Episode 3: Boundaries in relationships, at home and in friendships

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2024
  • Is personal space a myth in Africa? Are you entitled into knowing every little thing your partner is doing, or where they are? In this episode, we explore boundaries in relationships, in the home and in everyday situations.

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  • @bwalyazm7808
    @bwalyazm7808 19 дней назад +11

    This is the only Zambia podcast that covers real life circumstances and for that its going to grow so big
    #Chezi

  • @IsaacSakala-im7tq
    @IsaacSakala-im7tq 20 дней назад +12

    When she said chezmates I shouted...Cheeeezzzi 😂

  • @Lombe358
    @Lombe358 4 дня назад

    This episode had me snapping my fingers. Love the rawness of it ❤

  • @alumbwesainent7700
    @alumbwesainent7700 19 дней назад +8

    Lynx was the most comfortable in this episode than the previous two. Shout out to improving. Stu keep up the energy chief.

    • @williamznaph8422
      @williamznaph8422 19 дней назад +1

      @alumbwesainent7700 Chief again, this aint open chat bruh😅 we are the CHEZIEERS!

    • @jonathansakuwaha9890
      @jonathansakuwaha9890 19 дней назад

      ​@@williamznaph8422😂😂😂😂 you watch that too, wow thought I was alone

    • @alumbwesainent7700
      @alumbwesainent7700 18 дней назад

      @ williamznaph8422 which part of my comment says this is Open Chat bro? 🤔

  • @kandiyemunyinda4873
    @kandiyemunyinda4873 20 дней назад +3

    I love the rawness in this episode..
    It's nice to hear a man's perspective of this relationship thing. Well-done Guys

  • @tracymuuka1335
    @tracymuuka1335 10 дней назад

    My favorite podcast ❤️

  • @johnsuwilanjikauta628
    @johnsuwilanjikauta628 4 часа назад

    Nice dynamic duo discussing things in a real way

  • @JoyceSoko-s9b
    @JoyceSoko-s9b 17 дней назад

    The Chezi and Chills words are living rent free in my head ❤😊and
    Am really learning alot from this podcast 🙏

  • @nancymsiska446
    @nancymsiska446 16 дней назад +1

    Big ups to you Janet and Lynx ,your podcast is amazing.❤

  • @SandraMulenga-qq9dk
    @SandraMulenga-qq9dk 20 дней назад +2

    I'm officially one of the first fans to watch woohooo!!!! 🎉

  • @raquelxi
    @raquelxi 19 дней назад +1

    Proud to be a Chez Mate 😂, I love the name. ALWAYS loved you Stu, we follow each other on tiktok. The chemistry between you guys is incredible, I love the vibes. You mesh well together. You compliment each other. All the best with the podcast. Wishing you both alot of success. ❤

  • @mulemwasimate1753
    @mulemwasimate1753 20 дней назад +1

    great way to start my day.. Chezi ba Lungu and Maza...

  • @tabonyambe9814
    @tabonyambe9814 19 дней назад

    Yoh! You guys were hitting the nail right on the head🔨📌🔥💯♥️

  • @jeniferjeffries5621
    @jeniferjeffries5621 19 дней назад +1

    The understanding im understanding madam stu is too real, yesss mah with this gen these tuma men and boys think like there tuma alangizis, who said a man gelping out in the kitchen is a taboo, like in the Bible women came here as a helper manje where did it say we must be slaves, vazi..
    Madam stu God's tume is the best who said you cant marry at 40, i donno why these families wanna force people to marry when the will complain when it comes to contributions for the wedding you want, the best thing about wanting to marry is when you marry your type, someone understanding and ready to learn to love you, ets share problems and help each other hunny 'typa shit' any way my family boundary is when they force me to "sobela". I guess stu will understand this and my fellow ladies, and why are you telling me that some of my friends are in there own homes with a child at the age of 24 sure, im still enjoying my life weeh

  • @RaymondMwamba
    @RaymondMwamba 20 дней назад +4

    Chezimate locked in what a way to start a weekend

  • @chilemanne
    @chilemanne 20 дней назад +1

    Kalenga and the airhorns also😂😂😂😂😂 this is wonderful guys, am so impressed with how whenever you sway from the topic of conversation as you digress lynx n Stu are both able to bring it back to the main point and steer the ship were it hits home🙌🙌🙌✍️✍️✍️✍️you guys are awesome and you have made a great team and diverse too..I love it

  • @winstonechisenga6243
    @winstonechisenga6243 17 дней назад

    The podcast is fun😂😅, Cheeeeeeezi kah😎.

  • @Innocent69-t2h
    @Innocent69-t2h 20 дней назад +4

    Well done guys for this podcast 🫶🏼am really enjoying and learning a lot though I must say as me,I feel like boundaries and knowing someone are things that need to go together 😊because people pretend to a point where they make you feel comfortable

  • @mwapekaunda1879
    @mwapekaunda1879 15 дней назад

    Awesome, I really enjoyed this episode 🎉
    Also Mr K really doesn't like being mentioned 😅

  • @Bwalyaluke
    @Bwalyaluke 20 дней назад +1

    You guys compliment each other well!

  • @AnniePanda-n5r
    @AnniePanda-n5r 20 дней назад +1

    The way l enjoy watching you guys you just don't know am learning a lot thankyou for this ❤❤❤

  • @bwalyasampa964
    @bwalyasampa964 20 дней назад

    Episode 3 we are here let me get some popcorn 🍿🥤 Maza ad Lynx ❤

  • @MosesMulimba-p9z
    @MosesMulimba-p9z 16 дней назад

    Cheeeeezi iwe😎

  • @williamznaph8422
    @williamznaph8422 20 дней назад +1

    I was suggesting Chezieers😂😂
    I really love how you both Diverse and find a unique obvious way of connecting the Chat, aaaah Your FADA😅😅 Chezi!
    please, on the next podcast I want to hear your views over The Trending Chezing Chop Minister from lol. Need a merch also

  • @joshuabanda6823
    @joshuabanda6823 20 дней назад

    I never thought I would laugh this much. Great podcast team...

  • @Sahér-68
    @Sahér-68 15 дней назад

    Cheezzz! ❤

  • @MultiGriph
    @MultiGriph 20 дней назад

    relationship dynamics growing.

  • @JoyceSoko-s9b
    @JoyceSoko-s9b 17 дней назад +1

    Me am here to stay ❤😊

  • @raquelxi
    @raquelxi 19 дней назад +1

    Sometimes I wonder, "Is the Lord still my shepard" 💀 - Lynx

  • @nalucakaunda2749
    @nalucakaunda2749 19 дней назад

    I really love this combination of you guys. Big fan of Lynx and I love the works of Stu... Nomba ama links naimwe ka short Ako mwala langisha luga 😂😂😂
    Otherwise pama top fan epo twaba. Ndefwaya ko nechili shati 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @easychemistry-bmk
    @easychemistry-bmk 20 дней назад +2

    Chezaz (male) and Chilaz (female )

  • @allgood6238
    @allgood6238 19 дней назад

    Strings become like a bundle 😅😅😅😅😂 lynx awe

  • @OttinoNfunda
    @OttinoNfunda 20 дней назад

    Facts 🤣🤣.. voted 3 times chezi 🥂🍻

  • @Theresa-m2s
    @Theresa-m2s 20 дней назад

    I like Maza’s laughter😊

  • @allgood6238
    @allgood6238 19 дней назад

    When he said his wife i was so convinced 😂😅 lyx awe

  • @allgood6238
    @allgood6238 19 дней назад

    We need a whole session of " straight face lie with lynx😂

  • @jonathansakuwaha9890
    @jonathansakuwaha9890 19 дней назад +1

    Keep it up

  • @benkhi-impizulu712
    @benkhi-impizulu712 20 дней назад

    Lyxn muntu wanga Nachi babe stu ...me loving the podcast from the start..lynx you should throw a t shirt next time we meet pa mosi road 🤣🤣

  • @Killninji
    @Killninji 20 дней назад

    14:54 😂😂😂 ba Chilonga
    You know what you guys when you have like a few more episodes in you should also start doing live podcasts like twice a month, for friendly conversations with us the #Chazimates.

  • @SuwilanjiLuchembe
    @SuwilanjiLuchembe 19 дней назад

    You guys are really doing a good job 😂😂😂😂 ati baby have you paid for Netflix😅

  • @SandraMulenga-qq9dk
    @SandraMulenga-qq9dk 20 дней назад +1

    We're proud to be Chezmates!! The ladies are Chezianas 😅

    • @CheziAndChillzpodcast
      @CheziAndChillzpodcast  20 дней назад +1

      We love that! Should we throw Lynx a birthday chillz?

    • @PriscillaPhiri-kr1ci
      @PriscillaPhiri-kr1ci 20 дней назад +1

      ​@@CheziAndChillzpodcastdefinitely and full vlog as well of the whole everything chezi🥂

    • @SandraMulenga-qq9dk
      @SandraMulenga-qq9dk 20 дней назад

      ​@@CheziAndChillzpodcastDefinitely!! Lynx deserves it we love you guys!

  • @moongamuyamba
    @moongamuyamba 19 дней назад

    Why can't you do these more than once a week ai? Me i enjoy hearing your real life talks really 🥺 keep it up guys 💪🏾❤️

  • @gracemuhanga
    @gracemuhanga 20 дней назад

    Chezi🥂

  • @EsnartMbawa
    @EsnartMbawa 20 дней назад

    As a chezmate😂I'm so happy to be here

  • @eugeniahpearlkaluba8784
    @eugeniahpearlkaluba8784 16 дней назад

    Stu looks nice...👌

  • @bwalyasampa964
    @bwalyasampa964 20 дней назад +1

    I think a invite Uncle Elso to one of these topics,😂

  • @siphomhambi3717
    @siphomhambi3717 20 дней назад

    Wav decided to start camping here 🔥

  • @QuickFactJourney
    @QuickFactJourney 18 дней назад

    Lynx has voted 3 times 🤣. My approximation is 36 years + or - 1

  • @memorynyirendahmumbi9133
    @memorynyirendahmumbi9133 19 дней назад

    Is that ci Fanta or mirinda Heeeeee ba Lynx Lu prizzzz … let me watch to the end I will come back to that bottle

  • @princegavinmumba5909
    @princegavinmumba5909 19 дней назад

    Hey chezi mates.....am a fan over here so I decided to make a portrait for our podcast. How can deliver it to you guys....?

  • @allgood6238
    @allgood6238 19 дней назад

    Ok but this ka short😂😅 we thank God for the bottolo😂

  • @bettyndhlovu1946
    @bettyndhlovu1946 18 дней назад

    Please invite me to the chezi party 😂

  • @allgood6238
    @allgood6238 19 дней назад

    Justice for lynx boundaries 😅

  • @jeniferjeffries5621
    @jeniferjeffries5621 19 дней назад

    Chez mates wagwan
    Okey lynx is like my brother, he fails to say no to the women that loves him but will give them equal attention and love, but without the girlfriend title.. problem girls in this gen are broken and the moment you show them that ka attention they want and ka care they think you are their ka boyfriend.....
    Stu understand lynx his being real ma gelo muli broken last...

  • @allgood6238
    @allgood6238 19 дней назад

    Stu dont fall for lynx run please 😂

  • @agapemusonda5037
    @agapemusonda5037 20 дней назад

    I also want to ask where you got your card game in the last episode

  • @christinemulenda4
    @christinemulenda4 20 дней назад +1

    Hai guys......great topic n conversation but you derail off the topic 3/4 of the time..
    Try sticking to the topic n share experiences related to the topic.

  • @allgood6238
    @allgood6238 19 дней назад

    😂😂😂😂ati " i mentioned the constituency 😂

  • @lanshilishiko4376
    @lanshilishiko4376 19 дней назад

    Chee Zi!!

  • @FaraiShaba
    @FaraiShaba 19 дней назад

    Birthday mate we are drinking were the beverages?😂

  • @allgood6238
    @allgood6238 19 дней назад

    Chezmates

  • @genemulenga3941
    @genemulenga3941 20 дней назад

    Datsuns 😂😂, champion gear tate...😅

  • @nalucakaunda2749
    @nalucakaunda2749 19 дней назад

    Ati incapability to buy you from your family 😂😂😂😂 ah lynx wa last

  • @bwalyasampa964
    @bwalyasampa964 20 дней назад

    Happy cheZmates

  • @PriscillaPhiri-kr1ci
    @PriscillaPhiri-kr1ci 20 дней назад

    22 for life 😂😂

  • @agapemusonda5037
    @agapemusonda5037 20 дней назад

    Hey guys..... Me I want to know what football teams you support😂❤chezi guys

  • @emmanuelmwansa3300
    @emmanuelmwansa3300 20 дней назад

    When it comes to cooking, cleaning and washing you people don't have maids? You need to work harder if you don't have help

  • @allgood6238
    @allgood6238 19 дней назад

    Dimple lynx 🫣😁