Reasons why I'm scared to be in a relationship. I'd hate to spend so much time and effort on someone, only for everything to be in vein because she decides to entertain some other dude.
Everything in life comes with a risk. Getting in your car and on the road, starting a new carreer, choosing the right degree/trade etc If you don't do anything bc you're scared of the low chance of failing/loosing it, you'll never do/have anything and be happy. It's another story if that's what you want. If it's not you'll be old and see others having done many things and having lived many things in life and you'll have bone deep sorrow and regret and be miserable. Take it from someone who has C-PTSD, high functioning autism and avoidant personality disorder. Go to therapy, they'll give you ways to handle it. It's more than someone listen to you talk. Cognitive behaviour therapy and many other techniques can help you with the way you think and it's pitfalls and with anxiety. If you are in the USA know that some jobs/university/school have a counsellor/therapist that is included in healthcare or low cost. If you live in Europe it's easy and cheap. I've heard that you can wait weeks to many months for an appointment in the USA. So do it now, you'll have time to prepare or to annul the appointment if you found a better therapist who has better coverage/recommended. Good luck to
Can't get cheated on or used if you've never been in love!! In my case any dudes I thought I was into turned out to be taken, not into me, or in one case, apparently dating my friend. The only guys who've tried to chat me up are weird blokes in the middle of the street, outside a tube station when I was waiting for a female friend, and one dude when I was in a supermarket. Also my parents entire shitshow relationship before I was born. Bio dad is a narcissist and mum is a neglectful and emotionally abusive alcoholic who was obsessed with bio dad decades after he wanted nothing to do with her or me. So yeah, I'm good with dying alone, thanks. Also within the last 5 years I might be aroace so yeah.
The story about the damaged car and recognizing the background (20ish mins in) gave me pause only because, just yesterday, I was scrolling through fb at random when I clicked the profile of someone who'd tagged a friend of mine. Looked at that person's recent post, for no other reason than I was being nosy, and there, in the background, is the house I lived in throughout middle and high school, and for ~8 months in my early 20's, after my own awful breakup; the house that my parents owned until about 5 years ago. I know it's not their/my house anymore and I've not lived there in nearly 9 years, but it will always feel like my home, considering it was the place I lived the longest growing up. Still so weird to drive past without stopping by and walking in to my momma quilting or my stepdad working on a vehicle or home project. 🙁❤️
Had suspicions that she was cheating on me but ignored them because I've got a dodgy history and tend towards paranoia. Ask her to marry me, she says yes. Couple of weeks later this guy comes up to me while I'm at the pub with a mate and congratulates me on the engagement. I ask him how he knows my fiancée and he says, oh I'm Adam (not his real name). I look at him blankly. She's never mentioned an Adam. Turns out she'd been cheating on me with Adam but had told Adam that she and I were in an open relationship (we weren't) and that she'd told me all about him (she hadn't). So that was that.
I did not catch me. She blatantly told me I served my purpose and she was on to the next lonely, inexperienced, sucker. She left me with a lot of hurt, betrayal, and pain. I wish I could have warned the next guy she was already with as her next victim.
I caught Stacy cheating at Fiesta Merachi, but Howard Dorough is too stupid to care. There shouldn't be "unfavoreds" there is enough room on the earth for everyone. We should do background checks, not Facebook checks. Bring back forgiveness for all.
The title is "When Did Your SO Catch You Cheating On Them?" not "When Did You Catch Your SO Cheating On You?" The title makes it seem like they'll be from the cheater's perspective.
Cheaters are dumb like they give their phone to their s/o and then get so surprised when they find out.
Yet not one person on Reddit ever judges MEN who cheat.
@@tardislady9546 Oh, we judge those types too, honey.
They get cocky, like oh my side piece ain't gonna text rn it's cool 🙄😠
Reasons why I'm scared to be in a relationship. I'd hate to spend so much time and effort on someone, only for everything to be in vein because she decides to entertain some other dude.
Aw don't worry you'll find the one
lol that isnt the reason you arent in a relationship
@@samuelhong4272 is that so? So what's the reason?
Omg same. Also my parents being utter morons.
Everything in life comes with a risk. Getting in your car and on the road, starting a new carreer, choosing the right degree/trade etc
If you don't do anything bc you're scared of the low chance of failing/loosing it, you'll never do/have anything and be happy.
It's another story if that's what you want.
If it's not you'll be old and see others having done many things and having lived many things in life and you'll have bone deep sorrow and regret and be miserable.
Take it from someone who has C-PTSD, high functioning autism and avoidant personality disorder.
Go to therapy, they'll give you ways to handle it. It's more than someone listen to you talk. Cognitive behaviour therapy and many other techniques can help you with the way you think and it's pitfalls and with anxiety.
If you are in the USA know that some jobs/university/school have a counsellor/therapist that is included in healthcare or low cost.
If you live in Europe it's easy and cheap.
I've heard that you can wait weeks to many months for an appointment in the USA.
So do it now, you'll have time to prepare or to annul the appointment if you found a better therapist who has better coverage/recommended.
Good luck to
imagine of all things having a diary that your SO respects the privacy of. But the damn babysitter don't.
I just also thought how it's weird for the babysitter to be snooping around I wonder what else they snoop around for lol
*Imagine breaking someone’s trust who you are supposed to love.* *I’m immune because I don’t have an S.O. so HA!*
Exactly. I get to screw who I want
@@youraveragejoe2 Bold of you to assume we're having sex with anybody. 😭
Can't get cheated on or used if you've never been in love!! In my case any dudes I thought I was into turned out to be taken, not into me, or in one case, apparently dating my friend. The only guys who've tried to chat me up are weird blokes in the middle of the street, outside a tube station when I was waiting for a female friend, and one dude when I was in a supermarket. Also my parents entire shitshow relationship before I was born. Bio dad is a narcissist and mum is a neglectful and emotionally abusive alcoholic who was obsessed with bio dad decades after he wanted nothing to do with her or me. So yeah, I'm good with dying alone, thanks. Also within the last 5 years I might be aroace so yeah.
“She wrote it in her diary, and OUR babysitter snooped”?
Sweet home Alabama?
...the babysitter of their child.
The story about the damaged car and recognizing the background (20ish mins in) gave me pause only because, just yesterday, I was scrolling through fb at random when I clicked the profile of someone who'd tagged a friend of mine. Looked at that person's recent post, for no other reason than I was being nosy, and there, in the background, is the house I lived in throughout middle and high school, and for ~8 months in my early 20's, after my own awful breakup; the house that my parents owned until about 5 years ago. I know it's not their/my house anymore and I've not lived there in nearly 9 years, but it will always feel like my home, considering it was the place I lived the longest growing up. Still so weird to drive past without stopping by and walking in to my momma quilting or my stepdad working on a vehicle or home project. 🙁❤️
I read the thumbnail as, "How did you cheat your significant other for cheating on you" at first
By farting in their face when they slept. 🫶✨
The bees stopped coming to me..
hi! how have you been doing! I have seen you around!
I swear these stories and how many of them there are make me terrified of dating.
if i ever get a gf and found out she was cheating i would text her bf as her and break up with him lol
Oh my god dude, that's absolutely sinister and manipulative. _I love it._ 😈
honestly? really simple solution that fucks the both of them over. I love that.
AySparkZ240 then you gotta break up with her after lol
True story, shell left me for a guy from the special Ed class
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@@Hell0fri3nd she was crazy so it's not all bad
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Had suspicions that she was cheating on me but ignored them because I've got a dodgy history and tend towards paranoia. Ask her to marry me, she says yes. Couple of weeks later this guy comes up to me while I'm at the pub with a mate and congratulates me on the engagement. I ask him how he knows my fiancée and he says, oh I'm Adam (not his real name). I look at him blankly. She's never mentioned an Adam. Turns out she'd been cheating on me with Adam but had told Adam that she and I were in an open relationship (we weren't) and that she'd told me all about him (she hadn't). So that was that.
I did not catch me. She blatantly told me I served my purpose and she was on to the next lonely, inexperienced, sucker. She left me with a lot of hurt, betrayal, and pain. I wish I could have warned the next guy she was already with as her next victim.
17:05 this is the kind of shit people get murdered over
Not enough cheaters are losing their teeth in these
I caught Stacy cheating at Fiesta Merachi, but Howard Dorough is too stupid to care. There shouldn't be "unfavoreds" there is enough room on the earth for everyone. We should do background checks, not Facebook checks. Bring back forgiveness for all.
Best part about waifus is they can’t cheat on you…the worst is they can never truly love you.
(Laughs in single with a cat)
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There talkin bout uno cards being thrown under the table 13:56💀
The title is "When Did Your SO Catch You Cheating On Them?" not "When Did You Catch Your SO Cheating On You?"
The title makes it seem like they'll be from the cheater's perspective.
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