Crossbody bags are always a MUST for all of us urban living folks! 😂 I’m just way too afraid of having someone run by and snatch my bag from my hand or off my shoulder or just leaving it somewhere by accident amongst all the hustle and bustle.
We were told that skinny jeans were out last year, but women refused to stop wearing them. It will be the same this year with crossbody bags. They are practical and comfortable. We wear what we want to wear. Designers and fashion reporters need to check with us before they declare something as a dying trend.
We don't need them to check with us we need to just wear what suits us and stop expecting others of the same. Compliment your friends on who they are not what they wear.
i live in a colder climate and the hating on skinny jeans has puzzled me. i often wear high boots and i couldn’t figure out what to wear them with besides a skirt which isn’t going to happen when it’s snowing and 10 below. i think shoes make or break a look and wearing the right shoes is everything and when it comes to skinny jeans high boots are the perfect combination.
Do you use them in fall and winter? I find that skinny jeans in Norway are too cold in fall and winter. They are too tight and thin to keep any heat, so I’m only using skinny jeans in spring, summer and early fall, but i would love to wear them in colder weather as well
@Ingrid-fk7sp I wear my skinny jeans and leggings in the coldest winters. One must wear the new types of long johns under them. So thin, no one can detect them under the tightest jeans or leggings, and remarkably warm. Warmer than my old silk ones! Look on line for them.
Function will always win over fashion. I will forever wear a crossbody! 😁 I love the trendy purse styles, but if it's not hands free, I won't even consider it.
Yall can pry my crossbody bags from my cold dead….well, not hands. Because hands free. Seriously I had no idea this was a trend. I’ve been exclusively wearing crossbody bags for so many years. I have back issues and these are the most comfortable.
Being hands free is a lifestyle choice more than a fashion choice for me. Cross body bags are practical for people on the go. I will use a clutch for dressy events- where I mostly seated such as a dinner or symphony concert.
I had a purse stolen when I was 20, I will never wear handheld ones again. I’m 63 and love crossbody bags. I also wear my skinny jeans when I feel like it. It’s about comfort and safety for me.
Anne of Green Gables girl here. I read all the books as a young girl, loved the movies and even travelled to the Green Gables house on Prince Edward Island.
Mixed metals have been in for decades. David Yurman, Bill Blass, Scott Kay, Judith Ripka have ALL mixed metals in their designs. My stylish Mom mixed metals in the 1950's.
Love your hair long, so sick of people saying you have to cut your hair after a certain age, if you don’t like it cut your own hair, if anything that ages you.
OMG wgat is with women over 50 getting the man haircut? If anything as women age they need some softness around their face. At times I see people that the only way I can tell they are a woman is by looking at their chest (not to sound creepy). Just because one is older, don't give up, and let yourself go!❤
Interesting, what you have said about luxury brands. You are not the only "influencer" saying it. People are very tired of the high prices and sometimes low quality of these products, where the expense is due to their branding and not the quality of the product. Who doesn't want a Chanel tweed? But can you get something as attractive in a high quality that is less expensive?
Yes, no one is going to turn down a Chanel tweed😂 that’s one thing that I was trying to articulate, in some cases, quality is not what we are thinking it is anymore, which upset many about Dior, as a most recent example. Van cleef has also diminished their packaging in the name of sustainability, however, arguably, the previous package was more sustainable because it was easier to preserve and keep forever vs the current cheaper packaging.
Balenciaga is at the top of disgusting brands for me..... I agree with you about becoming disillusioned and seeing the truth of many luxury brands. I absolutely loved this video and your commentary!
If you buy from Balenciaga, you support their platform. After that disastrous, disgusting ad using children in a sexual way I will never purchase from them.
I love your beautiful, long hair. I am so sick & tired of those who say that middle aged women cannot have long hair. I do not feel or look feminine with shorter hair,
@@ZibaLennox I travel quite a bit so I like the travelon crossbody with locking zippers. Not a fashion statement, but I’ve never felt out of place with it anywhere. Never have been a luxury bag girl ever though…🤷🏽♀️
As the title said, fashion TRENDS. They're only trends, next year it will be different again. Thats why I don't follow trends. Wear what you want. Its not sustainable to follow then unfollow trends.
I’m definitely an Ann of Green Gables girl. I watched the new version of it, but it did not come close to the original. I love puff sleeves! I honestly like to wear what I like. I love fashion, but will wear what I feel looks good and feels comfortable on me. Great video.
Omg, I watched the new one too! I’m glad they made it because it made me want to watch the old one badly but couldn’t find it anywhere! Dressing for what suits you and gives you confidence is everything! Many times we’re made into fashion victims because there’s so much marketing spend that eventually it convinces us we need it. Kind of like when you keep hearing a song on radio until you like it!😂 Thanks so much for the feedback😊
I am such an Anne of Green Gables video person. Whenever I felt sad or down, I would put in the video and watch it and I found her so inspirational and real. I learned a lot from that movie/series.
There's a tanner on RUclips who destroys luxury bags and reveals how cheaply many are made. He says the expensive prices help to pay monthly rent for the company's brick and mortar stores.
I really appreciate your realistic approach to fashion and how you acknowledge that we still have our old stuff and it's okay to use it. I would do my own thing anyway, but it's really nice to see someone who advocates for that. I've seen videos where the person is talking about the fashion that is going out-of-style with derision, like it's a disease now and you must stay away from wearing it at all costs, or they imply that you're a loser if you keep wearing the item. Really annoying. Most of us can't just throw away our current wardrobe every time the fashion houses decide to change fashion. Your delivery is so pleasant, too. New subscriber here.
I really appreciate that!! Thank you for your feedback, means a lot. It’s top of mind for me that not everyone gets gifted clothes and/or paid to style them. I try to lead with that intention as well as think about what would make some feel pretty! Welcome ❤️
So I just had to tell you that I also am a lifelong Anna of Green Gables fan, and I even played Diana in the school play in the seventh grade. Lol! I just found your channel and really enjoyed this video. What you said about not seeking out designer bags anymore really resonated with me I used to buy at least 1 to 2 high-end bags per year for many many years and now I’m not really on the lookout. If something finds me it does and if not, oh well. I’ve never been one to fall heavily for trends, so what I buy is either pretty classic or just something that is consistently “me” like bows. Anyway, great video!
Oh I love this! Thanks for sharing your love of Anne, and how fun to be on stage playing Diana, iconic! After a while you just feel played, appreciate you saying hi😂
Crossbody bags are a classic style that NEVER goes out of fashion. It is a MUST HAVE staple let the top handle bags come in but it is we the consumers that will dictate what is out and what is a must have I say! Same to kitten heels. As for puffed sleeves I agree whip them out when you feel like it, they add a bit of drama to ho hum sleeves. :D
Hey! Yes, as I mentioned, it’s a silhouette and overall trend of more top handles, shoulder bag and clutches being offered. Many bags have a strap to convert😊 Most things have momentum and the ebb and flow, but to some that’s the fun part to rediscover pieces in our closets or styles to shop!
@@ZibaLennox Yep, crossbody's have never gone out of style seem they have been on trend since I was in Jr high. High school top handles were in but every one included a strap. Kitten heels are as much a staple as loafers and ballerina flats. The toes and heel shape changes the structure does not. Personally I tend not to follow trends but follow classic lines you can just grab and go.
Yes. “Designer” anything is tired. Being snubbed by salespeople. Overpaying by THOUSANDS of dollars! I understand the draw of high fashion high visibility. I don’t like the price. The prices are ludicrous! there are so many really gorgeous bags and clothes now that are easily found online that are more appealing at the moment.
Love this video. Your on point with luxury, just went to Paris and purchased from LV, honestly the whole buying experience has even lost it’s excitement and regret giving them my money!
I don’t remember who said it but someone famous said ( and I agree) “Trends are for the anxious.” My mother gave me good advice when I was young, She said wear what flatters you and what makes you feel good. Wear the clothes- don’t let the clothes wear you. I haven’t forgotten and am always comfortable in what I wear, never even think about it.
I don’t usually follow fashion channels but I am following yours because you are not driving purchases you are focusing how to incorporate pieces and just stay updated!
I appreciate that so much! Means a lot❤️ I love shopping TBH esp for key seasonal pieces but I believe in being creative to pull looks together. Thanks for saying hi😊
I think there's a lot to be said for supporting your local leatherworkers and small fashion businesses. You can find some lovely, well-made, well-designed bags, belts, wallets, and so forth at art/craft fairs, horse shows, and other events where craftspeople sell their wares. Their booths always smell wonderful, too.
I'm just not a "cool" girl. I will continue to use my cross body bags. I love them and they are so convenient! I just bought a gorgeous leather bag in the Czech Republic when I was in Europe last month. It has a removable strap but it's a crossbody. I plan on using it a lot this fall.
Thanks for the great video. It got me thinking about practicality v. trends a bit, too. Living in a high crime urban center where you walk a lot or take public transit carrying all kinds of things v. driving everywhere from your safe garage to a safe parking place near your destination means cross body bags will always be papular in those contexts. This also drives shoe choices so I’m thrilled to see heels are out so I can look trendy and be practical!
I'm a Megan Follows Green Gables girl!!! My favorite movie of all time. I like puffed sleeves but can do big ones I'm a small person:) Love your take on the trends!!
I am not even goona lie puff sleeves till I die. Because “Marilla look at the puffs!” 😆I’m sorry I couldn’t resist giving an Anne of Green Gables quote.❤
@@ZibaLennox Me too! “You look ridiculous you will have to turn sideways to get through the door.” 😆It’s amazing the things you remember and the things you don’t.
So happy that ripped jeans are out never have or will buy a pair. Also happy to see the end of name brand cross body bags or camera bags go, if I see another Mimco or country road bag 🤪. Understated has always been my style never followed free advertising for companies. Your whole blog resonates with me 🙏 dirty sneakers 🙈 why
I'm so glad you commented on Luxury. You hit every single nail on the head!👍 They've cut back on not only the contents but the luxury part of the presentation along with customer service. And with any findings of shenanigans or dirty deeds of the history/current doings business-wise...it doesn't seem so impressive or special. I totally agree with you. So what are they doing? What am I doing?? I look for quality and what I like. I never liked brand names splattered across anything anyway!
Absolutely!! And thanks for the feedback. 😊 I think the customer service is spotty too. Sometimes they make you feel like you don’t belong there and it’s not a good feeling!
It seems to me that fashion totally ignores needs. We now can wear big soft comfortable shoes, practical and necessary hands free cross body bags and clothing that doesn’t drape along dirty pavements and hang wet around your ankles and they are becoming ‘old hat’. What nonsense is that! The world is dangerous, we need all the help we can get.
Crossbody bags will be in my closet forever. LOL Having to constantly push the strap back up on my shoulder, or needing to have one hand occupied by holding a bag is not happening for me. I need freedom of movement when I am out and about. I take the IG & Pinterest photos with a grain of salt, as they are posed photos and not how those ladies are in real life.
I love crossbody bags with removable or convertible straps. Makes them so much more versatile. I recently purchased a crossbody, but after playing with it at home and realizing there was no way to convert, remove, or even hide the long strap, I returned it.
As I am currently recovering from foot surgery, I bought some very similar to GG (chunky with a glitter star), I think I gotta keep them because no kitten heels will be happening here
Trends are fun as long as they're not treated as divine edicts. I prefer to think of them (when I think of them at all) as an invitation to try something new, rather than an order to abandon things I love that may not be this year's "it" look. As far as I'm concerned, as long as you combine the elements of an outfit carefully, there are very few individual items that are so far out of fashion as to be unwearable (and on the rare occasions that does happen, it's generally something so horrifically ugly we must all have been insane to buy it in the first place!)
I just can't mix metals. I know it is in, but it looks weird to me. I love my crossbodies and I don't care if they are in or out, I'll keep using mine. They are comfier and safer. I can do a shoulder bag too but a clutch or top handle, no. Too much work to carry a bag and worry about setting it down somewhere and losing it. I like puffed sleeves too, not big ones but little ones. I also like flutter sleeves. Both are flattering for pear shapes.
Bags are very situation specific. Although the crossbody maybe less trendy across the board, it comes down to when and where you wear it. Great video! ❤
As a very petite woman, I'm so glad to see the end of some of these trends, which are even less flattering on petites than they are on larger women (looking at you, huge pants and huge sleeves).
When you are petite (5'2" & 100 # when I was 20) you need to learn what suits your figure, and not what is 'in style'. And it gets even more important as you age and it isn't as easy to maintain that low weight.
Hi there!! I’m new to your channel as of today and I love your style!! This was a very interesting video that I agree with you totally!!! Anne of green gables, oh yes love it!!! Cheers and love from Canada 🇨🇦
kislux You are so well-informed about luxury accessories and bags. You've obviously done your due diligence and the comparison to the US is very informative...because of course, I live in New York. thank you very much.
haha! Everyone has one, literally don't know many people that don't have one. I think it's a symbol of being in "club", which I think as humans we crave that sense of belonging. Coach was very in when I was growing up in the 90's! I begged my parents for one and they simply said "no". LOL
All the LV hate is valid, but I spent my career in Asia as a buyer, it just brings me nostalgia. For my honeymoon I splurged on a 24" carry-on. Buying at the LV boutique in Hong Kong saved a lot of duty $$ . My son brought the bag to college to the hoots of his frat, calling him "bougie boy", grown boys are so funny... and I still get some moments from LV.
haha, I'm still about to sew myself a puffy shirt with Liberty fabric. I know it's not the most current look but I love Liberty. 🌺 And yeah, I have been known to make the fashion flubber of looking too costumey . Little House on the Prairie reboot, here I come. 😁
With Democrat soft-on-crime policies, I don’t feel safe carrying any bag except for a cross-body that I can keep close to my body. That’s just reality.
I remodel my clothes when they are out of fashion. I just changed a favourite jacket with somewhat oversized shoulders to standard shoulders. Looks so much better too. Should have don this a long time ago. Also changed a ma I dress with shoe string straps. Made it below the knee and used the It off piece to create wider straps, then put two rows of elastic for a fitted high waited look. Friends thought I bought a new dress. There are a ton of ways to refashion clothes.
Clutches are a big no for me. They need a little handle or loop so I can hold a drink or get appetizers during cocktail hour. That’s the thing about handbags- they need to be practical as well as pretty.
Thank you for this engaging video. Can you make a video about trends in relation to minimalism and being encouraged to buy quality? What do we do with the "bought to last" items when trends change every 3 - 6 months?
Thanks for your feedback! I've been thinking about this a lot. It can be overwhelming but we don't have to jump on everything we see. I love dresing in a classic way regardless of what "filter" we put on it, for example I just did this video on IG to try to start to highlight how one base outfit can go in so many different directions instagram.com/p/C-0t26fSpOa/ ❤
Loved that show wish there was more of it. I think others look good in puff sleeves but on me i would look ridiculous and make my arms look fatter than they already are
I have never worn any bag for fashion reasons: practicality is what matters. A crossbody may spoil the line of a good suit or frock, say, but I need one most of the time.
I have mixed my metals in jewellery before it was fashionable. I have worn silver charms on gold chains and even worn gold and silver earrings at the same time. I have a few pairs of jeans I got from a little shop in the Uk called Be You where they carry clothes made in Italy. I got a few pairs of what they call cocoon jeans. They are loose in the leg and get a bit narrower at the ankle. In high school I had a wing tip collard blouse with leg-of-mutton sleeves on it that my mum made me. I wish I had those blouses still.
It’s funny how these things happen. Until last year I only wore my large tote bag and at a certain point I started to feel “outdated” coz everyone was wearing crossbody bags. I’d either wear my tote or a backpack, but then I decided to get myself a crossbody and loved it! I’ve been wearing it daily for almost a year now and not sure I want to switch again.
I think tiny tiny case for credit card phone cross body and tote on shoulder for tissues fan lipstick etc no valuable s perfect for day out in the city
Still love the crossbody due to functionality of it, still wearing the chunky dad sneakers because i need it for my commute to work (living in one of the largest metropolitan city), and also still love the puff sleeves but thats because it kind of reminds me of my ethnic background culture which is called "Filipiniana" but all good points!
Oh I love that! Things that remind us of our culture are so special! What type of chunky sneakers have you found to be comfortable? For me, they’re usually so clunky it tires my feet!
@@ZibaLennoxTbh, the new balance wasn't it for me. I go for Hokas! Hokas are so comfy and my friend who is an Occupational Therapist and my podiatrists love Hokas for their patients!
Good quality, well- made anything is always appreciated. Paying more for this is understandable. 'You get what you pay for' ...right? Yet when the cost exceeds the quality is when I have to opt out.
I love a crossbody bag. Especially when traveling because it's more secure and I don't really follow trends. I wear what I like whenever I like, fragrances included😉✌🏽💕
I have always liked a shoulder bag or one I hang on my arm, a clutch for going out to dinner/evening, etc.... and only recently got 2 cross body bags...I don't know why I haven't had them all my life!!! So handy, but they're small, so I still need my big shoulder bag for all the crap I have to take everywhere!!😊😊😂
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Yes, I am 100% an Anne of Green Gables girl! I have never understood following trends. I wear whatever I like and I have always done so. I feel free. Trends stress me out;)
There are beautiful, high quality bags that don’t have the crazy price or flashy label. I love Oroton, which is an iconic Australian brand. Their quality is excellent but the styles are understated (more quiet luxury). I hit the outlet online and do super well. A bag has to be functional for me, first and foremost.
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Your black v-neck blouse, can't find on your LTK. Very pretty!
Can't live without my crossover bags. I like to have my hands free. 😊
Hands free is a blessing😂 and basically a necessity for mom life or if you’re a commuter.
And they are so much safer for travel. Who cares if not in - holding something with hand is just a no.
Absolutely not a dead trend yet!
@@dde716- I am thinking it’s transcending being a trend and on its way to classic style.
Also perfect for traveling
Cross body bags are not a trend, they're necessary
Many times they are!
100% agree
AGREE 😊
Agree!!
Said anyone with a dog....or a kid....or in my case (NYC) does not want to look like an easy target. well, damn
Crossbody bags are always a MUST for all of us urban living folks! 😂 I’m just way too afraid of having someone run by and snatch my bag from my hand or off my shoulder or just leaving it somewhere by accident amongst all the hustle and bustle.
Crossbody is a must for daily subway communte
Exactly
We were told that skinny jeans were out last year, but women refused to stop wearing them. It will be the same this year with crossbody bags. They are practical and comfortable. We wear what we want to wear. Designers and fashion reporters need to check with us before they declare something as a dying trend.
I never stopped wearing skinny jeans either Karen!
Loveeee skinnys
@@joannanangle4876me too😊
We don't need them to check with us we need to just wear what suits us and stop expecting others of the same. Compliment your friends on who they are not what they wear.
What if we all just wear what we like regardless of what the “experts” say is in fashion?!
Let’s make a fashion revolution! 🎉
Bag style is about lifestyle. I can’t imagine using a clutch or a handheld bag fpr a mom with young kids.
As I mentioned it’s a pretty silhouette for occasion dressing 😊
Mom of a 2yo toddler, totally agree with you
So true!
I don't think crossbody bags will ever die! They are functional when traveling!
I love my skinny jeans, I'll never give them up
I do too! As seen here 😊ruclips.net/video/RbZww1LByko/видео.htmlsi=di2vsLPHvYn0lu15
i live in a colder climate and the hating on skinny jeans has puzzled me. i often wear high boots and i couldn’t figure out what to wear them with besides a skirt which isn’t going to happen when it’s snowing and 10 below. i think shoes make or break a look and wearing the right shoes is everything and when it comes to skinny jeans high boots are the perfect combination.
I love that combo too!!
Skinnys yesssss
Do you use them in fall and winter? I find that skinny jeans in Norway are too cold in fall and winter. They are too tight and thin to keep any heat, so I’m only using skinny jeans in spring, summer and early fall, but i would love to wear them in colder weather as well
If you live in NY, a crossbody is a must. Not getting mugged for anyone 😂 also, it has always been cool to wear one 😎
@Ingrid-fk7sp I wear my skinny jeans and leggings in the coldest winters. One must wear the new types of long johns under them. So thin, no one can detect them under the tightest jeans or leggings, and remarkably warm. Warmer than my old silk ones! Look on line for them.
Function will always win over fashion. I will forever wear a crossbody! 😁 I love the trendy purse styles, but if it's not hands free, I won't even consider it.
I totally agree! I don’t mind holding my bag like a clutch but a straight up clutch is hard to rationalize!
Yall can pry my crossbody bags from my cold dead….well, not hands. Because hands free. Seriously I had no idea this was a trend. I’ve been exclusively wearing crossbody bags for so many years. I have back issues and these are the most comfortable.
Being hands free is a lifestyle choice more than a fashion choice for me. Cross body bags are practical for people on the go. I will use a clutch for dressy events- where I mostly seated such as a dinner or symphony concert.
Yes, love clutches for those kind of events that are elegant and more sedentary!
Yes! The activity you have planned for the day dictates the type of bag you need, and not some clueless designer.
I had a purse stolen when I was 20, I will never wear handheld ones again. I’m 63 and love crossbody bags. I also wear my skinny jeans when I feel like it. It’s about comfort and safety for me.
Anne of Green Gables girl here. I read all the books as a young girl, loved the movies and even travelled to the Green Gables house on Prince Edward Island.
I have always wanted to do that!
Crossbody bags are not a trend. They are practical and versatile.
Yeah. Especially when it's cold out. If anyone wants to freeze their hands, they can.
Agree! I will sit down and lose a clutch bag!!
Mixed metals have been in for decades. David Yurman, Bill Blass, Scott Kay, Judith Ripka have ALL mixed metals in their designs. My stylish Mom mixed metals in the 1950's.
Oh how fabulous to have a glam mom (I do too)! I agree that many jewelers have done this a long time but it seems many stick to one in recent years!
Love your hair long, so sick of people saying you have to cut your hair after a certain age, if you don’t like it cut your own hair, if anything that ages you.
Thanks Cheryl!! Aging on our in terms is something we should be able to do at the very least!
OMG wgat is with women over 50 getting the man haircut? If anything as women age they need some softness around their face. At times I see people that the only way I can tell they are a woman is by looking at their chest (not to sound creepy). Just because one is older, don't give up, and let yourself go!❤
very short hair only makes the stylists rich, every five weeks! looks good with the longer hair at any age and you can always wear it up, too!
@@alomaalber6514 haha! Great point, thank you!
Nope.
Im 60 n i love my leggins,but i wear with Chunky shirts,so comfortable,i dont think ever will be out of style.😊
What’s important is that you feel good in what you wear!
The only thing that should be out of style with skinny jeans..is men trying to wear them😂😂😂
Interesting, what you have said about luxury brands. You are not the only "influencer" saying it. People are very tired of the high prices and sometimes low quality of these products, where the expense is due to their branding and not the quality of the product. Who doesn't want a Chanel tweed? But can you get something as attractive in a high quality that is less expensive?
Yes, no one is going to turn down a Chanel tweed😂 that’s one thing that I was trying to articulate, in some cases, quality is not what we are thinking it is anymore, which upset many about Dior, as a most recent example. Van cleef has also diminished their packaging in the name of sustainability, however, arguably, the previous package was more sustainable because it was easier to preserve and keep forever vs the current cheaper packaging.
Balenciaga is at the top of disgusting brands for me..... I agree with you about becoming disillusioned and seeing the truth of many luxury brands. I absolutely loved this video and your commentary!
Thanks so much for your feedback! Yes, it was deeply disturbing ❤️ are there any luxury brands you are loving?
If you buy from Balenciaga, you support their platform. After that disastrous, disgusting ad using children in a sexual way I will never purchase from them.
@@kathleenem9207 agreed and same! I did like the brand but I would never...
Love Anne of Green Gables!! I’m a 48 year old redhead so when the movie came out it helped me accept and eventually love my red hair.
Omg! I love that, I’m 45 and for me it helped me accept my ridiculous over romanticizing everything in life 🤗 it made me WANT redder hair😂
Same!! ❤️
Crossbody bags will never go out of style. They've just too functional!
Most bags have a crossbody option!
I love your beautiful, long hair. I am so sick & tired of those who say that middle aged women cannot have long hair. I do not feel or look feminine with shorter hair,
Thanks so much for your kind words! 🙏 that’s really sweet! My hair grows fast and it’s hard to keep up with haircuts. 😊
Nope.
I can’t imagine not having a Crossbody bag anymore. I don’t wear mine for fashion anyway.
What is your favorite crossbody?
@@ZibaLennox I travel quite a bit so I like the travelon crossbody with locking zippers. Not a fashion statement, but I’ve never felt out of place with it anywhere. Never have been a luxury bag girl ever though…🤷🏽♀️
@Ziba...at the moment, my black, smooth, oiled leather Coach. I bought it back in the early 2000's and it still looks brand new.
As the title said, fashion TRENDS. They're only trends, next year it will be different again. Thats why I don't follow trends. Wear what you want. Its not sustainable to follow then unfollow trends.
A lot of times, it’s about shopping your closet since trends are cyclical!
So true!
When you misplayce your purse as often as me cross body bags are security. Wide leg pants look like hell except on stick figures.
What is your preferred pants silhouette, straight leg?
@@ZibaLennox. Yes! Straight leg. Wide legs are not flattering, wide leg crops are even worse.
You are so right wide leg unless tall skinny. Helloooooo umper lumper
I’m definitely an Ann of Green Gables girl. I watched the new version of it, but it did not come close to the original. I love puff sleeves! I honestly like to wear what I like. I love fashion, but will wear what I feel looks good and feels comfortable on me. Great video.
Omg, I watched the new one too! I’m glad they made it because it made me want to watch the old one badly but couldn’t find it anywhere! Dressing for what suits you and gives you confidence is everything! Many times we’re made into fashion victims because there’s so much marketing spend that eventually it convinces us we need it. Kind of like when you keep hearing a song on radio until you like it!😂 Thanks so much for the feedback😊
Crossbody bags are for safety. Harder for the bad guys to take from you than a clutch or shoulder bag.
Ugh so sad we have to think like this. I’ve had friends that are robbed even with cross bodies, very scary.
I am such an Anne of Green Gables video person. Whenever I felt sad or down, I would put in the video and watch it and I found her so inspirational and real. I learned a lot from that movie/series.
Me too! Such comfort and understanding of our feminine hearts 🥰
I love you so much! I recently just found your kislux and i’m in love!! Your videos are so fun and you energy is just MWAH! keep living your life
There's a tanner on RUclips who destroys luxury bags and reveals how cheaply many are made. He says the expensive prices help to pay monthly rent for the company's brick and mortar stores.
Wow! Need to find him!
You can tell when shopping them used -they’re all tore-up from the floor-up, no matter how high-end/name-brand/expensive they are.
Those balenciaga sneakers are so ugly.
Yes
I really appreciate your realistic approach to fashion and how you acknowledge that we still have our old stuff and it's okay to use it. I would do my own thing anyway, but it's really nice to see someone who advocates for that. I've seen videos where the person is talking about the fashion that is going out-of-style with derision, like it's a disease now and you must stay away from wearing it at all costs, or they imply that you're a loser if you keep wearing the item. Really annoying. Most of us can't just throw away our current wardrobe every time the fashion houses decide to change fashion. Your delivery is so pleasant, too. New subscriber here.
I really appreciate that!! Thank you for your feedback, means a lot. It’s top of mind for me that not everyone gets gifted clothes and/or paid to style them. I try to lead with that intention as well as think about what would make some feel pretty! Welcome ❤️
So I just had to tell you that I also am a lifelong Anna of Green Gables fan, and I even played Diana in the school play in the seventh grade. Lol! I just found your channel and really enjoyed this video. What you said about not seeking out designer bags anymore really resonated with me I used to buy at least 1 to 2 high-end bags per year for many many years and now I’m not really on the lookout. If something finds me it does and if not, oh well. I’ve never been one to fall heavily for trends, so what I buy is either pretty classic or just something that is consistently “me” like bows. Anyway, great video!
Oh I love this! Thanks for sharing your love of Anne, and how fun to be on stage playing Diana, iconic! After a while you just feel played, appreciate you saying hi😂
Crossbody bags are a classic style that NEVER goes out of fashion. It is a MUST HAVE staple let the top handle bags come in but it is we the consumers that will dictate what is out and what is a must have I say! Same to kitten heels. As for puffed sleeves I agree whip them out when you feel like it, they add a bit of drama to ho hum sleeves. :D
Hey! Yes, as I mentioned, it’s a silhouette and overall trend of more top handles, shoulder bag and clutches being offered. Many bags have a strap to convert😊 Most things have momentum and the ebb and flow, but to some that’s the fun part to rediscover pieces in our closets or styles to shop!
@@ZibaLennox Yep, crossbody's have never gone out of style seem they have been on trend since I was in Jr high. High school top handles were in but every one included a strap. Kitten heels are as much a staple as loafers and ballerina flats. The toes and heel shape changes the structure does not. Personally I tend not to follow trends but follow classic lines you can just grab and go.
I travel into the city and I wouldn't carry a handbag that wasn't a crossbody. I've seen a number of woman being robed carrying a handled bag.
Agree, safety first! Traveling with crossbody bags is definitely a way to go.
Yes. “Designer” anything is tired. Being snubbed by salespeople. Overpaying by THOUSANDS of dollars! I understand the draw of high fashion high visibility. I don’t like the price. The prices are ludicrous! there are so many really gorgeous bags and clothes now that are easily found online that are more appealing at the moment.
Well said! I think my worst snubs have been at Louis and Hermes! Ironically, Dior this time was a dream. What midrange brands are you loving?
Always were u lease EXTREMELY wealthy.
Love this video. Your on point with luxury, just went to Paris and purchased from LV, honestly the whole buying experience has even lost it’s excitement and regret giving them my money!
What did you buy? I got an LV in Paris too and it was a very good deal but hardly wear it🤦♀️
you’re literally my comfort person i love you kislux !
I don’t remember who said it but someone famous said ( and I agree) “Trends are for the anxious.” My mother gave me good advice when I was young, She said wear what flatters you and what makes you feel good. Wear the clothes- don’t let the clothes wear you. I haven’t forgotten and am always comfortable in what I wear, never even think about it.
Moms know best! I view fashion trends as a sport, it has to be fun and used for inspiration, but never taken to seriously,❤️
I don’t usually follow fashion channels but I am following yours because you are not driving purchases you are focusing how to incorporate pieces and just stay updated!
I appreciate that so much! Means a lot❤️ I love shopping TBH esp for key seasonal pieces but I believe in being creative to pull looks together. Thanks for saying hi😊
I think there's a lot to be said for supporting your local leatherworkers and small fashion businesses. You can find some lovely, well-made, well-designed bags, belts, wallets, and so forth at art/craft fairs, horse shows, and other events where craftspeople sell their wares. Their booths always smell wonderful, too.
I totally agree! Those really are hidden gems!
I'm just not a "cool" girl. I will continue to use my cross body bags. I love them and they are so convenient! I just bought a gorgeous leather bag in the Czech Republic when I was in Europe last month. It has a removable strap but it's a crossbody. I plan on using it a lot this fall.
Love it!! I am not a cool girl either nor a cool mom either! 😂😂
Thanks for the great video. It got me thinking about practicality v. trends a bit, too. Living in a high crime urban center where you walk a lot or take public transit carrying all kinds of things v. driving everywhere from your safe garage to a safe parking place near your destination means cross body bags will always be papular in those contexts. This also drives shoe choices so I’m thrilled to see heels are out so I can look trendy and be practical!
Thank you for your feedback!! As a city expat I am very familiar with the reality of city living!!
With theft on the rise I’m wearing my cross body bag I’m not taking my chances because of fashion trends . Lol
As you shouldn’t. 😊
Thank you for sharing. Im not into trends but like seeing whats in and out.
It’s fun!! Yay, thanks 😊
Will never let go of my crossbody bag. It will always be functional, classic and city chic.
As you shouldn’t 😊
I agree 100% about the high quality well made bags without the branding!
Do you have any faves? Someone mentioned Aupen! I love them but they haven’t been back.
I felt this wonderful feeling in my mind, body and soul when she said “I prefer kislux
I'm a Megan Follows Green Gables girl!!! My favorite movie of all time. I like puffed sleeves but can do big ones I'm a small person:)
Love your take on the trends!!
Thanks so much Rachel! And cheers for Anne of Green Gables! Lmk if you know where one can watch the original!
The original Anne Of Green Gables films are the best. Megan Follows will always be my favourite Anne Shirley❤
I am not even goona lie puff sleeves till I die. Because “Marilla look at the puffs!” 😆I’m sorry I couldn’t resist giving an Anne of Green Gables quote.❤
Love it! I can still picture Marilla’s face when Anne was saying it 😂😂
@@ZibaLennox Me too! “You look ridiculous you will have to turn sideways to get through the door.” 😆It’s amazing the things you remember and the things you don’t.
So happy that ripped jeans are out never have or will buy a pair. Also happy to see the end of name brand cross body bags or camera bags go, if I see another Mimco or country road bag 🤪. Understated has always been my style never followed free advertising for companies. Your whole blog resonates with me 🙏 dirty sneakers 🙈 why
lol! It’s wild, right? The dirty sneakers? Brilliant marketing
I'm so glad you commented on Luxury. You hit every single nail on the head!👍 They've cut back on not only the contents but the luxury part of the presentation along with customer service. And with any findings of shenanigans or dirty deeds of the history/current doings business-wise...it doesn't seem so impressive or special. I totally agree with you. So what are they doing? What am I doing?? I look for quality and what I like. I never liked brand names splattered across anything anyway!
Absolutely!! And thanks for the feedback. 😊 I think the customer service is spotty too. Sometimes they make you feel like you don’t belong there and it’s not a good feeling!
It seems to me that fashion totally ignores needs. We now can wear big soft comfortable shoes, practical and necessary hands free cross body bags and clothing that doesn’t drape along dirty pavements and hang wet around your ankles and they are becoming ‘old hat’. What nonsense is that! The world is dangerous, we need all the help we can get.
Inane. The worst thing about social media platforms is the myriad of people who think they have something to offer viewers. They don't.
Then why click on the video? Pro-tip: Maybe get off SM? 😂
Crossbody bags will be in my closet forever. LOL Having to constantly push the strap back up on my shoulder, or needing to have one hand occupied by holding a bag is not happening for me. I need freedom of movement when I am out and about. I take the IG & Pinterest photos with a grain of salt, as they are posed photos and not how those ladies are in real life.
Great!
I love crossbody bags with removable or convertible straps. Makes them so much more versatile. I recently purchased a crossbody, but after playing with it at home and realizing there was no way to convert, remove, or even hide the long strap, I returned it.
Oh interesting! What bag was it?
@@ZibaLennox, it was just a fairly basic Vince Camuto leather crossbody.
Love, love, love my GoldenGoose. They are the pairs I reach for most and feel amazing to wear.
That’s very important, I don’t have any but many of my friends do!
As I am currently recovering from foot surgery, I bought some very similar to GG (chunky with a glitter star), I think I gotta keep them because no kitten heels will be happening here
Trends are fun as long as they're not treated as divine edicts. I prefer to think of them (when I think of them at all) as an invitation to try something new, rather than an order to abandon things I love that may not be this year's "it" look. As far as I'm concerned, as long as you combine the elements of an outfit carefully, there are very few individual items that are so far out of fashion as to be unwearable (and on the rare occasions that does happen, it's generally something so horrifically ugly we must all have been insane to buy it in the first place!)
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HEY kislux !! I have been watching you for years and im so proud of where you have made it! I love you so much! Also thanks for making my day
I love your jeans you wore with the crossbody bag, what are they?
Hi! liketk.it/4N2SK linked here!
Mixing metals is an amazing idea!! I'm starting today
Have fun! I have been loving it❤️
@@ZibaLennox I've done it every day since I saw this video and I'm really loving it
Worn crossover bags since I was teen….im 60 😂 mine aren’t going anywhere.
Great!! Love that
I just can't mix metals. I know it is in, but it looks weird to me. I love my crossbodies and I don't care if they are in or out, I'll keep using mine. They are comfier and safer. I can do a shoulder bag too but a clutch or top handle, no. Too much work to carry a bag and worry about setting it down somewhere and losing it. I like puffed sleeves too, not big ones but little ones. I also like flutter sleeves. Both are flattering for pear shapes.
I'm a pear shape too! :)
I’ve always hated puff sleeves. I might be able to find blouses I love again.
Haha! They are very polarizing 🙏😂
Bags are very situation specific. Although the crossbody maybe less trendy across the board, it comes down to when and where you wear it. Great video! ❤
Thanks for your feedback and yes fashion and bags are very personal 😊
As a very petite woman, I'm so glad to see the end of some of these trends, which are even less flattering on petites than they are on larger women (looking at you, huge pants and huge sleeves).
How tall are you?!
@@ZibaLennox 5' 110#. It's so hard to find anything that fits!
@@jhwatchlist6927 you're a model! :)
@@ZibaLennox You're sweet. I'm 76.
When you are petite (5'2" & 100 # when I was 20) you need to learn what suits your figure, and not what is 'in style'. And it gets even more important as you age and it isn't as easy to maintain that low weight.
I love puff sleeves and very feminine styles!
Always a lover of fem ❤️
Hi there!! I’m new to your channel as of today and I love your style!! This was a very interesting video that I agree with you totally!!!
Anne of green gables, oh yes love it!!!
Cheers and love from Canada 🇨🇦
Thanks for subbing! Hi, thanks for your feedback ❤️❤️❤️ and yay Anne!😊
Your lipstick looks amazing-please share the shade!
Thanks! Its Guerlain ❤️liketk.it/4NRfF?product=2b2881e5-5aac-11ef-b23b-0242ac110018
Loved Anne of Green Gables when I was growing up, such good memories.
Great ideas.. thank you! 🙏🏼💚🥰💗💜
same!!! HI!
kislux You are so well-informed about luxury accessories and bags. You've obviously done your due diligence and the comparison to the US is very informative...because of course, I live in New York. thank you very much.
Can’t help but cringe when I see a LV tote or bag.
They are now Coach bags to me. Everyone has one. Not so special to have.
haha! Everyone has one, literally don't know many people that don't have one. I think it's a symbol of being in "club", which I think as humans we crave that sense of belonging. Coach was very in when I was growing up in the 90's! I begged my parents for one and they simply said "no". LOL
Coach (especially vintage Coach) are probably much better quality tbh. I would rather carry the Coach bag. I never got into the whole LV craze.
All the LV hate is valid, but I spent my career in Asia as a buyer, it just brings me nostalgia. For my honeymoon I splurged on a 24" carry-on. Buying at the LV boutique in Hong Kong saved a lot of duty $$ . My son brought the bag to college to the hoots of his frat, calling him "bougie boy", grown boys are so funny... and I still get some moments from LV.
😍 Love the ‘Anne of Green Gables’ reference on the puff sleeves
Always think of her with them!
haha, I'm still about to sew myself a puffy shirt with Liberty fabric. I know it's not the most current look but I love Liberty. 🌺 And yeah, I have been known to make the fashion flubber of looking too costumey . Little House on the Prairie reboot, here I come. 😁
With Democrat soft-on-crime policies, I don’t feel safe carrying any bag except for a cross-body that I can keep close to my body. That’s just reality.
Me wearing crossbody forever because shoulder bags make me moody 😂 (srsly)
I will never get rid of my crossbody!
I love a good puff sleeve. I've always worn them my whole adult life. It's just my style.
That’s amazing to have a signature style🙏❤️
I was OBSESSED with that version of Anne of Green Gables.
The original?
David Yurman has been mixing metals for years. I have bracelet stacks and with mixed gems too
Another great example!
Ziba needs to say , “AAAY!!!!!!! I don’t make the trends, I just report ‘em!!!!!!!!” 😁😁😁. Xo lovelies
Haha! Just sayin’!😘
The best part was when Matthew was buying the dress for Anne. Love AGG. Love your video.❤
Omg yes! Unconditional love!
I remodel my clothes when they are out of fashion. I just changed a favourite jacket with somewhat oversized shoulders to standard shoulders. Looks so much better too. Should have don this a long time ago. Also changed a ma I dress with shoe string straps. Made it below the knee and used the It off piece to create wider straps, then put two rows of elastic for a fitted high waited look. Friends thought I bought a new dress. There are a ton of ways to refashion clothes.
Great ideas!
Clutches are a big no for me. They need a little handle or loop so I can hold a drink or get appetizers during cocktail hour.
That’s the thing about handbags- they need to be practical as well as pretty.
Yes! Otherwise you abandon them!
Balenciaga has children in literal bondage outfits. Everyone should throw away their Balenciaga and condemn that.
Thank you for this engaging video. Can you make a video about trends in relation to minimalism and being encouraged to buy quality? What do we do with the "bought to last" items when trends change every 3 - 6 months?
Thanks for your feedback! I've been thinking about this a lot. It can be overwhelming but we don't have to jump on everything we see. I love dresing in a classic way regardless of what "filter" we put on it, for example I just did this video on IG to try to start to highlight how one base outfit can go in so many different directions instagram.com/p/C-0t26fSpOa/ ❤
Loved that show wish there was more of it. I think others look good in puff sleeves but on me i would look ridiculous and make my arms look fatter than they already are
I loved the show as well! I’m sure your arms would be lovely in any sleeve 😍
@@ZibaLennox thank you but noo I'm realistic it's all good 😊
@@Kittyheavenwith21cats we women are so hard on ourselves🙏
I have never worn any bag for fashion reasons: practicality is what matters. A crossbody may spoil the line of a good suit or frock, say, but I need one
most of the time.
I think for a long time it has been part of the “line”.
I have mixed my metals in jewellery before it was fashionable. I have worn silver charms on gold chains and even worn gold and silver earrings at the same time. I have a few pairs of jeans I got from a little shop in the Uk called Be You where they carry clothes made in Italy. I got a few pairs of what they call cocoon jeans. They are loose in the leg and get a bit narrower at the ankle.
In high school I had a wing tip collard blouse with leg-of-mutton sleeves on it that my mum made me. I wish I had those blouses still.
The cocoon jeans sound like barrel jeans?!
It’s funny how these things happen. Until last year I only wore my large tote bag and at a certain point I started to feel “outdated” coz everyone was wearing crossbody bags. I’d either wear my tote or a backpack, but then I decided to get myself a crossbody and loved it! I’ve been wearing it daily for almost a year now and not sure I want to switch again.
I think tiny tiny case for credit card phone cross body and tote on shoulder for tissues fan lipstick etc no valuable s perfect for day out in the city
Still love the crossbody due to functionality of it, still wearing the chunky dad sneakers because i need it for my commute to work (living in one of the largest metropolitan city), and also still love the puff sleeves but thats because it kind of reminds me of my ethnic background culture which is called "Filipiniana" but all good points!
Oh I love that! Things that remind us of our culture are so special! What type of chunky sneakers have you found to be comfortable? For me, they’re usually so clunky it tires my feet!
@@ZibaLennoxTbh, the new balance wasn't it for me. I go for Hokas! Hokas are so comfy and my friend who is an Occupational Therapist and my podiatrists love Hokas for their patients!
Good quality, well- made anything is always appreciated. Paying more for this is understandable. 'You get what you pay for' ...right? Yet when the cost exceeds the quality is when I have to opt out.
Well said! Yes, it’s maddening 😱
I love a crossbody bag. Especially when traveling because it's more secure and I don't really follow trends. I wear what I like whenever I like, fragrances included😉✌🏽💕
What fragrances do you like? Have been searching for a new scent!
@ZibaLennox Right now, I'm loving Akro Bake, Alot from Julianna's Fragrances and Dua Brand😅, Delizia Di Marshmallow and Libre Intense.
I have always liked a shoulder bag or one I hang on my arm, a clutch for going out to dinner/evening, etc.... and only recently got 2 cross body bags...I don't know why I haven't had them all my life!!! So handy, but they're small, so I still need my big shoulder bag for all the crap I have to take everywhere!!😊😊😂
One thousand percent!! Sometimes I have the double bag sitch going on 😅
No one needs to be limited in fashion or anything else. Love whatever you love and not what others say you should. ✌️ ❤
Hi Ziba ❤
Love your half moon choker chain. Do you have a link or discount code? Thanks!
Let me ask!!! 😊❤️hi😊
Hi! Great news!! I reached out to them and they gave me a $50 off code ZIBA50!! aliweissjewelry.com/products/small-diamond-crescent-with-3-diamond-bezel-necklace?variant=45718960963900 I have it in the yellow gold. I wear it nearly every day. :)
Love, love, LOVE Anne with an “E”. Also LOVE ballet!🩰 Who did you dance with? 😊
Nice! It was a sweet series for Anne lovers😊 kind of all over, studied at ballet Austin, Pittsburgh ballet theater,
Sorry got interrupted…sfbs, Ghent, and Ballet El Paso!
I love my crossbody’s too but will definitely try the strap hack you showed!
It works on most front flaps! Yay!
Yes, I am 100% an Anne of Green Gables girl! I have never understood following trends. I wear whatever I like and I have always done so. I feel free. Trends stress me out;)
Haha! They stress most people out!
There are beautiful, high quality bags that don’t have the crazy price or flashy label. I love Oroton, which is an iconic Australian brand. Their quality is excellent but the styles are understated (more quiet luxury). I hit the outlet online and do super well. A bag has to be functional for me, first and foremost.
Thanks for sharing!! Will take a look😍