Tayshia Adams: ‘My Time Was Not Wasted’ on Colton Underwood’s Season of ‘The Bachelor’

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 71

  • @olivergarrick1175
    @olivergarrick1175 3 года назад +117

    It good for tayshia to be understanding ,and supportive that doesn't change the fact of what he did to cassie ,and the pain ,and suffer she went through because of him wish him nothing but the best.

  • @1313sp
    @1313sp 3 года назад +195

    Tayshia... classy as always.

    • @mike4space
      @mike4space 3 года назад +5

      She’s a beautiful person. I don’t know if she realizes how humbling her words are it truly means a lot that she is being this supportive.

  • @mike4space
    @mike4space 3 года назад +69

    Tayshia really gets it and the more she speaks makes her more beautiful because she is speaking from compassion.

  • @rydbthatsme
    @rydbthatsme 3 года назад +148

    I’d feel more bad for the woman he victimized for months. Coming Out isn’t a get out of jail free card.

  • @elizabethnguyen17107
    @elizabethnguyen17107 3 года назад +27

    Tayshia, we're the same age but I look up to you. You are such a strong, confident gal and I really respect you for sharing this! It shows you are such an understanding, compassionate human.

  • @edelineismael6138
    @edelineismael6138 3 года назад +31

    Taishia is a such compassionate person which explains the way she's reacting now,i'm so sad for Colton when he explained how he felt then sad for the others women also who spent and wasted time.I can not say so for so good.

  • @funchik93
    @funchik93 3 года назад +26

    Tayshia ❤️ She's THE BEST bachelorettes to ever be on this franchise. She's such a lader. And a gentle, compassionate one.

  • @alejandrarivera1087
    @alejandrarivera1087 3 года назад +6

    Tayshia is the best and said all the right things. She is very compassionate and that’s how all of us should be .❤️

  • @cheer4life0811
    @cheer4life0811 3 года назад +29

    She is such a queen

  • @laurelmackereth1308
    @laurelmackereth1308 3 года назад +34

    Its good of Tayshai to be understanding and supportive of what he has dealt with. A lot of people are concerned about how the women from his season would feel but they have all moved on and are happy in other relationships. Aside from Cassie, I don't think he owes tgem anything

    • @amelialopez2046
      @amelialopez2046 3 года назад +3

      I agree! He 100% traumatized Cassie and needs to be held accountable for that, but on every season of this show, if you don’t win or become a lead or go on paradise, your time was wasted but you did sign up for that.

    • @rachaelnelson4976
      @rachaelnelson4976 3 года назад +1

      @@amelialopez2046 amen

  • @diedrehopper7864
    @diedrehopper7864 3 года назад +5

    Tayshia really gets it. Who are we to judge.

  • @catherineapeles4022
    @catherineapeles4022 3 года назад +14

    I feel bad for Cassie and the women of Colton season, as for Colton I have nothing nice to say period....His coming out was not a surprise to me....It crossed my mind when watching his season.... and my oh my was I right....feel bad for the ladies.....again nothing nice to say about him

  • @BollywoodMediaOnline
    @BollywoodMediaOnline 3 года назад +6

    Why is no one talking about the alleged stalking and harassment of his ex?
    You can support him coming out AND still want answers or accountability for his past actions.

    • @Tee1312Jay
      @Tee1312Jay 3 года назад

      The is focus on him coming out. The Cassie's issue was very wrong and hurtful, it was discussed at length when it happened and he should have paid for that but for unknown reasons Cassie withdrew the charges.

    • @aaronbrown948
      @aaronbrown948 3 года назад +1

      Right I sort of feel like he's decided to come out now to try and save his image. Yes of course it's brave and noble of him to do that but most of us aren't forgetting about the fact that Cassie filed a restraining order against him for stalking and harassment. He wants people to forget about that though. I think he should also take accountability for that as well. At least address it.

    • @jessicaadaora9109
      @jessicaadaora9109 3 года назад

      @@Tee1312Jay Cassie dropped it when it all became public and Colton agreed to stay away and leave them alone and they signed a confidentiality agreement. Not because she was mistaken or because what he did wasn’t that bad, she only filed so he would leave them alone.

  • @spinfyeze
    @spinfyeze 3 года назад +16

    I feel bad for cassie not colton

  • @MissKxoxo
    @MissKxoxo 3 года назад +6

    The fact of the matter is he knew from the age of six, but still agreed to do the show. He took the opportunity away from someone else and wasted those women’s time. It was still a selfish decision.

    • @avashzz
      @avashzz 3 года назад

      Definitely not the best decision but the majority of the women’s time would’ve been wasted anyway cuz there’s only one winner. Plus a ton of them got to be in paradise anyways...so i think it’s in terms of exposure everyone was fine imo

  • @melissagreen1117
    @melissagreen1117 3 года назад +22

    This was sweet Tayshia.

  • @laleluilu
    @laleluilu 3 года назад +7

    2 strong and outspoken women not talking about his dangerous and quite frankly illegal behaviour towards another former female contestant is telling. They went sword swinging on all things Rachael K but the harm that has been done to Cassie remains undressed? Did they ever held him accountable in the full podcast?

  • @greimalkin
    @greimalkin 3 года назад +3

    What is Tay referring to at the end? What did she talk about with him I don't remember
    Also, Joe needs a fidget cube

  • @wealthyblacksoutherners2616
    @wealthyblacksoutherners2616 3 года назад +3

    Yeah, terrorizing Cassie was okay. Okay whatever. Tayshia must be happy that he didn't do that to her.

  • @nellyrasberry
    @nellyrasberry 3 года назад

    Love Tayshia! She gets it!

  • @jackiebenjamin8772
    @jackiebenjamin8772 3 года назад +7

    It's always about society, they box everyone in. It's about what they want, you should be a doctor, a lawyer, a teacher and so on and so on. The dam thing is most of society don't even know you but they judge and put labels on you.

    • @22amboo
      @22amboo 3 года назад +1

      I feel the same . It's sad that theres people who think they're better than others because of society's standards when in reality society's standards dont equal happiness

  • @amandamac5347
    @amandamac5347 3 года назад +7

    Does joe ever talk

  • @joebalter7617
    @joebalter7617 3 года назад

    Tayshia is a beautiful lady and a super class act!

  • @nicciberriman3032
    @nicciberriman3032 3 года назад +1

    How can it be wasted when she became the bachelorette

  • @devin597
    @devin597 3 года назад +9

    im happy for colton! he obviously needs more time to grow but y’all need to let him grow stop hating on him loll

    • @Tee1312Jay
      @Tee1312Jay 3 года назад

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @roseofsharon3240
    @roseofsharon3240 3 года назад +23

    Our true and authentic self is the way God made us to be...anything else is of the devil period this world wow is upside down🙃

    • @istrone5885
      @istrone5885 3 года назад +4

      yes! 🏳️‍🌈❤️

    • @Tee1312Jay
      @Tee1312Jay 3 года назад

      You assuming that everbody believes in God

    • @roseofsharon3240
      @roseofsharon3240 3 года назад

      @@Tee1312Jay That doesn’t matter the fact remains that that’s the way our creator created us to be. I don’t care what anybody else thinks. He is the one that made us. He created us and that’s the final word, of God, anybody thinks differently they’re wrong... we wouldn’t be on this earth if God didn’t create us. He made us in His image and likeness, if they don’t believe that, then that’s their problem, but that doesn’t negate the fact that that’s the way it is... all Praises and Glory to our Creator Almighty God🙏✝️

  • @mariac.7959
    @mariac.7959 3 года назад

    "To be honest with you..." So you lied to me when you were talking before? Lol...

  • @rachaelnelson4976
    @rachaelnelson4976 3 года назад

    Why not came out on tv then
    If he knew that young

    • @Tee1312Jay
      @Tee1312Jay 3 года назад +2

      Maybe he was not ready or in denial, it's not that easy.

  • @papuce-u1w
    @papuce-u1w 3 года назад +12

    Taysha, you are a good person, but stop. Colton wasted your time, and our time.

    • @dianemccloud5990
      @dianemccloud5990 3 года назад +4

      @ Patricia, it's people attempting to be politically correct about situations, I mean, yes, the majority of the girls have moved on, and Cassie is trying to, but here we are with him pulling her back into his crap...If he knew at 6 and through his teens, just don't date girls, or at least say, hey, I'm feeling this way, but want to be this way.....is it ok if we date, and let me see if my mind is changed....I mean he spoke, a lot about honesty, and face, it he was lying....he rode the virgin crap, until he couldn't.....

    • @amelialopez2046
      @amelialopez2046 3 года назад +3

      Dont act like you’re a victim too. All you did was watch a tv show where most relationships dorn even work out when They’re straight. And please,, how was her time wasted if it allowed her to become the bachelorette and fall in love w a great man. You don’t know her...

    • @iseerightthrucapandbullcra1134
      @iseerightthrucapandbullcra1134 3 года назад +3

      Yes it was a career move or money moves

    • @kweenz600
      @kweenz600 3 года назад +1

      @@dianemccloud5990 I think people are just being empathetic not “politically correct” (even though being politically correct isn’t a bad thing). They went on a show to find love, it didn’t work out for them. Same as plenty of other seasons- only one person “wins” the bachelor/bachelorette (and it usually doesn’t work out anyway).
      The other women left and spiraled their appearances into new relationships, jobs, and social media opportunities. And Colton learned about himself as well. The only person who should have hard feelings is Cassie because of what Colton did to her and for being pushed back into the spotlight again. The rest of the women are fine.

    • @ashfromvenus
      @ashfromvenus 3 года назад +1

      he did not "waste her time", if she never went on the show she wouldn't have been the bachelorette or engaged to Zac rn. she's grateful for her experience.

  • @kellyapio1577
    @kellyapio1577 3 года назад +2

    Yes u know deep down ur heart u feel u wasted ur time so please don't sit here pretending u didn't, ok 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @amelialopez2046
      @amelialopez2046 3 года назад +5

      She literally wouldn’t be engaged to a man she’s madly in love with if this didn’t happen... stop acting like you know

    • @Tee1312Jay
      @Tee1312Jay 3 года назад +1

      She did not waste her time, she's happy with her life and she doesn't view things from a negative perspective

    • @kellyapio1577
      @kellyapio1577 3 года назад

      @@Tee1312Jay yes she did then and no body said she was not happy now but she wasted her time then and u know every womam who was in that session wasted their time so don't sit here talking nonsense ok they might have found love now but how about then it was a wasted time ok and no one is negative here just speaking the truth u know it

    • @amelialopez2046
      @amelialopez2046 3 года назад

      @@kellyapio1577 girl... if she didn’t go on that season she never would have been made then lead or have met Zac. It’s literally the epitome of everything happens for a reason... what are you even going on about?

    • @kellyapio1577
      @kellyapio1577 3 года назад

      @@amelialopez2046 ur the one going on about it, u can find love anywhere who said u can only find love in a dating show ok

  • @ericamars9687
    @ericamars9687 3 года назад +1

    How dare he lie and hurt all those woman. He deceived everyone. Now he’s out wanting everyone’s sympathy.

    • @ericdeclan5305
      @ericdeclan5305 3 года назад +6

      How dare he try to suppress a part of him that society deems wrong. How dare he struggle with coming to terms with himself. How dare he go on a T.V. show for fame that 95% of people in the franchise do the same.

    • @rachaelnelson4976
      @rachaelnelson4976 3 года назад +1

      Amen Erica

    • @Tee1312Jay
      @Tee1312Jay 3 года назад

      @@ericdeclan5305 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @sunnydae6602
      @sunnydae6602 3 года назад

      Let’s dissect and judge YOUR personal struggles

  • @sassymejordan
    @sassymejordan 3 года назад +3

    I think that how Tayshia explained everything was perfect. Of course, him coming out is not a get out jail free card and I don't think anyone is no longer trying to hold him accountable for the bad things he has done. But now we understand the bigger reason as to why he did the things he did. Him coming out is much more of a major explanation rather than an excuse and I think people need to understand that.