Heart Rehab | "When Men Hurt" | Part 10
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- Опубликовано: 13 окт 2024
- When men hurt, generations hurt!
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This was such a great message! 🙌🏽
Women, it’s so important for us to realize that what we say matters. We can listen to our men, their hurts etc., without condemning them or running to tell our friends/family their business. Instead let’s uplift, celebrate, and love on our men.
Men, the same applies for you too. Create a safe space for your woman to open up and share her thoughts and feelings with you without shutting down. We too need love from a partner that is emotionally intelligent and gentle.
That’s why it’s so important for us to heal and get serious about our walk with Jesus Christ during our season of singleness. There are some things that we simply cannot take into a marriage.
Thank you again for this awesome message. Be blessed everyone! 💛
Amen ✔️
Well said
Yes @L. Michelle. I agree and I totally loved this message. It's amazing how the Lord will convict you and show you how you can be and do better.
@@coachsamempowers5837 Yes! It’s all to build and strengthen our character to be more like Jesus. The process of growing and maturing is hard, but it’s also very rewarding. ☺️
God used you so perfectly. I couldn't stop crying. It was like someone finally understood. I know it was The Lord.
You'll be okay Ron🤝
@@sanelefavorkukulela8007 amen. Thanks for that.
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Oh my goodness, I Love seeing men heal. 💙💙
@@tiarahnicole21, that was an amazing day. I truly was blessed.
😌Speaking Life to a Man Means Eveything in the World and Spirit to Him. A Virtuous Woman Adds Life to Her Man.... 🙏🏾
I totally agree with you 1000%.#FACTS. I'm So Glad I know the POWER of MY WORDS.
All the way from Kenya
I been going back watching old series and I really like when kingdom men come together and we get to hear from a perspective as a woman. It helps me understand a lot more about men I’ve dated and maybe the demons they have battled instead of just thinking they were intentionally trying to hurt me. It helps me move forward. It also lets me know kingdom men do exist when I see how people have overcame these spirits. Please do more kingdom men sit down talks. These are so helpful for understanding. Love this ministry.
I was literally talking about this subject matter with a co-worker earlier. In regards to a guy friend that I know. I had to let him go. Because he is not ready, and he is allowing the enemy to use him in every way. I have to let God do what He is going to do in His life first. I told him that I couldn't be in the way of that. I have to let God be God in the midst of it.
"A lot of us are exhausted from trying to extend healthy things on unhealthy people. A lot of us have been doing spiritual disciplines on devil sent people"
PREACH 🔥🔥🔥
I am a woman and this was powerful to hear and I had a personal resonance.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏾
I truly hope a entire generation of men will begin to be healed through the conversations and messages this platform brings! Good stuff! We appreciate you brothers for speaking to the men that many of us are ultimately waiting on....to show up! 🤎🙏🏾💯🙏🏾🤎
Preach!!!! We get exhausted when we extend healthy things to unhealthy people... Living out scripture to people who are a contradiction to my faith...
We need to pray for our men. They are out of position. Satan has them. It's time for them to get back into position. The men need to fully submit and surrender everything to God. God is a father to the fatherless. God is a healer. He wants the man's hurt, ego, and pride. You can trust God with your heart. He is not like man.
I had anger. I am 34 years old and will never know who my dad is. My mom died when i was 16, and took that information to her grave. But i had to overcome it. It was eating my soul
I pray the Lord will heal you in Jesus name
@@fumsy50 thank you so kindly
May the Lord give you grace to overcome and overpower this. May he heal your heart in Jesus Name 🙏
@@spiritfilled823 i appreciate you
I hate that you feel this way. I know it may sound cliche, but some of us have to take peace in knowing that God is the only Father that we may ever know. And appreciate the love, kindness, mercy, and grace that He extend to us each and everyday. My father passed away when I was four years old, and it was hard on me initially. Because the grieving process didn't come for me until years later. After I fully understood what death was, and that he wasn't coming back.
"You got to be hungry enough to want God to take over your ENTIRE life." Help us Jesus!
I'm a woman but this was AMAZING
“Practicing spiritual disciplines on devil sent people!”
I felt this all in my soul, Jesus forgive me and protect me from anymore of this.
POWERFUL! Gonna share this with my brothers.
Much love from Namibia, Africa 🇳🇦💜
Oh there’s a name for it “stonewalling” yes shutting down silence is more hurtful than words
@@PRCMusic8 everyone is on the narcissism spectrum. Some are more than others. We all are broken. Just don’t know the depth of it until God reveals it to the person.
AMEN!!! 🙏
This was really a word .. just have to give God glory for allowing the right word to touch ears at the right time 🙏🏾🙏🏾
amen!!
Hi everyone, YOU WILL RECEIVE UNEXPECTED BLESSINGS, good news, and miracles ALL. I declare You will be happy again. You will heal. You will grow. You will flourish into the person you are destined to be. You will finally be at peace, you deserve it. Amen.💕 Hallelujah
I receive this word in Jesus name under the blood of Jesus
Amen and Amen 🤗🙌
I used all of my tissues! There should be more conversations like this!
You are absolutely right
I agree
Please pray for me and my marriage. I have spoken hurt and back bitting words against my husband. I pray we can be healed
This topic is about men but applies to all of us. Great message!!!
I really needed this . I am in a place of transitioning from my old ways to God's ways and this message came right on time . Thank you for letting God use you two to share this message
Amen. Stay Anchored
I watched this movie called Lion. It pretty much summed up how precious men really are
On netflix?
Will be watching it after I’m finished watching this series.
Love that movie and the soundtrack is beautiful
Yes that movie is BEAUTIFUL. POWERFUL.
@@angelacunningham8153 it is. I cried yesterday. I really didn't expect to like it.
Please do "when women hurt "
When all is said and done and you know you gotta fully submit to God on all fronts: Israel! “Wrestling with God”
Thank You Lord for the outlet and blessed the vessels that you are using to bring more pieces of your puzzle and path of Your purpose in Us . Glory to Our Father in Heaven in Jesus Name ❤️🔥🙏
Look here! This was an amazing Sermon as always! I blame culture. There are men in their 30’s who want women to submit to them but they can’t even attend therapy to do the work! Like hooooow can you mention wanting a family and and building when there is inner work to be done...... whew! Praying for our men! This was good
Thank you for this edifying message brothers. It was truly needed, please continue to do the work of the Lord. The body of Christ needs it desperately
This is so good , Holy Spirit has me in this season . In my singleness I’m learning who I am , what hurts me , what hurt me, what I like , and my love for God first. It’s important for our mental health and Spiritual health❤️
This transparency is amazing.
When he said “purity doesn’t stop at marriage” I leaped on the inside. Thank you brothers, this hit even as a woman.
Thank you for this conversation...just separated from someone I love because of communication issues etc and it hurts because all I wanted to do is be there to support and help and heal together. His shutdown mode destroyed at all.
Great message it was definitely needed. Please do a part 2 lol. Thank you for everything God bless 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
There is so much truth in this and this should be taught and preached from the mountain tops with a megaphone
This was so needed. I thank God for putting this on your hearts to share🙌🏽
Brothers.....thank you for bringing this truth to us all and especially our brothers.
Columbia, South Carolina
This message is strategically placed!! I'm so glad to hear it from men on a spiritual-kingdom path! Thank you God for bringing forth a word such as this 😆👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🤲🏾🤦🏾♀️🙏🏾
Columbia, South Carolina too!! Good stuff 👏
We all have our inner child within 👏🏾♥️
Tears clear your vision!
Intentional suffering! No. I care about this vessel that God is blessing!!!! My inside is awesome, Amen!
I didn't want this to end.
A guy I loved did this to me and it burned into the pits of my soul. Hurt like hell !! (Stonewall )
Great sermon!
I’ve seen alot of the other extreme. Men that are too emotional and stay stagnant. They allow the whims of the world to control their everyday emotions. Like mini roller coasters in their head. Happy one minute and the next a nail is out of place that literally throws their life out of balance and they’re ready to jump ship.
Teach!!! Thank You Holy Spirit for the insight & wisdom
Well I was 8:26 into the video and I already don’t agree with what has been said thus far; so here is my story. My girlfriend and I was hoping to be my wife terminated a 28yr relationship and 3 months later she was with another man and already had him sleeping in my former home with both my children in the resident! I cried for the end or 2019 and almost all 2020...unless you’ve experienced a heartbreak during a fucking pandemic...you have no idea what a heartbreak is! She shattered my stole and destroyed my spirit and despite it all I didn’t stonewall. What I did was work my ass off, immediately went to a therapist, and when the gums were allowed to open...there I was working out. I became a better father than I already was cause this dude was NOT getting my daughters because I refused to let him come into their lives in any way, shape, or form. Even to this very moment I took the high road and treated my ex with the utmost respect when in reality I didn’t owe her shit...I’m a good dude extremely educated, not bad looking at and funny af....was I innocent in all of this...I keep it 100...no I wasn’t. Almost two year after the breakup...I’m still working on me and evolving as a man...and never stonewall...the next woman in my life is going to find herself with the man of her dreams...lessened learn...I going to continue seeking out the best road for me mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and psychologically.
That’s what it’s all about. God doesn’t want us to do destructive things because it’s not good for us, and he wants us to do things that have value
This is what happened 2020
This is just YOUR take and YOUR experience though, you can disagree with them because you didn’t do it but I know a lot of people that do this. There are a lot of people who stonewall, blow up whole relationships and all because of how they’re feeling.
28 years in a relationship with kids and you never married her, let’s be honest with ourselves on a few things.
I have so many Males in my life that are scared to cry, scared to reveal the skeleton in the closet. I have so many that need to hear this. Still I need to send this to my married, single, engaged friends. THANK YOU THANK YOU
THANK YOU
I know this for our brothers, but this message was answered prayer. For me! God bless you guys💜💜💜
I don’t ever leave comments but I have to let you guys know how much this word spoke to me. Put my feelings into words and even why i was going through things in my relationship. I would love to attend a Christian marriage counselor for me and my spouse. Thank you guys!
This was the 1st time I have ever heard young men be totally honest with the butt naked truth#
This not only helped the men but it help us women see what's really the problem. This was also confirmation for me. It's tight but it's right!!!!!😔
4 minutes in and yoooooooooo.....I'm already deeply connected!!!!!
Two beautiful men! Thank you so much! Blessings to you both!
My ex and I had a conversation about this.... I needed this so I can send him this....
It shows to me that he cares more about himself than me...What if you try to explain, apologize..and still doesnt work? How long does shut down lasts... It can also mean that pride in them is greater than love...
The beauty of fasting is strengthening our NO 🙏🏾😇🤯🤯 if your no is weak then your spirit is weak. 🙏🏾😇 Lord, help me to strengthen my NO and teach me how to realize what I have on the inside that its powerful to change the world 🙏🏾😌
Praise God for Wives that can hold up without words. God bless Mrs. Flowers
Gods timing is perfect, there’s a reason I’m listening to this 👌🏼🔥today
This hits home because I do this. What’s a better alternative to silence when someone tells you to shut up? There’s people I have trouble explaining myself to. It drains my energy and I feel the need to conserve it.
So good! I’m sure this blessed the woman as much as it did the men! Lol 🙌🏻🤍🙏🏼
This is deep. I feel like wanting to hug all men who are hurting out there. It takes real strength to admit you have imperfections/weaknesses. God will never disappoint. Keep trusting Him. ❤
This is great brothers but I kinda roll my eyes when men say they find it so hard to be faithful. It’s not hard.
Idc how many options y’all had 🙄 I had options too but I DESIRED my husband and only him.
That's good. I cannot lead while I bleed!!!!
I agree!!!! If you haven’t seen him mad 😡 you haven’t seen him:..
We are inclined to keep silent about it and cover it up, but indeed we hurt too
Powerful message my brothers. Thank yall. I too, want God to overtake every aspect of my life. I been spiritually nauseous
This was so powerful... thank you two men of God for this because the men need to hear this a lot of them is going through this exact same thing and don’t even know why
And don’t even know what’s going on might even know the word of God but still don’t understand what they’re going through this is very powerful thank you so much❤️
My two favorite pastors
My mother stone walled me. I have learned this same behavior.
This is sooo good and need to be taught more and more especially in our community
You know what guys messages like this is life and world changing thank you! 🙌
So Powerful and So True we Must Pay Attention.
I am watching from Kingston, Jamaica.
God ia using both of you mightily! Many men will be set free and delivered in Jesus name!
We must first recognize that we have a need for healing to be open and honest with someone else
i was watching this and at 12:18 my small siz walked into the room with pictures of me being like 1yr old or something....just at the moment isaac was talking about letting the boy out!!!!! i donno even what God is doing but thank yall so much
This conversation/message is so incredibly anointed. This could be an entire deliverance series.!!!Bless you men of God.
So good so grateful 🙏 for this
Yes! Moses had an anger problem as well, which resulted in him not entering the promised land. His anger stemmed from the tribe of Levi, which he was from. Read Genesis 49 and you'll see what Jacob said to the tribe of Levi when he was speaking blessings and curses on his sons.
I soooo needed this one. Trying to navigate praying for my partner amongst his storm
From Johannesburg, South Africa. I love your channel, it's helped me not only gain an understanding of myself but of others and how to love them through God's guidance and love. May God continually bless you and your ministry!!
Amen for this! Thank you so much !
This timely word HAS to be shared with other men, especially our black men! God richly bless you brothers of the 🤴🏾 Kingdom!!
They talking real 💯💯🗣🗣
I don't think you both understand that you both just helped me. Now i understand and know what to do. I understand a man more. Thank YOU SO MUCH! Now i will continue to put in work in the Kingdom.
GLORY TO GOD..🔥
Thank you Men of God .. for sharing ... this rehab session with authenticity and transparency!!!... #sopowerful #timelesstruthtoliberateus
Great message especially the emphasis of ancient spirit. Definitely cried on that. God bless this ministry.
This message is Golden
Yessssss commonnnnnnnnn yessss...... Thank youuuuu for your perspectives and working for the kingdom mindset......🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
This was sooooo helpful. Lets Continue to feed our men with words that strengthen and build. By the power of the Holy Spirit may our words water seeds of Hope, Growth and endless potential in them.
Glory, this was amazing. Thank you. Yes we need more of this, it's hard trying to understand a man when he doesn't know himself.
WOW! P. O. W. E. R. F.U.L.!! I couldn’t stop weeping.🥲The title says when Men hurts but I saw myself and so many men I know dealing with this. Great conversation that needs to be discussed more often. That’s the only way we can move forward. God bless this ministry!! These brothers are Rich in wisdom!💯
22:54 - just broke the devil's whole game plan. Exposed for REAL
Great message Men of God. I totally agree with the both of you. First God , self, relationship. Amen
One of my favorite lines in a movie is, I needed to see you in the light of day. That is what I think about when a man try to come off as if he is one way, but then his true intentions and character start to show.
What a WORD - Wowzaaa! And to from another perspective has just been SUCH a blessing. May the Lord continue to anoint you to impart to many MOG(s)!!!
Thank you🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you for this🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yes 😪😪 preach Mr. Flowers
Get to the root.🙌🏼🙌🏼
I promise if I could like this as a mother of a 4 yr old boy 20 times over I would. How do I pray for him?