Love your kids or they’ll find that love in someone else. My neighbor wasn’t the best to her kids by I adored them sometimes she’d just leave them home alone and I’d bring them food and let them come over to our house. One of her kids attempted and my dog found her. I was there when she woke up in the hospital and her mother immediately went into calling her an ungrateful brat and I lost it. I don’t think I’ve ever snapped at someone like that but I was furious. Ava’s story does not have a happy ending though she did succeed in her second attempt. Her mother became nicer to her kids it’s just sad Ava had to die to give her a reality check
The mom not concerned about her daughter's mental health after all that just punishing her speaks volumes why the daughter called the suicide hotline in the first place
Happened to me once. I wrote down heavy things in my journal when I was younger and ripped it up, my mom found all the pieces, put them together, just to read what I was saying. LOL
This is... A lot more common of a situation than people realize. Trigger warning as I post my story. Not this exactly, but when I was 9, I made an attempt to... Permanently sleep. My parents drove me to the hospital, completely and utterly ignoring me, my crying, my pain. If i got too loud, I was just told to shut up. As I was laying in the hospital bed, literally in the ER, the second the nurse closed the door, my parents immediately started berrating me. Screaming at me that I was so horrible to try and do such a thing, to be so stupid, to think so little of them. That I thought of them as circus monkeys, and how disgusted they were to have a child that would be so ignorant and selfish as to try to take their own life. Please, love your children. Be paitent. We hurt too.
I dont know how they usually are to you, im not in your position, but theres a chance that they could've been just really scared after you tried and let out their emotions by being mean.
@@xxcatagentxx I know, I'm not saying they're bad parents. We all attended therapy together after a court order, and we're much better now. But my Nana/mom has multiple mental disorders, and we were all just stressed beyond our ability to handle.
As someone who has gone though suicidal ideation this is the worst thing to do as a parent especially when they obviously thought they had a safe space just to get in trouble for something you should have gotten them help for instead of tearing her down even if she said things that were not true instead of punishing her you should have had a conversation with her to make sure she was OK then talk about why she thinks that way and resolve the issue instead of being insensitive
No, that is the exact opposite. The daughter is desperate enough to call the suicide hotline because of her mother not realizing her completely unsympathetic and selfish mother works there. Now she is going to be punished for looking for help.
For more explanation : The mother of the girl that call the suiside hotline work at the suiside hotline, so when the girl called, the mother recognize her voice. The girl was talking (surely) that she wanted to kill herself because her mother did horrible things and she tried to tell everything to someone on the suiside hotline. Her mother became angry that she tried to tell someone all the things she has done to her daughter so she's gonna punish her.
I feel like many parents instantly try to defend themselves against whatever their child is trying to say about them instead of listening I feel if parents generally took their children seriously and set them down for a real conversation to talk about what they actually feel that they can do better in at parenting them( that isn't absurd like getting whatever they want or something) then the kid would probably have a good relationship with that same parent as they get older instead of distancing themselves like a lot of people do from their parents and if you think about it as a parent that does not mean that you know everything you are only human when your first child comes you only know so little you adjust yourself to make them comfortable but you have to change yourself to be able to make them feel like you truly see them you have to adjust to their personality and who they grow into as a person you have to listen to their opinions and their ideas it's not just about feeding them or dressing them and helping them learn things like that but it's also about talking to them communicating with them showing them and giving them an example of a good and healthy relationship letting them know that they always have someone to talk to or someone who was willing to listen to them and even if you do have more than one child I feel a lot of parents they stay the same for their first child and they treat the rest that way just cuz it's always worked out but what's always been done doesn't mean that it's what's always right not to mention that each child will be different and will need you to adjust to them in different ways
Its sad because my parents were like this twords me when i was growing up when things got bad for me and i started to sh my whole family said i was just doing it for attention when i tried to end my subscription to life and failed they said if i really wanted to die i wouldn't have failed. They didn't even take me to the doctors to make sure id be alright. My heart goes out to anyone who's dealing or dealt with this type of stuff
NO. You’re not helping the situation!!! Information she shared in what she believed was a safe space, is now going to be turned against her? That not cool. Here’s my rant, y’all.
That’s still not okay, your daughter is obviously not feeling okay for some reason and it’s your job as a mother to make sure that she is happy and healthy through her 18 years of living with you.. I understand that you may be angry or displeased about her statement towards your parenting, but punishing her for feeling this way is the wrong way to go about it. instead you should try to talk to her, hear her out first then explain your thoughts calmly.. you need to insure that she feels safe while speaking to you with no fear. Maybe try discipline in a different way, such as simply taking away devices with no physical violence such as slapping hitting punching etc. she may give you attitude but you need to keep calm. This message is coming from an early teenager who suffers these problems, so I recommend at least considering my words. This may help you better understand your daughter. I’m not looking for problems, I just don’t want your daughter out herself in an early grave because she felt uncared for.. I understand the feeling and I just wish to help in this situation..
Can't say this didn't hit home, I'm just glad she's getting better since her bf moved in, she's actually being much more open about my interests(and problems), especially since me and her bf share so many interests like gaming, anime and robotics, i feel so bad for anyone who has to deal with a parent being like that, it honestly sucks so much but if you're someone going through this and reading this let me be your living proof that no matter what happens to your relationship with your parent(s) it'll get better some day, maybe not the relationship but the circumstances will, keep strong warriors because you are the strongest of all and you are destined to be an example of healing to the next person who needs to hear that it will get better, hold on to hope and stay strong!❤
Parents rush their kids in growing up. The whole world does. Thats why kids are overly stressed or conflicted not knowing if theyre really immature or not but kids are supposed to show immaturity
youre not alone. its horrible that you were grounded for being a victim and for looking for help. i hope youre in a better environment and if you arent, i hope you can get into a better environment as soon as possible. 💜
The only reason they grounded me is because I was talking bad about them, not even the fact that I was talking to someone online I can't currently get into a safe home, I'm thirteen :(
TW TW: cutting, depression, death I tried to tell my mom I was depressed when I was 14. She told me I'd had no reason to be depressed (it doesn't work that way) despite the fact that my dad had passed when I was 8 and some other complex familial situations. She then tried to isolate me from the only friends I'd had (I had just moved in with her & was navigating that) because she was convinced it was because of them. So she effectively tried to isolate me for telling her I was depressed. Then I started cutting. It got to a point where I wanted help so I reached out to her. She grabbed my wrist, said "those aren't real cuts. You wanna see real cuts? Cut deeper." It shocked me so bad that she would say something like that to me I did in fact stop cutting. She doesn't remember that happening, says I made it up. That's not something you could ever fathom hearing from someone you love. That's not something you would want as a core memory. But I remember it, her inflection and everything. We've had several moments like that, where I remember her doing something I couldn't fathom someone who loves me doing & she vehemently denies it. I'd think I was crazy if others hadn't corroborated that she does that for any situation where she wrongs someone. She actually most recently tried to gaslight me about her only interaction with my boyfriend. Joke's on her, I asked him open endedly "how do you remember that" and it was exactly the same as I remembered it plus a little extra that I wasn't even aware of. We stay no contact for a reason 💜
When, I go to the doctor’s they have me and my brother fill out a form on an iPad for anxiety and depression. I went the doctor’s today. My dad forces me and my brother to put “none” for all of the answers. Next year, I hope I can finally stand up to him and/or my mom
This is exactly what my mom would do. and also, storytime (sh and svic1de mentions warning) i sent a long text about what i was going through a while back to my friend who i trusted and she always made me feel better and i was struggling a lot at the time and her mom found out about it and told my mom about it and my mom GOT MAD AT ME instead of just helping me and I JUST CUT DEEPER AND DEEPER BECAUSE SHE DIDNT DO ANYTHING BUT MAKE ME FEEL WORSE. I’m very young btw, i’m not saying my age online, but this is not normal for my age.
Imagine if it was like: I was horrified when i recognized my daughter on the other end of the §ùïĉïðə hotline. She had died eight years ago, from §ùïĉïðə.
I remember once telling my mother that I had attempts and her response was "well do you maybe want to go drown now?!" And then started saying that I have everything i wanted and I should be grateful and that i shouldnt think like that bc I could have a pathological family.. Like miss EXCUSE ME??? You heard ur at the time 14 y.o daughter had attempted MULTIPLE TIMES and ur response is "yeah f¥ck you!" 😭😭😭
Tbh...my family didn't wanna believe their formerly cheerful child and grandchild had these problems, until i at one point almost did said thing mentioned here, and began c-tting, luckily things got better after they had that as a damn wake up call that their kid needed help and that they were shit in the way they raised me after i turned 10, i feel bad for those who are still stuck with parents or family who belittle or believe that their kid is fine or is just being dramatic when they have real problems and need real help to get through things, do hope them and anyone reaidng this thats currently through that gets passed that point in life and away from that one way or another...except the way to hell block off that road only the good roads may be used to run away😅
a couple of days ago I accidentally admitted to my mom that I almost killed my self and she laughed, told me I was being selfish and sinning and then punished me after bc of my tone. (I was bawling my eyes out)
This!! I never wanted to tell my parents or make them find out about my “self injured “ scars since they’re gonna go scold and rant on me about how I am a sinner and a demon for trying this at all, i am already suffering ,thinking I am not a clean and good person for god to accept me. That’s why I never ever would tell that I am feeling suicidal.
As soneone who has used these lines, I hate them. It's the same copy-paste shit each time. AND if they think they need to, they can call 911 without your knowledge or consent. It has never happened to me, but I'm so scared they will at some point.
I felt that so deeply. I tell my parents how i feel and i get punished for it. And its ironic because my mom has always tried to get me to come to her. Smh
When I was in a mental hospital I broke down and admitted to being suicidal and that I self harmed... she broke down and didn't want to believe. My dad had to leave the room because two of his daughters before me were murdered and he couldn't stand the thought of loosing another. Especially to suicide.
This reminds me of a quote I once saw from a comment “The tighter you hold the leash the faster the dog will run when you let go,” it kinda describes this because the parent seems strict and hurting her daughter making her daughter want to run away / k!ll herself
Im a coward, when I was 7 i threatened to stop existing with a pew pew to my school teachers bc of the abuse I endured in special education. My parents just sold their gun and bought a wii U, I never ever went to therapy but being su3i€i0al at that age and continuously being like that for the rest of my life because of my parents just sucks. Every time I asked for therapy it was always "my trauma is worse" or "well they are just gonna prescribe you with antidepressants again" (antidepressants do not work on me they make my depression so much worse I hav had to quit several medications bc they doubled as an antidepressant.) And shoutout to my mom for giving me two panick attacks by interrogating me and threatening to take my friends (my only fucking will to live) away, and for making the mistake of not cleaning a shared litter box and my cat peeing all over my important stuff!! (And shoutout to her for constantly guilt tripping and manipulating me for 17 years and still running!)
Reminds me of my mother, she yelled at me for “talking bad” about her verbally abusive partner (who murdered her in 2020) to my therapist when I was 12
This was one of the reasons i never called that hotline. My teacher worked that hotline at night after her job at school and i was always so afraid of anyone else knowing what was going on in that house. Parents and guardian always threatened us with cps taking us and splitting us siblings apart, and as the oldest, they told me it was my job to keep them together...
My parents would be terrified , I’m sorry for anyone’s parents who are like this x my heart goes out to u and remember u are an amazing beautiful outstanding person and u deserve to be here x
Lil story: I shaved one time (w out my mom knowing) she found out and when I told her why I didn’t tell her I said “because I feel like everyone I tell something to automatically is gonna tell someone else” and she said oh that’s such bull you know you can come to us about anything. Gurl that’s how I felt and she just dismissed it 😐
Part 1: after the daughter was done her mom came upstairs and started yelling at her and hit her repeatedly,after the mom was done she yelled “I don’t understand what I did to you” as the daughter cried. Later that night while the mom was sleep the daughter stayed in the corner of her room speechless trying to not off herself.the next day her mom ignored her the daughter went to school but after school she didn’t come home… Part 2:the mother was mad she wasn’t home yet she starts calling the daughter and until she finally answers “wear are you!! Imma beat your a** when you come home!” The sounds of traffic in the distance as the mother sounded a bit relived “if you got stuck in traffic you could’ve told me call me when you get home” the mom hangs up before she realizes “wait my daughter doesn’t have a car…* Like for part 3❤️
Guys I just told my mom, she’s gonna get me help and we are gonna talk about it when she get home from work 💗 # edit I’m in the ER about to go on a 72 hour watch 😾
people like this shouldn’t be working in this field of work. i know it’s a skit but there are definitely evil therapists and suicide hotline workers that don’t deserve their jobs.
I thought the ending was gonna be something like the mom yelled at her daughter to get off the phone but then when she came home, she found her daughter hanging from her ceiling fan
I told my mom I get depressed, and she said “because you do sneaky sh**” and I told her no and she then asked “what’s depression then?” And I told her, and she looked at Me and said “no depression is when people can’t do stuff” and I told her, the only reason I do “stuff” is because I would rather not get yelled at, and she went silent.
Explanation + personal story after Ex: mother works for the Suicide Hotline - her daughter called not knowing the mother was the operated and vented about abuse This made the mom angry because how dare her child speak this way about her and makes a mental note to punish the daughter for speaking up Its a narcissistic trait to ignore the things you do and see fit to "punish" those who "lie" about your behavior - they dont change because they cant - they convince themselves their victim is the problem If they do try to improve its entirely to make themselves seem better - they'll say "I worked on myself" while still doing the same things and refusing criticism because OBVIOUSLY their victim is the problem and doesn't want to see them improve Personal: My mother is a narcissist and so was an ex of mine My mom had 4 kids - 2 that are 30 and 28 And 2 that are 18 (me) and 17 My brother was the first kid and I was the 3rd - we talk about mom a lot - she convinces herself she's a good mom and says "everyone always blames me for stuff" when told otherwise She yelled at me for telling my brother I was pregnant - she wanted me to tell him but when he started yelling at HER calling her a bad mother over it she screamed down the stairs at me as if I told him to do it My brother yelled at me too - he was mad because I'm his baby sister and both mom AND my older sister ended up single parents He didn't want that for me and expected me to do better - he held me accountable and I appreciate that - but also held mom accountable for letting it happen Its not my moms fault I got pregnant But it IS her fault I didn't feel comfortable telling her until I was almost in the second trimester My brother supports me and understands - he's proud of me for having a plan of what to do and knows I'll be a loving mother unlike the one we had growing up In the car I was yelling at my mother after a WIC appointment - she had called me fat and shamed me for my eating while pregnant - I was going off in the car She said "do you talk to anyone else like you talk to me?" And I said no because no one else treats me like you do Then I said "only Callum" That was the name of my narc ex who had actually pushed me to my first suicide attempt She knows that name as someone I vehemently despise He was the only other person I HAD to speak to like that My mom was the type to take my phone and all methods of communication if I get mad at her - i was homeschooled so it was full isolation and I was forbidden from leaving the house Eventually I stopped caring Hitting me doesnt work - isolating me does work - nothing works - so she retreats to her room to hide My brother was 18 when he joined the military To this day he says no Sargent could break him because he was already broken he was untamed My brother is like a battle scarred Panther And im the lil black cat in a frog outfit with the zoomies that he calls his sister 💀 I show him ultrasounds - he called my baby a peanut with legs 😂 and the most recent set he said she's a lil coffee bean - I love my brother lol He may yell and curse and even say something hurtful occasionally but it all comes from a place of love and concern - he loves me dearly and I wish I could have had him around growing up
Honestly, if your kid is sobbing on another line about suicide problems and you still think you’re right and they’re wrong there is something wrong with you
That's a breach of confidentiality. It doesn't matter who called, the conversation shouldn't be discussed outside the call. The only exception is that they'll contract the authorities if they believe the caller will cause harm to others.
remembering the time i was on the text hotline venting abt my mom and she caught me on it at 3 am and took my phone away and read everything 😍😍(that’s night i was shaking so hard scared of the punishment that i got cold sweats and got a fever and had to stay home from school for a week)
I told my mom I couldn’t do some things properly because of my brain even though I try to and she just said try harder… i am very likely to have adhd but I can’t even go to find out because I’m to scared to talk to her about it she’s clueless also I’m suicidal… I’ve tried to kill myself 3 times now and I’ve only survived because people always end up walking in on me. Also my dad says I have ocd 😢
I told my mom that i had $uicidal thoughts and she basically called me weak. However when i told my dad he was actually more caring and loving towards me
if this happened between my mom.. i would want her to change and not punish me. i wish my mom would have learned from the things i said about her instead of punish me.
Sometimes parents dont want to believe that their children have these problems which puts these poor kiddos into even more despair..😢
Hello you found one of those children😁
I almost took my life went I was seven😁
@@Haileymay-qo7fzNot a flex kiddo get help
Im glad you’re still here❤️
Love your kids or they’ll find that love in someone else. My neighbor wasn’t the best to her kids by I adored them sometimes she’d just leave them home alone and I’d bring them food and let them come over to our house. One of her kids attempted and my dog found her. I was there when she woke up in the hospital and her mother immediately went into calling her an ungrateful brat and I lost it. I don’t think I’ve ever snapped at someone like that but I was furious. Ava’s story does not have a happy ending though she did succeed in her second attempt. Her mother became nicer to her kids it’s just sad Ava had to die to give her a reality check
Even after SHE DECIDED TO PUNISH HER AFTER SHE CALL THE SUICIDE HOTLINE.......
Ngl sound like something my mom would do-💀
@@MacNcheese52Fr so would mine
my mum did this after she found my self harm scars
@@rosestopanimaltestingdamn now I just feel sad
My mother did something quite similar.
The mom not concerned about her daughter's mental health after all that just punishing her speaks volumes why the daughter called the suicide hotline in the first place
Literally like she called them for a reasons
You know the acting is good when you actually feel hurt and betrayed from the skit.
real
can’t imagine venting in what you think is a safe space only to be betrayed
Happened to me once. I wrote down heavy things in my journal when I was younger and ripped it up, my mom found all the pieces, put them together, just to read what I was saying. LOL
Moms suck..
but she said the daughter was LYING about her parenting style
@@tapixca. lots of parents think their kids are over exaggerating what they do and say they’re dramatic and “lying”
@@Lace_lovezz ohh makes sense
This is... A lot more common of a situation than people realize. Trigger warning as I post my story.
Not this exactly, but when I was 9, I made an attempt to... Permanently sleep. My parents drove me to the hospital, completely and utterly ignoring me, my crying, my pain. If i got too loud, I was just told to shut up. As I was laying in the hospital bed, literally in the ER, the second the nurse closed the door, my parents immediately started berrating me. Screaming at me that I was so horrible to try and do such a thing, to be so stupid, to think so little of them. That I thought of them as circus monkeys, and how disgusted they were to have a child that would be so ignorant and selfish as to try to take their own life. Please, love your children. Be paitent. We hurt too.
wtf is wrong with people that is such a stupid way to react to that happening
@@arty_aiv2951 They're always nice when other people are there, but as soon as the door closes and the foot steps fade away, all hell breaks loose.
@@Aliho_111 i know :(
I dont know how they usually are to you, im not in your position, but theres a chance that they could've been just really scared after you tried and let out their emotions by being mean.
@@xxcatagentxx I know, I'm not saying they're bad parents. We all attended therapy together after a court order, and we're much better now. But my Nana/mom has multiple mental disorders, and we were all just stressed beyond our ability to handle.
“Hello? This is your mother. Are you there?” Fits so well
THE EYE ROLL💀
LMAOO I KNOW SHE WENT CROSS EYED😭😭
I WAS LAUGHING SO MUCH 😭😭
Looked like she got possessed or something 😭
@@Mels_TeddyBear-1 FORREALLLL
My mom would pull this stuff
I'm sorry 😢
Same thing here bud
Fr
As someone who has gone though suicidal ideation this is the worst thing to do as a parent especially when they obviously thought they had a safe space just to get in trouble for something you should have gotten them help for instead of tearing her down even if she said things that were not true instead of punishing her you should have had a conversation with her to make sure she was OK then talk about why she thinks that way and resolve the issue instead of being insensitive
Basically the daughter was being abused by her mother who is apparently narcissistic and she couldn’t take it no more and called the suicide hotline.
Or she was not and mother was abusive or narcisstic
@@user-tp4jv6tm4wi agree with what u said
No I think it was that the mom is abusive and thats why the daughter was talking to the suicide hotline lol
No, that is the exact opposite. The daughter is desperate enough to call the suicide hotline because of her mother not realizing her completely unsympathetic and selfish mother works there. Now she is going to be punished for looking for help.
No she wasn’t
My dad: *beats me up*
My dad 2 minutes later: "Me? Hiy someone? Are you crazy?"
Call the CPS. That is not okay. That is abuse. CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES. THE POLICE, ANYONE.
I hope your ok now
@@Bunni-z nah, just got hit again
@@03_xshit I hope your dad gets better and I hope you get better.u should call fucking 911
For more explanation :
The mother of the girl that call the suiside hotline work at the suiside hotline, so when the girl called, the mother recognize her voice. The girl was talking (surely) that she wanted to kill herself because her mother did horrible things and she tried to tell everything to someone on the suiside hotline. Her mother became angry that she tried to tell someone all the things she has done to her daughter so she's gonna punish her.
my dad would do this. im honestly shocked he hasnt hit me yet. he probably hears me ranting about him to my friends.
Dang, that’s just messed up.
I feel like many parents instantly try to defend themselves against whatever their child is trying to say about them instead of listening I feel if parents generally took their children seriously and set them down for a real conversation to talk about what they actually feel that they can do better in at parenting them( that isn't absurd like getting whatever they want or something) then the kid would probably have a good relationship with that same parent as they get older instead of distancing themselves like a lot of people do from their parents and if you think about it as a parent that does not mean that you know everything you are only human when your first child comes you only know so little you adjust yourself to make them comfortable but you have to change yourself to be able to make them feel like you truly see them you have to adjust to their personality and who they grow into as a person you have to listen to their opinions and their ideas it's not just about feeding them or dressing them and helping them learn things like that but it's also about talking to them communicating with them showing them and giving them an example of a good and healthy relationship letting them know that they always have someone to talk to or someone who was willing to listen to them and even if you do have more than one child I feel a lot of parents they stay the same for their first child and they treat the rest that way just cuz it's always worked out but what's always been done doesn't mean that it's what's always right not to mention that each child will be different and will need you to adjust to them in different ways
I told my mom i was depressed and that’s why I didn’t do a task and instead of taking notice she got angry at me for the task
dude if i was the parent i wouldve felt bad and tried to comfort her as much as i can bcz i can understand them
Its sad because my parents were like this twords me when i was growing up when things got bad for me and i started to sh my whole family said i was just doing it for attention when i tried to end my subscription to life and failed they said if i really wanted to die i wouldn't have failed. They didn't even take me to the doctors to make sure id be alright. My heart goes out to anyone who's dealing or dealt with this type of stuff
That shouldn't happen...
NO. You’re not helping the situation!!! Information she shared in what she believed was a safe space, is now going to be turned against her? That not cool. Here’s my rant, y’all.
That’s still not okay, your daughter is obviously not feeling okay for some reason and it’s your job as a mother to make sure that she is happy and healthy through her 18 years of living with you.. I understand that you may be angry or displeased about her statement towards your parenting, but punishing her for feeling this way is the wrong way to go about it. instead you should try to talk to her, hear her out first then explain your thoughts calmly.. you need to insure that she feels safe while speaking to you with no fear. Maybe try discipline in a different way, such as simply taking away devices with no physical violence such as slapping hitting punching etc. she may give you attitude but you need to keep calm. This message is coming from an early teenager who suffers these problems, so I recommend at least considering my words. This may help you better understand your daughter. I’m not looking for problems, I just don’t want your daughter out herself in an early grave because she felt uncared for.. I understand the feeling and I just wish to help in this situation..
It's sad how many parents don't accept what their children see in them.
My mom would absolutely do this.
She absolutely DOES this
Can't say this didn't hit home, I'm just glad she's getting better since her bf moved in, she's actually being much more open about my interests(and problems), especially since me and her bf share so many interests like gaming, anime and robotics, i feel so bad for anyone who has to deal with a parent being like that, it honestly sucks so much but if you're someone going through this and reading this let me be your living proof that no matter what happens to your relationship with your parent(s) it'll get better some day, maybe not the relationship but the circumstances will, keep strong warriors because you are the strongest of all and you are destined to be an example of healing to the next person who needs to hear that it will get better, hold on to hope and stay strong!❤
Parents rush their kids in growing up. The whole world does. Thats why kids are overly stressed or conflicted not knowing if theyre really immature or not but kids are supposed to show immaturity
Entitled people confuse and annoy you until they’re the person you’re suppose to trust, for people in this situation, it’s truly horror
As someone who goes through family abuse this one made my skin crawl
Random Bible Verse :)
sharing the gospel around
This kinda happened, i was grounded for calling the suicide hotline
I was also grounded for being g groomed so :/
youre not alone. its horrible that you were grounded for being a victim and for looking for help. i hope youre in a better environment and if you arent, i hope you can get into a better environment as soon as possible. 💜
The only reason they grounded me is because I was talking bad about them, not even the fact that I was talking to someone online
I can't currently get into a safe home, I'm thirteen :(
They did the same thing to me too..
Went through this. Yesterday, actually. 😅
I hope you’re ok :( ❤️
Tf is wrong with that person like your daughter is calling suicide hotline and your gonna punish her???
REAL (i love ur pfp)
@@scxnekiid aww thx :)
TW
TW: cutting, depression, death
I tried to tell my mom I was depressed when I was 14. She told me I'd had no reason to be depressed (it doesn't work that way) despite the fact that my dad had passed when I was 8 and some other complex familial situations. She then tried to isolate me from the only friends I'd had (I had just moved in with her & was navigating that) because she was convinced it was because of them. So she effectively tried to isolate me for telling her I was depressed. Then I started cutting. It got to a point where I wanted help so I reached out to her. She grabbed my wrist, said "those aren't real cuts. You wanna see real cuts? Cut deeper." It shocked me so bad that she would say something like that to me I did in fact stop cutting. She doesn't remember that happening, says I made it up. That's not something you could ever fathom hearing from someone you love. That's not something you would want as a core memory. But I remember it, her inflection and everything. We've had several moments like that, where I remember her doing something I couldn't fathom someone who loves me doing & she vehemently denies it. I'd think I was crazy if others hadn't corroborated that she does that for any situation where she wrongs someone. She actually most recently tried to gaslight me about her only interaction with my boyfriend. Joke's on her, I asked him open endedly "how do you remember that" and it was exactly the same as I remembered it plus a little extra that I wasn't even aware of. We stay no contact for a reason 💜
All kids deserve parents not all parents deserve kid. Once I wise man said
When, I go to the doctor’s they have me and my brother fill out a form on an iPad for anxiety and depression. I went the doctor’s today. My dad forces me and my brother to put “none” for all of the answers. Next year, I hope I can finally stand up to him and/or my mom
the way this would be my mom if she worked there 😭
This is exactly what my mom would do.
and also, storytime (sh and svic1de mentions warning)
i sent a long text about what i was going through a while back to my friend who i trusted and she always made me feel better and i was struggling a lot at the time and her mom found out about it and told my mom about it and my mom GOT MAD AT ME instead of just helping me and I JUST CUT DEEPER AND DEEPER BECAUSE SHE DIDNT DO ANYTHING BUT MAKE ME FEEL WORSE. I’m very young btw, i’m not saying my age online, but this is not normal for my age.
Oh my god, i feel so disgusted this has been replaying in my head for so long, im so sorry for anyone who has experienced similar...
I have a journal that I write almost everything in. If my mother finds it and goes through it I might just lock myself in my room.
Imagine if it was like:
I was horrified when i recognized my daughter on the other end of the §ùïĉïðə hotline.
She had died eight years ago, from §ùïĉïðə.
I feel so bad 😭
I remember once telling my mother that I had attempts and her response was "well do you maybe want to go drown now?!" And then started saying that I have everything i wanted and I should be grateful and that i shouldnt think like that bc I could have a pathological family..
Like miss EXCUSE ME??? You heard ur at the time 14 y.o daughter had attempted MULTIPLE TIMES and ur response is "yeah f¥ck you!" 😭😭😭
She never got to punish her bc when she got home it was too late iykyk😔
Tbh...my family didn't wanna believe their formerly cheerful child and grandchild had these problems, until i at one point almost did said thing mentioned here, and began c-tting, luckily things got better after they had that as a damn wake up call that their kid needed help and that they were shit in the way they raised me after i turned 10, i feel bad for those who are still stuck with parents or family who belittle or believe that their kid is fine or is just being dramatic when they have real problems and need real help to get through things, do hope them and anyone reaidng this thats currently through that gets passed that point in life and away from that one way or another...except the way to hell block off that road only the good roads may be used to run away😅
If I ever did this and my mom felt this way she would NEVER punish me when I got home
This sounds like something someone I know would do... Thats really concerning...
a couple of days ago I accidentally admitted to my mom that I almost killed my self and she laughed, told me I was being selfish and sinning and then punished me after bc of my tone. (I was bawling my eyes out)
This!! I never wanted to tell my parents or make them find out about my “self injured “ scars since they’re gonna go scold and rant on me about how I am a sinner and a demon for trying this at all, i am already suffering ,thinking I am not a clean and good person for god to accept me. That’s why I never ever would tell that I am feeling suicidal.
I wouldve been way too scared to call the place that i knew one of my parents worked at tbh
I was looking for this comment… like ???
Real.
One more short-
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As soneone who has used these lines, I hate them. It's the same copy-paste shit each time. AND if they think they need to, they can call 911 without your knowledge or consent. It has never happened to me, but I'm so scared they will at some point.
I felt that so deeply. I tell my parents how i feel and i get punished for it. And its ironic because my mom has always tried to get me to come to her. Smh
When I was in a mental hospital I broke down and admitted to being suicidal and that I self harmed... she broke down and didn't want to believe. My dad had to leave the room because two of his daughters before me were murdered and he couldn't stand the thought of loosing another. Especially to suicide.
Relatable 💀
My parents would do the same tbh lmao, they don't care they just say they do to get into your life and find more reasons to punish you for existing :/
This reminds me of a quote I once saw from a comment “The tighter you hold the leash the faster the dog will run when you let go,” it kinda describes this because the parent seems strict and hurting her daughter making her daughter want to run away / k!ll herself
The relatable fear I felt in this is astonishing.
My parents type shi😭
Im a coward, when I was 7 i threatened to stop existing with a pew pew to my school teachers bc of the abuse I endured in special education. My parents just sold their gun and bought a wii U, I never ever went to therapy but being su3i€i0al at that age and continuously being like that for the rest of my life because of my parents just sucks. Every time I asked for therapy it was always "my trauma is worse" or "well they are just gonna prescribe you with antidepressants again" (antidepressants do not work on me they make my depression so much worse I hav had to quit several medications bc they doubled as an antidepressant.) And shoutout to my mom for giving me two panick attacks by interrogating me and threatening to take my friends (my only fucking will to live) away, and for making the mistake of not cleaning a shared litter box and my cat peeing all over my important stuff!! (And shoutout to her for constantly guilt tripping and manipulating me for 17 years and still running!)
Comes home to a note on the daughter's door saying "bye"
The mom - "OMG SHE LEFT FOR A PARTY AND CALLED THE SUICIDE HOTLINE OMFG" 💀
Reminds me of my mother, she yelled at me for “talking bad” about her verbally abusive partner (who murdered her in 2020) to my therapist when I was 12
This was one of the reasons i never called that hotline. My teacher worked that hotline at night after her job at school and i was always so afraid of anyone else knowing what was going on in that house. Parents and guardian always threatened us with cps taking us and splitting us siblings apart, and as the oldest, they told me it was my job to keep them together...
I had a parent like this….I choose to stay away from them as much as possible though.
Every kid deserves a parent but nit every parent deserves a kid
It's not lies about you because you aren't the child, if you ignore thier feedback you don't know how good you are
My parents would be terrified , I’m sorry for anyone’s parents who are like this x my heart goes out to u and remember u are an amazing beautiful outstanding person and u deserve to be here x
Lil story: I shaved one time (w out my mom knowing) she found out and when I told her why I didn’t tell her I said “because I feel like everyone I tell something to automatically is gonna tell someone else” and she said oh that’s such bull you know you can come to us about anything. Gurl that’s how I felt and she just dismissed it 😐
I though the plot twist would’ve been that her daughter died/disappeared like a few weeks earlier 😓😓
Part 1: after the daughter was done her mom came upstairs and started yelling at her and hit her repeatedly,after the mom was done she yelled “I don’t understand what I did to you” as the daughter cried. Later that night while the mom was sleep the daughter stayed in the corner of her room speechless trying to not off herself.the next day her mom ignored her the daughter went to school but after school she didn’t come home…
Part 2:the mother was mad she wasn’t home yet she starts calling the daughter and until she finally answers “wear are you!! Imma beat your a** when you come home!” The sounds of traffic in the distance as the mother sounded a bit relived “if you got stuck in traffic you could’ve told me call me when you get home” the mom hangs up before she realizes “wait my daughter doesn’t have a car…*
Like for part 3❤️
This is so my mom coded 😍🫶
Exactly wut my mummy woild do fier
The sound in the background makes it better
Yall why is this low-key relatable…. Am I cooked chat😔🙏🏽
this isn’t even horror, this is just fucking sad
my parents would so pull this shit😭
Guys I just told my mom, she’s gonna get me help and we are gonna talk about it when she get home from work 💗
# edit I’m in the ER about to go on a 72 hour watch 😾
people like this shouldn’t be working in this field of work. i know it’s a skit but there are definitely evil therapists and suicide hotline workers that don’t deserve their jobs.
Some parents don’t understand how their living style for their kids could affect them mentally or physically
I thought the ending was gonna be something like the mom yelled at her daughter to get off the phone but then when she came home, she found her daughter hanging from her ceiling fan
oh this one is TERRIFYING
I told my mom I get depressed, and she said “because you do sneaky sh**” and I told her no and she then asked “what’s depression then?” And I told her, and she looked at
Me and said “no depression is when people can’t do stuff” and I told her, the only reason I do “stuff” is because I would rather not get yelled at, and she went silent.
Explanation + personal story after
Ex: mother works for the Suicide Hotline - her daughter called not knowing the mother was the operated and vented about abuse
This made the mom angry because how dare her child speak this way about her and makes a mental note to punish the daughter for speaking up
Its a narcissistic trait to ignore the things you do and see fit to "punish" those who "lie" about your behavior - they dont change because they cant - they convince themselves their victim is the problem
If they do try to improve its entirely to make themselves seem better - they'll say "I worked on myself" while still doing the same things and refusing criticism because OBVIOUSLY their victim is the problem and doesn't want to see them improve
Personal:
My mother is a narcissist and so was an ex of mine
My mom had 4 kids - 2 that are 30 and 28
And 2 that are 18 (me) and 17
My brother was the first kid and I was the 3rd - we talk about mom a lot - she convinces herself she's a good mom and says "everyone always blames me for stuff" when told otherwise
She yelled at me for telling my brother I was pregnant - she wanted me to tell him but when he started yelling at HER calling her a bad mother over it she screamed down the stairs at me as if I told him to do it
My brother yelled at me too - he was mad because I'm his baby sister and both mom AND my older sister ended up single parents
He didn't want that for me and expected me to do better - he held me accountable and I appreciate that - but also held mom accountable for letting it happen
Its not my moms fault I got pregnant
But it IS her fault I didn't feel comfortable telling her until I was almost in the second trimester
My brother supports me and understands - he's proud of me for having a plan of what to do and knows I'll be a loving mother unlike the one we had growing up
In the car I was yelling at my mother after a WIC appointment - she had called me fat and shamed me for my eating while pregnant - I was going off in the car
She said "do you talk to anyone else like you talk to me?" And I said no because no one else treats me like you do
Then I said "only Callum"
That was the name of my narc ex who had actually pushed me to my first suicide attempt
She knows that name as someone I vehemently despise
He was the only other person I HAD to speak to like that
My mom was the type to take my phone and all methods of communication if I get mad at her - i was homeschooled so it was full isolation and I was forbidden from leaving the house
Eventually I stopped caring
Hitting me doesnt work - isolating me does work - nothing works - so she retreats to her room to hide
My brother was 18 when he joined the military
To this day he says no Sargent could break him because he was already broken he was untamed
My brother is like a battle scarred Panther
And im the lil black cat in a frog outfit with the zoomies that he calls his sister 💀
I show him ultrasounds - he called my baby a peanut with legs 😂 and the most recent set he said she's a lil coffee bean - I love my brother lol
He may yell and curse and even say something hurtful occasionally but it all comes from a place of love and concern - he loves me dearly and I wish I could have had him around growing up
I actually felt so “Wtf” after watching this
My mom would do this lmao
No cuz this is my biggest fear ever. I can’t call the line because my mother is literally an operator 😭
Honestly, if your kid is sobbing on another line about suicide problems and you still think you’re right and they’re wrong there is something wrong with you
I hope she’s okay..
My parents act like this....:(
The fact that she’s still going to get punished is pretty bad. She may go ahead and commit after that, mother should really think about this.
That's a breach of confidentiality. It doesn't matter who called, the conversation shouldn't be discussed outside the call. The only exception is that they'll contract the authorities if they believe the caller will cause harm to others.
remembering the time i was on the text hotline venting abt my mom and she caught me on it at 3 am and took my phone away and read everything 😍😍(that’s night i was shaking so hard scared of the punishment that i got cold sweats and got a fever and had to stay home from school for a week)
stop this is genuinely what my mom would do.☠️
Oh wow there's layers of horror with this one
A horror story isn't always horror became its scary
This mother in the video is horrible
Hopefully this is not a real story
Horror cab be horror by being unexpected and unacceptable
Although knoing this world, I doughty this is fake
This feels so real even though its never happened to me
Nah if my mother did that I would have just ended it ngl😭
"Then don't blame anyone if she suicides."
A lot of Parents are delusional and never admit wtf they do wrong
I told my mom I couldn’t do some things properly because of my brain even though I try to and she just said try harder… i am very likely to have adhd but I can’t even go to find out because I’m to scared to talk to her about it she’s clueless also I’m suicidal… I’ve tried to kill myself 3 times now and I’ve only survived because people always end up walking in on me. Also my dad says I have ocd 😢
My mom still denies hitting my sister with a chain, a bat, and a cane
I told my mom that i had $uicidal thoughts and she basically called me weak.
However when i told my dad he was actually more caring and loving towards me
my mom core
if this happened between my mom.. i would want her to change and not punish me. i wish my mom would have learned from the things i said about her instead of punish me.