012
      @clip012 3 года назад

      @@mam564 u can click the 3 dots and click edit, to edit your typo.

    • @mam564
      @mam564 3 года назад

      clip012 👍👍👍

    • @michaeld.williamsiii9026
      @michaeld.williamsiii9026 3 года назад +2

      So well said I agree he’s certainly got a security within himself and he’s a handsome good looking man still till this day.💜

    • @blessingsbest6838
      @blessingsbest6838 3 года назад

      I agree!!! Looking for one myself.

  • @ChooseU4ever
    @ChooseU4ever 5 лет назад +563

    I can imagine the intellectual conversations at home between Stedman and Oprah. I love them both.

    • @camtonyray666
      @camtonyray666 3 года назад +4

      That's what I was thinking! This guy must be DEEP

    • @JonteTheArtist
      @JonteTheArtist 2 года назад +2

      They both seem to be really smart people. They both seem to fit each other well. To be with such a powerful woman, Stedman seems to have that same energy to be able to combine with such a powerful lady. He's very educated just like Oprah. ❤️

    • @stephanierodriguez7387
      @stephanierodriguez7387 2 года назад

      I wish I had that ♥️

  • @jenp27
    @jenp27 5 лет назад +80

    he let's his lady shine... confident in who he is and what he brings to the table

  • @jessicawade6363
    @jessicawade6363 5 лет назад +998

    I literally have never heard this man speak

  • @chante707
    @chante707 5 лет назад +338

    Well said, Stedman, in other words don’t allow people to write your life story

  • @oliviasullivan9418
    @oliviasullivan9418 5 лет назад +197

    I mean, come on people. If you're a real Oprah fan you'll know Stedman is an author, eloquent speaker, academic and great dancer. He's not a regular but he has made a few appearances on the show. He's also waltz with Oprah on the show. A world class citizen!

    • @meekashabazz6135
      @meekashabazz6135 4 года назад +2

      He’s also her hired boyfriend add that to his resume. She pays him good.

    • @Omo21000
      @Omo21000 4 года назад

      Boo Yah You’re also a hater, talking about other people under comments

    • @terrancesaunders23
      @terrancesaunders23 3 года назад

      Also holds a Law degree

  • @ew0711
    @ew0711 5 лет назад +54

    I just want to know if people get paid not to like RUclips videos 🤷🏽‍♀️, how could anyone not like this video? This man is very intelligent and well spoken.

  • @bernadettebailey5370
    @bernadettebailey5370 5 лет назад +53

    Nice. I'm 60 and just now starting out loving me, appreciating my talents, and sharing them, and most importantly, ignoring what others think. I know they don't know me at all

    • @phillipswatson3452
      @phillipswatson3452 5 лет назад +3

      Bernadette Bailey 😎
      SWEETIE....THE BEST GIFT YOU COULD GIVE YOURSELF... KNOWING YOUR SELFWORTH & SELFLOVE 💃💕🏃DO YOU
      "CHEERS"
      🍹🍹

    • @isisheggs8065
      @isisheggs8065 3 года назад +1

      You go girl!!!

  • @HouseMDaddict
    @HouseMDaddict 5 лет назад +472

    Stedman has basically always been the unofficial "first gentlemen"

    • @katiekoehlmoos6472
      @katiekoehlmoos6472 5 лет назад +13

      So true. What a class act too. Interesting he wrote about Identity leadership. At first I thought it would he about ego, but it was about self-actualization and he doesn't seem to he egoic at all. On the contrary, he comes across as self confident and humble. I'm impressed.

    • @meekashabazz6135
      @meekashabazz6135 4 года назад +2

      HouseMDaddict She pays him good to pretend he’s her man.

    • @meekashabazz6135
      @meekashabazz6135 4 года назад

      CC PX I can get a man I don’t have to rent a Stedman. 🥄🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @isisheggs8065
      @isisheggs8065 3 года назад +1

      YES, and it's so attractive!!!!!

    • @redrag0n_
      @redrag0n_ Год назад

      More like official "First Bichboi"

  • @cathleenmarie4338
    @cathleenmarie4338 5 лет назад +246

    No wonder Oprah loves him.
    Mr. Graham is super intelligent, a loyal partner, and Oprah’s true love.

    • @MyJOSE2013
      @MyJOSE2013 4 года назад

      and cool.she is lucky!

    • @darkmoon8400
      @darkmoon8400 3 года назад +1

      @@rmk7230
      🤣🤣😭😭

  • @randymccloud5743
    @randymccloud5743 5 лет назад +28

    The key to their relationship, is that they have each other's best interests at heart. Which is really the key to any good relationship...the other person wanting the best for YOU.

  • @Hollins23
    @Hollins23 5 лет назад +60

    I had the chance to meet Stedman once a few years ago. He was lovely, humble, polite, a real class act. I felt better about the world just knowing that there are people like him and Oprah in it.

    • @mielfromtherock7047
      @mielfromtherock7047 5 лет назад +3

      He seems great. I've heard the opposite about her from people who've worked with her.

  • @coachtouden
    @coachtouden 5 лет назад +179

    The definition of "smooth" is this guy right here. I will get this book. His concept for leadership is spot on!

  • @Beautiful_liar
    @Beautiful_liar 5 лет назад +218

    The way he talks maybe he should run for president

  • @Dreamweaver777
    @Dreamweaver777 5 лет назад +156

    What a handsome, articulate man.

    • @GeezSocial73
      @GeezSocial73 5 лет назад +4

      Lee Catalano of course he is. What else would he be?

    • @Nancy-wh3ji
      @Nancy-wh3ji 5 лет назад +5

      @@GeezSocial73 Articulate; a word used to describe a well spoken black person. How come you never hear "gee, that Harrison Ford, or Robert Deniro or Hugh Jackman sure is an articulate man?" Hmm...

    • @pearl8836
      @pearl8836 5 лет назад

      @@Nancy-wh3ji Possibly cause Hugh Jackman is the only articulate one of the three hahaha! Jk jk..

    • @aprilburmester
      @aprilburmester 5 лет назад

      @@Nancy-wh3ji i was thinking the same thing! Really!

    • @Dreamweaver777
      @Dreamweaver777 5 лет назад +1

      A recent comment I made about a Johnny Depp interview I thought you might enjoy:
      Highlighted comment
      Lee Catalano
      2 weeks ago
      Johnny Depp "I hear yah knockin but you can't come in." Ellen you ain't gettin nothing from him. Nope.

  • @kellyredman9216
    @kellyredman9216 5 лет назад +130

    Everyone should have a Stedman. He is fantastic.

    • @Pippa.G
      @Pippa.G 4 года назад +5

      I have a Stedman ☺️

  • @chiedu90069
    @chiedu90069 5 лет назад +211

    Omigod I can imagine Stedman and Oprah making vegetarian pasta and talking about self-actualization!

  • @likemeordont5951
    @likemeordont5951 5 лет назад +256

    Oprah’s so lucky! He is a great man. Always has been, always will be.

    • @latonyawilliams9117
      @latonyawilliams9117 5 лет назад +7

      Yasss!! She is he's very smart & intelligent they make a beautiful couple..😍

    • @phillipswatson3452
      @phillipswatson3452 5 лет назад +5

      Like Me Or Don’t 😎
      SWEETIE...BOTH ARE BLESSED TO HAVE MET 💃💕🏃

    • @likemeordont5951
      @likemeordont5951 5 лет назад +1

      Phillips Watson
      EXACTLY!!!!

    • @c.a.tmotivation
      @c.a.tmotivation 3 года назад

      Hey guys can y’all subscribe to my RUclips channel plz

  • @texasseastar
    @texasseastar 5 лет назад +83

    How do we all find a Steadman? What a great person!

    • @wordwords762
      @wordwords762 5 лет назад +1

      Have a sit Bree, sit down 😂😂😂

    • @wendyellis3738
      @wendyellis3738 5 лет назад +1

      Right he appears to be awsome

  • @brandimyers7238
    @brandimyers7238 5 лет назад +100

    I actually took a few things from this interview.

  • @CoachingHigher
    @CoachingHigher 5 лет назад +107

    First time I see him speaking! Lol
    Great guy.

  • @firecracker1782
    @firecracker1782 5 лет назад +60

    Oprah and stedman are relationship goals. Lifting and respecting each other.

  • @sandiw2364
    @sandiw2364 5 лет назад +83

    Very well spoken Stedman. Lovely to here from you. Your voice.

  • @motheoletsatle3810
    @motheoletsatle3810 5 лет назад +131

    Stedman looks like an older version of Will Smith in The Pursuit of Happyness.

  • @klaudiaarriera3604
    @klaudiaarriera3604 5 лет назад +25

    Oprah is very fortunate.
    Stedman is a great man. You know self confidence you have to have to be with someone like Oprah? The way he loves and speaks of her is inspiring♥️♥️

    • @phillipswatson3452
      @phillipswatson3452 5 лет назад

      Klaudia Arriera 😎
      SWEETIE....BOTH ARE BLESS TO HAVE EACH OTHER💃💕🏃

  • @tayloryasmine3036
    @tayloryasmine3036 5 лет назад +149

    He’s very wise and Oprah’s amazing they deserve each other❤️

  • @SonjaDawn
    @SonjaDawn 5 лет назад +131

    People also need to redefine what success is, because it has been distorted beyond reach.

    • @kaylawalker312
      @kaylawalker312 5 лет назад +1

      Sonja Dawn he is correct about “labels” and judgement

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 5 лет назад +1

      So true

    • @DebbiesHomemade
      @DebbiesHomemade 5 лет назад +1

      Success is how you define it for yourself. It's not going to be the same for everyone.

    • @SonjaDawn
      @SonjaDawn 4 года назад

      Debbies Homemade so true. But there are many who define it as one thing and it’s money....money is necessary, but not to the degree it is desired. Success to me is being one person, myself, nobody else. It’s the easiest way to be.

  • @suey8227
    @suey8227 5 лет назад +93

    A very intelligent individual - with lots of positive things to say - really enjoyed listening to him : )

  • @cccherry3133
    @cccherry3133 5 лет назад +43

    I cannot wait to read this book. So proud of Stedman and how he represents the Boro( Whitesboro). See you in August Mr. Stedman Graham👏👏👏👏

  • @AudreyHeadley
    @AudreyHeadley 5 лет назад +55

    Totally enjoy listening to Mr. Stedman

  • @ladawnwarren8570
    @ladawnwarren8570 5 лет назад +35

    Excellent book stedman! This would
    Be a great gift for a friend including
    myself. Yes! Creating your own
    Destiny we all can learn ❤️

  • @Teeyah2
    @Teeyah2 5 лет назад +32

    So refreshing to see Stedman being interviewed. I enjoyed every minute.

  • @wallysmithii117
    @wallysmithii117 5 лет назад +10

    Wow...Stedman G. Getting the book. To be honest, this is the first time I seen him doing an interview. I love that I'm learning me and being a better me every day. Moment to moment. Peace y'all

  • @anajimenez5372
    @anajimenez5372 5 лет назад +68

    How have I never heard him speak! Of course Oprah’s partner is an intelectual!! He’s such a manly man love them both!

  • @maddiem1564
    @maddiem1564 5 лет назад +40

    Stedman Is Such A Great Person, I Had The Privilege Of Meeting Him Last Month

  • @iisaabellaaaa
    @iisaabellaaaa 5 лет назад +52

    Ya’ll men better listen to him!!

    • @mtobrien1
      @mtobrien1 5 лет назад +3

      iisaabellaaaa, y'all women ought to get the wax out of your ears, too.

    • @aozorafreak
      @aozorafreak 5 лет назад +3

      And y'all women better listen to Oprah !!

  • @user-ko2tu3ss3o
    @user-ko2tu3ss3o 3 года назад +3

    WOW. Stedman got older, more handsome and is always so eloquent and respectful. Huge admiration.

  • @mzstacystacks3168
    @mzstacystacks3168 5 лет назад +133

    Ellen is hilarious 😂with throwing him under the bus about the store bought baked good

    • @Imani_AM
      @Imani_AM 5 лет назад +5

      I laughed too 😂 watching this on TV right now

    • @kw6724
      @kw6724 5 лет назад +1

      Ikr 😂😂😂

    • @cordon172
      @cordon172 4 года назад +1

      😂😂

  • @pb4531
    @pb4531 5 лет назад +9

    Amazing insight more Stedman please. Buying this book in the meantime

  • @maywash2604
    @maywash2604 5 лет назад +8

    It's funny how people are saying
    They've never heard this man speak. Google him he had a life
    Before Oprah together they are
    Phenomenal he has helped her
    Grow.

  • @algerienne8878
    @algerienne8878 5 лет назад +33

    This man so wise!

  • @commonsensecorner7275
    @commonsensecorner7275 5 лет назад +23

    I just told someone the other night, don’t put me in that category, you don’t know me! 🙅🏽‍♀️

  • @michaeld.williamsiii9026
    @michaeld.williamsiii9026 5 лет назад +9

    Pretty awesome interview!!! 😊🙌🏽💐

  • @princessjudahbahtisrael5082
    @princessjudahbahtisrael5082 5 лет назад +5

    I have never heard him talk this much. He said so many profound things in such a short amount of time.

  • @SimoneBeauty1234
    @SimoneBeauty1234 5 лет назад +37

    Wow I loved this interview!

  • @ray10b73
    @ray10b73 5 лет назад +86

    It's kinda cool how he just let's oprah shine.

    • @blue2day013
      @blue2day013 5 лет назад +8

      ..."let's" lol yup Oprah or any woman is just waiting around to be given permission...

    • @thehoneydeev
      @thehoneydeev 5 лет назад +5

      blue2day013 🤣 I had the same reaction, but I think Ray meant that Stedman supports Oprah in her shining 🤓. You still have a point though 😅

    • @TaylorM6668
      @TaylorM6668 5 лет назад

      ray10b73 he doesn’t “let her” 😂

    • @Justme-j6u
      @Justme-j6u 5 лет назад +5

      @@blue2day013 there are lots of men that would be jealous of their woman if she was like Oprah. I mean they don't want their wife or girlfriend to do better then them. They get jealous if they go to college etc

    • @tanbishop22
      @tanbishop22 5 лет назад +5

      True. I lot of men couldn't have a successful relationship with a woman of Oprah's caliber. They would feel like she's threatening their masculinity. So "let's" means to me she doesn't have to worry about her partner's identity and is able to focus on her on light while loving her partner for who he is. Steadman is a rare find.

  • @sstielia4089
    @sstielia4089 5 лет назад +42

    taking control of their own destiny... i love this.., and i will buy his book for my teen son.

    • @maamedansowaa1520
      @maamedansowaa1520 5 лет назад

      Less money for you...more money in Stedman's pocket 🙄

  • @sandraswift1158
    @sandraswift1158 3 года назад +1

    Reading the comments and thinking it's so difficult to please people... . Stedman sounds so genuine, down to earth, humble, relatable. Loved the interview though short ... So many lessons learnt here, I must read the boook..!! Well done

  • @AJsMOM4782
    @AJsMOM4782 5 лет назад +9

    Wow I must read this book... I love ❤️ this.

  • @boldandcourageous4176
    @boldandcourageous4176 5 лет назад +8

    This man is just a class act ! He is gracious ,accomplished, loving and humble ! A rare gem !

  • @mrmrmarcus6969
    @mrmrmarcus6969 5 лет назад +46

    What a handsome man!!!

  • @nabilaaliskandarani6609
    @nabilaaliskandarani6609 5 лет назад +14

    I'm totally in love with this man.

  • @paigewashington6018
    @paigewashington6018 5 лет назад +66

    So he Wasn't just a pretty face. Great ideas

  • @jettigger8385
    @jettigger8385 5 лет назад +7

    Amazing book. I’m definitely gonna get it

  • @jessicac_k268
    @jessicac_k268 5 лет назад +2

    Fifties & sixties generations are the great mentors for us. My mother, Oprah, Stedman.... They have the real wisdom for live!

  • @oppsendless3814
    @oppsendless3814 5 лет назад +89

    He sounds like a professor.

    • @landonfise8321
      @landonfise8321 5 лет назад +9

      Looks like one too 😩

    • @FreakieFan
      @FreakieFan 5 лет назад +10

      @@landonfise8321 Lol, he's been a teacher all of his life.

    • @maxinec1616
      @maxinec1616 5 лет назад +8

      He has been a professor for quite a while.

  • @user-zh2vg5ko8z
    @user-zh2vg5ko8z 5 лет назад +34

    You dont see a black man with mustash very often and stedmen does it well❤

  • @yvette8581
    @yvette8581 5 лет назад +1

    If you can read this message Ellen I just want you to know that I love watching your show I enjoy every single time sometimes you make me smile and sometimes you make me cry! I think you’re such a lovely person. I am going through a lot and the only thing that can keep me from thinking about what I’m going through is your show. God bless you!

  • @mommabear8260
    @mommabear8260 5 лет назад +17

    Very rare to hear from him...it's wonderful!

  • @Elleylaluna
    @Elleylaluna 5 лет назад +5

    Take care of yourself. Health, Love, Evolve.

  • @missondo4887
    @missondo4887 5 лет назад +6

    The process of success is the same you either know it or you don’t 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @anniekerpels
    @anniekerpels 5 лет назад +15

    This is the firts time ever that i see Oprah her man 😂 what a gentlemen he is!

  • @MaryBlanche
    @MaryBlanche 5 лет назад +2

    I could listen to SG all day! ❤️

  • @adrenna1973
    @adrenna1973 3 года назад +3

    Always had mad respect for him. They did what was best for them. Two individuals doing their own thing, but supporting one another the whole way.

  • @emilyw530
    @emilyw530 5 лет назад +1

    An interview with Stedman, wow!!

  • @shahbanomalik7802
    @shahbanomalik7802 5 лет назад +8

    Imagine the conversations Stedman and Oprah have at home. This is what happens when two geniuses meet.

  • @princepeterwolf
    @princepeterwolf 5 лет назад +7

    Great man

  • @pb4531
    @pb4531 5 лет назад +13

    Self actualise my new fav word

  • @mariasobey1107
    @mariasobey1107 3 года назад +1

    Seldom you find a man who is confident with himself and not threaten with his partner’s success! Very commendable. A very secure man in his own right and talents. 👍🏻👍🏻

  • @HotDonutHairBun
    @HotDonutHairBun 3 года назад +1

    Such an amazing message and words! What a mighty good man x

  • @yolamdakelly5069
    @yolamdakelly5069 5 лет назад +1

    WORDS OF WISDOM, Mr. Stedman.
    Love your amazing hair. Love a man
    with white, grey, or salt and pepper
    hair, makes them look intelligent, smart amd handsome, I know that's not always the case. You look like an Sag man, and Oprah's is a Aquarius woman, you two are made for each other, that's God doing. All these years together after twenty plus is so beautiful. Thank you for being there for Oprah and giving her support. God bless you two with many more years together. Thanks Ellen.

  • @allcreatedbyonegoodgod.156
    @allcreatedbyonegoodgod.156 5 лет назад +6

    *MAN.* 😍 Yaaas, Stedman. 🤩😍🤩😍

  • @zitatoro4738
    @zitatoro4738 5 лет назад +2

    Wow. Always knew or felt this way for success in your self but can't explain, Understand it, or even know how to apply it to my life, to take charge. Wish I could read his book....

  • @lealexyaine9008
    @lealexyaine9008 5 лет назад +8

    I have been waiting for this day......like the way am waiting to see Ellen the goddess.

  • @tracylilian6520
    @tracylilian6520 5 лет назад +8

    Soft spoken man.with a brilliant mind

  • @nixonightxy585
    @nixonightxy585 5 лет назад +16

    First time I see stedman I heard about him through Dave Chappell 😅

  • @AkilahsWorld
    @AkilahsWorld 5 лет назад +40

    Can u imagine if they would have procreated? Genius plus genius equals baby genius. Oh well. Love Oprah and stedman.

  • @JJ-yu6og
    @JJ-yu6og 5 лет назад +8

    Now, this is a real man!!!

  • @wendyalvarez9334
    @wendyalvarez9334 3 года назад +1

    Organize a vision that is better than your circumstances... ❣🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @jillsmith813
    @jillsmith813 5 лет назад +1

    Very interesting and I like what he has to say. Thanks Ellen. B

  • @Probity100
    @Probity100 5 лет назад +3

    Dignified gentleman, very humble

  • @theusersam
    @theusersam 5 лет назад +1

    WOW, LOVE!

  • @amt4381
    @amt4381 5 лет назад +20

    First on video for first time🤘🏻❤️

  • @eftixismeni2010
    @eftixismeni2010 3 года назад +2

    I like him. He’s had a spiritual awakening. This is basically what he is describing. It teaches you this way. Taking back your power.

  • @reynadeluz1725
    @reynadeluz1725 3 года назад +2

    I never read any of his books but now going to take a look. He really loves and respects Oprah. ❤

  • @MrJbee1982
    @MrJbee1982 7 месяцев назад

    Wow, so wel spoken.

  • @veronicaja9085
    @veronicaja9085 5 лет назад

    Good interview

  • @cherylsibson8457
    @cherylsibson8457 5 лет назад +1

    I believe that's the first time I have heard a man speak on uplifting his partner, fabulous for them they can have that, I wish them well!

  • @storytimewithkingnyatimash1231
    @storytimewithkingnyatimash1231 5 лет назад

    Going to buy one

  • @DebbiesHomemade
    @DebbiesHomemade 5 лет назад +1

    I must get a copy of that book

  • @vuyon5317
    @vuyon5317 3 года назад +1

    Wow...he's really insightful

  • @jackie6189
    @jackie6189 5 лет назад +3

    Very Handsome and well spoken!!!

  • @freidakane8935
    @freidakane8935 5 лет назад +1

    They great together. .💜💟

  • @kallybloome
    @kallybloome 3 года назад +1

    That book sounds AWESOME! 👏🏽

  • @debrathompson6951
    @debrathompson6951 5 лет назад +1

    I can see the connection 😱

  • @DGrassE
    @DGrassE 5 лет назад +2

    Wow this is my first time hearing him

  • @kimberlyray3687
    @kimberlyray3687 5 лет назад

    I want and need this book

  • @marvelmaxx487
    @marvelmaxx487 5 лет назад

    Wow great knowledge..

  • @cougarlady112
    @cougarlady112 5 лет назад +6

    Stedman Graham is amazing! His support of Oprah through her development of the OWN Network, when many called it a failure, shows the depth of love he has for her. Can we just clone him??

  • @AGAZAH
    @AGAZAH 3 года назад +1

    StedMan is a true Man! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼