1. Let go of initiating-stop 2. Become Scarce 3. Make him invest 4. Treat yourself as if your the most important person in the world 5. Settling is not an option Be willing to WALK AWAY & Mean IT
I always think myself as a queen with an invisible crown! 👑 When I meet a guy, no matter how interested, If he doesn’t perform right , move on, next . A queen pick and never chase or beg anyone come to a queen’s world ! 👑
"Think of yourself as a fine-dining restaurant - Your time is precious and valuable, and if he wants some of it, he must reserve it in advance. Don't be a drive-thru where he can quickly get cheap and fast food. You're not a convenience, you are the prize that he has to earn the privilege of being with". Going to borrow this!
Hi Maria, Thank you for watching and commenting on the video. I'm glad that you found the content helpful and inspiring. I love the analogy of a fine-dining restaurant as away to think about valuing your time and setting boundaries. It's important to remember that you are the prize and should be treated as such. By setting standards for how you want to be treated, you can attract a partner who respects and appreciates you for who you are. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and I hope you continue to find value in the content. antonio
It’s hard to imagine myself as a 5 star restaurant. I do feel like one inside HOWEVER- there’s not enough quality customers so of course women get and feel desperate! We biologically feel rushed to make families and fall in love but quality men are superrrr fff scarce! So when you meet one uhhh OF COURSE you lose your mind :(
Hello @victoriadaoana7114, Thank you for watching and commenting on our video! We're glad to hear that you found the content to be what you need and that it resonates with you. It's important to believe in yourself and recognize your own value, respect, and worth. By putting yourself on a pedestal and valuing yourself, you set the foundation for others to treat you with the respect you deserve. We hope that our video has helped reinforce this message for you and that you continue to hold yourself in high regard. Thank you again for your support, and we look forward to continuing to be a resource for you. ☺ antonio
Hello Antonio, I just wanted to thank you for what you do....I had to learn that if i just relax and be myself, My man would come! When we "look" we don't get the right one. When we work on ourselves great things happen! I have learned so much watching you and wanted you to know, that because i waited and worked on myself first.....My husband came! We have been married 9 months now.....He makes me his priority, treats me as his partner, will do anything for me, and plans our future. I am so happy and thank you so much for what you do.....I have listened and learned, Which has made me have more value......I love your channel and all your tips. Your subbie Jazz 🥰🥰
Dr. B you’ve said all these things several times before- but this delivery was different and really hit the self care / what’s wrong with him/ make him do the work button!
Hi @aeb8799, Thank you for taking the time to watch my video and leaving a comment. I'm thrilled to hear that my message on self care and the importance of taking responsibility for your own happiness resonated with you in this particular delivery. Repetition is often necessary in order to fully grasp a concept, and I'm glad that this time, it really hit the right note for you. I appreciate your feedback and support, and I hope that my words continue to inspire and motivate you on your journey. Thank you again for watching and commenting! antonio
Have you had the experience of going from an option to a priority in someone's life? If so, how did you do it? Or, are you dealing with this situation now. Please comment and let's start a discussion.
I don't know but He does text me first in the morning , when I am going to work and when he is going sleep. We work opposite schedules. He works days and I work evenings. The only time we see each other is the weekends. Since we live together my boyfriend doesn't text me as much like he used to but when he does it's usually when feels like he wants intimacy.
Hello @justabebe6973, Thank you for watching and leaving a comment on the video. I'm glad to hear that you found it to be the best video you've seen on the topic of becoming a priority in someone's life. I aim to provide valuable and actionable advice in all my videos, so it's great to know that it has made an impact on you. If there's anything else you'd like to know or would like to see more of in future videos, please don't hesitate to let me know. Thank you again for your support! antonio
Hi Gloria, Thank you for watching and commenting on the video. I appreciate your agreement with the main point. It's important to consider what may be the underlying issues with someone if there are red flags in the relationship. This can help us make informed decisions and avoid being in unhealthy or unsatisfying situations. I'm glad that you found the content relevant and agree with the message. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and for being a part of this conversation. . antonio
Hi @quinoleshamichelle7669, It's always great to hear that our efforts are making a positive impact and helping people. We're grateful for your support and for taking the time to share your thoughts. Thank you for watching and commenting, and we hope that you'll continue to find value in the content we provide. If there's anything else we can help with, don't hesitate to reach out. Thank you again! antonio
Dear Dr Antonio Yesterday morning I received Valentine’s message as “ happy Valentine’s Day to you and your bike “ from my boyfriend. Hours later I asked my boyfriend if he feels like giving me kisses and hugs on Valentines Day after I finished work. He didn’t reply till next evening with “ hi, how are you? I forgot to check my messages “ I was not excited to know that my intelligence is underestimated. In your episode “ why a man ignore you?” In this situation, does “ he’s with someone on Valentines night “ and tried to force me out or phase out without saying a word? What’s the high value response be?? Thanks!
my bf and i don't go on dates no more for years, he only calls if he needs me to do anything, and when i'm the one to ask lets date, i'm the one to pick a place and pay, and all the time, he says no to every place i pick. i have no hobbies because he thinks its a waste of time, and when i told him i want to have a separate apt the live he destroys that idea.
Hi @terryomega, thank you for watching the video and for sharing your situation. It sounds like you're in a difficult situation with your boyfriend, and it's not okay for someone to treat you like that. Relationships should be built on mutual respect, love, and support, not one-sidedness and control. It's important to have your own interests and hobbies outside of the relationship, and it's not a waste of time to invest in yourself. It's also not okay for your boyfriend to dismiss your wants and desires, such as wanting to have a separate apartment. It may be worth having a conversation with him about how you're feeling and setting boundaries for how you want to be treated in the relationship. If that doesn't work, it may be time to reassess the relationship and consider seeking support from friends, family, or a professional counselor. Thank you again for sharing and I wish you the best. antonio
@@AntonioBorrello i have no friends. the only family i have left is my brother, but he's can't even help himself. i'm also supporting my brother. and i can't even get help because of my insurance don't pay for a good therapist. so i just take meds and gave up.
Dr. Antonio, what if he has an unconventional work schedule? The guy that I'm talking to works as an assistant director on several TV shows, so if they're wrapping up a taping early that day he may hit me up midday to ask if I'm available for dinner that night. Is that okay?, I try to be understanding of his schedule because it's all over the place but he always reaches out when he has down time.
Hello @DWPersianExcursion, Thank you so much for watching my video and leaving such a kind comment. Your love and blessings mean a lot to me, and I'm grateful for your support. I hope that the content of the video was helpful and informative, and that it inspired you in some way. If there's anything else you'd like to know or any future topics you'd like to see covered, please don't hesitate to let me know. Thank you again for your support, and for spreading love and positivity! antonio
Thank you for watching my video and leaving a comment. I understand that it can be challenging to prioritize self care and make it a priority in our lives, especially when we're younger. However, it's never too late to start making positive changes and taking care of yourself. I hope that the information and insights shared in the video can serve as a helpful resource for you going forward. I appreciate your support and I'm glad that you took the time to watch. Thank you again! antonio
Idk it's too much energy to invest into. Call me sexist and traditional but we women should supposedly sit back and let the man do the work. This constant push and pull is getting tiring already. If he can't see my worth, I'd rather walk away.
Hello @preciouspayne7596, Thank you for sharing your experience and for watching our video! It takes a lot of strength and courage to leave a toxic relationship and we're proud of you for taking that step. It's important to surround yourself with people who support and respect you, and it sounds like your new boyfriend is a positive influence in your life. I/m glad the video has encouraged you to believe in yourself and your worth. Remember to always prioritize your own happiness and well-being, and never let anyone else dictate who you can or cannot talk to. Keep being strong and confident, and i wish you all the best in your new relationship. Thank you again for your support and for sharing your story. antonio
@Antonio Borrello aww thank you and I appreciate that by the way I love ur videos and I will never let anyone bring me down and I can talk to people that I want and does takes alot of strength ur right and I'm proud of myself for staying strong I'm so thankful for my new relationship 💖 I don't want anyone to destroy my sparkle ✨️
Divorce is never the way out, My husband and I was having serous issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, I can never just let my marriage of 23years just end that way📩🔯☺
I couldn’t just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring him back her name is Eliana Zaituna Hernandez, just go online and search his name and you will find her.
I couldn’t just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring him back her name is Eliana Zaituna Hernandez, just go online and search his name and you will find her.
DING DING DING. I was struggling before you videos. Now both of my crushes have no reply and missed calls. (One of them says he has a little degree in psychology) I’ll hit him up in a week😂. Show that butt
1. Let go of initiating-stop
2. Become Scarce
3. Make him invest
4. Treat yourself as if your the most important person in the world
5. Settling is not an option
Be willing to WALK AWAY & Mean IT
@rechardthomas2515 Hey Richard- everything is great- I’m blessed… thank God, how are you?
Hi @user-iu6bv8vu8o,
Thank you for watching our video and sharing your thoughts in the comment. I appreciate the summary you provided. antonio
To the one reading this " you deserve better❤"
I always think myself as a queen with an invisible crown! 👑 When I meet a guy, no matter how interested, If he doesn’t perform right , move on, next . A queen pick and never chase or beg anyone come to a queen’s world ! 👑
"Think of yourself as a fine-dining restaurant - Your time is precious and valuable, and if he wants some of it, he must reserve it in advance. Don't be a drive-thru where he can quickly get cheap and fast food. You're not a convenience, you are the prize that he has to earn the privilege of being with". Going to borrow this!
Hi Maria,
Thank you for watching and commenting on the video. I'm glad that you found the content helpful and inspiring. I love the analogy of a fine-dining restaurant as away to think about valuing your time and setting boundaries. It's important to remember that you are the prize and should be treated as such. By setting standards for how you want to be treated, you can attract a partner who respects and appreciates you for who you are. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and I hope you continue to find value in the content. antonio
It’s hard to imagine myself as a 5 star restaurant. I do feel like one inside HOWEVER- there’s not enough quality customers so of course women get and feel desperate! We biologically feel rushed to make families and fall in love but quality men are superrrr fff scarce! So when you meet one uhhh OF COURSE you lose your mind :(
This is what I need.I will put myself in pedestal and I deserve respect ,value and worth.
Hello @victoriadaoana7114,
Thank you for watching and commenting on our video! We're glad to hear that you found the content to be what you need and that it resonates with you. It's important to believe in yourself and recognize your own value, respect, and worth. By putting yourself on a pedestal and valuing yourself, you set the foundation for others to treat you with the respect you deserve. We hope that our video has helped reinforce this message for you and that you continue to hold yourself in high regard. Thank you again for your support, and we look forward to continuing to be a resource for you. ☺ antonio
Hello Antonio, I just wanted to thank you for what you do....I had to learn that if i just relax and be myself, My man would come! When we "look" we don't get the right one. When we work on ourselves great things happen! I have learned so much watching you and wanted you to know, that because i waited and worked on myself first.....My husband came! We have been married 9 months now.....He makes me his priority, treats me as his partner, will do anything for me, and plans our future. I am so happy and thank you so much for what you do.....I have listened and learned, Which has made me have more value......I love your channel and all your tips. Your subbie Jazz 🥰🥰
Dr. B you’ve said all these things several times before- but this delivery was different and really hit the self care / what’s wrong with him/ make him do the work button!
Hi @aeb8799,
Thank you for taking the time to watch my video and leaving a comment. I'm thrilled to hear that my message on self care and the importance of taking responsibility for your own happiness resonated with you in this particular delivery. Repetition is often necessary in order to fully grasp a concept, and I'm glad that this time, it really hit the right note for you. I appreciate your feedback and support, and I hope that my words continue to inspire and motivate you on your journey. Thank you again for watching and commenting! antonio
He is not my priority either. I live my life and I enjoy his company when we are together. Living the moment. No future.
Have you had the experience of going from an option to a priority in someone's life? If so, how did you do it? Or, are you dealing with this situation now. Please comment and let's start a discussion.
And vice versa 💋💖
I don't know but He does text me first in the morning , when I am going to work and when he is going sleep. We work opposite schedules. He works days and I work evenings. The only time we see each other is the weekends. Since we live together my boyfriend doesn't text me as much like he used to but when he does it's usually when feels like he wants intimacy.
The problem is when I walk away, I never get back with that man.
It's complicated for me to trust someone again
This is the best video I've seen on how to be a priority. I love the explanations. thank you
Hello @justabebe6973,
Thank you for watching and leaving a comment on the video. I'm glad to hear that you found it to be the best video you've seen on the topic of becoming a priority in someone's life. I aim to provide valuable and actionable advice in all my videos, so it's great to know that it has made an impact on you. If there's anything else you'd like to know or would like to see more of in future videos, please don't hesitate to let me know. Thank you again for your support! antonio
The main point- What's wrong with him? Totally agree!
Hi Gloria,
Thank you for watching and commenting on the video. I appreciate your agreement with the main point. It's important to consider what may be the underlying issues with someone if there are red flags in the relationship. This can help us make informed decisions and avoid being in unhealthy or unsatisfying situations. I'm glad that you found the content relevant and agree with the message. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and for being a part of this conversation. . antonio
Thank you for your videos they have helped me so much! Please continue to making them
trust in God he will give you the best and me too 😊🎉
Doctor Antonio Am forever grateful for your Free services to us.
Blessings Always
Hi @quinoleshamichelle7669,
It's always great to hear that our efforts are making a positive impact and helping people. We're grateful for your support and for taking the time to share your thoughts. Thank you for watching and commenting, and we hope that you'll continue to find value in the content we provide. If there's anything else we can help with, don't hesitate to reach out. Thank you again! antonio
Dear Dr Antonio
Yesterday morning I received Valentine’s message as “ happy Valentine’s Day to you and your bike “ from my boyfriend.
Hours later I asked my boyfriend if he feels like giving me kisses and hugs on Valentines Day after I finished work. He didn’t reply till next evening with “ hi, how are you? I forgot to check my messages “
I was not excited to know that my intelligence is underestimated.
In your episode “ why a man ignore you?”
In this situation, does “ he’s with someone on Valentines night “ and tried to force me out or phase out without saying a word?
What’s the high value response be?? Thanks!
I love all you say ,,you are so helping me
If your in a relationship you should be a priority, if your not your considered an option. It's up to him to decide where about's on his list you are!
Thank you so much Antonio
Hey, Dr. Borello. How are you? Just message to say that hope you are well right now. God bless you. 😊
Exactly 💯
Ok does this apply for dating? How about it you are in a relationship with this person for years 😢
my bf and i don't go on dates no more for years, he only calls if he needs me to do anything, and when i'm the one to ask lets date, i'm the one to pick a place and pay, and all the time, he says no to every place i pick. i have no hobbies because he thinks its a waste of time, and when i told him i want to have a separate apt the live he destroys that idea.
Hi @terryomega,
thank you for watching the video and for sharing your situation. It sounds like you're in a difficult situation with your boyfriend, and it's not okay for someone to treat you like that. Relationships should be built on mutual respect, love, and support, not one-sidedness and control. It's important to have your own interests and hobbies outside of the relationship, and it's not a waste of time to invest in yourself. It's also not okay for your boyfriend to dismiss your wants and desires, such as wanting to have a separate apartment. It may be worth having a conversation with him about how you're feeling and setting boundaries for how you want to be treated in the relationship. If that doesn't work, it may be time to reassess the relationship and consider seeking support from friends, family, or a professional counselor. Thank you again for sharing and I wish you the best. antonio
@@AntonioBorrello i have no friends. the only family i have left is my brother, but he's can't even help himself. i'm also supporting my brother. and i can't even get help because of my insurance don't pay for a good therapist. so i just take meds and gave up.
Hello , how have you been with your situation, i finded very offensive that he treats you this way!
@@asmaamin5356 still taking meds. but i just shut myself off
Hoping all this ll help me one day.
Dr. Antonio, what if he has an unconventional work schedule? The guy that I'm talking to works as an assistant director on several TV shows, so if they're wrapping up a taping early that day he may hit me up midday to ask if I'm available for dinner that night. Is that okay?, I try to be understanding of his schedule because it's all over the place but he always reaches out when he has down time.
Love and blessings ❤️
Hello @DWPersianExcursion,
Thank you so much for watching my video and leaving such a kind comment. Your love and blessings mean a lot to me, and I'm grateful for your support. I hope that the content of the video was helpful and informative, and that it inspired you in some way. If there's anything else you'd like to know or any future topics you'd like to see covered, please don't hesitate to let me know. Thank you again for your support, and for spreading love and positivity! antonio
@@AntonioBorrello I appreciate you🙏💕I will discuss topics, whenever I feel like I'm confused!!
Pls are u ok? We didn’t hear from u for a very long time.. pls communicate 🙏🙏🙏
Great advice thank you....
You're welcome! I'm glad I could help. If there's anything else I can assist you with, please don't hesitate to ask. Have a great day! antonio
Im dealing with this situation now 😢
Hv learnt something from Dr antonio 😍
Im filipina and my husband is american his priority is online games than to spend time with me duruing his day off..we are ldr
I wish I took this seriously when I was younger.
Thank you for watching my video and leaving a comment. I understand that it can be challenging to prioritize self care and make it a priority in our lives, especially when we're younger. However, it's never too late to start making positive changes and taking care of yourself. I hope that the information and insights shared in the video can serve as a helpful resource for you going forward. I appreciate your support and I'm glad that you took the time to watch. Thank you again! antonio
Idk it's too much energy to invest into. Call me sexist and traditional but we women should supposedly sit back and let the man do the work. This constant push and pull is getting tiring already. If he can't see my worth, I'd rather walk away.
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♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️💯💯💯
I have a new boyfriend and I left my other toxic boyfriend he was telling me who I cannot talk to so I dump him I'm a strong woman
Hello @preciouspayne7596,
Thank you for sharing your experience and for watching our video! It takes a lot of strength and courage to leave a toxic relationship and we're proud of you for taking that step. It's important to surround yourself with people who support and respect you, and it sounds like your new boyfriend is a positive influence in your life. I/m glad the video has encouraged you to believe in yourself and your worth. Remember to always prioritize your own happiness and well-being, and never let anyone else dictate who you can or cannot talk to. Keep being strong and confident, and i wish you all the best in your new relationship. Thank you again for your support and for sharing your story. antonio
@Antonio Borrello aww thank you and I appreciate that by the way I love ur videos and I will never let anyone bring me down and I can talk to people that I want and does takes alot of strength ur right and I'm proud of myself for staying strong I'm so thankful for my new relationship 💖 I don't want anyone to destroy my sparkle ✨️
Divorce is never the way out, My husband and I was having serous issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, I can never just let my marriage of 23years just end that way📩🔯☺
Amazing I am kinda in a similar situation, how did you solve it
I couldn’t just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring him back her name is Eliana Zaituna Hernandez, just go online and search his name and you will find her.
Please where can I find her
I couldn’t just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring him back her name is Eliana Zaituna Hernandez, just go online and search his name and you will find her.
I just reached out thank you so much 😊
All of these "rules" are stressful.
Have you lost weight? you look so different.
Are u dropping weight Antonio
You lost weight?
Yes.. intermittent fasting. =). thanks for watching and commenting. antonio
DING DING DING. I was struggling before you videos. Now both of my crushes have no reply and missed calls. (One of them says he has a little degree in psychology) I’ll hit him up in a week😂. Show that butt
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