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  • @ShellyBomb
    @ShellyBomb Год назад +71

    The fact you two found each other in this day & age and married as virgins, is pretty phenomenal ~
    🕊️ 💕 💒 ~

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад +8

      I would have to agree! She is something special! God bless you!!!
      -Cody

    • @ShellyBomb
      @ShellyBomb Год назад +5

      @@OurFruitfulFamily
      Hello from California: I have been watching and catching up on your "Love Story", Homesteading, and, your beautiful boys! What an amazing life you have created together! And, YES - your wife is gorgeous and sweet as can be ... God bless all of you too! 🕊️

  • @inspiringsimple
    @inspiringsimple 2 года назад +97

    It seems very common for Americans to start dating so young. My husband and I started dating when I was 20, married at 23. Then for the next 14 years we had babies. 10 in total. No sex before marriage. My husband and I are both so grateful that we waited.

    • @bibekjung7404
      @bibekjung7404 Год назад +1

      LIVING BEING IS OUR RACE, MANKIND IS OUR RELIGION, HINDU,MUSLIM,SIKH,CHRISTAIN, THERE IS NO SEPARATE RELIGION
      ALMIGHTY GOD KABIR is the father of all souls that JESUS, MOHAMMAD, GURU NANAK, VEDH was telling in BIBLE, QURAN, GURU GRANTHA SAHEB
      .. In OLD Orthodox Jewish Bible KABIR is mentioned...KABIR means (GREAT or MIGHTY GOD) in hebrew...but when translated in different languages translator removed KABIR word..
      Quran written in arabic has also KABIR word....KABIR means THE GREAT in arabic.....

    • @shaileshthapa7690
      @shaileshthapa7690 Год назад

      @@bibekjung7404 Jesus is Lord. The only way to eternal life. The only God.

  • @FreeThinker85
    @FreeThinker85 2 года назад +37

    The purity of waiting until you are married shows by the way that you look at each other.

  • @rwright3998
    @rwright3998 2 года назад +130

    What a beautiful story! I’m single, saving myself for marriage, and 36 years old! Thank you for sharing this hopeful story for those of us not willing to live by the world’s standards or settle for less than God’s plan for our lives ❤

  • @pattrout3571
    @pattrout3571 2 года назад +93

    Also we were both virgins 24 and 25 now 73 and 74. Loved your chats

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +11

      That is so encouraging! Thank you for that Pat! God bless you!

  • @Texasmommaof5
    @Texasmommaof5 Год назад +29

    I met my husband when I was 22, he was 26. I had a “boyfriend” in 4/5th grade, but had never truly dated anyone. My first few years of college I had a few guys ask me out, but I was very firm on the believe I didn’t want to just date to date.
    Our first date was a school picnic and it was so fun and I knew by the end of the day that I was going to marry him.
    We got married a year and one month later. We had never held hands, kissed or hugged. Instead of kissing me after our vows he pulled me in for a big hug, then he kissed me. ♥️

  • @racheloshaksmusic
    @racheloshaksmusic 2 года назад +164

    The wife looks like a delicate, warm cream flower. Your son is so beautiful, his fiery red hair! 🥺🥰❤️❤️❤️ your story is amazing. I was like that in secondary school to, I set my heart to save my virginity for my husband. And I’m still waiting I’m 21 years old.

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +26

      Awe! You are so kind! Your words were a breathe of fresh air this morning! God will reward you abundantly for your faithfulness! ❤️ God bless you!

    • @racheloshaksmusic
      @racheloshaksmusic 2 года назад +11

      @@OurFruitfulFamily awh praise God! And amen , thank you 🥺❤️🙌🏾

    • @gerrodzuber3243
      @gerrodzuber3243 2 года назад +8

      @@OurFruitfulFamily I'm glad everything worked out for you, congrats. I'm 30 and still waiting to get married. It's definitely the hardest thing I've ever done. How did you get through the years of waiting?

    • @2Ajosh
      @2Ajosh 2 года назад +4

      @@gerrodzuber3243 your wife is on the way❤️🙏🏾. soon !

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +5

      @@gerrodzuber3243 We actually made a video on that one ha ha!
      ruclips.net/video/QRBxcxQCEvc/видео.html

  • @hammettgirl
    @hammettgirl 2 года назад +28

    Relate so much with your love story! My husband and I were high school sweethearts, virgins, married at 19, had 3 kids by age 25, have 12 grandchildren and just celebrated our 43rd wedding anniversary. It's the way!! 💕

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +4

      That is so inspirational!!!!! Thank you so much for sharing! God bless you!!!

  • @granadaalf7037
    @granadaalf7037 Год назад +7

    I'm 30 y.o woman and still virgin. I met someone and he is waiting for me. we have plan to get married soon. Love your video. May God protect your beautiful family❤

  • @TealZebraStripes14
    @TealZebraStripes14 2 года назад +15

    I cannot point out how stressful it was as an young female going through school thinking the same thing that there isn't someone who wants to save themselves and has the same beliefs

  • @johnpaulmoses5630
    @johnpaulmoses5630 Год назад +12

    That’s exactly my mindset too!!! I NEVER wanted to date all these people, I just want THE ONE ❤️❤️

  • @alyssacook1711
    @alyssacook1711 Год назад +28

    Thank you for mentioning those of us who had stuff done to us and/or did things that we are not proud of, that we can start now and abstain and pray for our future spouse.

  • @janr5360
    @janr5360 Год назад +32

    This beautiful couple are such a breath of fresh air. How inspiring their story is. I hope a lot of young people will view their story. It gives one hope for our future generation.

  • @TogetherForeverOct09
    @TogetherForeverOct09 Год назад +18

    I Love this so much!
    My Husband and I grew up in the same church since the nursery. Been through jr Camps, and Sunday schools and more! I actually started liking him at 11 and he had just turned 13.I started praying for my spouse at 11 years old. Nothing happened til 15 and 16 When we went to a Teen Camp in Canada. God was dealing with him about something and he was crying and in that moment my heart had a connection with is. Long story short at 15 and 17 we officially started....not dating and not courting, but he called it "reserving". We never kissed til our wedding day and saved ourselves til marriage. We got married at 20 and 22. We have been married for almost 9 years. We have 4 babies and have moved a lot due to Army life. But he is currently deployed and my heart is longing for him. Thank you for sharing your story. And for being a Godly example to many young couples. Your story encouraged me and has me almost in tears missing my hubby.

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад +4

      God bless you and your family. It’s because of men like your husband that our nation is free. He is a hero.

  • @kaitlinclatterbuck70
    @kaitlinclatterbuck70 2 года назад +13

    My husband and I were raised as "Christians" but in a very broken worldly way . We came together as very broken worldly people with a lot of baggage at only 18 years old . We have fully recommited our lives to christ and have 6 children . Our story looks and sounds totally different than how we wished it was . A lot of struggles with tainted hearts and minds from our worldy lives growing up. I can't wait for our kids to have a pure love and marriage with out the worldly struggles we have had to go through when if we were just taught different we would have made different choices and life wouldn't have been as hard but I do know it has brought us to where we are and we are blessed and now we have the opportunity to raise our babies the right way and give them a better head start in life ❤ props to both of your parents for the way they raised the 2 of you ! You're adorable and an inspiration to see what the future could hold for my kids if we keep on keeping on ❤

    • @kaitlinclatterbuck70
      @kaitlinclatterbuck70 2 года назад +1

      And I am just so excited to talk to my kids about this and witness through my broken story when they're a little older ❤

  • @jenniferklein3138
    @jenniferklein3138 Год назад +14

    I love you doing this. Even though its a touchy topic, it is important for other young women and men to hear. Dont be ashamed or embarrassed.

  • @keilana6
    @keilana6 Год назад +6

    So beautiful. Wish I had been able to see videos like this 50 years ago. Wonderful to see so many stories about a pure marriage. May many young people be drawn to watch & learn from these special couples. ❤

  • @keisha_Molina7
    @keisha_Molina7 Год назад +7

    I wish it was more guys out there, saving their self until marriage I am also a Christian woman saving myself until marriage but can’t seem to find a guy that wants to do the same. Found your channel today. keep posting videos love them and God bless you both

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад +5

      They are out there Keisha, probably thinking the same thing you are right now. Seek God in prayer. Lay this burden on him. He will carry it for you. He will orchestrate things in a way that is unmistakable and you will know when he has shown you the one he has saved for you. God bless you.

  • @michellegabriel2990
    @michellegabriel2990 Год назад +11

    You guys are so cute & refreshing in your purity & innocence & your joy in the Lord & in each other is so beautiful, a testimony to the world, hallelujah! And my husband was 48 & I was 34 when we married & we were both virgins & it was beautiful & wonderful & the Lord is so good!

  • @michelecarroll8168
    @michelecarroll8168 2 года назад +24

    I love to see you young people keeping your morals and values and faith in front of everything else. Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring other young couples or just young people in general. Beautiful story

  • @k-leeatwell-stoltz6464
    @k-leeatwell-stoltz6464 2 года назад +5

    My sweet daughter and her boyfriend are like you all. They only kiss. She is adamant that she's waiting for marriage and he agrees that is Gods best. You both are so kind to share your beautiful life with us. Blessings

  • @lilninibee
    @lilninibee Год назад +6

    This is beautiful and you two are such an inspiration to me. I’m a Gen Z and society pushes sex and hookup culture and I’m a young lady who doesn’t want to fit in anymore, I use to as a teenager but now that I’m 20, I want to stay true to myself. I’m a virgin and I’ve made the decision to stay that way until God blessed me with the young man that he himself made and designed for me. I had my first real teen kiss at 18. So, 2 years ago, it was ok but not the best, it was rushed more on the guy’s part. I wasn’t ready for that and was upset about it, stopped talking to him and haven’t done anything since. I don’t count that as my first real kiss because it wasn’t something I wanted. Ever since I was child, I promised God to stay pure and wait for my person. ❤ Again, thank you for sharing your beautiful story.

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад +3

      And thank you so much for sharing a piece of your story with us! I look forward to hearing back from you when God reveals your spouse to you!! God bless you!!!

  • @Kopitskid78
    @Kopitskid78 Год назад +16

    I'm still waiting for that specific person God has for me. But everything you have talked about in your blogs have resonated deep within me. Finally, a couple willing to post true commitment, true honor, and exactly why. You both delve deep into the reasons. You don't have to share it, but you do. This is so refreshing to read and hear, because not to often do you hear about someone waiting.
    The waiting is worth it. Thank you for being who you are!

  • @samanthalabreck5837
    @samanthalabreck5837 3 года назад +59

    You guys… This is such an amazing story and as a Mom of a young Christian girl (10 years old) this gives me so much hope for her future in this lost world ❤️ Thank you so much for sharing. 🙏🏻

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  3 года назад +9

      Awe! That makes me so happy to hear! God laid it on our hearts to share our story specifically for young ones and their parents wanting them to be raised up and defy worldly views and expectations placed on them! God is good! Keep praying for your little one!

    • @hlengiwendaba8345
      @hlengiwendaba8345 2 года назад +4

      Me too, my son is 14 and daughter 11, ice started to pray for God fearing spouses if the Lord grants them marriage, so this id truly encouraging.
      My little sister is 20 I’ll be sharing this with her, we are all saved, I’m 39 married for 16 years to a loving wonderful God fearing man, who loves me 😍.
      Thank you for sharing your story 🙏🏼❤️

    • @marymiller6107
      @marymiller6107 Год назад +1

      Yes and amen 🙏 God has a plan

  • @LB-ku6ry
    @LB-ku6ry Год назад +8

    You guys are a breath of fresh air! Your parents must be so proud of you! What control you both had! And you were asking God for strength and he blessed you with it! You two make me smile and bring me joy! Really! My heart is full for the both of you! God bless! ❤

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад +3

      Calling upon God is the only way to make it through something like this. Temptation absolutely insane!

  • @ttbko
    @ttbko 2 года назад +9

    I have only just found you and what a joy you are! I don't share your faith or belief but I don't feel I need to. What I do share is the love and joy you so obviously have for each other and that warms my heart. I recently lost my soulmate, best friend and and partner and I miss him more than I ever thought was possible. We had 30 lovely, funny, adventurous years together so if I was to offer one notion to you, it is never miss an opportunity to tell your partner you love them. The time will come when they can't let.you know they hear you any longer to say it and show it and enjoy it. Thank you for this and may I end by commenting in just how beautiful Jessie is. I love your gorgeous red hair!!!! Live long and love longer ❤️

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +3

      Wow! What a wonderful compliment. I would like to say how sorry I am for the loss of your dearest love. God bless you… and thank you so much for the overwhelmingly sweet comment!

  • @tinafehr4558
    @tinafehr4558 2 года назад +7

    Love your story, that’s how dating should be, can’t imagine how hard that must have been, God truly blessed

  • @tellahnarawa5453
    @tellahnarawa5453 2 года назад +12

    Hello guys. I am honored very honored to have come across your video. I've been thinking about , not boys, not sex or any plans but marriage lately which I think is very weird.🥴. This video really has helped me a lot and praise God and his mysterious works to have known what's going on inside my head 🥺, leading me to click onto this video. THIS IS WONDERFUL. 💗. Much much love and God bless your little family.

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +1

      Awe! I'm so happy God led you to our video and that you found encouragement through it! God is so good and he is always moving even in the smallest of ways! Thank you so much for your sweet comment! It truly does encourage us :) God bless you!

  • @kathycusumano2445
    @kathycusumano2445 2 года назад +18

    Wow you two are such a refreshing LOVELY COUPLE!! Maybe because I am much much older, and a Christian(Catholic) I see so CLEARLY how God had a beautiful plan bringing you both together! Thank you for sharing this on you tube. Not sure how I came across your video, but I am so happy I did.
    God bless you and your young family!

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +3

      Awe Thank you so much for your sweet comment! We find so much encouragement through comments like yours! To God be the Glory in All things! So happy you found our video! God bless you!!!

  • @canadiannapoleon
    @canadiannapoleon Год назад +4

    As a Latter Day Saint, I really admire you two for keeping things chaste and saving yourself for marriage! I have been taught in church to live in the world, but not of it! God Bless You!!!

  • @tireddad6541
    @tireddad6541 2 года назад +13

    In a way, for me this is how I did it, I looked at it as honoring my wife, then my girlfriend. I did not want to dishonor her.
    And on my wedding, I stood before God and committed myself to her.
    I am a sinner, no disputing that. But I chose to be faithful.
    It is funny, I think, that this is Evangelical in the best sense of tge word. Having a child, loving your kids.
    Wanting to be a good dad. Evangelical.
    I went to a Men's conference and before it started, we were getting coffee and a snack and introduced ourselves to other men.
    A few were asking, what do you want from this conference.
    I said to be a better dad. A better husband.
    Another man I didn't know, he responded. Me too.

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +4

      Gods plan is always the right plan! Sounds like you did things right as well! God bless you! I’m so happy you enjoyed this video enough to comment!

  • @boomboombelle
    @boomboombelle Год назад +3

    Just discovered your channel. Beautiful couple and awesome story!

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад

      thank you so much! Welcome to the channel! God bless you!

  • @davidulrich1693
    @davidulrich1693 Год назад +4

    It's definitely refreshing hearing about love stories like this that are this...pure and clean...especially in our modern world today. Patience and waiting seems to be a lost virtue, especially specifically in regards to waiting on God...and in relationships. You guys are Awesome in Christ and I try my best Not to be envious...I mean, here I am pushing 30, still trying to live for God, though imperfectly...and no matter how much I've dreamed of getting married...have a beautiful story not unlike yours...let's just say God had other plans...and it's overall been a very painful and lonely journey. Setting aside all that whining though...still trusting God's gonna make something beautiful out of it...I wish I was Through this part of my life, but I'm not...so just hanging in there...focusing on Jesus really helps numb the pain. But Good for you guys. Love your story. Makes me smile. :) Gonna keep Binging the Toups Time. lol

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад +4

      Thank you so much for sharing this with us. We can only speculate whenever it comes to our lives, and God’s plan for us. As mere human beings… we were not made to understand every plan God has for us. As you already know… That is difficult to swallow. I am going to pray for you right now. I will pray for God‘s guidance in your life and understanding of the situation that he currently has you in. God bless you, David!

  • @ThrifterPickerShipper
    @ThrifterPickerShipper Год назад +4

    You two are SO blessed. I watched this with a lump in my throat, so touching, the love of God. I'm 58 now, but I would have given anything to have been raised by parents who loved the Lord and brought me up that way. Praise the Lord, I found Him and got saved, just a little too late for this kind of love story. What beautiful God serving parents you both had and that goes a long way in this touching story.

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад +2

      Thank you for sharing this with us Debbie and for the encouragement! God bless you!!!

  • @shaunjones6343
    @shaunjones6343 2 года назад +10

    I'm so Thankful and grateful to yall for sharing your story, and your testimonies. So many young couples need to hear,positive Godly encouraging stories.I was 18 when God called me,And at age 20 I started making bad Choices,and continued to make them for years,I didn't wait on the Lord,its so important to know and to share with Young people that we need to wait on the Lord HE truly knows best and HIS best is the best.I have reeped what I have sowed,and it has been hard.But also know God does redeem,and what satan meant for Evil,God does use for HIS Glory.But waiting on God spares you of so much heartache and sorrow! Father God's Blessings be upon you and your Children,as you share Your love story and your Faith in our Lord Jesus Christ. Thank you very sweet Christ Followers🙏 ❤ 🙏❤

  • @JocelynnBenitt
    @JocelynnBenitt 7 месяцев назад +1

    I just discovered you guys yesterday. Let me tell you, you guys are awesome! I know exactly the kind of hardships chastity comes with. My boyfriend and I have done everything you said no to, except sex. It's so difficult. I have so much respect for you two. My boyfriend and I have been dating since we were 17. We are both now 21. We also plan to get married after college, which is another year. Your love story is beautiful. It reminded me a lot of how I met my boyfriend. Like you, I had been praying for my future husband and asked God to allow him to have all these qualities. Amazingly, God granted every single quality. Trey and I met for the first time on October 6th, 2017. I just had my birthday 2 days prior and was 15. It was the last song of the night, and it was a slow song. I was heading out because all of my female friends had partnered up, singling me out. Trey, my current boyfriend, asked me to dance. This was the first time I'd ever met him. We danced, and I never wanted the song to end. At the end of the song, Trey dipped me. This was the first time I was dipped. On our way out, being the romantic he is, he kissed my hand as we were saying goodbye. A year passed, and he never went to the dance again. Then, on my birthday in 2019, I was a Homecoming candidate for my class. I must have been in 10th grade. When I was waiting for the first dance of the night, I got a feeling that Trey would be there. I mistook a senior for being Trey because he looked similar. Then I realized that it wasn't the senior when Trey came bursting in a minute before we'd be announced. My dance partner was a joke. He had switched from a nice suit to sesame street clothes. During the entire duration of the first dance, all I wanted to do was dance with him. After the dance, I could not find him. He just disappeared. I learned later that he went home to take a nap. Towards the end of the night, I wished that I could dance with the boy I had danced with 2 years ago. A female voice said in my head, "He's here." I was dancing a line dance awkwardly. I get my directions wrong. So the song would tell me to go right, I'd go left and vice versa. One time, when the Cupid's Shuffle said to spin, I happened to glance over to Trey and saw that he was looking at me. The next few times I looked, he wasn't looking my way. He later told me that he was trying to sneakily take glances at me for fear of being a stalker. After the song was done, I propped myself up against a mat on the wall, trying to get the courage to ask him to dance. I didn't need to, though. The next time I looked in his direction, I realized he was walking toward me. I was trying to tell myself that he was probably heading toward one of the girls behind me so I would not be disappointed when he walked past me. To my astonishment and delight, he stopped in front of me. He asked me to dance. I said, "Yes," and we danced. After the song, I did what I promised myself before the dance had started. If I danced with another boy besides the one I was forced to dance the first dance with, I would give him my number. I told him I wanted to give him my number. I thought he was joking when he said he didn't have a phone. I did not account for if he didn't have a phone. My stubbornness didn't let no be the final answer. I sped walked all the way to the hallway. It was comical. Out of the corner of my eye, I saw Trey speed walk ahead of me. I would have doubled over in laughter if I didn't have a mission. Trey asked one of his friends if she had a pencil. I don't think she did. However, there just so happened to be a pencil on the table below a poster about the Shrine Circus. Anyway, Trey tore a piece of the poster and handed it to me. While I was writing it down, he commented that my handwriting was nicer than his. I again thought he was joking. He was not. I turned it over to write my name on the back, then realized my name was too long to fit on the back. I gave the paper to him with just my phone number. He asks me if I want to dance the final song. As it turned out, there were two songs left. We danced those two songs. Now, for ease of reading I left this detail out. I thought Trey's name was Trenton both chance encounters. It was only after the dance was over that a mutual friend told me his name was Trey. I thought that was a nickname. It was not. She also thought he might have a girlfriend. I learned later that he did not. That relationship she mentioned only lasted a couple weeks. He hadn't been dating anyone for a week at least. Anyway, after the dance, one might say I got obsessed with him. I had learned that he was a football player, so I found him in the football lineup. He went to a different school but our schools were commented with sports. Trey was late because the game that was meant to be a homegame was in a place an hour away from my school. Anyway, 2 weeks go by, and I finally make a comment to my mom about the boy. She asked me why I didn't find him on Facebook. Later that day, I found his name. I snooped around on his account to make sure I got the right person. I did and I messaged him a long message similar to this one. I said something along the lines of, "If you want to talk, I'd love to get to know you. If not, please tell me so I can leave you alone." So that long message would have scared away any boy, but it didn't scare Trey away. He messaged me an hour later because he was watching Star Trek. I found that hilarious. After that, the rest is history. We had a long distance relationship for about a year despite being less than 40 miles away. Covid was a pain in my rear. Anyway, if you've read this, kuddos to you. I hope you enjoyed my love story. I know I want to be with Trey forever and for always as my necklace he got me says. I hope everyone who reads this finds the love of their life. God bless.

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  7 месяцев назад

      Wow sister! What a story!!!! Thank you so much for taking the time to share it with us. (And yes, we read the whole thing)!!! It's the least we could do being you listened to ours :)! Be sure to check out the "Let's talk Sex" and "Let's talk Relationships" playlist! I think it'll be very much help to you during this dating phase! God bless you guys!!!

  • @barbarabryan1304
    @barbarabryan1304 Год назад +8

    Thank you for being committed to God for your future. I found this very outdated way to bless young peoples futures when hearing a pastor talk at a homeschooling convention in the 90's that I attending with my young teenage daughters. I knew I had done it the wrong way myself but wanted this God ordained protection for my girls. So I committed myself to learning more. Little did I know that I would divorce and because I loved God, I dedicated my life to this waybof living myself. I became a youth minister and wow was this an unpopular message. Most parents didn't see the need for the protection provided with the true love waits message. We attended Pam Stenzel confrence and the teens did not like the message of warning. I am now raising a teenager granddaughter that deserves the protection even more. Weve been praying for her future spouse. My daughters went thru the deconstruction of theyre faith but I will remain steadfast as I come along side my granddaughter who deserves Gods bright future. And I am still waiting myself, trusting God for my future and may just have a gift of singleness for life lol! Not a popular movement for 60 year olds. Women need protection and deserve happiness and I will not compromise my position. God first always. His plan is perfect. Thank you for being so real.

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад +2

      Thank you so much for sharing your story with this Barbara. God bless you and your granddaughter!

  • @umakantadigalofficial4856
    @umakantadigalofficial4856 2 года назад +11

    I'm so glad to see you on RUclips... Praise God 🥰 . I'm also in relationship... When I was very young from that time I was praying for a godly girl... God answered my prayers.... I'm really excited to see you as Christian couple👫 From India🇮🇳 love you guys

  • @jonastroyer6221
    @jonastroyer6221 2 года назад +14

    That’s a beautiful story! I appreciate you guys putting yourselves out there like this.
    Jessie, you should stop accepting the accusations of having been a “goody-two-shoes” when you were younger. All of us did things when we were young, that our older, wiser selves think could have been handled in a better way. But I’m sure, that with God’s help, you were being the best you that you knew how to be.
    Don’t let it condemn you. Be free to be yourself!

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +6

      Thank you so much for the encouraging words Jonas. They are greatly appreciated. God bless you.

  • @memedavis4228
    @memedavis4228 Год назад +10

    I just found your channel and subscribed. I feel blessed to see how much you love God and each other. The dedication to honor God in every step of your life is refreshing to say the least. I look forward to seeing your life bloom into what God has planned for you! ❤hugs

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад +1

      Welcome to the family Meme!!! God bless you! Thank you for your kind words!

  • @jainraju3573
    @jainraju3573 2 года назад +6

    So greatful to hear your love story❤. I'm 20 and me and my boyfriend is saving ourselves for marriage

  • @crisl9079
    @crisl9079 Год назад +5

    You guys are adorable. I hope young ppl watch your story, you guys are good role models. So happy you guys were blessed with each other. God is good.
    Jessie, I can relate, I’m also a type A overachiever…power to the nerds!🤓😁

  • @tommydaniels7113
    @tommydaniels7113 Год назад +3

    Wow so thankful for your wise choice , our granddaughter just got married and they both had kept hemselves pure , so thankful

  • @monchericlark2652
    @monchericlark2652 2 года назад +16

    I enjoyed this story! So sweet and such a testament of what God can do 🥰. Blessings and much love to the both of you!

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +1

      You are so sweet Mon’Cheri and what a beautiful name you have! Wow! We serve an amazing God don’t we? He never ceases to amaze me with his grace. God bless you and thank you so much for watching our videos!!! I look forward to hearing from you on another video!

  • @hannithurntwgypsyranch2146
    @hannithurntwgypsyranch2146 Год назад +5

    What a amazing story . Love how the Lord works. He kicked me in the back of my head I like to say, when I asked my now husband, not even my boyfriend to easter sunday dinner to meet the family.

  • @christinaprice3877
    @christinaprice3877 2 года назад +4

    Thank you both for sharing your story! I am a virgin and saving myself for marriage. I moved from Illinois to Florida in faith for school and also because I had a feeling that God placed on my heart like I missed my future mate whom I have never met before. I definitely feel drawn here and I’m trusting in God!!!

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +3

      Wow Christina! I can’t wait to hear from you in the future About this!!!!! That is so exciting! While also more than likely a bit scary! Trusting in God was never supposed to be easy. I pray God blesses you immensely for taking that leap of faith!

    • @christinaprice3877
      @christinaprice3877 2 года назад +3

      @@OurFruitfulFamily Thank you! I will definitely share my testimony as this unfolds and thankful for the journey!!

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +3

      @@christinaprice3877 we look forward to it!

  • @bjornroman1
    @bjornroman1 2 года назад +7

    Watching you again is so promising. In a way I wish I had had your upbringing in a Christian home but I didn’t. So I went through a lot of relationships filled with pain and suffering until I was finally saved and baptised at the age of 45. To see your faith in the lord is so uplifting and how mature you are is also proof of his love for his children. God bless you and what you share! I feel so blessed to have found your channel today. Love you! ❤️

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад

      Thank you so much for those words of encouragement! God bless you for that!

    • @shaunsteele8244
      @shaunsteele8244 Год назад +1

      I was brought up in a Christian home, but I still didn't save myself for marriage. I had intended to, but when I first started dating at 20 years old the temptation proved to be too great for both of us. I wanted to get married, but she didn't and so I was left "tainted" by that experience. I eventually did marry a virgin, but I was not so I felt bad about that. So not everyone raised in a Christian home is so fortunate.

  • @ellarosales2068
    @ellarosales2068 2 года назад +8

    Beautiful Godly love story! What a God’s blessing 🤍🤍

  • @maverickngaihte5629
    @maverickngaihte5629 2 года назад +6

    This is d most valuable video that I hav evr found!Not only ur parents..our heavenly Father will b proud of you.this video is worth more than a thousand books.every young nd single christian should watch and it deserve a thousand million views .love u guys 😍

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +2

      Oh my goodness… you just made my day. Thank you so much! God bless you!

  • @Lettie22
    @Lettie22 2 года назад +3

    Absolutely beautiful story, I wish more than anything I could have had a story similar. I wasn't bought up Christian and went totally off the rails. I regret every second. It's so lovely to hear stories like these. Beautiful family 💕

  • @kelleybrooke2916
    @kelleybrooke2916 Год назад +2

    solo and saving self here ... thanku for the inspiration ... caught tears 🥺lol ... im going thru a pretty bad breakup rn and needed this story to keep me going ... and to the man ... u are giving us women out here much hope

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад +1

      God bless you Kelley! Thank you for the encouragement!!!

  • @joanharris8057
    @joanharris8057 Год назад +3

    What a beautiful love story! God does answer prayer and gave you the right husband for you. What an encouragement to follow God’s Word and resist temptation. I am a new subscriber and am thankful that your channel popped up for me to see!

  • @michaelrollins563
    @michaelrollins563 Год назад +3

    I’m so touched by your love story. The world needs to hear what you’re saying, to see what you’re sharing. There’s healing in your words, which come from your hearts. I happened upon your channel, stayed to watch and listen to you, and subscribed. The wholesomeness you share is food for the heart, mind, and soul. God bless you and your family. He’s working through you. Your marriage is a real testimony of what He intended for marriage to be. I’m glad I found your channel. Keep doing what you’re doing, and being who you’re supposed to be.

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад +1

      This is so encouraging. Thank you so much Michael! God bless you!

  • @christinacrews7746
    @christinacrews7746 3 года назад +13

    Beautiful story! God is so good. Thanks for sharing. You will no doubt encourage and inspire those who desire to walk in purity!

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  3 года назад +2

      Wow! Thank you so much Jonathan! Of all the videos we have done, this for some reason or another has been the scariest to release. We felt however that God was going to do a great work through our story. It is already getting positive responses like yours! Thank you so much for watching and for your thoughtful comment! God bless you Jonathan.

  • @elizabethnege8180
    @elizabethnege8180 7 месяцев назад +1

    You two are so amazing! I really enjoyed your love story and I am so glad I discovered your channel..
    I am so very matured but still single and trusting God to married to a man who truly love God..
    I have had a couple failed relationship that were not pure as well.. I am not proud those times of my life but I am thank full to God for helping overcome that phase in my life and enabling me to love Him now.
    I wasn't raised in godly home, and my parents were separated when I was just 3.. I grew with little or almost no attention at all.. I desired to keep myself till marriage but then at the same time I wanted attention. So, it was so conflicting for me as I just desperately wanted attention. I then started dating and that was it...
    I am really encouraged right now. Though I am no longer a virgin but I have been keeping myself now for six years now..
    I am trusting God to bring that right person into my life.
    God bless you both for sharing your love story.
    I am truly blessed.

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  7 месяцев назад

      This is so encouraging!!! Thank you so much for sharing!

    • @elizabethnege8180
      @elizabethnege8180 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@OurFruitfulFamily God bless you.

  • @junkmail4756
    @junkmail4756 2 года назад +12

    Cute couple! Lovely family! Thank you for sharing your story and encouraging us to reject the world, walk in faithfulness, and experience God’s best for ourselves and our spouse.

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +2

      Thank you so much for this sweet comment! We are not perfect by any means, but we always try our best to walk in God’s will for our lives. Even when it means living as a reject and and outcast to societal normalcy. God bless you!

  • @monicabright5924
    @monicabright5924 2 года назад +3

    I just love how you put God first in your relationship. I always happy when I see a young couple mention God his name in everything they do. God bless you guys and protect your family .....love!!

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +1

      God deserves to be first in all things! Thank you for the lovely comment Monica! God bless you!

  • @christagloria2777
    @christagloria2777 2 года назад +9

    God is faithful 🥂🙏💕 , it's the purity in this love story God bless you guys

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +2

      I agree with you 100%! We serve a faithful wonderworking God! He has walked beside me through this entire relationship! God bless you Christa!

  • @godschild3547
    @godschild3547 8 месяцев назад +2

    'She'd be a really bad nun' 😂😂😂 You both are sooo sweet ❤ so glad we found you all you have such a beautiful family ❤😊 Blessings from the Roberts😊

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  8 месяцев назад

      To God be all the glory! Thank you so much for all of the sweet compliments! You are honestly too kind! God bless you and your family!

      C. A. Toups

  • @bellaomaliug9322
    @bellaomaliug9322 2 года назад +5

    Beautiful story, May the Lord continue blessing your marriage 🙏🏼

  • @valindamcqueen2443
    @valindamcqueen2443 2 года назад +2

    She has such a beautiful smile and spirit. You both look very happy. Thanks for sharing.

  • @Shan.Monti_music6660
    @Shan.Monti_music6660 2 года назад +8

    Your relationship is so beautiful. Praise God 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @euniceolawoyin1041
    @euniceolawoyin1041 Год назад +4

    Your story is awesome 👌, it's God's making and your determination to remain chaste was richly blessed, for God grant you the enablement ,that's why you were able to hold onto the set boundaries.Beautiful memories for you and your children in later years to imitate, love this couple 💑 ❤ 💙.

  • @user-cr9xm8ke5v
    @user-cr9xm8ke5v 10 месяцев назад +1

    29 and a virgin. I really needed the word of encouragement. God bless your family.

  • @providencefarmstead2122
    @providencefarmstead2122 2 года назад +11

    What a great testimony! Thank y’all for sharing. God bless!

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +2

      You are so sweet! We feel like God said it’s time we share with everyone. This world is a mess right now and sadly, premarital chastity is all too rare…Thank you so much for watching! God bless you guys!

  • @nh2008
    @nh2008 10 месяцев назад +1

    I feel like I’m smiling every second of watching you both talk about your story and how you both look at eachother with so much love 🥹🥲🥲🥲🥲

  • @couronneeclatante224
    @couronneeclatante224 3 года назад +8

    Wow, so beautiful indeed. I praise Jesus for your testimony. Thank you for sharing. Stay abundantly blessed

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much for the beautiful comment! God bless you Couronne!

    • @couronneeclatante224
      @couronneeclatante224 3 года назад

      @@OurFruitfulFamily You're welcome. I'm deeply inspired by you both. Thank you for taking the time to answer my comment. May Heavenly Father greatly reward you for your obedience to Him.

  • @marqueedahudson1815
    @marqueedahudson1815 2 года назад +3

    THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR TESTIMONY! GOD IS THE BEST MATCHMAKER AND HIS TIMING IS ALWAYS PERFECT! TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY! 🙏💙🙌

  • @ChristinasHome
    @ChristinasHome 3 года назад +10

    Awe! I loved it! Heard it before, but love hearing it again 🥰🥰

  • @TheDynamicTobiloba
    @TheDynamicTobiloba Год назад +4

    I just came across you guys and I have instantly subscribed ☺️☺️☺️.
    I love the honesty and the truths in this video. I especially love when you said it's worth it.
    I am still young and I intend to keep myself, God helping me as I just entered the university 😟.
    Now, I am more resolved as I am now more sure than ever that it's worth it 😁😁😁💕💕

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад +1

      Thank you so much for writing us Oluwatobi! This world will do everything in its power to keep you from Gods will and plan for your life. Keep the faith and keep your eyes on him. Disregard what the world thinks about your faith and your character. Please don’t hesitate to write us if you ever have any questions or need any advice that you feel we may be able to provide with Gods guidance. Here is our email. God bless you my friend.
      toupstime@gmail.com

  • @wisconsinhomesteader7482
    @wisconsinhomesteader7482 3 года назад +5

    I just wanted to tell you that I love your channel and think your videos are top notch. I'm happy to see your views are starting to go up. Way to go guys! Thank you for sharing.

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  3 года назад +1

      You are so sweet! Thank you so much for the compliment! We are blushing a little right now after reading that! We try so hard to make them nice even with our current equipment! We hope to make progressively better content as we can improve our videoing equipment! We just checked out your channel as well! Cody just subscribed to your channel! You have a fence around your garden that looks similar to ours! We love it! It looks like Your garden is producing great! God bless you and your family! Stay tuned for more videos! 😜

  • @S.Nicole
    @S.Nicole Год назад +4

    This actually gives me hope ❤ thank you so much for sharing this!! I’m binge watching your videos and I’m telling you, you all are so inspirational ❤❤

  • @kelina3210
    @kelina3210 2 года назад +4

    This is amaizing, its very rare in these days. i am graced and grateful to have seen your video❤️ God bless you

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for That Kelina! God bless you and your family!

  • @abeeralkhishani4371
    @abeeralkhishani4371 Год назад +2

    Heartwarming story!
    I hope all people understand the holy relationship,
    I'd rather to follow the rules of god's then people.
    God knows the best for us more than we think 🤗🌼
    I'm a Muslim proud woman and I like your story and I love Jesus ❤

  • @katemoore6249
    @katemoore6249 2 года назад +3

    God bless you and your family. Such a refreshing thing to see. My heart is filled with joy each video I watch. Isn't God wonderful?

  • @vivianawino
    @vivianawino 2 года назад +5

    I'm 23 and I've been keeping myself pure for all those years and it's definitely the reason why am single till now because it's like most guys thinks that sex is the main thing in a relationship.....but am not breaking my rules anyways

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +2

      A guy that is not willing to respect that is not someone who you should be with anyways. God bless you, Vivian!.

    • @vivianawino
      @vivianawino 2 года назад +1

      @@OurFruitfulFamily Thanks, am encouraged 🥰

    • @shaunsteele8244
      @shaunsteele8244 Год назад +2

      find a man who follows God, not the culture. Cultural expectations are that dating = sex. God's ways are polar opposite.

  • @KurtFidel
    @KurtFidel 2 года назад +3

    Very encouraging! Glad I ran into your youtube channel!

  • @tlyoung1420
    @tlyoung1420 2 года назад +3

    Praise the Lord Jesus for such an Awesome testimony!!! God Bless You Both!!!!

  • @jennifercaruso8060
    @jennifercaruso8060 2 года назад +2

    What a beautiful sweet love story. This really made me smile. Your laughter and smiles are infectious.

  • @constancelumiere878
    @constancelumiere878 2 года назад +7

    God Bless and Definitely Loves you all 💕 you’ll never regret living for him 🤍

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +1

      You are so sweet Constance! I cannot agree with you more. God bless you!

  • @FrogeniusW.G.
    @FrogeniusW.G. 2 года назад +3

    It's amazing how much you are still in love! Awesome. ☆
    You are blessed.

  • @homesteadgamer1257
    @homesteadgamer1257 Год назад +1

    Oh goodness, your story is so sweet. It's clear from how you look at each other how much love your family has.

  • @hiscanvasofgrace3391
    @hiscanvasofgrace3391 2 года назад +9

    You guys are so adorable! I love witnessing the variety in the stories God writes. I'm going through the hardest heartache I've ever experienced after a broken long relationship and I don't know what God has for us but I want to pray again for my future husband and be able to wait on God's will 🙏🏼 God bless you and your family 💕

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +4

      Thank you so much! You are so kind!
      God has a purpose and a plan in every situation, the hills and the valleys and I’m sure this heartache you are facing is just getting you to exactly where God can bless you more than you can imagine! He writes stories that are far better than we can dream up! But I know that also doesn’t mean that the hurt you are feeling isn’t real because it is and that’s okay. This is a time to Lean into Gods love and let him heal your broken heart and create a new work in you! And yes praying for your future husband is one of the best things you can do! God bless you and thank you again fro the sweet comment!

    • @hiscanvasofgrace3391
      @hiscanvasofgrace3391 2 года назад +3

      Thank you for taking time to reply and minister truth ❤️❤️
      1 Corinthians 2:9 will be my anchor for now as I know nothing is wasted and His plans far exceed ours! 💕

  • @aliciamcmillan4272
    @aliciamcmillan4272 2 года назад +2

    I love listening to you both talk about your love story and love for the Lord. You both have Beautiful hearts thank you so much for sharing with us. Encouraging others is a blessing from God. 🙏

  • @ahkiv6127
    @ahkiv6127 2 года назад +3

    God bless both of you and your family! Your story was touchingly beautiful!

  • @kimmykay7056
    @kimmykay7056 2 года назад +11

    Such a beautiful love story!

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +3

      Thank you so much Kimmy! Somehow this comment slipped through the cracks! Sorry for the late mate response! God bless you!

  • @graceee5521
    @graceee5521 2 года назад +8

    Love you guy lots😘 such inspiration for young Christians like me who are waiting for God's time. Indeed...God's time is the perfect time
    God bless you

  • @Johnrider1234
    @Johnrider1234 2 года назад +4

    My son is 26. Washboard stomach. Virgin. Homestead farm. Ontario canada 🇨🇦. All he wants is a forever woman. A country woman. A hard working fun funny. Honest woman.

  • @moniquemiller6315
    @moniquemiller6315 2 года назад +7

    beautiful love story. May God continued to bless your marriage. New subbie here.

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад

      Aweee! Welcome to the Fam! You are so sweet! God is so good! Thank you so much for the wonderful compliment! A blessing is what we always need more than anything! God bless you and your family as well!

  • @papawsplace
    @papawsplace Год назад +1

    Just came across this story (video) and what an awesome store it is. May God bless you for years to come. New Sub.

  • @shaunsteele8244
    @shaunsteele8244 Год назад +3

    I know a lot of Christians who think it's ok to do "other things" before marriage, as long as they don't have intercourse. It's kinda messed up... why not just save that passion for the marriage? You don't need a long engagement or even a big fancy wedding, just get married. God has ordained it.

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад +1

      Yea, it’s definitely not okay. We agree with you! God bless you Shaun.

  • @theicequeen4076
    @theicequeen4076 2 года назад +1

    And, I'm crying again. You're just so sweet and precious ...both of you. I am praying for you and your family. You are worth fighting for. Satan will come against you but, you will prevail.

  • @kyndalslifeowen6823
    @kyndalslifeowen6823 2 года назад +2

    Yall are so cute! I just found your channel and had to subscribe! Looking forward to following your lives. God bless you

  • @jamesmanzy4665
    @jamesmanzy4665 Год назад +1

    Thank you guys for sharing this, 2 years in waiting and looking forward to get married in 2 years by the grace of God🙏❤️

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад

      May God bless your future marriage! You should definitely check out our playlist on relationships. I think those videos can most definitely help you two in your marriage preparations! Also, the Let's talk Sex playlist.

  • @somethinfishy5322
    @somethinfishy5322 Год назад +1

    Wow. I feel like God is really trying to show me something. When I watched this, I was kind of surprised at how similar it is to me and my boyfriend's love story and what it has looked like so far. The difference is that you guys are grown up and finally done with the wait, and ours is still going. I just want to say that you guys are living our dream. Also, fun fact, you guys got married on my birthday!
    My boyfriend and I met in 8th grade, became best friends in 9th, and started dating in 10th, when we were 15. We are now rising seniors.
    We're getting close to our two year anniversary. We often talk about how much we wish we could be married, and we try to help each other through the temptation. Our saying, I guess you could call it our motto, is "One day. Not yet, but one day."
    I'm so glad to hear that there is someone else out there who married their high school sweetheart that was their first boyfriend. SO many people have told me that it's unrealistic to expect to marry my first boyfriend (including my parents) and others have told me that I'm missing out on dating and getting to know other people because I've only ever had one boyfriend. Others just roll their eyes and think that I'm just some little girl who thinks she's just going to find a guy and live happily ever after with him without considering reality. But I really do love my boyfriend with the purest kind of love, that's kept alive by genuine adoration of his personality, his values, his quirks, and everything that makes him into the multidimensional masterpiece that he is. I can't imagine myself with anyone else.
    I'm so glad that you guys are here to answer questions that I've had about sex that I've been too afraid to ask anyone else, and answer them according to the Bible and God's beautiful design for sex. The world needs more of this type of message and it's a shame that we're surrounded but such a disgusting, tainted view of such a beautiful gift. I really find that I look up to you guys and I just want you to know that! Thank you for this on my journey!

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  Год назад +2

      I am so sorry that we are just now getting back to this! You are so sweet! Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful story with us, and for the encouragement! People just like you are the reason we feel like God has us doing this in the first place!

  • @joannebalstad5478
    @joannebalstad5478 Год назад +3

    You two are such an inspiration to all people

  • @hrh3383
    @hrh3383 Год назад +4

    Thanks for sharing your beautiful love story!!

  • @nyashaseva907
    @nyashaseva907 Год назад +4

    Wow! Beautiful couple! Amazing Story!

  • @dailyblazetv5293
    @dailyblazetv5293 Год назад +5

    Amazing testimony😍😍 I remember my cousins told me that my sex organ will rotten first when I die... so why shouldn't I have sex when I was just 23.... they insulted me every day... so I was always a loner🤭 friends criticized but you gotta keep the faith & for all the temptations, we ask God for strength & help 🙏

  • @joannemackenzie2586
    @joannemackenzie2586 2 года назад +5

    Beautiful ♥️ from Canada
    GOD Is Absolutely Good

    • @OurFruitfulFamily
      @OurFruitfulFamily  2 года назад +1

      He's wonderful! May we always glorify him! God bless you!