It's me hundred percent, the hardest part when; I can see what people don't see, when I feel so heavy whenever I sense other people have heavy burden, when I need time to be alone to connect with myself and my creativity, and no one understands about it..
everything is correct. and being an INFJ is not that easy. We literally reflect the behavior of others like a mirror, and when we stay in a negative environment for too long, we have the impression that we become these personalities. therefore we need time alone to return to our original state. it's so exhausting that being an INFJ isn't great at all. For me it was a horror at the beginning. I had to learn to distinguish what is mine and what is not mine and protect myself from this negativity and recover faster because it completely disrupted my function in society and I spent a lot of time isolating myself. half of my life before I learned how to live so that this life wouldn't consume me.
Yeah, noticed how it became popular to be one... Yet, most likely plenty of them are faking it 1:25 .... Rather fun when you're in a long rel with a BPD/NPD :)..... That becomes a curse, yet it can also be something good, to push you to leave, I couldn't....And a sponge I was... One thing we need to understand is how did we've become this way? Most likely plenty of trauma... So the integration of shadow self is a must. Because we are full of double edged swords...
Mostly accurate. The only thing I didn't agree with was the absorbing everyones emotions, even in public settings. That doesn’t happen often any more to me. I believe as we mature, we are able to protrct ourselves better from absorbing emotions around us. I am much more guarded when talking to people I don’t know than I am with friends and most family members. I detect the emotion easily but choose not to absorb it. It took many years for me to master this but its for my own emotional and mental health. I can't save the world at large... not even everyone in my world... but I do try to help every one that I can.
It's me hundred percent, the hardest part when; I can see what people don't see, when I feel so heavy whenever I sense other people have heavy burden, when I need time to be alone to connect with myself and my creativity, and no one understands about it..
everything is correct. and being an INFJ is not that easy. We literally reflect the behavior of others like a mirror, and when we stay in a negative environment for too long, we have the impression that we become these personalities. therefore we need time alone to return to our original state. it's so exhausting that being an INFJ isn't great at all. For me it was a horror at the beginning. I had to learn to distinguish what is mine and what is not mine and protect myself from this negativity and recover faster because it completely disrupted my function in society and I spent a lot of time isolating myself. half of my life before I learned how to live so that this life wouldn't consume me.
Definitely not easy for us and sometimes I wish I wasn’t so analytic and in my head..😞
It gets easier once comfortable wearing the freak show T-shirt. One in every color😂
WOW! this is absolutely me!
Yeah, noticed how it became popular to be one... Yet, most likely plenty of them are faking it
1:25 .... Rather fun when you're in a long rel with a BPD/NPD :)..... That becomes a curse, yet it can also be something good, to push you to leave, I couldn't....And a sponge I was...
One thing we need to understand is how did we've become this way? Most likely plenty of trauma... So the integration of shadow self is a must. Because we are full of double edged swords...
Mostly accurate. The only thing I didn't agree with was the absorbing everyones emotions, even in public settings. That doesn’t happen often any more to me. I believe as we mature, we are able to protrct ourselves better from absorbing emotions around us. I am much more guarded when talking to people I don’t know than I am with friends and most family members. I detect the emotion easily but choose not to absorb it. It took many years for me to master this but its for my own emotional and mental health. I can't save the world at large... not even everyone in my world... but I do try to help every one that I can.
Nobody gets fucking emotional osmosis from a couple three stores away. No one no one I repeat no one
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