Inside Kris Jenner and Caitlyn Jenner Feud: Who Betrayed Whom?

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    Caitlyn Jenner and Kris Jenner have a history that spans decades. The exes starred on the hit reality show, Keeping Up With Kardashians, which documented their blended family. After 23 years together, they spilt. In the midst of going through a very public divorce, Caityn Jenner was also going through a very public transition. Upon coming out as a trans woman, Caitlyn wrote a book that detailed her relationship with ex, Kris Jenner. In that book, she made claims that would set Kris and the Kardashian clan off. In this video we will take a deep look into the fallout between Caitlyn and Kris Jenner and see "who betrayed who"?
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  • @betheecommentator
    @betheecommentator  Год назад +397

    It's important to note that Caitlyn Jenner's Transgender Guidelines may differ from others. Although she is comfortable referring to herself as Bruce when discussing her life pre-transition, that does not mean that others in the trans community are comfortable with that. Here on my channel, I try to convey the message and sentiments of the person/people we are discussing and let them speak for themselves. With that being said, please consider the fact that others in the trans community may not agree with Caitlyn's perspective and opinion.
    Questions to consider for this episode:
    In your opinion, what is the best course of action when dealing with gender issues in an intimate relationship?
    In your opinion, who do you think is telling the truth here? Kris or Caitlyn?
    In your opinion, if Kris did know, why do you think she is saying that she "had no clue"?
    I hope you find this episode informative and insightful. Thanks for your support. Have a great week!
    BE

    • @thinkmirror8507
      @thinkmirror8507 Год назад +12

      Good point

    • @BiologicalClock
      @BiologicalClock Год назад +48

      I love how consistent you are with respecting people's individual wishes with how they are to be referred to pre and post transition. You do such a great job of showing care and consideration toward the people in your videos, even when they aren't necessarily the best people. I think that shows a lot of integrity on your part.

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +17

      @@BiologicalClock I really appreciate it so much!! ❤️

    • @sarajane8987
      @sarajane8987 Год назад +9

      Just discovered your channel and wow. I’m loving jt. Thank you! You are so talented

    • @nancybeingnancy3081
      @nancybeingnancy3081 Год назад +5

      I’m curious about the breasts.
      When you stop taking hormones, do you’re breasts just go flat?

  • @mandaleemilly6367
    @mandaleemilly6367 Год назад +1423

    It seems really unfair that he kept marrying these women and having babies with them just to blind side them later.

    • @merricat3025
      @merricat3025 Год назад

      And blame others for why he doesn't see them (he was Bruce at time) Disgusting human being, male or female

    • @ThePastryNinja
      @ThePastryNinja Год назад

      Look up trans widows. I know a couple. Their former husbands were absolutely self absorbed assholes, and both chose late pregnancy as the time to pop the secret on their wives.

    • @SassySolo
      @SassySolo Год назад +52

      How else was he meant to have children and be a dad? Like any other man, find a woman, get married and have children... sadly not all marriages work out. 40% end up in divorce. Bruce was wrong for not telling Chrystie and Linda, but he learned from his mistakes and told Kris.

    • @loxsannbraham8281
      @loxsannbraham8281 Год назад +71

      Even if .. she , Cathlyn , said she stopped her transition in part to spare her children… yet goes on to have 2 more?
      Also she said she didn’t tell Her everything. It’s a lot of “in my mind”. Was it ever clearly stated?

    • @maraphernalia
      @maraphernalia Год назад

      just what the world needs, more uneducated cis opinions.

  • @Nae00
    @Nae00 Год назад +877

    One thing I will always stand by is that Kris has 0% responsibility for the estrangement between Cait and her children. Kris could have flat out told her “you’re not allowed to see your kids” and it wouldn’t have mattered because any parent who cared about their children would have said “they are my kids and no one is keeping them way from me and if you don’t like it you can leave”
    The fact that even today only about 3 out of her 10 bio and stepkids willingly talk to her says A LOT.

    • @tamcar04
      @tamcar04 Год назад +93

      ABSOLUTELY! That's 100 percent on Caitlyn!!!

    • @lorimiller4301
      @lorimiller4301 Год назад +25

      🎯

    • @susiesantino5625
      @susiesantino5625 Год назад +45

      I agree about the estrangement from the first four kids. My own Dad had another child after me (by a different woman) and I never met her til I was 19 years old and she turned 16 years old the first visit; because he said his Ex-Wife (my other 3 sibs Egg Donor) told him that he couldn't stay in contact with my sister because of her sketchy family... I told him we'll that was wrong of him to go along with that because she was his child and that's more than any wife or husband

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 Год назад +32

      Yep Caitlyn only has herself to blame

    • @canadianizmeindian1254
      @canadianizmeindian1254 Год назад +53

      Exactly! What an excuse! Even if Kris never invited his family he could invite his family or shut the whole thing down saying unless my family is invited then I don’t want a party for me! Who on earth goes without seeing their own kids and blames it on someone else??? So what Kris didn’t like it..,….he has free will and could contact them. These are all the excuses he made in his own head to ignore his own kids.

  • @LyricAiLove
    @LyricAiLove Год назад +667

    Kris saying she had no idea, seems far fetched to me. If Caitlyn's children noticed the changes, how could Kris say she had no idea?

    • @shamaal123
      @shamaal123 Год назад

      Kris viewed and critiqued her daughter's p o r n tapes to figure out which one would sell the best. She has zero credibility and I'm inclined to believe she knew and is playing d u m b. Everyone isn't lying on her.

    • @patrizziad3446
      @patrizziad3446 Год назад

      Because Kris Jenner is a liar.

    • @lorimiller4301
      @lorimiller4301 Год назад

      I think she's lying. There were rumours when some reporter got a hold of one of Bruces' suitcases. It was full of women's belongs.
      If I knew about it, other people certainly did and Eben if Kris was in denial, the evidence was there.

    • @hudanassiri
      @hudanassiri Год назад +95

      Denial

    • @AnnaLee-ne2lw
      @AnnaLee-ne2lw Год назад +62

      I had heard that Kris used to let Bruce wear her clothes.

  • @kathaRoo
    @kathaRoo Год назад +167

    If Bruce started to transition into Caitlyn by hair removal treatment, female facial surgery and started to develop breasts how could Kris Jenner deny she knew anything of it?

    • @MimiRAM0NE
      @MimiRAM0NE Год назад +7

      Caitlyn comes out and says she "downplayed" what all that meant.

    • @jenniferbond7073
      @jenniferbond7073 6 месяцев назад +9

      Even on the later seasons Bruce was on the reality show, I noticed he was starting to look odd. I noticed this and wondered after just seeing him in a couple scenes on that show. A wife that is sleeping with her husband, lives every day with her husband doesn’t notice and ask about what’s going on. Not buying it!

    • @hilarycabot8734
      @hilarycabot8734 4 месяца назад

      Of course she saw that, we all did! By then, the whole family knew something. But do you think she could see the scope of insanity that would follow? How far he would take it? Can you imagine the difficult divorce. Also, he was speaking ill of Chris in public behind her back and even seemingly blaming Chris for their marriages' demise. Seeking sympathy. The marriage was doomed from the start. A marriage that is unholy will not survive. Period. He whined that Chris was so controlling. Let me tell you that if my man came up and said he wanted to wear my clothes and get boobs, I would be controlling too! Controlling and probably bidding farewell! Chris is not the villain she is a victim in my view. @@jenniferbond7073

    • @helenestiernstrand6575
      @helenestiernstrand6575 2 месяца назад +1

      Many people struggle w mental health issues - probably she thought he would get better.

    • @theeverydaybombshell
      @theeverydaybombshell Месяц назад

      Exactly. Foolishness. The average bra size most often purchased in the US is a 36B. You can't downplay this. Kris didn't care, because Kris planned on creating an empire and Bruce was going to play a part in that... And this secret actually gave her control.

  • @oswa2702
    @oswa2702 Год назад +36

    Kuddos to the ex wives for never talking about this to the public

  • @brendamoon2660
    @brendamoon2660 Год назад +105

    Bruce left two families before meeting Kris

  • @Truthseeker-kc8rd
    @Truthseeker-kc8rd 8 месяцев назад +139

    He sounds like my Ex. My ex has no gender issues but the lack of accountabiliy, disregard to other's emotions and flaking out from situations and jumping from one thing to other , the spineless decision making.. just classic narcissism.

    • @jessicacruz1977
      @jessicacruz1977 5 месяцев назад +5

      Thank you I feel the same. He only worries about himself

    • @HarmonyWallender
      @HarmonyWallender 4 месяца назад

      Agreed- being trans shouldn’t be an excuse to be a jerk

    • @clovrmay3104
      @clovrmay3104 2 месяца назад

      Yep my ex cross dresser ex was a selfish psycho

  • @patsysadowski1546
    @patsysadowski1546 Год назад +305

    I think Caitlin throws a lot of blame around and sounds like a perpetual victim.

  • @BandlerChing
    @BandlerChing Год назад +343

    100% I think Kris knew. She didn’t care. She needed a famous man to latch on to. She saw her opportunity and she took it.

    • @patrizziad3446
      @patrizziad3446 Год назад +21

      Absolutely

    • @connienguyen3159
      @connienguyen3159 Год назад +11

      Absolutely Bruce was an opportunist to the Kardashian family

    • @grammylisa1
      @grammylisa1 Год назад +7

      100 percent!!!

    • @np8796
      @np8796 Год назад +1

      Kris is tied w Anna Nicole for biggest Golddigger.... Kim's sex tape

    • @wlhansen2068
      @wlhansen2068 Год назад +6

      Exactly 💯

  • @non-ya228
    @non-ya228 Год назад +314

    As a straight woman, like Linda, I would be pissed if the man I planned to spend my life with and have children with never mentioned his gender identity until after we had kids. It's like, why did you waste my time and energy just to fit into society, not caring that he wasted the time she invested in him, only to learn she is his so- called beard. Also 100% agree that if I marry a man, there is a physical component to that, so just because he transitioned to be a woman, doesn't stop her wanting a man with the equipment he was born with.

    • @marniekilbourne608
      @marniekilbourne608 Год назад +22

      Exactly. I think the only way I could stay was if we were elderly and sex was no longer an issue just companionship and friendship and parents. You can love the person but you can't be expected to change your sexuality just because your spouse changes gender. I would be pissed also. It wasn't fair for him to marry and have children with women without telling them his sexuality. That will certainly affect the relationship!

    • @beckymcdonald9529
      @beckymcdonald9529 Год назад +7

      I entirely disagree. If my child's other parent was someone I'd been married to for decades, first of all, they wouldn't have had to hide anything from me, but if by some chance they had, I love a person for character, not gender.
      This is just my personal opinion on the subject though. I see why others feel differently.

    • @non-ya228
      @non-ya228 Год назад +8

      @Becky McDonald at that point, then there is no sexual component unless you are ok with being with someone who you feel no sexual attraction for anymore. If two heterosexuals can get over 1, not telling the truth about their true sexual identity, at that point, you are wasting the other's time unless you are clear up front

    • @Woodman-Spare-that-tree
      @Woodman-Spare-that-tree 11 месяцев назад +3

      How could you not tell? 😂

    • @Nspyrd
      @Nspyrd 11 месяцев назад +5

      I, too, am a straight woman, but I would think that it took "him" some time to accept himself and that these proclivities spoke to a larger issue that back then couldn't be surgically "corrected". If that happened to me as his wife, I would just be surprised that I didn't pick up on it sooner or realize the seriousness of the situation

  • @susannakailing1713
    @susannakailing1713 Год назад +363

    I think Kris knew the whole time, but she saw Bruce as a potential gravy train and thought she could control him. She got a lot of money and clout out of that relationship in the early years. Then when Caitlyn came out, of course she had to claim ignorance to save face.

    • @TheJulithegreat
      @TheJulithegreat Год назад +34

      Nailed it!

    • @chineadoconnor1199
      @chineadoconnor1199 Год назад +22

      Truth is blunt!

    • @mrslindsay
      @mrslindsay Год назад +36

      💯 they used each other and yes she knew. But Kris loved spending those checks while Bruce was happy to let her take care of everything at home

    • @grammylisa1
      @grammylisa1 Год назад +27

      She is an opportunist for sure!!!

    • @lucyfruge
      @lucyfruge Год назад +25

      @@mrslindsay I agree, they both used each other. They both got what they wanted from the relationship. I think they’re now trying to blame each other like the entire world cares or wants to know all this mess. It’s no wonder they’re both so narcissistic, and behave like emotionally immature pre teens.

  • @angelaholmes8888
    @angelaholmes8888 Год назад +320

    I lost any once of respect for Caitlyn a long time ago because of the way she treated her children especially brody' not going to your own child's wedding is just so cruel I really feel bad for her older children

    • @carabiner7999
      @carabiner7999 Год назад +15

      She also has a very powerful platform as a monied Republican and has had a lot of support in her transition, and yet I have not heard one peep from her in re support of the LGBQT+ communities. Maybe I'm missing it, though, as I'm a het, cisgender female who doesn't follow stars?!

    • @tifani1345
      @tifani1345 Год назад +20

      @@carabiner7999 Caitlyn has been open about not supporting the LGBTQ community and has spoken out about the community, forcing their ideologies on others. Caitlyn is a Republican who openly supports Trump, although she has transitioned. Caitlyn does not care about the LGBTQ, most people in the community. Supported her because Caitlyn transitioned not realizing Caitlyn had different opinions than what they thought, that’s why you haven’t heard of any support to the LGBTQ community.

    • @carabiner7999
      @carabiner7999 Год назад +7

      @@tifani1345 I'm not sure what ideology is being forced? Equal rights and respect? To not be considered a child groomer? I have never deadnamed her and I know that she's had an incredibly hard journey, but hers was a walk in the park compared to many. Oh well, I just hold people to high standards, which is silly, at my age. I should know better by now. Cheers.

    • @tifani1345
      @tifani1345 Год назад +6

      @@carabiner7999 These are Caitlyn words not mine, I should have placed quotations. I’m not sure if it’s equal rights or respect but she has spoken out against the community. I was just trying to let you know since, you were saying you haven’t heard of her support. Just RUclips it and you’ll see because I don’t want to make direct quotes that aren’t exact.

    • @carabiner7999
      @carabiner7999 Год назад +4

      @@tifani1345 Thanks, and I appreciate your time and help! I was just pointing out why I dislike her, but I suppose I should find out her reasoning behind her turning her back on her community, who are being legislated out of existence by her own party....I'll have to do it when I'm feeling strong and maybe with a lovely adult bevvy! Cheers.

  • @ElenaRose725
    @ElenaRose725 Год назад +249

    Who is telling the truth? It's difficult to say since Caitlyn and Kris are equally dishonest, controlling, narcissistic, selfish, and unlikable each in their own way! I believe when Caitlyn was Bruce, he lacked the confidence to be assertive (other than in sports) and that's why he was attracted to and relied upon strong wives (Chrystie, Linda and Kris). I never even watched their reality show yet heard plenty about how controlling Kris was. It may have been her idea to have Bruce focus solely on their family (and that would NOT surprise me at all), however, Bruce had a voice and four other children. At the end of the day, his choices were his alone and I guarantee you if any of the first four have issues about his lack of parenting, they blame him, not Kris. So as to the question of who is lying about Bruce's transition, I'd have to say Kris is more likely to do so to save face.
    Overall, I feel the real MVP was Chrystie! Without her love, emotional and financial support, Bruce wouldn't have made it to the Olympics. Half that medal is hers, imo She's the true unsung hero along with her kids who seemed to have been a bit more pushed out of the way than even Linda's children.

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +17

      Thank you for watching and sharing your take on this story. You made some great, thought provoking points!! Very interesting!

    • @TheJulithegreat
      @TheJulithegreat Год назад +15

      Best comment here! You nailed it!

    • @robynrae6974
      @robynrae6974 Год назад +9

      @@TheJulithegreat I also agree very much so! 🥇 ❤

    • @nomanejane5766
      @nomanejane5766 Год назад

      I think Kris might have known abt the cross dressing, cuz Bruce sold it to her as that, cuz back In the 90s no one really knew what trans was! Irregardless if u get in a relationship as a trans person and u lead ur heterosexual partner to believe that u don't want to transition, don't be surprised that u get served with divorce papers when u start transitioning

    • @8akitkat8
      @8akitkat8 Год назад +17

      They both are fabricating their own “truth” in this situation, there’s so much he said she said that it’s hard to even comprehend the truth because it goes back and forth.

  • @imjustanasshlesometimes3488
    @imjustanasshlesometimes3488 Год назад +92

    I read Linda Thompson's book (Caitlyn's 2nd wife). She pretty much abandoned her children before the Kardashians. And it wasn't because of her ex wives that she didn't have a relationship with her first 4 children. And she lived a few miles away. She treated the Kardashian kids wayyyy better than her own. It's really messed up. I personally can't stand her. Kris is more tolerable of the two though... lol

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +14

      Thank you for commenting and sharing. I read Linda’s book as well and was shocked that Caitlyn claimed Kris kept her away from the 4 older Jenner children. She (Caitlyn) clearly stated in her own book that she wasn’t there for them prior to even meeting Kris.
      I agree, she treated the Kardashian kids as well as Kendall and Kylie way better. She was definitely a more involved father with them. She even admitted that. They all did.
      The Jenner children have recently stated that they are close to Caitlyn now and feel that she is a much better parent to them since she’s transitioned. I don’t know if they all say that but Brandon has publicly expressed this.

    • @imjustanasshlesometimes3488
      @imjustanasshlesometimes3488 Год назад +11

      ​​@@betheecommentator I was shocked how accommodating Linda was to Caitlyn.... to the point where it was negatively affecting her relationship. Then the fact that Linda and Christie would get together for the holidays for the.kids' sake... I give them a lot of credit. And Caitlyn couldn't bother to call or visit. It's just gross.
      Breaks my heart seeing all the clips of Brody being shot down by Caitlyn. She can't even fully own up to the fact that she was a shitty dad to her first 4 children. I think Brody has severe daddy issues thanks to her.
      BTW, love your videos. Thanks for replying 💗
      -Klarissa
      Edit-- I meant it wasn't because of her ex wives in the first post. Auto correct changed it on me lol.

    • @MeeplandHeights
      @MeeplandHeights 8 месяцев назад +1

      cait saw the cash cow from the show imo. they went after linda cause she was elvis's ex, cait is all about the fame and staying famous ever since they won gold

    • @apriljefferson43
      @apriljefferson43 6 месяцев назад +2

      I remember watching something where Brody talked about how horrible Kris was to him and the other Jenner kids. I’m not excusing his behavior, but I fully believe Kris made it difficult for him to spend time with his children.

    • @jennybrandt5188
      @jennybrandt5188 5 месяцев назад

      Bruce was a terrible dad before he met Kris. He didn't want to support his daughter at all (wasn't present at her birth). I wonder if he did financially support his kids since we know he wasn't physically there for them. @@apriljefferson43

  • @moustik31
    @moustik31 Год назад +87

    Why does Bruce keep being "surprised" by his partners' pregnancies? I wonder what really went through Kris' head, what she envisioned their marriage would be and what was in it for her?
    Edit: it does look, like Bruce was in an abusive relationship. Being forced to cut contact with family members and having no control on financial matters are classic signs of coercive control.

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +22

      I wondered the same thing!…
      Edit to add: that I watched an interview with Caitlyn’s Mom Esther. Kris was also interviewed. They were interviewed separately but in the documentary.
      In that interview Esther said “we’re so proud of Bruce. It would be nice if he could spend more time with the family. It would be nice if he could spend more time with us, and this side of the family”
      Right after, Kris in her interview said “Bruce doesn’t go back. He’s not the type of person to look back”. I was shook!
      It was very sad and interesting to see/hear his mother pleading to have a relationship with her child and then cut to Kris saying “he doesn’t go back”. Wow
      So you definitely have a point regarding the nature of their relationship.

    • @robynrae6974
      @robynrae6974 Год назад +19

      Lol 😂 I also wondered how Bruce was so shocked and confused by his wives becoming pregnant. 🤷🏼‍♀️ 😩 That’s the part that cracked me up. I definitely feel like he was swayed and even nudged to abandon all of his other kids besides Kris Jenners kids! I just think Kris was broke at the time and wanted all of the income to go towards her lifestyle although she did do an outstanding impeccable job at rebranding Bruce and making them all into multimillionaires. Very shitty how Bruce sort of just totally abandoned all his kids though. It’s extremely hurtful to watch ur own father raise someone else’s children and totally be uninvolved in your life, I know from personal experience how that feels and I don’t think it’s cool that Bruce treated his own kids that way. Glad to see that Caitlyn at least has a relationship w all of her kids these days. Hope all of her kids have found healing ❤️‍🩹 and her as well. ❤

    • @moustik31
      @moustik31 Год назад +7

      @@robynrae6974 Thank you for your input, it all makes sense. I can totally see Kris "ignoring" the obvious signs of gender-dysphoria while she rebuilt him as a celebrity. And yes, even if he was coerced, at the end of the day, it was his decision to walk out the lives of his older children and stop seeing his sister.

    • @robynrae6974
      @robynrae6974 Год назад +2

      @@moustik31 agreed! ❤️

  • @veronikamarquez9792
    @veronikamarquez9792 Год назад +187

    Kris saying that she took all of his paycheck from the show to pay for bills is absolutely insane, as if they weren’t publicly swimming in money and shit they didn’t need.

    • @MeeplandHeights
      @MeeplandHeights 8 месяцев назад +9

      well no, she was saying both of their paychecks went into the same account (like most married couples) and that's the place all their bills and stuff came out and that she was made in charge of the whole thing on top of the actual full-time behind the scenes that that gave them that job and cash. Cait is crying they wanted a secret account and I guess kris to let the bills come out of her account while leaving her to deal with the entirety of the finances

    • @vgardner1688
      @vgardner1688 8 месяцев назад +16

      Bruce was almost bankrupt when they married because of his wasteful spending so she had to be controlling when it came to money & that was one of the reasons why she became his manager & was always sending him on Speaking Engagements.

  • @StrawberryFields4ever65
    @StrawberryFields4ever65 6 месяцев назад +61

    I find it disturbing that Caitlyn can't understand why Khloe was upset with the transition. Khloe lost her father and Bruce was the step father who essentially raised her. She was struggling with the "death" of Bruce and trying to put that in perspective. I think Khloe was the only person TRULY understanding the process. She was hurt by how easily Bruce seemed to throw away what, for her, was her father. I am still moved by Khloe's pain. She was grieving and doing so publicly and I don't think Bruce was emotionally there for her. He had already made the decision and he didn't realize that this young woman was laying her heart down and REALLY saying that she was going to miss HIM!!! So sad and I believe it shows the shallowness of his personality. Narcissists have a difficult time understanding deep emotions from OTHERS!

    • @insertheadphones
      @insertheadphones 6 месяцев назад +7

      Exactly! thank you. it's like she has zero compassion for the family that she was a part of for 20 years. it's crazy

    • @maryannhull2581
      @maryannhull2581 5 месяцев назад

      Ssw awe

    • @jennybrandt5188
      @jennybrandt5188 5 месяцев назад +3

      I've always thought that Khloe was the most "real" person in the family. I feel sorry for her and for Bruce to say that he doesn't understand why she feels that way shows that he is either a liar and/or stupid.

  • @jazminfrancesca463
    @jazminfrancesca463 Год назад +337

    Yikes, Caitlyn treated his first two wives terribly 😢 but I appreciate the natural empathy in your storytelling for Caitlyn.

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +14

      Thank you so much for your feedback! ❤️

    • @Living42
      @Living42 Год назад +16

      *Bruce 🤣 sorry I had to. ❤️🤣

    • @jakestroll6518
      @jakestroll6518 Год назад +50

      @@Living42 I don’t think Caitlyn has been very charitable to the 3rd wife either. Particularly in blaming her for their grown kids perception of him. Kris is many things but her split with Robert Kardashian was very amicable and she facilitated co-parenting until he died. She’s also pushed her kids to stay tight with their baby daddies. Bruce/Cait is the only person in the equation with a history of abandoning kids, demanding an abortion and even now hasn’t worked a strong relationship with the two youngest adult daughters. It’s a pattern with that one.

    • @mrslindsay
      @mrslindsay Год назад +14

      @@jakestroll6518 i usually default to taking Caitlyn's side because i have so much respect for her in general and I'm not a Kardashian fan, but that's a great point I hadn't considered. A person's character might be defined as patterns of behavior so that really says it all

    • @kathleenking47
      @kathleenking47 Год назад

      Jenner may have.
      I have a friend, who needed to train 4 new hires
      All 4 were trannies and hard to work with.
      Their disorder could be something else, and manifesting a certain way

  • @Chikara199
    @Chikara199 Год назад +573

    I too find them both very immature, petty and selfish. There is no victim or abuser in this situation, only two adults who behave like entitled brats towards everyone around them. So happy to not be part of that mess of a family. Nice video, Bee!

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +13

      Thank you so much for your continued support ❤❤

    • @theresajames1773
      @theresajames1773 Год назад

      When you marry a man and they become a woman how do deal with that

    • @a.walters123
      @a.walters123 Год назад

      I don’t like either of them, or anyone in their family. They’re all fake people, and very materialistic.

    • @torresdestinya82
      @torresdestinya82 Год назад +2

      Exactly

    • @samanthablount139
      @samanthablount139 7 месяцев назад +5

      This comment is very well said and I personally think is spot on. I have felt this way since the Kardashians first came in the entertainment seen, with Kim and her ridiculous "leaked" sex tape. They all behave like entitled brats.

  • @juliawcj111
    @juliawcj111 Год назад +68

    I used to watch the Kardashians and Kris treated Bruce terrible. One episode Bruce wanted to use his credit card that Kris held on to while Kris has a new $5000 dress to wear to an event - Kim, Khloe and Bruce pick up the dress and hold it hostage until Kris hands Bruce his credit card back. Bruce was always in trouble for something.

    • @ChristianOne
      @ChristianOne 8 месяцев назад +6

      Yes, BUT there is a back story to all that. Bruce was broke when they met and a chronic over-spender. Kris fixed his career, paid the household bills, and kept Bruce from wasting it away. Bruce WANTED that initially and chose a passive role preferring to let the weight of business rest on Kris's shoulders. When people abdicate responsibility and take a passive role, control freaks can go too far. Yes... Kris took it too far. But Bruce wasn't communicating clearly either...asking for a bigger "allowance" or whatever. If he wanted full control of his share of the money, that would be normal and fine but when they divorced, he went back to wasting his money again in large part. Maybe he learned enough from Kris to invest better etc. But instead of taking his power back WITHIN the life he had... he threw it all away to start over very suddenly. I am not a fan of Kris or the Kardashians but I still found him very inconsiderate in his transition process/divorce/tell all book. I think many involved are narcissistic...so it is tragic all around.

    • @thesilentdiva
      @thesilentdiva Месяц назад +1

      Lmao I remember that ep

  • @palladium607
    @palladium607 Год назад +165

    I think if Kris really didn't see it it's because she was too busy living her own life. I think deep down she had to have some sort of idea.

    • @julkaanka8283
      @julkaanka8283 Год назад

      Kris is a narcissist and social climber. They only pay attention if other people's issues benefit them.

    • @Living42
      @Living42 Год назад +20

      Yeah I agree. There were a few red flags at beginning of their show. He had his own lil house separate from the family. They didn't sleep in same bed. I stopped watching the show after 2 seasons.but those two things stood out in my mind

    • @patrizziad3446
      @patrizziad3446 Год назад +12

      Of course she did. She's a terrible mother and wife. Both of them are.

    • @lorimiller4301
      @lorimiller4301 Год назад +9

      ​​@@patrizziad3446 Absolutely true. Khloes' real father is Kris' hairdresser from the late 70s early 80s.
      Instead of just being honest, they try saying Khloe looks like some distant relatives.
      It's not true and Khloe knows it. That's why she put up with public humiliation from Tristan, to have both of her children by the same father.

    • @patrizziad3446
      @patrizziad3446 Год назад +6

      @@lorimiller4301 I still think she's OJs daughter. The resemblance, the height, she looks just like Sidney, his child and Nicole's.

  • @soilgrasswaterair
    @soilgrasswaterair Год назад +67

    18:24 If that’s the case, then Jenner should have wrapped it up, instead of blaming her. He didn’t need to c*m in her and then act as if they hadn’t discussed baby plans, what did Jenner think would happen? Any adult having sex, is aware how babies are made. Such gaslighting on Jenner’s part.

  • @adrienneclarke3953
    @adrienneclarke3953 Год назад +80

    Even back when the Village People movie came out, there were rumours about Bruce being a cross dresser. The movie came out in 1980, Kris and Bruce married in 91. So if pre internet a 15yo in Australia had read about the cross dressing in gossip magazines, how did Kris not know.

    • @MeeplandHeights
      @MeeplandHeights 8 месяцев назад +1

      she said herself that cait made it seem like it was an old part of their life and cait mentions that kris used her managerial skills to eliminate the rumours too and that she never told kris the whole story, just that it was a thing she did before (seemingly not even correcting their breasts not being moobs). cross dressing and being a transvestite was a thing straight dudes became more open about doing around this time and sissification was a fetish known among adults too (dedicated clubs started popping up in the 60s for it) and since cait didn't act like a woman behind the scenes only occasionally cross dressed, it's not really that hard to believe in the slightest

    • @jennybrandt5188
      @jennybrandt5188 5 месяцев назад

      She may have known that he liked to put on women's clothes but they probably still had a physical relationship so it may not have concerned her as much.

  • @Madreministry
    @Madreministry Год назад +60

    Idk if I just wasn’t keeping up with media at the time but I had no idea things were this in depth - I always thought Caitlyn’s transition was sudden and seemed out of the blue, random even but this video showed that even in terms of what the public was aware of at the time, that wasn’t the case.

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +10

      I’m with you, I had no idea either until I did this video. Khloe K said on the Howard Stern Show that her father (Robert K) told them back when Kris and Bruce started dating that he “was a cross dresser”.
      Khloe said that they thought their father was spewing nonsense out of jealousy.

    • @sarahdiehl2672
      @sarahdiehl2672 Год назад +2

      Yes agreed!! But I was also born in 2002 so I had no clue. In another life Caitlyn would have transitioned much sooner. It hit my like a ton of bricks hearing she had hormone therapy and other treatments in the 80s… it’s so so sad to know she had to wait another 30-40 years.

    • @clovrmay3104
      @clovrmay3104 2 месяца назад

      My ex was a secret cross dresser I met him we were both 35. He admitted he started dressing in his mothers clothes, full look like pantyhose completing a full look at like 8. You are born that way. Period. He knew since childhood my ex did.

  • @yodaspank850
    @yodaspank850 Год назад +11

    "did I downplay it, I'm sure I did" this guy had children with all these women and then completely duped them. Gender dysphoria must be hell but I would say he did some MAJOR downplaying.

  • @non-ya228
    @non-ya228 Год назад +15

    In my opinion, Bruce was codependent and anamored by Chris's connections, her alpha drive, and her confidence and beauty, but realized looks and success can be deceiving when Chris was already building an empire of Kardashians and he was left by the wayside. They used eachother for money and notoriety

  • @blackboots2989
    @blackboots2989 Год назад +9

    I don't think most people can appreciate that Bruce was truly between a rock and a hard place for most of his life. I was a dancer in the 70s and had several transgender friends. They were women when I knew them. Their main fear was that their original, biological gender would be discovered and they were right to be afraid. One friend faced a broken bottle at her throat. Another committed suicide.
    In the 80s, things were starting to change, but just starting. It was something new. People didn't understand and they didn't accept. There was no language for gender dysphoria, the concept was barely there. How confusing it must have been, especially since he was attracted to women, including the women he was married to. Bruce the athlete was real and it's hard to disown a whole successful lifetime you worked so hard for.
    So, yes, in hindsight, Bruice/Caitlin could have handled things better, certainly with their kids. But once again, I don't think most people can appreciate how hard it must have been to feel you're in the wrong body, try to be a success within society, when your inner self can never match the outside identity you feel you must maintain.

  • @Wizzz2288
    @Wizzz2288 Год назад +80

    I believe Bruce / Caitlyn every time over Chris.
    Chris is all about 100% control over all of her family

    • @veronikamarquez9792
      @veronikamarquez9792 Год назад

      Yup and her claiming that she was taking his pay because it ALL went towards the expenses is crazy, they very publicly were wealthy why would ALL of his money need to go toward bills? So that HER money could be spent of stupid shit, she’s so dumb it’s painful.

    • @Ellada-hu5tx
      @Ellada-hu5tx Год назад +1

      Actually, it's Kris and not whatever you wrote.

  • @MadameMagoto
    @MadameMagoto 10 месяцев назад +73

    I agree that disclosure is SO important and it feels wrong, even comparable to having a transmittable disease and not letting your partner know.😢 That could definitely be emotional manipulation tactics.

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  10 месяцев назад +10

      I agree, disclosure is so important. It’s important to be honest

    • @ethelbaumgartner5320
      @ethelbaumgartner5320 9 месяцев назад

      Christy and Bruce had a failed marriage. Kris and Bruce had a failed marriage. Transitioning into Caitlyn didn't begin during either of the marriages. To my knowledge Bruce/Caitlyn didn't engage in anything that put anyone involved in danger of STD infection. Transgender individuals have been around since the beginning of time. You may not agree with transgender individuals, however they are everywhere. No matter who you share your bed with should be protected from STD transmission.

  • @carolyndelong4737
    @carolyndelong4737 6 месяцев назад +8

    Bruce is a complete narcissist!

    • @MusgraveRitual
      @MusgraveRitual 6 месяцев назад +2

      Totally kreepy. I don't buy the "dysphoria" story. It's a fetish/kink.

    • @triciagiustra9911
      @triciagiustra9911 4 месяца назад +1

      Exactly 💯💯💯💯! He thinks of no one but himself

  • @alinad9226
    @alinad9226 10 месяцев назад +8

    Caitlin told her first 2 wives .. off course she told Kris too .

  • @kiernan415
    @kiernan415 Год назад +357

    I think they are both vapid, horrible people who only care about themselves, but if I absolutely had to take a side I'd have to be Team Kris here. Caitlyn fully abandoned her children and to me, that is unforgivable. IDC what her issues were or what she was going through, ultimately, it was her choice to neglect them. I feel that she is trying to scapegoat Kris for that, but I don't believe her because she continues to this day to put herself over all of her children and it's hard to watch. Being a selfish a-hole has nothing to do with gender identity or sexuality so that's no excuse either. Caitlyn is just one of those people who can never admit to making mistakes or ever being wrong so she's throwing everything at the wall in the book to excuse her own bad behavior. I feel awful for her kids. As usual, great video BTC!!! ✌💜

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +18

      Thanks so much for weighing in and sharing your thoughts on the situation. You brought up some amazing arguments and points here!! 👏👏❤️

    • @montyollie
      @montyollie Год назад +48

      Yeah, abandoning the first four Jenner kids is pretty unforgiveable. I don't blame Kris for that... Caitlyn CHOSE to marry a bossy woman and be bossed around. But I still think Kris is lying about what she knew and when she knew it. Kris is a very skilled liar. Caitlyn has nothing to gain by telling the story the way she told it. Kris is doing damage control for her OWN reputation to prevent people from thinking she married an effeminate man mid transition and how that makes her look.

    • @kiernan415
      @kiernan415 Год назад +32

      @@montyollie I agree that Kris is a controlling, manipulative liar and most definitely in "damage control" mode here (which is so ridiculously unnecessary). Kris is probably more prone to straight up lie (about anything), while Caitlyn has a loose relationship with reality in general due to her extreme narcissism. It's likely that Kris is being the least honest in this specific instance, but I don't entirely trust Caitlyn's recollection of events either. They are both vapid, self-serving individuals so not sure I trust either really. #TeamNoOne

    • @soilgrasswaterair
      @soilgrasswaterair Год назад +16

      It probably runs deep considering that she is refusing to take even a little bit of responsibility for that action, of neglecting her children. If a parent neglects their child, and the child wish to talk about that as an adult, the least that parent can do is to listen to them and also apologize. Jenner refused to do so, probably because the truth hurts and to shut the kids down was probably easier. Some people often wanna claim none of us know their family, which is true that we don’t know them as a whole and individually to a full extent, but it’s over a decade of their dysfunction being broadcasted globally- so people really can’t claim the public doesn’t know them at all. Enough has been shown, to know these people can’t have a calm and productive problem solving session when they start to disagree. They gaslight, deflect or attack each other instead of simply listening.
      Caitlyn Jenner’s issue is probably rooted in deep shame, and instead of facing her shame around her poor parenting in many instances, she’s choosing to shut down the conversation and by doing so she’s shutting down their ability to connect. To listen, means she has to take in how she has treated her children over the years and also stepchildren. The way she spoke to Khloe was so sad to see, how she shared she no longer mattered to her and only Kendall and Kylie (even if she doesn’t seem to have much of a healthy contact with them either). Spending time with a kid because they share the same interest as you, doesn’t count as being present! A parent should be present no matter the child’s interest.
      The Kris being controlling thing is true, we all saw it on the show. How she wouldn’t let Jenner even have access to their own money to buy some minor things for some electric toys while spending several thousands on a dress she would only wear once. Many viewers felt sorry for Jenner, because no ine in the house seemed to listen to them. Even still, we need to communicate our needs or move on and not sit and purge all of that years later in public while getting paid.

    • @soilgrasswaterair
      @soilgrasswaterair Год назад +12

      @@montyollie She can’t have it both ways, of knowing and still being a victim who was led down a path that wasn’t honest. To uphold her victim stance, she must say she never knew. I do remember a few times on the show though, that a few of the family members said under their breath ”it might have been with Bruce”, when they spoke of lost underwear and dresses. Khloe said it once in Kris’ kitchen and they laughed. To laugh at such a comment means they had to know the context to know what the ”joke”.

  • @MistymeQueen
    @MistymeQueen Год назад +30

    Most of the Jenner children "Besides Kylie" have not altered their appearances so severely as the Kardashians. The Kardashians must really have such pain that they want to continuously change their appearances. Maybe I sense irony, but why does everyone around Kris want to change themselves so very much? Hmmmmm.

    • @soveryeri2
      @soveryeri2 Год назад +7

      Lol it's very obvious what the difference is, the Jenner kids are not famous on any level near how famous the Kardashians are. I'm including Kylie and Kendall Jenner in the Kardashians, they've had work done because it's just what you have to do at their level of Fame if you want to stay there, the Jenner's, in my example, are his 4 children before Kris, they are mostly regular people with Brody being the most famous and yet it isn't even close still. Hollywood is fickle and if you could afford to fix everything that you feel could be fixed then you would do it too.

    • @MistymeQueen
      @MistymeQueen Год назад +8

      @@soveryeri2 I really don’t think I would. I think they were all fine before making themselves look like plastics…

    • @Sammy-cm9ce
      @Sammy-cm9ce Год назад +5

      LOL, have you seen Kylie before the lip challenge? She's altered her appearance as much as the others.

    • @highjinx6519
      @highjinx6519 Год назад

      @@Sammy-cm9ce they’re saying that Kylie is the only one of the Jenner children who has had as much work done as the Kardashian children. That the rest of the Jenners are somewhat more like the rest of us normal people who live in reality in that aspect.

    • @MistymeQueen
      @MistymeQueen Год назад

      @@Sammy-cm9ce I was referring to Kendyll. She hasn't altered herself as much as the Kardashians.

  • @djsusiequ2422
    @djsusiequ2422 Год назад +29

    He didn’t look like he was on hormones- i just thought he had botched surgery on his face

  • @oooni
    @oooni Год назад +66

    Something inside of me wishes Caitlyn was spelled with a K to further piss Kris off. 💀

    • @soappacket2342
      @soappacket2342 Год назад +12

      I thought the C was more disrespectful 😂

    • @Barbienim17
      @Barbienim17 Год назад +10

      @@soappacket2342I think so too😂😂it was a way of disassociating herself from the kardashian family

    • @bootsiekeegan4401
      @bootsiekeegan4401 Год назад +2

      So bruce tool hormones has breasts and a penis so he doesn't know what he is NOW! He will regret this if he doesn't ALREADY

    • @bootsiekeegan4401
      @bootsiekeegan4401 Год назад +4

      You had a LIFE Bruce you DESTROYED IT!!!

    • @kirstengriffith7221
      @kirstengriffith7221 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@bootsiekeegan4401damn… go outside and touch some grass, take a nap, or take a Xanax or something idk

  • @JamesonLink_
    @JamesonLink_ Год назад +79

    So glad I found your channel!
    You’re intro regarding referring to Jenner was wonderful- using Jenners own guidelines is the right way to approach it imo.
    Thanks for the work!

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +11

      Thank you so much.! I was SO nervous because I do not want to offend anyone so I needed to make it crystal clear that these are her guidelines!
      Again, thank you so much!! ❤️

    • @robynrae6974
      @robynrae6974 Год назад +3

      @@betheecommentator you did a lovely, wonderful and compassionate job, PER USUAL! 🏆 ❤

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +4

      @@robynrae6974 I appreciate that, thank you SO much ❤

    • @robynrae6974
      @robynrae6974 Год назад +2

      @@betheecommentator you are very welcome. 💗

    • @lorimiller4301
      @lorimiller4301 Год назад +3

      Calling Bruce, Bruce, when he was Bruce is the normal, natural thing to do.
      You may not want to offend anyone but you should not be coerced to lie either. Bruce didn't die and acting like he did is so unfair to his children and ex-wives.

  • @Vanessacurry84
    @Vanessacurry84 Год назад +39

    How crazy the Jenner kids showed Caitlin more grace than the Kardashians

    • @umadelr9061
      @umadelr9061 Год назад +7

      Cuz they knew it from the beginning but the Kardashians didn't

    • @lisasante254
      @lisasante254 Год назад +7

      I think they came to accept his transition choice. What they were so upset with was the fact that he publicly dragged their mom through her book tour. A little discretion and restraint on Caitlin’s part would have helped earn her children, and stepchildren’s respect.

    • @jennybrandt5188
      @jennybrandt5188 5 месяцев назад +1

      It was because they already knew not to expect anything from him. He was never around for them.

  • @TheMisterMarilyn
    @TheMisterMarilyn Год назад +113

    What an exceptionally well done documentary!! Your style of narration is lovely, non judgemental and full of empathy for all concerned!! You walked a very difficult path through the information and nailed it, I believe. I’ve read some of the other comments below and I must say that I too am ‘over’ the whole bunch of them (with the possible exception of Brody who seems down to earth and level headed, and full of compassion) all those girls/ women though? Ugh…they’ve had way more time and attention than I think is either warranted or healthy, and give back nothing to anyone ever, by the looks of it. I just hope they go off and enjoy their ill gotten gains and leave everyone else in peace!!
    You? I think you could possibly have a very bright career in the making!! So pleased for you!! Love to you and those who you love, always…Marilyn 🥰🌟🧡

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +12

      Thank you so much, for such a sweet comment. Your feedback means so much and I’m really glad you enjoy my channel and content.
      This is SUPER encouraging!! I genuinely appreciate this! Have an awesome day!! ❤

    • @kathleentatar-sipple9672
      @kathleentatar-sipple9672 Год назад +5

      Great comment 💯 agree with you!!!

    • @Ellada-hu5tx
      @Ellada-hu5tx Год назад

      You are absolutely not right by saying that the Kardashians give absolutely nothing. They give back entertainment, as much as the cinemas and the theaters and the ballets and operas do. They give people a sense of joy, distraction. They inspire some people. Also, they do a lot of charity, some of which they do not even publicize. Also they employ many people to which they are super nice.

    • @BrightAura777
      @BrightAura777 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@Ellada-hu5tx then why do they have lawsuits for not paying their employees?

    • @joycediggs4617
      @joycediggs4617 5 месяцев назад

      The Kardashians are just a replacement for the last scandal queen, Paris Hilton. I'm sick of hearing about all of them.

  • @melinehhacopians1184
    @melinehhacopians1184 Год назад +92

    I absolutely believe him when he says he had told kris. There is no benefit to him lying about that in my opinion

    • @xhaltsalute
      @xhaltsalute 9 месяцев назад +12

      Plenty of benefits…

    • @bananafanafoferry6970
      @bananafanafoferry6970 9 месяцев назад +10

      Kris is all about the cash. She absolutely knew about it and didn’t care as long as he kept the money rolling in. She discarded him when she no longer needed him. Typical narcissist.

    • @bunny_0288
      @bunny_0288 7 месяцев назад +2

      There was plenty of benefit to him. Saving face and public opinion are huge benefits to him. Also if you watch their discussion about it Kris gives a very detailed account about exactly what he said to her about it and it was super vague.
      He just kept claiming that she knew, but if you watch any of KUWTK you would see what a terrible communicator Bruce was.
      I honestly think Kris would have divorced him way back then if he really told her.

    • @idgaf.28
      @idgaf.28 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@bananafanafoferry6970How she did it to Robert

    • @idgaf.28
      @idgaf.28 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@bunny_0288I'm sure kris knew. But she's about money & attention she didn't care I'm sure she knew and eventually will come out and once it did more money & attention to her.

  • @doctorajaguar
    @doctorajaguar Год назад +22

    Naaaahhh I bet he never told Kris, because most heterosexual women want a man, just like Linda said. He was an adult, not a spooked little mouse. And to top it off, that "The hardest part of being a woman is figuring out what to wear" infamous declaration is everything I need to know about him as a person. All the fame and spotlight Caitlyn has is thanks to Kris. I believe Kris. This sad story of a woman "fixing" or "saving" a man, helping him become succesful and being drop after being used its as old as time. I had seen it over, over and over again.

    • @dewilew2137
      @dewilew2137 4 месяца назад

      I cringe every time I hear that part. That’s the most misogynistic thing a man who wants to be a woman could ever say.

  • @a87nomsirrah35
    @a87nomsirrah35 Год назад +43

    "I raised Khloe since she was five. ... She and I haven't spoken in 5 years. I don't know what her issues are." WTF YOU MEAN DUDE!? You tricked her into thinking that she had a father figure in her life since she was five! When he says "I raised her" what he means to say is " I masqueraded as a father figure since she was five." Honestly, the level of manipulation and dishonesty this man uses to avoid accountability... He literally spent decades creating than destroying three different families! I commend all three wives for attempting to put up with an unstable man like Bruce. These are real women, real mothers - BRUCE IS NOT ONE!

  • @Synthisized
    @Synthisized Год назад +49

    I feel for his exwives and children. This must have been tough for them.

  • @unicornL
    @unicornL Год назад +68

    Kris originally said that they had talked about it, so it's weird that she's backtracked on that

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +9

      I agree, I don’t understand why she back peddled either. Makes no sense to me.

    • @ziamarie
      @ziamarie 10 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@betheecommentatori think it's because she wanted to be seen as a victim, like "oh woe is me" especially because shes had alot of negative press over how she sold kim & ray j's tape and thats how the family really got famous and also how she controls everything.

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  10 месяцев назад +4

      @@ziamarie that makes a lot of sense. I can absolutely see that.

  • @crypticvinforever6350
    @crypticvinforever6350 Год назад +21

    This documentary you have made is THEE BEST thing ive ever seen on the subject...
    I GUARANTEE you everyone in this will see it too...congrats on your SKILLS!! perfect

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +1

      Oh wow!! THANK YOU!! I appreciate your feedback and support, so much!

  • @Wizzz2288
    @Wizzz2288 Год назад +27

    Thank You Bee for another sensitive, beautifully presented, fully researched video on a very interesting topic. Bless You

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +2

      Wow, thank you so much! I’m glad you enjoyed this episode and blessings to you ❤️❤️

  • @jojowynne233
    @jojowynne233 Год назад +12

    I’m more inclined to believe Caitlyn over Kris, since the big lies about the sex tape and Kris’s signature being on the release. If Bruce truly did have gender dysphoria for most of his life, that is sad that he had to wait so long to become Caitlyn because he was a public figure.
    Most importantly I feel so sad for all the kids. His kids to his first two wives that he neglected, he says because he was struggling with his gender issues. I think also because he got involved with Kris, was raising her daughters and had two more. I feel for all the Karjen kids. Even Kim, Khloe & Kourtney who were raised by him, they would all feel betrayed and hurt. They would also believe their mother which would make it worse. So while Caitlyn and Kris are playing the blame game, the kids, even if they are grown adults, still pay the price.
    That video seemed to go so quickly. I really enjoyed it. Thanks Be! ❤️

  • @tydaley6218
    @tydaley6218 Год назад +11

    I don’t think either of them are at fault. They could have quietly divorced and went their separate ways. The book was the end of any possibility of a friendship. Now it’s as if Kris was never married to them. Kris is in the public eye so what else was she to do except dismiss the whole situation.

  • @bw1615
    @bw1615 Год назад +55

    Just started the video but I love the fact that you focus on presenting the stories of the people you cover how they want to be discussed. The intro prefacing it where you discussed how Caitlyn refers to herself was really nice.

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +6

      Thank you so much I appreciate your feedback, it is very encouraging ❤

  • @BabyDee72
    @BabyDee72 9 месяцев назад +99

    He only worried about HIMSELF and HIS feelings. What he was doing to his wives and kids didn't matter. Disgusting to hurt so many

    • @ah7910
      @ah7910 8 месяцев назад

      Love your use of the word “disgusting”. You are disgusted by her transitioning and show ZERO compassion to what that must have felt like, because you are an entitled straight person who has had few social challenges. He clearly struggled with his identity and in turn, how to father his children. I’m glad he escaped the circus on his own terms. I pity you.

    • @jacquelineleubin5004
      @jacquelineleubin5004 8 месяцев назад +3

      I think he also hurt himself by living a lie who he was inside. You can't blame him. If you look at the psychological side , it is brutal what he went through! Why don't his feelings count too? Why be someone he isn't , pretending he's happy just to please wife and kids?! If he would have been forced to go on like that, he maybe would have killed himself, as many do in a situation like that. Now, in your view, would that be better? He would have had to hurt his wife and kids in one way or the other. Noone needs to pretend to be someone their not, because the most important is your own happiness, because if that is not there, you wont be able to make your wife and kids happy either. Evereyone is responsoble for themselves!

    • @ChristianOne
      @ChristianOne 8 месяцев назад +7

      ​@@jacquelineleubin5004
      I appreciate empathy for the psychological struggles...but why marry women and bring kids into your struggles if you are just going to br breaking their hearts, lying to them etc. That is why people empathize MORE with the family than Caitlyn/Bruce.

    • @justynjonn
      @justynjonn 8 месяцев назад

      Welcome to Hollywood dear.

    • @petal979
      @petal979 4 месяца назад

      You have no idea how he would have felt, trans were even less accepted back then than they are now, you're not trans you dont know the turmoil he would have been in.

  • @jeanni7129
    @jeanni7129 Год назад +77

    Be, I appreciate the way you handled this. You laid out the facts, but with empathy & tact. It can be a difficult topic (which is sad, in my opinion), but you handled it well with grace. Thank you for a great video. You are fast becoming one of my favorite creators.

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +8

      Wow I appreciate this so much! I’m glad you enjoyed the video and I really appreciate your feedback and support ❤

  • @dredayalldayerday
    @dredayalldayerday Год назад +6

    The one time I felt sorry for Kris was when Caitlyn came by the house and wanted a gun that she left and Kris was like we've been married for 20yrs and all you want to take is a gun.

  • @lukesebastin2237
    @lukesebastin2237 Год назад +156

    I love your videos. Can you please do one on Mischa Barton? Not many people cover the atrocities she faced.

  • @sarahdiehl2672
    @sarahdiehl2672 Год назад +32

    It’s extremely concerning that Kris controlled her and Caitlyn’s money. It comes off like she is controlling her purchases, therefore not allowing Caitlyn the freedom to transition. And it’s more than that because it’s such an assertion of power and dominance. It feels meant to manipulative control and trap Caitlyn.

  • @hollbovee1814
    @hollbovee1814 8 месяцев назад +17

    Its amazing how a man can somehow blame someone else for not stepping up and be a father

  • @nassplease
    @nassplease Год назад +7

    Seems like bruce/caitlyn's heart is almost made of stone, no emotions what so ever, I mean he deeply hurts the people closest to him and just throwaway all the years and lifetime he shared with them, and move on with no sentimental or human feelings as if they were disposable. He's done that to his mom, sister, kids, friends etc.. Even when he joined the LGBTQ community he never showed any sort of emotional concern and support to the victims and their sad experiences. And then when everyone leaves, he starts complaining. Like all he/she cares abt is clothes, hair and makeup.

  • @triciacarroll9810
    @triciacarroll9810 Год назад +21

    Giiiirl, you are killing it with these videos 🙌🙌 keep up the good work!!

  • @myamorris711
    @myamorris711 Год назад +7

    Queen your commentary is top tier! Love watching your videos as you provide receipts! ❤️❤️

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад

      Aww thank you!!! I really appreciate your support and feedback!! 💕💕

  • @thomasblake4849
    @thomasblake4849 10 месяцев назад +15

    The fact that linda did a interview , already talking about Caitlyn’s gender identity in the 90’s ; Kris cant be surprised .

  • @Littleorangecats
    @Littleorangecats Год назад +25

    Thanks for the very thoughtful way you opened this video! I appreciate the empathy with which you approach all your subjects. Your videos are such high quality, and I always look forward to watching them! ❤

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +1

      Wow thank you so much!! This means a lot! I appreciate it ❤

    • @robynrae6974
      @robynrae6974 Год назад +2

      I love your comment and totally agree w you! ❤

  • @samanthahead8900
    @samanthahead8900 Год назад +10

    What a wonderful job you did with the video, I thought I had heard everything! Thank you for being so amazing and making something so put together and interesting! ❤❤

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +1

      You’re welcome! Thank you so much for watching and supporting! I’m glad you enjoyed this episode ❤️❤️

  • @Roxy-Mara
    @Roxy-Mara Год назад +31

    Thank you again for another great documentary. I love how well you presented both sides without clearly choosing sides. Great overview :) I do agree with most comments here that both parties weren't that great, and I think caitlyns not so lovely side came out more now that she's not feeling supressed or lacking in confidence to speak up.

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +3

      You’re welcome! Thank you so much for watching me and weighing in on the topic and story!
      I really appreciate it! ❤

  • @nanidogmomstevens6386
    @nanidogmomstevens6386 5 месяцев назад +2

    A great documentary! Thank you for your professionalism.!

  • @angelwingstn3392
    @angelwingstn3392 Год назад +10

    I wonder if Khloe has come to terms with all of this yet. She seemed pretty upset. Kris had to know something was going on. I don't think she ever thought Caitlin was going to go through with transitioning so she then was trying to do damage control.

    • @lisasante254
      @lisasante254 Год назад +3

      I think Caitlin’s deceptive life had a tragic affect on Rob Kardatian. His biological sons were fortunate that they didn’t have to directly live her lie.

  • @SJ-ni6iy
    @SJ-ni6iy 7 месяцев назад +4

    This is off topic but I never knew Linda Thompson co-wrote songs. She’s lived an interesting life that gets overshadowed by her love life.

  • @MochaTexas
    @MochaTexas Год назад +24

    There’s no victim here. They both knew what they were signing up for when they got together

    • @lisasante254
      @lisasante254 Год назад +3

      Kids are the victims. How betrayed they must have felt, to be forced into his inauthentic life. How they must have felt to finally told his truth, and for Caitlin to have made it so public had to have added insult to injury to all of those kids.

    • @LEEDSURBANOASIS
      @LEEDSURBANOASIS 6 месяцев назад

      I agree, it was a win win type of a situation, he got his career back on track with her and she got exposure! Sure Kris knew, she just went along with it for the notoriety and the money that came with it ...till she didn’t needed Caitlin anymore! And the children knew as well since they all say they found wigs and women cloths in Caitlin’s wardrobe and so one ...they all knew to a certain extent!

  • @8akitkat8
    @8akitkat8 Год назад +8

    Your videos are so incredible, your voice is so soothing and calm, Your videos aren’t boring and I want to keep watching/ listening. It shocks me you’re not extremely popular. Can’t wait for your next video!!

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +1

      Aww thank you so much!! I’m so glad you like my content and I appreciate your feedback 💕

  • @Jaedusse
    @Jaedusse Год назад +13

    Be can we please get an individual breakdown vides of each family member I love your videos and the way you explain things and I can tell you do a lot of extensive research keep it up ❤️

  • @julietteyork6293
    @julietteyork6293 9 месяцев назад +3

    Kris and Bruce used each other. She saw him as a talent/commodity who fit into her plans for fame and fortune. He saw her as a strong, capable leader who could rescue him. In terms of which one is telling the truth about whether Kris knew Bruce’s gender secret, the overwhelming evidence is that she absolutely knew and is lying when she accuses Bruce-now-Caitlin of deceiving her. Let’s remember Kris is also the one who orchestrated and marketed Kim’s pornographic sex tape as part of her Momager plan to achieve stardom for them all. That isn’t to say Bruce wasn’t also a highly manipulative opportunist because he was. They deserved each other.

  • @robynrae6974
    @robynrae6974 Год назад +9

    Wow I’m always so excited for any video u make! ❤ I just love your storytelling so much, it’s my favorite. I’m shocked to hear the way Caitlyn treated her first wives bc Bruce always seemed like such a lovely warm father on KUWTK so I would’ve never known, but I do have so much sympathy for her, dealing w all of this way back then when it wasn’t considered so normal. Thanks for making this content. 🙌🏼 ❤ 🥇 ✨

  • @carolchristiansen635
    @carolchristiansen635 8 месяцев назад +14

    Bruce used every woman in his life to reach his goals. Now that’s the truth and yes it’s my opinion.

    • @sunnyadams5842
      @sunnyadams5842 Месяц назад

      I'm so sorry you feel that way. Holding resentment only hurts ourselves...

  • @nancybradberry3770
    @nancybradberry3770 Год назад +16

    You are so unbelievably talented! Wise beyond your years. Even more Wise than most adult's in this crazy world. lol
    The open way and thoughtfulness you approach the content you cover really shows your raw talent! You should be so proud of yourself and your hard work! Thank you so much 💓 for
    Another AMAZING video! I look forward to watching your channel and content grow! The sky is the limit and this world world NEEDS more young people like you!

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +3

      Oh my, your compliments are so sweet!! Thank you for supporting and being so kind and encouraging!!
      Sweetest comment ever!! Thank you! Have a great day❤

    • @nancybradberry3770
      @nancybradberry3770 Год назад

      @@betheecommentator You are so welcome!

  • @otter3095
    @otter3095 Год назад +11

    Another excellent documentary
    Thank you

  • @IdkFoxii
    @IdkFoxii Год назад +27

    I do want to say that a lot of people try to mix wanting to wear make up and dresses means ur trans. It can just mean u like other clothing bc I personally don’t base clothing on gender but of course most do but it’s that bc we put so many emphasis on gender that people are forced to break out of whatever they feel stuck in

    • @mrssuchafknladyy2078
      @mrssuchafknladyy2078 Год назад

      I politely disagree bc imo and well before the AGENDA that’s been being forced for years now(hence why Bruce has consistently said he felt the “world” wasn’t ready🙄), gender is very well intertwined with clothing bc even before the amerikkas and the world were colonized and pillaged by the europeans, where did you ever see hetero or masculine men wearing our clothing or looking like women 🙄🥴🤦🏾‍♀️ wanting to be and dress up as the opposite sex was labeled a mental illness back when Bruce was struggling to not cross dress everyday🤷🏾‍♀️ this can be looked up as well.. but I very much think it is a mental illness and Bruce has stated several times how he’s been in and out of therapy for years bc it was very much considered a mental issue and I concur… this does not mean I’m out here wishing harm or participating in harmful things for those who clearly need help, but why tf are you in and out of therapy sessions if this was so normal… they even require therapy before the hormones and the chopping off of the body parts and imo you have to need some help to want to mutilate your body😩 it’s one thing dressing up but to want to cut off this and add that is not what I consider normal or consider happening in 9 outta 10 ppl🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Tajmaj
      @Tajmaj Год назад +2

      Yeaah Caitlyn confused me with the im not gay but I like women. Like so are you trans or not im confused. Wouldn’t that make her gay

    • @IdkFoxii
      @IdkFoxii Год назад

      @@Tajmaj I feel like if ur trans ur that’s a different gender? Bc trans to me can’t be lesbian just bc they present as a woman and feel like woman, they’re pan sexual or Demi sexual or Sapio sexual u know things like that they have nothing to do with biology

    • @jaybee4118
      @jaybee4118 11 месяцев назад +6

      @@TajmajI think because Caitlyn is right wing and not exactly in the LGBTQ+ community, I don’t think she really understands fully what it means to be trans and gay. I also think the word gay still sits badly in her mind and she’s possibly homophobic. She spent so long in a male body it’s difficult for her to not think of her being with a man as a gay thing. I think it’s very complicated for older people who do this essentially alone.

    • @xhaltsalute
      @xhaltsalute 9 месяцев назад +3

      That is consider autogynophilia. They like to maintain their masculinity but need to express their femininity.

  • @Carolina404ATL
    @Carolina404ATL 10 месяцев назад +5

    I just wanted to comment that I’ve been watching your documentaries and you are an amazing storyteller! I’m so glad that I was recommended to this channel and now you got a new subscriber!

  • @robynvandergrift8360
    @robynvandergrift8360 Год назад +4

    Your page is becoming one of my favourites. You do a great job w the research. By far the commentary channel.

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад

      Wow really?! Thank you!! I’m glad you enjoy my channel and content ❤

  • @ilovegot7754
    @ilovegot7754 Год назад +13

    I'm sorry but your documentaries are sooooo good and so thorough! One of the best on RUclips when it comes to documenting the history of celebrity lives. You should get more views than you do but I'm sorry I genuinely believe it's because you have an African American voice, and the algorithm isn't pushing it. Because this is top quality stuff.

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +3

      You’re so sweet!! Thank you so much for your support and encouragement! ❤️❤️

    • @maryhill6316
      @maryhill6316 10 месяцев назад

      What on Earth is an African American voice??!!!

  • @thecountesswithpowers
    @thecountesswithpowers Год назад +9

    New sub/çommenter: I've been enjoying all of your videos and your balanced commentary! Thanks for all the hard work! ❤

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +1

      Wow thank you!! I really appreciate your support and so glad you found my channel!! Welcome 🤗

  • @elleyesssss
    @elleyesssss Год назад +9

    Again, such a great documentary from one of my favorite content creators, you. I await your next upload with bated breath. I love how your channel is growing and share your content with all of my friends. Thank you for your conscientious, hard work. It shows in your content.

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +2

      Thank you so much, this is too sweet!! I’m glad you found my channel and enjoy my content.
      Thank you for sharing it with others and being so supportive ❤️❤️

    • @elleyesssss
      @elleyesssss Год назад +2

      @@betheecommentator just speaking my truth, no need to thank me…but keep your content coming. Your documentaries tell the truth. And that’s a rare quality in these days! ♥️♥️

  • @misst3883
    @misst3883 Год назад +2

    This is the 5th documentary I’ve watched in a row!! I can’t wait until you blow up! This is amazing!!

  • @debrapope2991
    @debrapope2991 Год назад +5

    If he told his 2 ex wife's about his issues I'm sure in all the years Bruce and Kris was married she knew about it

  • @therealrantroom
    @therealrantroom 11 месяцев назад +7

    I have a trans gen brother. Which i respect in every way. But when i talk about my childhood i say my sister, but talking in present time i say brother. Because it was my childhood to and i cant alter that. I have huge respect for rights but i have some to ❤
    Another thing i was taught by my bro - he was no longer a lesbian like before transition, he was now a straight male.

  • @ShogunHull
    @ShogunHull Год назад +3

    Very well put together broadcast. *EXCELLENT!!!*

  • @jackson12802
    @jackson12802 Год назад +13

    I think 10 kids between 3 baby mamas has more to do with his absence in his kids life than Kris.

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 Год назад +3

      Yes exactly Caitlyn choose to bea horrible parent to her kids

  • @MC-8
    @MC-8 Год назад +11

    hahahahahahah @12:00 I thought Jenner said 'clean his clock' without the 'l'. But I knew it couldn't be so I added subtitles and watched again.

  • @joannahampton5979
    @joannahampton5979 Год назад +27

    Very well done, again! I can't believe anything Kris Jenner has to say.

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +2

      I appreciate your support, thanks for watching!

    • @unodiscw
      @unodiscw Год назад +1

      I think he left out what he wanted to leave out

    • @unodiscw
      @unodiscw Год назад

      When I heard he was changing into a woman I was like o heck he’s not either I didn’t mind or don’t mind it

    • @unodiscw
      @unodiscw Год назад

      It’s like he’s batching their mom the Kardashians go hard for their family what did he expect

    • @Ellada-hu5tx
      @Ellada-hu5tx Год назад

      ​@@betheecommentatorI notice that you joyfully reply to and give a heart to any comment trashing the Kardashian family. Sad.

  • @Beach-girl104
    @Beach-girl104 Год назад +2

    Great video..your storytelling is always amazing😊

  • @judyevancic4926
    @judyevancic4926 7 месяцев назад +3

    He has his story from a warped idea blaming her for reacting in the negative for his estrangements from his kids. He did that himself. He married 3 times and revealed this transgender issue after marrying these woman, having kids and not before he committed to them. He got what he wanted, now he’s the woman he pined for until he was 65 yrs old. You bet your going to have huge issues with this. Then you write a scathing book blaming the wife who stuck by you fo 22 yrs. Creating a business to keep the lifestyle you enjoyed., so you go get a job and keep some of it for yourself. Whining isn’t going to help you keep relationships now.

  • @maxwellsmart0217
    @maxwellsmart0217 Год назад +11

    This content/segment is SO WELL DONE! Thank you💜

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +1

      You’re welcome! Thank you so much for watching ❤️

  • @letmethinkaboutit8982
    @letmethinkaboutit8982 9 месяцев назад +15

    The interviewer asked Caitlyn a question at “what age?”
    She totally ignores the question and continues her story about how she dressed in his moms dress puts on lipstick and prances around the apartment complex. That was NOT the question.

    • @kiml9066
      @kiml9066 6 месяцев назад +2

      To be fair, I feel like she misheard/misunderstood the question

    • @letmethinkaboutit8982
      @letmethinkaboutit8982 6 месяцев назад

      @@kiml9066 hmmm??? Never thought of it that way, I just thought Caitlyn didn’t want to answer the question and chose to ignore it. But thanks for your input. It’s given me a new way of thinking and looking at this video.

    • @lorimaloney2368
      @lorimaloney2368 6 месяцев назад

      He basically waited so long ruined many loving relationships to become a old woman like your mother says be happy the way you were born , it doesn’t change your Brain 🧠 or who you really are now he is living with a man who wants to be a woman too hmm im confused

  • @jillyancardona3793
    @jillyancardona3793 Год назад +2

    New sub here!!! Love your videos, they’re very informative and enjoyable for me while I do my housework! Thanks for all you do!

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +1

      Hi there 👋 I’m glad you enjoy my channel and content! I appreciate your support!!

  • @jasonm4332
    @jasonm4332 Год назад +3

    WOW ! so well done BE THEE COMMENTATOR ! This is a full on professional documentary ! do you have sponsorship? you really deserve it

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +1

      Wow, thank you SO much for your feedback, that is so sweet. Yes, sponsorships have contacted me for collaborations; I’m just VERY selective 😂

  • @ImaCatMaia
    @ImaCatMaia Год назад +13

    My spouse knew about their gender issues since childhood, but didn't disclose anything about it to me until after we were married. They even started transitioning and taking hormones for almost a year without telling me. I found the hormones on my own and confronted them about it. My son is trans, and I accepted that immediately and got him treated right away - I don't have a problem at all with anyone being trans...but, you can't help who/what you're attracted to. I was legally allowed to have my marriage annulled due to fraud. I think it's immoral of someone to marry and build a life with someone without disclosing something that is such an integral part of who they are. When they decide how they really want to live, it affects their spouse's life just as much as theirs, and changes the entire dynamic of the marriage completely - if there can even be any kind of marriage at all. I honestly feel angry, resentful, and devastated about it.
    As far as Caitlyn herself, I don't have any respect for her because she's an entitled hypocrite & a liar. She parrots right-wing talking points to justify the disenfranchisement of other trans people , but doesn't apply them to herself. One example is that she says trans women shouldn't be allowed to participate in women's sports yet she played in a women's tennis tournament.

    • @lisasante254
      @lisasante254 Год назад +2

      Yes, immoral to deceit others on such monumental grounds, can’t believe her self-importance to,after all the lies, putting so many kids under the spotlight with her book, tour, and her own reality show. She really stuck it to those kids.

  • @thinkmirror8507
    @thinkmirror8507 Год назад +12

    Love your content I see a clue from Bruce when he says it was never me how easy to say! He leaves his debris in the wind claiming it was never me!

  • @StageNameSnowLeopard
    @StageNameSnowLeopard Год назад

    I just found your channel and I’m utterly OBSESSED.

  • @judyheller
    @judyheller Год назад +11

    If Caitlyn made any changes in her life it had nothing to do with her transitioning. Her relationships with her kids were poor because of her own actions and she did not take any ownership in those actions or apologize. Her relationships with her kids improved after she took responsibility for her bad behavior and apologized for it, instead of blaming others for it.
    While Kris had her faults, she did make some attempts to work on their relationship. Caitlyn just whined and complained about their relationship and then separated from her. It ended the way it did because again, Caitlyn says some terrible things about Kris and did not apologize or admit she was wrong. I read the whole book. Caitlyn mentioned how controlling Kris was during the marriage. She said that Kourtney isn’t as beautiful as Kim was. She also mentioned that taking care of Kendall and Kylie was a way to distract him from transitioning.

  • @chearias6174
    @chearias6174 Год назад +6

    This was done so well! 👏👏👏

  • @myuniverse4231
    @myuniverse4231 Год назад +2

    Great job on this video! ❤

  • @greekfreak384
    @greekfreak384 Год назад +4

    Kris said “aight nie” you play in my clothes behind closed doors and when we are divorced you can do whatever u want. 😂

  • @billyjblubear7412
    @billyjblubear7412 Год назад +4

    THANK YOU FOR USING THE PERSONS PERFERED ADDRESSMENTS. ❤❤❤ thats all we usually ask!

    • @betheecommentator
      @betheecommentator  Год назад +3

      Thank you so much!! I really appreciate this confirmation and validation! Thank you ❤️❤️

    • @billyjblubear7412
      @billyjblubear7412 Год назад +2

      ​@BETHEECOMMENTATOR its refreshing, you are not invaliding the individual, and instead showing the persona a trans person has before they can truely be themselves. And in a respectful manner! So thank you. Truely.