Very good explanation. Because being casual can make you a casualty of a war you were never meant to sign up for.... one of the biggest lessons of maturation! 👏🏾
Hi Caleb, thank you for this reminder!! I also feel you made the best choice by moving forward. That question alone spoke volume on her character and the fruit of her spirit. God bless you!
Caleb as a woman myself you did right to keep it moving with her. I NEVER in my life have I came at a guy like that .Like you said she have let u say something to her first.
This is just what I needed to hear! I recently have been communicating with a guy and we have a lot of commonalities but we aren't spiritually compatible and that's a big deal for me.
You absolutely did the right thing honoring yourself. I believe rejecting people that are out of line is doing the Lord's work. Hopefully, they'll have some introspection from the rejection that will cause some growth. 🙏🏽
Caleb, I agree with how you handled the coffee shop situation. She showed you EXACTLY who she was and you caught it, good for you! The audacity to ask a complete stranger to buy you anything is in fact a red flag. Let's you know that she is comfortable with her approach which is very sad. But what blows my mind is when you said women were messaging you about how "wrong" you were lol lol lol. It's the culture that has got ppl so oblivious to the proper way to greet someone when you first meet them. And I agree if you would of pursued her she would have been asking you to pay a bill or some bills. You will find her just keep growing in God, continue to keep your heart right along with your character. Many continued blessings!
Such a wonderful message. That double mindedness! I realized that about myself a few months ago. Like, I wanted someone that would loved me, but I was with and wanted someone that was not loving me. Idk… it’s over thank God. Thank Father for revelation. Thank you for sharing your message. It is much needed ❤🙏🏾
This was beyond good im praying everyone take alot from this video so much great information for the soul thanks so much for sharing and its amazing to keep seeing you grow in so many ways helping us alot God Bless You
As a woman, I fully endorse your approach. We’re witnessing a generation of women who can sometimes be overly assertive, and I’m grateful that you were able to steer her away from that misguided behavior.
Marriage is about sacrifice and putting your spouse’s needs ahead of your own. Dying to your self daily. So no need to waste time dating someone who isn’t intentionally pursuing that path! Good reminder thanks!
I don’t believe in potential are the new words I need to live by because I constantly give people the benefit of the doubt, when in reality you are who you are
Women prey on men too.. just in a different way. I'm glad you were wise enough to dodge that bullet and see that she wasn't aligned w/ you because she surely wasn't and had no intention of being aligned w/ you. when she locked eyes w/ you, she locked eyes with her next target/victim . I can tell from that whole explanation of the interaction. It's brutal out here, y'all be careful.
I personally never liked a woman asking a man to buy her anything. It does show what type of person you are. I don’t do it and always felt that way. It’s different if it’s your man and you have that relationship.
That lady should have smiled and said hi how are you or what brings you here? Smh she just wanted a free drink. If someone leads with their wallet, looks etc.
Idk I have mixed views. You could have seen it as a charity case. If she asked for a drink, buy her drink and then move along with your day. That would've been your good deed. Because you had your intentions on pursuing her, doesn't mean the feelings were mutual. The example you used with the homeless man, that would've asked for a $1, would you use the same sentiment "Naw I'm good".... I'm guessing you were satisfied answering "Naw I'm good". Also as a Christian, you could've spread the word to her. I see both sides.....
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Very good explanation. Because being casual can make you a casualty of a war you were never meant to sign up for.... one of the biggest lessons of maturation! 👏🏾
Hi Caleb, thank you for this reminder!! I also feel you made the best choice by moving forward. That question alone spoke volume on her character and the fruit of her spirit. God bless you!
Caleb as a woman myself you did right to keep it moving with her. I NEVER in my life have I came at a guy like that .Like you said she have let u say something to her first.
You definitely made the right call. Sometimes, the smallest things can tell you a lot about someone's character.
10:18 your discernment was spot on because the old version of me use to be quick to say that in my T-Pain voice 🎶Can you buy me a drink 🎶🎶🎶😂😂😂
@NeshaMichelSpeakUp 😂😂
@@NeshaMichelSpeakUp now, why ya have to go and do that..I’m over hear humming that song now lol 🤦🏽♀️😂🤣
@msangbro me too 😂😂 why is that song in my head now 😅😅
@@msangbro 😂😂😂
This is just what I needed to hear! I recently have been communicating with a guy and we have a lot of commonalities but we aren't spiritually compatible and that's a big deal for me.
Very powerful message bro Caleb, God bless you 🙏🏽🫡
Caleb, you did right. It sounds like you allowed discernment to lead you. What's for you, already has your name on it.🙏🏽👏🏽
Love this❤... Derailments are real Ladies stay focused
Well said, Caleb! We don’t need any time wasters in 2025…only purpose partners 🙏🏽
@msangbro Purpose 2025 🗣️
You absolutely did the right thing honoring yourself. I believe rejecting people that are out of line is doing the Lord's work. Hopefully, they'll have some introspection from the rejection that will cause some growth. 🙏🏽
Some people are so full of themselves that they hardly look within themselves. We should pray that they do that and learn a lesson soon.
Another on time message.🎯
Yes!!! Thank God for discernment.
Caleb, I agree with how you handled the coffee shop situation. She showed you EXACTLY who she was and you caught it, good for you! The audacity to ask a complete stranger to buy you anything is in fact a red flag. Let's you know that she is comfortable with her approach which is very sad. But what blows my mind is when you said women were messaging you about how "wrong" you were lol lol lol. It's the culture that has got ppl so oblivious to the proper way to greet someone when you first meet them. And I agree if you would of pursued her she would have been asking you to pay a bill or some bills. You will find her just keep growing in God, continue to keep your heart right along with your character. Many continued blessings!
Such a valuable video on intent and purpose! Thank you for sharing your view point. This will help a lot of people! God bless!
Such a wonderful message. That double mindedness! I realized that about myself a few months ago. Like, I wanted someone that would loved me, but I was with and wanted someone that was not loving me. Idk… it’s over thank God. Thank Father for revelation. Thank you for sharing your message. It is much needed ❤🙏🏾
I 1,000% respect this perspective. Definitely gleaned from this as well 💯
Thank you Caleb, I really needed this. This is perfect in its timing!
All facts I’ve lived to learn! Thanks for your perspective, it’s resonates with my experience.
Great message👏🏾👏🏾
This is good, thank you Caleb. Keep allowing God to use you 🙌🏽
This was beyond good im praying everyone take alot from this video so much great information for the soul thanks so much for sharing and its amazing to keep seeing you grow in so many ways helping us alot God Bless You
Excellent perspective…Love the content
Absolutely, we must stay the course! Amen 🙏
Great perspective and respect!
As a woman, I fully endorse your approach. We’re witnessing a generation of women who can sometimes be overly assertive, and I’m grateful that you were able to steer her away from that misguided behavior.
Great advice!! 🔥🔥🔥
That makes a lot of sense!
yes sir! Thank you 🙏🏽
Love this! Thank you
Powerful.
Marriage is about sacrifice and putting your spouse’s needs ahead of your own. Dying to your self daily. So no need to waste time dating someone who isn’t intentionally pursuing that path! Good reminder thanks!
She was flirting with you, and you got offended....
I don’t believe in potential are the new words I need to live by because I constantly give people the benefit of the doubt, when in reality you are who you are
Great decision....I've decided to move with intent as well.
Women prey on men too.. just in a different way. I'm glad you were wise enough to dodge that bullet and see that she wasn't aligned w/ you because she surely wasn't and had no intention of being aligned w/ you. when she locked eyes w/ you, she locked eyes with her next target/victim . I can tell from that whole explanation of the interaction. It's brutal out here, y'all be careful.
2:27 🙌🏽Yes Sir
Im terrible at picking so I told God im done you going to have to send me my husband directly so I could know lol
Please Get out my Head. Your so correct. A wolf in sheep clothing 🙏🏼
Amen in Jesus Christ name
very timely word!
I personally never liked a woman asking a man to buy her anything. It does show what type of person you are. I don’t do it and always felt that way. It’s different if it’s your man and you have that relationship.
Thank you
That lady should have smiled and said hi how are you or what brings you here? Smh she just wanted a free drink. If someone leads with their wallet, looks etc.
Purpose driven🙏🏾 Jeremiah 29:11
Idk I have mixed views. You could have seen it as a charity case. If she asked for a drink, buy her drink and then move along with your day. That would've been your good deed. Because you had your intentions on pursuing her, doesn't mean the feelings were mutual. The example you used with the homeless man, that would've asked for a $1, would you use the same sentiment "Naw I'm good".... I'm guessing you were satisfied answering "Naw I'm good". Also as a Christian, you could've spread the word to her. I see both sides.....
@@indigohelps7715 - Yes, seems to me that he got offended easily with her. That’s not loving…
I said I hope she investing some of the money she tricking off guys for when she gets older 😂.
Discernment.
Opportunistic
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👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thanks bro great points, this is Nayim btw lol