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Masculinity builds everything for women and society, that's not selfish. Same for when we are in gov't, it's for everyone, when whoooa - mun do it, it's ONLY for them. Same for "someone to pay for me" not "someone to love".
Modern women are inclined and even psychologically conditioned to be narcissists. When are *real* solutions going to be discussed instead of constantly showing examples of the problem???
A father can honestly assess his daughter’s raw beauty potential and pick the appropriate man. A young woman has no clue what the world thinks and wouldn’t listen if she was told.
It's becoming more and more apparent that the traditional cultures that did things like that knew a lot about women and those evil oppressive patriarchal rules were there for a good reason. I used to be offended at the whole "I do not permit a woman to speak over a man" type verses in the Bible but... after seeing women in control... St Paul was right.
Women generally vet someone she's dating with her female friends. A man generally is going to be far better at vetting other men, in fact they're slightly better at vetting people in general, Especially older men - like a father - coming from the point of experience are better at it. They were young once, know what motivates men and sense BS pretty well. Women are generally more sensitive than men as such generally more vulnerable due their emotions come into play, they tend to weight those more. Sensitivity, like any trait and quality that is both good and bad, women are more susceptible to negative emotion - what that results in is they're often more alert to threats earlier on the flip side of that they'll see threats where none exist, that's one reason why women may fall into depression more often than men. When it comes positive emotion on the other hand, we all tend to let our guard down. Generally speaking males tend to know better, they quantify positives, because most their life all the little things which had been positive for them often seem short lived, they're just so use to reaching beyond for the next rung on the ladder.
This is what women are struggling with...Finding a man they can bond with and trying to impress her father and her peers at the same time.Its a big part of the problem...
Pam was presented that way, but Pam was sexually involved with another man when the show started. Way back when (say pre 1960s) that alone would have been enough for an upstanding man to avoid getting involved.
women think they are OWED, when they are NOT. Being strong and independent means NOT being dependent on anything anyone -- including what they want to imagine others 'owe' them.
Yep, my ex literally told me I could never understand her trauma and how stressful and hard she works....she comes from a pretty well off family, had spent the last 4 years literally working at a fantasy land (Disney) and currently was working as a call center person. Her trauma was a lazy boyfriend and rude customers. I'm a cop that has a second job, I work 9 12 hour shifts In a row. My trauma is watching people die, fighting people, shootings, child abuse, sexuak violence, traumatic injures. Sure I don't understand hard work or trauma your life Is so hard.
There was a show I think online, where they asking women why men should want to get married. What's in it for him? The question seemed to be confusing. Answers usually started with "Huh?"
That woman's jar analogy is incomplete. What she forgot to mention is that there are several other jars sitting on the counter, but she's only been reaching into the jar that says "Chad" on it while neglecting all the other jars that she feels her hand is too good for.
its not Just women, its a pandemic in basically all societies. No one talks about Principles, Values, Morals, etc and its even got 2 or 3 steps past that, where they are looked at as bad things to have or be shamed for.
"I don't want a financial burden in our household, at all." What does she mean? There is a difference between having everything paid for, and not having any burden at all. Life has costs. We must make trade-offs. We have to put effort into life. We have to earn and maintain it. That is what makes it exciting and worthwhile. Work (both in and out of the home) is not separate from the life we work to support. Working is an important part of life. Saying she does not want to work is like saying she wants to have less life. Moreover, self-worth is not intrinsic or automatic. We have to do work and contribute to the lives of others in order to be worth our salt.
Young people have a lot of energy. When you start passing thirty, unless you’re into fitness,your energy drops dramatically. Then things take one effort. Like takes more effort. Especially if you haven’t set up you life when you had the energy.
Women got to stop asking for a good man and do the work to earn the good man. In this video, I see women talk about how much they can take from men, but not what they can give to them.
The M&M girl forgot that there are 4times the amount outside the jar than inside, it's just not the colour she likes (which are the average guys) forgetting the colours are the smallest part of the M&M's.
Pearl, I was so close to giving women a chance for marriage, but then I hear of women divorcing after 5 months of marriage and then I come back to reality. ✝️
I am a man. I have a professional career in a global industry but some years ago I put myself through a professional chef course. I can cook in any mid to high end restaurant and have all the certificates. I used to be a farmer. I can grow food. I can do building. Its application to the task. I have two children and a successful marriage of 35 years. Everybody can do all that I can do with effort whether man or woman. It does take effort though. I just cooked lunch and ironed all my shirts. There is no soft life. There is a lazy life. I even decide on paint colours and paint the walls.
I have never seen these 'skrong, independent' women changing a tire on the side of the road. They don't even know where the oil goes in their car. They believe the car runs on 'hopes and dreams'.😂
Women who are stable, grounded, and content would not be “making” these videos. They think they are being clever, coy, and witty, but only project self absorbed despair.
@@PatI-zg9gm I concur, tbh I wish It wasn't like this. Maybe it's me (eh, sometimes it is lol) but these displays seem more like a vocal "tell your story" therapy session. How intentional that is I'm not sure.
Always after the two major holidays, back at work, older women start complaining about spending hours making a special meal for the family, relatives, after they worked hard at their job all week, so hating every minute of it, afterwards saying, 'Then everyone gobbles it down, not giving a word of appreciation, thanks to me. Grrrr!'
As long as the Divorce Court is separating the daughter from the father, these young girls have no idea how to choose a appropriate man, nor do the young girls know how to become mature and be a partner. The bedroom activity is Destroying Young girls and women.
Funny thing about cooking. My dad taught all 6 of his kids to cook. When we grew up and started our own families, only i (with my ex-wife) and my little sister had spouses who could also cook. None of my 4 sisters in law could cook. I also think this is why so many young people are having trouble getting by on twice what I ever earned.
Yup! You nailed it at the end. Men are simple creatures. We like appreciation. We always like to test humility. Something most women just don’t get or in these modern days even have anymore. One of the biggest turn off to a man is a self absorbed, deserves it all, blabber mouth, exposing it all, non humble woman. That’s an absolute no for us. It just shows red flags all over! Though deep down we know most want these things, when we see they have no self control, it’s an immediate 🤮. Huge turn off! The ones that are appreciative with the little things, we then learn to trust with more things after as we go because we test women all the time. But most women these days don’t get this at all anymore and why we’ve walked away and are tired of wasting our valuable time.
Men are also happiest when we are serving, we just do it in a different way. To serve someone the best you provide something they can't or are no good at.
yup. at one of the mass shootings at a concert, men were laying on top of women they had never met and using their own bodies as human shields to protect women against live ammunition being fired into the crowd. (how many bears would do that for a woman?) masculinity is about sacrifice. femininity is about giving. both are needed or civilization collapses.
Genesis 2:18 NIV The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” This is why as a woman you love to help.
U nailed it, Pearl! Gratitude is the only attitude to have. If not, it keeps u from being happy. It's the reason I left my 16-year marriage. She didn't appreciate me and everything I did around the house and for our kids. Oh well, her loss 🙂
Modern women think about Husband and Family when their bargaining chips start falling off the table. They wait till that power of control over the quality of Husband is already 90% depleted, scrambling to find a husband on a 10% probability.
Yes, appreciation, respect. and genuine affection. Arguments, for the most part, are unnecessary, and chip away at the connection, a little at a time. Men need to be respectful, protective, and loyal, and women need to avoid “at all costs” nagging, critiquing, and questioning what he does.
if serving food makes women happy then why are the waitresses miserable and quit??? Is it just because they dont want to be called Toots, and have their butts pinched?
Every successful person I know is selfish. It isn't a question of being selfish, though. It's a question of how one achieves their selfishness. Is it by working hard and cooperating with others? Or, is it through taking and using of others? A successful business person gets that way from serving customers and solving their problems. In turn, the customers are willing to pay for those services. Serve poorly and no one will pay for the services. Giving of yourself without return is a recipe for personal disappointment. Taking without regard to giving is the same.
As a woman, do not expect your life to be easy. You will work hard, but you will either work hard for your husband/boyfriend or your employer at your 9-5. Choose your hard.
I sure appreciate my husband. He does a lot for me and our household. I couldn’t imagine being without him. It’s never too late to find your husband. We got married after 9 years of dating. We still together after nearly 7 years as a married couple.
11:58 I love how in this analogy the woman doesn't consider looking while sticking her hand in, aka using other peoples judgement to factor into selection
@@joeking6762 My Grandmas were born in 1921 and 1929, respectively. Both were taught to cook by their mothers. In the 1960s, TV propaganda encouraged mothers NOT to teach their daughters any domestic work to ensure they would be modern women. Indeed, my own mother is a awful cook to this day at 75 years old.
Women are wired to view relationships primarily thru the lens of what the man must do for her; how he must relieve her; how he must cater to her. Rarely is it about what she can do for him
To be fair, many of us men will open a car door for a woman. However, the woman shouldn't demand it. She behaved like a spoiled princess. I want a woman who lowers my stress. I also like to do what I can for them. Unfortunately, I don't have such luck.
Schrodinger's feminism, is now becoming Schrodinger's traditionalism. They decide whether or not they are going to be traditional based on how much money and how much they can get out of their husband's/boyfriends.
The girl with the M&M analogy was interesting. Nobody was telling her any of the stuff she was saying about why she should stick her hand in the jar, but it was actually that it was her telling herself to do it. Also, to call everyone maggots, nails, and acid is kind of insane. She's unironically referring to the toxic guys that all of the girls get with, the M&M's being the literal top guys (whom women have demonstrated that they won't be happy with anyway and will only want to change), while about 75%-85% of everything else is something that is so invisible to her that it automatically gets lumped in with everything else. Sad.
I was brought up with male manners at home i will never sit before my mother and wife (girl friend) at the dinner table. I have two daughters at home or when we are out I open the doors for them . My daughter have taught her son and daughter respect and manners
Serving and feeding my others gives me satisfaction enough to even curb my appetite. Yep, making food feeds your appetite every time. Look for it when you cook. It's there.
I've been divorced forever, maybe 10 years and I'd love a companion to be honest. My boys are 18 &16 and I co parent with my ex, so they don't need a father, but I'd still love a good influence for them.
13:48 men want women who cook and clean, aka a mommy. but women want men to provide and protect, aka a daddy. It's all the same. The difference is, men don't shame women for wanting a parent-replacement.
I do wonder if men and women have different energy levels. A lot of the women in these clips talk about how tired they are from doing so much, but when I have a busy day (as in busy at work and then more work afterwards) I thrive on it, something tells me I'm doing good and to keep going. Even when I had finished last night around 9.30pm I picked up some other things to do as I was in the zone. No thoughts of when I get to sit down and relax.
1:00 Men derive SATISFACTION from "building something with their hands" (which typically is used by more than themselves) ... women can get the same from "cooking something from scratch FOR OTHERS". [I just cleaned a small but much-used pedestrian bridge from the grit they covered it with against the winter snow ... and after two months of government inaction I did it myself and received the thanks from several people with dogs who use that to get to the forest on the other side. A small job but a satisfying one.]
Pearl: all women should watch the following movies 100 times each. This is the learning and prescription to solve the current situation. Quiet Man-- subject dating. McClintok-- subject family discipline. Rio Grande-- Family Reconciliation. My Man Godfrey-- First Love, Society Standards, and Manners.
Work out how much it will cost you to buy and rent a very small house and how much it would cost for old age to try and rent and going into aged care it's still better to have a home ✌️
"...something about feeding people and serving people...." Cooking implies care. The one cooking cares about the people they are serving. In many ways it's an act of love. Maybe not romantic love, but good will love. Loving those in your life you are cooking for.
I don't have much sympathy for the single moms constantly whining about how hard they have it. I was a single dad with my oldest son from just after his first birthday until he was 9 when I got with my second wife. Never had one penny of help or child support from the first wife who was supposed to have alternate weekends and holidays but flaked 85% of her visitation time. I didn't mind her flaking but it hurt the kid. My second wife was a good traditional woman, we celebrated our 20th last fall. She passed unexpectedly on 1/5/24 so I'm doing the single dad routine with our youngest son who's semi verbal autistic. Being a single parent isn't that hard unless you're disorganized, lazy or stupid. At most it costs me an additional 90 minutes a day to do the cooking, cleaning and child chores. If you're organized you can cut that down to 45 minutes by cooking for more than one day at a time. I miss my wife, I wish she was still with us. But not because I'm not capable of an extra 45-90 minutes a day of chores. I wish she was here because she was a wonderful person and is missing out on the time and memories with the kids. These whiny, self involved, narcissistic single moms that constantly complain for victim points can byte me. I wish there was more to keep me busy in the evenings after the kid goes to bed and the house gets so quiet and empty.
"I'm not his mommy" is just a clever (or not so clever, really) way of saying: "I do not want to make beds, or cook, or clean." But they want you to pay for everything, of course. Men should respond with "And I am not your daddy."
Ooof... masculinity is not selfish. It is driven, purposeful, targeted, but not selfish. The entire point of the male drive is to build oneself up to be able to feed, care, protect, house, clothe, and entertain a family. How is that at all selfish?
You know, i think we have all seen people have a relationship, then spend years cycling through several partners before ending up with someone almost exactly the same as their first partner, i think its all a waste of time trying to look for the right person, anyone will do at the end of the day within some reason
Yes, there is nothing cosmic or magical about a relationship. We will not do better than a good man, or a good woman. Respect. shared ideals, adequate attraction, grasp of commitment. There is “no” point wasting ten years to end up with the same type of guy you encountered when you were 23.
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Masculinity builds everything for women and society, that's not selfish. Same for when we are in gov't, it's for everyone, when whoooa - mun do it, it's ONLY for them. Same for "someone to pay for me" not "someone to love".
Modern women are inclined and even psychologically conditioned to be narcissists. When are *real* solutions going to be discussed instead of constantly showing examples of the problem???
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A father can honestly assess his daughter’s raw beauty potential and pick the appropriate man. A young woman has no clue what the world thinks and wouldn’t listen if she was told.
It's becoming more and more apparent that the traditional cultures that did things like that knew a lot about women and those evil oppressive patriarchal rules were there for a good reason. I used to be offended at the whole "I do not permit a woman to speak over a man" type verses in the Bible but... after seeing women in control... St Paul was right.
THIS.
Women generally vet someone she's dating with her female friends.
A man generally is going to be far better at vetting other men, in fact they're slightly better at vetting people in general, Especially older men - like a father - coming from the point of experience are better at it. They were young once, know what motivates men and sense BS pretty well.
Women are generally more sensitive than men as such generally more vulnerable due their emotions come into play, they tend to weight those more.
Sensitivity, like any trait and quality that is both good and bad, women are more susceptible to negative emotion - what that results in is they're often more alert to threats earlier on the flip side of that they'll see threats where none exist, that's one reason why women may fall into depression more often than men.
When it comes positive emotion on the other hand, we all tend to let our guard down. Generally speaking males tend to know better, they quantify positives, because most their life all the little things which had been positive for them often seem short lived, they're just so use to reaching beyond for the next rung on the ladder.
Stupidity is difficult for everyone, man or woman. Lol
This is what women are struggling with...Finding a man they can bond with and trying to impress her father and her peers at the same time.Its a big part of the problem...
‘There’s more happiness in giving, than receiving.’
That applies to everyone, young and old, men and women, you name it.
This is why Jim liked Pam in the office. That shy little smile from behind the desk was literally all a man needs to work for a lifetime.
So the script was written.
@@exothermal.sprocketit used to be like that. 50, 60, 70 years ago maybe.
I liked Pam, and I never watched the show, just saw portions in other media.
And Pam was married and was totally cool deceiving the hubby because.....why again was it? Oh0 yeah, just because.
Pam was presented that way, but Pam was sexually involved with another man when the show started. Way back when (say pre 1960s) that alone would have been enough for an upstanding man to avoid getting involved.
Women live life on easy mode and think they are on hardcore mode. And when reality hits home, they cry victim.
women think they are OWED, when they are NOT. Being strong and independent means NOT being dependent on anything anyone -- including what they want to imagine others 'owe' them.
Disney lies to little girls for decades... and still does...
Yep, my ex literally told me I could never understand her trauma and how stressful and hard she works....she comes from a pretty well off family, had spent the last 4 years literally working at a fantasy land (Disney) and currently was working as a call center person. Her trauma was a lazy boyfriend and rude customers. I'm a cop that has a second job, I work 9 12 hour shifts In a row. My trauma is watching people die, fighting people, shootings, child abuse, sexuak violence, traumatic injures. Sure I don't understand hard work or trauma your life Is so hard.
There was a show I think online, where they asking women why men should want to get married. What's in it for him?
The question seemed to be confusing. Answers usually started with "Huh?"
That woman's jar analogy is incomplete. What she forgot to mention is that there are several other jars sitting on the counter, but she's only been reaching into the jar that says "Chad" on it while neglecting all the other jars that she feels her hand is too good for.
Damn, the entitled laziness is out of this world.
Why is it that I never hear women discussing integrity and character...?
its not Just women, its a pandemic in basically all societies. No one talks about Principles, Values, Morals, etc and its even got 2 or 3 steps past that, where they are looked at as bad things to have or be shamed for.
6:26 - Single Divorced Single Mother asking for soft life with zero leverage and nothing to offer. She'll be window shopping for a long time. Smh
What she doesn't realize is that the M&M's in the jar don't want her.
That why they set up the dirty needle/acid security system.
That M&M analogy was the the most tortured analogy I have ever heard.
"I don't want a financial burden in our household, at all."
What does she mean? There is a difference between having everything paid for, and not having any burden at all.
Life has costs. We must make trade-offs. We have to put effort into life. We have to earn and maintain it. That is what makes it exciting and worthwhile.
Work (both in and out of the home) is not separate from the life we work to support. Working is an important part of life. Saying she does not want to work is like saying she wants to have less life.
Moreover, self-worth is not intrinsic or automatic. We have to do work and contribute to the lives of others in order to be worth our salt.
Both masculinity and femininity are selfless! Protection and provision are not selfish traits.
Young people have a lot of energy. When you start passing thirty, unless you’re into fitness,your energy drops dramatically. Then things take one effort. Like takes more effort. Especially if you haven’t set up you life when you had the energy.
No truer words spoken: Men bite their tongue constantly! Yes we do! And constantly!
Women got to stop asking for a good man and do the work to earn the good man. In this video, I see women talk about how much they can take from men, but not what they can give to them.
You have almost 2 mil! Early congrats pearl. Keep going on your path, your doing great.
Thank you!
feeding people makes everyone feel good
The M&M girl forgot that there are 4times the amount outside the jar than inside, it's just not the colour she likes (which are the average guys) forgetting the colours are the smallest part of the M&M's.
Pearl, I was so close to giving women a chance for marriage, but then I hear of women divorcing after 5 months of marriage and then I come back to reality. ✝️
I am a man. I have a professional career in a global industry but some years ago I put myself through a professional chef course. I can cook in any mid to high end restaurant and have all the certificates. I used to be a farmer. I can grow food. I can do building. Its application to the task. I have two children and a successful marriage of 35 years. Everybody can do all that I can do with effort whether man or woman. It does take effort though. I just cooked lunch and ironed all my shirts. There is no soft life. There is a lazy life.
I even decide on paint colours and paint the walls.
I have never seen these 'skrong, independent' women changing a tire on the side of the road. They don't even know where the oil goes in their car. They believe the car runs on 'hopes and dreams'.😂
So right, but they do know how to find the curb with the right front tire
They are not giving up being strong and independent, they are just giving up the act
I learned years ago to stay away from royalty.
I'm just shocked that the black lady's smoke alarm isn't chirping.
these women are psychologically and emotionally broken, everything they say and do is a cope...it's actually kind of sad
Women who are stable, grounded, and content would not be “making” these videos. They think they are being clever, coy, and witty, but only project self absorbed despair.
@@PatI-zg9gm I concur, tbh I wish It wasn't like this. Maybe it's me (eh, sometimes it is lol) but these displays seem more like a vocal "tell your story" therapy session. How intentional that is I'm not sure.
Thank you, I appreciate you speaking up and calling out this disaster.
Always after the two major holidays, back at work, older women start complaining about spending hours making a special meal for the family, relatives, after they worked hard at their job all week, so hating every minute of it, afterwards saying, 'Then everyone gobbles it down, not giving a word of appreciation, thanks to me. Grrrr!'
As long as the Divorce Court is separating the daughter from the father, these young girls have no idea how to choose a appropriate man, nor do the young girls know how to become mature and be a partner.
The bedroom activity is Destroying Young girls and women.
Funny thing about cooking. My dad taught all 6 of his kids to cook. When we grew up and started our own families, only i (with my ex-wife) and my little sister had spouses who could also cook. None of my 4 sisters in law could cook.
I also think this is why so many young people are having trouble getting by on twice what I ever earned.
Women today expect everything, and appreciate nothing.
And recipricate nothing.
No I take it back.
They recipricate with more demands and endless complaints and more work.
Yup! You nailed it at the end. Men are simple creatures. We like appreciation. We always like to test humility. Something most women just don’t get or in these modern days even have anymore. One of the biggest turn off to a man is a self absorbed, deserves it all, blabber mouth, exposing it all, non humble woman. That’s an absolute no for us. It just shows red flags all over! Though deep down we know most want these things, when we see they have no self control, it’s an immediate 🤮. Huge turn off! The ones that are appreciative with the little things, we then learn to trust with more things after as we go because we test women all the time. But most women these days don’t get this at all anymore and why we’ve walked away and are tired of wasting our valuable time.
Men are also happiest when we are serving, we just do it in a different way. To serve someone the best you provide something they can't or are no good at.
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Masculine is selfless like running into a burning building for the helpless masculinity is not selfish
Yea she DEFINITELY got that part wrong. I was shocked that she got that part so backwards. smh Very disappointing.
yup. at one of the mass shootings at a concert, men were laying on top of women they had never met and using their own bodies as human shields to protect women against live ammunition being fired into the crowd. (how many bears would do that for a woman?)
masculinity is about sacrifice. femininity is about giving. both are needed or civilization collapses.
Genesis 2:18 NIV
The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” This is why as a woman you love to help.
Well, there's her problem, she's looking for Eminem, not M&M's!!
Your Great Pearl Davis
U nailed it, Pearl! Gratitude is the only attitude to have. If not, it keeps u from being happy. It's the reason I left my 16-year marriage. She didn't appreciate me and everything I did around the house and for our kids. Oh well, her loss 🙂
Modern women think about Husband and Family when their bargaining chips start falling off the table.
They wait till that power of control over the quality of Husband is already 90% depleted, scrambling to find a husband on a 10% probability.
Appreciation is the best reward for a man or woman. If make your spouse feel appreciated then you will be fine
Yes, appreciation, respect. and genuine affection. Arguments, for the most part, are unnecessary, and chip away at the connection, a little at a time. Men need to be respectful, protective, and loyal, and women need to avoid “at all costs” nagging, critiquing, and questioning what he does.
The M&M woman needs to realize she isn't finding M&M's in the jar because she preselected a jar without M&M's.
if serving food makes women happy then why are the waitresses miserable and quit??? Is it just because they dont want to be called Toots, and have their butts pinched?
Women expect men to "carry the badge of honor" in silence. Speak up that you are stressed and watch their indifference because "that's your job".
Every successful person I know is selfish.
It isn't a question of being selfish, though. It's a question of how one achieves their selfishness. Is it by working hard and cooperating with others? Or, is it through taking and using of others?
A successful business person gets that way from serving customers and solving their problems. In turn, the customers are willing to pay for those services. Serve poorly and no one will pay for the services.
Giving of yourself without return is a recipe for personal disappointment. Taking without regard to giving is the same.
They want all the benefits and credit without earning It; most, not
All modern women that is!
Married Women are heroes ❤️
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As a woman, do not expect your life to be easy. You will work hard, but you will either work hard for your husband/boyfriend or your employer at your 9-5. Choose your hard.
If your ever in Perth, Western Australia, Pearl, I'll cook for you, and can be your tour guide... Luv Ya
Wazza..😊😅😮😢🎉😂❤❤❤
Red Flag: She wants to pollute the ocean with her M&M container.
If a woman chose to “serve” me…there is very little I would not do!
I see why our antibiotics won't work anymore if all around the world people can buy it like freakin candy...
I sure appreciate my husband. He does a lot for me and our household. I couldn’t imagine being without him. It’s never too late to find your husband. We got married after 9 years of dating. We still together after nearly 7 years as a married couple.
11:58
I love how in this analogy the woman doesn't consider looking while sticking her hand in, aka using other peoples judgement to factor into selection
Cooking for other people is in the female DNA
Personally, I haven't seen a female who could cook since my Grandmother's generation.
Is it, since when?!
@@joeking6762 My Grandmas were born in 1921 and 1929, respectively. Both were taught to cook by their mothers. In the 1960s, TV propaganda encouraged mothers NOT to teach their daughters any domestic work to ensure they would be modern women. Indeed, my own mother is a awful cook to this day at 75 years old.
This generation click Uber eats or make Mac and cheese, that's it
It's rough boiling water. Might burn it.
Masculinity selfish. Nope. Focused on the long game. Also, mentor someone.
A woman's boundaries are really goalposts, which they will move at a whim.
My last comment was deleted by RUclips, the only message i want to say. Men get a dog instead of a woman.
The lady in the glasses Left.
Her husband for some guy..She thought she could do better. Or she got bored She found out it wasn't gonna be fun.
Pearl, thank you so very much indeed 😅😅😅
They don’t want to be strong and independent after the divorce and kids. Too late. You made your choices, live with them.
Women are wired to view relationships primarily thru the lens of what the man must do for her; how he must relieve her; how he must cater to her. Rarely is it about what she can do for him
Get em pearl! We need more women like you in the world, it would be a better place. 😊
Why are they shocked, women don't participate in dating they get catered to
That man is quite classy. He's a smart, interesting individual.
13:40 Overestimating the value of your contributions is a narcissistic trait.
To be fair, many of us men will open a car door for a woman. However, the woman shouldn't demand it. She behaved like a spoiled princess.
I want a woman who lowers my stress. I also like to do what I can for them.
Unfortunately, I don't have such luck.
Schrodinger's feminism, is now becoming Schrodinger's traditionalism. They decide whether or not they are going to be traditional based on how much money and how much they can get out of their husband's/boyfriends.
Just want to say that the dress pearl is wearing shows how really pretty she is
Unfortunately young girls are no longer raised to become loving nurturing wives and mothers.
True in the west.
M&M analogy was completely ridiculous. Went from bad to worse, showing an amazing lack of self reflection.
I'm going to be a "good Man"... For the right price.
The girl with the M&M analogy was interesting. Nobody was telling her any of the stuff she was saying about why she should stick her hand in the jar, but it was actually that it was her telling herself to do it. Also, to call everyone maggots, nails, and acid is kind of insane. She's unironically referring to the toxic guys that all of the girls get with, the M&M's being the literal top guys (whom women have demonstrated that they won't be happy with anyway and will only want to change), while about 75%-85% of everything else is something that is so invisible to her that it automatically gets lumped in with everything else. Sad.
I was brought up with male manners at home i will never sit before my mother and wife (girl friend) at the dinner table. I have two daughters at home or when we are out I open the doors for them . My daughter have taught her son and daughter respect and manners
Serving and feeding my others gives me satisfaction enough to even curb my appetite. Yep, making food feeds your appetite every time.
Look for it when you cook. It's there.
The M&M lady's tone throughout her whole analogy is very cringe worthy. Personally it's a big red flag.
I've been divorced forever, maybe 10 years and I'd love a companion to be honest. My boys are 18 &16 and I co parent with my ex, so they don't need a father, but I'd still love a good influence for them.
13:48 men want women who cook and clean, aka a mommy.
but women want men to provide and protect, aka a daddy.
It's all the same. The difference is, men don't shame women for wanting a parent-replacement.
Pearl! Would love to see you do a dating line-up to really see the compatibility and create some wholesome partnerships
I do wonder if men and women have different energy levels. A lot of the women in these clips talk about how tired they are from doing so much, but when I have a busy day (as in busy at work and then more work afterwards) I thrive on it, something tells me I'm doing good and to keep going. Even when I had finished last night around 9.30pm I picked up some other things to do as I was in the zone. No thoughts of when I get to sit down and relax.
1:00 Men derive SATISFACTION from "building something with their hands" (which typically is used by more than themselves) ... women can get the same from "cooking something from scratch FOR OTHERS".
[I just cleaned a small but much-used pedestrian bridge from the grit they covered it with against the winter snow ... and after two months of government inaction I did it myself and received the thanks from several people with dogs who use that to get to the forest on the other side. A small job but a satisfying one.]
Im interested, I'm getting that med kit, for my bug out bag, as well as vitamins, minerals, antibiotics on my own made med kit. Thank you
Most good men want to serve their family, and other too, just in different ways than women. It can be beaten out of you though.
Pearl: all women should watch the following movies 100 times each. This is the learning and prescription to solve the current situation. Quiet Man-- subject dating. McClintok-- subject family discipline. Rio Grande-- Family Reconciliation. My Man Godfrey-- First Love, Society Standards, and Manners.
The m and m girl missed the point. The question was a basic yes or no answer. Women.
They are the only ones that are shocked..
Work out how much it will cost you to buy and rent a very small house and how much it would cost for old age to try and rent and going into aged care it's still better to have a home ✌️
John Holmes figured life was a Carnival Cruise, due to something between his legs.
Folks should point out just how well that worked for him.
"...something about feeding people and serving people...."
Cooking implies care.
The one cooking cares about the people they are serving. In many ways it's an act of love. Maybe not romantic love, but good will love. Loving those in your life you are cooking for.
I thought the M&M girl was talking about being a man looking for an M&M.
She doesn't need to date. Get some cats and call it,lady
I don't have much sympathy for the single moms constantly whining about how hard they have it. I was a single dad with my oldest son from just after his first birthday until he was 9 when I got with my second wife. Never had one penny of help or child support from the first wife who was supposed to have alternate weekends and holidays but flaked 85% of her visitation time. I didn't mind her flaking but it hurt the kid. My second wife was a good traditional woman, we celebrated our 20th last fall. She passed unexpectedly on 1/5/24 so I'm doing the single dad routine with our youngest son who's semi verbal autistic.
Being a single parent isn't that hard unless you're disorganized, lazy or stupid. At most it costs me an additional 90 minutes a day to do the cooking, cleaning and child chores. If you're organized you can cut that down to 45 minutes by cooking for more than one day at a time. I miss my wife, I wish she was still with us. But not because I'm not capable of an extra 45-90 minutes a day of chores. I wish she was here because she was a wonderful person and is missing out on the time and memories with the kids.
These whiny, self involved, narcissistic single moms that constantly complain for victim points can byte me. I wish there was more to keep me busy in the evenings after the kid goes to bed and the house gets so quiet and empty.
Who’s this guy Pearl? He is smooth and perceptive. He is good.
"I'm not his mommy" is just a clever (or not so clever, really) way of saying: "I do not want to make beds, or cook, or clean." But they want you to pay for everything, of course. Men should respond with "And I am not your daddy."
Home maker women are strong independent women. They take care of so much. Just stop and think about it
spot on
Ooof... masculinity is not selfish. It is driven, purposeful, targeted, but not selfish. The entire point of the male drive is to build oneself up to be able to feed, care, protect, house, clothe, and entertain a family. How is that at all selfish?
Get the Godmothers likes up mayne. 👍👍👍👍👍👍
Meanwhile there’s a whole bag of Mn’M’s right next to her that she completely ignores because her friend only mentioned the ones in jar of horrors.
You know, i think we have all seen people have a relationship, then spend years cycling through several partners before ending up with someone almost exactly the same as their first partner, i think its all a waste of time trying to look for the right person, anyone will do at the end of the day within some reason
Yes, there is nothing cosmic or magical about a relationship. We will not do better than a good man, or a good woman. Respect. shared ideals, adequate attraction, grasp of commitment. There is “no” point wasting ten years to end up with the same type of guy you encountered when you were 23.
I don’t want to hear the word “maggot” once a year, let alone ten times in three minutes.