Married Couple Plays Agree to Disagree!
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- Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2023
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My husband also said that he would probably stay with me even if i cheated on him. I asked him not to be so stupid. He deserves much better than to be with someone who betrayed him. Cheating is a really disgusting thing. Try to solve the problems, or if it doesn't work, get a divorce, but don't humiliate the other person!
Amen. Cheating should never be a thing not only it ruins the relationship it runs trust forever even after the relationship fails and the kids
I have zero tolerance for cheating, it’s a dis-ease with self that truly affects everyone, not only the person doing the cheating. 🙏🏼🫂🙏🏼🫂💝
Cheating isn't black and white it really depends on the situation and people. There are a lot of reasons people cheat. Some can be fixed, and some can't. Some situations involve emotions, others are purely physical. Some involve children, and some do not. It's not just about humiliating someone else. For a lot of people, it is a deal breaker. But it shouldn't have to be the only option either.
@@danaschreiner3334 I don't agree, but I accept your opinion 😊
@@noncsy_ thank you. I think every person is different and as long ad your partner/spouse knows where you stand that's what's important
Trust me.. if one of u cheated .. you wouldn't be able to stay together without serious serious counseling and still might end up breaking up.. trust me.. love isnt enough to stay together sometimes..
Matt talking about not wishing things were better, but waking up everyday and being grateful for what you have… I needed that reminder today. Thank you 🩷
Heard some advice said before and wished I knew about it in the early years of my marriage. Do not discuss hard things after 8 PM and before 8 AM. People are usually tired after and before those times. Things can escalate quickly and people may not always be in the right frame of mind when tired. Words may get said that are not meant. Been following this rule with my husband for awhile now and it has helped so much!
We have this rule too but we have little kids sooooo for us it's 10 or 11 p.m. because otherwise we would literally never be able to talk about anything serious ever except on weekends. 🤣🤣
THIS THOUGH! So life saving! Also, my husband and I add not to talk if one of us hasn’t eaten. I find myself the bitchiest when I’m hangry lol and him to.
I disagree with the soulmates' questions. It's not about compatability but about loving someone so deeply that it touches both of your souls. I've unfortunately lost mine, and I can tell you it is real. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of her. That love is definitely different. I could be wrong but I doubt it. I love your videos. You guys are so relatable. God bless your growing family. ❤
Where did she go 😢 x
@olivewright7461 She died of an overdose in 2018. It has been a hard 6 yrs. All I can do is mourn and hopefully move on in the future. God bless you
Exactly what I was thinking real
Love does exist
Exactly thats the point they are trying to say, you've lost her that's why you're saying this. Im not saying that you don't love her its just at some point we think we deserved better or we compare our partner , maybe just in the heat of the moment but that's exactly not what soulmate. So soulmate aren't real.
Soulmates aren’t a thing sorry to break the bad news, but I am sorry for your loss
I feel like im third wheeling them lmao
also i love how they show the reality of marriage it makes me so happy and i cant wait to have that too
Yes! They are so real that I feel like I’m sitting next to them!
They are possibly the most honest and practical couple i have observed on the internet. They show us the real picture of a relationship instead of painting an illusion in our minds. Thanks for keeping it real Matt and Abby. Kudos to you guys. ❤❤❤
Yeah I agree they are very real ❤
AGREED
Yess! I hope they never change . They are refreshing
I've come across plenty of internet couples that give the "real" picture. Don't know who y'all are watching but you might wanna change the channel.
@@joycedominguez8997There’s plenty of people on the internet though who are not so they are saying they appreciate the fact they are like that.
The music was overpowering their voices and it was a little distrating. Maybe having the music more faint would be better.
Besides that, i love you guys. Always look forward to your videos.
True
I didn’t even notice the music 🤔
It was really annoying & distracting to me. No need for music.
AGREEE
I agree. The music is distracting.
It’s so obvious that this is exactly how they’d talk about it without a camera and I love that❤
00:45 - White lies are okay in a relationship?
1:39 - I've considered adoption?
2:25 - My partner is the jealous one in the relationship?
3:36 it's okay to be friends with your ex?
4:25 - It's okay to take trips alone even though we're married
5:10 - If today we met, would you ask each other out?
6:18 - You would still be with me if I cheated?
7:35 - If we got pregnant right now, I would be excited
8:37 - I think going through your partners phone without asking is okay
9:05 - Breaks in a relationship are a good idea
10:05 - Spending your whole life with someone is overwhelming
11:18 - Abbie wears the pants?
12:05 - Soulmates are real
13:06 - Marriage is hard
13:48 - Friendship breakups are harder than relationship ones?
19:10 - I have considered cheating?
Thank you for the breakdown that is really cool and a bit of work 🎉
Tysm!
*Abby, no hate
You missed like 3
Thank you so much! I really appreciate it
Honesty is rly so refreshing ..actually displays a high level of maturity to answer difficult, private questions like these. And here’s the thing, it’s not just for entertainment purposes the way I see it- it’s genuinely helpful for other couples/ ppl to feel less alone. I don’t like the term ‘influencer’ but in the sense that they’re able to have influence over a large audience through their platform, I think it is wise and rly wonderful to discuss more difficult / awkward / vulnerable topics like these!! Thanks to you Matt and Abby! I’m in a longterm relationship and struggle with clinical anxiety issues and you honestly rly made me just feel better about some of the things I’ve discussed with my partner or thought about myself such as soulmates and other subjects. I liked hearing both of your perspectives on these things! It was beyond valuable to me and put my mind more at ease :) 👍
That soulmates conversation was so good, especially about the perspective of gratitude - so good! ❤
How could you ever stay with someone that cheated on you?!! No way!!
If they have already thought about it- this marriage won't last. They are just in the very beginning. This is actually sad.
liked the video but the music was a bit loud and distracting. made the audio sound weird. like if you agree so they can see the edit suggestion.
Anybody else think Abby has become more beautiful through the years? You guys are paired so well.❤
100% she just gets prettier and prettier
Love her new hair
Abby does look prettier, but she’s lost something… her softness. She seems hard or hardened in this video. It’s especially noticeable when they talked about adoption and Matt’s music career.
@@pimmspimms5462I think she looks even better now than before.
@pimmspimms5462 Probably just tired from dealing with two babies. They seem like they got it rough in videos of them taking care of the babies
Matt have you ever thought Abby isn’t her old self because she can’t be. Just imagine maybe she’s longing for the days when it was just the two of you with baby she’s missing that. It’s made Abby look as though she can’t cope with motherhood without having her parents living with you, but in actual fact, she only needs her parents solely because of your actions wanting to go off every month ‘’writing songs’’ You have two very young babies
Compatibility is fluid. You may be incredibly compatible with a person in one moment, but life circumstances will mold both of you into different shapes. It takes work to retain the compatibility through all the changes. Your soulmates are the people with whom you mold together.
I absolutely love the soul mate question and their answer for that. They look at things in such a mature nature. It’s amazing. No one is going to like someone all the time but knowing you have a partner that’s willing to stick by the decision you both made and looking at it from a positive sense instead of thinking what you could have be thankful for what you already have. Amazing answer!!!❤❤❤
Hot take- being soulmates isn’t about compatibility & doesn’t necessarily have to be a partner. Could be a friend, parent, sibling, even animals. You feel a soul bond, an unmatched unconditional love. I also believe that you can have more than one soulmate.
Totally agree with that take✨
“I like right now” is my favorite song. I nanny three little boys for 9-10 hours a day andddd I always tell Alexa to play this song when I’m cooking lunch or just need some calm happiness after dealing with tantrums and fighting 😂
That makes me so happy!!
@@MattandAbbyI second this! I’ve added that song to multiple of my Spotify playlists and can’t help but sing to it every time it comes on. It’s so catchy and beautiful! Keep making such great music Matt🤩😄 we love it!
Man if my husband said he’s wondered what it would be like to be with someone else I’d be heartbroken 😭
Same
No one should ever put up with someone who cheats on them... its unacceptable no matter the circumstance
It doesnt seem like they know what soulmates are.
The way Matt laughs after whispering to Abbey what she lied about 😅
Loved this video. Love the way you guys are connected and so genuine with each other and are able to joke about things because you know you’re safe with your person
With the cheating thing, it changes the trust and when the trust changes, nothing will ever be the same again and your relationship will be ruined. Trust is everything in my eyes so if it’s broken, it’s broken and the relationship at that point in my eyes is in the “fake it till u make it” phase that will last the rest of the time you are “together”.
Key point : in your eyes.
This is your opinion and yoir experience.
Many couples have come out of it stronger. So dont think your way is the only right way.
Thank you for displaying the reality of relationships.
This is very interesting! Like this definitely shows how you guys are open minded when it comes to discussing about couple-related topics. Great video! ❤❤❤
You guys are the best conversation and honesty. That’s awesome
Love how honest you guys are!
I love the sudden stopping and playing of music
The bond you two have is everything ❤
I watch this because I was crying and this really helped me thank you Matt and Abby I love you guys
i know people say don’t set others relationships as something to aspire to have but i value the relationship you guys have so much i want this transparency and communication in mine.
“Did you get cold feet *TOO*?”
Strongly agreeing to Abby staying even if he cheated.
“I’m too honest, you’re offended by it”
Matt really is too immature and a bit narcissistic. Abby knows it too but she’s trying to make things better and be the mature one and waiting for this man to grow up.
I like this video but the music was too loud and the voices weren't clear like in the other videos, I had a hard time concentrating 😅
You guys are the best, Love this❤
this can cause so much trouble
They’re so lucky to have found each other
This is so so precious
I love the honesty with each other
If he is sure that you will stay if he cheats, that’s a 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
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I didn't like that part at all. I worry about how mature he is honestly to say something like that.
well in his defense she has told him that she would stay lol so thats why he’s sure of it
@@gabby8104 yea but she would feel obligated to stay. I think she's starting to not like him as much so I'm sure if he cheated she'd leave.
@@gabby8104 homegirl was dumb for that. I don’t even l know how I would react if I got the greatest news ever, imagine being cheated on.
IUD baby here
My brother was only 6 months when my mum got pregnant with me. We are 14 months apart.
It does happen ☺️
I love u guys so much , u never play or lie for the camera .
Atleast some youtubers where i can trust in
They are just putting the reality of a marriage out there.And that's the best thing about matt and Abby!!
I love how open and honest you guys are with these questions and your explanations, not being the perfect couple - but rather, an authentic, realistic, and down-to-earth couple!
Today was my first day watching your vids and I am obsessed yall are so honest and Griffin and August are adorable.Thanks for being a true couple and not just painting an image in our minds. Have a great day!❤❤❤❤❤
I just loveeee how wholesome you guys are!
I loved your video guys. Thank you so much for sharing ❤
It was so nice to hear the pre and post pregnancy talk from Matt supporting Abby.
Love it ❤
You two are both honest and truly love each other. You have a family and everything anyone could ever want. So stay blessed, honest and appreciative of each other.
thank you for different camera angles! its why your subscribers keep going up: your videos are always interesting to watch!
Is the audio on this video weird for anyone else?
😊 this video is exactly why I love them! Abby your stunning... embrace your beauty. You guys are so wonderful...
i love how they are both such honest people, it makes this world seem so much more real :)
Them laughing together is everything 💗
Holy smokes! Matt your music is so good! Just sent my husband “I like right now”. Definitely keep that up!
there's no one better for my husband than me and there's no one better for me than him. 1000%. and that's how it should be, it shouldn't feel forced
Statistically that's not true
@@stephanyjablonofsky9749 uhhh she wasn't talking about statistics. She was saying that it shouldn't feel forced.
The polyam community would disagree
I watch these videos for hours and Never get bored you have the best content
period
Love how realistic yall be w eachother
your realistic view of life and relationship is refreshing. I think you both are doing life so well. We try to live by, "Never give up, Never surrender"
Matt, your videos have come so far from your college days. Watching this video and hearing the music you add to different parts of the video makes it feel like I’m watching some sort of tv show. Props to all you’ve learned and how much you’ve grown in your editing! Love you guys!! 🫶🏼
They said in a poscast they hired an editor
Really??? The audio was garbage. I couldn’t even hear their answers half the time.
I LOVE your videos! Thanks for keeping it genuine and real. ❤
A good marriage is a partnership which means making decisions together and choosing what’s best for the whole family
You guys are literally sooo adorable!!
Him basically saying he wants to do more solo trips together is so funny and wholesome
Great video guys. Very fun to watch
When you are with the right person, marriage can be effortless. I didn’t think this was possible during the 10 years I was with my ex boyfriend, whom I also considered my best friend, but now that I’ve met my person it’s night and day- time with him feels precious.
The music in the background of this video is way too loud 😂 but love love love hearing this type of conversation!!
“I’d look like a pencil” HAHAHAH MATT
12:17 and onwards conversation was so real, and I totally agree
“I WOULD LOOK LIKE A PENCIL”😂😂
Love this type of videos fr 💚
this video made me believe in love again. also matt your song "i like right now" really surprised me - its really good.
Griffin and augie are so lucky to have parents like u ❤
The music 😂😂😂
You guys are such icons❤ I’m sending you both love (:
I love you guys and your channel so much! My favorite RUclipsrs by far! Keep it up you guys! You are amazing parents!
I saw y’all tonight! So thank you for becoming part of my birthday
Talk to any medium, soul mates are actually legitimate..
I love this type of chill and conversational type content!
Love your videos. Makes me laugh when I’m down
jeez matt the video is so clear!! what set up did you use to record this time??
The fact that they are quietly arguing like we're not even watching the video.........
this is one of the most cute and iconic channels and i love how open mat and abby are with each other, it’s something i strive for
You guys are so good.i think most couples agree to disagree.if they where truly honest❤❤
I almost started crying when they were talking about him supporting her and appreciating her post pregnancy body. It was so beautiful❤
The background music was a tad distracting 🙃
I love your honesty in these videos!! Its so refreshing 🥰❤️
If you’re open to some suggestions, the music in this particular video was a bit overpowering and distracted from the amazing conversation you were having. You could’ve done this whole video without the music and have it be even more impactful.
Matt said he would look like a pencil bald !! I am crying 😂😂😂😂😂 I love yall. Love from St. Louis 💙😂
Background music was a lil distracting
im pretty sure i won't be around when Matt and Abby become old and grey to see them if they made it to the golden years in the marriage but man i so hope they do. I want to say i am 100% confident they will make it because they truly love each other and absolutely enjoy each other's company like best buddies but also close as one flesh.
“I would look like a pencil” 😂😂😂
Loved this very practical conversation!!!
One of my favorite couple to watch! I admire u both, keep it strong 💪 ❤
She looks so fit and happy! You go girl
Abby! Could you do a tutorial on how you style your hair please? 😍
My favorite part is Matt saying he would look like a pencil bald haha! Seriously tho I love your guys' honesty.
I love the couples content ❤
New video!! I literally CANNOT stop smiling😊😊😊
Love you guys❤️🩹 Abby is so beautiful😭💜