How to find a Great Girlfriend for Yourself? | Shwetabh
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- Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025
- @ShwetabhGangwar1 talks about how overall cultivation of personality really helps in attracting different type of people.
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Parvati shiv ke pass aayi thi. Shiv parvati ke pass nahi.
Remember boys, before finding a great GF find a friend who will support you in your highest moments and motivate you in your lowest moments.
Saaf saaf bol naa bhai puri zindagi single hi rho
@@prashant2144 depends on how you interpret it bhai 😅🤣
The only thing harder to find than a GF is a good friend
@@prashant2144 bhai female bff bna k dekh 4 se 5 phir jo experiences milege phir bolna bhai.
@@manishjawadekar bhai 4 5 chod ek hi dhang ki mil jaaye naa aj ki date me toh sochenge hum ganga naha liye
In India people lack the overall personality. As much as i have seen and i understand, uk third world, developing economy, life is hard so in your whole life, you're just aiming to get a job. Your actual life will start after that. You need a personality to reap the benefits of a good stable job. The money you'll earn, you should be able to enjoy that comfort of stability. In this video, shwetabh is actually teaching you the basics of living. You need a hobby or interest to live life. Not just in dating.
Good point
Its not about personality its about looks
@@Rishavvashisht3456 yes if you do only that jab muh ke bal giroge pata chalega
@@swayamprakashkar3692 agar shakal nhi h to personality ghanta kuch ni kregi mere bhai
Haha yahi baat Kenny Ackerman ne bhi kahi thi "Everyone needs hobbies"
Always remember noone is born to satisfy your exceptations ... So don't expect anything from anyone.
Simple hi hai.. Just better your self to the level that people get attracted to you.. Ladki dhundne nikal gye to ghnta milne wali h "great girlfriend"
Bhai ghar baithe baithe thri milegi thra haath paav toh maarna hga na
Here's my tip :- Practical
Be physically Fit.
Be well Groomed
Maintain ur skin and Hygiene
Be well Dressed Always...
Have better communication Presentation by not being desperate
Done ....
This will give u the entry points to the door step of Dating
🥴
Paisa hai toh ladki hai
@@anamelessmonster paisa hai tabhi bhaii ki tip kaam ki hai 🙂
Iske baad?
@@asresalim6145 iske baad tumhari nature personality mindset knowledge and behavior matter karti ha.....
@@igt2173
Ha bro, wahi sab kaise improve kre. That was the concept. Jo original comment hai, wo to as sort of Preliminary hai, main cheej to ye latest comment h
You do not need a great girlfriend if you are feeling lonely you just need some great friends that are capable of supporting you .
It's not like that.
Comeon man you clearly can't get girls that's why you are saying that , roles of both are different
@@sahtarwars8386 Toxic girlfriend can make you feel even more lonely .
@@debanikgoswami4834 thats a rare case scenario or a low probability case. Just because accident is a possibility , it should not stop you from driving a car .
🤡
Before going to sleep last night I was thinking about my past heartbreaks and how I failed to study the person I liked before giving away my feelings to them and was also wondering how am I supposed to know when a person is truly right for me. My wishes have been answered lol.
I was going through the exact same thing rn and saw this video. Stay strong bruh
"Khudko bhookha-pyasa rkho, sirf faeda uthane wale milenge"
EXACT SAME STORY EXCEPT I NEVER REALLY APPROACHED ANYONE ..YOU KNOW.. DIRECTLY (showing intention of getting a gf/partner). Thanks for the video. It was much awaited 🤩
Kitni accept mili fir?
Hande ercel is love ❤️
us🖤🖤
Tum to bade heavy driver ho
Shwetabh ne permission lee kya hande ki pic thumbnail pe lgane ki.. Sala chor...views lene ke liye kuch bhi krta h
@@winnerj3877 Its RUclips, views matters. Just like in business profit matters. Now you can't mock a businessman just because he is earning profit. Similarly one also should not mock RUclipsr. And he never begged anyone to come and watch his videos. This thing I learned from Shwetabh bhai
@shikhar 👍
#Noteforme
If u can make the habit to say urself i am good,i like myself nd my being with whatever i have,
then u dont have to try into a relationship,
Relationship will happen natuarally,bcz anyone around will love to connect with u...🤘💕😍😍😍
hello shwetabh sir, please discuss the topic of how to do great in your 20s? how do we train ourselves to work we supposed to do, rather what our dopamine compels us to?
avoid cheap dopamine
Hardin kaam karte raho , work on making and polishing your skills
Bruh, Dopamine is a biological thing. The more you try to stop it or restrict it, the more worse it becomes. Instead of controlling it, "Regulate" it. Regulate it in a way that Those cheap dopamine highs won't affect you cause you have worked hard all day. If you haven't then that dopamine can give you regret. But if you have been working hard for two three days, and if you feel like it, A small dopamine hike would not be Sinful, untill and unless you are ofcourse doing it in moderation. "Regulate it" , don't try to "Control It".
@@jadejoy8030he used the word 'cheap'
Please make a video on "how to influence people or persuade people"
Best way to do it simply put guns before talking to them they will agree with you whether right or wrong
@@shubhamer2000 best advice
@@thedoublep are bhai bhai bhai
Make the offer they can't refuse👍🏻👍🏻
Thumbnail game strong hote ja raha ha BAWA 👍
Bro i am 19 yrs.old here' s what we both me and my girlfriend (sakshi) did
We are in love from 7 th class but on 10th class we decided we will not meet each other until we land a great career and i am now in second year of engineering at bits and she is in also a good college so few months back we ended our break and finally resumed our relationship and now we both have a great career and a great love life
I think you should try that also(if someone is not able to focus on career ) 👍
Sbki kismat ap jaisi nhi hoti naa bro sbko ap jisa or apki gf jaisa loyal partner nhi milta naa
@@prashant2144 i know yarr mai bohot grateful hoon god se roj roj thank you bolta hoon jaap krte krte
@@lifedart5220 hahaaaa true u r very lucky
Which branch bro? And which campus. Im scoring 320ish in mocks these days. ANy words of advice?
@@meetshivam bro mera economics hai(dual degree) mera bitsat mai score kam aya tha (campus nai bata sakta privacy reasons)
Bas yahi bolunga ki koi standard mock hi dena aur score predict krke chalna mock se -20 leke chalna aur bitsat ke pyqs se accha jee ke lagao (mains) physical chemistry jyada ata hai aur physics thereotical jyada ata hai jee pe bhi focus krna bhai bas itna hi and best luck to you 👍
Hande Ercel
Kon h ye
@@tgoel5198 turkish actress😊
@@tgoel5198 is it thumbnail wali lady?
Pighlna nahi hai
@@dhruvrai2170 Ya
had this issue few years back, i was severely introverted it got to the point where people only talked to me about technical stuff, but the way i improved is
choose a really friendly extroverted friend to be friends with and study his mannerisms and how he approaches life and talks to people , how he times is jokes and all cause he was really funny,
he was bad at studies so i helped him study and i hung out with him to study his interactions , did that for 2 years, even after i felt comfortable, i was awkward sometimes and rough around the edges, but eventually i developed my own style of cracking jokes,
now people actually don't believe me that i was ever introverted and antisocial, so this is a good practical strategy that i used back in 2014, find a friendly extroverted friend who is bad at studies , help him study and hang out with him, even if you are awkward he wont ditch you cause you are helping him study.
@Warrior 1592 bhai mujhe thode hi pata tha ye kaam kare ga, try kiya kar gaya, uske baad realization hua , achaa tactic hai ye, that time i was desperate to try anything.
Nothing wrong being an introvert. Just enjoy.
@@aurkom there is a different between just not being interested and being socially awkward.
@@TruecriBge Ya, they weren't actually an introvert perhaps, just socially awkward.
shwetabh: How to find a Great Girlfriend for Yourself?
audience: we don't need great, wee need Hande Ercel 😍🔥
I am so proud that sandeep and shwetabh are there in my life ,thanks to internet ❤️
Bruh! I don't even know you :XD
@@OOO-uo9lx but he admires you
@@rishiraul :xD xD
U gay thou?
🙂
Sir aapke purane videos bhaut aache hote Thai, aap English jyada use krne lage ho ab, 2-3 years phele jitna ache se smjhte Thai aap, ab utna ache se Dil tak nhi pahuch rhi wo Baat.
Bhai phle gaaliya deta tha apna...isliye direct dill par utarti bhi bhai ki baatein🤣 phle "kaam kar bhosdi ke" tha " ab kaam kro bhai kaam kro behan" ho gya hai🤣
Aur rhi english ki baat to bhai sikho aage hi le jayegi english tumhe.
@@manishjawadekar Baat to sahi kahi tumne, english sikhne ke baad opportunities badh jayenge also, tumhari personality would get an edge too.
if a list is ever made then you'll be one of the best youtubers ever in terms of content quality if not the best...sub count is material
his older videos are soo soothing man it clears your mind asf
Bhaiya, sach sach bol dijiye. Lakdiyo ka bohot expectations aur attitude hai is desh me. Aur jitni unki khud ki aukat na ho usse jyada chahti hai yeh.
I share this video to all my friends to help them
Hayat 💖 in Thumbnail hayy
Shwetabh bhaiii I wanttt a podcast of uuu with abhinavmahajan&sirhudd kalraaaa plss brooo a needed onee with all of the bestest friendss..
How many have clicked after seeing hande erçel on thumbnail 😂🙌🙌
concentrate on your work and consistent on that work. Stay motivated and give your best ✊
ye sahi video iam waiting for it
Corana ki vaccine aa skti hai lekin great girlfriend kbhi nhi aa skti kisi ki life me bhi😂
Sahi baat hai bahut Kam hai girls jo intelligent or samjhdaar hai ninja life me koi goal kisi ladke Ko dhoodh k shaadi krne k alawa
The question you shoul ask yourself before quoting this is are you "the great boyfriend" for your girl
@@swayamprakashkar3692 bhai jitna bhav milta hain ladko ko ladkiyon se us hisab se 95% ladke "great bf" nahi h but somehow most girls are "great girlfriends"? Somehow it seems logically flawed to me. Women will never have a problem getting a guy doesn't matter what their personality, success, looks are.
@@youtubesucks2755 haan bhai baat to sahi hai but when u climb up the ladder in success....u will not choose any girl who is aimless or just on looks...as u go up and up this division becomes narrower and both partners contribue equally..but in the lower place it is surely flawed....i never meant to say to become great bf which on itself is pointless...koi jrurt nahi..lekin jinko great chizen chahiyen unhe bhi kuch great contribute karna toh padega hin
@@swayamprakashkar3692 "lekin jinko great chizen chahiyen unhe bhi kuch great contribute karna toh padega hin"
woh great chiz ladki nahi hoti.
"The question you shoul ask yourself before quoting this is are you "the great boyfriend" for your girl"
I was replying to this....now you're changing your tone and talking about 'great cheezein"....pehle ladki ke bare mei bat ho rhi thi.
Akhri line bhai 👍
Hlo sar i have problem in continuing my relationship with my friends . I always thought they are not texting me so i also not text them but also fell bad at same time for not anyone to talk to hang out .
just dont text them too much, find out when they're free, because they will also have work, and you must be too, so make group chats, put down texts, when you're free reply, when they're free they'll text back
@@amoghketkar2559 sar that's not the case problem is with me i don't text anyone coz i think they are not texting me . I rarely talk to anyone on social media and i give same reason to myself they are not texting me i will also not text them . But if i text they reply and talk nicely and here i see the problem conversation only happen when i text first .now we what i do should i stop texting or take initiative of conversation
bhai uska answer toh mere paas bhi nahi hai..
@@abhishekchaudhary7247 bhai take initiative and see there response if they also want to hangout with you and show same interest as u are showing in maintaining frdship then continue!!
I think you should also talk about how to find good boyfriends who actually care about you rather than just for his lustful needs
Most of the stuff he said was gender neutral.
Go out more and talk to people.
It's the same. The things he said works for everyone whether you are male, female, transgender.. Just meet many people, be socially active. As you're socially active you'll interact with many people and will be friends with many boys. This will give you the reach to many boys. And there you have so many potential dates and as an adult you're smart enough to know which one is the right for you.
Humari favorite actress in thumbnail 🤩🤩🤩
Superb
Thanks sir for this video
No dating apps were harmed during this video 😂
Thanks bhai shukriya, mera life bhi same seen chalu hai.-(
Bhai Salam 👍
yeh jiski problem hai wo pakka software engineer hai
I have the same issue with my life.. I'm in my late 20's too.. And i honestly, i don't knw what's my interest are? It's harder than career i think..
Meri age to pahucho tab tk pata chaljayega-35😀😃😃
@@bitu86 sachmein?
@@bitu86 kya pata chalega
@@anmoljyoti6072 ki hum kitne chutiya hote hai pahle
@@bitu86 kyu bhai ? hum chutiya kyu hote hain??
Nahi chahiye, millionaire se seedha raste pe layegi .
exactly
Golden line at 7:28
Needy ya greedy ni hona hai londo!!!
Thumbnail ne aankhein chamka ✨ di..
Sir aapne media promoting war wala video kyu delete kar diya?????Please reupload
i will be doing horse back riding as soon as i am capable to buy them it is the love for me !!!!
Dude you can be a perfect person and yet be shot down, ye cheez itni complex banaayi gaye hai, aur phokat mein pedastalize kia hai dating ko, ladki acchi lage toh pooch daalo bluntly, and make it clear whatever it is you want, or else move on, chase isn't worth it. Because aapne jo Bola say barabar, inner self ko cultivate Karo etc etc, but then jo log single hai wo dekhenge jo ye sab nahi hai unke pass bhi koi hai, so they will end up more miserable.
I'm a simple girl
I saw Hande ercel and clicked ❤️
Sir you are best
I never thought about having a girlfriend because all girls are short in my school and their persona is also very weird, and that too I remember I used to think about having an gf when I was clueless about my life and wanted a mediocre life but my attitude changed towards having a middle class life severaly after listening and reading some articles and podcasts ,from there I think about having an gf just for physical pleasure and that also rarely cause if it gets on a emotional level I know it gonna deviate me from achieve my goals.
I don't know but Shwetabh has a mindset that mairrage is inevitable ,or you can't remain single or alone in your life forever ,so according to him ( maybe ) , achieve your goal till 27-28 and then marry someone
@@thedoublep Yeah you can't
remain single for ever .
@@thedoublep but if u insist being single u can
I would like to add something... Not lecturing u nor advising .. just a note from a fellow traveller who has already traversed the path Ur still walking on... Firstly I appreciate ur mentality.. d urge to rise from a specific class of life .. it's good.. good to have an Aim.. I believe all guys shud have this mindset at an early stage in life .. it keeps u focused.. eliminates distractions.. n specially d emotional thing which deviates from achieving Ur goals .. hmm I like that.. but there will come a point in life (speaking from personal experience) wen u got it all seen it all ... When u reach d summit of Ur goal.. remember d summit is a VERY LONELY PLACE... not everyone reaches it.. once at d top wen u look down.. u will see a lot of ppl doing ok but they r happy.. den ul start to ponder y d heck r all these ppl so happy when none of dem has reached my level den ul realize d point.. at one step in life u will need someone to compliment Ur existence.. else d success u achieved will make no sense one day .. everything will be mechanical! End of the day point is being happy .. n from Wer I see it u can't be happy wid all d success in d world if Ur alone ! Just strike a balance between everything Ur goals n life .. still waters never made a good sailor !
Dinosaur problems require Godzilla solutions 😂😂😂😂😂
Simply bro "Get that sarkari naukari"........
At the end shwetabh was referring to gold diggers indirectly
Everyone is first
Until they refresh
So good video☺ ❤❤
Nature selects, feminity is nature so its probably you better let a women choose you, agar nahi choose kar rahi toh introspection ki need hai. Jaisa shwetabh ne kaha ki dekho apni needs, apni kamiya and all.
And dating apps mostly girls install to boost their low self esteem, right swipe good looking laundo ko hi karegi.
Why do you think nature is feminine ?? Because we call it "mother nature" ??
haa 6 packs wala banda ko hi karegi right swipe
dating apps are useless for majority
Guru tum बहुत मस्त आदमी हो।
😇😇 apni picture paint kro wali baat , bhai bhai. Kya keh gya
I m confused now I tried to focus on career only but swetabh sir is saying u should improve painting
Bhaii this is completely my story
Shwetabh you need to understand, that saying fuc*king every once in a while, doesn't make you look cool 😂
Work over your personality, take it as a suggestion not a criticism 🙂
Natural psychology answers
Hande Ercel ❤️ hai thumbnail mai to😁
Mujhe bus anime dekhne wale chaiye aur dark jokes pe offend na ho 🙏
😂😂😂
Dark jokes pe offend na ho to maza kaise aayega
My girlfriend watch Anime,kdrama read books, can take very offencive jokes, she is a huge fan of shwetabh 😁
@@vincenzo8080 mine was the same but she cheated so yeah.
@@dhruvrai2170 sed ,jitni knowledgeable utna khatra
He always says studies and research bhai koi link do yaar hook-up studies ka
I just click for hande 🔥
People simping for Hande in comments, meanwhile Shewtabh:
Sari Mehnat Barbaad behchod!!
Bhai ne hande ka photo use kiya🤩🥰😍
Bhai tum ek channel m ku ni tikte h yr sabse phle mensutra fir swetabh Gangwar ab usm bhi video bhut km bnre ism dhyan dere fir use bhi chor dere
Correct hai bhai 👍
The Girl in Thumbnail belongs to which country?
She is from Turkey Bro..
- 'Hande Ercel'
Maine apne dosto ke haalat dekh liye hai. Mujhe nhi chahiye GF
7:30
Why the hell many ppl are obsessed with concept of GF ppl around the world arent getting married as well as not making GF but doing sometime hook ups and focussing on their jobs and hobbies more and becoming wealthy
Hookups are not option for everyone and having a good relationship can help in overall mental health
But you are right it's not NECESSARY. One can be happy alone if they want to
Bhai shayad tum abi teenage ma ho bade ho jao pata chalega companionship kya hoti ha
@@tayiperdogan2107 lol ghanta companionship kya milega usse tumhe kutta bna dia jata agar vo chahe to tumhe false rape case me fasa skti hai married aur bache k baad divorce hots hai to tumhe bache ki custody nahi milegi upar se monthy allowance aur property me hissa v wife ko dena padega bhale hi vo working women kyu na ho aur bhai me relatioship me reh chuka hu sare romaticism wali cheeze bakwas ki baaatein hai 80% dowry cases v false hoti hai ladke ki family se badla lene k liye aur bhai me londa nahi 31 saal ka hu
@@tayiperdogan2107 bhai koi v londa apne frnds k sath bina paise spend kiye enjoy kr skta hai but jab use impress krna hota hai to use date pe costly restaurent jana padta hai uske baad v koi guarentee nahi vo tumhe lyk kregi
Kash ye sab baatein mujhe teen age me hi pta rehti to bhut paise hote mere paas
@@shubhamer2000 bhai aap abhi kya job karte ho?? gharwaale shaadi ke liye force nahi karte kya aapko?
Can someone tell is this channel of Shwetabh or its by a fan
It’s an original channel
Abey hande ercel kaa thumbnail kyun lagaaya 🤣
Our luck is not like u bro ❤️😂
Bro..Please make a video on NoFap. Encourage everyone to pursue that. NoFap changes my life. I don't have platform to share this and encourage others to pursue this, So i request you please make a video on this to encourage everyone to pursue NoFap.
Can you share a bit more details about the concept you follow? Are you practicing celibacy, or semen retention, or simply no pornography? I'd love to learn more about youtlr thoughts
Fapping= bad
This bullshit have been already addressed by some good and trustworthy youtubers
Can anyone send full link of this video?
Saved!!!!
shwetabh bhai yeh kis line pa aa gaye aap
I guess that's Turkey actress in the thumbnail. I have seen her shows. Not remembering her name
𝙷𝚊𝚗𝚍𝚎 𝚎𝚛𝚌𝚎𝚕
@@shubhammeshram822 yea, right thnks
Name of shows?
@@dhruvrai2170 The two I saw were Sunheri titliyan and Pyar Lafzon m kaha.. But there are more u can google it
@@vishakhabisht1989 yep I'll watch them.. usmein hande ercel thi na 👀
Shwetab bhai can you make a video on What to you think for Concept of Documentation of journey by Gary Vaynerchuk and Right way to use social media.
Big fan of your Your perspective ❤️
Thumbnail wali kudi kaun h ?
Hum first hum first
Men of culture can check this out.
Hande ercel 😍
OP
2tym dekhna padega ❤️😀
Shweta please unmute yourself.
@@subhrojyoti8000 😂
@@subhrojyoti8000 ku koi problem h ese?
@@shwetasharma5598 you missed his joke 🤣
@@thedumbestmedicoever4141 yes , u r right bt I don't understand still what he means ?
I make a female my friend and they end up getting crush on me
Thumbnail vali gf milegi kya😅
Bas ladki ho🙏🏼
😂😂😂
Aap to char rakh sakte ho lucky ho
@@shubhamjoshi8762 Are.. kya boldiye bhai😂😂
@@mr.eagle..5600 you are an awesome person!
@@dhruvrai2170 Thanks💕
Thumbnail is a picture of a random girl ..
Bhai kuch bhi karlo
You will not find a girlfriend/partner if you lack communication skill and if you are afraid to go out there and actually put some real efforts
Ye batayega? Good joke🤣🤣🤣🤣
1:08
Shwetabh aapke video ka title Ranveer k video jaisa hi hai... Jis chiz ko aapne khudne call out kiya tha... Ab vesa hi similar title rakh rahe ho... 🤯🤯 Content but obvious different hai par baat toh ladki ko patane ki hi ho rahi hai.. If anything that you can suggest this guys is to stop irritating girls... And mind their own business....yeh kya transition hua hai aapke video mai... Pahle keh rahe the kaam karo ab patane ka best tarika... Wah bhaiya... Yeh sahi hai
I'm not defending him but video acche se dekho.
Kya relationships life ka ek part nahi hai
Aur video me clear difference hai ranveer aur inke content me
Ladke ne pucha bhai career stable hai ab relationship ka sochra hu to kuch bura kiya kya?
Wahi agar ladka stable nahi hota tab baat hoti ki bhai kaam karle pehle stable ho jaa , khudko jaan
And you said about to stop irritating girls
Well that's important but ye baat iss video me kyu?
Ladke ne irritate kiya ladkiyo ko dm kar karke?
@@godslonelyman3878U are right to the extent that content is different.. I mentioned that in my comment also... actually the title is issue here.. This makes the video clickbaity... U know what I mean...Ranveer makes title in a similar manner... He assumes and knows it that most boys will click on it instantly...and this was called out by shwetabh himself in his other video... And now he is doing the same.
@@preetiarora4546 yeah I got your point now. I agree with you on this
I don't understand the stupid mindset of Indian boys I mean you become a little bit successful then start finding a chick is that the only thing in life to do after being successful common we have to find about ourselves what we want and what kind of person we would like to be and what is next destination maybe it can be starting a new hobby but no what's the end goal making a girlfriend 🙄
Bhai mil jaye to bhi sahi ma mile to thoda km sahi hai ar sahi hi hai 😂😂😂😂😂
ye bhi thik he😂😂😂