I gave my twin nephews full scholarships to study in a prestigious secondary school in SE , Nigeria where if you fail to get promoted to the next class, you either repeat or leave the school. I sternly told them that if any of them fails at any level, he must LEAVE the school and their scholarship terminated immediately. One couldn’t pass JS1 and I terminated his scholarship immediately. I don’t even know the school he is attending now. The second one is going to SS2 at the prestigious school by September and he is still enjoying my scholarship. Sometimes, you have to be very firm so people will respect your boundaries. Thank you , Dr Charles Apoki .
Dr Apoki. Sir you are my kind of person. Because of this , my siblings criticise and blackmail me despite the fact that I trained many and brought two of my siblings and my mother abroad. Whatever you do is never enough. If you are not tough , people take you for granted and will mess you up. I am the first in my family and have sacrificed my life to the family , still it’s never enough. Create boundaries and put electric babwires in life. If not people will mess you up. You are 💯 percent Sir. I wish I could give you more one thumbs up. You speak the truth. I have saved this video and will always play it back. You will live long Sir with more grace. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
It,s unfortunate today that people mistake being strict to wickedness. Jesus Christ was and still strict. My late mom was very strict. It helped me tremendously. Human beings are meant to be strictly corrected. As a Christian you have to be wise as serpent.
"If people can disregard you without consequences you will soon be grounded"- Dr Charles Apoki. This is indeed an opener i learnt a lot, had to watch twice in a roll, Thank you sir you're indeed a blessing to this generation.👍
So spot on. This is a message for me from God (Godwink). It Came at the very right time. i must admit that God have been using you to speak to me lately. That is, youve been one of my Godlinks Keep them coming
Thanks for the gems and pearls of wisdom Dad! I must confess I was choking with laughter 🤣🤣throughout your presentation because of your impeccable sense of humour! Much love and respect from Kenya.
You are a very wise man Dr Apoki. Good principles and you speak the truth. You are passionate about your life. Blessings ro you. May i get more firn with my family in the name of Jesus🙏🙏🙏🙏Amen🙏
Sir I enjoyed the words of wisdom from you 🙌 thank you sir, when you said you curse your third leg that wanted to put you into trouble, I busted into a laugh 😃
The problem is some have allowed others to weaponise the Holy Writings against them. They literally follow Jesus' advice of 'turning the left cheek'. When salesmen disrespected his dad's house, he didn't cajole them; he whipped and drove them away. Don't let unscrupulous individuals use God's mercies to enslave you.
Sir,I am a victim.your message shocked me.i now I understand accountability and responsibility., boundaries.i am bearing the consequences of my humility to my wife and house.thank you sir
Society has given a wrong narrative about Righteousness, mistaking/confusing it for Holiness, too bad 90% Christians and many other naive people are oblivious of the fact that fact. We're the eyes of the light (God), We're awareness. So many humans are yet to be awakened sir.
Negative marking is also applicable to civil aviation exams for pilots, engineers and indeed all aviation professionals. If you are not sure of the answer DO NOT GUESS.
😂😂😂 Most of us wish to have someone we can run to. Thanks DR. I run a school too. I'm the front and the back. Any attempt to involve my husband will result in an early fold up. 😢 Your wife is very fortunate. Thanks for the pep talks.
I totally agree with you , if you were not responsible or loyal with money the first time , you likely not be the second time. If we do not start calling people to order the world will be very difficult to live in.
I was literally talking to my wife about this and how I feel I let people get away with too much for the sake of peace. When I get tired and start tearing into people, I'm the bad guy, and now thats ok.
Thank you so much sir! If snake did not act like snake children will use it for rope. I'm just laughing when you are telling the story about you and mummy when she browed you money. ( Back to sender got me laughing) You're funny sir! But everything you're teaching us is true. I appreciate you sir.
Listening to the first part of this video just made me realise that Nigerians don’t read… if we did most people will realise that the first 6mins of this video are without facts but just talk.
I live in America, and i have been a Republican for over 10 years now. Donald Trump is not an exemplary leader. He is a time bomb waiting to explode. His second term will be a disaster for America. Trump is a typicalAfrican politician( ruler) @chimnanuukaejiofo4154
There's a paradigm shift in Nigeria after the protest which a lot of people have not realized yet. It's high time we change our ways of doing things and each person should be held accountable for his or her actions. This should apply to all human endeavour. There should also be consequences for our actions and inactions.
Stick to motivational speeches and leave politics aside. American politics is different, what you are saying about Donald Trump is the result of the media programming you get from listening to CNN.
Dr akpoki, please face your beautiful seminars, don't medulate into American politics,as regards Trump, have you taken time to pray about America or research why Trump is being investigated and indicted this much more than any other president in American history.
You can only condemn a tongue rising up against you if you have a RIGHT STANDING .... What if what they are saying is CORRECT? Isn't there something called CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM meant to build CHARACTER ??? What about that, Dr. Apoki???😅
I gave my twin nephews full scholarships to study in a prestigious secondary school in SE , Nigeria where if you fail to get promoted to the next class, you either repeat or leave the school. I sternly told them that if any of them fails at any level, he must LEAVE the school and their scholarship terminated immediately. One couldn’t pass JS1 and I terminated his scholarship immediately. I don’t even know the school he is attending now. The second one is going to SS2 at the prestigious school by September and he is still enjoying my scholarship. Sometimes, you have to be very firm so people will respect your boundaries. Thank you , Dr Charles Apoki .
I agree with you.
❤
I am learning
Listening to Dr. Apoki helps me to manage people . Especially family members who think they are entitled.
*"What you allow, will continue."*
@@buravan1512 so true
@@casmirifeanyi7788 I agree 100% you teach people how to treat you
Dr Apoki. Sir you are my kind of person. Because of this , my siblings criticise and blackmail me despite the fact that I trained many and brought two of my siblings and my mother abroad. Whatever you do is never enough. If you are not tough , people take you for granted and will mess you up. I am the first in my family and have sacrificed my life to the family , still it’s never enough. Create boundaries and put electric babwires in life. If not people will mess you up. You are 💯 percent Sir. I wish I could give you more one thumbs up. You speak the truth. I have saved this video and will always play it back. You will live long Sir with more grace. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
"We tolerate too much rubbish." -Dr. Charles Apoki. Thanks for the courage to tell it like it should be. Salute!
It,s unfortunate today that people mistake being strict to wickedness. Jesus Christ was and still strict. My late mom was very strict. It helped me tremendously. Human beings are meant to be strictly corrected. As a Christian you have to be wise as serpent.
You can say that again.
If you're too sweet people will eat you for breakfast, lunch and dinner... That's a fact Thanks Dr
Facts because you have turned into a candy.
True
Don’t make the mistake of letting people escape without feeling the impact of their bad behaviour. Next time they will take dressing !!
Snow flakes melt under pressure. You must be tougher than nails. Don’t be nice, but be a good person. Personal policies. One must have boundaries.
"If people can disregard you without consequences you will soon be grounded"- Dr Charles Apoki. This is indeed an opener i learnt a lot, had to watch twice in a roll, Thank you sir you're indeed a blessing to this generation.👍
Yeah!
U re absolutely right, Dr. Apoki. Ppl take u for granted when u re not strict on the boundaries
"To present yourself as a vegetable people will eat you any how." my friend Dr Charles Apoki
15:02 in Business, there's a period of attraction, retention, addiction and rejection.
😅 Dr Apoki, you are very humorous 😂❤
So spot on. This is a message for me from God (Godwink). It Came at the very right time. i must admit that God have been using you to speak to me lately. That is, youve been one of my Godlinks
Keep them coming
People must bear the consequences of their actions
DON'T CELEBRATE RUDENESS! Thank you Sir!
At the end of your video , I always join you to say “GOD BLESS YOU “ 😁🏆
Love that!
Thanks for the gems and pearls of wisdom Dad! I must confess I was choking with laughter 🤣🤣throughout your presentation because of your impeccable sense of humour!
Much love and respect from Kenya.
Wow ... My mind has been empowered, thank you for sharing, I'm heading to go make account to my sister for her phone thst got damaged in my hands
Your act of not giving a f*ck is commendable 💪🏻
Wow, Thank you so much sir for this piece. The young generation are proud of you, so much to learn from you
Papa is doing amazing. 100k soon 🎉🎉
Thank God we still have ppl like you grandpa. God bless you ijn amen 🙏🙏🙏
🤣🤣 that “curse” part… Thank you for who you are sir 🙏
My name is Dr Charles Apoki, I'm not a nice man😂😂😂
You are a very wise man Dr Apoki. Good principles and you speak the truth. You are passionate about your life. Blessings ro you. May i get more firn with my family in the name of Jesus🙏🙏🙏🙏Amen🙏
Dr.Apoki, your mother reminds me of my grandmother . I still can't eat in people's homes long after she is gone.😂😂😂
Thank you Sir. God just answered me through you. Be blessed!!!
Good evening sir thanks for your advice you are a great mentor God bless you sir
😂😂😂😂I love hearing stories about his wife .., cracks me up eee😂😂😂
Sir I enjoyed the words of wisdom from you 🙌 thank you sir, when you said you curse your third leg that wanted to put you into trouble, I busted into a laugh 😃
Don’t be nice. Be a good man but don’t be nice. By Dr Akpoki
LIFE
For every Action a consequence is attached.
The problem is some have allowed others to weaponise the Holy Writings against them. They literally follow Jesus' advice of 'turning the left cheek'. When salesmen disrespected his dad's house, he didn't cajole them; he whipped and drove them away. Don't let unscrupulous individuals use God's mercies to enslave you.
Brother and DR Charles APOKI my respect for you Sir.
Sir,I am a victim.your message shocked me.i now I understand accountability and responsibility., boundaries.i am bearing the consequences of my humility to my wife and house.thank you sir
I also hate spending money for burial.
I'm indeed overwhelmed by your broad experiences in life. Keep up the good work.
Thank you so much sir
You said it all nothing but the truth
God bless you sir
Thank you so much, Sir.
True intense realism 😊
You’re always saying the truth sir. God bless you sir.
I thank Bishop Fiano coltis for bringing you to us. I wish I knew you before now, thank you sir.
God keep keeping you my mentor.... migwo Sir
Worth listening to..
Thank Dr Charles, you just make me know my very right more in anywhere and everywhere enjoy watching you more grace sir.
Thanks for the message Sir it's life changing watching from kenya ❤
Proph Aboki you are a Christmastime teacher ,if they will understand , you are great remain blessed . from prophet Nwosu Andrew from Imo state .
True we tolerate so much that's why Africans might not go far.
We joke too much
Blessings Grandpa.
I thought I was alone. I never knew I could found a disciplinary man like you in my page. We're in the same page 😅Kudos Dr. A!
Ride on sir
Great advice Doc!
People set boundaries "if" you set them. Thats deep
FACTS!!
What am going to with trustful honesty great man, am jut laughing like crazy here, love you sir, yes you're a nice man with dignity and policies.
Thanks you sir 🙏
Yes yes sir 🙏,u ar right sir 🤙
this is the messages that should be echoed
Facts
Same with America's Iraq war, no one was held accountable
Thanks, watching from Nbi kenya
Thank you sir.
Back to sender 😅😅😅
Daddy well spoken l taught l was the only one with this crazy mentality
Koboko warrior lool.thank you sir
Wisdom
Society has given a wrong narrative about Righteousness, mistaking/confusing it for Holiness, too bad 90% Christians and many other naive people are oblivious of the fact that fact. We're the eyes of the light (God), We're awareness. So many humans are yet to be awakened sir.
Greater height by GOD Grace sir
Anyone who doesn't have value for your time, will not want to be accountable to keeping appointments....
Wisdom 🤝
Negative marking is also applicable to civil aviation exams for pilots, engineers and indeed all aviation professionals. If you are not sure of the answer DO NOT GUESS.
You too get wisdom. Na man you beeee.
😂😂😂 Most of us wish to have someone we can run to. Thanks DR.
I run a school too. I'm the front and the back. Any attempt to involve my husband will result in an early fold up. 😢
Your wife is very fortunate.
Thanks for the pep talks.
I totally agree with you , if you were not responsible or loyal with money the first time , you likely not be the second time. If we do not start calling people to order the world will be very difficult to live in.
Dr. Charles Apoki, everything you said is correct except for your reference to US politics.
Actually, most women, if not all, hate men who really think. Most also hat accountability.
More of Allah's blessings 🙌
ACCOUNTABILITY IS ALSO VALID IN RELATIONSHIPS, BECAUSE YOU CREATE A FAMILY FIRST BEFORE YOU CAN CREATE A COMMUNITY "
Don’t reward rude people
Koboko warrior 😂😂😂
Dr Aboki is my guy.
Correct guy.
Okay
I was literally talking to my wife about this and how I feel I let people get away with too much for the sake of peace.
When I get tired and start tearing into people, I'm the bad guy, and now thats ok.
You get the message
😂😂😂koboko warrior
Thank you so much sir! If snake did not act like snake children will use it for rope. I'm just laughing when you are telling the story about you and mummy when she browed you money. ( Back to sender got me laughing) You're funny sir! But everything you're teaching us is true. I appreciate you sir.
Listening to the first part of this video just made me realise that Nigerians don’t read… if we did most people will realise that the first 6mins of this video are without facts but just talk.
20 minutes walk
Legend
Lol @ may you never stand up if its not my wife.
Daddy pls I need you to really look into the issue with donald trump
It's not what it seems
Agreed. He is wrong on the Donald Trump issue. But i get his overall advice
I live in America, and i have been a Republican for over 10 years now. Donald Trump is not an exemplary leader. He is a time bomb waiting to explode.
His second term will be a disaster for America. Trump is a typicalAfrican politician( ruler) @chimnanuukaejiofo4154
😅😮😊
There's a paradigm shift in Nigeria after the protest which a lot of people have not realized yet.
It's high time we change our ways of doing things and each person should be held accountable for his or her actions.
This should apply to all human endeavour.
There should also be consequences for our actions and inactions.
Touch not my anointing.... Trump is my next president ooo God special treasurer made.
@@johnfamous6316 God forbids bad things. Kamala Harris is the president after Biden
What is it about Trump and Africans? He insults them and they adore him
Accountahilty in Africa? 😂😂
Stick to motivational speeches and leave politics aside. American politics is different, what you are saying about Donald Trump is the result of the media programming you get from listening to CNN.
Dr akpoki, please face your beautiful seminars, don't medulate into American politics,as regards Trump, have you taken time to pray about America or research why Trump is being investigated and indicted this much more than any other president in American history.
He is right. Trump must be held accountable for his words and actions. The man is a rapist
Dr Charles Apoki stop watching CNN and it's likes.
You can only condemn a tongue rising up against you if you have a RIGHT STANDING ....
What if what they are saying is CORRECT?
Isn't there something called CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM meant to build CHARACTER ???
What about that, Dr. Apoki???😅
I like your message. But leave Donald Trump alone. You are wrong on seeing politics in America as guided by morality.