TOP 5 MISTAKES TO NEVER MAKE WHEN APPROACHING WOMEN

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  • @FITXFEARLESS
    @FITXFEARLESS  Год назад +9

    IF YOU WANT 1ON1 COACHING TO HELP YOU NEVER MAKE MISTAKES APPROACHING WOMEN
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    • @azadpeyma853438
      @azadpeyma853438 11 месяцев назад

      I don’t believe in that you don’t need woman at all. You say that you have a main chick that means you already have chick, I think your point is very unclear because you should say I don’t need a second girlfriend because I already have one. So we come to the point that you need a girlfriend anyway because otherwise you would stay single, even you have a great life, like you have a great job and have a great career, but your life is incomplete. It’s like you have puzzles 🧩 about 100 pieces but you only have 99 pieces you need that 1 bits to be completed. Every man need a woman.

  • @SPCBRAWLERZ
    @SPCBRAWLERZ Год назад +87

    1) caring about the outcome (don't)
    2) talking too fast (don't be roadrunner)
    3) memorizing lines (high value)
    4) forcing conversations when she isn't interested
    5) not making your intentions clear

  • @deanogordon2819
    @deanogordon2819 Год назад +160

    Approaching women is a simple move. Just do it naturally and don't care if you get the girl or not. No rehearsed lines or anything that is staged should take place when you're approaching women and no pick up lines. You have to make yourself be the same person that your friends and family know.

    • @dynamic9016
      @dynamic9016 Год назад +4

      I feel what you're saying.

    • @YuhhFeelMe
      @YuhhFeelMe Год назад +2

      I dont approach, never did n never will. Waste of time

    • @tracyclements1467
      @tracyclements1467 Год назад +7

      You get tired of constant rejections bro, that shit hurts inside. It's even worse when you hold it in. Negative emotions like sadness, stress, and depression,.
      Eventually all of that turns into pure rage towards women.

    • @natefnbr8494
      @natefnbr8494 Год назад +5

      Remember though, this is only true if your handsome.

    • @aq4681
      @aq4681 Год назад +1

      @@tracyclements1467 aka redpill rage bruh

  • @zacharychasse7051
    @zacharychasse7051 Год назад +24

    I think it’s also worth noting, that some girls are extremely nervous when you are a really attractive guy. Their nervousness can come across as disinterest, but they’re literally doing everything in their power to hold it together lol

  • @richardtate6812
    @richardtate6812 11 месяцев назад +6

    I have been going through a hard break-up with my now ex of 6 and a half years who I also had a child with. Bro, thank you for your videos, they have been bringing back my confidence that I use to have. I have gotten weak over the years focusing on my purpose and not socializing much because I didn't think I needed to anymore. Keep it up brother! Oohrah!

    • @paulmac3176
      @paulmac3176 11 месяцев назад

      Same brother currently going through a separation with 2 kids. I’m 34 and not been on the scene in over 10 years, Fitx definitely giving us the confidence back!

    • @warrr_machine
      @warrr_machine 10 месяцев назад

      💯

  • @ghostbuilder3187
    @ghostbuilder3187 Год назад +9

    Man fitxfearless is in a league of his own. Fire ass video, wish I knew of this in middle school

  • @zacharychasse7051
    @zacharychasse7051 Год назад +31

    Being fully present in the conversation and focusing on the moment itself is crucial for remaining calm cool and collected

  • @StylePoints14
    @StylePoints14 Год назад +23

    This is hands down the best dating advice I have ever heard. Don´t crawl or change you behavior for any woman. She will treat you with respect from the jump. She will want to go out with you more than you want to go out with her. If she is attracted to you she will make it easy. The game is always played before the interaction. How good looking are you. How much status do you have. Self improvement and confidence is king.

  • @dontevntrip8627
    @dontevntrip8627 Год назад +25

    I recommend not trying to “pick up” a girl instead wanting to get to know them. Be interested in them, curious about their lives, likes. Make conversation about those things find out what you both have in common. Too many of you go out thinking it’s sex or nothing and come off as thirsty and pushy. Step back and remember it’s about a connection between two people. It’s not a magic pick up line and escalation and you get the girl, that’s not how reality works

  • @The7thLove
    @The7thLove Год назад +26

    Regarding verbal game, I think having certain lines can be a good thing. With these lines tho, it’s just for logistics / convenience. Ex., new coworker: ‘Hey, I don’t think I’ve met you yet; I’m Jacob’ this is a line that you can use in many situations where you’re meeting / are expected to meet new people. One example of the usefulness/ convenience of having universal lines. They should be used as backup, a supplement, not the main strategy

    • @ronaldgiles3537
      @ronaldgiles3537 Год назад +1

      ThTs a good line to use I like that line you get right to the point

    • @JeffersonRah
      @JeffersonRah Год назад

      Yeah, I work in women's health. I'm the only male guy/nurse and I practice talking, flirting (professionally), etc to them. Fucking gold mine.

  • @juancho_v98tv8fv
    @juancho_v98tv8fv Год назад +2

    Facts 💯 I needed this type of video

  • @tylergamble8438
    @tylergamble8438 5 месяцев назад

    Brodie was spot on years ago and still spot on, today. Doing the opposite of all these things while on the self-improvement journey, you see the progression of results. Just stay true to it, remain humble, and don’t get satisfied.

  • @onetruth4878
    @onetruth4878 Год назад

    Man I Love this Guy. Saving lives out here!!!

  • @danielpa9826
    @danielpa9826 Год назад +6

    Underrated channel ON GOD! Take notes fellas these advices help!

  • @gokutvraw2236
    @gokutvraw2236 Год назад +6

    You are 100% right my brother

  • @AntoineLiles
    @AntoineLiles Год назад

    Thank you brother this is game I needed. Let’s take back our masculinity! Let’s go

  • @tom23j
    @tom23j Год назад +2

    Just found your channel and enjoy your content. Thanks man

  • @murilo9992
    @murilo9992 Год назад

    Spilling facts! I love reasonable advice, shit that actually makes sense, no perfect method bullshit, women aren't toys, if you try to play them all the same way, you're doomed to fail.
    "No bullshit advice" should be the name of your channel.

  • @matthewgriffin38
    @matthewgriffin38 Год назад +1

    I rock wit u flex. Your a young brother with game!! All the gems you give tell em 2 watch the move how to be a player!! Thats how my generation learned!! Its a great tool!! That and the movie Hitch!!

  • @cebtropico
    @cebtropico Год назад

    My Ears just exploded with your Intro 😅that’s POWER 💪

  • @Residentalfa
    @Residentalfa Год назад

    Great vid Fit🔥

  • @rashiawalton9541
    @rashiawalton9541 11 месяцев назад

    So many bangers bro. I've been sleeping

  • @scottide
    @scottide Год назад +3

    The first beat fire.

  • @soundvergo
    @soundvergo Год назад

    I Love the beats you use Fit X

  • @lubronnie0022
    @lubronnie0022 Год назад

    I'm a witness, you don't say nothing that don't work 💯

  • @ford2010
    @ford2010 Год назад

    Great advice..i recently made this deduction on my own lol. Its cake when they like you back.

  • @TSierra
    @TSierra Год назад +7

    What I do is to be the best version of yourself, be honest and act unbothered. Relax and chill, everything is going to be ok. If she rejects you, just move on. There’s plenty of fish in the sea.

  • @robinsmolders3239
    @robinsmolders3239 Год назад

    Dude, no disrepect here. Only the way you're explaining things is sooo funny to me. Hehehe. Really humorously.

  • @IntegraDIY
    @IntegraDIY Год назад +5

    When you mentioned the part about slowing down lol that hit home.. I always talk fast when talking to a woman and it does come off like I’m nervous af 🥹🥹🥹

    • @Tyler-gq7on
      @Tyler-gq7on Год назад

      Same here. It's a tough habit to get out of but if you're aware of it, calm down, and practice talking slowly and chill, it'll get so much easier. Also your facial expressions and body language. Don't get all wide eyed, don't be jittery, don't be closed off with crossed arms. And it sounds silly, but use a deep, masculine tone of voice. Just don't overdo it and make yourself sound fake haha.

    • @disandestiny3655
      @disandestiny3655 Год назад +1

      And u reach a point you dont remember her name at the end of the conv😅🤣😅🤣🙌🏽

  • @ahmedlamino5230
    @ahmedlamino5230 Год назад +8

    I swear god this video is intended for people like me, right now my mentality is different when it comes to approaching girls and I will keep this in mind which is I’m giving her the chance to be part of my life and when it comes to conversations I realized that girls who is interested in me will make the conversation flow go on and I don’t have to do anything

    • @ezedaniel1943
      @ezedaniel1943 Год назад

      Exactly

    • @oluwadamilolaayoade5312
      @oluwadamilolaayoade5312 Год назад

      The problem I have is the cold approach. Like I feel fairly comfortable approaching ladies in other settings !

  • @ilarionastreos6823
    @ilarionastreos6823 Год назад

    Spot on bro. Greetings from Cyprus.

  • @kingo6063
    @kingo6063 Год назад

    You the man bro

  • @itskingsavagebaby
    @itskingsavagebaby Год назад

    Thanks Fit🔥

  • @alijahcordova8359
    @alijahcordova8359 Год назад +2

    This is facts she should be lucky to be in your life take it or leave it it's that simple 💯 stop trying to prove yourself to a woman either she likes you or she doesn't

  • @zacharymitchell3986
    @zacharymitchell3986 Год назад +15

    Approach her with confidence and don’t be scared of rejection, don’t talk fast and be yourself, don’t use pick up lines cause it’s so High School😂 be a man and show her you’re interested, if a woman is showing she’s not interested then don’t waste your time and energy trying to make her, don’t be scared to ask her out and let her know you want to have fun with her and hang out

    • @YuhhFeelMe
      @YuhhFeelMe Год назад +1

      I dont approach

    • @zacharymitchell3986
      @zacharymitchell3986 Год назад

      @@YuhhFeelMe I do when they send a sign

    • @YuhhFeelMe
      @YuhhFeelMe Год назад +1

      @@zacharymitchell3986 its only ugly women who give me signs so i ignore em

    • @zacharymitchell3986
      @zacharymitchell3986 Год назад

      @@YuhhFeelMe 😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀

  • @brianvuyof8558
    @brianvuyof8558 Год назад +3

    4:19 legend 💯

  • @user-rx1jz5st2c
    @user-rx1jz5st2c Год назад

    Yes, number 1 is huge.

  • @OLUROPOJADU
    @OLUROPOJADU Год назад

    Nice ones!

  • @Anthony-tz2wb
    @Anthony-tz2wb Год назад

    Great video

  • @dannypolska
    @dannypolska Год назад

    LOVE YOU 2 MAN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @GILLIONS500
    @GILLIONS500 Год назад

    thxs coach

  • @lenardosbornsjustice5948
    @lenardosbornsjustice5948 Год назад

    Most 🔥 intro

  • @JL-wc5bo
    @JL-wc5bo Год назад

    Hey bro thinking of dropping RUclips for rumble, I appreciate you posting your vids there too!

  • @samkelokhumalo9270
    @samkelokhumalo9270 Год назад +3

    First one here BOYZ🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @christianganim208
    @christianganim208 Год назад +33

    He's Right, Especially with Number 5. I Asked this girl out at the gym last week. The last few months I thought I was getting choosing signals From her so I sparked up a conversation. Things seemed to flow, and about the 4th time I spoke to her (Which was last week) I asked her, when are you free to get together for a drink? her response was, ummm yeh maybe, I'll let you know. I'm like ok see ya. (I was leaving the gym when I did it} I have seen her 3 times since and I act like she is invisable. Guys look at her and she loves the Attention. 99% of guys in that gym won't have the balls to do what I did, instead they will just stare at her. While I go about my business making gains. Bottom line is Guys, Asking woman out, cuts out all the bullshit. You miss 100 balls that you never take a swing at. Ask her out! you will be happy you did it. Regardless of the outcome.

    • @amircoolboy100
      @amircoolboy100 Год назад +2

      We proud of you, man

    • @robertzwier4516
      @robertzwier4516 Год назад +1

      Why are you assuming she wants to do drinks with you by asking when are you free to do drinks? You missed a step.

    • @christianganim208
      @christianganim208 Год назад +1

      @@robertzwier4516 You should Assume that every woman likes you, and that you will get a positive response when asking a woman out. Now of obviously that's not the case as not every woman will find you attractive and wants to go out with you, but if you come from a place of abundance, and get rejected, you can walk away with the mind set of, fuck it, that's her loss. What an opportunity she had to go out with a great guy. You can take the rejection and walk away like a man knowing what you did 95% of guys can't do.

    • @robertzwier4516
      @robertzwier4516 Год назад +2

      @@christianganim208 No, I mean its bad to assume. Cause she thinks "I didnt even agree to go for drinks". Better to say, "we should go out for drinks soon". And after that you give some date options.

    • @christianganim208
      @christianganim208 Год назад +3

      @@robertzwier4516 I understand what you are saying, but at the end of the day, however you say it, if a woman is into you she is going to go out with you regardless. It's as simple as that. Remember Attraction isn't a choice. She will either say Yes and anything else other than a definitive Yes means No.

  • @sedamete2071
    @sedamete2071 Год назад +1

    could you please make a video about how to introduce myself and ask girls right questions ? thanks bro

  • @malone4735
    @malone4735 Год назад +2

    Let’s Go💯💪

  • @daniells71
    @daniells71 Год назад +2

    When women act like they are not interested but string me along, I start asking dumb questions. Basically just stoop down to her level lol.

  • @mchammer3180
    @mchammer3180 Год назад +6

    works if your handsome and she sees you as very high value and very interested. women even average ones have so many options they dont even have to try at all

    • @25-8
      @25-8 Год назад

      This right here

    • @Ben256MB
      @Ben256MB Год назад

      Hell no! It depends on the woman you're talking to because some women think you're handsome and some also don't .

  • @carlosmourra6599
    @carlosmourra6599 Год назад

    #3 is a gun without bullets; creat some original lines according to the situation and environment that You usually approach; prepared lines that result in a pleasant conversation that appeals to emotions and imagination example: I noticed that..... What if You ....were, , would, see, could be, could have, etc etc proactivity is key. Good luck to all

  • @Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass
    @Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass Год назад +4

    Usually if you let them choose you can cover all the basics.

  • @erosgodoflove6159
    @erosgodoflove6159 Год назад +2

    You’re Nigerian ??, I didn’t even know that , no wonder I like your content 😂👀

  • @wokubiranume383
    @wokubiranume383 Год назад

    I didn't know .... That I was mess'n up all the time

  • @ThUnfilteredGamer_
    @ThUnfilteredGamer_ Год назад +8

    Being honest and not caring about her reaction. Basically do the exact opposite of what she post on social media

  • @xxfranknittyxx2270
    @xxfranknittyxx2270 Год назад +2

    When a female doesn't ask questions back she not interested

  • @robert61982619
    @robert61982619 Год назад

    Hey fit your content is great but please turn the music down and turn your voice up I have my phone all the way up and I'm struggling to hear what you're saying maybe it's just my phone and maybe I'm tripping but maybe other people have this problem too

  • @DougieYT
    @DougieYT Год назад +9

    People make going up to a female seem like the hardest thing ever, it really isn’t, all you have to do is be cool and be ready for any outcome, if defeat/rejection happens, okay cool, onto the next, it’s simple.

    • @kennylafortune63
      @kennylafortune63 Год назад +1

      If it was “that easy” you wouldn’t be watching red pill content

    • @DougieYT
      @DougieYT Год назад +5

      @@kennylafortune63 Just because I watch it doesn’t mean it applies to me Bud😂, I’ve learned most of these things ages ago.

    • @25-8
      @25-8 Год назад

      @@DougieYT somehow I really doubt it that's not knocking u too

    • @DougieYT
      @DougieYT Год назад +2

      @@25-8 Ima sum it up in the most honest way I can, are there flaws I could work on? Hell yea there are, but the topic in this video isn’t one of them.

    • @YuhhFeelMe
      @YuhhFeelMe Год назад +2

      Its not easy for alotta men, i dont approach so its not an issue for me

  • @vishnuramesh350
    @vishnuramesh350 11 месяцев назад +1

    The video definitely has a lot to convey. But Fit, the way you mimic both the Alphas and the betas 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @bjspinks5735
    @bjspinks5735 11 месяцев назад

    💯💯

  • @tomgoddy4467
    @tomgoddy4467 Год назад

    "I don't want your number...are we going on a date or not?" Lol #barz

    • @azadpeyma853438
      @azadpeyma853438 11 месяцев назад

      You should not ask her number first, because you haven’t said your intentions. After you have said your intentions like I think you are pretty and we should hang out sometimes. Then wait for her answer if the answer is positive then you go for the number. Okey then let me dial your number I will come back to you about the location and time. Done!

  • @seanmcc3292
    @seanmcc3292 Год назад +1

    Yow fitx wad up?

  • @seanmcc3292
    @seanmcc3292 Год назад +1

    Wanna link you up bro, am from Spanish town Jamaica 🇯🇲 coming to the states soon. I just have to link up with you bro

  • @KEVOSHIZO
    @KEVOSHIZO Год назад

    Every time I meet women I have this problem of forgetting their names after a while!

  • @IloveJimiHendrix2009
    @IloveJimiHendrix2009 11 месяцев назад

    I asked a 10 out a few weeks ago and she didn't say yes or no, it was more like a maybe later. That told me she wasn't sure of my value. So now how I react after that will determine the outcome. So far I've handled everything right but I just have to fine tune my game and iron out any weakness I find. When I was age 15-20 I did all this naturally with nobody telling me, then I fell in love and got destroyed. I had it all and fucked it up. I had a submissive 10 and my dumbass cheats on her and gets caught. This chick is gonna make me level up to get her but I after I level up she won't qualify because she has kids. If I gotta bring my A game I want a 20 year old with no kids. So now she can't get me at my new level.

  • @fonzworthbentley7455
    @fonzworthbentley7455 Год назад

    "WhAt dO yOou BriNG tO tHe TaBLe?!??"

  • @themaliciousfox6029
    @themaliciousfox6029 Год назад

    maan fitx so buffed he should start a working out Chanel

  • @maggdrumkiid369
    @maggdrumkiid369 Год назад

    What if we in the same school? Asking as a 17 year old.

  • @chinaydersonvixamar2314
    @chinaydersonvixamar2314 Год назад

    🔥

  • @watchmanejike6622
    @watchmanejike6622 Год назад

    Wow... Fitx is a nigerian 😱

  • @omarquirarte9035
    @omarquirarte9035 Год назад

    Where you get them tank tops man?

  • @raulcano4267
    @raulcano4267 Год назад

    It seem like that date is kinda boring 😹

  • @itzlouiebae8416
    @itzlouiebae8416 Год назад

    🔥🤲🏽

  • @TheRealSeeJ
    @TheRealSeeJ Год назад +2

    Makes me no never mind.

  • @irongrip8691
    @irongrip8691 Год назад

    Bro, please, make background music volume lower

  • @terrymiles8823
    @terrymiles8823 Год назад +1

    Volume mic is low

  • @ezedaniel1943
    @ezedaniel1943 Год назад

    Fitxfearless, are you Igbo or Edo?

  • @shaieresmirnoff
    @shaieresmirnoff Год назад

    Do you hear the words that’s coming out my mouth!

  • @wilsonpilot7022
    @wilsonpilot7022 Год назад

    Yo

  • @ejemchigozie6336
    @ejemchigozie6336 Год назад

    So you are Nigerian? 🇳🇬

  • @thehero5570
    @thehero5570 Год назад

    👍👍⭐🔥

  • @Kingjul
    @Kingjul Год назад

    where the lives at fit???

  • @dynamic9016
    @dynamic9016 Год назад

    What does it mean when a girl telling you that you too like to play when you're making sexual advancement on her..Sametime she keep smiling when u making your advances too.

  • @BLACK7MA
    @BLACK7MA Год назад

    King most good looking females are like children you have to treat them accordingly.

  • @BloodyMeridianM8
    @BloodyMeridianM8 Год назад

    Your making the simps into likewise g’s tbh

  • @Empirebusinessinsights
    @Empirebusinessinsights Год назад

    First

  • @dynamic9016
    @dynamic9016 Год назад +1

    If a girl you're showing sexual interest in tells you that you need to get a vehicle, what is she saying really

  • @user-zx1mi6qk6v
    @user-zx1mi6qk6v Год назад

    🇯🇲

  • @skei6370
    @skei6370 Год назад

    11:15 ayo calm down with all that bunda bruvva

  • @drleo6409
    @drleo6409 Год назад

    The appearance is only part of it. she may be the most difficult person to be around.. If you BOTH like each other good. If not That's good too. Your freee to move on.

  • @smartanswer3159
    @smartanswer3159 Год назад

    Interreaction social communication is dying women are not interested
    Your not living in the real world
    You can have it all rejected .you can dress nice and be rejected .
    Trying to enter a sophisticated bar or restaurant rejected they won’t let you win because they say it’s over the capacity

  • @rpsportsfitness17
    @rpsportsfitness17 Год назад +1

    Never go up to a girl in a string muscle top shirt

  • @antwandarellefenton
    @antwandarellefenton Год назад

    🇬🇧 🇬🇧

  • @jameshoward6064
    @jameshoward6064 Год назад +2

    When I approach women I dont use pick up lines they dont work. When talking to a woman I will ask for her name but not volunteer mine if she doesn't ask your name that's the first red flag that she's not interested

  • @shanethomas6368
    @shanethomas6368 Год назад

    Doggs ...if you want to see her again, the intent is business or smashing... or both ... Not bowling.
    That's a front. But I understand the "chess" in that statement here.

    • @thenewjord50
      @thenewjord50 Год назад

      Even if you tell her that you want to smash she Me Too you regardless if you look nice and attractive

    • @shanethomas6368
      @shanethomas6368 Год назад

      @@thenewjord50 speak for thyself. I don't experience that.

  • @kendrick_eyan_otega1159
    @kendrick_eyan_otega1159 Год назад

    How soon should I text a girl after getting her number

  • @smartanswer3159
    @smartanswer3159 Год назад

    Even getting numbers is difficult what are you talking about

  • @freeduolingo2730
    @freeduolingo2730 Год назад +1

    This self improvement shit isn’t working for me. Is it because I’m a quiet dude?

    • @mario125ww
      @mario125ww Год назад +1

      Which parts?

    • @russkemble1271
      @russkemble1271 Год назад +11

      If you’re doing self improvement just to seek for validation Then it’s all wrong Do it for you and then all falls into place

    • @Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass
      @Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass Год назад +12

      Nah it's because you doing it for the sole purpose of attracting women. Even though it is good motivation and a nice benefit of the process, there's a reason it's called "self" improvement. You gotta recognize your own greatness even if nobody else do.

    • @NOYBZ
      @NOYBZ Год назад

      You're not doing it for you

    • @freeduolingo2730
      @freeduolingo2730 Год назад +1

      @@mario125ww well I’ve been looksmaxxing keeping good hygiene, getting haircuts and trying not to be desperate or needy. But I think the problem is that I’m a quiet dude who doesn’t talk a lot. Do you have to be social???

  • @isaiahlarsen4979
    @isaiahlarsen4979 9 месяцев назад

    Bro should actually show him getting a girl on camera

  • @thankgodchidubem1298
    @thankgodchidubem1298 Год назад +1

    Are you really from Nigeria 🤣?

  • @YuhhFeelMe
    @YuhhFeelMe Год назад +1

    I dont approach cause its a waste of time nor do i care to approach. Now if she think you ugly then you gon be seen as a creep