How We Honestly Feel About Caring For Our Brother With Special Needs

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  • Опубликовано: 8 янв 2025

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  • @mohdfahmy3814
    @mohdfahmy3814 Год назад +207

    Excellent job Daddy and Mummy for instilling good family values to your children!

    • @bobafett5757
      @bobafett5757 Год назад +12

      Dont forget about the maid

    • @NazriB
      @NazriB Год назад +1

      Lies again? Special Agent National Service

  • @stephaniemuse
    @stephaniemuse Год назад +117

    If the parents had done a terrible job, their daughters wouldn't be this kind, intelligent, and eloquent. It is clear that they have their own goals and dreams, whilst still also understanding that their parents will grow older and so, eventually, the responsibility of taking care of Jaden would fall on them. There is a balance to be had - and these three girls all seem to have good heads on their shoulders and would definitely be able to make the best choices for their lives. May they be granted many days of happiness and fulfilment.

  • @elaineclaire7063
    @elaineclaire7063 Год назад +142

    Love the inclusiveness in this family ❤️
    The maturity of each sister really showcases empathy and love in acceptance of the brother.

  • @opheliajadefeldt9123
    @opheliajadefeldt9123 11 месяцев назад +12

    These are very, very, special girls and their parents must be so proud of them. Just think, we are only watching about 10 ten minutes of THEIR day, they have done this for 24 hours 7 days a week. That is true dedication and sincere care. I hope all their dreams come true because they, more than anyone, deserve them to.

  • @limtimothy846
    @limtimothy846 Год назад +70

    You three girls have taken family ties & bonding to a new height with so much genuine care, concern, commitment & love for your brother. These days there're some who are so self centred with no time for parents or siblings let alone sibling with special needs. My respect & admiration to you girls. Keep up the good work !!

  • @ownthegame3
    @ownthegame3 Год назад +35

    Jayden knows he has great sisters and parents.
    It is not easy but the circumstances bring about the love, the bonds, the humility and empathy that are extraordinary.

  • @MrOngJohn
    @MrOngJohn 2 дня назад +1

    I also have 3 beautiful girls. So sweet to see that these siblings are so loving towards each other.

  • @patt5085
    @patt5085 Год назад +53

    Growing up wishing my parents would divorce I never really had a moment like this. You guys have each other. Real loving family.

    • @elaineclaire7063
      @elaineclaire7063 Год назад +3

      naww, sending some love your way, chin up, sometimes our family are not from our DNA. 🫶🏽

  • @sunnygarden4948
    @sunnygarden4948 Год назад +7

    Wow the 3 sisters are tight! Ive never see before, they are physically close, holding hands & hugging. And mentally supportive.

  • @dchew5552
    @dchew5552 Год назад +16

    love that the sisters showed so much empathy.
    I have brain dysfunction, hypothyroidism and pituitary gland issue,
    brain dysfunction was due to the head injuries I sustained when I was in sec4, which was nine years ago as classmates always like to kick soccer which always hit my head but there's once, one of the classmates kicked soccer ball into the sky while at the field gate into the field, which I got head shot and nose bleed, since then I couldn't cope with studies and been at home ever since, as back then after head injuries I had trouble finding way home after school as I couldn't remember my way home and started having trouble walking normally as my leg would jerk, I usually walk to school within 15minutes but after the head injury it took me an hour. school shows no empathy especially the student council and teacher in charge of the latecomers, even when my teacher request consent from the principal to allow me to enter school after morning assembly and before lesson starts, along with class bullying me as one shouted that im fat and entire classmates laughed along, there bullying got worse as not fat shamed, they even moved my table and chair to somewhere else in the school, stole my textbook and followed me home all the way to my doorsteps. I stopped going school and only attended n level English papers only. principal only advised me to get tested for thyroid which I got hypothyroidism. and since my sis is an adult, my mom ever asked her if she could take care of me in the future when they're not around since I have brain dysfunction im incapable of getting a job as I tried before and had brain fog which impossible to remember the task given, her response shocked my mom as she said "dont ever rely on me, I dont have money" my mom was dishearten by such heartless respond as she earned more than $5k. I was dishearten by her response as for me, if the role were to change, I would definitely take up the role to take care.

  • @qianliow4421
    @qianliow4421 Год назад +13

    i watched the entire documentary of the family since the previous ones. respect,admiration to the entire family. it's never ever easy to raise children with special needs. love and light and blessings to the family ❤

  • @huilin0708
    @huilin0708 Год назад +24

    this is so heartwarming! lovely to see the sisters so united and grounded in their identity. i watched the previous series, and some people can be so judgemental. as they said, we are just seeing snap shot of what is happening in their lives, we don't have a big picture. kudos to them! tough journey none the less, much salutations to them!

  • @vincentchanbiz
    @vincentchanbiz Год назад +7

    The true meaning of love, from parents and siblings.
    So heartwarming and a great lesson for all of us, staying positive.
    I wish your family well! ❤

  • @WheeledHamster
    @WheeledHamster Год назад +12

    This is what family is all about. My family dropped me when I got into a car accident in 2011 and was paralyzed.

  • @AMoKDuke
    @AMoKDuke Год назад +18

    Watching this video, I'm filled with immense respect and admiration for all three of you. It's truly heartwarming to see how you embrace the role of caregivers for your brother, Jayden, with such patience, grace, and unwavering love. Remember that it's perfectly okay to have moments of struggle - they don't make you any less incredible. Continue to support one another as you have been, because the unity in your family is truly something special. In a world that often seems lacking in empathy, your unwavering love and dedication to Jayden's well-being is a beacon of hope. Your story serves as an invaluable lesson for us all on the importance of love, resilience, and understanding.
    Keep shining and inspiring! You're making a difference not just in Jayden's life, but in the lives of all who hear your story.
    Stay strong! 💪❤

  • @izzabinteismail1566
    @izzabinteismail1566 Год назад +5

    amazing and beautiful sisters. just beautiful. brought tears to my eyes to see how optimistic they are, and just how much empathy they have.

  • @jimw8615
    @jimw8615 Год назад +9

    Taking up responsibility is wat I see here. Rather then shy away. U can’t calculate and draw line in a family or in life in general. It loses its meaning after a while. J has somehow become the glue in the family

  • @P53eud0nym05
    @P53eud0nym05 Год назад +31

    What resulted in those comments was the mum saying the plan was to have more kids so when they are gone there are siblings to look after Jayden.
    Whether it was edited to make it seem like she said that, or if she legit said that the audience will not know.
    But since the sisters say they don’t feel that way, good for them.

    • @berryspinelsun
      @berryspinelsun Год назад +7

      In the previous documentary, the mother did say that they (I assume she and her husband) told the girls that Jayden was part of the girls' responsibility when they are no longer around. That set off a lot of comments in that video saying that that sounds unfair for the girls.

  • @pinsongorga8466
    @pinsongorga8466 Год назад +46

    Solid Sisterhood ❤

  • @melts7781
    @melts7781 Год назад

    The family cohesiveness is heartwarming. And the maturity of the sisters at this age is impressive. When some windows close, other doors open.

  • @Athenaforever2308
    @Athenaforever2308 9 месяцев назад +1

    You can see the sisterhood is strong!! You girls are beautiful and inspiring, Thank you!!!! And your brother and your parents are very lucky to have you!!! I am sure you will all go very far in life! Hello to Jayden all the way from Tanzania!

  • @shumlulu6605
    @shumlulu6605 Год назад +1

    I also have two siblings with special needs, but I totally understand this is not easy. These three sisters show how much they love & care for their brother, and treat him like a normal kid. This is not everyone can do the same thing as them. Hope your family is happy forever. U guys have done a good job.

  • @jasminetan736
    @jasminetan736 Год назад +7

    Well brought up kids and well spoken and mature in their thinking. They will ride out well in life

  • @david94134
    @david94134 Месяц назад +1

    These girls are so sweet.

  • @Lemonkisss
    @Lemonkisss Год назад +4

    Really strong family made of rock. The wonderful girls are so mature, sweet and awe inspiring at the same time. Jayden definitely feel very cherished every day to be part of this loving family. ❤😊

  • @danicafong-shoji6052
    @danicafong-shoji6052 Год назад +12

    You girls are awesome! So much respect for your family of taking care of each other ❤

  • @tsesheng2641
    @tsesheng2641 3 месяца назад

    You sisters are so empathetic and understanding! You are definitely someone I look up to and you are a mature and strong role model to all of us.

  • @myeongwol
    @myeongwol Год назад +3

    So nice to have so much sibling love.
    Wish the sisters all the best ☺️

  • @SGrailadventure2004
    @SGrailadventure2004 Год назад +1

    A great 'sisterhood' of staying strong despite the struggles in helping their special need brother. Seeing fights or arguments within a family is something I won't want to see.

  • @dessy982
    @dessy982 Год назад +1

    You really know these girls has quality like a diamond. Hope they could become successful people in world especially Singapore.🙏🏻

  • @ethantay4630
    @ethantay4630 6 месяцев назад

    im glad that you are his sisters, you understand the role but still wantto help.
    not all of us can have such a happy family

  • @ngenxiadelenbss1849
    @ngenxiadelenbss1849 Год назад +6

    the three sisters are so mature !!

  • @dorothyew7156
    @dorothyew7156 4 месяца назад

    Wonderful sisters !
    This brings back bittersweet memories of my sisters and I loving our late brother who had special needs.

  • @paulinewong5906
    @paulinewong5906 Год назад +1

    These parents are lucky to hv such 3 wonderful girls..
    Ya no matter what he is your brother n family stays together or cares for each other

  • @Bird34115
    @Bird34115 4 месяца назад

    Thank you y’all for responding to some of the comments and going deep into some questions as well. I really think y’all are so wholesome and are doing the best u can to support Jayden. Good stuff guys and ignore the hate comments as they don’t have the whole story anyways. And Jeslyn, it’s gna be ok. Stay strong and hope y’all doing ok❤

  • @jxc168
    @jxc168 Год назад +1

    Amazing sisters. You all are the epitome of sisterhood

  • @Ruth-lo3qh
    @Ruth-lo3qh 12 дней назад +1

    Jayden does have very High IQ even if he has disabilities. I can tell he is a very playful and kind brother to his loving sisters. 🥰😃

  • @suhaimielibra478
    @suhaimielibra478 Год назад +3

    im really understand how your feeling when have 1 bro or sis who special, just like me have 2 sisters that Thallasemia,, taking care of them is a happiness for me cause thats my destiny ,,what an inspirations family

  • @metallooily7606
    @metallooily7606 Год назад +1

    Take care of each other too, we are proud of all, Parent too

  • @priyavicky3401
    @priyavicky3401 Год назад +1

    jayden is so lucky to have such loving sisters. One day , when the parents r not around I am sure his sisters would take care of him. Jayden is also good looking .

    • @moonstarsun633
      @moonstarsun633 Год назад

      Wait till the sisters are married and have kids.

  • @nicklee7002
    @nicklee7002 Год назад +6

    CNA should revisit this family for an update 30 years later.

  • @jennieloh6312
    @jennieloh6312 Год назад +1

    Proud parents! All of you are so wholesome.

  • @marionsmith4728
    @marionsmith4728 Год назад +1

    What a wonderful family,so loving and accepting ❤

  • @Ruth-lo3qh
    @Ruth-lo3qh 12 дней назад +1

    The sisters are very hard working 😊😃

  • @Jsarmy87124
    @Jsarmy87124 Год назад +4

    For the moment parents don't think about the future
    because everything gonna be on sister's shoulders
    A lot of adults with disabilities can't leave on their own its very Very Very hard
    To take care of them
    You are scared all the time people look down on them
    You can't have your own life too so
    It's a burden like older people who are sick I have a brother in the case
    Family values It's one thing but the difficulties who came with it It's not easy

    • @moonstarsun633
      @moonstarsun633 Год назад +2

      Reality is always hard. If brother suffers from mild autism or mild down syndrome, at least not so bad. Once the sisters have families, it will really be a challenge. The parents must prepare financially well for Jayden's so sisters no need to dig into savings to take care their brother. The sisters can use the funds to take care the brother. This is better I guess.

  • @Ruth-lo3qh
    @Ruth-lo3qh 12 дней назад +2

    Theese girls are very great sisters to Jayden and very helpful. 😊😃

  • @Ruth-lo3qh
    @Ruth-lo3qh 12 дней назад

    These sister are doing an excellent job taking care of their brother Jayden.
    🎉👏😃😍🤩🎊

  • @cheewanng6138
    @cheewanng6138 Год назад +1

    All I see is love from every pixel of this video.

  • @SsugarNSpice
    @SsugarNSpice 8 месяцев назад

    I would look after him he is so sweet he is a gem

  • @belugaservices8424
    @belugaservices8424 Год назад

    I feel you . What a wonderful siblings !! I can relate it , the ups and downs . Keep it up, gals

  • @JenniferKim-kv8rx
    @JenniferKim-kv8rx Год назад +1

    Amazing family! If only every family was like this…

  • @JaneJohnson-vg3xi
    @JaneJohnson-vg3xi Год назад

    god bless you for caring for your brother you girls have alot of love for your brother

  • @youtubeaudience384
    @youtubeaudience384 Год назад +2

    I feel so bad for his parents, imagine raising a child like that!? How unfortunate..😢

    • @salmasalamoon
      @salmasalamoon Год назад

      Did you learn nothing from this video?

  • @enhypenfan123
    @enhypenfan123 6 месяцев назад

    Wow wow wow … good Jie Jie . May god look upon you girls . Jia You. Jayden so so so fortunate to have Jie Jie like you three . Impressive girls .

  • @dessy982
    @dessy982 Год назад +2

    I'm very glad if he has very warm-loving sisters and family in his life..❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @6969Liverpool
    @6969Liverpool Год назад

    Lovely siblings & great parenting from parents. Stay Strong ❤❤

  • @mamalittlekoala1804
    @mamalittlekoala1804 3 месяца назад

    Good kids! Togetherness!

  • @MuhammadTahir-lf4hu
    @MuhammadTahir-lf4hu Год назад

    You are strong sisters & your parents are also strong

  • @abdulrajaf6
    @abdulrajaf6 Год назад

    Honestly...He is Smart...n TRUST...me...he knows a LOT of things that we NORMAL PERSON...dont know.....

  • @youarehere1251
    @youarehere1251 Год назад

    As time goes by, things will change for better or worse.

  • @cherylang4108
    @cherylang4108 Год назад

    stay strong rooting for your family❤❤

  • @moonrei69
    @moonrei69 Год назад

    Awesome sisters, loving family!

  • @bobafett5757
    @bobafett5757 Год назад +5

    *Unsure if the sister knows the difference between a caretaker and caregiver cos its not the same based on the brothers situation*

  • @bobafett5757
    @bobafett5757 Год назад +2

    *Am just wondering is there any type of cure for such condition ?*

  • @HarpaxA
    @HarpaxA Год назад +3

    Hopefully they still stay true and taking care of their brother, AFTER they are getting married.

    • @moonstarsun633
      @moonstarsun633 Год назад +2

      When they have their own families, it might be different story. The sisters can said whatever they want now. Unless each of them is willing to take turn let him stay at their home and hire a maid. But I'm sure the parents have to prepare for Jayden's so as to relieve sisters from bearing the bulk of responsibilities. Wishing them well!

  • @bchpls24
    @bchpls24 Год назад +17

    Quite sad that they have to make another video just to address comments. People can be mean. How is it even our problem if the sisters want to take care of their own blood?😅

  • @clara.t68
    @clara.t68 Год назад +6

    Jayden is one lucky lucky child (:

    • @mathshouldntdie9996
      @mathshouldntdie9996 Год назад

      Unlucky because he contracted PURA syndrome.
      Sorry if I was being sorta ableist

  • @SummerOngNagaraj
    @SummerOngNagaraj Год назад

    What an amazing family!

  • @EmEm872
    @EmEm872 Год назад

    What a beautiful family❤

  • @yueling3424
    @yueling3424 Год назад

    I LOVE THESE GIRLS!

  • @bobafett5757
    @bobafett5757 Год назад +4

    *Looks like theres a maid in this household so all respect to the maid*

  • @lplk
    @lplk Год назад

    Respect!

  • @jag4064
    @jag4064 Год назад

    Lovely family.

  • @mmsutantowrites
    @mmsutantowrites 8 месяцев назад

    Family ❤❤❤

  • @CocoaBanana914
    @CocoaBanana914 Год назад

    Beautiful families

  • @KironManuelCards
    @KironManuelCards Год назад

    If anyone wants care either in Singapore or Malaysia,let me know.

  • @irenekoo
    @irenekoo Год назад +3

    FAST AND FURIUOUS X is the bomb!

  • @AungThu-cg2ov
    @AungThu-cg2ov 9 месяцев назад

    Good family.

  • @wanderfooltang3520
    @wanderfooltang3520 Год назад +2

    3 great lovely sisters

  • @kinokunia
    @kinokunia Год назад

    whoa, wondered who would even think that he is a burden.

  • @Honeymagmangospoof
    @Honeymagmangospoof Год назад +2

    Why you all only feature this Chinese family

  • @brucelee5576
    @brucelee5576 Год назад

    Man I haven’t seen a Hungry Hungry Hippo in 35 years.

  • @TheresaChen-b1f
    @TheresaChen-b1f 12 дней назад

    I have siblings two

  • @gpaulac5284
    @gpaulac5284 Год назад

    Pass

  • @janeli1351
    @janeli1351 Год назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @TheresaChen-b1f
    @TheresaChen-b1f 12 дней назад

    I eating and drinking myself

  • @officialnyiyanmoehtet
    @officialnyiyanmoehtet Год назад

    What are the heights of the 14 and 16 years old girls? Jeslyn and Selene. And why were they born as girls? Is it because they want to be females? So jealous, I don't want to be a male. I want to be a female but my parents don't let me.

  • @jessz3104
    @jessz3104 Год назад +5

    the parents are very selfish. to limit their daughter's opportunity by tying them down to their brother. the 3 sisters have no husband or boyfriend yet. easy for them to say anything, wait till they have their own families and children...

    • @fuschiarose
      @fuschiarose Год назад +9

      Clearly you don’t understand, nor do you have the honor of caring for a loved one with special needs. Can’t you see that they’re happy caring for their brother? Is life really all about finding a mate? You believe they won’t be able to find someone all because their brother is disabled?

    • @hayatieow4727
      @hayatieow4727 Год назад +3

      I think the parents are trying to push the responsibility of taking care of the brother without considerations towards the 3 girls who have their own individual challenges in life to manage!
      It is a real challenge for the parents to do what are the right things to do , in all aspects of the family life !
      Nevertheless, instilling the genuine care n love giving is universally recognized as the proud value that each n everyone of us should.
      Have to be spiritually strong n committed while facing adversities in life.
      Good Luck!

    • @chowpoknga6805
      @chowpoknga6805 Год назад

      I think the brother make these 3 girls to be strong and mature faster than girls of their age. So see it as a blessing in disguise. Let’s face it even normal people can’t tell how the future holds. So stop worrying and just enjoy the company around you now.

  • @jewelseng9900
    @jewelseng9900 Год назад +1

    Everything’s cool before they found their “the ones” 😂 after marriage it’s totally gonna be a different story with the siblings

    • @moonstarsun633
      @moonstarsun633 Год назад +1

      Agreed

    • @jewelseng9900
      @jewelseng9900 Год назад

      @@moonstarsun633 after them having their own kids to take care of
      meh 🫤 that poor brother , hope the parents are still alive

  • @erohimuu
    @erohimuu Год назад

    I want to be autistic pls

  • @TheresaChen-b1f
    @TheresaChen-b1f 11 дней назад

    I have school assistant

  • @Julio-wf8go
    @Julio-wf8go Год назад

    Promo`SM

  • @GPTMagana
    @GPTMagana Год назад

    well, I'm sorry. But I will see Jayden as a guy on drugs overloaded with sugar

  • @lpericteo
    @lpericteo Год назад

    阿弥陀佛🙏🙏🙏善哉善哉

  • @SamriddhiPal-p6k
    @SamriddhiPal-p6k Год назад

    Hwre i am a sjngle daughter with some defects in me. And my parents hate me, for bejng a girl 😂

  • @playmobil806
    @playmobil806 9 месяцев назад

    Muttersprachen überprüfen....

  • @TheresaChen-b1f
    @TheresaChen-b1f 12 дней назад

    I have seizure

  • @tokitoyotokitoyo
    @tokitoyotokitoyo Год назад +2

    Too much pork !

    • @CrystalCat24
      @CrystalCat24 7 месяцев назад

      LMFAO get out of here 😅

  • @emmajk7433
    @emmajk7433 10 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤