Oliver Anthony tells Joe Rogan he gave up this filthy habit
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2023
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I THOUGHT HE WAS TALKING ABOUT SMOKING POT... 😆
Joe would round house kick him right off the podcast lol
Obviously kidding
That’s cuz you smoke pot
@@scottharvey7426the ghost of Sigmund Freud has entered the chat
@@ders972you're not far off, look what happened to Crowder.
@@devonthomson9041 lol I almost mentioned Crowder
It's gotten worse as people become more desensitised. True connection with others is the cure.
Yes, real and transparent relationships heal us.
@@whats_it_to_ya9872 when you real eyes you have a choice ignorance is no longer bliss, it's expensive
Connect with who? No one wants to talk anyways.
Everyone's too stressed out
I watch porn with my girlfriend
Giving it up is the best thing you can do. You're confidence will increase 100 fold.
Why though? I'd love to be a porn star, sign me up. How does increase your confidence though I don't get it? Porn has taught me everything I know about sex wtf y'all mean 😂
@@bennetttyler6019😂😂😂 that is the exact problem
As gay as this sounds mate love isn’t sex and porn definitely isnt love
I’ve mistreated women (never physically) but that’s down to a false belief of women due to watching porn
Treating everyone like a whore or a slut isn’t good for a man’s head and viewing them that way because of the way you see pornstars is easily a quick assumption
Confidence would rise from not watching it because when you view yourself in that act it’s degrading and embarrassing
Would you watch porn and get off to it if your walls were made of glass and everyone could see? No
But you can see and if your opinion means less than anybody else’s than you have no self confidence 😂
@bennetttyler6019 if you learned everything about sex from porn then you have left a bunch if women unpleased
Dont have to give it up. You just have to be aware that most of it is fake, your confidence will be just fine.
Nah bro it also supports sex trafficking
I agree. I used to be an addict for 15+ years. Just recently felt the urge to pick up a bible and actually read one of the gospels. Completely changed my life. Its something that most men struggle with. Its something that’s difficult to overcome alone but it is something we can defeat if you truly want to defeat it.
Yup, the internet is a nasty place.
The internet isn’t the problem. It’s a tool that can be wielded for good or bad.
We as humans have a responsibility to be responsible and moral.
@@user-wm3lg8co5x Your right. But it is easier for weak people to blame the tool, drugs, alcohol, but not their own weak will. And I understand that people sometimes have a gene that causes them to become addictive very easily.
The hardships of Life can cause a person to want to run away and hide behind a bottle or take some drugs to get rid of the feelings.
Do we get rid of things/BANNING because SOME people can't handle them responsibly?? Life isn't fair, life can suck. You deal with your problems and leave others alone.
If somebody decides to unalive themselves using a rope do we ban all ropes? Duct tape is used in a lot of crimes do we ban duct tape.
Yeah and most haven’t even seen 95% the internet now is truly a safe haven for freaks
@@user-wm3lg8co5xWe as children of God have a responsibility to be follow his rules. Without God, morality is subjective.
@@user-wm3lg8co5x I agree, although I also feel like you can come on the Internet with good intentions, high responsibility and high morals but the nastiness that lies within is forced upon us by others repeatedly until it consumes us. Kinda like the opposite of positive reinforcement. It's hard for many to break away or resist it to begin with when the nastiness is everywhere we look. When I see negative or depressive content I like to reassure myself by asking how many times I've seen it irl, I tend to find the only place I see it is online.
I have to offer up my prayers everyday to make sure I don’t relapse
I'm not being condescending I'm jus wondering....is it really an addiction? like were your not right if you don't watch porn?
Bs. People that like porn like sex...people that like to play guitar like to play guitar. The problem with sex is that it can spread illness and jealousy so it gets relegated to the back room of society and becomes evil. The coming out is because of the bs way that people think that everyone is the same and "enforce" bs with bs authority. Keep your actions that invade others' lives out of the public arena or the multiversal court of everything that makes up societal life will make sure you do. There are closets for a reason...not for evil but to protect you from the bad facets of mob rule and those that think they have the right to impose ludicrousity on others due to position. 20 years jail for marijuana possession of a lb but 10 years fir rape/murder? Fkg insane. The wrongs will be righted.
@@monsta2311
The urge is always there , people don’t withdrawal in a traditional sense since it’s not a substance.
The damage is devastating , it creates grey matter in the brain
@gincream1993 damn man...good on you for quittin that shit. stay strong
@@monsta2311wait is that a serious question really ?
I'm glad he's addressing this on joes podcast so men can see how damaging it is
Women watch porn too 😂
Delusional men, I don't know a single person with actual intelligence that watches this bs it's all construction workers and teens
Thank you Mr Oliver and thank you for your words, both spoken and sung. If it weren't for my old dogs and your music.........
Man I went 2 months November and December without it. No superpowers lol, but it was nice to be rid of it for a little. Back in it now and it’s got ahold of me strong
Definitely not lying! When you get in your 40s you'll realize what it's done to you
Right, for some it takes longer to realize the consequences, but those consequences always come.
Bad rotator cuffs and neck from jerking off too much.
Made me into a dirty panty sniffing Cucky Cuckerson! Na I’m jk but it was close.
This comment is deep
What does it do to you in your 40s?
Ever since quitting. My life, has become what it was always meant to be. That’s the best way I can describe it. Like, the sun shines brighter, the grass is greener, and my reflection looks more appealing. I certainly have a lot more fun doing things, and do wayyyy more things in general
Amazing how he tells his take from the experience of what such a negative habit does to put someone in a bad state of mind and living. This is great for helping many realize a problem they feel isn’t an issue for them
Yep. Haven't watched it since I got married. 22 years of a happy marriage.
That's definitely a part of having a healthy marriage!
Good thing you weren't into porn during the smartphone era. Having 24 hr. access to unlimited pics and vids with any genre you can imagine makes most unable to quit.
@@eriklarson4082yes the constant access makes it difficult but not impossible. I've helped many men to break the cycle. It just takes the right tools and the right approach. There's a lot of resources for this out there but many of them are shallow/superficial. Find someone who knows what they're talking about and go all in on attempting the change, and you might be surprised how a life long habit can break.
I heard and read somewhere that Oliver Anthony's music has definitely made him financially comfortable and also making it very easy for him to take care of him and his family comfortably hopefully for the rest of his life I'm really happy for him hopefully there are other singers that have songs that resonate with the country that can do as well as he did history is proof that if you're willing to work hard and pull yourself up by your bootstraps that you can make something of yourself and in this country the American dream is alive you just have to go looking for it you have to work for it
I was a born at it for years and I'm just recently getting over my p*** addiction I'm leaning more on God and not on my own understanding and it's healed my life tremendously in Jesus name amen
Great to hear, Oliver Anthony, may the truth you share about how your life has improved be an impact for others to do the same. Integrity is what you do when no one is looking.
Best regards to you and your family,
Love your music❣️
Exactly. So nice to have this diamond shining on us.
I think he did put that in a good way it's like chasing a high. It changes over time what you need to watch to get off. And it's really just better not to watch any of it.
Thanks for sharing. I def take the stance that men should not watch it at all, although I recognize that many will not agree. Regardless of one's stance, I think it's important to be self aware of how it's effecting you and the way you see others.
@@reclaimedrecovery They should agree as it literally shrinks the brain. It’s unhealthy just like any other drug.
I would sign up for a organization to help fight against porn in an effort to ban it or at least make it more difficult to get, but I don’t know where to go.
it will definitely separate you from your spouse or your better half.
most definitely.
The only positive is no smell
Is that so .....🤣
Had adults show me my first porn at like 10 years old, ive forgiven them but it will totally rewire your brain.
So sad but very common unfortunately. We need to protect children from it for sure.
This is an amazing message, keep up the good work
I had this addiction since I was a teen growing up with a laptop and it only got worse when drugs got involved, I'm 29 starting my weight lifting journey and it's helping me alot. Taking cold showers is also a great distraction
Good for you man it's never too late to start. There's a lot more you can do to fight this than most people realize. Keep it up!
the struggle is real. A lot of people will never understand that, but need to. Thanks for sharing!@@JC-de1ik
@@JC-de1ik that's great to here brother keep it up. Mine was cocaine or adderal and couldn't do either without getting stuck in my room for days just watching porn.
@@JC-de1ikdamn for real. I can never get hard on that shit lol
Cold showers are proven to boost dopamine and sensory reception in all parts of the brain. Also slows the swelling time of joints and muscles allowing you to recover faster. Greater cognition and drive are never a bad thing imo.
It is horrible that a teenager can see more porn in the matter of minutes than someone 50 or so years ago could seen in their entire lives.
True, that's why we must start rising up to do something about it!
I can vouch for that at 55
Not even teenage for a lot of kids these days unfortunately
@@paytongunter4126 sad but true
@@reclaimedrecovery and of course you have the shitty kids who like to show that stuff to even younger kids and they think it’s funny so usually it’s the more extreme porn.
It’s not even real like it’s not the real reality of how that happens and Stupid scenarios. They are Actors and for some people it brings nothing but trouble your way and destroys your life, And the people in your life. Listen to this man he is 100% right!
Hell people are doing idiotic weird shit that wasn’t accepted 5 years ago.
This world needed this man . I love you brother
Yes! Respect!
2nd time I heard him sing, the video that we all saw... I cried. I couldn't cry the 1st time because I was in shock. A human like this doesn't come along often. He deserves everything good that happens to him. His voice... it's so heartfelt. I feel privileged to be able to listen to him.
This is the truth
@@jasonK1375bro chill lol
This guy is a fraud. He is not from FARMVILLE like he's claiming to be! I grew up in Farmville and no one knows him here!!
I’m a straight female. This was a very serious problem for me since age ten. Has damn near ruined my life. Even now. Been over five years and it’s still haunting me.
You watched corn at 10 years old?that’s crazy
@@brandongreene9615Might be surprising because it's a female. But for males, there are so many children that find their fathers nude mags, at ages 5-13.
Edit:obviously becoming lesser now, because who buys magazines.
@@jq7323that's how we had to get it when we were kids, you had to get lucky and find it somewhere, now it's a quick Google search or a bookmarked page if you googled it already
Why can’t I meet someone like you. I need a woman who loves def just as much as I do. Plus I need someone to take my while 8x6 down their throat ant not gag to death
@jq7323 well get back in your time machine bud cause NO ONE has nudey mags anymore 😉
This guy needs to be number1 with the song to richmen! He’s humble he’s down to earth and knows what it’s like to be working class!
Sad to see all of these comments that let addiction ruin their life. Let’s be honest life isn’t for the weak minded. 90% of you will be distracted everyday and continue to do the same thing for the rest of your life. That’s just human nature. We bathe in familiarity and do almost everything we can to not deviate from it. Soon we will sadly need therapists for Tiktok addictions and therapy for helping regain people’s attention spans. That’ll be the future generation though.
People can be surprisingly strong and wake up to this, but it often doesn't happen alone. Coaches and therapists are really important for society and can help create strong minds.
Trauma.........it's weird like that
Definitely an easy addiction that most people don’t even realize. I do that once you know it’s an addiction it’s not hard to quit.
For some people it's harder than others. Some have to work harder if they have a more addictive brain and have been using it for a while. For some its really simple though, doesn't always have to be super hard when you have the right tools and the right mindset.
What are we using that we shouldn't be🤦♂️
Um…. There’s levels. It can definitely be hard to quit.
It's very damaging...when I found out about my ex's addiction and confronted him he fell to his knees and cried like a baby... he had racked up 100's of $ on cable TV and hours on the internet he was taking off days from work to watch...I pray he's getting help. 🙏
Some things you can never unsee
True, and some of those things impact you and have an effect on your brain more than you'd like. Better to stay away from it!
Rocceory coach!? That’s where he’s been? Man, been missing Owen Wilson in movies but good to see he’s helping folks.
Seriously though they are spot on but it’s deeper, Oliver probably knows, it’s a spiritual battle.
Haha I get the Owen Wilson thing a lot.
As hard as he tries to ride the fence, he knows where he stands on morality.
what ?
Cool that Owen Wilson is coaching recovery these days, good to see!
Brothers.. Im like 3 weeks into recovery via cold turkey. Its very much like a drug and your tolerance just gets stronger and stronger..
Be strong and focus on your priorities.
Most people don't realize there is a withdrawal from the dopamine inducing effects of p*rn. Best of luck brother reach out to me on insta at reclaimed.recovery if you ever want some help on your journey.
im trying too
It's truly sad, disgusting, disturbing, and despicable that so many men have this so called "addiction".
I cannot wrap my head around men not being able to keep their hand off their 🍆 &understand that pr0n is be real people who are ACTING as their paid job & it's not real.
I've been an Esc0rt for 9 years...yall are truly vile creatures.
God bless you! It's a issue!
Thanks
I've struggled with this also, just like he said it's like a drug.
I wish i could talk to him and get some advice im a new fan but he just seems like a good dude
Not me finishing a p*** video and then feeling like I can relate to this 🥲☠️
Keep up the work! Helping many people!!
Thanks brother, means a lot!
Yup.
I'll tell ya, most men who use porn cannot perform or do it very badly.
It's evil.
There is NOTHING good about it and it should and can be canceled ..
Instead of cancel culture trying to make people invisible , cancel pornography and have a real life.
He is so right
Wow, go, Oliver Anthony
It’s been 4 days for me with no porn , it’s hard
You can do it. Reach out. Open up. Don't do it alone. Persevere. Follow our channel! God bless
Keep it up! You CAN do this! Put yourself in situations that make access to it harder for you, leave your phone behind, give it to someone else to hold onto it for you, change your phone plan to one without internet, get a house phone if you have to, get rid of or sell your tablets and laptops/desktops, block yourself from any easy access, your soul and mind and heart is more important than a quick fix that leaves you more and more isolated from reality, you are loved, do it for the ones you know love you, they need you in the here and now and healthy, I pray in Jesus name he fills you with his peace and love, he is the one who sets captives free!
Instead of a house phone, they actually make 'light phones' that look like a cell and allow you to do calls texts and emails but have no access to the internet
I bet it is hard there’s way to make it go down hahahaha
Well make it unhard
I’m so proud of men who take responsibility and realize that pornography is the double edged sword that not only kills your interest in having any type of normal relationship but it kills any future you might have in a relationship.
The enemy - devil - deceiver seeks to steal, kill and destroy and the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes and the pride of life are the avenues in which he uses.
There it is, imaginary enemy making you do stuff lol
@@Solowing0331your just in the middle
@@SunsetSudsAdventures you blame your problems on a imaginary enemy because you are weak
Women watch porn to and effects them in many negative ways but nobody discusses that. Smdh
❤ I agree 💯. It is hard to find a pornography free man today.
You don't think it's hard to quit till you try. That's when you realize it's a drug.
I agree. It's a disgusting habit. It becomes more twisted with the use of cocaine,and meth. Really sick stuff 🤧
Thanks for sharing!
It really does destroy a marriage. It’s no different than alcoholism or drug use. It causes deep resentment and very painful emotions.
Having Owen Wilson as a therapist would be crazy.
I’d see him as Hansel from Zoolander all the time.
You just wushhhhh
You just blew my mind man
haha
Weak men create weak times.
Absolutely, which is why we train strong men who have control over their sexual desire and urges.
Uhhh Broke programs and lack of communication
Is what causes weakness
And causes weak men.
Not the other way around.
I’ve always wondered why y’all say that, we are in the “weak times” rn so does that mean all the men yall always aspire to are the weak men? Or do you believe you are the weak men creating weak times?
Can't have strong men without weak men. Now what?
The whole saying is “hard times create hard men, hard men create easy times, easy times create weak men, weak men create hard times “ and the cycle repeats 😂
I was addicted to porn for almost 30 years.. I prayed one night for the holy spirit to deliver me from the spirit of lust and just like that, it was gone. I havent used it in 3 or 4 months now since that night.
There is no power greater in this universe than the holy spirit and it is available to all who seek it. My fiance didnt believe in Christ, one day she said "I just want the truth about God" and I told her "Pray to the holy spirit and ask it for truth. Right there she prayed "Holy spirit give me the truth about God." 3 days later she told me that Jesus was indeed the son of God and died on the cross for our sins.
The truth shall set your free.
Thanks for sharing. I do believe that sometimes we make huge breakthroughs through spiritual experiences. However, for many of us, it may not happen that way. Fortunately, we can train ourselves and there a lot of tools we can use to equip ourselves for becoming resilient against p*rn and other vices. Thanks for sharing.
What tool is more powerful than the creator of all things?
Have you ever asked the holy spirit, not just God, to enter your life and show you the truth about God or to help you with something like addiction? Try it out, WCGW? Say a prayer similar to the one I described in the post you responded to, and be open and watch as the LORD moves in your life.
Matthew 7:7-8
“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.@@reclaimedrecovery
Alrighty..
Tried that. It didn't work. It never works
Amen!
It isn't called the world's oldest profession for nothing.
I'm not watching porn since before covid period and it's so much better not having that vice, now i find it disgusting but if i think to all the sex i had with my girlfriends when i was young it was always influenced by porn and i regret it i think you can experience sex more on the love and intimacy level instead of the exciting idea of self degradation in the name of sex associated to porn.
He's not wrong.
❤❤❤ so refreshing and incredible. You are an amazing human
Im 17 and i struggled with it but I have stopped and started serving the Lord
I was addicted to porn since I was 15. I’m 28 now and I can tell you the one thing that helped me stop, and broke those chains. JESUS! All the glory goes to him, because I could not have stopped on my own strength. Prayers to all of you!
Thanks for sharing your testimony
Wait so Jesus helps you get off now?
Amen brother!
It gets easier when you have other things to do. To know intrinsically that there are more things in life that ought to be better than this. I was 14 and I'm almost 34 now. Still struggle at times but as long as I'm not doing it , I don't crave it. So its a really good control Im able to have. But when you do it begets itself.
@@notycool😂😂 he wants to get down on his knees and praise Jesus
Almost as bad as Facebook.
Social media in general can be very harmful!
@@reclaimedrecovery Should we ban social media?
Amen I’m not a religious person but the man up above is love. You got this ❤
Jesus loves you
Gotta pump those numbers. Those are rookie numbers
Daddy didn’t raise no quitter
My momma didn't raise any quitters 💯
That's the spirit. Have a strong finish!
She also didn't raise you to be addicted to porn and look at women as sexual objects.
@@eriklarson4082blah blah blah.
Ok was wondering what he gave up and what we were trying to quit. Thanks comments for clarifying this for me !
guy at the end looks and sounds like he says 'wow'
As a women I will say that you can tell when a man watches too much "corn" they just have no connection during sex and it's just no good it is like they try to do what they do in corn just feels unnatural and it's really a huge turn off.
Yes, thanks for weighing in from your perspective!
you must have expereience haha
So true!
I hate how Joe was so dismissive of his point about his take on porn.
Thats what Toe Rogan does. He'll say something's horrible. Then, after the show its off to the dumpster to pump.
OMG someone else doesn't agree with your views and morality....they must be wrong and probably need Jesus
@@cthulawhaeveryone needs Jesus.
It ruined my relationship of 8 years. My ex was addicted to it and made me hate seggs. Single for life now.
The reason behind the MOTIVATION to wanna quit, has to for YOU. My son struggles with addiction everyday, he is now 4 months clean and has come along way. Even though his addiction was Meth, I love watching him grow as a man since.
When you quit you realise how over sexual everything is even TV adds 😮
True. You quit then see everything through a different lens, and stop objectifying women.
It’s funny how the world goes in circles and so does the thinking of us people that live on it.
I've tried stopping but after a week I get this horrible pain down there like it hurts like hell
Withdrawals for this are real.
I knew a really sweet, young man almost 40 yrs ago. At a get-together with friends, someone put a dirty movie in the VCR. The sweet man turned off the movie & removed it saying, "that's someone's daughter.....!" Yes, i married that sweet man! He's my gift from God! Blessings to all you men trying to stop; I BELIEVE you'll get there!
That's awesome, thanks for sharing that story!
But every woman is someone’s daughter. What they choose to do with their life is their business
What’s a bozo 😂
@@Enyuno916 Of course, it's their business. You, on the other hand, apparently indulge in p#$n. That's your business. But, the day will certainly arrive that you regret doing so. Blessings on you, sir
@@Enyuno916 yes, everyone woman is someone's daughter. If you're a father you instinctively know you don't want your daughter doing that. I think the point you brought up makes an even better argument for why people shouldn't use p*rn
Porn is like a drug..stay away from it
Agreed!
Bro i have never had any of these problems and i watch it everyday grow sum balls dudes🫡
You either use it or you lose it and right now i ain't using it except alone.
The mantra to say is: porn kills love
Yes, this is the mantra of Fight the New Drug!
it will definitely separate you from your spouse or your better half!
Yep, seen it time and time again!
What if your spouse doesn't want to have sex anymore? Do you cheat? do you leave? do watch porn to get past it? What? Because if you leave, you lose half your shit.
Mamma didnt raise no quitter
The logic of something not being accepted 100 years ago is a slippery line of logic
It’s a spirit of lust and and is an affliction that is adultry in marriage. It’s spiritual bondage, repent and seek forgiveness and healing in CHRIST JESUS 🙏🏻
😂😂😂😂
100% Correct.
It's the silent pandemic that only Christ can cure. Without Jesus I would still he hopelessly addicted. 2yrs free of spirits of lust,fornication, masturbation, and pornography.
It's satanic but they don't know it.
While I haven't tried to stay off it, I can tell you one thing, if its destructive then its by turning you in to a bigger simp, plus u need a woman, because as the saying goes" use it or lose it" . As always two sides to the coin.
I heard a women I forgot her name. But she basically said how porn destroys young boys and any future relationships with women they have. A young boy just pleases hisself he’s seeing whatever he wants to see his mind is destroyed from it because it’s all about him. And not taking his livers wants or needs into consideration. It’s the lowest form of instant gratification there is. She spoke on if so much better and more in depth. And I wish I knew who it was cus she was so right and i never thought about it the way she said it.
This addiction is a hard one to quit. Really hard. Extremely hard. Ssoo hard. So, very very very hard. Unwaveringly hard. It won't go down. The addiction, that is.
Eh. What ruins marriages is “I’m tired” or “I have a headache”. And after year 5 you’ve worked your ass off your whole life and now have two children and you’re lucky if you get sex once a week and she acts like it’s a chore but if someone else shows her some attention it gives her a rush. I can tell you men would never watch porn if women knew how to take care of a man
Placing the responsibility on the woman isn't going to solve the problem. Men need to learn to take personal responsibility for their own desires and urges and learn to deal with them in healthy ways regardless of what the woman does.
Men and women are the problem not just women. Both need to talk to each other. Communication is one of the most important key to a good marriage. Adults don't take the time for each other and when that happens it leaves the door open for the devil to slip in. When you turn to God he opens your eyes and heart to what's really important in your life. God is real and we all need to turn to him to make it in life.
If you’re ever put in that position then cheat on her. Fuck it. Just don’t get caught.
Shit I'm in al bundys situation I'm just trying to game with the boys and I get dragged in the bedroom. I've learned as long as we do it over 5 times a week she stays off my ass and I can game and do me. Been married 7 got 2 kids
@@reclaimedrecoveryTV, the media, movies, magazines and far more are constantly telling women they deserve more and that men are the problem. So yes, it is indeed a problem biased towards women. Let’s say 55%~45%.
100% true. Ban that shit from society
People will just want it more
No ban. Can't force people to see the truth.
Shut.....up.
@@Zach-ju5viI agree. But I think maybe we should ban internet porn. Let’s stop the kids from seeing it. If an adult wants to go rent a movie, so be it. But children shouldn’t see it and then get addicted to it later in life.
@@ryanlane4282 absolutely not. The Internet should not be restricted in that way because it will lead to the justification of banning anything on the Internet. It's the same thing as banning books, it's just a bad idea. You can't force people to follow your beliefs.
I'm addicted to the joe Rogan short videos
It’s hard when you’re single, but fellas you Can do it
Cheaper than child support
Unless you end up in prison for the dark path it takes you down
😅
But naw yeah it's bad news
If you need porn to not have sex irresponsibly and abandon your children, then you have much more serious issues and your parents failed you
@@reclaimedrecoveryidk man. I've been watching porn for 20 years now and I've never had the desire to watch anything illegal. I agree that porn is destructive, but if watching porn makes you wanna watch or do something illegal, then you got bigger fish to fry 😬
Totally right that sht is evil I know wasted countless hours on that crap
I’ve been actively trying now for about 5-6months to stop doing it and every other day I’ll be back to the same bs. I know I’ll get out of it sometime. Just got to put the mental effort forward for it to happen. Every time I do it now I feel disgusted and wonder to myself “why did I just do it AGAIN”🤦🏻♂️😅.
I have like 4 videos that I like that I've been using for years and they work really well for me and what I like.
He’s right. It starts out with soft, run of mill content and progressively leads into harder and harder stuff
Bundy said this “I’ve lived in prison for a long time now and I’ve met a lot of men who were motivated to commit violence just like me and without exception, every one of them was deeply involved with pornography. Without question, without exception, deeply influenced and consumed by addiction to pornography,”
yes this should be a stern warning and it should tell us something important about how dangerous messing around with p*rn is.
Is using a quote from a psychopath a good source for proving a point? I'm not saying it's wrong but maybe there is a better way to make points for this case. Such as it is legal in the United States to pay and film people having sex but illegal to pay someone to have sex without showing it to the world. This is where I would put my focus.
@@davidcohen1861 it’s an excellent point. Did you read it? He said all of those men had a deep obsession with it. I don’t watch porn anymore and my outlook on women has shifted. But when I did watch it slowly went from boobs could get me off. To watching more detestable sources.
Almost every teen starts looking at something innocent like a plain Jane naked body. But after a decade of porn that source material doesn’t work anymore. They need to up it to perversions. To satisfy an itch. And from my experience in the world anyone who says otherwise is covering something deep.
Insidious decease!
Amen!
I'm still struggling.. I don't know how to ask for help for this embarrassing addiction..
I am in it right now. Lusting after women who are just hollow, their whole personality is in their looks and physical appearance. I can't find the strength to break it. every time I leave, I end up coming back. It just makes me feel guilty and gross, honestly. I wish I could break the chains that bind me to this addiction.
How long does it take to be somewhat normal again in terms of self control and interest in normal activities after a 2 year porn addiction. I’ve been struggling with adderal too if that changes anything.
How long it takes depends on a lot of factors. It depends on how effective the tools and techniques are that you are using to try and quit. For example, are you doing it completely alone or do you have some community to support you? It also depends on how severe the addiction got before you tried to quit, such as how long it was going on for. I know men who have been addicted for much longer than two years who have found freedom, so you can do it too!
I don't know if there's a cut-and-dry point where you're simply all good, versus totally ill.
You just feel better the more you do it.
Pro tip:
You gotta fill your life with positive actions, behaviors and habits. Otherwise, when you just remove a bad habit, you create a vacuum that will suck in the same bad habit or other bad habits into your life.
Only the Good can push out the bad. So you got to spend a little time figuring out what these good things are going to be. For many it's exercise, social activities, helping others, working hard, meditation.
And schedule these new good habits! And commit time and money to ensure you will show up and do them.
Don't leave it up to your willpower.
@@szililolabu thanks for chipping in, this is all good stuff. 'Replace, don't Erase' is a motto I like to use.
@@reclaimedrecovery I'm going to use that from now on.
much better than my saying of "add, don't subtract".
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It makes you feel good when you shouldn't. Sometimes you should feel bad. You should pick yourself up and fix it. Sometimes You feel bad because you deserve it. Sometimes not. Think about the other people that might be feeling bad instead of yourself. If something makes you feel bad, someone else may need you. The last thing you need then, Is a false sense of euphoria. You need to be there for YOURSELF and others.
Thanks for sharing this deeper, nuanced thinking. Yes, p*rn can provide an easy way out to escape and get distracted from the problems they need to face in life. Great point! Please follow for more similar content!
I remember when just the thought that you might see a woman naked was outta this world. Now we see that shit scrolling through instagram and don’t think twice about it
Oliver sure makes it easy to dub his voice talking into the microphone like that.