My sweet and cranky husband seldom if ever said to me that he loved me. After he died, his two remaining sisters told me how he told Them I was the love of his life. I was jealous for a while of the words, given to them when those words may have eased the ache as I tried to navigate his illness. But every time I started to turn the dial to that channel, up popped what he did say. Any time we were in deep, for better or for worse, he would end with these: " We're gonna make it, Annie." I never quite understood what race he was running, and didn't ask. I got it just before he passed. There was a slight change. "We made it, Annie." And I knew. Out of 12, he was the only one who married and stayed married. And you gave me some beautiful words to describe the process. Thank you for bringing it home.
I loved every minute of this. Thank you! Be honest with people, allow men to lead, encourage them to lead, lean on them to do things for us, and don’t do the things for yourself if he’s “taking too long” to do the things. Thanks Rabbi
Also gave a woman to adam so he doesnt live lonely in paradise, before the fall.but now have you ever made love and think of god?¿? Respectfully thank you.!!!
As a child , because I was only child for 7 years, I learned to be happy being alone. I didnt need to be with someone to be happy. I married, had 7 children but always felt " separate"
Respectfully, "For love" should mean because of true friendship, caring, acceptance, even admiration of the person you love. Your spouse should be a person that arouses an internal emotion of elation, happiness, and a desire to be faithful to that person in every way. That is why you should marry. Love is very much explained in the Bible. Also, you speak of aloneness - this is because God said it is not good for man to be alone. God's Word is mighty indeed.
Mutual respect......my husband only told me he loved me about 10 times in 32 years but I knew he respected me and that was better than those words. Our lives were a match made by God. And the sex was fabulous.
@FatherJohnny-oh4dh it could have been but I did not live in that time so it is impossible to be sure however given that surviving and security was a necessity, love could have been disguised but not as bad as the current years where i find it blatantly obvious 😉
It’s always conditional since the beginning of time 😂! And men wrapped it in call love but the reason why they wanted women in their lives is not really love
I underrated the chabad @ first but been my 19 anniversary I decided to go all the way, now I fill like my grandfather is talking to me, 🎉 thanx for the talk I'm really a changed husband after this talks.
Interesting how Jewish people call God Hashim meaning the name I failed to see when it’s mentioned over 2000 thousand times in the Bible that they don’t use Yahweh.
Said with the highest respect to you, Rabbi, but wrt God loving anyone, or in this case, the Jews/Israelites, was something lost in translation in our Bibles: However, the Lord your God would not listen to Bilaam but turned the curse into a blessing for you, because the Lord your God loves you” (Deut. 23:4-5). 15: 38
@@wonders8561 I am based in Soweto, Johannesburg, South Africa, It's a blessing for me to pray for someone far away from my country for them to get married, I will be waiting for your testimony when God shall have directed you to your wife
Hallow thanks for the teachings , it has been part of my internal thought to be a good teacher in life things especially phylosophy teach me and can you allow me to repost your teachings in my people language so as they also my hear you the problem Is sometimes you speak in judaism language and am not familiar with it teach me that also
Love is unity everything in the universe from tiny subatomic particles to the massive fusion reactors in the stars is based on unity but the type of unity we are talking about is love but not just any love "agape"which is simply joy at another's existence its a bond of kindness given regardless of who the person is much like you so eloquently put are lives themselves are gifts without us having to pay for them we are simply because God willed it out of his beneficence. Life itself is an act of charity to us.but back to my original point unity is God because the nature of the universe reflects it. All order stems from unity and consider your people have made it as long as they have because the unity between them the bond between Jews who are like brothers and sisters. Unity is everything so why not God?
Objection: I disagree with the male_female relationship dynamic. Nowadays, a man might be comfortable being a provider, caregiver, or a girl a supporter.... However, this can change instantly in a few days, given the female opportunity to earn more than a male. May you advise in case this happens, the time a man is no longer able to provide and that a woman feels uncomfortable providing? Nowadays, females earn more than males, and it would sound selfish for females to expect males they triple the income to be providers. The said dynamic is no longer practical.
So in principle you agree that emancipation of women has disrupted the order God created. Men were meant to be the head of their family, provide for them, take responsibility for them and take the rap for wrong decisions. Today they take the rap even if they are no longer allowed to make the decisions they are supposedly responsible for. How messed up have we become!
Unfortunately he didn't understand what love is. God told us to love our enemies. He did not mean we should have sex with them or have good feelings about them. The world has deceived us to redefine the opposite of love which is simply our prideful selfish desires or lust as love. God is truth and love. How can HE both? Truth is a noun, who HE IS. LOVE IS a verb, WHAT HE DOES. THE TRUTH IN ACTION IS LOVE not sex or feelings. First Corinthians 13 the love chapter in the old King James version revealed the true meaning of love. It was called charity which is selflessly serving the needs of others. The opposite lust is selfishly being served or getting what we want like sex. Loving our enemies would be giving them needed food or water, not trying to feel good that they may be there to kill us. The 2 great commandments to love God and our neighbor is to serve them or their needs. So the wife doing the laundry if not doing it grudgingly was loving her husband. Another BIG LIE about love is that we no longer love someone because we lost the feelings. Feelings follow our actions. We lose the feelings because we quit acting in love. If we start loving we will feel it.
@NIF18 when people vow to marry till death does them apart, and they divorce, do you think they broke their vow? A vow can never be broken, it just means they died.
@@NIF18 they're not the same soul anymore. the old soul has been cut off and replaced, it's at the cost of the life of the soul that divorce took place. continuity of self is then just an illusion, caused by the inheritance of memory
Interesting ... I agree that God is above everything, including love ... but, there is something eternal about love, something Homey about love, something responsible about love ... so, I disagree that Home, and Responsibility (doing your duty), and even possessing are MORE important than Love ... they are aspects of Love, especially of AGAPE love. And yet ... we don't define God at all ... He can only define Himself... but, we do get a closer look at Who he is through the lens of AGAPE
The real GOD, does not want a servant or slave, the God of the Bible stories is not the true GOD. We are created to learn from our life experiences to give it all to our source, GOD.
For Narator and Comments, try to regain Your Child Heart or find and You will see the Truth God and You will ever live on the Taxes World but You must learn to fight with Instinct of Conservation first so, You do not need to speek to others.
He is absolutely 100% right?. But Let's identify the truth. Men will not marry you without the benefits of having sex. It's the great exchange. Men don't naturally give there protection and financial over just for good will there's something that comes out out for there benefit. So please don't us marriage as a example as God's loving covenant towards his people . Likewise you can't be in a relationship with the living God without experiencing heaven because God is heaven and that's the currency of his love.
Rabbi, as I understand it, in Christianity you go to heaven for free. The concept of grace and all. You don't earn points to go to heaven. As for what we do on Earth for 80 years, wellllll...
Going with the Christian fact of being saved by grace through faith. It aligns with what he is saying; If you just want to do what it takes to get to heaven then you end up being a performer yet nothing is ever enough. No amount of going to church or reading the Bible or praying or singing or doing whatever you think you have to do or not do. It's only by His grace through faith. The rest of the works are just fruits of that so enjoy the relationship with God and quit the performance or judging someone that has missed Sunday school forexample 😂
My sweet and cranky husband seldom if ever said to me that he loved me. After he died, his two remaining sisters told me how he told Them I was the love of his life. I was jealous for a while of the words, given to them when those words may have eased the ache as I tried to navigate his illness. But every time I started to turn the dial to that channel, up popped what he did say. Any time we were in deep, for better or for worse, he would end with these: " We're gonna make it, Annie." I never quite understood what race he was running, and didn't ask. I got it just before he passed. There was a slight change. "We made it, Annie." And I knew. Out of 12, he was the only one who married and stayed married. And you gave me some beautiful words to describe the process. Thank you for bringing it home.
Rabbi, I am sure Almighty God loves you very much and is very proud of you.
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I cried after i watched this. This has spoken to me more than any other teaching about relationships. Thankyou rabbi. ❤
Rabbi,you are a blessing for the sick world
Rabi Friedman thank you for being real.
I loved every minute of this. Thank you! Be honest with people, allow men to lead, encourage them to lead, lean on them to do things for us, and don’t do the things for yourself if he’s “taking too long” to do the things. Thanks Rabbi
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son…….
Also gave a woman to adam so he doesnt live lonely in paradise, before the fall.but now have you ever made love and think of god?¿? Respectfully thank you.!!!
I AM is unconditional love.
The condition is that you love so it’s not unconditional 😅
As a child , because I was only child for 7 years, I learned to be happy being alone. I didnt need to be with someone to be happy. I married, had 7 children but always felt " separate"
Rabbi you asked, where does it say in the bible God says love?
John 3:16 "GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON"
Thank you Rabbi, your words and teachings are a balm for the soul❤
Respectfully, "For love" should mean because of true friendship, caring, acceptance, even admiration of the person you love. Your spouse should be a person that arouses an internal emotion of elation, happiness, and a desire to be faithful to that person in every way. That is why you should marry. Love is very much explained in the Bible. Also, you speak of aloneness - this is because God said it is not good for man to be alone. God's Word is mighty indeed.
Thank you Rabbi Friedman!!💪✡️🙏❤️🔥🎶
Mutual respect......my husband only told me he loved me about 10 times in 32 years but I knew he respected me and that was better than those words. Our lives were a match made by God. And the sex was fabulous.
Love nowadays is conditional
And it wasn't a thousand years ago?
@FatherJohnny-oh4dh it could have been but I did not live in that time so it is impossible to be sure however given that surviving and security was a necessity, love could have been disguised but not as bad as the current years where i find it blatantly obvious 😉
It’s always conditional since the beginning of time 😂! And men wrapped it in call love but the reason why they wanted women in their lives is not really love
The story referenced right in the beginning of this segment refers to something quite different than "love and marriage" actually.... Check the story
God said...Believe, Hope & Love!
of which Love is the Greatest!
God's Grace towards Us,is Probably the Greatest Sign of Love!
I underrated the chabad @ first but been my 19 anniversary I decided to go all the way, now I fill like my grandfather is talking to me, 🎉 thanx for the talk I'm really a changed husband after this talks.
Interesting how Jewish people call God Hashim meaning the name I failed to see when it’s mentioned over 2000 thousand times in the Bible that they don’t use Yahweh.
it is a matter of respect for the NAME.
Love 💕 marriages relationships,trust and Truth are all suffering under the influence of materialism
Thank you Rabbi Friedman.
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Oh my God! This is the most important information l have ever heard in my life🎉
Said with the highest respect to you, Rabbi, but wrt God loving anyone, or in this case, the Jews/Israelites, was something lost in translation in our Bibles: However, the Lord your God would not listen to Bilaam but turned the curse into a blessing for you, because the Lord your God loves you” (Deut. 23:4-5).
15: 38
LOVE the story at 55:00!
Love is inanimate object, is feeling of admiration and acceptance being of adorable 💕.
Thank you Rabbi Friedman ❤
Salute you for being centered for it
Yup, i would love to marry. I pray to God for a wife ❤️
I pray that God works wonders by granting you the desire of your heart.
@@janshabangu991 Amen. Thanks.
@@wonders8561 I am based in Soweto, Johannesburg, South Africa, It's a blessing for me to pray for someone far away from my country for them to get married, I will be waiting for your testimony when God shall have directed you to your wife
You don't know what ur getting urself into but we all get into it anyway! 😅 Wish u the best!
Hallow thanks for the teachings , it has been part of my internal thought to be a good teacher in life things especially phylosophy teach me and can you allow me to repost your teachings in my people language so as they also my hear you the problem Is sometimes you speak in judaism language and am not familiar with it teach me that also
Thank you Rabbi. It's so insightful.
aah oo weee cool..and GREAT JOB ALL...THANX 4 MAKING Tee with LIONS NAMED LEO the music worldwide.
LOVE YOU ALL...!!!....MUCH LOVE.!!
One of the most value thing that i heard on chaos content media these days.
Rabbi you're presentation is awesome and came at the right time.
We love you.
Thank you Rabbi for the exposition is awesome.
I like 90% of this . Thank you
This message is very profound
What did he say, "work through a shatan?" for a relationship if you are older,
If we say love is a thing , does that mean that God is a thing as we view God as love because God is love ❤️.
I learned a lot
Love is unity everything in the universe from tiny subatomic particles to the massive fusion reactors in the stars is based on unity but the type of unity we are talking about is love but not just any love "agape"which is simply joy at another's existence its a bond of kindness given regardless of who the person is much like you so eloquently put are lives themselves are gifts without us having to pay for them we are simply because God willed it out of his beneficence.
Life itself is an act of charity to us.but back to my original point unity is God because the nature of the universe reflects it. All order stems from unity and consider your people have made it as long as they have because the unity between them the bond between Jews who are like brothers and sisters.
Unity is everything so why not God?
Objection: I disagree with the male_female relationship dynamic. Nowadays, a man might be comfortable being a provider, caregiver, or a girl a supporter.... However, this can change instantly in a few days, given the female opportunity to earn more than a male. May you advise in case this happens, the time a man is no longer able to provide and that a woman feels uncomfortable providing? Nowadays, females earn more than males, and it would sound selfish for females to expect males they triple the income to be providers. The said dynamic is no longer practical.
That's why women should stay at home and let men work outside... if that happened ..its much much better for both women and men
So in principle you agree that emancipation of women has disrupted the order God created. Men were meant to be the head of their family, provide for them, take responsibility for them and take the rap for wrong decisions. Today they take the rap even if they are no longer allowed to make the decisions they are supposedly responsible for. How messed up have we become!
Rabbi, so needed today, Hannie
Fantastic work!!! Thank you Rabbi!
Them with each other is “heaven”
very enlightening.. thank you Rabbi
Unity what makes you 1
Unfortunately he didn't understand what love is. God told us to love our enemies. He did not mean we should have sex with them or have good feelings about them. The world has deceived us to redefine the opposite of love which is simply our prideful selfish desires or lust as love. God is truth and love. How can HE both? Truth is a noun, who HE IS. LOVE IS a verb, WHAT HE DOES. THE TRUTH IN ACTION IS LOVE not sex or feelings. First Corinthians 13 the love chapter in the old King James version revealed the true meaning of love. It was called charity which is selflessly serving the needs of others. The opposite lust is selfishly being served or getting what we want like sex. Loving our enemies would be giving them needed food or water, not trying to feel good that they may be there to kill us. The 2 great commandments to love God and our neighbor is to serve them or their needs. So the wife doing the laundry if not doing it grudgingly was loving her husband. Another BIG LIE about love is that we no longer love someone because we lost the feelings. Feelings follow our actions. We lose the feelings because we quit acting in love. If we start loving we will feel it.
Godloveyou
They don't want to drive you crazy . They want company !
Let's just love each other till death do us apart, however death ends up expressing itself.
You've got me too curious. How many ways does death express itself?
@NIF18 when people vow to marry till death does them apart, and they divorce, do you think they broke their vow? A vow can never be broken, it just means they died.
@@AdamDylanMajorI certainly think they broke their vow. If they died how can they then marry someone else?
@@NIF18 they're not the same soul anymore. the old soul has been cut off and replaced, it's at the cost of the life of the soul that divorce took place. continuity of self is then just an illusion, caused by the inheritance of memory
Wow. That's wild
Rav, the big prob discovered are several snakes that invade. Its a game, a thing to win and to take away from the one woman.
Amen...
Rabbi Manis Friedman ❤❤❤ The most vital in all aspects of Life even spiritually is Ceremonial Marriage
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@@kerripendragon4888 deeper dived mystery
Great word!!!
Is there a way I can ask the Rabbi a question and Thank Rabbi Friedman. Stay well Rabbi
Can anyone tell me what word he used at 1:14:21? Is it some kind of dating intermediary?
Thanks in advance!
A “shaddchan” yes a matchmaker/intermediary
How do you love marriage if you've never experienced it
Actually
Sotrue
Verywiseman
Thank you for the insight..
I've been to that specific Airport (Entebbe). I've stood nxt that specific Aircraft... Just saying..
I find it hilarious how at 40:00 he gets all scientific all of a sudden.
What does married mean?
Book of jubilee said no sex on Sabbath.
I wonder why not accepted as scripture ??
Hmmmm ?
Interesting ... I agree that God is above everything, including love ... but, there is something eternal about love, something Homey about love, something responsible about love ... so, I disagree that Home, and Responsibility (doing your duty), and even possessing are MORE important than Love ... they are aspects of Love, especially of AGAPE love. And yet ... we don't define God at all ... He can only define Himself... but, we do get a closer look at Who he is through the lens of AGAPE
He gives a pretty decent talk.
Streets of London - Ralph McTell xxx
Amen
Don't need your money have tons especially when dead
Amen hallelujah
The real GOD, does not want a servant or slave, the God of the Bible stories is not the true GOD. We are created to learn from our life experiences to give it all to our source, GOD.
fascinating
Out of love for omnipotent
Why do people walk in front of the camera, that then blocks out the Rabbi.That is so rude
Just thought the same.
You and your higher self is a relationship it's the spiritual one, to death do you part in a righteous state of consciousness, my perspective.
For Narator and Comments, try to regain Your Child Heart or find and You will see the Truth God and You will ever live on the Taxes World but You must learn to fight with Instinct of Conservation first so, You do not need to speek to others.
True
You need to get education about both love and God
Dishonoring
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North Star
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He is absolutely 100% right?. But Let's identify the truth. Men will not marry you without the benefits of having sex. It's the great exchange. Men don't naturally give there protection and financial over just for good will there's something that comes out out for there benefit. So please don't us marriage as a example as God's loving covenant towards his people . Likewise you can't be in a relationship with the living God without experiencing heaven because God is heaven and that's the currency of his love.
muy linda la charla. ¿Qué hay de los miles de niños asesinados en Gazza?
All the horrific things in the world
Reflect that..... GOD is not real......
HUMAN create GOD,
An Atheist and a Scientist.
Very bad of it convenience.
Rabbi, as I understand it, in Christianity you go to heaven for free. The concept of grace and all. You don't earn points to go to heaven. As for what we do on Earth for 80 years, wellllll...
Going with the Christian fact of being saved by grace through faith. It aligns with what he is saying;
If you just want to do what it takes to get to heaven then you end up being a performer yet nothing is ever enough.
No amount of going to church or reading the Bible or praying or singing or doing whatever you think you have to do or not do.
It's only by His grace through faith. The rest of the works are just fruits of that so enjoy the relationship with God and quit the performance or judging someone that has missed Sunday school forexample 😂
Tantra at its best!
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